Follow the Decluttering Process Even if you Aren't (Technically) Decluttering

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  • @juliatepe5760
    @juliatepe5760 Рік тому +105

    Life is a container, you can only fit so much into it. Very well said, Amen, Amen, Amen! Hope you enjoyed the summer.

  • @reneeroberts3319
    @reneeroberts3319 Рік тому +158

    🙌🏻Here’s a “pat in the back” for Reid!!! Dana, love that you prioritize family over the summer & happy to see you’re back! 🎉

  • @jenniferdesrosiers2585
    @jenniferdesrosiers2585 Рік тому +173

    Here's a virtual pat on the back to Reid as requested in the credits! I hope you have a great year at school. 😊

  • @persephonebasilissa5109
    @persephonebasilissa5109 Рік тому +118

    We've started following the process in our yard, too. Trash = weeds, brambles & pruning.
    Easy stuff = trash bins, chairs, tools, etc.
    Decluttering = removing plants & hardscape we don't want anymore.
    Take it there now = transplanting, moving bricks/rocks to where we do want them now, unpackaging & placing items we've purchased.
    Embracing the space/making it fit = mapping & planning new plantings with their adult sizes in mind & not overcrowding the yard with furniture & decor.

    • @karlene1292
      @karlene1292 Рік тому +4

      So smart!

    • @LaJuana558
      @LaJuana558 Рік тому +4

      Brilliant!!

    • @jeannebee2935
      @jeannebee2935 Рік тому +8

      Thank you! I copied your list on to a sticky note on my computer.

    • @LorraineHick
      @LorraineHick Рік тому +6

      You have just changed my perspective on gardening - thankyou!

    • @deborahcaudill7306
      @deborahcaudill7306 Рік тому +2

      Thanks for the to-do list. I need to put my yard to bed.

  • @grutarg2938
    @grutarg2938 Рік тому +42

    "Life is a container." That is my nugget of wisdom for the day.

  • @lilaboss6894
    @lilaboss6894 Рік тому +15

    As someone whose house is completely out of control your advice is a God send. I'm slowly working my way through my house looking for the easy stuff and it's working! I'm making progress. Thank you for being there for all of us "slobs"!

    • @pioneercynthia1
      @pioneercynthia1 8 місяців тому +3

      I'm with you! My house is pretty close (but not quite) to hoarder level, and at least _some_ of it's due to the fact that I'm almost bedridden with a back injury. I can barely keep up with things, let alone get ahead. But I am making progress.

  • @mizzezjones
    @mizzezjones Рік тому +12

    …cuz I like it….and there’s no rules….right? Love it. You go Dana!

  • @juliec3437
    @juliec3437 Рік тому +54

    When I'm overwhelmed with dishes, I find it helpful to say, "ok, I'm just going to put 10 dishes in the dishwasher for now." I usually end up doing a few more. And if I come back to it later, it seems do-able. 😊 Thx for all your tips👍

    • @cassieoz1702
      @cassieoz1702 Рік тому +3

      Hahaha, at least you have a dishwasher🤣

    • @rld1278
      @rld1278 Рік тому +5

      I have to wash by hand. I sort, then start with dishware, then containers, then pots & pans etc.

    • @cassieoz1702
      @cassieoz1702 Рік тому

      @@rld1278 yes, I get it done but just tired of the 'throw away lines' that assume so much

    • @tammypatterson7489
      @tammypatterson7489 Рік тому +5

      I have a dishwasher, but there's a lot that isn't dishwasher safe. It still works to tell myself I'll just do 1 or 2 and come back later for the rest. I usually get on a roll and get more done when I realize that 1 or 2 didn't take as long and was easier than I thought.

    • @maddythelion
      @maddythelion 11 місяців тому +3

      We have a mini dishwasher so a lot of pots and pans don't fit in it. I wash them up one at a time (each time I'm in the kitchen throughout the day) starting with the biggest, which has the biggest visual impact and leaves a physically smaller pile of things left to wash. 😊

  • @luddadudda
    @luddadudda Рік тому +32

    I regularly use the steps to declutter my mind when I get overwhelmed with work stuff as an administrative assistant! So fun to apply the metaphors of trash, easy stuff, etc to work tasks and see myself “take it there now” to not make a bigger mess! Appreciate you, Dana!!

