MY HEART CANT STOP CRYING FOR WHAT HE DID TO ME/THOUGHT HE WAS THE ONE

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  • MY HEART CANT STOP CRYING FPR WHAT HE DID TO ME/THOUGHT HE WAS THE ONE.In this video i will be sharing with you an online dating love story of a Zambian lady by the name of Judith who thought had found the one but what he did to her her heart cant stop crying.This love story will teach you a lot,you who is still searching for love because the things that this lady went through in her love jorney will surely make you learn,its true the story is sad but it is full of Afro cinemas and the end of the story will make you smile.You all know all love stories that i share on my channel whether it is a happily ever after story or sad story,we always shine our eyes to be wise while looking for love onine or even in real life.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 183

  • @nightlaurent5086
    @nightlaurent5086 3 місяці тому +68

    Hii everyone, whoever reading this may you find the love of your life without getting hurt ❤️

  • @enjohgrace3331
    @enjohgrace3331 3 місяці тому +21

    Money doesn't change people, money just brings out the True colour of people. That's what happens to Judith husband.

  • @elinafestus4929
    @elinafestus4929 3 місяці тому +10

    Bella i live with a man like that bt my parents come and pack my things now am happy with my son my dad cant tolerated her daughter go through like that

  • @Asia-ew9wx
    @Asia-ew9wx 3 місяці тому +9

    The most painful part of betrayal it never comes from strangers but from the people you love and trust so much 😢😢😢😢i felt so sad for Judith😮 shame on you policewoman.i cant wait for Judith's happy ending.thax bella❤❤❤

  • @dianacee6369
    @dianacee6369 3 місяці тому +5

    My story,now 8monts i have peace.after 14yrs of stupidity .Now looking forward for my dream.

  • @memorybanda9277
    @memorybanda9277 3 місяці тому +11

    Oh my goodness, my dear Bella i cried alot because Judith's story is exactly my story, for me i even went into depression,this mentality of keeping your marriage when you know things are not working is hurting alot of women out there, it took me more years to heal, i will be here waiting for part 2 of this story, thank you so much my dear Bella may the Almighty God bless you for sharing different stories in your channel that is helping alot of ladies to stay away from toxic relationships, love you always ❤❤❤

  • @cklaus3326
    @cklaus3326 3 місяці тому +3

    Listening to all this! Life is a circle, we reap what we sow! The man is so wicked, and will definitely pay for his actions.

  • @theresahowu583
    @theresahowu583 3 місяці тому +13

    😂😂😂😂😂this reminded me of a guy I met dating app few weeks ago and I asked him for video call and up to this day I haven't heard from him again 😂😂😂😂, trust me this men errr

    • @mfour3485
      @mfour3485 3 місяці тому +2

      Because it was a fake profile he is using someone else's photo

  • @FebineAwuor
    @FebineAwuor 3 місяці тому +4

    It's sad that most of the relationship that start from grass always dont end up well. Some people's real character show with money.

  • @carolinewanjiku1433
    @carolinewanjiku1433 3 місяці тому +6

    Can't wait for part 2. Thanks Bella for enlightening us, and thanks to all those who share their stories for us to learn from.

  • @vailetheanyambilile9749
    @vailetheanyambilile9749 3 місяці тому +5

    SIO MAMA YANGU HUYU NILIYENAYE HUYU WA KWANGU ANAKUJA KUKUCHUKUA MWENYEWE😢😢😢😢 dada kasota huyu daaah Sorry dear Judith

  • @JosephineInterchannel839
    @JosephineInterchannel839 3 місяці тому +4

    Lots of Afro cinemas Judith went through. I 😢 for this lady. Asking her how much she earns is where i don't like. I'm patiently waiting for part 2 of Malisa story. African Bella is the best.

  • @charlottequeen2079
    @charlottequeen2079 3 місяці тому +4

    I had promises myself not to crybut i can't hold my tears😢 I have learnt a lot from this story

  • @Lilian-pl1bi
    @Lilian-pl1bi 3 місяці тому +4

    Uweh! Judith has gone through a lot in the name of love may God comfort her and give her strength

  • @charlottequeen2079
    @charlottequeen2079 3 місяці тому +6

    The way I have been checking on you tube everyday 😅😅😮, let me first watch Bella, I will come back later

    • @MunaIbrahim-hq2de
      @MunaIbrahim-hq2de 3 місяці тому +1

      Imagine even me I was checking new updates everytime

  • @SharonandFamily
    @SharonandFamily 3 місяці тому +2

    Judith oh several lessons to learn from her story. Oh my goodness the guy Kalisah 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️redflags and lies written all over, scammer alert. True video call is very important. Thank God Judith didn't fall for his trying to scam her.

