My In-Laws Supported My Wife's Adultery, My Son Calls Me A Failure | His Story | Voice For Men India

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  • Опубліковано 20 вер 2024

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  • @asofotida443
    @asofotida443 Рік тому +51

    For me it was reverse. After her parents came to know she was having an affair, her parents told me to kick her out of the house! Ultimately what happened is she kicked out her parents and me out of the house. She threatened with false DV claims, now we are happily divorced, at least I am.

    • @ayushmishra8628
      @ayushmishra8628 Рік тому +16

      I think there's no hope for marriage anymore. One should prioritise self development instead of doing marriage and getting into divorce wasting their precious youth years

    • @asofotida443
      @asofotida443 Рік тому +7

      @@ayushmishra8628 salute 🫡 I fully agree.

    • @akshay9602
      @akshay9602 Рік тому +6

      You had to pay alimony/maintenance ?

    • @dadofeminazis
      @dadofeminazis Рік тому

      Mutual divorce or contested divorce? What's the ground @your particular case?

    • @asofotida443
      @asofotida443 Рік тому +6

      @@akshay9602 one time settlement

  • @Bhargava_P
    @Bhargava_P Рік тому +25

    Who will punish the milords of SC for striking down the adultery law ? I believe in karma. I am sure one day these judges will get beaten on roads.

  • @lastperfectman
    @lastperfectman Рік тому +22

    This is painful phenomenon nowadays. 😢 I support you brother Santosh.

    • @ShashankNaithani
      @ShashankNaithani Рік тому +3

      I am scared of getting married.

    • @lastperfectman
      @lastperfectman Рік тому

      @thezoldics7648 I agree with you, But you see the reality nowadays the Women Empowerment gone Excessive that it turn to Toxic Feminism. Now Every Girls or Women Use these Indian Laws as Weapon against the men in abusive way.

  • @VikasBhat060578
    @VikasBhat060578 Рік тому +14

    As an alienated father myself who has a strong bond with son, trust me one day he will find you and come back to you. Have faith in your upbringing. He knows his father loves him and that is where he will get strength from.

    • @VoiceForMenIndia
      @VoiceForMenIndia  Рік тому +12

      More strength to all fathers who can't meet their own children

    • @VikasBhat060578
      @VikasBhat060578 Рік тому +1

      @@VoiceForMenIndia thanks maam

    • @anikets4699
      @anikets4699 Рік тому

      Nope! Your ex-wife will poison your son with all bad thongs she can say about you. You are screwed both ways!
      Do a 2nd marriage, have kids with her and there you go… back to basics boy!

  • @Nivi.K
    @Nivi.K Рік тому +11

    As my case is also going on in the court i am seeing kids as young as 4 rejecting and abusing the alienated parent. It is so traumatising to watch with so much crying, shouting, running away, hiding in the bathroom etc in the family court. These kids are brainwashed negatively by the custody parent family.
    Santhosh's wife and her family has narcissist tendencies so he should try to understand them from that perspective and then find ways to attack narcissist behaviour.
    Good interview by the Arnaz who asked the right questions which helped in understanding everything easily.

  • @shanuv12
    @shanuv12 11 місяців тому +1

    The insatiable desire of having family has made men highly vulnerable.

  • @mgtowmonk7044
    @mgtowmonk7044 Рік тому +11

    I felt sad for him and i just hope he takes his health and mental health seriously, thnx from bringing this interview 👍

  • @ind3215
    @ind3215 Рік тому +17

    Your channel directly or indirectly will make the world more spiritual.🙏

    • @VoiceForMenIndia
      @VoiceForMenIndia  Рік тому +8

      We are just human, trying to create awareness for society 🙏

  • @MrPUNEET2012
    @MrPUNEET2012 10 місяців тому +1

    bro, there is one court which is above all court on this earth. You will definitely get justice there. There is nothing more painful for a father to be humiliated and hated by his own children.

  • @manavkohli8601
    @manavkohli8601 Рік тому +11

    after watching your channel and reading articles from the website all I got is just stress and anxiety and started hating women, I'm just 20 and now totally an MGTOW, keep up the good work but.

    • @anikets4699
      @anikets4699 Рік тому +8

      Good! MGTOW is the way to go man!
      Just remember make a ton of money and focus on your career!
      Buy that supercar/bike you like and drive that shit crazy!
      Trust me it will worth it at the end! ✌️

    • @ultimate6243
      @ultimate6243 Рік тому

      #MGTOW is freedom
      #MGTOW is wisdom

    • @tradingwizard562
      @tradingwizard562 8 місяців тому +1

      Stay single , stay safe .

