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Lisa, your message and personal story are undeniably inspiring, and it’s clear that you’ve created a powerful space for people to feel seen, motivated, and capable of transformation. But with that power comes an equally significant responsibility-one that often goes unnoticed when a message of empowerment resonates so deeply. The dynamic you’ve cultivated, where you position yourself as someone who has successfully overcome struggles that mirror your audience’s own, is incredibly effective. But it also raises an important question: is this approach fostering true autonomy, or is it unintentionally creating a cycle of reliance? When an audience is drawn to a figure who represents the life they aspire to, there’s a fine line between guiding them toward independence and anchoring their growth to the identity or framework you provide. The risk isn’t just that people see you as the solution to their struggles-it’s that they might begin to measure their progress and worth through the lens of your narrative. Over time, this can subtly shift the focus from their own unique paths of self-discovery to a reliance on external validation, even when the intent is to empower. This isn’t to suggest that you’re doing this intentionally, but rather to highlight the subtle, often unseen dynamics that occur when someone with your influence speaks to those in states of vulnerability, transition, or uncertainty. It’s a delicate balance-how do you ensure that the empowerment you provide doesn’t become another form of dependency? How do you create a space where your audience feels equipped to step into their own power without needing to constantly return to your story as a blueprint for their own? These aren’t criticisms-they’re reflections on the immense responsibility of being a leader in the space of personal transformation. Your ability to inspire is undeniable, but true empowerment comes not just from lifting people up but from teaching them how to walk alone when the noise of inspiration fades. It’s worth reflecting on how to guide people not toward your path, but toward finding their own. The difference might be subtle, but the impact could be transformative-for everyone involved.
I grew up in a very rough neighborhood. I don’t ever let my guard down. I might smile at you and make you feel I’m okay with your actions, but be aware, I am not! There is always the unknown in the back of my mind and it never allow me to give you full trust.
@@JayJay-wg5ex my mother thought it better to put me in jiu-jitsu classes, to learn how to take care of myself. Learned so much about how to hold back and fire when needed. It’s a whole new way of thinking. I recommend it too many people. You carry a different perspective about people after learning how to think things thru.
@@katiefountain2407 read my reply to Jay-Jay and you might realize everyone has ways to solve a problem with out being negative. Your remark says more about who you are than you think.
I learned this having gone through a crazy abuse of a sociopath and how he got away with many crimes for years. He watched this kind of videos, books on the art of manipulation and criminal TV series that I watch as well.
That’s all I was thinking watching this.. how many con men are watching this taking notes? He explains more how to con then what to look for or how to avoid it.
I actually had a female neighbor that mirrored me like that. I found myself thinking, "how could she possibly have the same interests and views I do?" It seemed like no matter what I talked about she knew about the topic too. Then when they broke up, her true colors appeared. She had the complete opposite political views as the 4 of us when we talked about things in agreement for 2 years! There were other red flags and I got uncomfortable around her but my husband told me I was looking into things too much. Needless to say we had huge arguments about it after. I need to trust my intuition! His stance was that we "got along so well and didnt want me to lose that" but that was her trick. She was a social chameleon but her contempt showed in subtle ways I picked up on.
I just went through something similar with someone I dated. She mirrored too much and eventually the subtle things she would say turned me completely off.
That is my point exactly. You picked up on certain points of her behaviour. It had nothing to do with intuition. Intuition is a man made word. You knew she was being untruthful. She told you with her behaviour. You didn’t know how to understand that behaviour because if you spoke up people would be angry at you. Believe in what you hear and see not what your gut tells you. The gut jolt is a bodily reaction to a rise in adrenalin that’s all … not a mystical or spiritual intuition
@@beverleyabrown488Our “gut” (AKA intuition) thinks faster than our brains, and science has proven it. Look up the studies. Our gut is what guides us, and it’s our brains that calculate, construct, articulate, etc… to make logical sense of things that we already know intuitively.
@ I’m not saying the brain doesn’t kick the nervous system in to work faster than cognitive thought processes but this lady in question knew by the woman’s words and behaviour. That’s the point I’m making. I don’t believe in the word intuition and no spy is taught to believe in intuition. They are taught to believe in facts, actions, words and behaviours not intuition. In other words, when you have high awareness, knowledge, information, and context then trust what you know … not a feeling in your gut. Your gut is simply a fight or flight reflex based on your life experiences which could in certain situations prove wrong.
