Why Men Are Rejecting Women Over 30 For Marriage
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She says she's not dating . I bet someone still clapping
yep. still on that🍆-go-round
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FACTS 😎 👍🏾
That part!!!
Most young men are becoming more increasingly aware of the dangers of marriage and simply don’t want to take the risk of having everything they work for taken away from them because of a woman’s feelings
Facta
This is why women are stepping away from dating or interacting with men altogether. What’s the point of dating a man who’s not interested in marriage?
Kevin Samuels was right…. A lot are left overs 🤷🏾♂️ ball on top
Hard to trust them since they usually have everything else taken care of by that age. This includes children and a reliable sex partner. They're tired, lonely, and looking for a student loan bailout.
That woman said nothing about being a wife but only wanting to be a mother and having kids.
Women don't realize men listen to what you say and slot yall when we get older. Hearing a woman talk like her automatically tells men with real intentions she is a liability.
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Facts. Well said
I immediately thought the same thing.
That’s the scary part. It’s more BW like her actively preparing for motherhood and raising kids with little to no regard for preparation to becoming a wife. Sounds like that’s why there’s less regard to considering a Man’s wants and needs.
Saying you’re ready for kids, but you’re not saying you’re ready for marriage is crazy
exactly and no one called her out on that , frustrating
Scoot over, I'm jumping on this bandwagon witchu fam. Tyler Perry got people thinking "I can do bad all by myself" rather than it takes a village or it's just the two of us in mind. That's why families are falling apart now. Everybody wants to be the star and not done wants to be a great co-star.
"you're on MY gameplan" told me everything about her husband she wears tha pants
I was looking for this comment 😂😂
She gives off the vibe in every episode
So what?
I’ve been married for 16 years. Two sons by my wife, no other kids. My advice to young men is this era is to not consider marriage all. It’s totally not worth it.
So where is the convo about why men don't want women over 30?
A woman’s youth, beauty, purity, fertility, good attitude, feminine character traits, basic domestic skills and a clean past is her TRUE value as a woman in the eyes of God fearing marriage minded family oriented men!!
Many of those women didn’t save themselves for marriage/motherhood!! Therefore many men are rejecting non virgin women to be their wives and mothers to their children!!
Her husband left her because of her smart mouth
Women want a car, house, and business/career at an early age, seeking these things purposefully, but I will eventually get there one day regarding marriage. Who said that you couldn't achieve all these things with a husband?
No one said you can't achieve those things with a husband but why wait? If women have the means and opportunity to do all those things, why would they let being unmarried stop them?
@jas1565 because once a women becomes her own entity.... its much harder her to pair in unison with a man. A relationship only works when 2 becomes 1.... When its 2 seperate entities in a relationship it NEVER works. God leads the man on his purpose and the man leads the women who is the mans "helpmate". The legacy is for the man's purpose. Thats why "accomplished" women have a hard time in relationships. Just think about it.... a man will make $1 million dollars and gladly spend it on his wife and kids. He will gladly purchase a home and cars for his family. A woman will make $1 million and spend it on vanity, clothes, surgery,bbl, veneers, trips, and a bunch of selfish things.... if she ever had to buy a house for her husband and kids.... she will kick him out, put him on child support, ruin his life, and look for a man with money.
@@jas1565 You have only one life, can't hit reset, and you can't have both.
I am a older and I rather get a woman that is 25 years old than my own age just because of the younger woman is in her prime and she can be teachable as well woman who are 30 years old they set in their ways and they are not changing for any one
A young woman in her prime for kids would be great; however, western culture has changed, and women feel money, kids, and happiness doesn't require a man.
Rico came with that close the show energy. He's the heart and sould of this podcast. Rico shines without trying to shine. He just seems so logical and articulate for someone so young. Cudos to that brother from another brother.
Bottom line he’s just more intelligent than his fellow hosts
the fact that men are naturally more logical and women are more emotional is on full dislay here.