    • @ainC1653
      @ainC1653 Рік тому

      Interesting! Never thought of applying it to the mental load this way. Will give it a try!

    • @daisybuchanan5378
      @daisybuchanan5378 Рік тому +1

      Genius

  • @susanprice3377
    @susanprice3377 Рік тому +19

    Honestly, the 5 steps work for just about any task: cleaning, decluttering, yardwork (as someone already mentioned), tackling work at a job -- the priority of getting rid of trash to clear the decks/your mind/a path, then putting out of place things where they belong works for email sorting, starting a writing project, home renovation ... whatever! The visibility rule and container concept have similarly wide applicability, and have made my life SO much easier. Thank you! (And great job, Reid. Have a wonderful semester!)

  • @ShoelessSewist
    @ShoelessSewist Рік тому +4

    Your dog arriving in the video made me smile THX

  • @lukecentea1999
    @lukecentea1999 Рік тому +5

    "life is a container" I love that quote!! Needs to be on a t shirt 😊

  • @carlajetton7560
    @carlajetton7560 Рік тому +22

    I do exactly what Dana is doing here (after I have been practicing her method for over a year now). I find that I do this with everything. Yesterday, I went to get a cookbook and next to the one I wanted was a random little book that was useful to me years ago and in good condition but "What! I still have this?!!" -- now it is into the donateable donate box. So proud. Thank you Dana -- you have changed my life. You are amazing!!

  • @jac4YouTube
    @jac4YouTube Рік тому +2

    ohhhhhh, there you are, I was wondering what happened to you, missed you, glad you are back

  • @thebeachyfarmhouse6410
    @thebeachyfarmhouse6410 Рік тому +2

    I just been reading decluttering at the speed of life and was just reading the two chapters on the kitchen. So now I cant sleep been going tru a pantry cubby. But looking for your videos for kitchen to get it more in my brain hoping it also make me sleepy. 😂 Also pat on the back to editor!

  • @czeidman8908
    @czeidman8908 Рік тому +4

    I love that you don't let people get away with 'I need to know exactly what you are saying, and it doesn't 100% apply to me, so I'm not going to do anything." Your response of, "Whatever you want to call it. Do something." I also loved the dog joining you after just hearing the leash click.

  • @janispope4295
    @janispope4295 Рік тому +11

    All I remember from your pre summer message was 5 minute pick up and do the dishes! We are still on school summer holidays in the UK and it’s getting me through. Thanks

  • @emacwakeup
    @emacwakeup 10 місяців тому +2

    I've been using the 5 steps when I'm doing the evening tidying up after dinner. Food scraps and rubbish first, then putting things in the fridge etc (easy stuff) then dishes and sweep and if there's anything that doesn't belong to where I would look first. And when the fridge etc is too full then I take something out to make room. 1 in 1 out. Love it.

  • @sandismiles2320
    @sandismiles2320 Рік тому +28

    Here’s another “Pat on the Back” for Reid! Best wishes for a great semester. And Dana, thanks so much for your 5 step process. While watching your video, I realized I use it daily in all kinds of situations! It really helps to break down the task.

  • @matildafield190
    @matildafield190 Рік тому +2

    "Life is a container.yiu can only fit so much into it"...wow! That statement hit me. Never thought of it that way. That's brilliant! Thanks for giving me a new perspective. ❤

  • @rookdebpoye6166
    @rookdebpoye6166 Рік тому +1

    Oh my goodness your baby girl is adorable. I love her.! My little picture to the left is my boy.! ❤️

  • @lizwright8613
    @lizwright8613 Рік тому +8

    Thank you for this, and for saying many times that finishing a project/hanging a picture/putting the laundry away all count as decluttering. At this point I just call all that plus cleaning and cooking "housework." I used to get so hung up on the categories!
    And well done, Reid!

  • @nicholassantiago8606
    @nicholassantiago8606 Рік тому +5

    I "Dana K. White" everything. The process works!

