50 year old Black man here. I’ve been married to the same woman for 22 years and we’ve been together for 24. No disrespect to these gentleman but something is definitely off in my opinion. I need more context and less superficiality.
THANK YOU BLACK MAN!!! I'M A Younger black woman whos almost 40 and I picked up on it immediately there's a reason why theyre single and over 50 and it has much to do with being superficial for sure. I didnt hear much substance from any of them in the few words that they've spoken. Most seasoned women can pick up on it immediately and most good married men will know and hear the BS as well. QUICKLY
That's exactly what I was thinking. I don't care to come to a seminar about giving me advice when none of you are married. Red and yellow flags for me.
Interesting. As long as anyone isn't deceived by someone's outer appearance, it's all good. Don't ever think because someone is wrapped 🎁 nicely that there's a good gift inside. Test the spirits to know what kind of fruit they really are producing in life as well as in your own.
Facts and my spirit as soon as they opened their mouths told me no this is not what God wants his women to have. Women of God want a praying man similar to that of Russell Wilson who work and provides but has leadership and loves his family and yes still looks great even in his older age.
LOVE your name and you are correct, but don't forget to say that definitely applies to women also, even though you don't see women having to appeal to men like these dudes are doing.
I am grateful he spoke about character. When I see a good looking man, my first thought is what is his character like. As a woman of God, character is more important to me.
Not a fair statement to say that black women come unhealed. It irks my soul to hear men speak this way. Question; do you speak to men about being men, better fathers, not cheating, abuse, arrested development, childhood trauma, toxicity, and approaching women unhealed. Women want peace as well. Women should submit to their husband's, yet let the man who's not the spouse lead in the way God designed men to do. Seems like some guys who watched a lot of Kevin Samuels videos and trusted what he said. Just know, that guy had a lot of personal issues, stemming from childhood and not a good relationship with his mother. That came from his mouth. Although many men missed or overlooked that part. If followed Biblically there shouldn't be many problems.
@bridgettesweeney9809 the same is equally true about black men/ men in general unhealed and suffering from arrested development. Which is a major burden on a woman.
Hmmm🤔 he wants peace, but does he give the peace? I recently heard a wise statement from a man that a man should bring peace to his home/woman and in return he’ll receive the same.
He's divorced and single at his age for a reason. He sound very unhealed when he was speaking and until he heals and gets God in his soul and spirit he'll be single for sure.
Thats what single older men do sadly when their time has past and no one in their age group want them because they know the truth of what they'd be dealing with.
These men are great at a distance. Easy on the eyes, but don't get physically or emotionally close. If dude at back cooks for you, pay for your plate! Just narcs, and men who hang out with them. SMH
I'm confused.😕 Are these guys podcasters, influencers, philanthropists, businessmen, relationship experts (but none are married), deacons (selling alcohol 🥴), youth mentors, or what? 😅 No disrespect to these gentlemen🙏🏾 but they seem to be a bit all over the place🤷🏾♀️. It is nice to see brothers supporting each other but not feeling their name (over 45 calling yourselves a gang😅) and the lack of direction they seem to have as a whole. They should get a branding expert, figure out a consistent message, and in a year do interviews. They are coming off a bit used car salesman to me, and that is a shame because I think they really have something here. Oh, and stop the "What you are looking for in a mate?"Question. It's super cringe and makes these men seem unserious. Good luck, fellas. 👍🏾🙏🏾
Trying to be jack of all trades, master of none. Best thing they can do is have 1 full time job each and 1 good charity they support or operate. If that charity is mentoring young men, do that well and help those young men be somebody in life and pour funds and training into that. If that one guy is a chef, they could feed needy families as their charity, pour funds and food into that. We have enough people offering women garbage, conflicting advice, this is a waste of time and resources.
lol. The one guy stating he would exit the relationship if the woman raises her voice. You better stay single then, my wife raises her voice and she means business. Happy wife, happy life.
Conflict is necessary to I know what’s in a person heart/mind. If you “I don’t wanna say anything- Imma keep the peace- Imma leave you alone “type”!of person, then, your “not” prepared for life but a slow controlled lifestyle. It is with intimidation ppl use to keep you silent, almost threatening you into “their” way.
@@leejones2768 TRUTH and when you love someone there will be disagreements in life. Adults generally know how to handle it without peace being broken because of the love there. But its also about leadership as well.
The man with the hat on states he's in the liquor/spirits business, but then he's hypothetically judging women for waking up on Sundays drunk/with a hangover and not going to church?? Okay.... Then they say women not coming to them healed..what is this organization again?? Do yall help young boys on desperate women?? Im confused. Good luck with these men ladies 😅.
