PARENTING UNFILTERED: THE TOUGHEST JOB EVER| Why should you parent?

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  • @XOASIMONE
    @XOASIMONE 2 місяці тому +2

    Hey love! This was such a great video and you spoke nothing but the truth.
    IT STARTS AT HOME!!!!
    And honestly, in my opinion the teachers are the “parents” while the kids are at school. So the children should have the same respect for them as they do for their own parents.
    It just seems like these days the parents are not “parenting” and instead they treat their kids like they’re friends. I don’t understand this type of parenting.
    The first thing my mom used to say is “I’m not one of your little friends”… and we knew what that meant…
    I feel sad for this generation sometimes. I’m grateful for teachers like you. Let’s pray the ones that are quitting or thinking about quitting reconsiders. Teachers are soooo important!!!!
    We need you guys!🩷

    • @TameraXone
      @TameraXone  Місяць тому

      That’s it right there!!!! Thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts Simone. Greatly appreciated.

  • @DonnaDesigns
    @DonnaDesigns 2 місяці тому +3

    Hi Tamera, I agree it starts at home. Back when I went to school we respected our teachers, parents, & authority. If we didnt we knew we would be in trouble. There is no respect from these kids today. They are not held accountable at home. The worst thing you can do is try to be your child's best friend. They need discipline & boundaries. We need more parents & teachers like you. Your Awesome. Yes as a parent it is your responsibility to lay down a positive foundation for childrens future. Excellent video 🌝💗💕

  • @mariadavis5169
    @mariadavis5169 2 місяці тому +3

    Wow u are perfectly correct hun..most of these parents, allow their child/ children to run the home.. im old school I am a believer of proverbs 13:24 ..Thank u hun. Keep up the good work..good food of thought for us parents ❤❤

    • @TameraXone
      @TameraXone  Місяць тому

      Hey girl! Thanks for supporting and thanks so much for your kind words!

  • @taneshalawrence2986
    @taneshalawrence2986 Місяць тому +2

    Good topic San. Thanks for sharing! That’s the same thing I tell my boys that when they go to school and see others acting up, they need to remember that they’re from a different household and those other kids parents are not their parents. Remember what they are being taught at home.

    • @TameraXone
      @TameraXone  Місяць тому

      Hey girl, thanks for watching! Remember what you are taught!

  • @Julianplusfour
    @Julianplusfour 2 місяці тому +2

    It’s indeed a hard job raising these genz generation.

  • @CharmingTracyRobin
    @CharmingTracyRobin 2 місяці тому +3

    When you think you early but class started already 😊❤Good morning- here watching.

    • @TameraXone
      @TameraXone  2 місяці тому

      😂😂😂😂 woiiii

    • @CharmingTracyRobin
      @CharmingTracyRobin 2 місяці тому

      Most time someone name Julian/Jillian beat mi 😂​@@TameraXonebut hey..have a blessed day...your input is valuable ❤

  • @Ndabazabantu770
    @Ndabazabantu770 2 місяці тому +1

    The quote about parenting is so true. Yes to being a parent first before anything else. Children must respect elders. Growing up my granny used to say the teachers at school are your parents when we are not there. So respect them as you would your mom or dad. I like the tag team with daddy that’s what I do with mine I tag team with hubby. Tjioo this was needed thank you Tam.

    • @TameraXone
      @TameraXone  2 місяці тому

      Thank you 🙏. Back in my kid days, community raised children. Not anymore!

  • @tanahomegardening2206
    @tanahomegardening2206 Місяць тому +1

    I agree I always tell my kids to do good to others. But if anyone try to trouble them they must defend themselves 0:06

    • @TameraXone
      @TameraXone  Місяць тому

      I mean that's a different story still. Thanks for watchin

  • @venvenlifestyle
    @venvenlifestyle Місяць тому +1

    It's indeed hard raising them Tamera but I ain't playing with them when it comes to discipline.

