BEING BALD TO HAIR SYSTEM - "LAD Bible Wig Guy" Tells His Story - Baldcafe Podcast 32

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 140

  • @Baldcafe
    @Baldcafe  4 роки тому +34

    As is written in the Description. Please enjoy this video and take it for what it is. 2 guys who have lost their hair in their 20's having an open, happy and comfortable discussion about hair loss for the benefit of other men. Having rocked the shaved head for many years and as someone who changed the hair loss world in his own way by being completely open and honest about his hair system, it is my absolute pleasure to have Paul on the channel and share his own story and advice.

    • @adamsomerset9940
      @adamsomerset9940 4 роки тому +7

      Baldcafe I've been wearing a system since 2013. I have a scar on my head from a botched transplant. This is a great show. I'd love to chat.

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  4 роки тому +4

      English Adam Shoot me an email to Baldcafe@outlook.com let’s see what we can set up 👍

    • @dazza4345
      @dazza4345 4 роки тому

      Im going bald but i rather be bald they wear a wig.

    • @j0nnyism
      @j0nnyism 4 роки тому

      Hair or no hair a guy like him is always going to get girls because he’s a lot of fun to be around. That’s catnip for girls

  • @joedavola3766
    @joedavola3766 4 роки тому +23

    I really respect guys who are open about wearing hair. They are doing a great service to those who are suffering hair loss, and who are not happy with shaving it or getting a transplant. They show them that there's another option. There should be no shame at all in wearing hair.

  • @Justin-baxe
    @Justin-baxe 4 роки тому +21

    Paul is a great lad and i like his perspective on hair loss and having a hair system. As long as you are open about having a hair system then you have accepted balding. Fantastic interview Harry.

  • @patrickdoherty4527
    @patrickdoherty4527 4 роки тому +41

    At the end of the day, it's his choice - and that's the main thing. It's certainly not for me. I'm totally happy with the buzzed-head look. For those of us who embrace baldness, I guess there's a danger of becoming a bit self righteous and harshly judging people who go for a wig/system or whatever. Great vid, Harry.

    • @seductivegoat2403
      @seductivegoat2403 4 роки тому +5

      It totally is for you, if your bald it's the option for you, the stigma associated shines through your comment, girls wear makeup, eyeliner, eye shadow, drawn on eyebrows, fake tan etc and it's just for the sake of it... not to sound horrible but most women are not really what you think they look like, but yet they do this for the sake of feeling good and no one cares, where a male with a coldosach from a genetic disadvantage can't even put some hair on, if you would rather a head of hair just do it and smack anyone In the jaw who gets in your way

  • @8ONJO55
    @8ONJO55 4 роки тому +99

    The bald head look is not for everyone,is hard to pull it off if you don't have the right features.
    This guy is better looking with a wig in my opinion.

    • @andym28
      @andym28 4 роки тому +8

      @@tagada7 what I do is shave it to the clipper but not the shortest setting. As I'm in the uk I don't get much sun so use a touch of tinted moisturiser on my scalp to make the contrast natural.

    • @andym28
      @andym28 4 роки тому +2

      @@tagada7 any tinted moisturiser like dove

    • @8ONJO55
      @8ONJO55 4 роки тому +4

      @@tagada7 Exactly,they lost some points on "attractiveness". Howie Mandel is not the most handsome man in the world,but with the bald smooth head,he looks much better.

    • @8ONJO55
      @8ONJO55 4 роки тому +2

      @@andym28 Makes the illusion of not having any shadow of hair too?

    • @sliotsios
      @sliotsios 4 роки тому +3

      @@tagada7 tom hardy would've even rocked the horse shoe if he wanted to :)

  • @darrenwatters3054
    @darrenwatters3054 4 роки тому +32

    Best channel on UA-cam, hairs down 👍

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  4 роки тому +7

      Darren Watters 😂 🤝 Tank you man. My hair goes off to you.

    • @darrenwatters3054
      @darrenwatters3054 4 роки тому +3

      @@Baldcafe 🤣👴

    • @LovinglyStonedProd
      @LovinglyStonedProd 4 роки тому +2

      Harry and Paul,
      Thanks for the conversation and a different perspective of the hair system option.
      Aloha from Texas,
      Dr. Liam Stone, D.D., Ph.D., N.D.