@@ToriiVii.Legiterally thats true. But he stood out to me because he said something about people not showing up because they're too drunk but he's the one getting them drunk 🤣🤣
They are single men over 50 trust me you'd want to be better than them. Its a reason no woman has chosen to stay with any of them. Continue to be great and PLEASE strive to be better than some old me on social media with superficial ideology. Not one woman in this chat heard anything of substance and yet we could say yes they look good but we heard the red flags. I KNOW YOU CAN BE BETTER THAN THAT.
PREACH IT, PREACH IT AGAIN, PREACH IT ONE MORE TIME, AMEN ✝️ YES LORD YES LORD LORD YES LORD YES AMEN ✝️ RIGHT ON POINT, AMEN ✝️ SO SO TRUE AMEN ✝️ HALLELUJAH GLORY TO GOD ✝️🙏⛪️📖🧎♀️AMEN ✝️ 🎤😷👩🤗🚶♀️🙌👋😊👌🙆♀️
No those clothes can be found at the K&G Fashion store where the suits there are only like $100 then you can go to macys and purchase as well. I know because my dude loves to dress in suits and sometimes I buy him a suit or 2. Tailor suits can cost but other than that some are cost effective.
Proverbs 18:22 are these men looking for a good wife? If they were married before perhaps they married for the wrong reasons. GOD is okay with men and women being single but my question is are they single and sleeping around.
Yes. We do. Women don't know men or themselves and reject reality. That's why most remain single. Just look at these comments. These men seem to have their stuff together. I don't see one salt n pepper pookie, however, women in the comments reject these men. It's super funny.
50 year old Black man here. I’ve been married to the same woman for 22 years and we’ve been together for 24. No disrespect to these gentleman but something is definitely off in my opinion. I need more context and less superficiality.
Appreciate your honesty ❤
THANK YOU BLACK MAN!!! I'M A Younger black woman whos almost 40 and I picked up on it immediately there's a reason why theyre single and over 50 and it has much to do with being superficial for sure. I didnt hear much substance from any of them in the few words that they've spoken. Most seasoned women can pick up on it immediately and most good married men will know and hear the BS as well. QUICKLY
Exactly just cause they have beards dressed up in suits doesn't mean nothing.
That's exactly what I was thinking. I don't care to come to a seminar about giving me advice when none of you are married. Red and yellow flags for me.
All currently unmarried men! WOW. Enough said.
Of course they are…they like having multiple women and being seen.
Right
😂
@@Lew-w4s Right! Especially since there's 10 - 12 women per man.
Pick one!🫰🏽
My thoughts exactly!!😂😂
Interesting. As long as anyone isn't deceived by someone's outer appearance, it's all good. Don't ever think because someone is wrapped 🎁 nicely that there's a good gift inside. Test the spirits to know what kind of fruit they really are producing in life as well as in your own.
Definitely sound and excellent discernment/advice.
Facts and my spirit as soon as they opened their mouths told me no this is not what God wants his women to have. Women of God want a praying man similar to that of Russell Wilson who work and provides but has leadership and loves his family and yes still looks great even in his older age.
LOVE your name and you are correct, but don't forget to say that definitely applies to women also, even though you don't see women having to appeal to men like these dudes are doing.
AMEN!!!! People are too wrapped up in vanity! Absolutely noting wrong with taking care of thyself, however that should start with the spirit.
@@octaviakfthey’re giving me womanizing and full of vanity vibes.
I am grateful he spoke about character. When I see a good looking man, my first thought is what is his character like. As a woman of God, character is more important to me.
Not a fair statement to say that black women come unhealed. It irks my soul to hear men speak this way.
Question; do you speak to men about being men, better fathers, not cheating, abuse, arrested development, childhood trauma, toxicity, and approaching women unhealed.
Women want peace as well.
Women should submit to their husband's, yet let the man who's not the spouse lead in the way God designed men to do. Seems like some guys who watched a lot of Kevin Samuels videos and trusted what he said. Just know, that guy had a lot of personal issues, stemming from childhood and not a good relationship with his mother. That came from his mouth. Although many men missed or overlooked that part.
If followed Biblically there shouldn't be many problems.
@bridgettesweeney9809 the same is equally true about black men/ men in general unhealed and suffering from arrested development. Which is a major burden on a woman.
AMEN 🙏🏾
No reading all that
What's not true about it. Started with Eve I believe.
They're great-looking guys, but if they're all single, who positioned them as experts?
Hmmm🤔 he wants peace, but does he give the peace? I recently heard a wise statement from a man that a man should bring peace to his home/woman and in return he’ll receive the same.
The man that told you that understands leadership.
This is so unserious to me😆🤣
Tension in voice makes it their last conversation. Wow! Emotional intelligence is necessary.
