Choosing Allah in Desperation | Khutbah by Dr. Omar Suleiman
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- Опубліковано 7 вер 2024
- In continuation of the story on the martyrs of Rajee, we end with the final companion who has a unique story of love. By choosing Taqwa in his toughest time, he teaches us a greater lesson about how to not let the devil play us in our desperation, and how to shine in moments where most people fall.
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“None has the right to be unconditionally obeyed except Allah (swt).” ❤️
This story would also be a great opportunity to teach people about the difference between authentic love vs. attachment & trauma bonding to someone with abusive behavior (she harmed him as soon as she did not get what she wanted from him, but he was still emotionally attached to her through trauma bonding).
May Allah protect all of us from any kind of abusive behavior or abusive relationships (of any kind), help us to educate ourselves & our community on abuse in all its forms.
May we be protected either from being oppressed or being the oppressors, May Allah protect us from either being abused or having abusive behavior.
Aamin
A'meen ya rabb
yah
Ameen
Wonderful insight!
Can we also just celebrate the amazing facial expressions of the female interpreter beside Omar Suleiman throughout this video?
No. This is HARAM.
@@juxtapositionMSright? I was like what is this......
@@juxtapositionMSwhat exactly is haram ?
The interpretation and expression are for the deaf to hear the khutbah/sermon too
@@ayaaitbenkaddour9786 women
Wallahi I needed this khutba. It's strange how Allah talks with us to guide us, help us to take important decisions. Subhanallah
Subhanallah it is not strange, it is beautiful. Jazakallahu khairan 🤍
Assalamualaikum brothers and sisters. I just wanted you all to pray for me. I'm aiming to understand the Quran better and also memorise it. I'm currently working hard to learn Arabic so that I understand Quran better and live the essence of the rawness of how it was sent down originally. I atleast want to speak the same language our beloved Prophet Muhammad S. A.W used to speak. And im trying to learn more and more about Islam so that if Allah grants me this honor, I would do the dawah work. Please remember me in your prayers and the whole ummah as well. Make dua to Allah to grant me the quwwah for this work and don't forget to include asking Afiyah in it. Remember, its in a hadeeth that the biggest blessing given to people after Islam is Afiyah. So ask for afiyah in everything that you do.
Jazakallahu Khairan
May Allah grant you ease, and make you the person of Amanah to spread the ilm. Amiin❤
May ALLAH s.w.t bless you and answer all your duas. Ameen
MashaAllah...I am doing the same and have the same feelings and intentions...what a beauitful coincidence..May Allah make it easier for both of us
@@nasreensyed1633ameen
Wallahi everyone of the youth trapped in forbidden relationships has to see this video,opened my eyes to a lot of things in just 17 minutes 😢❤
May God keep all our Children and siblings safe from untimely death.
Ameen
Ameen
Ameen
Ameen
Subhanallah... I'm always so amazed by the stories of Sahabas and the kind of lives they lived and the decisions they made at most critical times. May Allah grant us taqwa in our hearts like they used to have and may Allah keep us amongst them and with them on the day of resurrection. May Allah grant Omar Suleiman highest levels of Jannah. May you all here stay witness for Omar Suleiman that he told us something new and heart warming stories everytime that make us love Islam even more. And may Allah be the witness that I love Omar Suleiman for the sake of Allah S.W.T. Allahumma Ameen
Allahumma Ameen ya Rabbal Alameen
Jazak Allahu Khairan
Alhamdulillah Islam it's not just a religion it's a way of life .❤️
Now i just remember many moments in my life.
I just gonna say "Guys don't do it, it will haunt you if you cant escape from it it will make your thoughts worse about yourself and if you can snap from it right now then it's good for you while you still remember this."
No one can reach the level of sahaba in taqwa and zuhd. We can just try our best to copy them. They were indeed the best generation after prophets. Thanks for ur beautiful series of FIRSTS..We all really love this series and all other series presented by u. We can listen them multiple times and these seem new to us every time.
May Allah bless u brother.
U are a great source of boosting our eman. May Allah have mercy upon u and ur family. Plz keep all of us in ur duas.😢
The situation in which I'm now. I'm really want to forget a special person, but it isn't easy. Automatically I remember some moments again and again. I don't want it but it happens.
