OUR GAY WEDDING - A British countryside LGBT wedding | Tobyshome

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  • Опубліковано 6 лип 2022
  • Here's the highlights from our English countryside wedding 6 months ago. I didn't see much inspiration for gay marriage in the UK when planning our wedding, and so thought this might be helpful for anyone in the process of planning their wedding.
    I was nervous about sharing this, as of course it's quite personal and emotional with our speeches and vows, but I really hope you enjoy watching it!
    This video was created by our wedding videographer - auroravideo.co.uk
    For more information about our wedding, have a read of our recent interview with SheerLuxe, here - sheerluxe.com/life/weddings/m...

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  • @stefan0ni
    @stefan0ni Рік тому +7

    Your wedding day looked terrific, Toby & Mikey. Well done. I hope you enjoy many happy, joyous years together. 😀

  • @amyelizabethphoto
    @amyelizabethphoto 2 роки тому +29

    I'm not crying, you're crying 🥺 this was so beautiful!!! ❤️

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  2 роки тому +2

      Ahh Amy, you're so kind and lovely. Thank you so so much for saying so!

  • @Magic_in_York
    @Magic_in_York 2 роки тому +14

    Oh Toby and Mikey, your wedding looked absolutely gorgeous, as did you both. Thank you for sharing. May you both be as happy always as you were on that day.

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  2 роки тому +1

      Oh that’s so kind of you to say. Thank you so much for the love and support ❤️

  • @PaulKabera
    @PaulKabera Рік тому +8

    Hi Mikey & Toby. Thank you for making the brave decision to share your wedding video with the world. Yes, perhaps someone will pick up some pointers about how to plan a wedding in the English countryside. But more importantly, perhaps someone will find inspiration to love another human being in a more profound, more authentic way. Best wishes as you move forward with your life together! ❤🧡💛💚💙💜

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  Рік тому +1

      That means so much Paul - thank you so much for your incredibly kind and thoughtful words. It means a lot! Best wishes to you, too! x

  • @Stefan-dd5wo
    @Stefan-dd5wo 10 місяців тому +2

    Greetings from Ireland. Congratulations boys. 🎉🎉❤ You both clearly had a wonderful day. My husband and I have been a couple almost 25 years and the ability to marry (in more recent years) has meant all the world to us both. Enjoy your life together. Stefan x

  • @Evgen_inart_OjO
    @Evgen_inart_OjO 3 місяці тому +1

    I went through a breakup, and it's so nice to see that happiness still triumphs in this world and it gives me the strength to believe in the future!

  • @sallyhurst4273
    @sallyhurst4273 Рік тому +6

    Just beautiful. I wish you both endless years of happiness. My son and his partner are in the process of planning their wedding, If it is half as wonderfu as your day looked,filled with such love and happiness then this mum will be so happy! Best wishes sent to both of you x

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  Рік тому +2

      Ah Sally - that's so kind of you! Thank you so much! I'm sure it'll be spectacular, and you'll all have an incredible day celebrating their relationship!

  • @paulacoombs8817
    @paulacoombs8817 2 роки тому +7

    Blubbering into my bubbly 😭.. Such a beautiful video ❤️.. Mikeys speech tho ❤️

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  2 роки тому

      Sounds like the perfect place to blubber hahah! I know! Soooo good! xx

  • @bobfritz8705
    @bobfritz8705 Місяць тому

    Dear Mikey and Toby, thank you for sharing your lovely wedding with both friends/families, but also with the rest of the world. Your wedding was a beautiful gift of the shared love you have for each other. While watching it, I couldn't help but smile to see to men make their commitment to one another not only for the current day, but also when you're both old and grey. But it also took me back to the day when my now husband and I crossed the threshold of our first home 40 years ago, July 1st, 1984. I hope you two have a long, happy, and beautiful marriage. Greetings from the USA. 👨‍❤‍👨❤🧡💛💚💙💜

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  Місяць тому +1

      thank you so much, so glad you enjoyed it xx

  • @georgecardinale8955
    @georgecardinale8955 2 роки тому +7

    This is such a special video, sharing such an intimate part of your life is not easy, but I promise it will inspire and reassure so many people that you can find true happiness with the person you love no matter what anyone else thinks! Also wedding goals right there!😍 x

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  2 роки тому +1

      Ah George, thank you. That really means a lot to me. I've definitely struggled in sharing in the past, but feeling so much happier and able to right now! Thank you xx

  • @TheMerryC123
    @TheMerryC123 2 роки тому +6

    Lovely piece. So glad you found each other. Wishing you lots of happiness and laughter! ❤

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  2 роки тому

      Ah Mary - you’re so sweet. Thank you so much. ❤️

  • @madoak5597
    @madoak5597 Рік тому +3

    So moving. A year on - wishing you a very happy and relaxing honeymoon. All best wishes for a lifetime of happiness. x