  • @JaneLeask
    @JaneLeask Рік тому +6

    I now have you in my head Dana ‘do the dishes’. Actually been the most life changing. Beyond that 2 most powerful are : folding laundry out of the drier (I now realise how much I actually have) and put it where it belongs : it just goes there whether I’m decluttering or just living everyday AND it’s a big house so never done as much exercise in my home. Thank you Dana xxx

  • @debraneighbors8764
    @debraneighbors8764 Рік тому +8

    So glad you are back! I hope you had a great summer. I've been doing my dishes every day and my kitchen always looks great now. Thank you!!! I've been using your 5-step decluttering process throughout the house, and things are really starting to look good. We are now at the point where the rest of my family have noticed the improvements and have started decluttering their own areas. A win for sure! You are my #1 guide and inspiration in this process. Thank you so much!!!

  • @nrgltwrkr2225
    @nrgltwrkr2225 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you so much! I was sooo stuck and just those words "Start with the trash" made me cry. I just needed a first step to get me moving. 😘

  • @3tecs
    @3tecs Рік тому +22

    Awesome point about taking summers off! That is my goal for next year! Kudos to you! 👏

  • @tnctnc5972
    @tnctnc5972 Рік тому +9

    I am so proud of you that you do this for your family such a blessing to have a mom who takes time off for her children and husband ❤

  • @lauriegarland5728
    @lauriegarland5728 Рік тому +7

    You are the first person that really goes through the thinking process and that is so helpful. I find I look at the mess , get overwhelmed and then just clam up and do nothing, it becomes debilitating!

  • @jenobenour3379
    @jenobenour3379 Рік тому +2

    Pat on the back for Reid, and good luck this school year. 😊

  • @popbre3
    @popbre3 Рік тому +1

    Ok I’m admitting to the universe that my kitchen/ house always looks like the before. I’m completely overwhelmed by it all. I thank you for this video and giving me a an easy way to get started and getting it all under control.

  • @clairemontgomerycampbell5261
    @clairemontgomerycampbell5261 Рік тому +3

    Poor doggy, always up for a walk. 😊

  • @MelissaB3
    @MelissaB3 Рік тому +12

    Reid, welcome back from your year abroad and helping from college definitely earns a “pat on the back!” Missed the videos this summer but was very happy for you enjoying your family!

  • @anuissac5933
    @anuissac5933 Рік тому +5

    A big "pat on the back" for Reid. Awesome work, glad you are still helping your mom out even after going to college❤

  • @Karen-pe6oc
    @Karen-pe6oc Рік тому +1

    Pat on the back for Reid! Actually, for Reid and Dana. Thank you. I am excited for the Take Your House Back course.

  • @RaeInTime
    @RaeInTime Рік тому +1

    Your system has become the best life coaching advice!!🎉❤⭐🌻👍

  • @crystal13l
    @crystal13l Рік тому +1

    Reid is the hero! Have a great year!

  • @allyv68
    @allyv68 Рік тому +1

    Dana!!!! So glad to see you again. ❤

  • @alwayslearning6763
    @alwayslearning6763 Рік тому +7

    So happy you are back! I often listen (re-listen) to your books to help me JUST DO SOMETHING!!

    • @CopingwithGrattitude
      @CopingwithGrattitude Рік тому +1

      Me too…her blog from the beginning is so very good…and motivating ☺️

  • @mummy005
    @mummy005 Рік тому +1

    I love the little notes Reid puts at the end of your videos!

  • @ninsartcabinet
    @ninsartcabinet Рік тому +1

    Awesome job Reid! I always look forward to seeing your commentary at the end. I would be so bummed if it wasn’t there.

  • @TheWigleFamily
    @TheWigleFamily Рік тому +1

    Thank you for this encouragement! I have a crazy mess downstairs of post-vacation mess and crazy life. Now I know I can tackle it. One bite at a time.

  • @boasjanet7265
    @boasjanet7265 Рік тому +1

    Glad to see you BOTH back! Thank you Dana and pat on the back to Reid!

  • @angelawhipple5376
    @angelawhipple5376 Рік тому +1

    Hi, Reid! Thanks for editing from your dorm room. We appreciate you! Here’s a pat on the back. Have a great week and a good semester.😎

  • @justine132
    @justine132 Рік тому +2

    Life is a container..OMG mind blown!!!!