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He actually just explained why men think women are more complicated, because we absorb more stress. Whole time they cant deal with the cortisol amounts so they just want you to focus on solutions. Interesting this is what would make men more brave and women more hesitant towards violence too.
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Seems they are saying men are more prone to taking risks whereas women are focused on things like security(and resources for their children). 18 years of commitment as its least likely to find single fathers but single moms are rampant. It’s why men can abandon women and kids and start over easier. Staying requires enduring long term stress so the solution of starting over seems “ logical” independent of the societal and generational harm. There is a level of selfishness that is unprecedented. A good portion of violence in the world is in fact, according to data, initiated and carried out by men, not women. This is also considered,” logical” and “ men being men”
How do you know the middle aged woman at your gym has children? And THANK YOU!!! I will NEVER stay in a conversation I don't want to be in again! That opened my eyes to a who world of why certain things have happened the way they happened.
I think a lot of the processes that he is explaining happen naturally and they have studied and honed in on them precisely and fabricate the stages but for us that are not spies or nasty people it’s likely natural to say something positive to someone try to connect, mirror, lean in as we feel attracted & connected etc. the difference is are we doing it subconsciously in a natural flow while the spies 🕵🏻♀️ 😈 have zero interest in this person except to obtain something by fooling them. (Edited for spelling from dictaphone)
I always love when you have him on. I feel safe as a 34 year old female just listening to him and his advice, and while i’ve always studied psychology and body language he is filling in so many gaps.
OMG He used this same thing on me at the beginning. He raised 4 daughters as a single father with full custody AND received monthly child support! He was the protector of the females. I fell Hook, Line & Sinker... It took me 8-years into our relationship to see through his lies & manipulation ... Thank You for this video ❣️
At some point the only thing that once should trust is inner intuition and energy which is personal natural vibe. Those two cant be confused by anyone from outside. And if smth is wrong u will hear huuuge alarm inside.
This is why finding a life partner can drastically alter the likelihood of success. We are biologically dependent on each other. Once people really grasp that they'll never invite a fight into their relationship again.
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@jadag.8637 Carnegie Mellon University Study: Research from Carnegie Mellon University found that individuals with supportive spouses were more likely to take on challenging tasks and experience greater success. Washington University Study: A study at Washington University in St. Louis linked having a reliable and prudent partner with higher job satisfaction, promotions, and income.
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This is very worrying hearing this. As this is how my ex who has been diagnosed with narcissistic BPD and sex addiction. This is exactly what he does and succeeds enormously. It’s the way he can cheat so much and have hundreds of ONS… women fall for him every day.. I wish there was a list nationally for people like this so women can be warned against these people
Recently, I had a challenging split. The breakup of my five-year relationship a few months ago has been quite difficult. I still harbor a deep affection for my ex-boyfriend, and I can't seem to stop thinking about him. My attempts to win him back have been unsuccessful, and at this point, it seems impossible to be with anybody else. It may seem strange to admit this, but I miss him terribly and can't stop thinking about him.
I completely understand the pain of letting go of someone you love. I went through a similar experience when my 10 year relationship ended. I couldn't imagine my life without him, so I tried everything to rekindle our love. I eventually found guidance from a spiritual counselor, and their support helped me bring him back into my life if you're open to it, seeking help from a spiritual counselor might make a difference.
I just sought him up online thanks to your helpful information. remarkable I just checked Father Obah Eze online, and he's really genuine. Thank you again ❤
This is so interesting topic 👍 I can’t stand when person doesn’t stop after my hint or direct words of stopping conversation. It’s irritating. Next time I will try avoid this person))
Got up to "hormonal releases", then stopped. I'm post-menopausal and have four children, three grandchildren and one great-grandchild. The shop's closed. 😄
So how does someone who has been trained in these tactics know if it's real love or just someone trying to make them feel like they are in love. Also, how do you heal if someone has manipulated you as a target?
Hard to manufacture oxytocin in our modern society. Who do you trust to do that with anymore. Our lives aren't dependent on bonds anymore. Walking away is so is easy. Our lives aren't calling for commitment anymore. Getting tired of having a dating life like revolving door.