May Allah make it easy for you.
Yes, you can!
Think that the “special person “ never remember you
Can you not be together with this special person in a permissible way?
Do not try to forget him/her by force. It will pass in time believe me. It all pass. Try to watch , think , read this kind of truthfully and supportive things. Also pray more and talk all of your thoughts feelings and concersn to Allah. Pray for the good bright future and visualize while you pray for it. Best Salams..
May Allah make it easy for you 🤲🏾❤️
The patience he exhibits in his approach is truly admirable. May Allah, the Most Patient, grant him strength and resilience in the face of challenges. Ameen to the prayers for guidance and blessings.
1:34 May Allah SWT grant Marthad R.A the reward of those who benefited from his story, ameen🤲🏻🤲🏻
Allah ( S.T.) is the Best of Planner / Protector & Provider.
Make no mistake about this . Patience patience patience.
Prayers on time always works wonderful. Final destination
of the disbelivers are the HELL where they will be roasted on the furnace
FOREVER. What a miserable destination. Be good towards ALL HUMANKIND.
To you your religion & to me my religion. Old man with ONE EYE is an
unjust man.
SubhaanAllah I found this so deeply moving . May Allah subhaanhu wataAllah protect us from falling into the shaitaan’s hands. Aameen ya Rabil Alameen
Despite the differences around the world, we do can understandone thing La Ilaha Ilallah. Wa Salam
َ'' What led you into Hell Fire?
They will say: 'We were not of those who prayed.'” (Qur'an, 74:42-43)
🌹Don't forget your five daily prayers🌹
Jazak Allaahu Khayran Allaahumma Aameen to all the Duas!
Dr. Omar Sulaiman has also been my favorite scholar and the way he used to preach and teach is amazing.
If the one who has committed zina repents to Allaah, truly and sincerely, then Allaah will forgive him or her, and overlook the sin. Allaah says, after mentioning the warning to those who commit zina:
“Except those who repent and believe (in Islamic Monotheism), and do righteous deeds; for those, Allaah will change their sins into good deeds, and Allaah is Oft Forgiving, Most Merciful.
And whosoever repents and does righteous good deeds; then verily, he repents towards Allaah with true repentance”
[al-Furqaan 25:70-71 - interpretation of the meaning]
It's important to emphasize that forgiveness is present and the sin is cleared if sincere repentance is done. And God is most forgiving, she or he then can be married according to this mentioned above.
Jazak'الله khayran. May we all be guided. انشاالله ♥️🙏🏼
🩷💙I feel so much pressure to be in a haram relationship and dress immodestly in the US. I want to save myself for a righteous man inshAllah. It is soo hard to not want to be included in haram things😣🩷
When you try your best to abstain then Allah will choose for you the right one Inshaallah
May Allah make it easy for you, dear. Remember, the harder the test, the greater the reward when you pass the test
It is hard. Best to move back to save yourself atleast for sometime. Pakistan atleast won’t pressure u for haram acts
But there is political and social instability in Pakistan if am not wrong. Some places even masjid boundaries are not being respected.
Get married
Mashallah! The perfect timing I needed to hear this khutba.
Jazakallah khair
Thank you for taking the time to craft this lecture so beautifully. Though a point comes to mind - I think sometimes stories of a man’s immense sexual desires is spoken about, almost like it validates that struggle for men to women. And it’s like, “okay, sure. Men and women may have different struggles.” But it feels so male-centered. I think there are stories of the women in the Prophet pbuh time that should also be shared. I’m just getting into your work, so I hope that’s touched on too. I think it’ll make Islam more appealing to women
AssalamuAlaikumWW🙏❤️🇺🇸🥰Dear Sisters and brothers in Yaqeen Institute and the World🌎Dr. Sheikh Omar Suleiman.. am late to watch your Live Alhamdulillah able to watch and listen the replay of your Great Wisdom and Guidance. JazakallahuKhait.. AllahuAkbar🤲🙏❤️🥰🇺🇸🇺🇸
Subhan Allah.. alhamdu'lillah.. jazak Allahu khairan kaseeran ya sheikh Omar Suleiman
Watch with tears..😢
SubhanAllah.Awesome 💖💖💖
The rescuer of Islam Alhamdulillah we need more man like this, teach your son sports get them fit organized the brothers, we need strong Muslims with Iman start visiting each other brother how can we give more Dawah humanity is lost is our duty.
