Hmm I wonder who, Oh yeah uttp. And the fact that their saying their “30” is even worse, most of us are definitely under 30 and we act more mature then them. Hell they’re being out right hypocrites, and keep telling themselves that they make better content while having zero videos.
That's very true! And a tooth for a tooth. Did you know that actually comes from some old Babylonian laws? They were smarter than some people today, I think.
@@DayDreamingWriters Real, That's why I'm disgusted by my ex bbf's friends allowing this when they're like older than her-. Edit : woah it's 2025 7th January- I didn't know I written this- but I mean I still agree with your reply.
@miffyXcore dw i'm fine!! ty for asking, i've been doing homeschooling for a while now and i'm happier than ever, also i got a cat so that made me even happier :3
Even if she didn't say she was a "mean girl" in HS I would know immediately based on how she talks, her hand and face gestures and playing with her hair, I AM in highschool and I can assure you this woman never got out of her highschool "mean girl" phase
@UTubeTrollPolice298saying you make better content is an objective statement and opinion. Stop spamming the comments and allow your content to speak for itself. Nothing wrong with making a singular comme t yourself and asking people to check out your work, but to put down the creator who's UA-cam channel you're spamming is just rude and lazy. Do you tgibj that will encourage anybody to click, and even if they do, do you really want that to be people's first opinion of you?
Abusive parents, like mine, also say the same thing - that they abuse their kids for their kids’ benefit and in order to “toughen them up” so that they can “handle” the world. And the actual statistics prove that bullying and abuse actually makes people do a lot WORSE in life, while abusers and bullies typically do a lot better than their victims. So that self-described mean girl is lying and spinning the truth in order to justify her behavior, which is completely unacceptable. To have C-PTSD from being bullied and abused like me is a literal disability, it’s no joke.
This is also so fucking true because I have friend that literally has he worst adults in life, and I tell you for sure that THAT DID NOT MAKE THEM 'TOUGHEN UP FIR THE REAL WORLD' like stfu they literally caused them to have so so much trauma and depression as well that took a major part of their life now and they are STIL FIGHTING TO THIS DAY. THIS IS SERIOUS the fact that parents and the mean girl said that this was okay NO IT'S NOT you're thinking that it benefits them wig the intention of hurting them without that thought when you hurt them in the first place and you're now thinking it's a good thing? Have you thought real hard about your words before you say them? Both before you say it them or after when you say 'oh this is fine..' and the fact she said that 'oh yeah I just don't think about what I say before saying it okayy' girl no stfu that jus means you dont care about thinking twice causing harm to them and won't keep shit to yourself. Don't ever hurt people not only will it stick to them for a very long it may even be there forever. What you do WILL have an effect on you nothing can excuse any type of abuse or form of bullying whoever thinks like that can get the hell out
gentle parenting prepares them for the real world while teaching them to deal w their feelings etc, toughen up is a shitty abuse style. man up to boys discounts they have feelings and we see how that ends up. sorry you were abused.
Seriously, I’ve been bullied in middle school and it was so bad that it affected my self confidence in high school. It stays with you, just like all abuse.
@UTubeTrollPolice298 saying you make better content is an objective statement and opinion. Stop spamming the comments and allow your content to speak for itself. Nothing wrong with making a singular comme t yourself and asking people to check out your work, but to put down the creator who's UA-cam channel you're spamming is just rude and lazy. Do you tgibj that will encourage anybody to click, and even if they do, do you really want that to be people's first opinion of you?
Lemme say this as someone who was bullied: I was bullied three years ago by a girl and that shit still affects me TO THIS DAY. She has not changed nor has she made an effort to change. She used the exact same excuse as the girl in this video that she was "gOiNg ThRoUgH a LoT" and this girl was spoiled rotten. She was allowed to throw parties, she was everyone's friend and she got everything she wanted on a silver platter and then two weeks ago she said that I made her life a living hell and I "traumatised her" by venting to my friends about these experiences that I was going through while dealing on top of a shitty home life. These people really are all the same and deserve the same level of respect they show other people.
Many of us can relate to you and understand your pain. In reality, the bullies are usually never going through something. Even if they are, it doesn't justify ruining someone else's life and hurting them.
I could barely watch her video, from her horrible words to the constant hair flipping - I always try not to judge people but I strongly dislike her and that terrible video
Ikr I hate people who think just because it was years ago it's not relevant anymore, like yes it is. Like If i kidnapped your mother 4 years ago would you still be traumatized? Yes you would
If she's in Moby Dick and the whale made her lost a leg, she'll never forget about it as well. Bullying not only can cause you unalive or lose a body part in extreme cases, but it can affect you mentally.
@UTubeTrollPolice298 saying you make better content is an objective statement and opinion. Stop spamming the comments and allow your content to speak for itself. Nothing wrong with making a singular comme t yourself and asking people to check out your work, but to put down the creator who's UA-cam channel you're spamming is just rude and lazy. Do you tgibj that will encourage anybody to click, and even if they do, do you really want that to be people's first opinion of you?
The fact she referenced bullying in k-dramas made my jaw drop. Thing is, there are a few K-Dramas which complied real stories to show the viciousness of Korean bullying, I know certain stories where people are almost killed or disfigured due to bullying. You can’t just say “there are worse things so my actions are justified” Both are terrible, but one being worse changes nothing about the first. Bullying still inflicts so much anxiety….
Exactly and just bc one form of bullying is worse that doesn’t mean that the victim can’t complain abt the bullying they went through. Their bullying was still bad
I was bullied in elementary school and middle school with it being the worst during junior high. It built up to me shoving one of my bullies so hard he broke a table from how hard he landed. Years later, someone on discord is talking about wanting to bring bullying back. I said it shouldn't and talked about my experiences. He said "The fact you stood up for yourself literally proves bullying works". The stupidity was unfathomable
@cams1234 Do you think people who have been bullied don’t do that? They do, actually. And even then people don’t stop, It’s eventually gonna effect you If it’s been going on for a while. Also, do you even realize how rude this comment is, just because you clearly don’t understand how much being bullied can hurt doesn’t mean that you can say that being bullied won’t effect people?
@cams1234 We did everything to snap back and still get punished by authorities for it,what would you want us to do?Harbor toxic positivity on our minds?
She travelled for almost four years? Penny to the pound: mummy and daddy got money. Nobody coming straight out of high school is paying to travel. Unless she work/travelled.
Im not trying to defend what this person said, but I did know a person who did that who did not have money from their parents. They worked as a bartender and traveled for years. This was not that long ago, either. If you don’t mind staying in a hostel, you can backpack through Europe cheaper than you think.
when i was in high school the bully got extra rude during the 2nd to last week of school bc he was about to leave, so i bullied him back one day, and he didn't say shit all the last week lmao
As a Person who used to be a bully, i hate it. I regret bullying everyone and i did NOT enjoy it. It hurts when you finally realise what you've done. it is NOT A THING TO ROMANTICIZE OR BE OBSESSED WITH!
this woman has an insane ego if she thinks she's helping people by bullying them. i was bullied since i was 7, 10 years later every single year of it still affects me. it's not dwelling on the past, it's called trauma.
Seriously! I was bullied for 9 years straight and all it’s done is make me overly sensitive. Bullying hasn’t helped me any more than stubbing my toe has.
Yup. Been bullied almost every single year from grade 1-12 (on top of being abused at home) and all it's given me is C-PTSD, Depression, anxiety, syicidal ideations, and RSD. Also didn't graduate because the bullying and trauma were so bad that the only way for me to literally SURVIVE was to skip school a lot. So it doesn't just affect your mental health, it literally affects your grades and can actually make you unfit for work and lower your career/job prospects. Bullying literally ruined my entire life so thanks for that, assholes. I just love being stuck on permanent disability and not being able to work due to extreme trauma, C-PTSD, etc. 🥰
@@vanniquevictory 🫶🏻 thank you and yeah I'm in a better place now. I've been through a bit of therapy sporadically (only when it's covered by disability, but you only get like 6 sessions and then have to go back on a really long wait list) and have had a lot of personal growth and learning. It won't change the past ofc but I've learned a lot of how to be more gentle and compassionate with myself and feel like I'm finally getting to a real place of self-acceptance (at least half of the time anyway). :)
Jesus, her mannerisms and cadence are still so quintessentially ‘mean girl’. And yes, I’m sure high school does mean nothing to her-she was the one doing the bullying. However, the fact she feels it’s completely useless says a lot about her, I think.
literally, like i truly hope she never gets a partner or has kids, living a life with such a nonchalantly sociopathically selfish person would be hell on earth
if people who were bullies keep the same attitude as adults, they either end up with no friends... or a circle of friends who are just as two faced as they are.. (ie no real friends).. or in most situations sooner or later they bully the wrong person and they end up being attacked or at the recieving end of a lawsuit. Karma has a way of catching up with people if they dont change.
@@elegantrebel Or they go on to be bullies in the work place, and to their partners, and to their kids, and to anyone else they deem lesser than them. Remember recently there was a video that emerged of a former Obama official harassing a food vendor on the streets of New York City? This guy was obviously at least in his 60s, but a lot of his mannerisms and the way he spoke to the vendor reminded me of how the bullies in my school treated me and any of their other targets. He's what bullies who never grow out of it end up being.
I wonder if she expanded her social circle after high school considering how most of the real world doesn't approve of the whole "bullying nerds makes me cool" schtick. Or if she bullied her 'friends' for growing past high school and now has no one
Bullies basically pick on you if you stand out literally in any way so I don't see how it helps, for example, autistic ppl or ppl with unconventional appearance to "do better in life" it just worsens the issues 99% the time
I was bullied on PE bc I wasn't good at team sports due to health issues. When I started daily work out and became better than the other girls they couldn't stand it and the harassment was intolerable. I got doctor's leave. You can't avoid bullying by "doing better", bullies will always hate you. I still have huge trauma after 10 years and I feel if I am not the strongest and most athletic I am unlovable and burden to people.
@@Lord_Skepticshe seems to think that that was what she was doing to her victims, so the comparison still holds up. Girl can dish it out, but can’t take it.
She thinks that bullying is something that needs to happen, I bet the “bullying” she experienced was like ppl saying her hair looked weird or something.
The bullying I experienced in MIDDLE SCHOOL still effects me to this day, and some of which I'm only just recently getting over. That stuff really does do more than people think it does.
So many bullies forget what they do to their victims and think "oh since I forgot it must not have been that bad." The axe forgets the tree remembers. Also i find it hilarious that it took ONE person to comment smth and this girl is like "oh everyone who thinks of their bullies is stuck in the past." As if trying to shame anyone else that's thinking of stating similar things.