Thank you so much to you both for this, Absolutely tremendous, The Raven and swallow :-) I've watched Andrews videos with you Lisa, He's helped me to recognize, Con men, Manipulaters, Abusers, Thank you Andrew, You lovely lad :-) Lisa I love your show, Keep up your magnificent work, Peace, love and respect to you both and all, All glory and smile's to the most high :-) :-) :-) smile for miles :-)
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@@tonylegz5692 Doing just fine on my single shingle income. I don’t have the McMansion, the gas guzzling tank and the 2.5 kids to go along with it. I haven’t checked off the must have list. I’m not living the cardboard, cut out American nightmare lifestyle. I don’t go on three cruises a year and spend my time apex consuming on Amazon. Seems that those who do are still wallowing in misery with the house fraus bitching that they feel like single moms having to deal with their mistakes. I laugh when I see them running around in circles trying to maintain their “lifestyle“ while trying to raise the children while hubby is hanging out with his high school buddies. At the end of the day, what I have is mine and I owe nothing to anybody. I’ve lived in three continents and I’ve owned three homes on my own without hanging off some dick. Best of all I don’t have a leeching parasite attached to my hip, borrowing money due to my excellent credit score. Just the fact that you said a double income is needed says it all. That’s the reason why most people get married, to pay the bills and “up level” their lifestyle. Pathetic. Proof positive that marriage and the nuclear family is doomed.
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@ 1:04:46 he says woman (under the increased pressure of cortisol, will have a moment of clarity. Knowing that talking won’t save them.. So that means that Clint Eastwood, in “The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly”…when Tucko was being tortured but Blondie was spared,, It was because Clint Eastwood’s character had more female traits 🤣🤣…love it💕
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This information lets so many ultra glamourous women and real ladies off the "hook"!!!! Thank you both for you insight and explaination into a very misunderstood topic that has challenged us and been made so much worse by social media! Please keep up your excellent programming. Thnank you.🎉❤
I notice people's eyes and can see entity attachments. I noticed 1:11:27 the Czechoslovakian woman, has not only wonky eyes, but her left eye is much more dark, than the right one. With a more dilated pupil and/or dark attachments in her soul, showing in the Iris. No Light in that left eye. Her evil behavior shows in that darkness. The eyes truly are the window's of the soul.
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The only thing I disagree with is that you need some type of manipulation tactic to approach a woman. I know so many lonely women that want men to approach them and say hello when most don't, and I hear women of all ages and racial groups complain about this. Sometimes a simple hello can lead to an amazing conversation, but I understand to his point he is talking about targeting a woman where he knows that he's not her type, but then again how could you really know this for sure. I have also seen some unlikely couples.
been there, feeling like no matter how hard i tried, i just didn’t stand out. then i picked up Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and honestly, it changed everything. chapter 3 opened my eyes to how energy works-it’s not about effort, it’s about alignment. people started noticing me in ways they never had before.
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OMG you're exactly in my situation Gaslighting Gaslighting he's a alcoholic narcissist and he's my Husband he literally has childhood wound Even mentioned some Incest in the family on his daddy side of the family
i was just like you, wondering why some people effortlessly draw attention while i felt invisible. nothing i tried seemed to work. then i came across Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and it completely shifted my perspective. the way chapter 3 explains energy and presence? it’s like unlocking the secret to being noticed.
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for the longest time, i thought being magnetic was something you either had or didn’t. i used to watch others shine while i felt stuck. then i found Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and it made me realize it’s all about the vibe you give off. chapter 3 especially changed the way i carry myself-it’s such a powerful shift.
I'm going through the same thing my husband and I been legally separated for 8 years we just started back communicating but staying under the same roof but if been allot of mulipative games Gaslighting argument and Truma towards me my situation is definitely difficult to explain but I needed his help originally he caused years ago now that he's helping me it's More Game's and Toxic Gaslighting games and He's a Narcissist sociopath mentality unstable Alcoholic and I'm right now depending on him and he's taking advantage of it all there's been police involved it's a lot
@kaylanalou4397 I'm literally making plans for that I have to prepare and be careful how I move cause I don't have a car right now to actually leave but God is working it out Thank you for your commit I really appreciate you 🙏
if you’ve ever felt like no one notices you, trust me, i get it. i felt like that for years, trying all the confidence hacks and advice out there. but nothing clicked until i read Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki. there’s something about chapter 3-it’s like the missing puzzle piece i didn’t know i needed.
