Ep 9: After the Catch Up With Nnamdi and Alera from Pop The Balloon | BM Talks To Them

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  • @RopoDemure
    @RopoDemure 3 місяці тому +795

    I'm over here blushing for them 🥰 Purpose driven/ intentional dating always wins

    • @raeee5947
      @raeee5947 3 місяці тому +17

      The WHOLE video. They definitely have chemistry that you can’t make up

    • @sloppygirlz
      @sloppygirlz 3 місяці тому

      This made me happy

    • @marie-j6677
      @marie-j6677 3 місяці тому +16

      This is the result of coming on the show to genuinely find love, not clout chasing, I love it for them, rooting for them 😀

    • @KL-Lady
      @KL-Lady 3 місяці тому +4

      @@RopoDemure Ariana what are you doing here look love you ropo

    • @RopoDemure
      @RopoDemure 3 місяці тому +3

      @ I love me some Arlette and BM 😅. Love you too 🙊💕💕

  • @meydallas
    @meydallas 3 місяці тому +556

    These 2 gotta be the second most successful couples in this show, I am so happy to see them still going strong together.

    • @darkglobe406
      @darkglobe406 3 місяці тому +18

      yeah seeing a couple being actually successful is rare with all those clout chasers coming on the show
      or with people making up the most ridiculous reasons for popping .

    • @Dd1NlyB3B3
      @Dd1NlyB3B3 2 місяці тому +6

      Who are the first most successful??

    • @Bestone159
      @Bestone159 Місяць тому

      ​@@Dd1NlyB3B3Mike and Khe , they are now engaged

    • @MsJ.TeacherToTech
      @MsJ.TeacherToTech 16 днів тому

      Mike and Khe. He proposed 💎 on a update show. ​@Dd1NlyB3B3

  • @estephaniap9027
    @estephaniap9027 3 місяці тому +385

    "If you see two people happy, be happy for them" -BM.
    Very well said 👏🏾 💯

    • @shirleybreinburg5115
      @shirleybreinburg5115 28 днів тому

      Yes very well said. A wise man. God bless this couple🙏🏾❤️

  • @SerialHitz77
    @SerialHitz77 3 місяці тому +281

    Their parents did a great job on raising quality people

    • @mikeprice8307
      @mikeprice8307 3 місяці тому +2

      Yea bc in louisiana its rare to run into young ladies of her character. Especially good looking single ones.

    • @veronicasmall4482
      @veronicasmall4482 3 місяці тому +1

      YEEEESSSS THIS ‼️💯

  • @Steph.j12
    @Steph.j12 3 місяці тому +721

    Not me kicking my feet and smiling hella hard hearing them talk about each other like this. Seeing their love and joy is so sweet! Good luck and blessings to yall!

    • @mxssdeja
      @mxssdeja 3 місяці тому +7

      Yesss 🙌🏾🙌🏾 just smiling, so happy for them.

    • @Sh8kS
      @Sh8kS 3 місяці тому +5

      Breathe of fresh air because goddamn lol

    • @marie-j6677
      @marie-j6677 3 місяці тому +10

      I was just about to say this, on my break here smiling from ear to ear 😆 I love seeing genuine people sharing a genuine love, no clout chasing just pure authenticity. wishing them well.

    • @soniagodlieb1896
      @soniagodlieb1896 3 місяці тому +5

      I AM HEARING SMILLING LIKE THEY MY KIDS.
      GOD BLESS THEM

    • @mxssdeja
      @mxssdeja 3 місяці тому +1

      @@marie-j6677 agree my sister 🤍

  • @GrindEntertainment-64
    @GrindEntertainment-64 3 місяці тому +460

    The way BM Is happy 😊

    • @thenamesguess
      @thenamesguess 3 місяці тому +44

      Yh lol never seen BM smile like this, King appreciates black love when he sees it!!