“It’s been 4 years! Move on🙄” See here’s the thing, To the person you were bullying, you were the main source of their anxiety, insecurities, and unwillingness to come to school. To you, It was just mild teasing towards a stranger. Another thing that may prevent people from just “moving on” is the fact that they literally never get Justice. Schools don’t take bullying seriously and the abuser often gets away with it.
@@NearsightedNarhwal It's been way longer than 4 years since high school for me and I've been reading books on the subject (guess why!). There's been actual studies showing that bullying often affects people for life. There are people in their 40s, 50s, 60s who are still affected by having been bullied in school. There's some recent studies showing that it actually alters your brain function. It's not a joke, it's not for your own good to toughen you up, and a lot of the time you can't just get over it. It does lasting damage to a person.
@@sandpiperr Totally true. I ended up having to go to the funerals of a few of my friends thanks to bullying. And I still suffer depression, ptsd and I got a blatant paranoia about anyone that approaches me or behaves like a normal respectful human being. If I can't control the situation I will think someone is against me and I gotta cut ties for my own safety because I don't wanna be the next person in a casket. My therapist says the hyper vigilance is also more prominent cause I got autism and I can't tell when people fake behaviour or are genuine, honestly I can't really read body language in general or understand intonation. So the anxiety there got worse rather than better. And worse is that for me the biggest blow never came from people my own age because thanks to my autism I thought being bullied was normal. No, the biggest blow came when adults started to disregard me because nobody with autism can study psychology and succeed. So even when I got the highest grades in my class, I was told to move courses to something more on my intelligence level. Because I didn't get a perfect grade.
Exactly, she shamed people who remind their trauma but she was so triggered by 1 negative comment that she had to do a tiktok abt 🤣. As if it was the 1st time in life someone hold her accountable.
@@junrobin9335 Now that you mention it, I DO get defensive when strangers ask me questions about myself. I have this irrational paranoia that they're not genuinely curious but they want to make fun of me.
It is BRUTALLY ironic that she defended bullying, got ratioed, then took down her social media presence 💀. Almost as if she didn't like being bullied ... the cognitive dissonance in today's society is WILD.
Bullying contributed to how severe my cptsd developed. Imagine being chronically neglected at home, abused at home... then abused at school? I couldn't escape it. I didn't need any of the bullying i was subjected too at school. I had it hard enough
I’m very sorry you experienced that. ❤ I have an anxiety that gets worse when I’m at school. People bullying me for the way I dressed or acted definitely did not “toughen me up.” It just made my anxiety worse, and made me hate school and myself.
I hope you’re healthy and doing well this life can get difficult and frustrating and I understand the silent pain you went through I was depressed through most of my adolescence years and from what I’ve gained from it was definitely wisdom but I also lost opportunities and social aspects you know this life is all about priorities whatever you put on the frontline is what’s going to matter and what you’ll get the most results on I hope you learn something from that pain and understand that no matter how difficult things get you can look for hope because you matter no one can tell you otherwise you’re reading this comment for a reason your life has been coming to this moment and reading this comment I hope you take it seriously because it’ll change your life if you do nothing in this world is by accident it was all designed and the reason why you matter so much is because everything you do in this life has consequences everyone will be held accountable once they die and what humans see as good and bad isn’t as simple as how accurate morality stands there are standards for this world we can’t escape our morality or time for a reason why would we exist just to die wouldn’t it make sense for us to live forever if we were made with purpose? yeah we were but we committed immortality by the standards of the creator and by that we faced the consequences God wants you to listen to this message you don’t know when you’ll die and your life means a lot to him please let your past be healed by him and listen to him when you have a relationship with his son repent and believe with all of your heart he died for our sins and rose from the dead defeating death nothing in this world matters more than Jesus he will solve all of your problems and be there when you need him every single second of your life things in the world are changing for the worst it’s a scary time to be alive but listen to this message as a warning the future is dark and you don’t want to face it without Jesus do what I say and you will be fine and have clarity don’t put this off things are changing soon and by then it’ll be too late 🕊️🌎
My cousin was bullied so bad in ELEMENTARY that it severely affected her life. Years later, after shes graduated high-school, with proper therapy, she's finally happy and able to actually enjoy life and be independent.
i was bullied heavily as a kid and it’s left lasting psychological damage, and majorly impacted my mental state, and as a result, my life. be kind to one another, and teach your children to do the same. nobody needs to hurt anybody else.
She lacks empathy, and one day, karma is going to get back at her. Imagine if she had a child who came home crying and upset over being bullied. Would she just tell him/her that they "needed" to be bullied?
Well said Hayley. I'm 51 and could still name the mean girls from school and this lassie thinks folk forget in 4 years. It means nothing to her but had a big impact on her victims. I think a lot of influencers were mean girls, you know how you just get that vibe.
People who say bullying makes the victim "stronger", don't see the full picture and how it'll affect them in the long run. It's like they're saying, "Stabbing you will make your skin stronger" no it won't. It'll take a lot of time to heal, but once it's healed it'll leave a scar. Bullying is another form of harassment and/or abuse.
Bullying like other adversities in life can either make or break you. Bullying, personally made me tougher, but that doesn't mean it will make other people "tougher" nor does it mean it should be done at all. However, to start preaching "bullying is a good thing" for such a reason is saying that other bad things (e.g. family abuse) is a good thing and should be let happen. No it shouldn't ever happen. A good society can raise strong people without abusing them. I get iffy when people say "bullying is GOOD" "Bullying is BAD" and then when people say "it makes people weak", "it makes people "strong", I have to deny the fact that me being bullied actually made me grow thicker skin, and for others, it broke them. Bullying is abuse. There are no changes to that. It just shouldn't be done. I'm not trying to promote or excuse bullying, I'm just pointing out that bullying does have such an affect on some people.
The false narrative that every bully must have a shitty home life or something going on 'behind the scenes' to bully someone is so stupid. Anyone can be a bully, you just need to be a shitty enough person to bully someone.
Majority of bullies don't have shitty home lives, it's all bullshit to frame them as a victim too and to try to gaslight victims into trying to forget their actions and continue being their "toys".
When I was in fifth grade I was bullied alot and I'm starting middle school now and I will never forget how hypocritical they were like when I was crying in the bathroom they threw water in my face...that never made me stronger that just made me have horrible mental health
I couldn't agree more with you. 👍 ✨Storytime✨ So when i was in 6th and 7th grade this really mean girl bullied me. Plus a ton of people were leaving me out for some reason and my parents were having a ✨HUGE✨fight so they were living separately. All that and did i bully anyone??? NO! Then in 7th grade the most revenge i got was giving everyone mini ✨heart attacks✨. Now i'm just chilling in 8th grade.
@UTubeTrollPolice298 saying you make better content is an objective statement and opinion. Stop spamming the comments and allow your content to speak for itself. Nothing wrong with making a singular comme t yourself and asking people to check out your work, but to put down the creator who's UA-cam channel you're spamming is just rude and lazy. Do you tgibj that will encourage anybody to click, and even if they do, do you really want that to be people's first opinion of you?
I was bullied throughout high school and it’s only in the last year or so (Thankyou therapy and time), that I feel like I could walk past my bullies in the street and not feel true all encompassing terror. I haven’t seen any of these people since I was 16, I’m now 25. Whenever I have insecurities about myself, whether it’s physical or mental, it’s always their voices I hear in my head. It’s affected some of my romantic relationships throughout my 20s so far, because a lot of the bullying revolves around my appearance and how hilarious it would be if anyone wanted to be with me because I was so weird and ugly. The fact that this girl thinks people just need to stop caring and get over it is fucking mind blowing.
insane thing to say around 15:30 bc not only was i bullied for things i couldnt control, but i got bullied to the point that i probably got a concussion
At this point, TikTok needs to just be taken down. All these grown people on there are just so insufferable and their actions are just sick. Seriously, at this point I have NO hope whatsoever for these type of people. It’s disgusting, really.
@UTubeTrollPolice298 saying you make better content is an objective statement and opinion. Stop spamming the comments and allow your content to speak for itself. Nothing wrong with making a singular comme t yourself and asking people to check out your work, but to put down the creator who's UA-cam channel you're spamming is just rude and lazy. Do you tgibj that will encourage anybody to click, and even if they do, do you really want that to be people's first opinion of you?
i absolutely hate how she's subtly bullying ppl throughout the video too. As if being a bully in high school wasn't enough, she has to continue to be condescending b/c one person called her out
I was bullied all through school. I’m 52; I still remember. It DOES stick with you. Some people handle it better than others, but the feelings never completely go away.
3:40 my dad was in the hospital for 2 months, and my grandpa, grandma, and great uncle all died in the same time frame, but never once did i bully someone.
Bullying shouldn’t happen to anyone, this is coming from someone who’s been bullied really bad in the past. It does not ‘build confidence’, it breaks your confidence and puts it down.
Some victims even turned to psychopaths and sociopaths because of such mistreatment if unhealed,these content creator mean girl on TikTok wanted to infect the Medusas of society
@UTubeTrollPolice298 saying you make better content is an objective statement and opinion. Stop spamming the comments and allow your content to speak for itself. Nothing wrong with making a singular comme t yourself and asking people to check out your work, but to put down the creator who's UA-cam channel you're spamming is just rude and lazy. Do you tgibj that will encourage anybody to click, and even if they do, do you really want that to be people's first opinion of you?
Hey. Autistic adult here. The awful stuff that happened to me in high school, middle school, elementary school... it all stuck with me. I was made to feel like a freak not only by my peers, but by my teachers. I'm 32 now and it _still_ hasn't gone away. The trauma you go through in those formative years can and _will_ have a permanent effect on your personality.
I'm sorry. But still AUTISTIC! That is not just something you should say to just insult someone. There are real people who struggle with autism. So please don't.
I was bullied my hole childhood, and it gave me severe stress, depression and anxiety (ptsd). I have lived most of my grown life in isolation, i have had a severe alcohol abuse, because it was the only way i could leave the house. Im 34 now, i been alcohol free for 3years and im in therapy for anxiety, stress and depression. I will get better, but i will never forget.
As someone who’s been bullied my whole life; it’s fucking traumatizing. I became insecure and hated my life. I attempted to oof myself before. A kid in my school actually succeeded because he was being bullied into it.. RIP Kaiden, we love you
She bullies other people yet scared of being bullied by others. How pathetic it is. She clearly has never been bullied, i experienced that and i doubt she would handle it
@@-Moonlight-1 She clearly don't understand how it feels...Bullying makes us sometimes freeze in our head and spine like what s*xual abuse would do to our nervous system...