  • @CHEKSLEA
    @CHEKSLEA 3 місяці тому +2

    I feel sorry for Judith, so thoughtful of you to wait for her to heal first before sharing ❤

  • @malliahkoolzvitex3145
    @malliahkoolzvitex3145 3 місяці тому +4

    Finally, I can watch your videos again after being up and down for the past few weeks, miss you though love

    • @asymanjola5589
      @asymanjola5589 3 місяці тому

      😅just like me hoping part 2 coming soon .like 2 days from now😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂..even bella if she post everyday honestly l wont miss any of her content .l love this lady she realy a blessing to us black women searching for love .coz honestly when you are in love 😅😂red flags you wont see them lols .until something bad happends and you regret l was ignoring these red flags . With all the knowledge and tips are get from Bella here on her channel l will apply them on my online dating journey and one day ,l mean one day l shall be the one telling a sucess love story 😊❤❤❤❤.

  • @nnennaaroh6268
    @nnennaaroh6268 3 місяці тому +2

    So sorry for Judith. May God bring someone who will cherish n love u for who u are.

  • @VeraEkwa
    @VeraEkwa 3 місяці тому +2

    Omg this Judith’s ex husband was really a joy taker. Some men or women don’t care about the sacrifices you made for them that’s why whatever you do to your partner do it for love and for God as human beings will never acknowledge this after all. This man as soon as I heard I am a pilot I said ooo no sis runnnn 😂😂😂😂.

  • @joskyshams4758
    @joskyshams4758 3 місяці тому +43

    Lesson no.1 listen to your parents.
    Lesson no. 2 pregnancy doesn't keep marriage.
    Lesson no. 3 you can never change a man only God can.
    Lesson no. 4 you will always have those good friends.
    Lesson no.5 Money is the root cause of all evils.
    Lesson no. 6 never allow any kind of abuse whatsoever!

  • @niellaansah75
    @niellaansah75 3 місяці тому +2

    Thanks Sis. and so sorry to Judith, I am very sure that there is going to be happy at the end.

  • @user-lo9iz5ed6l
    @user-lo9iz5ed6l 3 місяці тому +2

    Wow😢 that was a sad start, but at least i tthank God there's a happy ending. Lots of love from your sis here. UG

  • @NampijjaAngel
    @NampijjaAngel 3 місяці тому +1

    Im here already gurl 😜🥰

  • @dayana5513story
    @dayana5513story 3 місяці тому +2

    I will not saying anything now 🤐waiting part 2,God bless you Bella ❤❤

  • @joskyshams4758
    @joskyshams4758 3 місяці тому +4

    I'm on my knees this story should end well. Judy shouldn't be living in hell while still on earth. It can't happen to my sister.

  • @asymanjola5589
    @asymanjola5589 3 місяці тому +1

    Omg l thought am gonna b the one first to comment yooh ...kkkkk anyways let m watch
    😅...

  • @user-eq7su2ce2j
    @user-eq7su2ce2j 3 місяці тому +2

    She is a strong wonan❤,may God bless her with happiness 😊

  • @harriet7303
    @harriet7303 2 місяці тому +1

    😃😄😃😄Naye banange Ono Kalisa Asesa😄Olemwa

  • @HelenSakala-nk8mu
    @HelenSakala-nk8mu 3 місяці тому +2

    Very touching story 😢😢 can't wait for part 2.love from Zambia 🇿🇲🇿🇲🇿🇲

  • @simplyJunah
    @simplyJunah 3 місяці тому +3

    First one In the comments... ❤❤

  • @JemimahMuthoni-ok4ib
    @JemimahMuthoni-ok4ib 3 місяці тому +2

    Hi everyone,Bella you had talked about this men from Albania,you said most of them are never serious

  • @cklaus3326
    @cklaus3326 3 місяці тому +2

    Touching story

  • @violetjimu6424
    @violetjimu6424 2 місяці тому +1

    Waiting for part 2 happy ending for Judith.
    This was done to me also l think a week now a scam trying to get money from me but blocked him afterall didn't want video calls so l was very suspicious.. Bella always told us if the guy doesn't want video calls its a red flag 😂😂

  • @titizoc9617
    @titizoc9617 3 місяці тому +2

    Think you Bella for sharing the good and the Bad.