    • @Sisima13
      @Sisima13 3 місяці тому +34

      BM always looks like that serious dad that doesn’t get fazed easily 😂
      It’s always nice to see him smile at the little accomplishments ❤

    • @July-ola
      @July-ola 3 місяці тому +19

      I love BM! I love how Nnamdi calls him to chat with a happily married man and get advice. And I like how when that couple got engaged after only a couple months, BM asked them important questions like a concerned father. May God protect Arlette and BM.

    • @Gloradiant
      @Gloradiant 3 місяці тому +20

      The man has vision! Same with Arlette. Both purposeful and visionionary. I’m sure BM sees this as a form of ministry to reinstate ‘family’ back into the structure of society….and I’m here for it. The very BEST of the pop the balloon franchises.

    • @DEEDUBZ
      @DEEDUBZ 3 місяці тому +2

      BM NEEDS TO BRING ONLY MEN AND WOMEN WITH NO CHILDREN. THIS ENSURES A HIGHER CHANCE OF A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP, AND AN OVERALL BETTER VIEWING EXPERIENCE FOR THE VIEWERS.

  • @danounou00
    @danounou00 3 місяці тому +332

    "I've dealt with broke women." “He makes me want to do my part as a help mate.” The benefit of not having the most money but providing safety, security, and being a generous and thoughtful man 👏🏾 Glad they both understood their assignment and picked better and didn't let their bad experiences keep them from showing up for this one.

  • @mssuga242
    @mssuga242 3 місяці тому +362

    What you and your Wife have created with this show, brings me so much Joy. & I love it ❤

    • @bm.artist
      @bm.artist  3 місяці тому +66

      Thank you for the support! God bless.

    • @jackngoyi9987
      @jackngoyi9987 3 місяці тому +5

      ​@@bm.artist you bring us back to basics of love. Many are relearning how to do it the old way. For the fact that so far only 2 couples are doing so well tells us all about dating in this generation. Bravo to you and Arlete Amuli

    • @nomsachileshe9140
      @nomsachileshe9140 3 місяці тому

      ​@@bm.artistI'm single 28 from Africa almost giving up on love I really wish 😢I'd find love,I'm such a sad soul...you and Arlette need to make matches for people miles apart😢😢😢God knows I want love

    • @DEEDUBZ
      @DEEDUBZ 3 місяці тому

      @@bm.artist THIS RIGHT HERE WAS AN ENJOYABLE VIEWING EXPERIENCE. NO DRAMA, NO TOXICITY, NO BAGGAGE.. JUST A SINGLE MAN AND SINGLE WOMAN WITH NO CHILDREN AT THE SAME STAGES OF THEIR LIFE, LOOKING TO FIND LOVE, AND REALISTICALLY HAVING THE ALL THE TIME IN THE WORLD TO START A BRAND NEW EXPERIENCE WITH THE OTHER PERSON. THIS IS THE FORMAT YOU NEED TO KEEP GOING FORWARD BRO.. BELEIEVE ME.

  • @ZodGeneralzod
    @ZodGeneralzod 3 місяці тому +69

    Nnamdi grew up in US but you can tell his parents really put that Nigerian home training on him seriously.... the product is what we are all watching and enjoying now....

    • @Charles-nv3gy
      @Charles-nv3gy 3 місяці тому

      Yes.. Nigerians are a catch. People know for sure

    • @africanprince1840
      @africanprince1840 25 днів тому +1

      Our African parents don't tolerate any bullshit. Anything that will tarnish their image No.

  • @je39981
    @je39981 3 місяці тому +120

    Definitely can tell he’s in love. The excitement, the openness to wanting to speak first, and the smiles. Very nice. Wishing them both the best because I can see the mutual connection.

  • @hdeniro1106
    @hdeniro1106 3 місяці тому +215

    I like when Arlette and BM interview together. Makes it so much more interesting to have two people asking questions and reacting.

    • @guccibliss6749
      @guccibliss6749 3 місяці тому +3

      Exactly and it brings two perspectives to the interview!

  • @percysmith972
    @percysmith972 3 місяці тому +234

    I got chills when Namdi discussed them reaching goals. Really inspiring.