Marriage has mostly been religious concept, as western countries move away from religion marriage means less, especially with the government involved
Tell that to the judge during a divorce
If you KNOW you want kids, a chick should not be waiting until her 30s to marry.
I'm so glad women do NOT listen to people like you. I am thankful me and my husband had our kids mid 30s. While other girls having them young killing them and still trying to party. My kids have a great life. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
She is pushing for people to get married after 30. Which essentially means that she is advocating for women to give their best years to the streets. This is the problem. I don't want a woman who is in her least desirable physical age. I want a woman who is in her prime. Don't nobody want to spend a bunch of money on a car that got a bunch of miles on it and been passed around by multiple owners
Men are not handing out wedding rings like candy. You need to find out the stats on how many men are proposing by age 25 and the reasons why not. Find out how many women have never been proposed to by age 40. A lot of men are taught they’re too young in their 20s for marriage because they haven’t lived and especially now can’t afford homes to put a wife in. Boys are not taught to date for the purpose of marriage. So they become non marriageable men.
Thats very true ..men are promoted to not get married too young while women are mainly promoted to settle down and find his hands. Iono .maybe is just me
Women mature earlier than men, which is why a woman should marry a slightly older man. Now, regarding men handing out wedding rings like candy, we pursue what is different in quality, not quantity, and with all the implants, hair weaves, nails, BBl, just another 40 shades of THOT everywhere.
I agree that boys are not taught to date with the purpose of being married early, but the reasons are mothers will teach their sons that women aren't shii. Single mothers go on to preach to their sons that she's only about this and only about that. Don't get caught up. Modern men are also deathly afraid of divorce. We know that women change like the weather and there's no space for that to happen once the government is involved in our union, without men coming up on the short end of the stick. There is nothing more terrifying then being in financial ruin because of the bad marriage contract.
Microwave unions have been normalized making it about a wife's happiness not duty to the family
I was 30 when i met my ex wife she was 18 at the time, in my 47 years i have never met a woman of the age of 30 or above that i wanted to marry.
At the end of the day, people have become entitled back in the Day Marriage was to further your family line not for happiness
Marriage for happiness is idiotic imo
Feminism won
@@szn1580being unhappy in a marriage is idiotic
Why would anyone want to bring children into or raise children in a situation they're not happy in? And the same women who were getting married to "further their family line" are the same one's telling younger women not to do that.
@@jas1565marriage is about duty. Your man should be a leader and provider and competent. If he takes care of you and the kids fuck your happiness. Marriage is about duty
Yall want women to start having babies in their 30s😂😂 our ancestors shaking their heads...marriage is a young person game, so u can have your children at a healthy age, build a legacy together, gain property together...ect. If you want to live your life, cool...but there are more consequences to waiting for marriage till you're 30 to get married.
Salute. I couldn't have said it better myself, my bro. Social media, THOTs, and BOSS chick have corrupted our Western culture making women think that they don't need a man for anything.
All countries that have western eurocentric influenced culture aka feminism push having kids out further
Don't get married young, live your life have bunch of sexual partners, hurt, drama, abortions and baggage from fail past relationships, only to say in your mid to late 30's now you want marriage and to settle down. People with multiple partners and failed relationships suffers when they decide it time to settle down
There are tons of women who want marriage young. Plenty of girls under the age of 23 who want marriage right now.
22 IS NOT YOUNG!!! Are we less intelligent than our parents who were married with kids by 25?
At about 12 mins. The host with the glasses said it perfectly. The chaos and the fact everybody should be dating for purpose and not just to have fun or experience. It destroys society. Because now there is nobody waiting at the finishline. Nobody looking to finish at all.
That’s ridiculous that someone would say you start dating with a purpose at 25 years old.
Meaning no hot girl summer. Not dating for sex.
Why would it be ridiculous to start dating with a purpose at 25 just asking and how old you?
If you want a big family, you probably should start dating at 25 with a purpose so you can possibly be married at 28 and start having the kids that you wanna have without running into problems like most delusional women
that probably make sense to black women who date with a purpose after bearing pookies children after age 30.