  • @realbigmanoncampus
    @realbigmanoncampus Рік тому +6

    Please keep bringing out such stories. Great service done by you.
    To the gentleman - Your situation is hard … unfortunately we are living in a society that has declared war on fathers … please pray to Lord … he is watching your plight and the plight of all such fathers … in the end Justice will be done by the Lord. Trust him. 🙏

  • @rooroo5192
    @rooroo5192 Рік тому +9

    So sad, being a woman myself, feel so bad for men. Women pls stop treating men like this, be visionary, don't let your ego, greed highjack your intelligence. Ladies, pls use your own brain, don't be manipulated by lawyer, fathers etc. Its a loss for society in general. In my divorce, I didn't allowed my father to intervene, because I saw his bad intentions for ex esp because it was a love marriage, I stepped in between took side of ex, kept father away. Alas yet my ex blamed me without any basis, that my father n me planning against him, whearas truth is I supported him, took stand for him. Never filed any ill case against him, didn't even took alimony. Yet he never respected me, talked abusive to me. At the end, genuine person suffers, irrespective of the gender.

    • @VoiceForMenIndia
      @VoiceForMenIndia  Рік тому +6

      Totally agree. While we cover stories about men, we are not oblivious to the plight of women

    • @ShivamShukla-kh6ke
      @ShivamShukla-kh6ke Рік тому +3

      sahi kaha apne,meri wife bhi innocent hai,in laws sari problem ki root cause hai

  • @srikarnv9834
    @srikarnv9834 Рік тому +12

    Trust me, that son was not yours, he may be born out of wedlock.

    • @anikets4699
      @anikets4699 Рік тому +1

      Dr. Salunke ab tak kaha the aap?

  • @AY-or3ql
    @AY-or3ql Рік тому +12

    Better to come out from this extorting relationship and start new life! Until unless you will not love or take care of yourself nothing can be changed! System itself extorting men in all way!

    • @AM-zk6ue
      @AM-zk6ue Рік тому +7

      He happily would have if he didn't have a son, being away from his son is tearing him apart. If he gets custody of the son he would be more than happy to kick that woman and her parents out of his thoughts!

    • @hmittra
      @hmittra Рік тому +1

      @@AM-zk6uevery correctly said..

    • @amiyarana8733
      @amiyarana8733 Рік тому +3

      ​@@AM-zk6ueit will be better if he forgets his son because custody of children is always with their mother if she agrees. He should find a new woman in his life. Because divorce won't be so easy for him and he will ruin his life if he thinks about his wife and child

  • @anikets4699
    @anikets4699 Рік тому +9

    After watching this video my respect for pro-titues 📈📈📈

  • @pqr6614
    @pqr6614 Рік тому +7

    Thank you for documenting all these real stories mam.
    Thank you for your efforts,it will help many people in some way or another.
    May god give more success and happiness in your life.

  • @AY-or3ql
    @AY-or3ql Рік тому +13

    Accept the truth and pathetic condition for men in this country and start new life, only for yourself!

  • @AD13D
    @AD13D 9 місяців тому +1

    Movies and Short Movies Should be made based on these Stories in large number for awareness in society...

  • @rajeswarikannan430
    @rajeswarikannan430 Рік тому +8

    Sad story. In 8 years she had only failures...i was married at 21, did my masters while being pregnant and working full time, while also doing all work at home. Studies work and family life can go together,...i do not understand why such women marry in the first place...

    • @anikets4699
      @anikets4699 Рік тому +3

      80% of your comment is just about you! 😂😅
      Woman! 🫡

    • @krishnarewani8311
      @krishnarewani8311 Рік тому +3

      ​@@anikets4699unke comment ko samjhne ka knowledge nhi hai tere pas

    • @Happysoul_3
      @Happysoul_3 8 місяців тому

      See problem can happen to manage studies/ exams with kids but adultery was the biggest issue which the girl had. She took advantage of him😢

  • @AM-zk6ue
    @AM-zk6ue Рік тому +9

    such people (the woman and her effing parents) should be handled the way they are supposed to be handled.

  • @findsidd
    @findsidd Рік тому +1

    Thanks Arnaz to bring this up.
    I feel peculiar shortcoming in our law which has not recognised parental alienation as a child abuse even though there are multiple court judgements regarding the same.

  • @Rk-dq8yc
    @Rk-dq8yc 7 місяців тому +2

    why dont we men take away kids from mother and take to their home? why leave it to court battle for custody? In law father is also guardian and its not kidnapping!! it would save lot of hassle and pain for the father

  • @rajmaharaja8339
    @rajmaharaja8339 Рік тому +1

    Thanks mam for supporting innocent man

  • @teluguradu
    @teluguradu 11 місяців тому +1

    As an young unmarried man, I'm literally scared to marry lol. It seems better to f|_|ck around.

  • @kingraja971
    @kingraja971 Рік тому +2

    Almighty is looking at everything. Need not worry. One day Your Son will come back to you.

  • @AD13D
    @AD13D 9 місяців тому +1

    Every man is a feminist, untill he meets a woman at court...😢😢

  • @TheHappySapiens
    @TheHappySapiens Рік тому +2

    Arnaz , You and Your team is fighting a very tough fight. May Lord Shiva bless you strength and Patience. God Job Guys❤

  • @MrPUNEET2012
    @MrPUNEET2012 10 місяців тому

    Thanks to VFM team and very few platforms like it, to give voice to men who are completely helpless.