Both Lisa and Matthew feel comfortable with their partners,but what happens when someone is having sex and feels like trust was violated with a person that they gave their most vulnerable part of themselves to?
He has a lot of people Fooled what they see on the outside is Totally different inside the house and actions and words are literally making me afraid of still being here with him so he uses words and slick threats to keep me stuck
Can the host listen without making those weird sounds? It’s really distracting. If she can’t, would be great for the sound engineer to cut these off / mute her microphone when the other person is speaking.
So true I am dropping Paddington if Sydney and Sydney is a gay capital of the world I guess my mother works model agencies and I’ve always been able to pick a gay man and most of them and I was around well actually bisexual and stuck in the closet I often think of these guys now that are on about the secret but I have to laugh because it’s really not a secret
I find his seduction technique for a lady who is a fan of Taylor swift so creepy! Seriously what age bracket a woman would be interested in Taylor swift
Love is feeling we feel it love is not something we needs to know about i fell in love and i cared about him and he got used to of my love i had no bad intention love happiness
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Lisa, your message and personal story are undeniably inspiring, and it’s clear that you’ve created a powerful space for people to feel seen, motivated, and capable of transformation. But with that power comes an equally significant responsibility-one that often goes unnoticed when a message of empowerment resonates so deeply.
The dynamic you’ve cultivated, where you position yourself as someone who has successfully overcome struggles that mirror your audience’s own, is incredibly effective. But it also raises an important question: is this approach fostering true autonomy, or is it unintentionally creating a cycle of reliance? When an audience is drawn to a figure who represents the life they aspire to, there’s a fine line between guiding them toward independence and anchoring their growth to the identity or framework you provide.
The risk isn’t just that people see you as the solution to their struggles-it’s that they might begin to measure their progress and worth through the lens of your narrative. Over time, this can subtly shift the focus from their own unique paths of self-discovery to a reliance on external validation, even when the intent is to empower.
This isn’t to suggest that you’re doing this intentionally, but rather to highlight the subtle, often unseen dynamics that occur when someone with your influence speaks to those in states of vulnerability, transition, or uncertainty. It’s a delicate balance-how do you ensure that the empowerment you provide doesn’t become another form of dependency? How do you create a space where your audience feels equipped to step into their own power without needing to constantly return to your story as a blueprint for their own?
These aren’t criticisms-they’re reflections on the immense responsibility of being a leader in the space of personal transformation. Your ability to inspire is undeniable, but true empowerment comes not just from lifting people up but from teaching them how to walk alone when the noise of inspiration fades. It’s worth reflecting on how to guide people not toward your path, but toward finding their own. The difference might be subtle, but the impact could be transformative-for everyone involved.
I grew up in a very rough neighborhood. I don’t ever let my guard down. I might smile at you and make you feel I’m okay with your actions, but be aware, I am not! There is always the unknown in the back of my mind and it never allow me to give you full trust.
that is something you can heal with work
@@JayJay-wg5ex my mother thought it better to put me in jiu-jitsu classes, to learn how to take care of myself. Learned so much about how to hold back and fire when needed. It’s a whole new way of thinking. I recommend it too many people. You carry a different perspective about people after learning how to think things thru.
@@katiefountain2407 read my reply to Jay-Jay and you might realize everyone has ways to solve a problem with out being negative. Your remark says more about who you are than you think.
I learned this having gone through a crazy abuse of a sociopath and how he got away with many crimes for years. He watched this kind of videos, books on the art of manipulation and criminal TV series that I watch as well.
Knowledge is power. I suspect that my partner has watched them as well.
Wow. Thanks for sharing. Makes sense.
Maybe you are the sociopath
That’s all I was thinking watching this.. how many con men are watching this taking notes? He explains more how to con then what to look for or how to avoid it.
I actually had a female neighbor that mirrored me like that. I found myself thinking, "how could she possibly have the same interests and views I do?" It seemed like no matter what I talked about she knew about the topic too. Then when they broke up, her true colors appeared. She had the complete opposite political views as the 4 of us when we talked about things in agreement for 2 years! There were other red flags and I got uncomfortable around her but my husband told me I was looking into things too much. Needless to say we had huge arguments about it after. I need to trust my intuition! His stance was that we "got along so well and didnt want me to lose that" but that was her trick. She was a social chameleon but her contempt showed in subtle ways I picked up on.
