Living With an ASD Partner: The Neurotypical Wife's Grief Cycle
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- Опубліковано 16 бер 2013
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She has expectations, going into this relationship. And when you don't meet these expectations, she then tells you that the Holy Spirit told me the reason that He put her in my life was to teach me how to be a Christian. Sounds to me that her narcissistic personality was hiding, until she got with me, who has aspergers. I want to know why she can't just let me be who I am in Jesus. And let Jesus be the one to help me to change in the areas He needs me to change in. Sounds very narcissistic control to me.
Your thoughts please, Mark?
Maybe she has mindblindness, because she came into the relationship with expectations. And because these expectation aren't being met, she tells me that I'm not working to make this relationship work. And putting all the problems this relationship is having on the man, because our relationship problems are do to his aspergers. And that's not right. I did try to call her out on the narcissistic abuse that she has been displaying these last several year. And how she needs to own up to our marital problems maybe one sided. Because you are in denial that she could possibly be why we are having marital problems, become she has become a narcissist.
Yep! I've come to the conclusion that what's better for him and for me, is to find my happiness and emotional intimacty through friendships and nurturing myself. I no longer make vacation plans because the pain is much more prevalent if I'm pulled away from my tools I use to nurture myself, and he seems to withraw more out of his routine.
@@rebeccatrono3376 It is very lonely. I feel a sense of relief from the loneliness as I get older. I'm 63 now and feel I have much less need for the touch/feel stuff and more appreciating someone growing old with me. I'm learning how to nurture myself now. That's so new to me, I don't even know what I want to do!
@@JJJettplane Good point…I’m 63 as well and feel exactly the same way about the touchy feeling stuff now. You just helped me tremendously with my emotions today. Thank you!
What if the Aspie husband isn't the problem maybe it's the nuerotypical wife that is the problem. And she, become narcissistic, in the fact that she tries to place th blame on me that I need to change. When in reality she has twisted in her thought process of what reality is. And I try to politely show her what the true reality of the situation is. And she argues that it's not. And uses my aspergers as an excuse to try to tell me how something really is. And she also has an issue of not remembering something I said. And then calling me a lier. When I did say that.
How do you have a relationship with a wife with nuerotypical narcissist syndrome?
duuh, dont fool yourself
What if you're the wife being told for decades that you're an insane narcissist and you'd rather not wake up in the morning.