    • @watdannouhuh6687
      @watdannouhuh6687 4 роки тому

      🤣🤣🤣

  • @dstarns9252
    @dstarns9252 4 роки тому +8

    Just two blokes having a chat love it really enjoyed it,really funny too😂I don’t know how he did it got guts to wear a hair system I couldn’t do it.
    There was a chick in Australia that wore a hair system on a tv show called married at first sight,now she got guts to show she’s bald on national tv,not just guys go bald,imagine what she’s gone through

    • @AjayPatel-so8zs
      @AjayPatel-so8zs 3 роки тому

      Looool that season was a car crash. Nasser at least was decent when she told him

  • @billz262
    @billz262 4 роки тому +6

    I have been shaving my head from about the age of 15. It has been around ten years and still usually shave it around 3 times a month. I have realised that people don’t look at us the way we look at ourselves. They really don’t care as they have their own things to deal with. Once you shave your head a few times it becomes normal, it is not something that people stand at point at. Plus there is no stress of combing it I guess

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  4 роки тому +6

      You are right man. People have so much stuff they are worrying about themselves they have no need to worry about our shizz 😆

  • @Afatcow123
    @Afatcow123 4 роки тому +13

    For me i have been balding for 5 yrs. I will be asking my doctor about using medication to regain the hair but i think its receding to far about 2 inches back. I always had longish hair but i kept not wanting to accept that i was balding. I made the switch to go bald three weeks ago, and have not gotten anything but compliments a few said i prefer with hair but , overall with my poor hair looks better without hair. For me due to the fact i can pull off bald, a hair system seems like something id be way to self conscious about if people can tell or if it fell off, would be even more embarassing.

    • @j0nnyism
      @j0nnyism 3 роки тому

      Yea it depends on the hair system. The really good thin ones don’t last long either. Watch out u don’t get ripped off either

  • @fyro285
    @fyro285 4 роки тому +4

    Its great that you give people the courage to accept it and be more confident pulling off the bald look, BUT there are things one can do to treat or prevent hair loss. Not everyone wants to just accept it and go bald.

  • @MattEff01
    @MattEff01 4 роки тому +6

    Harry another fantastic video! Really interesting guest with with hair loss from his perspective. I’ll always go with the au natural look myself but fair play to him for owning it! 🙌

  • @balkee42
    @balkee42 4 роки тому +36

    Looks good and all. But wouldnt it look more natural if it was a bit less density

    • @Wire.scientist
      @Wire.scientist 4 роки тому +7

      Yes Godfather....but what he did was be open about the hair system

    • @VikramjitSingh924
      @VikramjitSingh924 4 роки тому +4

      Density is not the issue.If hairline is not natural the entire system will look unnatural.I ve seen many light density system with fucked up hair line which looks easily fake and on the contrary i ve seen many high density system with natural hairline which makes the entire system look completely natural.

    • @Sdfghjk442
      @Sdfghjk442 4 роки тому +1

      @@Wire.scientist I love that. I died laughing🤣😂😂😂. "Yes godfather"

    • @Wire.scientist
      @Wire.scientist 4 роки тому +1

      @@Sdfghjk442 :D ;)...haha

    • @j0nnyism
      @j0nnyism 4 роки тому

      Ive got a mate whose natural hair looks mire like a hair system than his

  • @penguin0075
    @penguin0075 4 роки тому +7

    You are such an inspiration, please never stop your work, you’re helping me and so many others. Another amazing video. 🙂

  • @PowerRedBullTypology
    @PowerRedBullTypology 3 роки тому +9

    The problem with literally going with what girls say (like in this instance: "I don't date bald people") is that you never know what their real reason was. Girls could say they do not date bald people and then next have a boyfriend that is bald. They just are not feeling it and then use reasoning to give some sort of answer to things. Maybe she did not think he looked like her type of guy anyway, with or without hair (i'm not a bald guy so this is not me saying this to make me feel better)

    • @mariusvo1839
      @mariusvo1839 2 роки тому

      What a great comment! I was thinking the same thing when bald guys say that they got rejected because of not having hair. There could be a hundred other reason but it's just easy to comment on the hair.
      I see bald guys with the hot girls all the time!

    • @simonjbrand
      @simonjbrand 2 роки тому

      This is likely true but there will also likely be a lot of women who 'don't do' bald guys. Likely as many women, as men who go bald, makes sense, so there's no shame in a woman not dating bald guys it seems to me, if this is their 'type' or preference. If a woman isn't into bald but is a biatch about it, then this is another issue, more about her.