I just went through something similar with someone I dated. She mirrored too much and eventually the subtle things she would say turned me completely off.
That is my point exactly. You picked up on certain points of her behaviour. It had nothing to do with intuition. Intuition is a man made word. You knew she was being untruthful. She told you with her behaviour. You didn’t know how to understand that behaviour because if you spoke up people would be angry at you.
Believe in what you hear and see not what your gut tells you. The gut jolt is a bodily reaction to a rise in adrenalin that’s all … not a mystical or spiritual intuition
@@beverleyabrown488Our “gut” (AKA intuition) thinks faster than our brains, and science has proven it. Look up the studies. Our gut is what guides us, and it’s our brains that calculate, construct, articulate, etc… to make logical sense of things that we already know intuitively.
@ I’m not saying the brain doesn’t kick the nervous system in to work faster than cognitive thought processes but this lady in question knew by the woman’s words and behaviour. That’s the point I’m making. I don’t believe in the word intuition and no spy is taught to believe in intuition. They are taught to believe in facts, actions, words and behaviours not intuition. In other words, when you have high awareness, knowledge, information, and context then trust what you know … not a feeling in your gut. Your gut is simply a fight or flight reflex based on your life experiences which could in certain situations prove wrong.
@ it takes the responses in the brain to kick the nervous system into gear, alongside the physicality of causing adrenalin to increase.
This is powerful information to help me avoid Narcissistic partners.
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Or u can use this information to manipulate women like me 😊
Love hearing him speak but the more I listen the more I see how much government uses me.
Lisa your interviews are amazing!!! Congrats!!!
Mr Bustamante is so intelligent and knows so much, I really enjoy listening to what he shares.
He’s dumb. And a quack. But he’s got you fooled. Says a lot. 😂
He actually just explained why men think women are more complicated, because we absorb more stress. Whole time they cant deal with the cortisol amounts so they just want you to focus on solutions. Interesting this is what would make men more brave and women more hesitant towards violence too.
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Can you expand on what you are saying?
Seems they are saying men are more prone to taking risks whereas women are focused on things like security(and resources for their children). 18 years of commitment as its least likely to find single fathers but single moms are rampant.
It’s why men can abandon women and kids and start over easier.
Staying requires enduring long term stress so the solution of starting over seems “ logical” independent of the societal and generational harm.
There is a level of selfishness that is unprecedented.
A good portion of violence in the world is in fact, according to data, initiated and carried out by men, not women. This is also considered,” logical” and “ men being men”
Trust no one 😳 dude this guy is so good at profiling people its scary
@@theresag.4188 🤣🤣🤣
what % of people do you think are this good?
How do you know the middle aged woman at your gym has children? And THANK YOU!!! I will NEVER stay in a conversation I don't want to be in again! That opened my eyes to a who world of why certain things have happened the way they happened.
most men are DEPLOYING these TECHNIQUES……but only UNTRAINED minds will be taken by surprise . STAY SAFE AND STAY HEALTHY LADIES .
I think a lot of the processes that he is explaining happen naturally and they have studied and honed in on them precisely and fabricate the stages but for us that are not spies or nasty people it’s likely natural to say something positive to someone try to connect, mirror, lean in as we feel attracted & connected etc. the difference is are we doing it subconsciously in a natural flow while the spies 🕵🏻♀️ 😈 have zero interest in this person except to obtain something by fooling them. (Edited for spelling from dictaphone)
Only 7 minutes in and I’m hooked
I always love when you have him on. I feel safe as a 34 year old female just listening to him and his advice, and while i’ve always studied psychology and body language he is filling in so many gaps.
YES - please don’t mess with the creative process when an artist is creating their Masterpiece 🎨🍲💃🎶🎤🙏🏽
Word 😂 this is why when I'm creative I run away easily from draining energy
OMG He used this same thing on me at the beginning. He raised 4 daughters as a single father with full custody AND received monthly child support!
He was the protector of the females.
I fell Hook, Line & Sinker...
It took me 8-years into our relationship to see through his lies & manipulation ...