  • @siddheshjethe3093
    @siddheshjethe3093 Рік тому +2

    I wish he should meet/talk to his son and assure his son that his son is forgiven for all the mean things son is saying to father. Assure the son that father knows why son is being mean. Assure that all the father's blessings will protect the son throughout his life.

  • @thecontrarycontrarian4230
    @thecontrarycontrarian4230 Рік тому +1

    Very good initiative by the team to show the other side of the story

  • @pandaamaresh6613
    @pandaamaresh6613 Рік тому

    Too painful. Pray God for mercy

  • @skynet_cyberdyne_systems
    @skynet_cyberdyne_systems 7 місяців тому

    Good work

  • @rahuldewan6309
    @rahuldewan6309 Рік тому +2

    Well the same thing happened with me after 20 yrs of marriage and my wife has confessed about her relationship with her boyfriend even in the court of law

  • @poonammehta1741
    @poonammehta1741 Рік тому +1

    I would request Santosh to keep on trying to meet his son. One day he will understand and would start again reapecting & talking. That day he shouldn't not feel alone so please be patient and keep on trying.

  • @shanuv12
    @shanuv12 11 місяців тому +1

    I m not ready to go through such humiliation hence not getting married

  • @neeramalhan8724
    @neeramalhan8724 Рік тому +1

    Very very Sad situation! Marriage is a Commitment from both sides! Give and Take( from both sides) 😟

  • @tradingwizard562
    @tradingwizard562 8 місяців тому +1

    Better to move on in life , they will learn their lesson the hard way because Karma strikes back .
    However , it is better for you to become detached and move away .

  • @AD13D
    @AD13D 9 місяців тому +1

    धीरे धीरे माँ बाप अपने लड़कों की शादियां करना ही बंद कर देंगे 😢😢😢

  • @anikets4699
    @anikets4699 Рік тому +4

    Hey! If you really want to grow this channel and let the message spread to the masses. Please seriously consider having these interviews in HINDI!

    • @rharinath77
      @rharinath77 9 місяців тому

      Please continue in English

  • @SJ-ie3ty
    @SJ-ie3ty 2 місяці тому

    Bhai kuchh nahi aisi ladkiyo ki family bahut saare hai...apni bhi same story hai..... I married to mumbai girl native from bihar...I lost my daughter...

  • @RohitVerma-hf9ns
    @RohitVerma-hf9ns Рік тому +2

    Not really sure how India will grow with most corrupt police as per experiences😔

  • @shanuv12
    @shanuv12 11 місяців тому

    Also please don't bad mouth guys who alienate their family if this is what they are going through

  • @madhugj8645
    @madhugj8645 2 місяці тому

    I have seen many cases where many many parents of the women's support adultery. I'm asking if this is the case then why spoli boys life?
    Thank you.

  • @AD13D
    @AD13D 9 місяців тому

    कहानी घर घर की...😢😢😢

  • @bowman3431
    @bowman3431 Рік тому

    I know one case in corporate, Guy was obese but had very good singing voice like arijit singh he approached a colleague for relationship but she under the influence of a workplace gladiator accused him of inappropriate behaviour reason was the victim find out the gladiator was brainwashing a graduate hire girl and caught him filing fraudulent papers then gladiator created noise to kill that guy's image and career progression management also created a fiasco to suppress his concerns, he contacted HR with evidences but they also discarded his voice so that Women can be kept silent it. Laws which r there for protecting women is being used by group of hostile men and women to take coercive control of the society and do what ever they want its a backdoor rule created by mens who wants to rule the society they r ruling it now by controlling a women's allegiance.

  • @AD13D
    @AD13D 9 місяців тому

    😢😢😢😢😢

  • @arindamghosh5438
    @arindamghosh5438 Рік тому

    😔

  • @piyushdas079
    @piyushdas079 Рік тому +2

    Kya chomu😂😊

    • @deepakmaan5023
      @deepakmaan5023 Рік тому +25

      Dusro Ki Problem Sabko Mazaak Lagti Hai Agar Nahi Samajh Aa Raha Hai To Nikal Yaha Se

    • @piyushdas079
      @piyushdas079 Рік тому +2

      ​@deepakmaan5023 bhai the problem is that this guy doesn't have a spine...he is asking what is this aukaat ....anyone with balls would have given it back

    • @docanand7578
      @docanand7578 Рік тому +5

      @@piyushdas079 you don't know law buddy..

    • @piyushdas079
      @piyushdas079 Рік тому

      ​@@docanand7578you dont know science 😊

    • @gaurisharma6069
      @gaurisharma6069 Рік тому +8

      @@piyushdas079 no common man has power to fight the police force, unless you're a rich ministors son or a criminal

  • @TJ-wo1xt
    @TJ-wo1xt 11 місяців тому

    There is teal evil in this world.

  • @RAJ_4321
    @RAJ_4321 Рік тому

    😢😢😢😢😢😢

  • @RAJ_4321
    @RAJ_4321 Рік тому

    😢😢😢😢😢

    • @AD13D
      @AD13D 9 місяців тому

      😢😢😢