  • @lucasweber232
    @lucasweber232 Рік тому +7

    wow, you two are great idols for me and for many others too. You two radiate this wonderful harmony and love! congratulations on finding each other! ❤️🍸🍀

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  Рік тому +1

      Wow! Thanks so much for saying so! Best of luck 🤞 and thanks for being here x

    • @craigmoir8655
      @craigmoir8655 Рік тому

      Couldn't agree more

  • @natalie3827
    @natalie3827 Рік тому +3

    What a beautiful and magical wedding you obviously had. You two were made for each other and I can’t tell you how happy I am for you both. This brought tears to my eyes 😢 May you both have years of happiness, love and good health together xxxx 🥰🥰🥰

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  Рік тому +2

      Thank you so much for watching Natalie - that means the absolute world to me! xxx

    • @natalie3827
      @natalie3827 Рік тому

      @@Tobyshome 🥰🥰🥰xxx

  • @adrianjimenez5827
    @adrianjimenez5827 7 місяців тому +1

    I'm struggling to type as I'm all teary eyed 😅🙈
    It all is just out of the most wonderful dream! What a beautiful wedding!
    I'm so happy you guys had such a lovely day full of people who love and care about you!
    Thanks for sharing such precious memories, it brings such joy into the world!
    May you have a beautiful, long, happy, healthy, bright life together! ❤

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  7 місяців тому +1

      Thank you so much 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼

  • @josephmillraney1061
    @josephmillraney1061 Рік тому +3

    I'm so thrilled for the two you. May you both have many, many years of blissful happiness!

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  Рік тому

      Thank you so much Joseph! Wishing you well too!

  • @weesandy1250
    @weesandy1250 Рік тому +1

    Absolutely beautiful and so very moving. Thank you for allowing us to share the wonderful memories of your beautiful day🥰

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  Рік тому

      Thank you so much for saying so! That really means a lot!

  • @sameenai07
    @sameenai07 2 роки тому +2

    Oh this is just so beautiful! Ziggy looked absolutely adorable with that bow 🥺

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  2 роки тому

      hehe - I was so adamant on him wearing one, despite others reservations lol x

  • @xavierlastra7124
    @xavierlastra7124 8 місяців тому +1

    Wherever you are I WISH YOU ALL THE BEST.

  • @BlackStarASMR
    @BlackStarASMR 2 роки тому +40

    Congratulations. I am so glad that at least you found happiness in your life. I wish I had so much luck in my life, but after my parents found out that I am gay, I had to escape from my homophobic parents home, my world is collapsing and I might become homeless soon, because I can’t afford the rent for my one room apartment any longer.

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  2 роки тому +16

      Thank you so much. And I’m so sorry to hear that you’ve gone through such difficulty and trauma. Of course, if you need someone to talk to, please feel free to reach out - and I’m happy to help find organizations able to offer you more support ❤️

    • @weesandy1250
      @weesandy1250 Рік тому +1

      So sorry to hear what you're going through. I'm thinking of you, wishing you all the love and support to follow your dreams to happiness. They say everything happens for a reason in life, although at the time its not always realised until later. This is possibly the time, your time to start being who you want to be. . It may also serve as a time of reflection and realisation to those who you've moved on from. . . Time for them to realise what/ who their priorities are. Whether that is inclusive to you or otherwise is something only they can control, however you, your life, your thoughts, loves and feelings are just that . . . They're yours and yours alone. . .and only you can make those decisions on who you take with you through your wonderful journey of life. Sending you lots of hugs and best wishes. . . Take your first steps on your beautiful journey, always talk, share and remember to always be kind to their struggles too. You got this. . . .this is yours . . Now live life the way you want to love xx

    • @DeborahMoffett
      @DeborahMoffett 9 місяців тому

      That's awful sweetheart please go talk to your parents 😞 without drinks 🍷🤗🤗

    • @gardenroom65
      @gardenroom65 5 місяців тому

      I’m crying ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @wawa2
    @wawa2 Рік тому +2

    Just wonderful, you both are such adorable young men, live happily together forever!

  • @hannahculley9719
    @hannahculley9719 2 роки тому +5

    Gorgeous couple & beautiful wedding ❤️

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  2 роки тому

      Aren't you the sweetest x

  • @jakejeffreys8948
    @jakejeffreys8948 2 роки тому +2

    Such a lovely video - Thank you for sharing your day with us!