@@eugeneclayton2558 women should ALWAYS date with a PUROPSE of MARRIAGE. why would a woman date? to get the pipe? run thru? push out babies? come one, man.
i was 30 when i met my wife, she was 18 at the time. I never met a woman over the age of 30 i wanted to marry.
If a woman tells me I’m on her “game plan” , I’m O U T !!!!!!!!!!
These are what fathers and mothers and grandparents should tell you!
NY Post Newspaper stats is beyond wild! I thought ALL people dated with a purpose
My wife was just short of being a spinster marrying at 26 in 1992. Now BW get married at 31 years old.
The objective of dating is not to break up. The objective is find a person that you match with and if things go well you stay forever. The reason couples break up is because things didn't work out, but you don't get together to break up. Women that want to get married act like wives and men see them and most of them are married. Women that want to wait is because they just want to h$3 around and experience fun things and most of them are not suitable for marriage and when they do get married they bring a lot of baggage.
Always ole head wall hitters talkin' down to marriage.
The bottom line it’s not that young guys are just listening to what people say. They see marriages failing n how unhappy most men are, then you lose half your stuff when she divorces you…
It’s not a lot it’s being an adult
Not being a wife, but being a mother... insane
skrong, independent, ,don't need no man. least to be picked as wives.
Its a broken social contract in America so everything gets pushed out further and dont last as long. Western eurocentric way....
Should women coordinate marriage with having children? Should women consider her peak fertility years when deciding to start a proper family? A family that starts with a husband and wife?
The healthiest babies.......women having children at an later age....they skipped the best years for kids. What about multiple kids?
Birth rate is barely 2...larger families are rare
She's looking good as hell in that dress
F*** what Y'all Seh'
You don’t have to experience something to know that it’s bad for you. There’s a saying that goes a smart man learns from his own mistakes and a wise man learns from the mistakes of others. You don’t have to be married to know that if you do enter a marriage and things go south as a man that can leave you in financial ruin.. She’s only speaking like that because she’s already married. I’ve never done crack, but i’ve seen what its done to others and do know that it’s bad for you. Not saying that the two are 1:1, but just using it for context.
I’ve learned from a lot of these podcasts etc. women don’t know what men in general look for, how they judge women in the dating scene, and what we value or don’t. Majority of men when we meet a woman or see her for the first time. We start “placing” them. Just based off looks. Then actions. In our mind we know early if we would marry you. If you just a bop. And basically you can always lower yourself but it’s almost impossible to rise up into a different tier
I believe women over a certain age are not a benefit to a man that wants to be married. For one any experience that a woman would bring to that marriage would either be a negative one and as a result a liability to that man’s life and if it is a positive experience it is a positive experience given by another man that she will critique intentionally or unintentionally her current man by. Second she’s set in her ways for the most part which could be another deficit to that man if it’s a counter to his purpose and the plans he has for their life together as head of the household. Finally the issue of children, if she has them that brings its own separate set of issues and if she doesn’t how many could that man get from her with concerns of fertility/health issues to take into consideration.
The younger generation have enough sense to consider the statistics. Look around you, and you will see. It's just not worth it.
Who moves forward every time the women talk😂😂😂😂
She settles for the simp. Her answers and tone shows he was definitely not her choice
The ealier you can get to things in life the better off you'll be.
You don’t have kids in a situation, you have them in a marriage. That’s the problem some women believe more in having kids than having the marriage/relationship that creates children.
Why men are rejecting woman over 30 very simple woman reaches 30 right? most woman masculine by the time they reach 30 years old. but you want guys to settle for that hell no. Guys are waking up and they will get a younger woman with less baggage and have kids and marry her
Somewhat correct, a woman becoming masculine is self-learned from a very young age of girls observing their mother, families, and the modern-day "BOSS Chick." The damage is already done before they are 14 with role modes like Sexyy Red, Cardi B, etc.
Lol why would any young woman opt for marriage knowing this is how men feel about women once they hit 30? Does the 25 year old stay 25 forever?