  • @crystalsea72
    @crystalsea72 Рік тому +3

    YES!!!! Thank you for saying this out lout. Without realizing it I've been doing "decluttering" on everything, decluttering steps for the bags of groceries when I bring them home and put them away, decluttering steps on packages I get in the mail, decluttering steps on my car when I get home from shopping, decluttering steps on the fridge when I'm about to go shopping. YES... trash, easy stuff and duh clutter for maintenance, every space, all the time. Thank you!!!

  • @stempelwerkbysandra8058
    @stempelwerkbysandra8058 Рік тому +3

    Pat on the back for Reid, and so glad that you‘re back, Dana 🙏🏼 the kitchen is the only room I keep clean, no matter how overwhelmed or tired I feel before I go to bed. The cluttered kitchen at the next morning, when I want to make coffee and have a breakfast lead me to bad emotions - so cleaning my kitchen is the last thing I do, before I do my bed routine. But it was a hard piece of work to established that routine and need several of your videos. So thank you, Dana 🥰

  •  Рік тому +1

    Thank you Reid! We appreciate you helping your mom 😊

  • @RuthLang
    @RuthLang Рік тому +1

    Dana, I love you! "I know some of y'all are saying, why do you have stuff on your counters? Because I like it and there are no rules!"
    Also, pat on the back for Reid for the first dorm room edit! I love your messages at the end and always stay to see those.

  • @katattack907
    @katattack907 Рік тому +1

    Welcome back! Hope your summer was wonderful. And I hope Reid is loving college dorm life!

  • @hannahcrumley3103
    @hannahcrumley3103 Рік тому +14

    Reid, have a great year! You do a great job!
    Thank you Dana! You keep me sane while dealing with overwhelming decluttering situations!

  • @vonny10096
    @vonny10096 Рік тому +1

    Yaaaaay welcome back, love how you take the summer off for your family....cos we can binge the older videos, knowing you will be back soon. Reid i love your Comments at the end of your Moms videos...huge pat on the back for those and your editing skills.

  • @pamspeptalks
    @pamspeptalks Рік тому +2

    Reid, thank you for making the credits bigger and slower! I always look forward to reading them!

  • @elizabethrodgers2822
    @elizabethrodgers2822 Рік тому +10

    Glad to have you back Dana! Good job Reid. I was rewatching your “1 hour better” videos, especially the live one, and wanted to ask for more please!!!! A full length version if possible! ❤

  • @GratefulDeb270
    @GratefulDeb270 Рік тому +1

    Amen! Life is a container! Love your books and now, after followings your suggestions, I love my home! ❤

  • @lynnettelg
    @lynnettelg Рік тому +2

    To Reid: pat, pat, pat. 👏👏👏 Welcome back!

  • @papernummies9893
    @papernummies9893 Рік тому +9

    Thank you, Dana! It helps to know I’m not alone in how my brain works, too. Helps so much! And, thanks Reid for the amazing editing and end cap. Always so fun! Happy colleging!

  • @maddies757
    @maddies757 2 місяці тому

    It helps so much to see your messy kitchen. Ive decluttered a lot of stuff and everything has a home now but my house is still a mess most of the time. I keep thinking it's because i still have too much stuff, but I guess things just get cluttered and dirty no matter what if you're actually using them. I know that should be obvious, but i guess i thought once i got rid of stuff i wouldnt have to clean up huge messes ever again and things would magically go back in their homes instead of being left out. It's nice to know that it's not something I'm doing wrong.

  • @laurat7324
    @laurat7324 Рік тому +1

    Here's another pat on the back for Reid. I was just thinking yesterday that I miss the videos with his "credits" at the end. Loved seeing your pup show up!! She saw the leash and wanted to go for a walk.

  • @dawnalowe2687
    @dawnalowe2687 Рік тому +1

    Dana, so happy you took the summer off for family time. Thank you, Reid!!

  • @karrenbrown8453
    @karrenbrown8453 Рік тому +2

    Yea Reid!! Thanks for still being a part of your moms business, even away at school. She & her heart for teaching others have made a real difference in my life & I am so grateful!