A woman with passion is successful; a successful women breaks the male ego. 😢
He's divorced and single at his age for a reason. He sound very unhealed when he was speaking and until he heals and gets God in his soul and spirit he'll be single for sure.
So they just show up to clubs??😂 odd energy for old men
Thats what single older men do sadly when their time has past and no one in their age group want them because they know the truth of what they'd be dealing with.
Right
Ain’t none of em married….. 😒
Listen to what they said. Some were married
@@lmiller6675 PAST TENSE so they're no longer married
A Christian man selling strong drink, a major contradiction
I'm irked by the vainglorious requirement that prospects have social media presence.
I sell drugs and go to church ⛪️. God knows my heart ❤️
Thisssss! And mad when she 'supports' the biz, but can't make it to church 😂😂
@@ladyd8028the superficiality all thru this group!
Possible temptation or test with his grind . M-m-m?!
So Baltimore has the Silverfox guys and Texas has the Salt n Pepper Gang. Nice!
All single old men cute but its a no for me.
These men are great at a distance. Easy on the eyes, but don't get physically or emotionally close. If dude at back cooks for you, pay for your plate! Just narcs, and men who hang out with them. SMH
They slayin Aunties cross the country ✊🏾
Don’t trust no man that show his ankles in dress shoes😂😂😂😂 just saying …lol
Lol😂😂 skinny ankles
I cant stand seeing the ankles..it so gross..lol.
All the men are very handsome.
The cover is eye appealing, however, what is the backstory?
Question is how many women are they entertaining, seeing, dating & the extracurricular activity. Get down to the very important question ladies.
I Can't Take Them Serious At All i been married before he said and not married now i wonder why
Travel-Bills-Yours-Mine,, i respect his opinion! I'll continue my peace being Single 💝
All I hear is
112 song
I’m a playa 🎶🎶🎶😣
What a nice looking intelligent group of men! Thank You Jesus for relocating me to TX!!! 😀
They are ALL single for a reason over 50 em think twice for real.
TX! M-m-m, road to TX is on my travel list.
@@octaviakf I’m single and I’m over 50 because I’m a widow. Being single isn’t a bad thing. At my age,I know what I want and what I don’t want.
I'm confused.😕 Are these guys podcasters, influencers, philanthropists, businessmen, relationship experts (but none are married), deacons (selling alcohol 🥴), youth mentors, or what? 😅
No disrespect to these gentlemen🙏🏾 but they seem to be a bit all over the place🤷🏾♀️. It is nice to see brothers supporting each other but not feeling their name (over 45 calling yourselves a gang😅) and the lack of direction they seem to have as a whole.
They should get a branding expert, figure out a consistent message, and in a year do interviews. They are coming off a bit used car salesman to me, and that is a shame because I think they really have something here. Oh, and stop the "What you are looking for in a mate?"Question. It's super cringe and makes these men seem unserious. Good luck, fellas. 👍🏾🙏🏾
Trying to be jack of all trades, master of none. Best thing they can do is have 1 full time job each and 1 good charity they support or operate. If that charity is mentoring young men, do that well and help those young men be somebody in life and pour funds and training into that. If that one guy is a chef, they could feed needy families as their charity, pour funds and food into that. We have enough people offering women garbage, conflicting advice, this is a waste of time and resources.
lol. The one guy stating he would exit the relationship if the woman raises her voice. You better stay single then, my wife raises her voice and she means business. Happy wife, happy life.
I can see his point. It’s verbally abusive and disrespectful
@@RoyaltyK 😃😃😃
Someone raising their voice isn't lacking peace, that quick exit is childish
I appreciate your podcast and respectfully listening to what the gentleman is saying. Very insightful. Thank you..
I'm 58 and glad to see that it's not too late. These brothers restored my faith. I agree with the peace; I don't tolerate argumentative people at all.
Conflict is necessary to I know what’s in a person heart/mind. If you “I don’t wanna say anything- Imma keep the peace- Imma leave you alone “type”!of person, then, your “not” prepared for life but a slow controlled lifestyle. It is with intimidation ppl use to keep you silent, almost threatening you into “their” way.
@@leejones2768 TRUTH and when you love someone there will be disagreements in life. Adults generally know how to handle it without peace being broken because of the love there. But its also about leadership as well.
Great group, many people you all can help. Keep up the good work 👍
Somethin in the milk ain't clean. Not buying it, sorry. Scammers usually dress really nice.
VERY WELL KEPT MEN
The man with the hat on states he's in the liquor/spirits business, but then he's hypothetically judging women for waking up on Sundays drunk/with a hangover and not going to church?? Okay.... Then they say women not coming to them healed..what is this organization again?? Do yall help young boys on desperate women?? Im confused. Good luck with these men ladies 😅.