@@daft_j true, i wanted to be popular and thats the only reason i started bullying. became friends with the girl after i realized she did nothing wrong and i was just trying to fit in. i finally found my own group where i didnt have to act different to be included
Bullies should not exist. They play a major role with people taking their own lives, and that is just not cool. So thank you for speaking up on this subject.
i disagree. I used to know a kid who was a massive bully at school. We didnt know it at the time but he was being abused and beaten at home.. His actions at school were his 14 year old self acting out and doing the same thing to others that his parents did to him. He was a bully BECAUSE bullying had been normalized in his household. In his 20s he got therapy and ended that cycle of abuse. Hes now 50 and the nicest person youd ever meet.
@@elegantrebel If that's true I'm guessing his attitude is "what I did was wrong, and I'm sorry" not "it's been years, get over it!" THAT is the difference!
A "sociopath" is someone who was traumatized to the point of loosing emotional empathy to self preserve. They can be good people, they just have little emotional empathy and instead use rational empathy. This is obviously far from her case seeing her cowardness and reaction to the backlash, plus seeing how she never mentioned being traumatized herself. Sociopaths are better than her, please avoid using medical terms to refer POS or it just gives the diagnosis a terrible reputation.
I was horribly bullied in high school...to a point i attempted to unalive myself twice...over 23 years ago and it still affects me to this day. When she said...dont take it too personal...and people are too soft...it takes tremendous courage and strength to get up day after day to be abused...day after day Love the fact that the internet gave her just a taste of what its like... Love that for her
I was bullied in middle school..that was like 12 years ago,I'll never forget the mistreatment and sadness it caused me as a child. They stole my joy. Im glad the universe did its job here.
Oh my god, I literally have tears in my eyes watching this video... I was bullied in school for years and it affected my ENTIRE life. I developed social anxiety because of everything that happened, now I constantly expect hatred or harm from others, I feel like the most worthless person in the world. And this ex-bully is like "oh, bullying is just something that happens in childhood, it's evolution." No, it's not. Bullying is a completely social thing, it happens in a group of people when there is an aggressor, a victim, and bystanders who do nothing but watch. Why is it hard to resist bullying? Because the victim is completely alone against the entire environment, they have no support, not to mention the fact that bullying often begins in early adolescence when the individual is very vulnerable. It hurts me so much to realize that the aggressor doesn't think for a second about the feelings of the person he bullied, doesn't think about the fact that the other person has their own feelings, experiences, that bullying is terrible. (Sorry if there are a lot of mistakes here, I used a translator.)
Sorry for this. I have a similar problem - have CPTSD now from being bullied and get a panic attack whenever I feel like I am being bullied again - like if somebody gives me even constructive negative feedback- or see someone being bullied (even if it is in a movie).
As a high schooler who was bullied and sexually bullied in middle school that this person is so wrong it’s not even funny because even when u stick up for yourself the school system does nothing to help.
Same! As an adult, if I talk about how I was sexually harassed starting in 5th grade all the way through 7th grade, people roll their eyes and say that was just bullying and I'm being dramatic. However, what happened to me...if it happened to an adult woman in the work place, or the gym, or anywhere no one would argue that it's not sexual harassment! We take sexual abuse of children (as in being groomed or molested) seriously but not sexual harassment and I don't know why!
man, YEAH.. i had a guy in middle school (my first year at a public school ever btw) who would always get in my space and never leave me alone EVER and finally i told my math teacher about it and she pulled the 'boys will be boys' card.. later, in that same math class, he was trying to touch my legs and i ended up punching him in the chin......! he didnt bother me after that and nobody even noticed it so a win all around i guess.. but theres a serious issue with adults, ESPECIALLY SCHOOL STAFF/TEACHERS, not believing kids when serious shits happening to them..
“I was going through a lot” girl I was going through my parents getting divorced, getting out of an ab*sive parents home, and trying to work through that, and I was never ever mean to anyone
It's so annoying how she says "bullying needs yo happen, bullying in America isn't that bad". But she isn't thinking about the amount of innocent people who have injured or UNALIVED themselves because of the bullying. She's practically downplaying the victims and the mental and emotional pain that they went through. Sickening.
I used to be a very outgoing, extroverted person who was very adventurous and loved trying new things. After being bullied, I lost all self confidence, and I would never step out of my comfort zone. And that wasn’t even high school, I was just 9 when I was bullied
Bullying is helpful!? It's clear this woman has never read a psychology book. I guess she didn't read those on any of her travels or when she was learning those precious life lessons...
It is, I had a crush on this friend of mine but he "bullied" me in a sense by insulting me and saying no one would love me, a while later and I've successfully suppressed my feelings for him and we're friends now lol❤
@@divine555 Damn... You got gaslighted so bad. Why are you staying friends with someone that obviously never cared about you if they belittle you and disregard your feelings, to the point of saying you're unworthy of love? I've been in a similar situation several years ago, had just changed schools because of bullying and saw this girl alone. Decided to become friends with her since i thought nobody deserved to be left alone (like i had been). She then proceeded to belittle me and my taste in music, would tell me to shut it just so she could sing, almost walked over a drawing and when i told her to be careful, she'd start trying to hit and kick me. Was never reliable for projects or anything school related, nor sending lessons when i was sick. Then would cry and try to defend herself when i confronted her because she didn't want to admit to herself she was wrong (because a group of people excluded her due to a misunderstanding and she took it as bullying, while never questionning herself about was she was doing to me). People like her are never someone you could count on. Crossed paths with her years later, she's still just as bad and careless about others but she hides it more, and refuses to aknowledge what she did. Her then and current friends are exactly like i was, though they're starting to leave her now that they're getting to meet better people and see how bad she is. Please find yourself someone better, you deserve an actual friend that genuinely cares about you.
“I never think before i speak” is the worst excuse for not thinking before you speak. You may as well just say “im really immature” like love if you can point it out as a flaw surely do something about it
I got bullied at my last job (as a 30 year old woman by someone 5 years older than me). She made my life a living hell for no reason other than she was stressed at home. It made going to work so hard for me. Bullies will be bullies no matter how old.
I was experienced violence, threats of sexual violence and death, bullying, online bullying and harassment all the way from kindergarden up until college. I will always remember what I went through, cause it got burned into my memories. I don't give a damn what my bullies went through! What about what I went through? They knew I was from a poor family, they should have known I had enough struggles as it was. Did they care? No! So why should I care about them? I cannot for the life of me find a single care for them, I landed in a mental hospital because of them. I hate bullies with passion and I always will. Bullying should not be accepted
"If you're still focused on me in highschool then you clearly have no purpose in my life".. "These people literally mean 0 to me now".. SHE MAKES A VIDEO TALKING ABOUT ( HERSELF) IN HIGHSCHOOL AND TALKING ABOUT (THESE PEOPLE) !!🤷♀️👏
High school doesn't feel meaningless while you're attending and being bullied...those 4 years can feel endless. And too many kids don't make it out of high school because the bullying is so unbearable and feels like it will never end, so they take their own lives rather than have to endure one more day of it.
Girl (in the TikTok) thank you for speaking up about the bullying minority. Many of us have tried to get our victims to see WE’RE actually the victims of them trying to stop us. We really feel seen because of you. And it’s great to see you respect the bullying code of “Bully everyone else but don’t take it from them.” Round of applause for our bullying queen 🤮🤮🤮- I MEAN 😍
I was bullied throughout elementary and middle school. Which was about 30 years ago and it has effected me into adulthood. It took me awhile to grow and move forward with my life.
I am a teenager from the UK who is now homeschooled due to how horrible the bullying at my secondary school was (and its only been like 2 years since then). I have autism and due to the stuff I did because of that (I had a bad habit of talking about the stuff I liked, and unfortunately my interests were seen as "weird" by the "cool kids", I also stimmed, got upset when it was too loud and often liked being alone, all of these things made me a target, I'm also a guy and I'm not traditionally masculine, here in the UK majority of the boys LOVE football, but I don't really have much interest in it cause the only sports I have an interest in are tennis and dodgeball, and even then I prefer other outdoor health activities like just going on a calming walk, because of that I got made fun of for being a "sissy") The kids would mostly verbally bully me though it would get physical sometimes (trying to steal my school supplies and trying to trip me over in the hallway) at first I tried to ignore it but it just got worse, the kids would be saying some awful things about me and they would spread rumours that they knew 100% weren't true, someone once said I watched dirty anime material (which I didn't, not only am I not attracted to that I also believe I'm too young to be watching that stuff and it could affect my developing brain) just because a lot of my interests were animes and manga They'd also constantly call me a r*tard which is a very horrible word to call an autistic person, and they'd tell me to off myself, and while I mentioned before it thankfully didn't get that physical they'd also threaten to "jump me" after school, which of course that never happened but I was terrified When the girl in the video said "if you're being bullied you just need to be more confident and start standing up for yourself" I got super angry, its not that easy, I tried to tell the kids to stop, I tried telling the heads of year, I tried telling my Mum whom called the school, I tried insulting them back, I tried to be more confident in my interests, hobbies and appearance, I really did try yet nothing changed, the teachers at school did nothing even after my Mum called them, the kids never stopped when I told them it was affecting my life and they'd just laugh when I tried to insult them back, and when I tried to be more confident the kids would just tear me back down again Not only was the bullying giving me bad mental health, it was also giving me violent thoughts, I thought that maybe if I became violent and hurt them kids they'd be scared of me and stop, I had fantasies of beating them up in front of the whole school and humiliating them like they did to me, it got to the point where I actually punched one of them at some point, that specific bully stopped making fun of me but none of the others did and after that I was too scared to be violent with those kids because I didn't want the adults in my life to think I was a troubled deliquent or being sent to a juvenile place Eventually I was put into home schooling because it was to the point where I was suicidal (and also some things to do with my autism which I wont get into). Most kids who are victims of bullying aren't so lucky though, they have to deal with this throughout their whole school lives and majority of them don't even have parents who care enough to take action and call the school let alone get them homeschooling. Everday thousands, millions of kids in schools all over the world are bullied to the point where they want to end their own lives, my heart goes out to you if you are being or have been bullied, please stay strong ❤
In the US, (more specifically in Memphis, TN) parents would try to bring a gun to school or kids nowadays shoot each other with guns. The other day my sister witness a group fight by the 13%. I'm starting avoid seeing the news so this may had happened around the US.
You honestly seem like such a strong and intelligent person, I wish you well! I punched the shit out of my bullies too, even if it got me in some trouble. Worth it, as they never would get into any trouble for bullying otherwise. You're definitely the better person for just doing it once, lol.