If with human it's obsession then. It wasn't love. Love will make you happy, energetic, productive.
Maybe love doesn't exist after all
Thank you for sharing this distinction
What an Inspiring Khuthba
MasaaAllah. Alhamdulillah. A meaningful khutbah. He masaaAllah explained the place where we start to collapse. It is very critical in this days bcz some people only regret for what bad thing just happened to us or to the people around us. But literally we do not investigate where we begin to lost and the rest are just the consequences. May almighty Allah help us to move or get back from the first place of any sin.
Jazak Allah sister for Sign language❤
SubhanAllah jazak Allah
Jazakallah for this Khutbah
Alhamdulillah for this khutbah.
Alluakbar! Alhamdulillah Rabbul Alameen ♡ what a message - may Allah honor us and grant us the best hassanatt of both dunya and akhira, and may He raise the ranks of those who remind us. Amin
Masha Allah really beautiful kutuba ❤
Thank you for this video as i thank you for the title although some peopel find it inappropriate but i found it to be attracting, as it caught my sight and i didnt hesitate to watch the full video , after watching it i feel i can be and become me again i miss that old versiom of me , elhamdoulileh for guidance thank you so much for this precious messav eelhamdoulileh ❤❤❤❤ May allah helo us and guide us ❤
Islam is a creed of life of man for man
beautiful khutbah ❤
Story start from 5:00
MashaAllah
اللهم صل وسلم وبارك على نبينا محمد وعلى اله وصحبه اجمعين الى يوم الدين
سبحان الله
الحمدلله
والله اكبر
Interesting timing
JezakAllah ❤❤❤
May Allah protect you
Al'HamduliLah ☝️🙏🤍💯
Allahouma Ameen🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾
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Assalam ualaykum Im trying to memorize the Quran
Hi! I have a mixed purple and blue imperial jasper bracelet. What are the benefits, and which hand should i wear it on? Based on your video I'm leaning towards left since it sounds black is reserved for the right hand but want to double check. Thanks for the informative video and being so open to reach out to you!
That was awesome
Allah bless you
ماشاءاللّٰه 💐💐💐
🥷❤. Thank you.
Assaalamoalykum warehmatullahi wabarakatuho 🫡💐🤲🍀💖
Walakum Salam
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Asalaamu alaikum shaykh, I listened to the khutbah and it’s clear you are merely reading the text. But the optics of the title and what people may infer without listening to it is causing some unease.
Jazakallah Khayr for your comment. As you mentioned, the Hadith makes the context clear and refers to her as “a previous girlfriend”, but the last thing I would want is someone to assume disrespect to the companions (May Allah be pleased with them) without that context. Since some may see it that way, I will advise the team to change the title and update the thumbnail inshaAllah. Jazakallah khayr again! 4:10
@@OmarSuleimanPersonal barakAllahu feek for changing the title. I agree with the decision, and believe there is more adab in doing so. I wanted to know however where you're deriving the translation 'previous girlfriend' from? The arabic text says كانت صديقة له which seems to translates best as 'she was his friend', where صديق is a form of friend that implies sincerity, affection and closeness. Using 'girlfriend' seems to be an anachronism, and the concept in English has ugliness associated with it, that I think should be avoided when translating descriptions with respect to the sahaba and Prophet salla Llahu alayhi was sallam.
To illustrate my point, I'll use the following narration:
أبو رزين قال سىٔل العباس أنت أكبر أم النبي صلى الله عليه و سلم، فقال هو أكبر مني وأنا ولدت قبله
Abu Rizeen said he asked sayyidina al-Abbas: "Are you older [akbar], or is the Prophet ﷺ? So sayyidina al-Abbas answered: "He is akbar - i.e. greater, than me, but I was born before him."