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  2 роки тому

      Ah Jake - thanks so much for saying so! ❤️

  • @joanmillar306
    @joanmillar306 2 роки тому +3

    The most perfect day, filled with love ❤️

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  2 роки тому

      It was so magical ❤️ thank you xxx

  • @HerCountryHome
    @HerCountryHome 7 місяців тому

    You guys 😭 Mikey’s speech was so beautiful, such a wonderful couple 🤍✨

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  7 місяців тому

      Ahh thank you ♥️

  • @louisejhmurray2729
    @louisejhmurray2729 2 роки тому +4

    What a beautiful wedding. Thanks for sharing this. L x

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  2 роки тому

      You're so welcome Louise - and thank you for saying so!

  • @The_Black_Caps
    @The_Black_Caps 10 місяців тому +2

    U both look amazing together. Truly a match made in heaven lads ❤

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  10 місяців тому +1

      Thank you 🙌x

  • @smoothsilk47
    @smoothsilk47 Рік тому +1

    In my life I have seen the pendulum swing across to a much better place... "Love & Marriage" with the person you choose to be with, that is the only thing that matters... what a lovely couple who I wish great happiness! Lovely place Painswick I'm from Bath originally.

  • @user-ww2bc1np5g
    @user-ww2bc1np5g 3 місяці тому +1

    Glorious!!!

  • @bevmatwiejew6741
    @bevmatwiejew6741 2 роки тому +2

    Just loved it. Looked such a perfect, happy day x

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  2 роки тому

      Ah Bev, thank you - we had the best day ever!

  • @Truman101
    @Truman101 Рік тому +2

    Aw why am I cryinghhhh ❤❤❤❤ best wishes !

  • @Eduardo_scudder
    @Eduardo_scudder 2 роки тому +2

    Absolutely gorgeous couple , beautiful wedding .

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  Рік тому +1

      That's very kind of you! Thank you!

  • @ciarahealyodriscoll797
    @ciarahealyodriscoll797 2 роки тому +1

    Simply stunning, you could feel the love

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  2 роки тому

      Ah Ciara, thank you so much! That's so sweet of you to say! IT WAS A LOVELY DAY xx

  • @elliottreynolds1426
    @elliottreynolds1426 2 роки тому +2

    A beautiful video of memories that you’ll treasure always x

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  2 роки тому

      Thanks so much Elliott - we really will always remember what an incredible day it was!

  • @Floralie
    @Floralie 2 роки тому +2

    YOUVE RUINED MY MAKEUP. SAT HERE CRYING. This is absolutely beautiful🥺

  • @tomdeininger7379
    @tomdeininger7379 Рік тому +2

    Beautiful. Best of everything guys.

  • @user-hd4gq2ui7n
    @user-hd4gq2ui7n 27 днів тому

    So lovely!!! ❤

  • @seanjamescameron
    @seanjamescameron Рік тому +3

    Maybe one day I'll have the same. :-)

  • @comeregeway9072
    @comeregeway9072 Рік тому +6

    Congratulations ❤

  • @ryanstagg5573
    @ryanstagg5573 2 роки тому +2

    What a beautiful memory to have have 💚

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  2 роки тому

      Thank you so much Ryan ❤️

  • @annemariestewart8233
    @annemariestewart8233 Рік тому +4

    beautiful

  • @Robert-bg7bl
    @Robert-bg7bl Місяць тому

    2024 Sorry just catching up with your life. I think the two of you should be so proud of your life. Darn it! You made me cry

  • @clausstimpfig3803
    @clausstimpfig3803 Рік тому +1

    beautiful couple. all my very best

  • @DeborahMoffett
    @DeborahMoffett 9 місяців тому

    Lovely couple congratulations 🎉 we need to realise the world has changed and for the better never hide who you are good luck to you both ❣️🍾🍾

  • @craigmoir8655
    @craigmoir8655 Рік тому +2

    A joy to behold
    👌👍❤️

  • @courtyard1972
    @courtyard1972 3 місяці тому

    Simply beautiful. ❤❤

  • @fatimayaseen6075
    @fatimayaseen6075 Рік тому +1

    🙌🏼

  • @michaelperryman2199
    @michaelperryman2199 2 роки тому +4

    Best day ever ❤️

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  2 роки тому +1

      Wasn’t it dear!!

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  2 роки тому +1

      I didn’t mean wasn’t it expensive btw - I was petnaming you ‘dear’ 😂😂

  • @starlinkapolloradio
    @starlinkapolloradio 7 місяців тому

    very beautiful.

  • @jamesk8s1
    @jamesk8s1 Рік тому +1

    Wishing you a most joy filled happily ever after forever! 👨‍❤‍👨🙆🏻‍♀

  • @monalogue
    @monalogue 2 роки тому +3

    So beautiful ❤️😭❤️

  • @brendanagnew9472
    @brendanagnew9472 6 місяців тому

    Magnificent

  • @PurpleUSA
    @PurpleUSA Рік тому +3

    Congratulations 💜🌈💜

  • @Gilbert-Blaymires
    @Gilbert-Blaymires 6 місяців тому

    ❤❤

  • @jokesdaily6051
    @jokesdaily6051 2 роки тому +2

    Congratulations 👏🏻

  • @kimhallfeb
    @kimhallfeb Рік тому +2

    Just beautiful 😍 😊

  • @ronsmith2241
    @ronsmith2241 2 місяці тому

    Congratulations. I wish you every happiness together. Greetings from Australia.