  • @piplux3805
    @piplux3805 Рік тому +2

    I love your personality, the way you help us all, and am so happy to have found you. I feel like we all need each other!

  • @pattiakamimi0828
    @pattiakamimi0828 Рік тому +1

    Thanks for sharing your wisdom Dana!! “Forward progress” will be my new mantra😊

  • @reginaeudy9249
    @reginaeudy9249 Рік тому +16

    Pat on the back for Reid!!! Great job helping your mom!

  • @lucystrider728
    @lucystrider728 Рік тому +6

    Sheee's baaaAaack!! I am so happy! I am also glad you took time for yourself and your family, but your help has been so valuable to me with figuring out how to tackle my giant project, I am sure glad to have you back! And Reid, what a great guy and very funny!

  • @lovefortruth3414
    @lovefortruth3414 5 місяців тому

    I have been using this method every single time I clean and tidy, even with a house that still has lots of areas that still need de-cluttering. And I'm finding, each area of my house is a little bit better for it. And, tge areas that are in maintenance mode are more functional and easier to maintain. Your method is genius!

  • @LedgerAndLace
    @LedgerAndLace Рік тому

    WELCOME BACK!!! Aaaaaand a pat on the back for Reid! 🙂 I have a collage of Dana quotables around your flowchart on a kitchen cabinet. Today's:
    "I don't know where to start . . . but I DO know where to start!" TRASH.
    "What is EASY here?"
    "Whatever moves you forward, whatever makes your space better, that's what you should be doing."

  • @mayflowerlace
    @mayflowerlace Рік тому +1

    Nice to see you again, Reid!🎉

  • @1inNUMBER
    @1inNUMBER Рік тому +1

    Pat. Pat. Pat to Reid. Thank you.
    Dana, welcome back and thank you for sharing your processes.❤

  • @mindylarsen3910
    @mindylarsen3910 Рік тому +6

    You are seriously the best. I was introduced to you through Dawn and the TYHB course, and I am so glad. What you share is so helpful. Thank you!

  • @TheRozylass
    @TheRozylass Рік тому +1

    Your process is so easy that it can help children clean their rooms when they are overwhelmed. Each step can be done and it will make the room better. Keep up the good work.

  • @MelindaPlainandSimple
    @MelindaPlainandSimple Рік тому +1

    Pat on the back Reid! 👏👏👏 There should be an emoji for that. Thanks, Dana! I hope you enjoyed your time off. 🤗🌷💕

  • @antoinettehigh586
    @antoinettehigh586 Рік тому +1

    Thanks Reid! I appreciate you helping your mom

  • @tjbradley5401
    @tjbradley5401 Рік тому +1

    Way to go, Reid! 🎉 And I love this video, that is how I have been cleaning for years and it really works ❤ Thank you, Dana, for pioneering the way for us and keeping it real. 🥰

  • @debbielauck3131
    @debbielauck3131 Рік тому +3

    Thank you, Reid! Have a great year!!

  • @redhead13
    @redhead13 Рік тому +2

    My son headed off to college this week! So praise for Reid and for him!! 🥳
    Dana, loved your podcast recently where you talked about kids moving out ❤️ so good! And your process is fantastic! Always works! And I'm someone who loves cleaning and organizing. And I have that same shirt!! You look good in it too! Lol!

  • @melissareads_and_stuff
    @melissareads_and_stuff Рік тому +2

    Pat on the back Reid! Also thank you for showing how to apply this to cleaning/daily messes Dana!

  • @debbiev.1311
    @debbiev.1311 Рік тому

    So happy to have you back!! ❤ Glad you had a nice summer with family!! 🥰

  • @ashlovemore
    @ashlovemore Рік тому +3

    So glad you’re back!! 🙌🏼

  • @nmartin5551
    @nmartin5551 Рік тому

    LOVE you, the dog, and most importantly, the message! The spinning out thing is such a thing for me.

  • @kristenpaauwe2511
    @kristenpaauwe2511 Рік тому +1

    Your process is really brilliant! It works every time!! Thank you Dana, you have helped me so much!!