    • @GLOKD
      @GLOKD 2 роки тому

      @@simonjbrand Meh, hair is just one feature and even if a girl doesn't like the shaved look if you asked her, there are probably bald men out there that will do it for her. My ex-girlfriend was stunningly beautiful but had multiple "bad" features, none of which deterred me in the slightest. Most human beings are not perfect. And actually perfect is not attractive either :)

  • @vwiggy
    @vwiggy 4 роки тому +3

    Fantastic interview. Keep up the good work!

  • @highflyingduck
    @highflyingduck 4 роки тому +3

    Not a hair system fan but Paul does look better with the hair 👍. Very rare, but there are some guys that can't pull off a bald head. Good for you, Paul... glad it works for you 💪😎

    • @oof8850
      @oof8850 4 роки тому +2

      Not rare. I would say at least 1/3 of people dont suit being bald

    • @Hidoidragon
      @Hidoidragon 3 роки тому

      @@oof8850 More like 2.5/3 of people

    • @spencerl5315
      @spencerl5315 3 роки тому +1

      @@Hidoidragon more like 2.99/3

  • @Maxsmate
    @Maxsmate 4 роки тому +3

    I want to be able to pull off the bald look but I just know I won't be able to. No amount of gym or beard could change that

  • @ExpBlissIt
    @ExpBlissIt 2 роки тому

    This made me feel so good about everything. Thank you for making me feel like I have a option. My hairs not even bad enough to need this but def thinning.

  • @mperformance3502
    @mperformance3502 4 роки тому +4

    2019 and we’re still considering wigs to hide our bald heads. They say science have improved so much yet we’re doing shit people were doing in George Washington days. It sucks!

  • @zeethree
    @zeethree 4 роки тому +7

    I can't do the bald/beard thing. It's not me and never will be. I'd just give up on my appearance entirely and just accept I'll never be happy. My issue with the hair system is the work and cost it requires to maintain.

    • @bd1647
      @bd1647 4 роки тому +8

      Z That’s a really poor way to look at a somewhat unfortunate situation. The only person you’re hurting is yourself, no1 will come along and feel sorry for you mate. Just be a man about whatever step you take and own it. The happiness will follow once you embrace any decision you take.

  • @rushi6130
    @rushi6130 4 роки тому +9

    He looks better with the HAIRR

  • @Daniel-uk6yr
    @Daniel-uk6yr 3 роки тому +5

    To be fair, that is a pretty unflattering photo to the left, bald or not

    • @KCIsMe
      @KCIsMe 3 роки тому

      Yeah lol

  • @adamgetshealthier4982
    @adamgetshealthier4982 4 роки тому +4

    Can I come on your channel? I’m a hair system wearer and had a similar experience. Having a system has changed my life

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  4 роки тому +2

      Shoot me an email mate 👍

  • @martyn1678
    @martyn1678 4 роки тому +2

    great video looks great with the hair system 👍

  • @djbenavit
    @djbenavit 4 роки тому

    Paul’s a good lad, chatted to him before.....he review of hair fibres was legendary 😂

  • @matthewdorrington4348
    @matthewdorrington4348 4 роки тому +2

    Nice guy. If you happy go rock it

  • @ejr21360
    @ejr21360 3 роки тому

    "a f*cking wig?!" 😂 cracked me up. Fair play to him 👏

  • @j0nnyism
    @j0nnyism 3 роки тому

    Wondering why the pies are so good at Man City. Wish they did them at Newcastle. Yea losing it when ur in ur early 20s has to be the hardest as none of ur mates are going through it. Completely different to a 50 year old going through it but it’s hard even if ur 80

  • @GLOKD
    @GLOKD 2 роки тому

    An important reminder, I think, when watching these videos, is that perfection isn't actually attractive or desirable. Most of my girl mates don't like the "Love Island" look of some guy with perfect hair and abs. I don't like girls with lots of make up, glammed up to the gills with lip filler etc. Imperfection is beautiful and human. Mother nature rolls the dice with all of us - embrace your flaws and love them.

  • @momentoftruth9827
    @momentoftruth9827 4 роки тому +1

    which company does Paul use for his systems ? Cheers

  • @bigd1223
    @bigd1223 4 роки тому +3

    Imagine hanging out with a girl and a gust of wind comes and blows that thing off your head.

    • @likenl4508
      @likenl4508 4 роки тому

      Then a bird get it's so you kick the bird too get your hair back and the girl you're with loves birds...

  • @assassinskillz123
    @assassinskillz123 3 роки тому

    Where did he get his system from looks really good

  • @jhonnypresley
    @jhonnypresley 4 роки тому +2

    Baldcafe host would look great with smp.