  • @monise_makes
    @monise_makes Місяць тому +1

    Hey Tamera! Thank you for sharing all of this. Since I’m not a mother I really like hearing from other mothers to get their input on how to raise children. I’m blessed to have great parents and my mom had a great balance of being a good friend but also disciplining and now she is my best friend.

    • @TameraXone
      @TameraXone  Місяць тому

      Grandparents are a blessing! Lucky you to have had ones who impacted you!

  • @FaithsFunHouse
    @FaithsFunHouse Місяць тому +1

    Hi Beautiful yes I have 4 my oldest is 30 years old .. and I still have to talk with him ! An install things in his head 😂Parenting never stops no matter how old they get 😊❤😊 I we will not allow disrespect!
    But theses kids now days you can’t believe how they talk & curse whoooo an they be young like 5 years & up
    Great video 😊

  • @tanekabaker3385
    @tanekabaker3385 Місяць тому +1

    This was such a refreshing video. Being a parent is indeed very hard but like you alluded to its important to have a community of like minded adults around your child. Cos yuh alone caan dweet! Thank you for being a part of that community for my girls ❤.

    • @TameraXone
      @TameraXone  Місяць тому

      Thank you Bake...I agreee.... I love you and I love your girls!

  • @AINwithDrAmi
    @AINwithDrAmi 2 місяці тому +1

    We are parents first and then (best) friends.
    Respect indeed goes both ways.
    Being respectful and disciplined is so important everywhere.
    Tough convo

    • @TameraXone
      @TameraXone  Місяць тому

      Indeed! Thank you DR. Ami

  • @TheBibleQuizChannel
    @TheBibleQuizChannel Місяць тому +1

    Tamera, this hit close to home. The Lord allowed you to do this video just for me. Thanks my dear.

  • @NengiWillie
    @NengiWillie 24 дні тому +1

    Absolutely amazing video. Its so good to hear this from a teacher who is also a parent's perspective.
    Thanks a lot for sharing. ❤

  • @Variouschannels03
    @Variouschannels03 Місяць тому +1

    Thanks for sharing, that's the same thing I tell my boys that when they go to school and see others acting up

    • @TameraXone
      @TameraXone  Місяць тому

      Thank you! Hopefully they listen and stay focused!

  • @quinnschronicles
    @quinnschronicles 2 місяці тому +1

    Exactly the child should represent their parents

  • @theamazingmg6947
    @theamazingmg6947 Місяць тому +1

    Very interesting and motivational words my dear friend ❤

  • @yard-foodz
    @yard-foodz Місяць тому +1

    Thank you for sharing with us. I hope a lot of parents listening and learn something.

  • @Hope-ss6xf
    @Hope-ss6xf Місяць тому +1

    Hey Tee, sound words. Parenting is a hard job and can be challenging at times.

  • @BIBAFAM
    @BIBAFAM 27 днів тому +1

    Tap tap OMG I been missing your channel, life be lifing , ADs on,

  • @TheBibleQuizChannel
    @TheBibleQuizChannel Місяць тому +1

    Yes ma’am, parenting is hard🥹

  • @RoseForrester-e3v
    @RoseForrester-e3v Місяць тому +1

    Nothing but the truth you speek there very good.

  • @FateKonnection
    @FateKonnection 2 місяці тому +1

    I still believe in a village raising children

  • @madonahani5069
    @madonahani5069 Місяць тому +1

    It hurts when you grew with one parent,I wish I grew with both my parents but my mom separated with my daddy and I grew up with mum but our mum is our best friend but I donot want that to happen to my kids ,thanks for sharing Tamera

  • @melanieasonglefack3468
    @melanieasonglefack3468 2 місяці тому +2

    14:01 "mum, we gotta do it correct this time"!
    Xone' was not gonna have it mum. 😂
    Thank you so much for sharing these tips mama.❤

    • @TameraXone
      @TameraXone  Місяць тому

      I know she was not! hehehehee..You are so welcome!