    • @MsMVP
      @MsMVP 3 місяці тому +1

      💯🥰💪🏾

    • @Qbanhoneydip
      @Qbanhoneydip 3 місяці тому +3

      They were serious from the very beginning you’re so right!

  • @KL-Lady
    @KL-Lady 3 місяці тому +138

    Arlette is a comedian she’s hilarious I love her. Her comedic timing is on point

  • @SimplyPops
    @SimplyPops 3 місяці тому +175

    Happy for these two! They like family to me! BM and Arlette out here changing lives it’s all real ya!

    • @marquitahatcher3561
      @marquitahatcher3561 3 місяці тому +19

      Are you still with your match? We need a update.

    • @dazzypeters6793
      @dazzypeters6793 3 місяці тому +10

      Where's your update bub ?

    • @marquitahatcher3561
      @marquitahatcher3561 3 місяці тому +3

      @@dazzypeters6793 right lol

    • @Raymond874
      @Raymond874 3 місяці тому +8

      Still waiting for your catch up 😂

    • @Ekenei
      @Ekenei 3 місяці тому +5

      What happened to your match buddy? Over here giving super thanks for others

  • @NetaaD
    @NetaaD 3 місяці тому +221

    I'm so glad they still together ❤ God bless y'all🙏🏽

  • @babygyalnae954
    @babygyalnae954 3 місяці тому +143

    Yessss I hope this relationship works, God willing. Long distance works with someone who doesn’t cause stress and with someone who is truly intentional about you. Its hard, but worth it.

  • @cherisebernard2688
    @cherisebernard2688 12 днів тому +4

    They are so mature! I love them! Congratulations guys. Wishing you all the best. God bless

  • @TRAVELBYKEEINC
    @TRAVELBYKEEINC 3 місяці тому +129

    Nandi said something key, when he spoke about how frazzled he was with the his job and credit. She was his peace! Bingo: Ladies we have to be a man’s peace ✌🏾☮️
    Great seeing BM smile 😀🤩

    • @lakimberlypowers9799
      @lakimberlypowers9799 3 місяці тому +1

      It definitely goes both ways though. We as women need our men to be our peace also.

    • @a.j.9727
      @a.j.9727 3 місяці тому +3

      @@lakimberlypowers9799 A distinction in search of a difference. 🙄

    • @lakimberlypowers9799
      @lakimberlypowers9799 3 місяці тому

      ​@@a.j.9727I said what I said. If it hit a nerve, focus on why and then never get back to me 🙄

    • @TheKatarinaGiselle
      @TheKatarinaGiselle Місяць тому +1

      This is very true.

    • @a.j.9727
      @a.j.9727 Місяць тому

      @@lakimberlypowers9799 Thus barketh the hyena. 🐕‍🦺

  • @Kathywlms
    @Kathywlms 15 днів тому +4

    I love them! I'm praying they stay together and remain happy!

  • @sdw_245
    @sdw_245 3 місяці тому +58

    17:21 “he took up for me, I’m like… THATS MY MAN!!” - yaaaaaassssss, I love this for them both 🙌🏿🤎🙂✨

  • @JosephKayang-mk2vk
    @JosephKayang-mk2vk 3 місяці тому +90

    Super happy for Nnamdi and Alera. Wishing them all the best. And thank you BM and Arlette

  • @mkawa1566
    @mkawa1566 3 місяці тому +63

    Im 60 years old woman and married for 30 years. We are blessed to have Arlette and BM. Love watching young ppl navigate the dating game, asking the right questions, and setting non negotiatable boundaries.

  • @tiyanextdoor5752
    @tiyanextdoor5752 3 місяці тому +90

    I love that Nnamdi had Alera back with the auntie. My man does the same, which makes me feel safe and supported in my relationship.