If he had simply reaffirmed the wording, it would technically be accurate, but Sayyidina Abbas was careful to distance any ill connotation and framing, so he reworded the statement
I hope you can understand where my concern comes from. Some may be calling this 'splitting hairs' but adab is a subtlety which should be elevated. I appreciate your time and hope to hear your perspective. As salamu alaykum.
@@celestialsignal Book 5, Number 2046:
Narrated Abdullah ibn Amr ibn al-'As:
Marthad ibn AbuMarthad al-Ghanawi used to take prisoners (of war) from Mecca (to Medina). At Mecca there was a prostitute called Inaq who had illicit relations with him. (Marthad said:) I came to the Prophet (peace_be_upon_him) and said to him: May I marry Inaq, Apostle of Allah? The narrator said: He kept silence towards me. Then the verse was revealed:"....and the adulteress none shall marry save and adulterer or an idolater." He called me and recited this (verse) to me, and said: Do not marry her.
@@iloveAllah Yes, I am aware of the hadith.
When are you going to address the Dunia Shuhaib controversy
Ameen 🤲🏾
What is this title akhi don't disrespect the Sahaba with these terms
As-Salaam Alaikum. ❤😢😇🤗🥲
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May Allah reward you in abundance sheikh..pls can I name my child "Marfat"?
Don't. It was a normal name back then. Not a normal name now.. There are many names that are beautiful and belong to sahaba. Marthad has also beautiful meaning but it is unknown name. Besides people could make fun of this name and call him murtad which means someone who leaves islam
Ameen summa Aameen 🤲🤍
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A little confused. If he married her wouldn’t she have become muslim and also repented and not remained an adulteress?
Ofcourse she can repent but When this sahabi r.a wanted to marry her , at this time she was a disbeliever and not willing to accept Islam. ( as she called him for adultery and gotvresponse from him that he became muslim abd cant to this . Then she put him in danger and informed his presence to enemies of prophet Muhammad s. a .w)
So the aya came
but who knows maybe she loves her life that way
Allah knows what is in people’s hearts and we don’t know. when Allah revealed this aya, Allah surely knew that she wasn’t becoming muslim or the marriage in general wouldn’t have been a good choice
Asalamu alaikum. I need some advice. I honestly love someone so much to an unimaginable point, and I can’t seem to forget about them. Anyone has any advice?
Pray and talk to Allah and humble yourself in front of him . Say exactly what you want and confide with him your vulnerability. I assure you , first uuu will cry , then you will stop crying for that person ever again
@@perfect_chaos4217 honestly, it’s about giving up that person. The thing is that person is so dear to me that I don’t wanna give up on that person at all. I don’t wanna separate from that person at any cost. But tbh, I know we can never be together yet it’s still so hard to give up. May Allah swt make it easy. Ameen.
@@servantofthemostmerciful7985 pray to allah nothing impossible for him .just pray n pray u don't know future Allah only knows pray consistently I'll also pray for u
A very inappropriate title for such an institution and Shaykhs. Where is the honor and dignity? Are we all westerner teens now?
I don't see what you see as the problem on the title, even in time of the prophet pbuh disbelievers would refer to their haram partner as boyfriend and girlfriend so the sahabi sheikh was talking about was his ex girlfriend before he reverted alhamdullilah
@hamzaahmed1715 The English word "Girlfriend" didn't exist back then so that's not the exact term they used. It's inappropriate.
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الحمد لله
Why are all these narratives from the point of view of men about men never the women? Women go through the same scenarios and challenges as well.
you probably didn't read Surat Al noor
Wrong question , ask what can I learn from these wonderful Sahaba regardless of their Gender .
@unknownx5900 I have thank you the whole of the Quraan thoroughly.
@perfect_chaos4217 there are no wrong questions.
@@try2justbe
you may reread it and pay attention to what Allah id saying to the women ❤️
sharing this hadith
عَنْ أُمِّ عُمَارَةَ الأَنْصَارِيَّةِ، أَنَّهَا أَتَتِ النَّبِيَّ صلى الله عليه وسلم فَقَالَتْ مَا أَرَى كُلَّ شَيْءٍ إِلاَّ لِلرِّجَالِ وَمَا أَرَى النِّسَاءَ يُذْكَرْنَ بِشَيْءٍ فَنَزَلَتْ هَذِهِ الآيَةُ : (إن الْمُسْلِمِينَ وَالْمُسْلِمَاتِ وَالْمُؤْمِنِينَ وَالْمُؤْمِنَاتِ ) الآيَةَ . قَالَ أَبُو عِيسَى هَذَا حَدِيثٌ حَسَنٌ غَرِيبٌ وَإِنَّمَا يُعْرَفُ هَذَا الْحَدِيثُ مِنْ هَذَا الْوَجْهِ .