  • @betsyakoko6810
    @betsyakoko6810 3 місяці тому +3

    Happy Sunday Bella looking good as usual

  • @user-ff5xb2fe9x
    @user-ff5xb2fe9x 3 місяці тому +2

    Judith was strong and wanted her marriage, if it was me i could have left before the second baby,just that africans we were raised in a way that divorce is not good keep your marriage.and to all the ladies who helped judith God bless them.this story is like a Nigerian movie😂

  • @carolinechebon4513
    @carolinechebon4513 3 місяці тому +2

    Sorry for judith😢 na hii pilot maskini sasa 😂😂😂 but she will get mr right we love her too as Bellas UA-cam family ❤

  • @JosephineInterchannel839
    @JosephineInterchannel839 3 місяці тому +2

    I 🏃‍♂️ fast to get here. My comment comes later after watching to the end.

  • @faithwafula2308
    @faithwafula2308 3 місяці тому +2

    Wow Bella Judith is really strong and l can't wait for part two

  • @shamimannabel3602
    @shamimannabel3602 3 місяці тому +2

    Our queen 👸 thanks 4 da story although da story was so emotional. Judith suffered a lot in da hands of men.

  • @joannabbangi2882
    @joannabbangi2882 3 місяці тому +1

    Hi Bella...here iam...first to comment today ❤

  • @annmungai4753
    @annmungai4753 3 місяці тому +1

    Cant wait for part 2😊😊😊

  • @MunaIbrahim-hq2de
    @MunaIbrahim-hq2de 3 місяці тому +2

    Guys let's us pray alot and always let's us not ignore the red flags and let's not be desperate guys u have to wake up from sleeping in the middle of the night just to pray please let's us take care of our goodies u won't regret vitu vzr hazitaki haraka may Allah protect every woman from the hands of weird men but to bring the truth men in their life God is good all the time be patient and pray alot please do not ignore belas advice it's really important ❤❤ lots of love I love you all❤😊

  • @VickyGist7477
    @VickyGist7477 3 місяці тому +1

    I am so sorry for what she went through, thanks for sharing dear African bella 🥰👍

  • @olivianangobi1746
    @olivianangobi1746 3 місяці тому +1

    Thanks so much dear sister Bella for sharing with us sister Judith's story.

  • @CelestineLihavi-rw8kp
    @CelestineLihavi-rw8kp 3 місяці тому +2

    Hey! dealing looking beautiful ❤️❤️ mungu akubariki,kwa Advice yako,tuna leaning something else, Thank you.

  • @RuthOdunga-nn9it
    @RuthOdunga-nn9it 3 місяці тому +1

    Hi our beautiful African Queen, our teacher forever 🎉

  • @marthakunda-nn9jc
    @marthakunda-nn9jc 3 місяці тому +1

    Bella you're the best ❤❤
    At least we get some from this story

  • @carolineayakaka9628
    @carolineayakaka9628 2 місяці тому +1

    I have met a real scammer in my life. Three days into the relationship, he began asking for money for rent. A few days later, he said he slept hungry for 4 days, drinking only water and having nothing to eat. Asked for rent top-up, some days he says he has no transport. He wants help remembering all these things that happened in the first months of the relationship. Most of these guys present vulnerability ahead and love behind, they tell you sweet words to woe you so that you can fall deeply and the milk you dry. May God protect us from evil men

    • @essohnalvine154
      @essohnalvine154 7 днів тому

      Amenn if he starts like that I just ghost you am I the man in the relationship

  • @LizzVicky-hw9up
    @LizzVicky-hw9up 2 місяці тому

    She is a strong woman. May God see her through 🙏

  • @elinafestus4929
    @elinafestus4929 3 місяці тому +2

    Mm ningekua nilimuacha kitambo this is sad i swear my parents they can't allowed this to happen to me

  • @phangasasa-hlulizinyanga
    @phangasasa-hlulizinyanga 3 місяці тому +1

    Good vlog❤

  • @user-mx9lz5rp5j
    @user-mx9lz5rp5j 3 місяці тому +1

    Thanks for the show, you can't change someone unless that person really want to change,