  • @Borahratulvlog4167
    @Borahratulvlog4167 Рік тому +3

    OMG 🌈❤️ congratulations love from Assam 🤗 Bodoland ❤️🌈 #lgbtq🌈

  • @rickymanuel4237
    @rickymanuel4237 9 місяців тому

    Congratulations

  • @christinepickard7804
    @christinepickard7804 6 місяців тому

    ❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉

  • @user-mg4ou2qw5y
    @user-mg4ou2qw5y Рік тому +2

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️🍾🥂❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @sumitrautela6175
    @sumitrautela6175 Рік тому +1

    😘😘

  • @mustafemaxamed3300
    @mustafemaxamed3300 Рік тому

    Me Three

  • @aldisluksteins8055
    @aldisluksteins8055 Рік тому +2

    👍❤️❤️🌹🥂👍🇦🇹

  • @lizziem
    @lizziem 3 місяці тому +2

    Just watched this. it's beautiful. Love is beautiful in all forms. Im just sorry that you've had some negative comments from a minority of small-minded, uneducated people. Much love to you both for a lifetime of happiness together.

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  3 місяці тому +2

      thanks so much xx

  • @emmiesevillana459
    @emmiesevillana459 Рік тому

    Im here for one thing comments

  • @andybray9791
    @andybray9791 Рік тому

    Was it a secular wedding

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  Рік тому +1

      It was lovely, thank you!

  • @CORRADOCAMERONI
    @CORRADOCAMERONI 4 місяці тому

    W Gay Wedding 💞👍🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈♂️

  • @kennethbailey9853
    @kennethbailey9853 11 днів тому

    😢😊😂❤😮😅😊❤😊❤❤❤

  • @RafiahmedRafi-jn4ng
    @RafiahmedRafi-jn4ng Рік тому +1

    I need my groom plz

  • @YouYou-fm8mz
    @YouYou-fm8mz Рік тому

    I think your father and Mathers is doing the God thois 🙂

  • @awaisnaeem4481
    @awaisnaeem4481 Рік тому

    Is there any plate form in uk where we find a same sex partner for marriage. Please serious talk

  • @Slskkoik
    @Slskkoik Рік тому

    Thank you this solve overpopulation

  • @royalblitz6485
    @royalblitz6485 11 місяців тому

    I am not gay so I am gay

  • @royalblitz6485
    @royalblitz6485 11 місяців тому

    Crazyyyyy 💀💀💀💀

  • @sergeipetrov_rzn
    @sergeipetrov_rzn 4 місяці тому

    the West is doomed

  • @lightninja4795
    @lightninja4795 9 місяців тому

    That’s disgusting. I think I might throw up.

    • @lightninja4795
      @lightninja4795 9 місяців тому

      The Bible says homosexuality is a sin.

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  9 місяців тому +1

      It also says to be loving and accepting, so looking like you’re going to hell!! 😮‍💨😭

    • @LittleLoz
      @LittleLoz 9 місяців тому

      ​@@lightninja4795Whose making your decisions?
      You or your religion?
      Get your own mind hun

    • @NicolaFossi
      @NicolaFossi 8 місяців тому

      ​@@lightninja4795You're brainwashed

    • @freddenker9537
      @freddenker9537 6 місяців тому

      The Bible says have a Slave ,dont eat Mussel or Pork, dant cut your Hair,kill your arnry Son read the idiotik Text of Leviticus !!! F....the Fabelbook @@lightninja4795

  • @Iggywiggywoo
    @Iggywiggywoo Рік тому

    Same sex marriage just isn’t right! And kids need a mum and dad!

    • @Tobyshome
      @Tobyshome  Рік тому +2

      Don’t understand what same sex marriage had to do with having children? Though, you’re incredibly uneducated either way x

    • @azazel166
      @azazel166 Рік тому +3

      Stay out of other people's affairs, stranger.

    • @comeregeway9072
      @comeregeway9072 Рік тому +1

      Same sex marriage is just equality! And if you don't believe everyone should be treated equally then you are a really shitty person with terrible morals. No amount of religion will change that! God help you, because you need it ❤️

    • @freddenker9537
      @freddenker9537 6 місяців тому

      Your IQ ????? same a Hamster or less?>

    • @Iggywiggywoo
      @Iggywiggywoo 2 місяці тому

      @@azazel166excuse me, but UA-cam videos are for public viewing and public comments. And everyone is entitled to their opinions and share on UA-cam no matter how negative they are!