Narrated Umm 'Umarah Al-Ansariyyah: that she came to the Prophet (ﷺ) and said: "I do not see but that everything is for the men, and I do not see anything being mentioned for the women." So this Ayah was revealed: 'Indeed the Muslim men and the Muslim women, the believing men and the believing women... (33: 35)'
Jami` at-Tirmidhi 3211
Quran verse number, anyone can say
Not sure what exactly the message is conveying here. So a person with a past has no hope to change their lifestyle? Do you think the answer was no because she was unfaithful in general? And not even a Muslim. Because she did not care for his life, and he was in love with her! Because she was a cruel woman maybe that’s the reason for a no. If that’s not the case, then the idea of forgiveness and mercy cannot be put together in the same basket as the religion off Islam
No! if u accept islam Allah will forgive all your past sins. So she didn't want to accept islam and change her lifestyle. As for him he became muslim and his past sins are forgiven so he can't marry adulteress now that he became Muslim.
@@Ammy....👌, nicely answered
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Salam, with full respect, please speak slower, you speak too fast, in my opinion- i could be wrong and problem is in me.
EX GF
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SubhanAllah🤍
Read this: Mental Bondage in the Name of God by Aidid Safar (Author) STICK TO THE QURAN ONLY.
No one likes to address the elephant in the room! Is there any reason the person behind OS in the men’s hall is a woman??! I’m assuming this is live! Yaqeen puts its self in these peculiar situations, and then has to damage control, these “ calculated “ moves.
I think the translator is not in the same place. They always edit it and add here. It's recorded somewhere else...
Blackness and nifaaq in this guy's heart spreading to all those who listen.
And here you are !
@meelash1 So who do you listen to instead, to get rid of that blackness in your heart - Paul the Doomsday Cult leader?
@@hearty1240😭😭🤣🤣
How I'm using GOD given gifts for Something Noble I'm not your devil I'm Bubba if you need someone to blame to better ok🩵😇👋
I don‘t understand, wasn‘t he an adultorer same as the woman, since they had been adoultrous together?
Edit: He was thinking of marrying her after she said shehada/accepted islam, so wouldn‘t that have given her the chance to repent too?
Yes but he Martad repented, asked for forgiveness, changed his habits, accepted Allah and His Prophet, and so was cleaned spiritually . Allah forgave him.
The woman presumably did the opposite, continued in her dark ways .... stayed guilty !
He became Muslim after that all the previous sins are forgiven. When Khalid Bin Walid became Muslim he asked the Prophet PBUH that I have killed a lot of Muslims when he was Non believer and had caused great damage to the Muslims and was feeling guilty that the other Muslims won't accept him but The Prophet Muhammad PBUH told him that all the sins of person are forgiven once he becomes a Muslim. There is an episode on Khalid Bin Walid you can watch it to know the exact story. This however means that they can't fall back to their ways of Jahiliya and have to follow the way of Islam for the rest of their lives. May Allah guide us to the straight path. Ameen
Dear Pretty Pizza
Please focus on his transformation and him being obedient, also verse of Quran that came and he still was able to overcome on his desire and he accepted commands of our Creator Allah and he also showed loyalty to Prophet Muhammad Alaihi Salam, accepted His Alaihi Salam's silence Who Alaihi Salam waited and not jumped to answer his request instead waited for command from Allah. Allah Akbar Islam is beautiful submission to it is an honor and blessings alhamdolillah I am Muslim
But what if he married and she would have also become
Muslim and repented?
@@sapphirep2062 the thing was you don't know if she would have because when she found out that he has became Muslim and won't do Zinah with her. She informed the whole town about his plans. Which most likely meant death for him. The Prophet Muhammad PBUH must have known that she most probably will not do it.
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