  • @portiarapelamakgolane1020
    @portiarapelamakgolane1020 2 місяці тому

    I am truly sorry for what Judith went through and I respect the kind of courage she had. This was too extraordinary to handle. My husband cheated on me 6 months after our wedding and by then I was three months pregnant. I asked my self several questions and the answers were no. So after a year of the marriage, I filed for divorce. I was so sorry for my baby, but I thought my happiness matters and my son should be raised by a happy mother, that was my priority. I wanted to be happy and would not let anyone stand in my way of happiness. After two years, my divorce was officially granted and I felt my freedom has been restored finally. I have healed and I am willing to try again. My son is 12 yrs this month and we are happy together 😅😅😅

  • @wangarikibunja1475
    @wangarikibunja1475 2 місяці тому +1

    my gal, i dont why we African ladies have to go through all this before we get a good soul mate. so sorry for Judith but ladies have to learn how to love themselves and also learn that a man who wants to marry you needs to be ready and if not needs to support himself not a woman to support him especially with money to grow. You dont get a job that you have not gained the skills to and tell the employer that you will learn with time same with marriage. I have seen so many relationships and mine too where women gave money to men because they saw potencial and they ended up regretting. Never also force yourself on a relationship, is you have to keep in checking your phone to wait for it to ring or for a text know that thats already a toxic relationship. A relationship should give you peace

  • @AddyMasy
    @AddyMasy 3 місяці тому +2

    I wish Judith had left her marriage earlier 😢. But its easier said than done. I cant wait for her happy ending

  • @joskyshams4758
    @joskyshams4758 3 місяці тому +2

    Talking about it is healing.

  • @jacklinenjambi4450
    @jacklinenjambi4450 3 місяці тому +2

    Hey Bella ope you are doing fine? looking beautiful as usual.God bless you and be with you always.

  • @tumubwineevelyne6318
    @tumubwineevelyne6318 3 місяці тому +1

    Waawo these days you look beautiful ❤️❤️.

  • @Sky-xs7bh
    @Sky-xs7bh 3 місяці тому +2

    Hey Bella❤❤❤

  • @faridahmaghanga2070
    @faridahmaghanga2070 3 місяці тому +1

    Waiting for part 2

  • @user-wm1pc8zt6g
    @user-wm1pc8zt6g 3 місяці тому +1

    Lemme wait for the second part of the story.

  • @user-kr4mp1qu8f
    @user-kr4mp1qu8f 2 місяці тому +1

    Woow Soo painful

  • @NabwireHarriet-du9pl
    @NabwireHarriet-du9pl 3 місяці тому +1

    So sad that man is evil he was not loving that lady he was just using her😢

  • @lionidakirochi9863
    @lionidakirochi9863 3 місяці тому +1

    OMG it's real atouching story 😢😢😢

  • @MunaIbrahim-hq2de
    @MunaIbrahim-hq2de 3 місяці тому +1

    And do not cry because he didn't not turned to be the one just move on and do not repeat the same mistake I promise you u won't regret 😢

  • @joskyshams4758
    @joskyshams4758 3 місяці тому +4

    Most wazungus who are on fb are pilots 😂😂😂

    • @asymanjola5589
      @asymanjola5589 3 місяці тому

      😂😂😂😂pilots ,bitcoin guys and soldiers 😅😅😂just block if they send a hi

  • @maggiemakapa2820
    @maggiemakapa2820 3 місяці тому +1

    Hi Bella😊

  • @kapasikabrenda
    @kapasikabrenda 3 місяці тому +1

    Hi Bella❤❤

  • @user-nv5cb3oe5n
    @user-nv5cb3oe5n 3 місяці тому +3

    These guys in my country they say olemwa like the one am chatting with mbu he doesn't want to know what am doing for a living 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @jaseminephat4953
      @jaseminephat4953 3 місяці тому

      Do the worst to him ask him to send you a pic on toilet with drinking pee if he loves u

    • @user-nv5cb3oe5n
      @user-nv5cb3oe5n 3 місяці тому

      @@jaseminephat4953 what 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺I didn't get you well that's a disrespect of a highest order he didn't say it In a bad way

    • @jaseminephat4953
      @jaseminephat4953 3 місяці тому

      @@user-nv5cb3oe5n thought he is asking you for money !!!!!!

    • @agie9328
      @agie9328 2 місяці тому +1

      Block him ASAP

  • @sheisjacinta_
    @sheisjacinta_ 3 місяці тому +1

    Hugs to her ❤

  • @elinafestus4929
    @elinafestus4929 3 місяці тому +3

    That man disappeared go and think what he can tell Judith 😂😂😂😂

  • @ricca204
    @ricca204 3 місяці тому +1

    Her life in that town was like a soap opera complete with informers 😂😂 she has gone through alot oh Judith may happiness and a healthy relationship be your potion from here henceforth

  • @Sarahbiragoo
    @Sarahbiragoo 3 місяці тому +1

    Good evening sis how are you look beautiful ❤❤

  • @miriaagunyo5381
    @miriaagunyo5381 3 місяці тому +2

    People are really wicked .

