Yes, absolutely!!!! Self talk is HUGE. Half of what we think we know is what we tell ourselves! You should join our facebook group facebook.com/groups/transformautoimmune/ :)
I didn’t make it live but… your story made me cry. That is a big deal - I’m sorry. My parents were never there for me and both are drug addicts. My dad was a bully and would pick on me (and physically abusive) When I got married at 18 my husband told me I needed a winter jacket and it was $60. He insisted he wanted to buy it for me. I cried so much because I would never spend more than $5 for a used shirt… no way a $60 jacket. I can hear my penny pinching dad in my head and disapproving. He always made me feel it was asking so much to have a razor, or deodorant. We were made to feel guilty. It was my husband who constantly was like - why can you go out to eat? Why can’t you buy a NEW shirt??? Why can’t I shop at Target or get a coffee?! Anyways I feel like that part has gotten better but the worth thing is still hard. My parents didn’t seem to care then and as adult I’m robbed of parents to celebrate me now. I had to face the music and rebuild what is important to me. I’m sorry for your experience Maggie - I only have compassion for anyone experiencing those sad traumatic memories. We deserve to break free from those things 😭. I feel like I’ve undone layers to truly find more layers underneath. Now I want to give my family the love and care I didn’t get & hopefully someday be a supportive grandparent. I knew you understood this type of thing. That’s part of why I love you! People who get it get it. Thanks for sharing. I used to never share because I felt guilty. Now it helps me heal to be honest. We are all learning and growing and making mistakes and doing the best we can. You have literally helped me suffer less going through Op360 in more than 1 way. So excited for you to be married and celebrate this special chapter. Now I have to be less of an angry person.
Being vunerable is healing it doesnt matter what the trauma is its time to dig deep coz dis-ease has an emotional attachment. Yes ive been releasing alot of suppressed trauma and parent wounds. And its my autoimmune GPA that has made me really heal all of me.
Thank you so much Dr. Maggie for sharing this story. I thought I was the only one with a (mild?) traumatic childhood story (stories), that have effected me my whole life. My story came out during one of my group pod meetings, they wanted to change the time of the pod meeting to 5:00, and I had a meltdown. You see, when I was 10 I left school late (5;00) as I was helping a teacher. Two boys approached me and wanted to rape me… I was saved my someone, and ran home. I came home crying and told my mom 2 boys wanted to “beat me up” -I didn’t tell her the truth, and she said “that’s what you get for coming home late”. 5:00 has always been an issue for me, and also, I realized just now that I always felt that “I deserve the bad things that happen to me.” NO, it’s not true. Love you Maggie, get the biggest damn cake or cakes for your wedding. 👰💃🎂🍰🧁
You are so worthy yes checking the negative thought patterns
Awareness so cool congratulations Dr Maggie have a beautiful wedding thank you
Worth stories are IMPORTANT!!!
Extremely
Lemon Poppy Seed.
Loved your share and pivot today!
Sharing is healing, healing is a kindness all of us deserve
Very inspiring thank you
I can relate I have lots of similar stories in my childhood that I can still remember now. Those stories made me look at Life in a practical way.
What's important is how you come out of it... how are you doing now?
So helpful thank you
Thats so sad yes big shifts this is how we heal ourselves as well thank you Dr Magge xxx childhood traumas, self worth being worthy
Yes time is one of my things
Words may not break bones but words have power to heal the spirit in us. We need to give the right words the right power so we can heal our inner man
Yes, absolutely!!!! Self talk is HUGE. Half of what we think we know is what we tell ourselves! You should join our facebook group facebook.com/groups/transformautoimmune/ :)
Omg Tiramisu is my all time favorite dessert!!!! I used to regularly grab a slice here in Hillsboro 😍 I even made it once!!!
I love it
I didn’t make it live but… your story made me cry. That is a big deal - I’m sorry. My parents were never there for me and both are drug addicts. My dad was a bully and would pick on me (and physically abusive) When I got married at 18 my husband told me I needed a winter jacket and it was $60. He insisted he wanted to buy it for me. I cried so much because I would never spend more than $5 for a used shirt… no way a $60 jacket. I can hear my penny pinching dad in my head and disapproving. He always made me feel it was asking so much to have a razor, or deodorant. We were made to feel guilty. It was my husband who constantly was like - why can you go out to eat? Why can’t you buy a NEW shirt??? Why can’t I shop at Target or get a coffee?! Anyways I feel like that part has gotten better but the worth thing is still hard. My parents didn’t seem to care then and as adult I’m robbed of parents to celebrate me now. I had to face the music and rebuild what is important to me. I’m sorry for your experience Maggie - I only have compassion for anyone experiencing those sad traumatic memories. We deserve to break free from those things 😭. I feel like I’ve undone layers to truly find more layers underneath. Now I want to give my family the love and care I didn’t get & hopefully someday be a supportive grandparent. I knew you understood this type of thing. That’s part of why I love you! People who get it get it. Thanks for sharing. I used to never share because I felt guilty. Now it helps me heal to be honest. We are all learning and growing and making mistakes and doing the best we can. You have literally helped me suffer less going through Op360 in more than 1 way. So excited for you to be married and celebrate this special chapter. Now I have to be less of an angry person.
Thank you so much for your support and growth
Red velvet
Being vunerable is healing it doesnt matter what the trauma is its time to dig deep coz dis-ease has an emotional attachment. Yes ive been releasing alot of suppressed trauma and parent wounds. And its my autoimmune GPA that has made me really heal all of me.
Thank you. I was healing on air
German choc cake has coconut
Hi im in N.Z.
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Carrot cake
Thank you so much Dr. Maggie for sharing this story. I thought I was the only one with a (mild?) traumatic childhood story (stories), that have effected me my whole life. My story came out during one of my group pod meetings, they wanted to change the time of the pod meeting to 5:00, and I had a meltdown. You see, when I was 10 I left school late (5;00) as I was helping a teacher. Two boys approached me and wanted to rape me… I was saved my someone, and ran home. I came home crying and told my mom 2 boys wanted to “beat me up” -I didn’t tell her the truth, and she said “that’s what you get for coming home late”. 5:00 has always been an issue for me, and also, I realized just now that I always felt that “I deserve the bad things that happen to me.” NO, it’s not true.
Love you Maggie, get the biggest damn cake or cakes for your wedding. 👰💃🎂🍰🧁
Thank you for sharing your story
@@DrMaggieYu thank you ❤️