    • @VynNetworks
      @VynNetworks 3 місяці тому +3

      Soooo important

    • @a.j.9727
      @a.j.9727 3 місяці тому +1

      *had Alera's back

  • @sdw_245
    @sdw_245 3 місяці тому +122

    24:50 BM is looking like a proud dad, just smiling with his beautiful wife on uniting two individuals in BLACK LOVE!!!

    • @yolisalisanqari
      @yolisalisanqari 3 місяці тому +3

      I literally had that thought ❤

    • @DEEDUBZ
      @DEEDUBZ 3 місяці тому

      2 SINGLE MALE AND FEMALE INDIVIDUALS THAT DONT HAVE ANY CHILDREN.

  • @freedomvoice6797
    @freedomvoice6797 3 місяці тому +60

    You can always tell when the woman is happy. . .Alera wears her joy. I wish you both well.

  • @tayobibi
    @tayobibi 3 місяці тому +79

    I love this. I hope Nnamdi takes care of her because she’s a good girl. Hopefully next year we shall hear another good news from them like engagement.

    • @spencerfelix-otoo6992
      @spencerfelix-otoo6992 3 місяці тому +10

      We have to put it in prayer

    • @DEEDUBZ
      @DEEDUBZ 3 місяці тому

      PREGNANCY. DONT THINK WE'VE HAD A PREGNANT COUPLE FROM THE SHOW YET.

  • @tiwiadoni5894
    @tiwiadoni5894 3 місяці тому +75

    Aww this is so sweet. I’m smiling so hard listening to him talking about her. I know she was doing her part from the last episode based on the way he spoke about her. I’m so happy for them.

    • @TRAVELBYKEEINC
      @TRAVELBYKEEINC 3 місяці тому +5

      Me tooo!, I love this so much ❤❤❤

    • @July-ola
      @July-ola 3 місяці тому +3

      How old is he? He seems super vulnerable. I hope this couple is good to each other. They seem sweet.

    • @fremahokyere5390
      @fremahokyere5390 3 місяці тому

      @@July-ola He's 30

    • @tiwiadoni5894
      @tiwiadoni5894 3 місяці тому

      @ He’s 29

  • @frenchtoenglish1
    @frenchtoenglish1 3 місяці тому +45

    Keep spreading the LOVE. Thanks to Arlette and BM. ❤

  • @SharpieDarlingLLC
    @SharpieDarlingLLC 3 місяці тому +29

    I love this for them. Black love. I also love that they can talk to Arlette and BM behind the scenes like mentors. That is beautiful.

  • @karenholder9967
    @karenholder9967 2 місяці тому +6

    Watching from Trinidad and Tobago 🇹🇹 , i love this couple ,and i Pray Continuous Blessings and Protection upon them and their family

  • @TheKatarinaGiselle
    @TheKatarinaGiselle Місяць тому +6

    I’m so happy for them! This was a great interview and I wish them a long, happy, peaceful life together!

  • @sherriwilcox6916
    @sherriwilcox6916 Місяць тому +8

    Very mature couple. Wish them well. Very cute together 😊❤

  • @obeeig44
    @obeeig44 3 місяці тому +34

    So happy for my Igbo brother Nnamdi and the beautiful Alera. Happy to see you guys are still kicking on

  • @sheed_da_comic
    @sheed_da_comic 3 місяці тому +73

    they're setting the bar high. i'm happy for them. i definitely see marriage in their future.

  • @pamelareid7731
    @pamelareid7731 День тому +2

    Whew we won’t God do it! These young people have a wonderful future ahead of them.

  • @Vibeswray
    @Vibeswray 3 місяці тому +60

    In the beginning bm was really scared at first until she said they are doing good and still together he got so happy ! I love this for them man ! This is AMAZING ! I’m so excited for them 😂🙏🏽👏 I PRAY THEY KEEP IT GOING ! And s/o to bm and arlette for helping ppl who really are looking and struggling in that area in their lives ! God bless all I’m happy for them Fr fr ! 🎉

  • @okonkwoifunanya9029
    @okonkwoifunanya9029 3 місяці тому +85

    Watching from Nigeria
    Wishing Nnamdi and Alera the best
    Thank you BM and Amuli