  • @owkayclothingofficial
    @owkayclothingofficial 4 роки тому

    Mr Paul Bowen himself Repping Owkay!

  • @grahambutler734
    @grahambutler734 4 роки тому +1

    Should you take care your facial skin more when you are bald?

  • @mikesully110
    @mikesully110 3 роки тому

    I saw this guy on First Dates and it was awesome how he brought it up to his date on the show right away; he came out and said "Yeah my hair is a wig" and she said it looked good - she never would have clocked that it was fake! I did a search for him on here and lo and behold Baldcafe has already gotten an interview!

  • @Evileyeboris
    @Evileyeboris 4 роки тому +2

    Hi man, long time follower.
    I am in a predicament where I am reseding in the from and I also have a palm size bold spot in crown area. I current do a zero and at times I razor. Not sure if I should stick to razor and clean my head or carry a zero but hair looks shot. However when I razor I have a shadow even though it's baby smooth...not sure what to do.

    • @Zombie101
      @Zombie101 4 роки тому

      Try it.... it's only gonna grow back to the stubble look anyway lol

  • @aerynreynolds8500
    @aerynreynolds8500 4 роки тому +5

    you are a such big inspiration and I think bald guys are really attractive ^_^

    • @KrisVic91
      @KrisVic91 4 роки тому

      Good lass

    • @fm_6790
      @fm_6790 4 роки тому

      Oh is not true i'm a guy and i hate bald !

    • @hoggemaog9760
      @hoggemaog9760 2 роки тому

      @@fm_6790 are you gay?

    • @fm_6790
      @fm_6790 2 роки тому

      @@hoggemaog9760 What makes you think that?

    • @hoggemaog9760
      @hoggemaog9760 2 роки тому

      @@fm_6790 you are a guy who hates bald in terms of being attractive. if you are not attracted to guys, which makes you heterosexual, guys balding shouldnt bother you

  • @skiffgoal5643
    @skiffgoal5643 2 роки тому

    Paul sounds like Gary Neville

  • @bumzilla8586
    @bumzilla8586 4 роки тому

    Gona get some pies now for sure

  • @simonjbrand
    @simonjbrand 2 роки тому

    Did PB touch and tug the hair system owners 'hair system' as I wonder if he just said this and had real hair ? Paul seems a good guy; for me I'm not sure about hair systems. Jake Kent doesn't seem to be happy with his set up; comes across to me as still dealing with hair issues. Paul on the other hand may rock his system for a while and then not bother after a few years; he seems like he's moved along more with it all. He rocked the bald for 6 years and then got a system. power to him if it helps him in the long run, which is the rest of his life. He said he was more jacked at the gym when he shaved, so he may go back to this, which is a look I think can be badass.

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  2 роки тому +1

      I like how Paul shares everything about it. On his Instagram also. Seems like he’s 100% comfortable being a guy rocking a hair system 👍

  • @grahamherbert3612
    @grahamherbert3612 Рік тому

    Personally. Acceptance and freedom, then reverting to a 'syrup', would be a ridiculous retrograde step.

  • @kumarkumar-md7ee
    @kumarkumar-md7ee Рік тому

    when r u joining twitter????????????????//////

  • @DoctorBoom.
    @DoctorBoom. 4 роки тому +9

    Having hair is always so much better than being bald, this guy is a prime example.
    Guys do anything you can to save your hair and don't listen to anyone who tells you otherwise.

    • @DoctorBoom.
      @DoctorBoom. 3 роки тому

      @I like my own comments to get the ball rolling I'm the type to save my hair and have a nice head full of hair, you're the type to wear caps for the rest of your life to cover your lightbuld head

    • @DoctorBoom.
      @DoctorBoom. 3 роки тому

      @I like my own comments to get the ball rolling Okay baldie

    • @simonjbrand
      @simonjbrand 2 роки тому

      Not true - many examples refute this - Alan Shearer - better bald, Jason Statham - better bald - Rock - better bald - yadah yadah

    • @DoctorBoom.
      @DoctorBoom. 2 роки тому +1

      @@simonjbrand "many examples" same 3 people everyone use as an examaple because there is literally no one else, does the average guy have a strong face and a strong jaw like jason stateham? No I dont think so. Does the average bald guy have the shredded body of jason stateham or the roided body of the rock? No I dont think so. Stop comparing yourself to people you look nothing alike with just becasue you are both bald. The average bald guy look nothing like that. Its like I'd compare myself to brad pitt because we both have hair. Its delusional.
      And even the rock and jason stateham would look better with hair lol.