@@jas1565My thoughts exactly, and after 30 the abuse and cheating starts. Women get older, were human.
In mammals is it normal for the older females to get pregnant? Or younger females?
when rico said "1 out of 10 women dont know who the biological father is of their child" the women were like "whaaaaaat, whats the source"? in total disbelief. Rico said "Actually the NY Post actually posted it".... ***************CRICKETSSSSSS********************** lmfao!!!!
Why do other countries refer to women over 25 year old woman and unmarried as leftovers?
I don't want wrinkles.
At 10:45. I want to say it's great to want to be a mom and I am not knocking the young lady here but what we are missing is somebody genuinely wanting to be the other half of a man when you say that. Babies do not come from nowhere and if the woman does not want to take care of a man with the same desire she wants to take care of a kid, it will be destined for a single family home. Men don't say they want a child without saying I want an entire family (woman included).
This is crazy. Women have always had children younger. Why would you wait until the end of your fertility to have children. You are putting yourself and your child at risk for complications. Our people lack the ability to critically think and just go with whatever is popular
Sis told a man to be on her game plan #sysbm
People need to take their time when choosing a life partner. There’s really no reason to rush, no matter what society says. Also, just because it didn’t work out for some people and others doesn’t mean that it won’t work out for you. While divorces are more common these days it doesn’t mean that marriage still isn’t worth it.
However, I’m bias because I’m married and most people in my immediate family are married as well (parents 35 years, one cousin 24 years, another cousin 22 years, another cousin 20 years, another cousin 8 years, sister 12 years, aunt and uncle 45+, grandparents 65+, and etc.). There’s nothing like growing old with someone who has had your back for decades.
Women initiate 80% of the divorce. Marriage doesn't benefit men in America.
@@MrLobo1024this stat is frequently misrepresented. Using it without context means nothing.
There's always a purpose when dating. The purpose just isn't always for marriage.
I’m not dating 😒
Translation: I’m still gettin clapped up by all the handsome Tyrone’s
This video scares me
Is really that hard for them to understand basic biology? If i as a man want to have a bunch of kids, 30 and over is just not gonna cut it, especially with all the risks involved.
She only wants to be a mother not a wife. Thus the reason why so many single mothers smh
What happened to growing together?
black women are bosses.
It would make sense if we had a functional tribal community but we are to spread out. Yah really talking about a lottery not a guarantee. Forgetting one thing the power of frustration. Everyone speaking ain’t married.
Meanwhile Becky is getting married at 22 and 23.
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Both sides don't have a point. Common sense has that point that as a woman with a biological time clock, it is only wise to marry early if you ever want kids raised in a proper home
Women are not really the prize some are but some are not
Problem is dudes don’t want the battered female. That “ live your life phase” creates trauma and habits that a lot of dudes just don’t want to doctor out of you. Learn to date when you’re in highschool lol make a solid choice before 25. It’s not that hard
If you're not married by 24 you wasn't picked
I really hate this fake narrative because this title is not true at all
The selfish woman shall roam alone...
Ready for kids but not ready for marriage? These tethers are ruining my country
Come on amanda whats going on not datting?..that cute girl síndrome!🥺🥺🥺
what are you even saying? women having children early in life isnt a life long commitment? after 28 its downhill. You gotta be like other races of people. Date and marry early. You cant go to school cause you married? you cant grow together? like what are we saying. You getting your life together for you and not for a future partner. Which leaves independent women.
Man dont waiste there time to! Whe expert nothing and thats why they go there own way! Simpel
Y is it soooo important for women to get married?…..does marriage really matter if at the end of the day ur happy with each other?
It will matter when they're older and single living with a cat.
I know if I’m with a woman x plus yrs and she hasn’t got the ring she is not the one. I’m not investing or building just to part ways… waist of time
Yes, marriage and family is the foundation of civilization!!
we want the nia long haired chick to address why she was so upset and uncomfortable when the smart guy was on their podcast?????