    • @buzzbabe1901
      @buzzbabe1901 3 місяці тому +8

      I'm so happy for them. Nigerian here too. Anyasi oma nwanne😁

    • @soniaogene5925
      @soniaogene5925 3 місяці тому +7

      Same here 😂 Naija supporting our brother

    • @okonkwoifunanya9029
      @okonkwoifunanya9029 3 місяці тому

      @@buzzbabe1901 Utuoma nwanne

  • @siesie768
    @siesie768 3 місяці тому +66

    Its so sweet how excited he is about Alera..I'm glad that they're still in a good relationship ❤

    • @xABou0dx
      @xABou0dx 3 місяці тому

      @siesie768 shooting my shot here but what's your IG?

  • @monaaugust8425
    @monaaugust8425 3 місяці тому +43

    Am so happy for you guys reminder of my life and was married for 54 years widow 5 years

    • @MsSuperSoulFighter
      @MsSuperSoulFighter 3 місяці тому +5

      My condolences. I'm sure it was a love and life well lived for you together! Very inspiring. I pray that you are still happy to this day! God bless.

  • @honeyxaj5587
    @honeyxaj5587 3 місяці тому +49

    im long distance with my man, he’s also in Maryland. it’s something about the men out there they really know how to be providers!! im spending Christmas with mine soooooo excited. so happy for y’all 💗👏🏾

  • @la_shush
    @la_shush 3 місяці тому +43

    I know I’m not the only one cheesing so hard🥹. May God preserve your relationship ❤️

  • @ThisIsAlvo
    @ThisIsAlvo 3 місяці тому +47

    Another success story. May God keep these two together, the same way He has with the other couple who are due to wed in June 2025.

  • @xylene.supreme
    @xylene.supreme 2 місяці тому +3

    I cried a couple of times during this segment. This is a wonderful example of what finding love looks like! Experiencing each other, learning each other & being vulnerable. We love to see it! Congratulations to the new couple and a big congratulations to BM & Arlette for being able to show the world what love looks like once again. LOVE WINS! ❤

  • @thedailydosenurse
    @thedailydosenurse Місяць тому +13

    I love them !! That man gonna marry her! I give it a year ! so happy for them!

    • @ThePoeticSam
      @ThePoeticSam 2 дні тому +1

      That’s exactly what I thought too…….they exude love

  • @barrymatthews6358
    @barrymatthews6358 3 місяці тому +23

    So really happy for them!!!! To God be the Glory!!!! Beautiful Couple!!!

  • @shattashawn
    @shattashawn 3 місяці тому +25

    I like that he's even seeking advice from the couple. He's looking to grow and be better for her

  • @jerzcnate
    @jerzcnate 3 місяці тому +32

    I know not them but I so praying they continue to grow together. I was really looking forward to this BM talks to them. Young Love is awesome

  • @jupii_9879
    @jupii_9879 3 місяці тому +58

    Arlette and BM stay uploading consistently ! 👏🏽I hope y’all take time to enjoy yourselves too yall deserve it.🫶🏽

  • @Flourishes83
    @Flourishes83 14 днів тому +4

    Our nigeria men don't play😊....Congrats to u both...

  • @Kathywlms
    @Kathywlms 15 днів тому +2

    Very INTENTIONAL! I love him! Keep praising God. Great couple.

  • @Nakia-rd4og
    @Nakia-rd4og 3 місяці тому +10

    Not them looking like a younger version of Arlette and BM!! ❤❤ I love that they were intentional from the jump

  • @TheSurvivorsPerspective-iq6qy
    @TheSurvivorsPerspective-iq6qy 3 місяці тому +23

    I am so happy for them! Finally a solid one. My husband and I met in Houston on his vacation from Virginia Aug 1, 2020, he visited every month then moved to Houston April 2021. Dec2,2021 proposed, July 30th2022 wedding. People who claim long distance is a deal breaker don’t truly like the other people, and feel it is not worth it.