I had a tough time at school (also from the UK) and ended up being homeschooled. I hope you now have space to begin to heal. You’re clearly extremely self aware and some adults lack that, you have the tools to begin the next chapter of your life and it can get better. I’m glad you got away from that school, everything you’ve done so far has taken immense courage and you should be proud of yourself. Wishing you the best ❤
I genuinely don't think she understands just how much bullying can fuck someone up. I was bullied my entire time at school (I'm technically still in school but now I'm homeschooled). I can't cry more then like- 4 tears anymore because I'd get bullied for it. I tried to unalive myself at 9 years old because of it. I got expelled when I fought back. It might as well have destroyed my life and she needs to realise that.
As someone who was TERRIFIED to leave home and had really bad anxiety attacks to the point I couldn’t go to school until the person that bullied me got expelled and my whole grade moved on, she deserves the backlash she got. She actually doesn’t know how bad it can be. Even though it all happened last year I still cannot stand large groups because they always came in large groups. If she experienced a FRACTION of what I’ve gone through she wouldn’t be saying anything.
Imagine thinking that saying that you have no contact with anyone from high school makes you a badass 💀 being a lone wolf isn't a flex when it isn't by choice girl
It’s been a wild ride seeing our dear Haylo Hayley video by video slip deeper and deeper into despair and become increasingly righteously angry over the absolute cesspool dumpster fire that TikTok has always been but recently has fully revealed itself to be
i hate bullies being bullied growing up really messes with you throughout your life and people only say 'im just being honest' 'its just dark humor' 'don't be so sensitive' when they're being mean as an excuse to be mean without getting backlash. also everyone thinks 'people should be bullied' until it's them :/
As someone who has been bullied in school I strongly disagree with the woman in the tiktok for MULTIPLE reasons and I don't think ANYBODY should have to go through it no matter how old they are
I was bullied the entire time I was in school, preschool to senior year. The bullying slowly transformed over the years from mean names and threats to social isolation. On my senior trip I had a mental breakdown in my hotel room because everyone else was together doing a fun activity while I was left alone and had no idea they were they were planning anything. Even though I graduated 6 years ago, I still have nightmares about being in school and sometimes wake up crying. School turned me from a happy go lucky kid to a severely anxious and severely depressed adult.
I’ve seen so many mean girls who think they way they act is iconic or funny. No. You’re not iconic. You’re not “brutally honest and other people can handle it.” You’re just an asshole
Oh yeah, I'll definitely go up to my primary school bully (who told me to end it, punched and kicked me under the table, got his friends to gang up on me, constantly insulted me and purposely made me cry) and give them a big thank you :/
In middle school, I was super mean to my old friends (that I had in elementary school). I was really passive aggressive and overall rude. I was depressed and was jealous of them-I didn’t understand why they got to be happy and I didn’t. When I got to high school, I profusely apologized. “I had a lot going on,” isn’t an excuse.
My sixth grade teacher was my bully. I’m 30 now and the things she did to me still haunt me. She’s the reason I starved myself and the reason I still hate every inch of my body. It doesn’t just go away. It happened in my formative years and it took away the confidence I once had.
Hate narcissistic superiority complex mentality people like this because they never think anything they do will be held accountable for their cruel intentions and they never take accountability at all. It's actually funny to see these bullies getting the same treatment back. That's what they never expect to happen to them. Never. Karma exists y'all. Be careful what you choose to do in your life because sometimes it'll come back to bite you when you least expect it to.
@UTubeTrollPolice298 I am so sorry that you went through that. I too was bullied throughout my school years and I would never want anyone to ever go through being bullied because I do know what the trauma is like obviously and I wouldn't lie about this just to get likes. Hugs 🤗.
Karma doesn’t actually exist. There are nations that literally get away with genocide and Kissinger who justified and instigated genocides and wars lived to 100 years of age.
@@NouraZahle sweetheart there's always karma for everyone regardless of what you say. There's always repercussions for everyone actions whether it be their health suddenly going down the toilet so to speak or something else happening to them. I didn't say an actual person was going to do anything to them. Apparently you don't realize that Karma is an entity being. Talk about taking things too literally like as if you thought I referring to a actual person making them get bad karma 🤣. Nice try honey. Move along because your comment proved nothing. Lmao 🤣. Trust me Karma exists. Bye bye 👋.
@@NouraZahle Also why would you possibly bring up politics when I wasn't even talking about political stuff in the first place and to boot those things happen well before I was born at that! Like seriously? Great job on changing the subject to something YOU WANT the conversation to be about when I was only talking about KARMA ITSELF EXISTING NOT POLITICAL CRAP. Get outta here with all that drama. Lmao 🤣
As someone who was bullied for years by several people, this person triggers my flight or fight so hard that I want to crawl under my bed and cry. That's how you know she was not "just mean" but a really, really awful bully in high school. I don't even know her and I get so bad anxiety.
THE FUNNIEST PART IS HER SAYING "yeah people need to be bullied" BUT THEN GOING ON PRIVATE WHEN SHE STARTED BEING BULLIED 💀💀💀
Karma beats her butt.
Cognitive Dissonance Level: "Godhood" 💀
Ikr!
A hypocrite will never escape from karmas.
People who defend bullying and discrimination are the most fragile people you'd encounter. They can't stand 1% of what they wish upon others.
She 'justifies' bullying, and in return she gets bullied for that.
An eye for an eye.
Kinda like the comment section most of them were bullies who peaked in high school
we shall all soon be blind
dont click on this creators profile they are bots@ville__
Hmm I wonder who, Oh yeah uttp. And the fact that their saying their “30” is even worse, most of us are definitely under 30 and we act more mature then them. Hell they’re being out right hypocrites, and keep telling themselves that they make better content while having zero videos.
That's very true! And a tooth for a tooth. Did you know that actually comes from some old Babylonian laws? They were smarter than some people today, I think.
When bullies are shocked that no one is clapping for them being a bully.
Common sense. They think they are living the Mean Girls life. No, this is real life. People view them based on how they act.
I'm sure those bullies are stick with thair high school friends forever🤣
These girls watched Mean Girls without actually understanding the message of the movie
They still think they're queen bees of the world and everyone should be clamoring for their attention
@@ahstiasummers5583 She told other people to move on meanwhile her still think she is slay like in high school🤣
as a victim of bullying "romanticising" or glorifying being a "mean girl" is disgusting.
Exactly! And what about the same people who would hashtag, bring back bullying
I agree.
Like no, Sending death and r@p3 threats to me is not being just "Mean"
Its being a future criminal.
@@DayDreamingWriters Real, That's why I'm disgusted by my ex bbf's friends allowing this when they're like older than her-.
Edit : woah it's 2025 7th January- I didn't know I written this- but I mean I still agree with your reply.
@@DayDreamingWriters And also being a future domestic abuser to their partners
I agree I’m in high school and ever since elementary I have been dealing with this and it got to a point i would goi home sobbing.
i got discharged from the hospital after an attempt caused by buildup of years of being bullied, and this woman boils my fucking blood
Hello 👋 How are are you?😊
I hope you’re doing okay ❤
how are you doing now? sending lots of love to you ❤❤
@miffyXcore dw i'm fine!! ty for asking, i've been doing homeschooling for a while now and i'm happier than ever, also i got a cat so that made me even happier :3
@@bethbaxter2922 tysm i'm fine now!
Even if she didn't say she was a "mean girl" in HS I would know immediately based on how she talks, her hand and face gestures and playing with her hair, I AM in highschool and I can assure you this woman never got out of her highschool "mean girl" phase
Like most college sorority girls seem to act like the plastics from mean girls (stuck in high school mean girl mindset)
@UTubeTrollPolice298damn, content so good it ceases to exist
@UTubeTrollPolice298 k
@UTubeTrollPolice298saying you make better content is an objective statement and opinion. Stop spamming the comments and allow your content to speak for itself. Nothing wrong with making a singular comme t yourself and asking people to check out your work, but to put down the creator who's UA-cam channel you're spamming is just rude and lazy. Do you tgibj that will encourage anybody to click, and even if they do, do you really want that to be people's first opinion of you?
Exactly, just how she sounds and acts screams mean girl who I would avoid at all costs
Abusive parents, like mine, also say the same thing - that they abuse their kids for their kids’ benefit and in order to “toughen them up” so that they can “handle” the world. And the actual statistics prove that bullying and abuse actually makes people do a lot WORSE in life, while abusers and bullies typically do a lot better than their victims. So that self-described mean girl is lying and spinning the truth in order to justify her behavior, which is completely unacceptable. To have C-PTSD from being bullied and abused like me is a literal disability, it’s no joke.
Yes. It's not the same thing preparing someone to deal with the real world and abusing them
This is also so fucking true because I have friend that literally has he worst adults in life, and I tell you for sure that THAT DID NOT MAKE THEM 'TOUGHEN UP FIR THE REAL WORLD' like stfu they literally caused them to have so so much trauma and depression as well that took a major part of their life now and they are STIL FIGHTING TO THIS DAY. THIS IS SERIOUS the fact that parents and the mean girl said that this was okay NO IT'S NOT you're thinking that it benefits them wig the intention of hurting them without that thought when you hurt them in the first place and you're now thinking it's a good thing? Have you thought real hard about your words before you say them? Both before you say it them or after when you say 'oh this is fine..' and the fact she said that 'oh yeah I just don't think about what I say before saying it okayy' girl no stfu that jus means you dont care about thinking twice causing harm to them and won't keep shit to yourself. Don't ever hurt people not only will it stick to them for a very long it may even be there forever. What you do WILL have an effect on you nothing can excuse any type of abuse or form of bullying whoever thinks like that can get the hell out
I had a fake friend and he made me hate myself and cry in my room for hours then after all, he still tries to get to me still
gentle parenting prepares them for the real world while teaching them to deal w their feelings etc, toughen up is a shitty abuse style. man up to boys discounts they have feelings and we see how that ends up.
sorry you were abused.
Seriously, I’ve been bullied in middle school and it was so bad that it affected my self confidence in high school. It stays with you, just like all abuse.
The fact that she’s so wrong makes me laugh so hard 😭
@UTubeTrollPolice298ratio
@UTubeTrollPolice298you have zero videos
@UTubeTrollPolice298 😂
@UTubeTrollPolice298
saying you make better content is an objective statement and opinion. Stop spamming the comments and allow your content to speak for itself. Nothing wrong with making a singular comme t yourself and asking people to check out your work, but to put down the creator who's UA-cam channel you're spamming is just rude and lazy. Do you tgibj that will encourage anybody to click, and even if they do, do you really want that to be people's first opinion of you?