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😂🎯
lol 😂😂😂
More thirst and superficiality in society going on. Nothing new.
Claude have mercy they are smart, giving, and fine! ❤
Good looking but give princess energy. No thank you.
This conversation has gotten old like them. Lol Do we not have anything else to talk about in 2025?😂
Exactly.. all im hearing is the judgement of women. Im so over these topics and men like this. They all look like they are a walking headache.
Great interview!
Please
Know you may not argue but what do you do
That man on the end in black without the hat is soooo good looking!!!!
Who.., Brian McKnight?
Pillow talk, Peace paying attention all necessary, not burn but cook 😄
Gang! Gang! 🧂 With seasoning.
So basically this is a group of older men dressing up to get women together.
Nice looking Real Men! Yes thank you God!
Soooo.... The Christian man advocates liquor?? please make it make sense??
😂😂😂
Drink doesn’t equate to drunk.
Jesus drake wine 🍷
@@ToriiVii.Legiterally thats true. But he stood out to me because he said something about people not showing up because they're too drunk but he's the one getting them drunk 🤣🤣
@@MrTwonetwone true but im sure he's serving more than wine 🍷 😄 its all good tho, I get it🙂
😒😒
So if any of them get married do they stay in the group? Basically is being single at 50+ a requirement for the group?
Is this for real? I am an educator too. I am a good cook too some of the qualities I hear are compatible with mine.
They are single men over 50 trust me you'd want to be better than them. Its a reason no woman has chosen to stay with any of them. Continue to be great and PLEASE strive to be better than some old me on social media with superficial ideology. Not one woman in this chat heard anything of substance and yet we could say yes they look good but we heard the red flags. I KNOW YOU CAN BE BETTER THAN THAT.
No
The man need to be able to carry it all
Gift!
This is the black man
Russ is fine!! 🥰
Black Suit!❤❤❤
Okayyyyy
50/50 is strictly talking about the Bills and Financials
POWERFUL VIDEO, AMEN POWERFUL VOICE, AMEN POWERFUL PREACHING, AMEN POWERFUL WORDS, AMEN HALLELUJAH GLORY TO GOD ✝️🙏⛪️📖🧎♀️🎉🎊🙂😁☺️😀🎵😆🤝👩😷😄🙆♀️👌😊👋🎤🙌🚶♀️🤗👏👍🎶AMEN ✝️
PREACH IT, PREACH IT AGAIN, PREACH IT ONE MORE TIME, AMEN ✝️ YES LORD YES LORD LORD YES LORD YES AMEN ✝️ RIGHT ON POINT, AMEN ✝️ SO SO TRUE AMEN ✝️ HALLELUJAH GLORY TO GOD ✝️🙏⛪️📖🧎♀️AMEN ✝️ 🎤😷👩🤗🚶♀️🙌👋😊👌🙆♀️
How old is each person? Who single? Who married? Anyone looking for exclusivity?
Underemployed
I need context cause what?
I don't understand something Rico is not married anymore ?
Make it make sense! Nonprofit doing what for the community.
How is showing up for clubs and dressing up! 🥴 Christian man promoting liquor and clubs!
The delusion right? 😂
I’m confused…what is the purpose? everybody wants to be on areality show. Not one business owner out of the gang.
Hmmm... a lot of the salt n pepper men are not married. Yellow and red flags for me.
If the one at the top is only 48 yr old, then how old are the others? 😳
Well.well therevi is not defition?
Single advice to single women 💯🤷🏾♀️💆🏾♀️🤦🏽♀️
But the men aren’t single 🤣🤣🤣🇺🇸🇧🇧😮💨can the SINGLE men stand please
they need to make a lot of money to wear those kind of clothes and take good care of themselves
No those clothes can be found at the K&G Fashion store where the suits there are only like $100 then you can go to macys and purchase as well. I know because my dude loves to dress in suits and sometimes I buy him a suit or 2. Tailor suits can cost but other than that some are cost effective.
A conflict avoidant personality saying women are coming ‘unhealed’….crazy. These relationship conversations are tired. It’s 2025, let it TF go.
Proverbs 18:22 are these men looking for a good wife? If they were married before perhaps they married for the wrong reasons. GOD is okay with men and women being single but my question is are they single and sleeping around.
What
Men don’t know women.
Yes. We do. Women don't know men or themselves and reject reality. That's why most remain single. Just look at these comments. These men seem to have their stuff together. I don't see one salt n pepper pookie, however, women in the comments reject these men. It's super funny.
Why are they single?
Mehhhh
I never knew they are a nonprofit. Some 💎💎💎 were spoken. 🙌🏾🖤🤍🙌🏾