  • @AINwithDrAmi
    @AINwithDrAmi 2 місяці тому +1

    It is hard, we need a manual lol😂
    "My child is never wrong " 😮😮😮😮

  • @handicappedtraveler
    @handicappedtraveler 2 місяці тому +1

    So true though we always addressed the behavior when it happened to stop it at that point. Parenting is a lifetime job your role changes to more of an advisor than a discipline giver. If you ask me it was hard at times though one of the most rewarding things we ever did

  • @kerrybell792
    @kerrybell792 2 місяці тому +1

    Totally agree

  • @quinnschronicles
    @quinnschronicles 2 місяці тому +1

    That's right they're not going to be kids forever,,,, parents should agree 💯 with each other fairly

  • @christinedaw4686
    @christinedaw4686 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for sharing this amazing content.

    • @TameraXone
      @TameraXone  Місяць тому

      Thank you so much for watching!

  • @mariamasDIYS
    @mariamasDIYS 2 місяці тому +1

    Great tips you shared

  • @mbalimorake
    @mbalimorake Місяць тому +1

    Catching up ❤❤

  • @KAHenry-lt1le
    @KAHenry-lt1le 2 місяці тому +1

    Well said counselor T

    • @TameraXone
      @TameraXone  Місяць тому

      Hey girl..thanks for watching!

  • @quinnschronicles
    @quinnschronicles 2 місяці тому +1

    Great upload sis thanks for sharing ❤💚💚

  • @quinnschronicles
    @quinnschronicles 2 місяці тому +1

    Oh yes parenting is definitely supposed be a joint job 👍🏾

  • @CharmingTracyRobin
    @CharmingTracyRobin 2 місяці тому +1

    A true man, me and my husband preach this- these children are different with increasing knowledge but respect is due. A village raise our kids too...Mr. Mrs....sir..etc.
    Oh wow 8:11 same thing I'm here about to write..we say the same thing. Same with grandparents all say the same thing.
    Sis them have sense, before them can talk.
    Sis...especially in NYC...ride the bus and train 😮
    Yes both parents, because now they don't have no where to go. Single parent hard man thought it can be done..both is better.
    Yes..no map...I ask God for guidance-
    Yes, parents must be involved **I'm a stalker 😂everyone know us (parents) have to check in.
    Hi sweetheart xone. Thank you sis Tamera- this is serious 😔

  • @FateKonnection
    @FateKonnection 2 місяці тому +1

    Yes child I check in

    • @TameraXone
      @TameraXone  Місяць тому +1

      Thank you for doing that sis

  • @TheBibleQuizChannel
    @TheBibleQuizChannel Місяць тому +1

    I was just saying to myself, wait a minute, I haven’t seen any motivational video in a while. Here we go now, let me get my notebook.

  • @tanahomegardening2206
    @tanahomegardening2206 Місяць тому +1

    I enjoyed watching ❤❤❤❤ 0:06

  • @shereedonrodney4697
    @shereedonrodney4697 Місяць тому +1

    Good topic! I don't have anything to say on this topic........yuh dun know me....and you are a damn good teacher Daz all me know.😊😊

    • @TameraXone
      @TameraXone  Місяць тому

      Hehehehe Thanks for watching Ms. You know the struggle already! Love yah!

  • @josiahforrester4938
    @josiahforrester4938 2 місяці тому +1

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @FateKonnection
    @FateKonnection 2 місяці тому +1

    Mi deh yah and so true

  • @Samanthap58
    @Samanthap58 Місяць тому +1

    Very inspiring vlog darling. I enjoyed listening 💝

  • @chiconellamalcolm5396
    @chiconellamalcolm5396 2 місяці тому +1

  • @scratchinpetepa
    @scratchinpetepa 2 місяці тому +1

    Thanks for sharing 🙏❤️

  • @sashidreamchaser8530
    @sashidreamchaser8530 Місяць тому +1

    I always say, you can hate me now, but when you grow older you're gonna thank me for raising you the way I did. Females these days acting like being a single mom is a flex, kids need both parents I understand if the other parent is absent. I never want to be a single parent, I rather not have anymore kids. nothing nice like having 2 active parents, sometimes I wonder if I would've made better decisions if my dad was active in my life.