@@TheKatarinaGisellethankgod someone said it.
Lemme say this as someone who was bullied:
I was bullied three years ago by a girl and that shit still affects me TO THIS DAY. She has not changed nor has she made an effort to change. She used the exact same excuse as the girl in this video that she was "gOiNg ThRoUgH a LoT" and this girl was spoiled rotten. She was allowed to throw parties, she was everyone's friend and she got everything she wanted on a silver platter and then two weeks ago she said that I made her life a living hell and I "traumatised her" by venting to my friends about these experiences that I was going through while dealing on top of a shitty home life. These people really are all the same and deserve the same level of respect they show other people.
Many of us can relate to you and understand your pain. In reality, the bullies are usually never going through something. Even if they are, it doesn't justify ruining someone else's life and hurting them.
she honestly sounds so insufferable, especially when she’s snickering while saying that high school was 4 years ago
I could barely watch her video, from her horrible words to the constant hair flipping - I always try not to judge people but I strongly dislike her and that terrible video
the bully is the loser. she can dish it out but she can't take it. welcome to the real world love. congrats on peaking in high school
“Why are you still talking about that it was like 4 years ago”
Girl if I killed your cat 4 years ago would you still be mad? Yeah. You would.
Ikr I hate people who think just because it was years ago it's not relevant anymore, like yes it is. Like If i kidnapped your mother 4 years ago would you still be traumatized? Yes you would
Problem is people like her think "that's different!"
If she's in Moby Dick and the whale made her lost a leg, she'll never forget about it as well. Bullying not only can cause you unalive or lose a body part in extreme cases, but it can affect you mentally.
I don't think she would. 💀
@UTubeTrollPolice298
saying you make better content is an objective statement and opinion. Stop spamming the comments and allow your content to speak for itself. Nothing wrong with making a singular comme t yourself and asking people to check out your work, but to put down the creator who's UA-cam channel you're spamming is just rude and lazy. Do you tgibj that will encourage anybody to click, and even if they do, do you really want that to be people's first opinion of you?
The fact she referenced bullying in k-dramas made my jaw drop.
Thing is, there are a few K-Dramas which complied real stories to show the viciousness of Korean bullying, I know certain stories where people are almost killed or disfigured due to bullying.
You can’t just say “there are worse things so my actions are justified”
Both are terrible, but one being worse changes nothing about the first. Bullying still inflicts so much anxiety….
What I heard was 'if I could have burned you with a hair curler then I would but that doesn't fly in American schools'.
Exactly. Both are terrible, it's as simple as that.
@@kateemma22 Which 100% just sounds like she totally would have gone that extreme if the teachers cared less.
@@kateemma22 EXACTLY!!!
Exactly and just bc one form of bullying is worse that doesn’t mean that the victim can’t complain abt the bullying they went through. Their bullying was still bad
I was bullied in elementary school and middle school with it being the worst during junior high. It built up to me shoving one of my bullies so hard he broke a table from how hard he landed.
Years later, someone on discord is talking about wanting to bring bullying back. I said it shouldn't and talked about my experiences. He said "The fact you stood up for yourself literally proves bullying works". The stupidity was unfathomable
As someone who’s been bullied, bullying doesn’t build self confidence, it’s more likely to break it
@cams1234 Do you think people who have been bullied don’t do that? They do, actually. And even then people don’t stop, It’s eventually gonna effect you If it’s been going on for a while. Also, do you even realize how rude this comment is, just because you clearly don’t understand how much being bullied can hurt doesn’t mean that you can say that being bullied won’t effect people?
@cams1234 We did everything to snap back and still get punished by authorities for it,what would you want us to do?Harbor toxic positivity on our minds?
@cams1234 Not everyone is as lucky as you that they stopped bullying you,cuz some,did everything to snap back yet they did not stop
@@goldendiamon i know right?
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She travelled for almost four years? Penny to the pound: mummy and daddy got money. Nobody coming straight out of high school is paying to travel. Unless she work/travelled.
Im not trying to defend what this person said, but I did know a person who did that who did not have money from their parents. They worked as a bartender and traveled for years. This was not that long ago, either. If you don’t mind staying in a hostel, you can backpack through Europe cheaper than you think.
@@spacedaze1860
That is not what this girl did lmao. She clearly has never worked a day in her life. The person you knew, isnt the same as this one 🤣
@bailey7792 absolutely... those "people skills" of hers aren't getting her ANY jobs in the service industry, that's for sure!
Ain’t no way girly pop made a video saying that people people need to be bullied and then takes down her video after she was bullied 💀💀💀💀
That's the funny thing about bully, they have a soft ass when karma comes back to them
@@gryficowaits so funny
Deflection. Bullies insist others need to grow thicker skin when they themselves have skin more fragile than tissue paper
And the fact that she brought up Korean dramas is bizarre.
That b*** got a taste of her own medicine and be asking for it😂
All bullies are glass cannons, the moment you bully them back they switch to victims.
Well put!
@user-su5uf5yv1w SAME
Literally me. The thing is, they never got away with it. CCTV exists, which is something they obviously forgot.
Facts
when i was in high school the bully got extra rude during the 2nd to last week of school bc he was about to leave, so i bullied him back one day, and he didn't say shit all the last week lmao
As a Person who used to be a bully, i hate it. I regret bullying everyone and i did NOT enjoy it. It hurts when you finally realise what you've done. it is NOT A THING TO ROMANTICIZE OR BE OBSESSED WITH!
The way she speaks while prepping her hair, the vocal fry, the obnoxious hand movements... Total narcissist. Tik Tok needs to be banned.
this woman has an insane ego if she thinks she's helping people by bullying them. i was bullied since i was 7, 10 years later every single year of it still affects me. it's not dwelling on the past, it's called trauma.
Seriously! I was bullied for 9 years straight and all it’s done is make me overly sensitive. Bullying hasn’t helped me any more than stubbing my toe has.
I missed so much school, ended up doing late GCSEs
Yup. Been bullied almost every single year from grade 1-12 (on top of being abused at home) and all it's given me is C-PTSD, Depression, anxiety, syicidal ideations, and RSD. Also didn't graduate because the bullying and trauma were so bad that the only way for me to literally SURVIVE was to skip school a lot.
So it doesn't just affect your mental health, it literally affects your grades and can actually make you unfit for work and lower your career/job prospects. Bullying literally ruined my entire life so thanks for that, assholes. I just love being stuck on permanent disability and not being able to work due to extreme trauma, C-PTSD, etc. 🥰
@@tenshimooni hope your doing better now! You didnt deserve that :(
@@vanniquevictory 🫶🏻 thank you and yeah I'm in a better place now. I've been through a bit of therapy sporadically (only when it's covered by disability, but you only get like 6 sessions and then have to go back on a really long wait list) and have had a lot of personal growth and learning. It won't change the past ofc but I've learned a lot of how to be more gentle and compassionate with myself and feel like I'm finally getting to a real place of self-acceptance (at least half of the time anyway). :)
Jesus, her mannerisms and cadence are still so quintessentially ‘mean girl’.
And yes, I’m sure high school does mean nothing to her-she was the one doing the bullying. However, the fact she feels it’s completely useless says a lot about her, I think.
RIght? She looks like those satire channels that make fun of mean girls!
@@Blueleaf11and acts like it as well
Yup. The way how she acts, looks, talks and thinks scream 'mean girl' to me. She didn't grow out of her highschool mean girl phase and it shows, hard.
@@damearstor2120 Let's hope she didn't go into nursing.
highschool means so much to her she even does ticktocks abaut it 4 years later, its giving she has no life,its giving peaked in high school
Wow. That girl sounds like an abuser. She clearly lacks the capacity for empathy. I feel sorry anyone and everyone in her life.
literally, like i truly hope she never gets a partner or has kids, living a life with such a nonchalantly sociopathically selfish person would be hell on earth
@@almondwaet7966 this girl will date a man she can use and abuse. Or a cluster b personality so that they can ruin people's lives together 💀☠
if people who were bullies keep the same attitude as adults, they either end up with no friends... or a circle of friends who are just as two faced as they are.. (ie no real friends).. or in most situations sooner or later they bully the wrong person and they end up being attacked or at the recieving end of a lawsuit.
Karma has a way of catching up with people if they dont change.
@@elegantrebel Or they go on to be bullies in the work place, and to their partners, and to their kids, and to anyone else they deem lesser than them.
Remember recently there was a video that emerged of a former Obama official harassing a food vendor on the streets of New York City? This guy was obviously at least in his 60s, but a lot of his mannerisms and the way he spoke to the vendor reminded me of how the bullies in my school treated me and any of their other targets.
He's what bullies who never grow out of it end up being.
I wonder if she expanded her social circle after high school considering how most of the real world doesn't approve of the whole "bullying nerds makes me cool" schtick. Or if she bullied her 'friends' for growing past high school and now has no one
she'll never know the joy of having a lifelong friend and she deserves that
bro people still think about their bullies because being bullied is TRAUMATIC
The gaslighting of victims on social media never ceases to amaze me. Throw the whole Tiktok App away please 😭
True, it's honestly baffling how hard people try to gaslight the victims... It's crazy
Bullies basically pick on you if you stand out literally in any way so I don't see how it helps, for example, autistic ppl or ppl with unconventional appearance to "do better in life" it just worsens the issues 99% the time
this happened to me and didn’t help bc i was also ab*sed at home
I was bullied on PE bc I wasn't good at team sports due to health issues. When I started daily work out and became better than the other girls they couldn't stand it and the harassment was intolerable. I got doctor's leave. You can't avoid bullying by "doing better", bullies will always hate you. I still have huge trauma after 10 years and I feel if I am not the strongest and most athletic I am unlovable and burden to people.
this happened to me, I have disabilities/disorders (DID and autism, possibly ADHD) and the bullying lead us to have PTSD and doubled our Alter count.
@@TheSillyArsonistNot the alters 💀
@@TheSillyArsonistI’m sorry but the self diagnosis and the alter doubling is so funny to me 💀
“Bullying is like, a good thing” but when she gets bullied she shuts down all her social media accounts. 💀💀💀💀
True. She honestly needs to suck it up, she was trying to promote it yet suddenly it's happening to her and she shuts down? Honestly pathetic
She was not being bullied. She was being called out on her behavior.
@@Lord_Skepticshe seems to think that that was what she was doing to her victims, so the comparison still holds up. Girl can dish it out, but can’t take it.