  • @juliacockroft8745
    @juliacockroft8745 Рік тому +1

    Good job Reid! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @michellenmakeup
    @michellenmakeup Рік тому +2

    yeay! so happy to see you again! I missed you so much and glad you are back from your summer break:)

  • @3TXSisters
    @3TXSisters Рік тому +4

    Dana, Good to have you back. I'm relatively new to your channel and process. I hate clutter, so I'm a stuffer. Collect everything before company comes and stuff it in my closet or a drawer. I'm getting better at using your methods. I'm 72, yes it does sound old, but my brain thinks I'm in my 40s. That works until I can't physically do things every day. Today is a good day and I'm glad I had your video for encouragement. Taco Bueno! you had to mention it, I'm from the DFW area but live in Florida. When I visit my family, Taco Bueno, Grandy's rolls, Schlotzsky's, Sonny Bryan's Smokehouse and Spring Creek Barbeque are a must. Take care, Linda 🦋

    • @3TXSisters
      @3TXSisters Рік тому

      @@MegInASheathDress That's true.

  • @brendatomlinson
    @brendatomlinson Рік тому +2

    Pat on the back Reid! 🙌🏻
    I am decluttering my eBay store as I watch this.

  • @cheerfulmouse
    @cheerfulmouse Рік тому +2

    👏👏👏 Great editing Reid 💛

  • @Luckygirl280
    @Luckygirl280 Рік тому

    The comments/credits at the end were awesome! Thanks for the helpful info 😊

  • @magswilliams-fuller8879
    @magswilliams-fuller8879 Рік тому +2

    I know it's already been done but virtual pat on the back!
    Nice to have you back after the summer, you were missed, but I I totally get why you take a break, and love that you do. Everyone needs downtime, and spending time with family is a solid investment too.

  • @angemac1519
    @angemac1519 Рік тому +3

    Hi Dana welcome back. Good for you taking time for yourself & your family. I hope you’re feeling refreshed. I look to your words of wisdom as always xxxxx

  • @brandefoote7890
    @brandefoote7890 Рік тому +1

    Good advice

  • @helenstokoe4319
    @helenstokoe4319 Рік тому

    Well done Reid, we love you!

  • @e-r2961
    @e-r2961 Рік тому +1

    Lol, well done Dana and Reid!

  • @monaleencabaron3694
    @monaleencabaron3694 Рік тому +2

    I use Dana’s process too coz I have a huge house with lots of people and so even though we’re minimalists, life still happens. And looking for trash first ALWAYS gets the momentum going for me and then before I know it, it’s all done. Thanks Dana!! 😊

  • @cinderellafan362436
    @cinderellafan362436 Рік тому +1

    Great job Reid! Have a super blessed year! Great video Dana! As always- completely helpful. 😊 Thanks and glad you are back. Hope you enjoyed your summer. 😊 Blessings! ❤❤

  • @jsavannah
    @jsavannah 10 місяців тому

    You're the best, Dana. Showing your own overwhelming mess makes you so relatable.

  • @misst2474
    @misst2474 Рік тому +1

    Welcome back. Dana. And "Pat on the back!" Reid!

  • @kennethbailey9853
    @kennethbailey9853 Рік тому +1

    Thank you.

  • @lovefortruth3414
    @lovefortruth3414 9 місяців тому

    Your kitchen the night before! Yes! The pain is real! 😂❤ . Wow! I see how the process would work in all the daily cleaning/tudying/organising. I'm going to try it the next time my kitchen is a disaster (usually after dinner lol). I get stuck with which orixess I-m going to use, and I switch up tge insert in which I do tge things, almost every time, looking for that magical process that will make it feel easy for me.

  • @makingsunshine3292
    @makingsunshine3292 Рік тому

    Ms Dana, your 5 steps have saved my sanity in what feels like an impossible situation in my home. Nearly every day, I walk through my house with a trash bag and look for trash (most generated by the rest of my family) because it truly is the best way to get started and move through the overwhelm. Thank you, thank you. I wish I could chat with you in person.
    God bless❤

  • @susanbliese3603
    @susanbliese3603 Рік тому

    Dana! Welcome back! You help me so much! Pat Pat for Reid. I like his editor comments😂