  • @PrincessroviehNambuusi
    @PrincessroviehNambuusi 3 місяці тому +4

    Sorry bambi Judith you are so patient 😭 me I can't wait all afro cinema but God will give you the right man

  • @inesaime4208
    @inesaime4208 3 місяці тому +1

    My bella🥰

  • @joskyshams4758
    @joskyshams4758 2 місяці тому

    I'm looking for the next video. Bella zoea kushare link ndio tusisumbuke kutafuta.

  • @user-hc8sv8mt1n
    @user-hc8sv8mt1n 3 місяці тому +2

    The scammer was doing back to back to back with how to get her money😂. First time they ask women should block.

  • @jennycool2766
    @jennycool2766 Місяць тому

    My advice for Africa ladies as you are searching don’t be so eager because eagerness can lead to all this that why I married my matured husband and he treat me like a queen

  • @katusiimepatience8403
    @katusiimepatience8403 3 місяці тому +1

    Hello bella❤

  • @nantongoshamim5722
    @nantongoshamim5722 3 місяці тому +1

    😢😢😢😢 wow

  • @NakalemaGertrude
    @NakalemaGertrude 3 місяці тому +1

    It's very dangerous to pursue rejection in a relationship, so if things aren't working out, you quit the relationship.

  • @joskyshams4758
    @joskyshams4758 3 місяці тому +3

    Love is stupid! I'm boiling let me go and take a cold shower 😅😅

  • @theresahowu583
    @theresahowu583 3 місяці тому +1

    Me I have my rice with stew am eating while 😂😂😂watching the story

  • @acenkellisprisca2994
    @acenkellisprisca2994 3 місяці тому +1

    I'm eagerly watching too

  • @Favour3558
    @Favour3558 2 місяці тому

    Hmmm.
    That is me , I thought if I give birth I will be loved ,
    Men don't stay bcz of what we do for them 😢

  • @nakawooyagrace792
    @nakawooyagrace792 3 місяці тому +1

    Can't wait for part two thanks Judith for sharing your story there is some ladies out there who are going through the same situation
    And thanks Bella as always for updating us we are always learn ❤️

  • @gracegifty6845
    @gracegifty6845 3 місяці тому +2

    😊

  • @beatricesoko2040
    @beatricesoko2040 3 місяці тому +1

  • @joskyshams4758
    @joskyshams4758 3 місяці тому +3

    Kwani Zambia doesn't have laws? It can't happen in Kenya to have two weddings.

    • @elinafestus4929
      @elinafestus4929 3 місяці тому +1

      True dear kenya hakutaki mchezo

    • @willyssimfukwe4459
      @willyssimfukwe4459 3 місяці тому +1

      We have very strict laws actually when it comes to marriage. If you understood the story well you will realise that Judith's first marriage wasn't legal , they simply cohabited. Thats what gave the man power to marry legally.

    • @cklaus3326
      @cklaus3326 3 місяці тому +1

      The laws are actually very strict regarding marriage, only one marriage can be registered under statutory law, like someone has written.under the comments. Anything else would be Bigamy.

  • @user-ff5xb2fe9x
    @user-ff5xb2fe9x 3 місяці тому +1

    That pilot guy was not even a pilot at all😂 shame on him

  • @joskyshams4758
    @joskyshams4758 3 місяці тому +1

    I don't know where Judy got the guts !😢😢😢

  • @bernadettarngina3442
    @bernadettarngina3442 3 місяці тому +1

    ❤❤ hello Bella i been in many App but now im not able to get one but you have a link justo update me plz Happy to meet UA-cam

  • @halimahassan3031
    @halimahassan3031 3 місяці тому +1

    Eager to know what happened after all those which will make us smiling 😂

  • @julietkarongwe5173
    @julietkarongwe5173 3 місяці тому +1

    Shame poor Judith .

  • @alicenafula7789
    @alicenafula7789 3 місяці тому +1

    Hello family hope you all doing well 💗❤

  • @marylynboakye
    @marylynboakye 2 місяці тому

    I really want to share my story with you Bella….where can I send it?

  • @lizzybabie9470
    @lizzybabie9470 15 днів тому

    I feel sorry for her😒