  • @freedomvoice6797
    @freedomvoice6797 3 місяці тому +17

    Her dog is in the back ground saying, “she cheating on me”!!! 😂

  • @d.mackfocused
    @d.mackfocused 3 місяці тому +16

    Proud of the both of them. Pouring into EACH OTHER. Continued blessings to yall!! 🫡

  • @GOODmusic843
    @GOODmusic843 3 місяці тому +13

    BM looks like the happy Uncle!! I love this for them, they make me smile! Congratulations to them! I see proposal soon!

  • @DrB_1111
    @DrB_1111 2 місяці тому +3

    BM and Arlette are conquering the black love relationship space. Cheers to them both for all the energy and resources poured into this venture. God bless the work of their hands in perpetuity.❤❤

  • @dopemommy1994
    @dopemommy1994 3 місяці тому +30

    Praise the Lord 🙌🏽 May your love grow, Keep God in the center of your relationship , and you will rise above all life’s challenges. I’m so happy for yall & I’m excited to see what God has in store for you two❤️

  • @dazzypeters6793
    @dazzypeters6793 3 місяці тому +20

    I was one of the original comments saying he was doing too much. Listening to her return the energy was great to hear. After this update I can say I wish nothing the best for these two!! 👏🏾

  • @kimmydiunicorn
    @kimmydiunicorn 3 місяці тому +16

    A man doting on his woman is one of the most beautiful things 🥹❤️🙌🏾👏🏾 God bless them!

  • @abigailllerena9594
    @abigailllerena9594 3 місяці тому +5

    BM is always so serious…so to see him smile big like this is great!!! Happy couples make him happy!

  • @GovernedByTruth
    @GovernedByTruth 3 місяці тому +12

    Loved them from the jump. Does the heart glad to see a beautiful black couple on display. They are such a lovely couple & I wish them well.

  • @EmmyVibes3580
    @EmmyVibes3580 3 місяці тому +7

    This is it. Very intentional with what they want. So happy for my Nigerian brother and our American princess Alera. Keep waxing strong guys. We love you both❤
    Thank you Arlette and BM for your words of encouragement. We pray for more of such matches. Amen🙏

  • @frankmonney1784
    @frankmonney1784 3 місяці тому +6

    The joy in their faces when see they talk about each other is so pure. Protect yourselves at all cost 🙏🏿❤ happy for y’all

  • @montyl.9017
    @montyl.9017 3 місяці тому +7

    They both speak with so much love and joy in their voices when talking about each other.Love wins!

  • @FireAngelChris
    @FireAngelChris 3 місяці тому +14

    They are still together what a pleasant surprise. Love to hear about these types of things🙏🏽.

  • @jasmeentoyou
    @jasmeentoyou 3 місяці тому +10

    I am rooting for their continued joy, success, & happiness!! This is so refreshing.

  • @mslorries
    @mslorries 3 місяці тому +10

    His smile is contagious 😍 absolutely gorgeous

  • @jeremybalizenter2896
    @jeremybalizenter2896 3 місяці тому +228

    4:56
    She paid for the Mexico trip, and she is praising her man. This lady is a winner, bro. Take notes, ladies.

    • @kelsblair5963
      @kelsblair5963 3 місяці тому +25

      Take notes for men too. He’s a positive man who’s driven and uplifted her the entire time. African men treat women way better so ofcourse she’ll naturally submit to him. He don’t believe in all that singing crap American men believe in.

    • @jeremybalizenter2896
      @jeremybalizenter2896 3 місяці тому

      @@kelsblair5963
      American men don't have a problem finding wives. American women of color only get chosen for marriage at a 25% rate. 25% is an extremely low F.

    • @jeremybalizenter2896
      @jeremybalizenter2896 3 місяці тому +1

      @@kelsblair5963
      No. Men are good.