Thank You for this video ❣️
This was so good 🔥💯
At some point the only thing that once should trust is inner intuition and energy which is personal natural vibe. Those two cant be confused by anyone from outside. And if smth is wrong u will hear huuuge alarm inside.
This is why finding a life partner can drastically alter the likelihood of success. We are biologically dependent on each other. Once people really grasp that they'll never invite a fight into their relationship again.
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@LisaBilyeu01 Scam.
Can you elaborate. Many an example
@jadag.8637 Carnegie Mellon University Study:
Research from Carnegie Mellon University found that individuals with supportive spouses were more likely to take on challenging tasks and experience greater success.
Washington University Study:
A study at Washington University in St. Louis linked having a reliable and prudent partner with higher job satisfaction, promotions, and income.
@jadag.8637
Oxytocin motivivation and the role of dopamine: pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3877159/
Thank you Lisa. BEST interview of Andrew yet
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WOW I DONT NORMALLY SIT AND LISTEN TO LENGTHY INTERVIEWS NO MATTER WHT ITS ABT BUT THIS POPPED UP ON MY FEED, IN WHICH IVE NVR SEARCH OR WATCHED B4 AND I WATCHED THE ENTIRE VID! I WAS ABSOLUTELY FASCINATED WTH ALL THE SCIENTIFIC EXPLANATIONS. IT TOTALLY CONNECTED THE DOTS FOR ME. JUST WNTD TO SAY THANKS AND I REALLY ENJOYED THE EPISODE!!! TY FOR SHARING AND BEST OF LUCK TO U BOTH! ❤❤❤
Hey Lisa 😍😍 great conversation
I will have to watch this again and again. Lots of great information. Great episode!
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Same
Mr Bustamante is one of the most valuable people to hear
Thank you for asking all of the right questions, Lisa 👍🏼
This is very worrying hearing this. As this is how my ex who has been diagnosed with narcissistic BPD and sex addiction. This is exactly what he does and succeeds enormously. It’s the way he can cheat so much and have hundreds of ONS… women fall for him every day.. I wish there was a list nationally for people like this so women can be warned against these people
I think I know this guy 😂
Hundreds of women a day 😂
So true
Weird. This guy sounds too familiar - the ex narcissistist.
What’s ONS?
Recently, I had a challenging split. The breakup of my five-year relationship a few months ago has been quite difficult. I still harbor a deep affection for my ex-boyfriend, and I can't seem to stop thinking about him. My attempts to win him back have been unsuccessful, and at this point, it seems impossible to be with anybody else. It may seem strange to admit this, but I miss him terribly and can't stop thinking about him.
I completely understand the pain of letting go of someone you love. I went through a similar experience when my 10 year relationship ended. I couldn't imagine my life without him, so I tried everything to rekindle our love. I eventually found guidance from a spiritual counselor, and their support helped me bring him back into my life if you're open to it, seeking help from a spiritual counselor might make a difference.
How did you find your spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with them?
His name is Father Obah Eze and he's an incredible spiritual counselor known for helping restore relationships.
He can assist you; he is Father Obah Eze, and he possesses immense powers.
I just sought him up online thanks to your helpful information. remarkable
I just checked Father Obah Eze online, and he's really genuine. Thank you again ❤
Love watching him. As a counselor. I agree with all he says.
This is so interesting topic 👍 I can’t stand when person doesn’t stop after my hint or direct words of stopping conversation. It’s irritating. Next time I will try avoid this person))
Got up to "hormonal releases", then stopped. I'm post-menopausal and have four children, three grandchildren and one great-grandchild. The shop's closed. 😄
I love this interview! OMG, listening to him nourish me. I learn so much about this, thank you thank you Lisa and Mr. Bustamante!
That is horrible! I don't want to deal with it all.
New sub, yay ✌ 😁 Just starting but this is sooooo COOL! Love your energy and personality girl and your guest is so interesting ✌
So how does someone who has been trained in these tactics know if it's real love or just someone trying to make them feel like they are in love. Also, how do you heal if someone has manipulated you as a target?
And so you're coaching other people why
Only by more actions and more consequences I guess. There's no way to know upfront.
Incredible lesson! Thanks Andy and Lisa!