    • @simonjbrand
      @simonjbrand 2 роки тому

      @@DoctorBoom.I don't know ANYONE else who has referred to Alan Shearer. If you think guys look 'better' with hair then this is fine, go and shag guys with hair but know it's a mistake to assume everyone holds your opinion

  • @rjcarter2904
    @rjcarter2904 4 роки тому +4

    I prefer a bald head.

  • @likenl4508
    @likenl4508 4 роки тому

    If you want to wear a hair piece go ahead. Whatever makes you happy if you want it or not it's your decision because it's your life 😉

  • @Brian-ih2cw
    @Brian-ih2cw 4 роки тому +2

    It's not real though...I mean It's not real saying he looks better with it is saying he looks better as NOT himself....and that is messed up

    • @rushi6130
      @rushi6130 4 роки тому +10

      if he didn't have the genetics problem, what you see right now is what he would look if he was himself without the male pattern baldness. So you can kinnda say he is being himself hahaha

    • @xiii_luffy8241
      @xiii_luffy8241 4 роки тому +2

      make-up isn‘t real too... so are most girls messed up xD?

    • @KCIsMe
      @KCIsMe 3 роки тому +1

      I don't understand this mindset. Why can't people just be happy presenting themselves the way they want to? I feel like doing that is being yourself.

    • @simonjbrand
      @simonjbrand 2 роки тому

      What if his 'fake' hair looked actually 'better' than his natural hair ? So what ? How many women you know who's nails look nicer than their real nails ; should they stop getting these done because they're 'fake' ? Natural is overrated...Cancer being an example. Get happy bro

  • @The.Last.Guitar.Hero.
    @The.Last.Guitar.Hero. 4 роки тому +2

    I do feel sorry for the guy as his hair loss was bad and i don't think a shaved head would suit him

  • @baldnbearded
    @baldnbearded 4 роки тому +2

    As someone who does this for a business, this is one of the WORST hair systems I have ever seen on a guy.

    • @jtafernando
      @jtafernando 3 роки тому

      Then you haven't seen Chris L.

  • @Epoxinator
    @Epoxinator 2 роки тому

    If he likes it and is happy with it, more power to him. But it doesn't look real.

  • @alihus2087
    @alihus2087 4 роки тому +2

    It looks good tho

  • @davidjohn6323
    @davidjohn6323 2 роки тому

    Guys there is a cure to male pattern baldness ... Finastride !!

  • @curubalibreify
    @curubalibreify 4 роки тому +11

    I don't know what to say to this podcast but in my opinion this podcast does not help men who are going bald when they see this. This channel should motivate to embrace baldness and not hiding it!
    Also you see in the comments that
    many people say that the bald look does not suit everyone and in other videos it's the opposite that you should embrace it.
    To put it in a nutshell, i think that these podcasts destroy the motivation to embrace the balding look and instead of motivate people who are going through this, men with wigs are being heard which destroys the intention of the baldcafe channel!

    • @Zombie101
      @Zombie101 4 роки тому

      Agreed because it shows some people like paul not embracing it. These solutions exists yes, it costs a fortune and yeah it's not your true Gene's.

  • @Freakybananayo
    @Freakybananayo 4 роки тому

    17:06 "there is no answer to that" except when they hit you with the "you never heard of a hair transplant?" which is pretty damn annoying

  • @jamesclark9778
    @jamesclark9778 4 роки тому

    Id shorten the tash and the beard will look reli gd

  • @liam9020
    @liam9020 3 роки тому

    He does look better with it to be fair.
    But to much hassle, shave it and move on with the rest of your life

  • @colinwilson9263
    @colinwilson9263 4 роки тому +11

    He needs to get rid of that rug on he’s head looks ridiculous

    • @Fd20y
      @Fd20y 4 роки тому +13

      Colin Wilson Colin your comment is ridiculous tbh. Why are you here to hate you muppet

    • @colinwilson9263
      @colinwilson9263 4 роки тому

      Lewis Cook whos hating ?

    • @Fd20y
      @Fd20y 4 роки тому

      Colin Wilson get rid of that rug it looks ridiculous? That’s a bad comment, leave him alone & keep your opinions to yourself

    • @alexrobertbrian
      @alexrobertbrian 4 роки тому +6

      Personally think he looks great. Looks brilliant and its made him feel more confident and happier and that's what counts

    • @zackjudge6467
      @zackjudge6467 4 роки тому +2

      Lmao as if you could tell the difference 😂