    • @jameswtlocs
      @jameswtlocs 3 місяці тому +19

      @@kelsblair5963why you gotta put down American black men? We can be just as good or better, and vice versa. Not every African man is good. Wake up to reality

    • @AuntieSy-Sy
      @AuntieSy-Sy 3 місяці тому +27

      MEN take notes☝🏾😉!!
      He's a PROVIDER (spends money on his woman without expecting reciprocation, as a real man SHOULD), so yeah, she paid for that trip, in love and appreciation for all the natural MANLY things he does for her, always LOVING HER, SPENDING ON HER, thus, creating the space intheir relationship for her to continue to rest in her femininity and love him moore & more❤
      Take notes guys, TAKE NOTES!!

  • @BellaFelicia
    @BellaFelicia 3 місяці тому +34

    Nice to see BM smiling

  • @matthewjenkins7488
    @matthewjenkins7488 3 місяці тому +5

    I love how in the thumbnails, Arlette is so bubbly and BM is not for any games. I love the balance with each other.

  • @Rossalini27
    @Rossalini27 3 місяці тому +25

    I’m happy to see another PTB couple doing well. 🥂

  • @trevorelcock
    @trevorelcock 3 місяці тому +9

    Awesome!!!!! Great seeing young folks being spiritual, serious, with a plan, loving each other, being successful…. Much BLESSINGS!!!🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @DaRealLadyNile
    @DaRealLadyNile 3 місяці тому +10

    I like " Be happy for them" ...these 2 are winners. BM and Arlette are winners as well!

  • @momlife7087
    @momlife7087 3 місяці тому +6

    The two of you are such a breath of fresh air! I pray that you guys have the strength to endure and continue to flourish ❤

  • @mizmckenzie3444
    @mizmckenzie3444 Місяць тому +4

    This is the most i've seen BM smile during these LOL

  • @QueenDivineLove
    @QueenDivineLove 3 місяці тому +11

    ❤❤ I was smiling the whole time. This is all I want for the people I love and ppl in general, as communities. It's healthy, and BM and Arlette are giving more than just matches. When you find your person, you really do want that for everyone. ❤❤

  • @call_me-x
    @call_me-x 3 місяці тому +3

    Folks......now this is LOVE !!🤗💞
    Please just be real on the show and this is what we will be seeing y'all please!!...
    BM said "if you see two people happy, be happy for them ".....really happy for them🤗

  • @hmurchison8123
    @hmurchison8123 3 місяці тому +20

    I'm rooting for these two. My advice bc they're young and capable. Get real with each other and understand your attachment style and if you have personality disorder traits. Smart people that are motivated to keep things going need to be able to understand how their partner interfaces with the world and modify their own approach.

  • @angelinanotangie4172
    @angelinanotangie4172 3 місяці тому +12

    BM’s upcoming It’s A Match show sounds good. Sometimes episodes of pop the balloon have good guys and unserious women and vice versa, but the solid serious people who happen to not be on the same episode still connecting and growing will be nice to see.

  • @1Sakks0
    @1Sakks0 3 місяці тому +8

    Yassssss!!!!! I'm so happy for them! This felt so good to me! Genuine ppl with good intentions! Nnamdi is so sweet. Happy Holidays 🥂

  • @GedeonS7
    @GedeonS7 3 місяці тому +11

    You can really tell that bm and arlette are truly happy for them! Not the type of creators that only chase the next viral moment

  • @PM-xd6nv
    @PM-xd6nv 3 місяці тому +4

    “If you see two people happy, be happy for them!!”….. Big facts.🙌

  • @vernicerandall-g4d
    @vernicerandall-g4d 3 місяці тому +2

    Such joy! I feel very good about this lovely couple. I also love the fact that both Arlette and BM are mentors for them. They are putting in the work and they are obviously putting God first. They are on a good path. I wish them all the very best!

  • @ashleycomer4799
    @ashleycomer4799 3 місяці тому +10

    🎉 so happy for them. Take your time to continue to get to know each other. Growing + thriving couple

  • @Saadz3
    @Saadz3 3 місяці тому +6

    When a woman comes in your life and your income grows, your stability grows, that’s God sending you a message.