Hard to manufacture oxytocin in our modern society. Who do you trust to do that with anymore. Our lives aren't dependent on bonds anymore. Walking away is so is easy. Our lives aren't calling for commitment anymore. Getting tired of having a dating life like revolving door.
Incredible information thank you so much what incredible life skills to have! Thank you!
Thank you so much to you both for this, Absolutely tremendous, The Raven and swallow :-) I've watched Andrews videos with you Lisa, He's helped me to recognize, Con men, Manipulaters, Abusers, Thank you Andrew, You lovely lad :-) Lisa I love your show, Keep up your magnificent work, Peace, love and respect to you both and all, All glory and smile's to the most high :-) :-) :-) smile for miles :-)
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Very interesting about switches and changes of fazes.. 28 min... 👍👍
This made my day.
59:54 “Andy keeps me safe” .. Can you keep me safe? Sweet deal!
Empowering. Thank you both ! ❤
Love your talks with him😳
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Thank you 🙏 for another amazing video 🌈🧸💝
Wow! What an awesome interview
This actually hapoend to me I lost millions of dollars , my friends , my buissness my comunity .
Brilliant episode!
Omg ❤ I just went through this I have never felt such a strong energy. ❤
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Has he see how 40 year olds look like? They're looking younger than their 30 counter parts.
Right 😂
Copium
Depends on 40 year old.
Yes, yes he is.
Hence, withholding sex from a significant other can, as a matter of fact be a coercive control method used by abusers. 30:00
Is there an element of you that is controllable? Interesting!
Super interesting!
'derailment! is ' their' favorite spot😂😂😂😂
Great content
I want that shirt he's wearing!!
Bottom line. Stay single.
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Unless you're in the top 10-15% of earners. More than likely you're going to need more than one income.
@@tonylegz5692 Doing just fine on my single shingle income. I don’t have the McMansion, the gas guzzling tank and the 2.5 kids to go along with it. I haven’t checked off the must have list. I’m not living the cardboard, cut out American nightmare lifestyle. I don’t go on three cruises a year and spend my time apex consuming on Amazon. Seems that those who do are still wallowing in misery with the house fraus bitching that they feel like single moms having to deal with their mistakes. I laugh when I see them running around in circles trying to maintain their “lifestyle“ while trying to raise the children while hubby is hanging out with his high school buddies. At the end of the day, what I have is mine and I owe nothing to anybody. I’ve lived in three continents and I’ve owned three homes on my own without hanging off some dick. Best of all I don’t have a leeching parasite attached to my hip, borrowing money due to my excellent credit score. Just the fact that you said a double income is needed says it all. That’s the reason why most people get married, to pay the bills and “up level” their lifestyle. Pathetic. Proof positive that marriage and the nuclear family is doomed.
or just don't do anything with manipulators :)
Great information
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Love when you get him on 😌
Yes, he is 😢
@ 1:04:46 he says woman (under the increased pressure of cortisol, will have a moment of clarity. Knowing that talking won’t save them.. So that means that Clint Eastwood, in “The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly”…when Tucko was being tortured but Blondie was spared,, It was because Clint Eastwood’s character had more female traits 🤣🤣…love it💕
Nailed it on women description what to look for
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His expression at 55:39
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Wow! Just wow!
Love this man👽🔥
This information lets so many ultra glamourous women and real ladies off the "hook"!!!! Thank you both for you insight and explaination into a very misunderstood topic that has challenged us and been made so much worse by social media! Please keep up your excellent programming. Thnank you.🎉❤
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Huh??
I notice people's eyes and can see entity attachments. I noticed 1:11:27 the Czechoslovakian woman, has not only wonky eyes, but her left eye is much more dark, than the right one. With a more dilated pupil and/or dark attachments in her soul, showing in the Iris. No Light in that left eye. Her evil behavior shows in that darkness. The eyes truly are the window's of the soul.
Im curious how one can become aware of what phase oneself is in (i.e. collective, connected, or creative) and maybe how to navigate them.
But there are many people who fall in love with someone and they want to care about them not every time people wants other to falll in love with them
Bro! It’s like your saying whats in my mind lol😅 .
What are ways/apps to make sure you aren't being tracked, listened to or videoed (i.e. phone, car, house} by the narcissist in your life?