👁👄👁 True
How ironic
She thinks that bullying is something that needs to happen, I bet the “bullying” she experienced was like ppl saying her hair looked weird or something.
The bullying I experienced in MIDDLE SCHOOL still effects me to this day, and some of which I'm only just recently getting over. That stuff really does do more than people think it does.
So many bullies forget what they do to their victims and think "oh since I forgot it must not have been that bad."
The axe forgets the tree remembers.
Also i find it hilarious that it took ONE person to comment smth and this girl is like "oh everyone who thinks of their bullies is stuck in the past." As if trying to shame anyone else that's thinking of stating similar things.
“It’s been 4 years! Move on🙄”
See here’s the thing,
To the person you were bullying, you were the main source of their anxiety, insecurities, and unwillingness to come to school. To you, It was just mild teasing towards a stranger.
Another thing that may prevent people from just “moving on” is the fact that they literally never get Justice. Schools don’t take bullying seriously and the abuser often gets away with it.
@@NearsightedNarhwal It's been way longer than 4 years since high school for me and I've been reading books on the subject (guess why!). There's been actual studies showing that bullying often affects people for life.
There are people in their 40s, 50s, 60s who are still affected by having been bullied in school. There's some recent studies showing that it actually alters your brain function.
It's not a joke, it's not for your own good to toughen you up, and a lot of the time you can't just get over it. It does lasting damage to a person.
@@sandpiperr Totally true. I ended up having to go to the funerals of a few of my friends thanks to bullying. And I still suffer depression, ptsd and I got a blatant paranoia about anyone that approaches me or behaves like a normal respectful human being. If I can't control the situation I will think someone is against me and I gotta cut ties for my own safety because I don't wanna be the next person in a casket.
My therapist says the hyper vigilance is also more prominent cause I got autism and I can't tell when people fake behaviour or are genuine, honestly I can't really read body language in general or understand intonation. So the anxiety there got worse rather than better.
And worse is that for me the biggest blow never came from people my own age because thanks to my autism I thought being bullied was normal. No, the biggest blow came when adults started to disregard me because nobody with autism can study psychology and succeed. So even when I got the highest grades in my class, I was told to move courses to something more on my intelligence level. Because I didn't get a perfect grade.
Exactly, she shamed people who remind their trauma but she was so triggered by 1 negative comment that she had to do a tiktok abt 🤣. As if it was the 1st time in life someone hold her accountable.
@@junrobin9335 Now that you mention it, I DO get defensive when strangers ask me questions about myself. I have this irrational paranoia that they're not genuinely curious but they want to make fun of me.
It is BRUTALLY ironic that she defended bullying, got ratioed, then took down her social media presence 💀.
Almost as if she didn't like being bullied ... the cognitive dissonance in today's society is WILD.
Poetry, isn't it?
She was not being bullied. She was being called out on her behavior.
If she was being bullied, then 4chan would have probably been involved somehow.
Although you could say that she thought that she was calling her victims out on their behavior
she got a taste of her own medicine
Bullying contributed to how severe my cptsd developed.
Imagine being chronically neglected at home, abused at home... then abused at school?
I couldn't escape it.
I didn't need any of the bullying i was subjected too at school. I had it hard enough
I feel you, I went through a similar thing (home and school abuse) and I'm still struggling to get better
I’m very sorry you experienced that. ❤ I have an anxiety that gets worse when I’m at school. People bullying me for the way I dressed or acted definitely did not “toughen me up.” It just made my anxiety worse, and made me hate school and myself.
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Same.
I hope you’re healthy and doing well this life can get difficult and frustrating and I understand the silent pain you went through I was depressed through most of my adolescence years and from what I’ve gained from it was definitely wisdom but I also lost opportunities and social aspects you know this life is all about priorities whatever you put on the frontline is what’s going to matter and what you’ll get the most results on I hope you learn something from that pain and understand that no matter how difficult things get you can look for hope because you matter no one can tell you otherwise you’re reading this comment for a reason your life has been coming to this moment and reading this comment I hope you take it seriously because it’ll change your life if you do nothing in this world is by accident it was all designed and the reason why you matter so much is because everything you do in this life has consequences everyone will be held accountable once they die and what humans see as good and bad isn’t as simple as how accurate morality stands there are standards for this world we can’t escape our morality or time for a reason why would we exist just to die wouldn’t it make sense for us to live forever if we were made with purpose? yeah we were but we committed immortality by the standards of the creator and by that we faced the consequences God wants you to listen to this message you don’t know when you’ll die and your life means a lot to him please let your past be healed by him and listen to him when you have a relationship with his son repent and believe with all of your heart he died for our sins and rose from the dead defeating death nothing in this world matters more than Jesus he will solve all of your problems and be there when you need him every single second of your life things in the world are changing for the worst it’s a scary time to be alive but listen to this message as a warning the future is dark and you don’t want to face it without Jesus do what I say and you will be fine and have clarity don’t put this off things are changing soon and by then it’ll be too late 🕊️🌎
My cousin was bullied so bad in ELEMENTARY that it severely affected her life. Years later, after shes graduated high-school, with proper therapy, she's finally happy and able to actually enjoy life and be independent.
i was bullied heavily as a kid and it’s left lasting psychological damage, and majorly impacted my mental state, and as a result, my life. be kind to one another, and teach your children to do the same. nobody needs to hurt anybody else.
Okay "you have to be chronically online to even know what the term chronically online is" is one of the most true things I've ever heard
She lacks empathy, and one day, karma is going to get back at her. Imagine if she had a child who came home crying and upset over being bullied. Would she just tell him/her that they "needed" to be bullied?
Well spoken this IS absolutely true
My thoughts exactly.
Let's face it. She's the type of person to already be bullying(abusing) that poor kid. No way would she care about them getting bullied in school too.
@@MsLilly200 Come to think of it, I wonder if she's accomplished anything in her life? 🤨
@@simonaaleksiejute3121 She probably didn't
Well said Hayley. I'm 51 and could still name the mean girls from school and this lassie thinks folk forget in 4 years. It means nothing to her but had a big impact on her victims. I think a lot of influencers were mean girls, you know how you just get that vibe.
I love how she says “mean girls aren’t that bad,” when I’ve been bullied in middle school, and she literally made my middle school life suck.
People who say bullying makes the victim "stronger", don't see the full picture and how it'll affect them in the long run. It's like they're saying, "Stabbing you will make your skin stronger" no it won't. It'll take a lot of time to heal, but once it's healed it'll leave a scar. Bullying is another form of harassment and/or abuse.
Bullying like other adversities in life can either make or break you. Bullying, personally made me tougher, but that doesn't mean it will make other people "tougher" nor does it mean it should be done at all. However, to start preaching "bullying is a good thing" for such a reason is saying that other bad things (e.g. family abuse) is a good thing and should be let happen. No it shouldn't ever happen. A good society can raise strong people without abusing them.
I get iffy when people say "bullying is GOOD" "Bullying is BAD" and then when people say "it makes people weak", "it makes people "strong", I have to deny the fact that me being bullied actually made me grow thicker skin, and for others, it broke them. Bullying is abuse. There are no changes to that. It just shouldn't be done. I'm not trying to promote or excuse bullying, I'm just pointing out that bullying does have such an affect on some people.
The only people who tell another person to “just move on” from their trauma have clearly never experienced it themself.
Or perhaps are in severe denial of their own trauma
The false narrative that every bully must have a shitty home life or something going on 'behind the scenes' to bully someone is so stupid. Anyone can be a bully, you just need to be a shitty enough person to bully someone.
Majority of bullies don't have shitty home lives, it's all bullshit to frame them as a victim too and to try to gaslight victims into trying to forget their actions and continue being their "toys".
yup from experience someone i know has a great home life and is still the biggest bully i've ever met...
When I was in fifth grade I was bullied alot and I'm starting middle school now and I will never forget how hypocritical they were like when I was crying in the bathroom they threw water in my face...that never made me stronger that just made me have horrible mental health
It's just like villains: people hate pure evil villains and say every villain needs a reasoning to be evil. No sherlock!
I couldn't agree more with you. 👍
✨Storytime✨
So when i was in 6th and 7th grade this really mean girl bullied me. Plus a ton of people were leaving me out for some reason and my parents were having a ✨HUGE✨fight so they were living separately. All that and did i bully anyone??? NO! Then in 7th grade the most revenge i got was giving everyone mini ✨heart attacks✨. Now i'm just chilling in 8th grade.
It's been almost 6 years and i still have anxiety because of people who have been bullying me
9 years ago for me, and I just now began therapy. It really affects people
@UTubeTrollPolice298 saying you make better content is an objective statement and opinion. Stop spamming the comments and allow your content to speak for itself. Nothing wrong with making a singular comme t yourself and asking people to check out your work, but to put down the creator who's UA-cam channel you're spamming is just rude and lazy. Do you tgibj that will encourage anybody to click, and even if they do, do you really want that to be people's first opinion of you?
@@TheKatarinaGisellethey’ve got no videos it’s a bot account
@@sirenssorrowsolemn if they are a bot, why are they stalking me now?
@@TheKatarinaGiselle Jesus that’s weird, but truly they have no videos and are commenting this everywhere. Maybe it’s a person who’s just a freak
I was bullied throughout high school and it’s only in the last year or so (Thankyou therapy and time), that I feel like I could walk past my bullies in the street and not feel true all encompassing terror. I haven’t seen any of these people since I was 16, I’m now 25. Whenever I have insecurities about myself, whether it’s physical or mental, it’s always their voices I hear in my head. It’s affected some of my romantic relationships throughout my 20s so far, because a lot of the bullying revolves around my appearance and how hilarious it would be if anyone wanted to be with me because I was so weird and ugly. The fact that this girl thinks people just need to stop caring and get over it is fucking mind blowing.
insane thing to say around 15:30 bc not only was i bullied for things i couldnt control, but i got bullied to the point that i probably got a concussion
At this point, TikTok needs to just be taken down. All these grown people on there are just so insufferable and their actions are just sick. Seriously, at this point I have NO hope whatsoever for these type of people. It’s disgusting, really.
If they take TikTok down, who would we all talk about? 😂
What about the innocent people?
I agree
@@ethanchasejackson sorry about that! Maybe not take it down, but those accounts down. Either way, TikTok is already rotting.
@UTubeTrollPolice298
saying you make better content is an objective statement and opinion. Stop spamming the comments and allow your content to speak for itself. Nothing wrong with making a singular comme t yourself and asking people to check out your work, but to put down the creator who's UA-cam channel you're spamming is just rude and lazy. Do you tgibj that will encourage anybody to click, and even if they do, do you really want that to be people's first opinion of you?
i absolutely hate how she's subtly bullying ppl throughout the video too. As if being a bully in high school wasn't enough, she has to continue to be condescending b/c one person called her out
I was bullied all through school. I’m 52; I still remember. It DOES stick with you. Some people handle it better than others, but the feelings never completely go away.