  • @Almond_curl
    @Almond_curl 3 місяці тому +9

    So happy to see this beautiful young couple! They are so mature, and actually got it right!!! Older couples take note💯

  • @Shesnoangell
    @Shesnoangell 3 місяці тому +3

    He blew a kiss through the camera awee. He’s so googly eyes over her & I loveeeeee ittttt!

  • @Magique88888
    @Magique88888 3 місяці тому +90

    They are so cute together. People saying Alera was not doing her part were just hating. This is how a man is supposed to behave when he likes you. And they are one of the younger couples.

    • @candyade1
      @candyade1 3 місяці тому +1

      Not hating if we react based on the information presented to us. They didn’t mention what she did in the other video but now they have and we are judging based off information presented, yet again.

    • @dazzypeters6793
      @dazzypeters6793 3 місяці тому

      @@candyade1 Exactly!! OP is a fool

    • @Magique88888
      @Magique88888 3 місяці тому +6

      @@candyade1 to me it’s hating to see a normal relationship and tell the woman she need to do more. You can call it what you want though.

    • @olaide1521
      @olaide1521 3 місяці тому +1

      @@candyade1do they really need to feed y’all every single detail. The first catch up showed that they were both happy and very much in love. That should be enough haters

    • @jmoniqueslife2047
      @jmoniqueslife2047 Місяць тому

      @@candyade1it’s hating.

  • @Fifthelement203
    @Fifthelement203 3 місяці тому +21

    As a man that’s also dealt with broke women lol. (Listen I’m a sucker for personality 😂) dating women that have their ish together is sooo freaking amazing lol. When they can plan dates and book trips and take care of you as much as you take care of them u will never go backwards fellas lol. Here’s the key tho. U gotta be the type to attract that type.

  • @ARich-su5qr
    @ARich-su5qr 3 місяці тому +19

    Thanks for dropping , i needed some to watch

  • @MorningsWithMaria
    @MorningsWithMaria 3 місяці тому +25

    the most successful couples are always the ones who did not go viral - and people never remember them UNTIL catch ups and the ones who went viral crash and burn

  • @charlenecoles4146
    @charlenecoles4146 3 місяці тому +3

    This is making me so happy. Seeing these young people killing their goals!!! I’m just lovin it.

  • @Itzmizzypooh
    @Itzmizzypooh 3 місяці тому +5

    They're going all of the way!! They both are intentional and putting for the effort. I love it❤❤❤❤❤

  • @rosettajones1352
    @rosettajones1352 3 місяці тому +6

    This couple makes me so happy! ❤❤ Stay happy and in love. This was truly a genuine match.

  • @MissTeeTee1111
    @MissTeeTee1111 3 місяці тому +14

    19:10 That's kinda what I was curious about - matches that we don't see/matches outside of the episode. Good idea...thanks for sharing 😊

    • @Tiwpennipmyg
      @Tiwpennipmyg 3 місяці тому

      Yeah good idea! Like Chad et the woman who DMed him. I think we gonna have sth beautiful there

  • @thekenyangamer140
    @thekenyangamer140 3 місяці тому +21

    Love to see Black Love ❤. Ugaliii 🇰🇪🇰🇪

  • @DanitraW
    @DanitraW 13 днів тому +1

    Me happy dancing for love 💕 love 💕 stay postive guys

  • @iamforgod8893
    @iamforgod8893 3 місяці тому +3

    I cried and I dont know why...I love when a man realises what he has and is doing everything to make it work.Nnamdi,u are a good man and forever loce this woman...see how she speaks life over u..u won't find that everywhere.God bless you both.we are here for the wedding bells!!

  • @anniesalis1
    @anniesalis1 3 місяці тому +3

    My faves❤❤ A Nigerian, sending y’all love from Portugal. May God bless your union🙏

  • @angelinanotangie4172
    @angelinanotangie4172 3 місяці тому +5

    Yaaaaayyy! I love love and it’s great to see a pair still together and so fond of each other.