    • @TameraXone
      @TameraXone  Місяць тому

      I agree Sashi..Kids need balance and I do not blame you for not wanting anymore.

  • @KreatorSupportChanel3
    @KreatorSupportChanel3 Місяць тому +1

    Magnificent. I like it very much..
    Have a perfect time. Greetings ~ Milan

  • @Julianplusfour
    @Julianplusfour 2 місяці тому +1

    Come through Xone with the advise.

  • @AINwithDrAmi
    @AINwithDrAmi 2 місяці тому +1

    God bless you for sharing. I enjoyed watching. 14:09

  • @melanieasonglefack3468
    @melanieasonglefack3468 2 місяці тому +1

    Love equals discipline. If you love them , you will discipline them ❤.
    And unfortunately, some of the teachers have to deal with the shortcomings of the parents...not good

  • @shewearsmanyhats377
    @shewearsmanyhats377 2 місяці тому +1

    Hey lovelies ❤ 1:59

  • @tyroneforrester4525
    @tyroneforrester4525 2 місяці тому +1

    Interesting

  • @FateKonnection
    @FateKonnection 2 місяці тому +1

    😂😂yuh always have something to say… I can’t … that’s the cue that you leave my room

  • @m.t.ccreativekitchen4743
    @m.t.ccreativekitchen4743 21 день тому

    Thumbs up

  • @FateKonnection
    @FateKonnection 2 місяці тому +1

    I am a single mom and I don’t play with my son!! He better be well behaved … I do have some men who serve as mentor for him

  • @sashidreamchaser8530
    @sashidreamchaser8530 Місяць тому +1

    Hi Tamera 👋, just got the chance to give my undivided attention m.

  • @FateKonnection
    @FateKonnection 2 місяці тому +1

    I am endorse this message …our children is our responsibility 14:00

  • @AINwithDrAmi
    @AINwithDrAmi 2 місяці тому +1

    Mama Xone ❤️

  • @mixingwiththemoffatts
    @mixingwiththemoffatts Місяць тому +1

    Parenting trust mi it roughhhhh

  • @m.t.ccreativekitchen4743
    @m.t.ccreativekitchen4743 21 день тому

    I strongly agree with you tamera its not your responsibility parents should raise their children in the right full way, as we jamaican say bend the tree from it young, when the tree bent from a early stage it will grow bent and thats my opinion.

    • @TameraXone
      @TameraXone  18 днів тому

      Bend d tree from it young!

  • @shewearsmanyhats377
    @shewearsmanyhats377 2 місяці тому +1

    Slow internet darling, but I enjoyed listening. Very motivating ❤ 14:09

    • @TameraXone
      @TameraXone  Місяць тому

      Thanks Sam..Much appreciated.

  • @Tammygodblessredwood36
    @Tammygodblessredwood36 2 місяці тому +1

    A mi fi tell you

  • @KweenNoya
    @KweenNoya 2 місяці тому +1

    U always got sumn to say😂😂dwl

    • @TameraXone
      @TameraXone  2 місяці тому

      Me say Dy Dy a bright d lily gal bright eno!

  • @madonahani5069
    @madonahani5069 Місяць тому +1

    Like ❤❤

  • @quinnschronicles
    @quinnschronicles 2 місяці тому +1

    Tamera oyiiii

  • @matthewwhittington-jk9ep
    @matthewwhittington-jk9ep 2 місяці тому +1

    A hard job

  • @tanahomegardening2206
    @tanahomegardening2206 Місяць тому +1

    43 likes

  • @sashidreamchaser8530
    @sashidreamchaser8530 Місяць тому +1

    These parents these days are more interested in being best friends with their kids smh.

  • @FateKonnection
    @FateKonnection 2 місяці тому +1

    😂😂 Xone

  • @KweenNoya
    @KweenNoya 2 місяці тому +1

    Watch shine lip😅😅

  • @FateKonnection
    @FateKonnection 2 місяці тому +1

    Dance a yaad before you dance abroad

  • @BIBAFAM
    @BIBAFAM 27 днів тому

    Ok let me watch this 5 mins ads lol