3:40 my dad was in the hospital for 2 months, and my grandpa, grandma, and great uncle all died in the same time frame, but never once did i bully someone.
Bullying shouldn’t happen to anyone, this is coming from someone who’s been bullied really bad in the past. It does not ‘build confidence’, it breaks your confidence and puts it down.
Some victims even turned to psychopaths and sociopaths because of such mistreatment if unhealed,these content creator mean girl on TikTok wanted to infect the Medusas of society
The second I saw the title my jaw dropped to the floor
Honestly same
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@UTubeTrollPolice298
saying you make better content is an objective statement and opinion. Stop spamming the comments and allow your content to speak for itself. Nothing wrong with making a singular comme t yourself and asking people to check out your work, but to put down the creator who's UA-cam channel you're spamming is just rude and lazy. Do you tgibj that will encourage anybody to click, and even if they do, do you really want that to be people's first opinion of you?
@OfficerZ637 K i wont
Hey. Autistic adult here. The awful stuff that happened to me in high school, middle school, elementary school... it all stuck with me. I was made to feel like a freak not only by my peers, but by my teachers. I'm 32 now and it _still_ hasn't gone away. The trauma you go through in those formative years can and _will_ have a permanent effect on your personality.
im sorry that happened. i’m a teen with autism and i can relate
I'm sorry. But still AUTISTIC! That is not just something you should say to just insult someone. There are real people who struggle with autism. So please don't.
But still I'm very sorry you had to have that experience. I hope you are doing better these days.
I was bullied my hole childhood, and it gave me severe stress, depression and anxiety (ptsd). I have lived most of my grown life in isolation, i have had a severe alcohol abuse, because it was the only way i could leave the house. Im 34 now, i been alcohol free for 3years and im in therapy for anxiety, stress and depression. I will get better, but i will never forget.
💯💯💯👍
Damn im sorry that happened to u, i hope you’re doing good now
As someone who’s been bullied my whole life; it’s fucking traumatizing. I became insecure and hated my life. I attempted to oof myself before.
A kid in my school actually succeeded because he was being bullied into it..
RIP Kaiden, we love you
I'm truly sorry for him...May God bless him.
that's so sad!! I fucking hate bullies!! Rest in peace Kaiden 💔
Rest in peace Kaiden ❤ I hope where ever he is now he is happy, healthy, and bully-free.
That's really sad 😔 RIP Kaiden🙏✨️
OMG was there legal action?!!because I’m pretty sure it’s illegal to bully someone and make them kill themselves on purpose.
She bullies other people yet scared of being bullied by others. How pathetic it is. She clearly has never been bullied, i experienced that and i doubt she would handle it
@@-Moonlight-1 She clearly don't understand how it feels...Bullying makes us sometimes freeze in our head and spine like what s*xual abuse would do to our nervous system...
as someone who was bullied, became a bully, felt bad and then repeated said cycle once more; yea no bullying isnt fun. even when youre doing it.
I went throught the same shit! It makes you lose sleep at night, wondering why you fucked up, or why you're not good enough.
@@daft_j true, i wanted to be popular and thats the only reason i started bullying. became friends with the girl after i realized she did nothing wrong and i was just trying to fit in. i finally found my own group where i didnt have to act different to be included
I’m going through the same thing right now!
@@seraphic.ৎthen stop.
Glad you're taking accountability of your actions@@mahitos_biggest_fan
thank god she's still being clowned on. Imagine whining about people being soft and then privating their account, what a weak person
"i dont think before i speak" sweetie you dont think at all 😭
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as someone who was bullied, it has called me a lot of trauma
Bullies should not exist. They play a major role with people taking their own lives, and that is just not cool. So thank you for speaking up on this subject.
If you're really going through a lot at the time, bullying others will be your last concern. She's just a sociopath with zero empathy for others.
Exactly.
i disagree. I used to know a kid who was a massive bully at school. We didnt know it at the time but he was being abused and beaten at home.. His actions at school were his 14 year old self acting out and doing the same thing to others that his parents did to him. He was a bully BECAUSE bullying had been normalized in his household.
In his 20s he got therapy and ended that cycle of abuse. Hes now 50 and the nicest person youd ever meet.
@@elegantrebel If that's true I'm guessing his attitude is "what I did was wrong, and I'm sorry" not "it's been years, get over it!"
THAT is the difference!
@UTubeTrollPolice298no she didn't stfu
A "sociopath" is someone who was traumatized to the point of loosing emotional empathy to self preserve. They can be good people, they just have little emotional empathy and instead use rational empathy. This is obviously far from her case seeing her cowardness and reaction to the backlash, plus seeing how she never mentioned being traumatized herself. Sociopaths are better than her, please avoid using medical terms to refer POS or it just gives the diagnosis a terrible reputation.
I was horribly bullied in high school...to a point i attempted to unalive myself twice...over 23 years ago and it still affects me to this day.
When she said...dont take it too personal...and people are too soft...it takes tremendous courage and strength to get up day after day to be abused...day after day
Love the fact that the internet gave her just a taste of what its like...
Love that for her
Exactly!!!!
It's wild to me that she said people should be bullied, but then had to private her account when people started to got at her for this.
Ikr? Why are people against bullying bullying others?
@@C.Church the school system
@@Inky_doodledoo Not sure what you mean?
@@C.Churchthe school system often punishes people that defend themselves and also generally does nothing against bullying
I was bullied in middle school..that was like 12 years ago,I'll never forget the mistreatment and sadness it caused me as a child. They stole my joy. Im glad the universe did its job here.
Oh my god, I literally have tears in my eyes watching this video... I was bullied in school for years and it affected my ENTIRE life. I developed social anxiety because of everything that happened, now I constantly expect hatred or harm from others, I feel like the most worthless person in the world. And this ex-bully is like "oh, bullying is just something that happens in childhood, it's evolution." No, it's not. Bullying is a completely social thing, it happens in a group of people when there is an aggressor, a victim, and bystanders who do nothing but watch. Why is it hard to resist bullying? Because the victim is completely alone against the entire environment, they have no support, not to mention the fact that bullying often begins in early adolescence when the individual is very vulnerable. It hurts me so much to realize that the aggressor doesn't think for a second about the feelings of the person he bullied, doesn't think about the fact that the other person has their own feelings, experiences, that bullying is terrible. (Sorry if there are a lot of mistakes here, I used a translator.)
Sorry for this. I have a similar problem - have CPTSD now from being bullied and get a panic attack whenever I feel like I am being bullied again - like if somebody gives me even constructive negative feedback- or see someone being bullied (even if it is in a movie).
As a high schooler who was bullied and sexually bullied in middle school that this person is so wrong it’s not even funny because even when u stick up for yourself the school system does nothing to help.
they punished people who defended themselves at the school i went to, like wtf.
I hope you recover
Same!
As an adult, if I talk about how I was sexually harassed starting in 5th grade all the way through 7th grade, people roll their eyes and say that was just bullying and I'm being dramatic.
However, what happened to me...if it happened to an adult woman in the work place, or the gym, or anywhere no one would argue that it's not sexual harassment!
We take sexual abuse of children (as in being groomed or molested) seriously but not sexual harassment and I don't know why!
UTube, and you say that your against “cyber bullying” and trolls yet here you are being one
man, YEAH.. i had a guy in middle school (my first year at a public school ever btw) who would always get in my space and never leave me alone EVER and finally i told my math teacher about it and she pulled the 'boys will be boys' card.. later, in that same math class, he was trying to touch my legs and i ended up punching him in the chin......! he didnt bother me after that and nobody even noticed it so a win all around i guess.. but theres a serious issue with adults, ESPECIALLY SCHOOL STAFF/TEACHERS, not believing kids when serious shits happening to them..
Bullying is never okay, whether it's your granny or her 2nd favorite grandchild
“I was going through a lot” girl I was going through my parents getting divorced, getting out of an ab*sive parents home, and trying to work through that, and I was never ever mean to anyone
She DID GO THROUGH A LOT!
Finding more ways to step on her victims.
It's so annoying how she says "bullying needs yo happen, bullying in America isn't that bad". But she isn't thinking about the amount of innocent people who have injured or UNALIVED themselves because of the bullying. She's practically downplaying the victims and the mental and emotional pain that they went through. Sickening.
I used to be a very outgoing, extroverted person who was very adventurous and loved trying new things. After being bullied, I lost all self confidence, and I would never step out of my comfort zone. And that wasn’t even high school, I was just 9 when I was bullied
Bullying is helpful!? It's clear this woman has never read a psychology book. I guess she didn't read those on any of her travels or when she was learning those precious life lessons...
It is, I had a crush on this friend of mine but he "bullied" me in a sense by insulting me and saying no one would love me, a while later and I've successfully suppressed my feelings for him and we're friends now lol❤
@@divine555 Damn... You got gaslighted so bad. Why are you staying friends with someone that obviously never cared about you if they belittle you and disregard your feelings, to the point of saying you're unworthy of love?
I've been in a similar situation several years ago, had just changed schools because of bullying and saw this girl alone. Decided to become friends with her since i thought nobody deserved to be left alone (like i had been). She then proceeded to belittle me and my taste in music, would tell me to shut it just so she could sing, almost walked over a drawing and when i told her to be careful, she'd start trying to hit and kick me. Was never reliable for projects or anything school related, nor sending lessons when i was sick. Then would cry and try to defend herself when i confronted her because she didn't want to admit to herself she was wrong (because a group of people excluded her due to a misunderstanding and she took it as bullying, while never questionning herself about was she was doing to me). People like her are never someone you could count on. Crossed paths with her years later, she's still just as bad and careless about others but she hides it more, and refuses to aknowledge what she did. Her then and current friends are exactly like i was, though they're starting to leave her now that they're getting to meet better people and see how bad she is.
Please find yourself someone better, you deserve an actual friend that genuinely cares about you.
@@divine555is this a joke? No one should ever tell you that, they’re wrong. It is not necessary
I was bullied so severely that it literally changed the course of my life and not for the better.. I hate bullies and have no sympathy for them!
“I never think before i speak” is the worst excuse for not thinking before you speak.
You may as well just say “im really immature” like love if you can point it out as a flaw surely do something about it
I got bullied at my last job (as a 30 year old woman by someone 5 years older than me).