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The only thing I disagree with is that you need some type of manipulation tactic to approach a woman. I know so many lonely women that want men to approach them and say hello when most don't, and I hear women of all ages and racial groups complain about this. Sometimes a simple hello can lead to an amazing conversation, but I understand to his point he is talking about targeting a woman where he knows that he's not her type, but then again how could you really know this for sure. I have also seen some unlikely couples.
been there, feeling like no matter how hard i tried, i just didn’t stand out. then i picked up Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and honestly, it changed everything. chapter 3 opened my eyes to how energy works-it’s not about effort, it’s about alignment. people started noticing me in ways they never had before.
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How does one get a job like this in the CIA?!
I feel the opposite I see through this. To good to be true. Trying to hard to perfect. That scares me.
This is so true
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I’ll have you know that the biggest Taylor Swift fans in my friendship group are 40 year old men.
I love Taylor Swift 😘❤️
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is he allowed to give away CIA secrets like this?
These tactics are well documented, it's no secret in what he is saying
yeah, to good to be true "professional", and he get busted 😂
OMG you're exactly in my situation Gaslighting Gaslighting he's a alcoholic narcissist and he's my Husband he literally has childhood wound Even mentioned some Incest in the family on his daddy side of the family
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i was just like you, wondering why some people effortlessly draw attention while i felt invisible. nothing i tried seemed to work. then i came across Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and it completely shifted my perspective. the way chapter 3 explains energy and presence? it’s like unlocking the secret to being noticed.
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This guy uses comment sections for marketing his book
Yeah. It’s a scam
Is he still a spy? If so, his cover is blown 😂
for the longest time, i thought being magnetic was something you either had or didn’t. i used to watch others shine while i felt stuck. then i found Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and it made me realize it’s all about the vibe you give off. chapter 3 especially changed the way i carry myself-it’s such a powerful shift.
I'm going through the same thing my husband and I been legally separated for 8 years we just started back communicating but staying under the same roof but if been allot of mulipative games Gaslighting argument and Truma towards me my situation is definitely difficult to explain but I needed his help originally he caused years ago now that he's helping me it's More Game's and Toxic Gaslighting games and He's a Narcissist sociopath mentality unstable Alcoholic and I'm right now depending on him and he's taking advantage of it all there's been police involved it's a lot
Get out of there. 8 years of freedom to do back down the same rabbit hole ??!
@kaylanalou4397 I'm literally making plans for that I have to prepare and be careful how I move cause I don't have a car right now to actually leave but God is working it out Thank you for your commit I really appreciate you 🙏
if you’ve ever felt like no one notices you, trust me, i get it. i felt like that for years, trying all the confidence hacks and advice out there. but nothing clicked until i read Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki. there’s something about chapter 3-it’s like the missing puzzle piece i didn’t know i needed.
And you are obviously to there games they are literally playing on you
Both Lisa and Matthew feel comfortable with their partners,but what happens when someone is having sex and feels like trust was violated with a person that they gave their most vulnerable part of themselves to?
Or an emotional affair ?
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He has a lot of people Fooled what they see on the outside is Totally different inside the house and actions and words are literally making me afraid of still being here with him so he uses words and slick threats to keep me stuck
Can you go see a therapist once a week or more often? Work with someone that helps women in DV. Talk out your options
Andy is a closet Swifty
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Curious how he got with his wife and maintaining a relationship with her due to his cia background.
She was a x cia too n that’s how they met.
@rattattat7848 ok thank you. So she understands him then😅
Can the host listen without making those weird sounds? It’s really distracting. If she can’t, would be great for the sound engineer to cut these off / mute her microphone when the other person is speaking.
This would never work with me. Just sayin 😂
So true I am dropping Paddington if Sydney and Sydney is a gay capital of the world I guess my mother works model agencies and I’ve always been able to pick a gay man and most of them and I was around well actually bisexual and stuck in the closet I often think of these guys now that are on about the secret but I have to laugh because it’s really not a secret
I find his seduction technique for a lady who is a fan of Taylor swift so creepy! Seriously what age bracket a woman would be interested in Taylor swift
I know and that’s the heartbreaking and important thing. It’s so creepy and yet it happens! I’d never have suspected it!
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Love is feeling we feel it love is not something we needs to know about i fell in love and i cared about him and he got used to of my love i had no bad intention love happiness