She made my life a living hell for no reason other than she was stressed at home. It made going to work so hard for me. Bullies will be bullies no matter how old.
I was experienced violence, threats of sexual violence and death, bullying, online bullying and harassment all the way from kindergarden up until college. I will always remember what I went through, cause it got burned into my memories. I don't give a damn what my bullies went through! What about what I went through? They knew I was from a poor family, they should have known I had enough struggles as it was. Did they care? No! So why should I care about them? I cannot for the life of me find a single care for them, I landed in a mental hospital because of them. I hate bullies with passion and I always will. Bullying should not be accepted
"If you're still focused on me in highschool then you clearly have no purpose in my life".. "These people literally mean 0 to me now".. SHE MAKES A VIDEO TALKING ABOUT ( HERSELF) IN HIGHSCHOOL AND TALKING ABOUT (THESE PEOPLE) !!🤷♀️👏
As someone who was bullied, I want to say thank you to the lady at 14:56 for taking responsibility for her actions.
Not her getting bullied, and then private her TikTok, and not being able to take it.
High school doesn't feel meaningless while you're attending and being bullied...those 4 years can feel endless. And too many kids don't make it out of high school because the bullying is so unbearable and feels like it will never end, so they take their own lives rather than have to endure one more day of it.
Girl (in the TikTok) thank you for speaking up about the bullying minority. Many of us have tried to get our victims to see WE’RE actually the victims of them trying to stop us. We really feel seen because of you.
And it’s great to see you respect the bullying code of “Bully everyone else but don’t take it from them.”
Round of applause for our bullying queen 🤮🤮🤮- I MEAN 😍
I was bullied throughout elementary and middle school. Which was about 30 years ago and it has effected me into adulthood. It took me awhile to grow and move forward with my life.
I am a teenager from the UK who is now homeschooled due to how horrible the bullying at my secondary school was (and its only been like 2 years since then). I have autism and due to the stuff I did because of that (I had a bad habit of talking about the stuff I liked, and unfortunately my interests were seen as "weird" by the "cool kids", I also stimmed, got upset when it was too loud and often liked being alone, all of these things made me a target, I'm also a guy and I'm not traditionally masculine, here in the UK majority of the boys LOVE football, but I don't really have much interest in it cause the only sports I have an interest in are tennis and dodgeball, and even then I prefer other outdoor health activities like just going on a calming walk, because of that I got made fun of for being a "sissy")
The kids would mostly verbally bully me though it would get physical sometimes (trying to steal my school supplies and trying to trip me over in the hallway) at first I tried to ignore it but it just got worse, the kids would be saying some awful things about me and they would spread rumours that they knew 100% weren't true, someone once said I watched dirty anime material (which I didn't, not only am I not attracted to that I also believe I'm too young to be watching that stuff and it could affect my developing brain) just because a lot of my interests were animes and manga
They'd also constantly call me a r*tard which is a very horrible word to call an autistic person, and they'd tell me to off myself, and while I mentioned before it thankfully didn't get that physical they'd also threaten to "jump me" after school, which of course that never happened but I was terrified
When the girl in the video said "if you're being bullied you just need to be more confident and start standing up for yourself" I got super angry, its not that easy, I tried to tell the kids to stop, I tried telling the heads of year, I tried telling my Mum whom called the school, I tried insulting them back, I tried to be more confident in my interests, hobbies and appearance, I really did try yet nothing changed, the teachers at school did nothing even after my Mum called them, the kids never stopped when I told them it was affecting my life and they'd just laugh when I tried to insult them back, and when I tried to be more confident the kids would just tear me back down again
Not only was the bullying giving me bad mental health, it was also giving me violent thoughts, I thought that maybe if I became violent and hurt them kids they'd be scared of me and stop, I had fantasies of beating them up in front of the whole school and humiliating them like they did to me, it got to the point where I actually punched one of them at some point, that specific bully stopped making fun of me but none of the others did and after that I was too scared to be violent with those kids because I didn't want the adults in my life to think I was a troubled deliquent or being sent to a juvenile place
Eventually I was put into home schooling because it was to the point where I was suicidal (and also some things to do with my autism which I wont get into). Most kids who are victims of bullying aren't so lucky though, they have to deal with this throughout their whole school lives and majority of them don't even have parents who care enough to take action and call the school let alone get them homeschooling. Everday thousands, millions of kids in schools all over the world are bullied to the point where they want to end their own lives, my heart goes out to you if you are being or have been bullied, please stay strong ❤
Hope you're doing well now
In the US, (more specifically in Memphis, TN) parents would try to bring a gun to school or kids nowadays shoot each other with guns. The other day my sister witness a group fight by the 13%. I'm starting avoid seeing the news so this may had happened around the US.
You honestly seem like such a strong and intelligent person, I wish you well! I punched the shit out of my bullies too, even if it got me in some trouble. Worth it, as they never would get into any trouble for bullying otherwise. You're definitely the better person for just doing it once, lol.
I'm so sorry that has happened for you, I truly do hope things start getting better for you soon
I had a tough time at school (also from the UK) and ended up being homeschooled. I hope you now have space to begin to heal. You’re clearly extremely self aware and some adults lack that, you have the tools to begin the next chapter of your life and it can get better. I’m glad you got away from that school, everything you’ve done so far has taken immense courage and you should be proud of yourself. Wishing you the best ❤
I genuinely don't think she understands just how much bullying can fuck someone up. I was bullied my entire time at school (I'm technically still in school but now I'm homeschooled). I can't cry more then like- 4 tears anymore because I'd get bullied for it. I tried to unalive myself at 9 years old because of it. I got expelled when I fought back. It might as well have destroyed my life and she needs to realise that.
As someone who was TERRIFIED to leave home and had really bad anxiety attacks to the point I couldn’t go to school until the person that bullied me got expelled and my whole grade moved on, she deserves the backlash she got. She actually doesn’t know how bad it can be. Even though it all happened last year I still cannot stand large groups because they always came in large groups. If she experienced a FRACTION of what I’ve gone through she wouldn’t be saying anything.
"I haven't used anything that she did in highschool." Like your brain? Did you leave that there too?
Imagine thinking that saying that you have no contact with anyone from high school makes you a badass 💀 being a lone wolf isn't a flex when it isn't by choice girl
It’s been a wild ride seeing our dear Haylo Hayley video by video slip deeper and deeper into despair and become increasingly righteously angry over the absolute cesspool dumpster fire that TikTok has always been but recently has fully revealed itself to be
@OfficerZ637no (:
i hate bullies being bullied growing up really messes with you throughout your life and people only say 'im just being honest' 'its just dark humor' 'don't be so sensitive' when they're being mean as an excuse to be mean without getting backlash. also everyone thinks 'people should be bullied' until it's them :/
I have PTSD from getting bullied how can someone be so ignorant about something.
As someone who has been bullied in school I strongly disagree with the woman in the tiktok for MULTIPLE reasons and I don't think ANYBODY should have to go through it no matter how old they are
“Yea I bullied you but I’m over it so stop being so obsessed with me💁🏻♀️”
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I was bullied the entire time I was in school, preschool to senior year. The bullying slowly transformed over the years from mean names and threats to social isolation. On my senior trip I had a mental breakdown in my hotel room because everyone else was together doing a fun activity while I was left alone and had no idea they were they were planning anything. Even though I graduated 6 years ago, I still have nightmares about being in school and sometimes wake up crying. School turned me from a happy go lucky kid to a severely anxious and severely depressed adult.
Sending virtual hugs to your teenage self 🤗
This woman really thinks she's Regina George. 💀
when in reality she looks like benedict cumberbatch lmfao
I’ve seen so many mean girls who think they way they act is iconic or funny.
No. You’re not iconic. You’re not “brutally honest and other people can handle it.”
You’re just an asshole
Even Regina changed 💀💀💀
Even Regina realised the kind of person she was and grew to be better
Who? Haylo or someone else in this video
I was a kid. I didn’t need to be stronger. I needed to be protected.
Oh yeah, I'll definitely go up to my primary school bully (who told me to end it, punched and kicked me under the table, got his friends to gang up on me, constantly insulted me and purposely made me cry) and give them a big thank you :/
In middle school, I was super mean to my old friends (that I had in elementary school). I was really passive aggressive and overall rude. I was depressed and was jealous of them-I didn’t understand why they got to be happy and I didn’t. When I got to high school, I profusely apologized. “I had a lot going on,” isn’t an excuse.
My sixth grade teacher was my bully. I’m 30 now and the things she did to me still haunt me. She’s the reason I starved myself and the reason I still hate every inch of my body. It doesn’t just go away. It happened in my formative years and it took away the confidence I once had.
You are the greatest person
Hate narcissistic superiority complex mentality people like this because they never think anything they do will be held accountable for their cruel intentions and they never take accountability at all. It's actually funny to see these bullies getting the same treatment back. That's what they never expect to happen to them. Never. Karma exists y'all. Be careful what you choose to do in your life because sometimes it'll come back to bite you when you least expect it to.
@UTubeTrollPolice298 I am so sorry that you went through that. I too was bullied throughout my school years and I would never want anyone to ever go through being bullied because I do know what the trauma is like obviously and I wouldn't lie about this just to get likes. Hugs 🤗.
Karma doesn’t actually exist. There are nations that literally get away with genocide and Kissinger who justified and instigated genocides and wars lived to 100 years of age.
@@NouraZahle sweetheart there's always karma for everyone regardless of what you say. There's always repercussions for everyone actions whether it be their health suddenly going down the toilet so to speak or something else happening to them. I didn't say an actual person was going to do anything to them. Apparently you don't realize that Karma is an entity being. Talk about taking things too literally like as if you thought I referring to a actual person making them get bad karma 🤣. Nice try honey. Move along because your comment proved nothing. Lmao 🤣. Trust me Karma exists. Bye bye 👋.
@@NouraZahle Also why would you possibly bring up politics when I wasn't even talking about political stuff in the first place and to boot those things happen well before I was born at that! Like seriously? Great job on changing the subject to something YOU WANT the conversation to be about when I was only talking about KARMA ITSELF EXISTING NOT POLITICAL CRAP. Get outta here with all that drama. Lmao 🤣
@@emeraldautumnvirden1975Don’t believe what UTube cultist group says, they just pull lies out of their butt while copying peoples comments.
The fact that she thinks bullying is NEEDED when there are children out there killing themselves because of it.
As someone who was bullied for years by several people, this person triggers my flight or fight so hard that I want to crawl under my bed and cry. That's how you know she was not "just mean" but a really, really awful bully in high school. I don't even know her and I get so bad anxiety.