This is nothing but truth at its finest people whom has never been on the receiving end of mans first,anger etc has no idea the toll ot takes on a person. It's real and I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy ❤❤❤💯💯💯💯💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔
My Daughter was Recently Killed Dec 15th 2014 Due to Domestic Abuse!! This song Fits Him well....We are fighting to get him arrested still, #Justicefordanielle
Oh my God!! Im sooo sorry to hear that! I dony know if you are religious or not and if you aren't then I'm sorry if I offend you but I have faith that justice will prevail just dont give up or lose hope. I'll be praying for you!
This is my power song after taking years of abuse out of fear and being all alone. I stood on my own feet and did it all by myself. Makes me think of my son though and what he saw. 😢
I'm proud of you... I only saw AND continue to see my narcistic father verbally abuse my filthy bipolar mother and it fucked me up growing up(I grew up fearful and insecure) I'm 26 now and haven't made anything of myself in life but I know that everything will change once I find the courage to leave.
@@usernameistaken666 it's never too late to mange something of yourself. I just turned 40 years old and in a couple months I'm going to start college to become a psychologist for children. I've lived in poverty my entire life and have fought mental health issues for as long as I can remember but now I'm finally taking the reins on my own life and I'm working towards giving my daughters a better life. Get yourself the help you need first then work towards finding your happiness
A subject that is real...abuse is not only physical, but also mental , verbally, and emotional abuse is just as scarring to a person ...maybe the worst form of abuse...wounds heals but emotional abuse is the most traumatic.... Great way to speak out about this ...
This is actually a great song of how if in an abusive relationship, and how not getting out of it, after the very first time can turn very tragic. If a woman stays and puts up with a man physically or verbally abusing them most often times it ends tragic. Verbal abuse can be worse then physical abuse sometimes. So I must say on my own thoughts if your in an abusive relationship ask yourself why? If a man hits a woman it will never stop you have to stand up for yourself and make a stance. You either stay and let it become trafic or get out of the bad relationship, and move on. There is always a way out.
@@kennastout7621 Especially infront of the children then they think what they say and do as parents is the right way in reality when they grow into adults. Abuse is Abuse and Abuse is not Love No Abuse is better I am very sorry for all who had to go through this we are strong together okay do not give up justice will be serve its called KARMA I AM ALSO A ARMY BRAT AND SURVIVOR AND WARRIOR OF OUR MEANING MY BROTHER AND ME BEEN THROUGH ABUSE OF WORSE KINDS BEHIND CLOSED DOORS AND HE WAS SO CONTROLLING MY STEPDAD ALL HE CAN DOES WAS THINKING OF HIMSELF NOT OTHERS HE DID NOT CARE FOR ANYBODYS ACTIONS BUT HIS OWN AND HE PUT A FAKE SMILE TO OTHERS THAT IS WHY OUR NEIGHBOURS THOUGHT OUR STEPDAD WAS A GOOD GUY THEY WHERE POISONED BY HIS MENTAL BRAINWASHING AND SCAPEGOATING AND GAS LIGHTING THEY DID NOT SEE THE WARNING SIGNS AND AS KIDS GROWING UP WE ALL ADULTS IT STILL EFFECTS US AND WE WAKE UP AT NIGHT OR MORNING CRYING IN TEARS!! WE SUFFER PTSD ADHD ANXIETY NERVOUSNESS PANIC ATTACKS TRUST ISSUES DEEP DEPRESSION AT TIMES THE OTHER WORD BUT I AM NOT GOING TO SAY IT HERE SAFE TO SAY THAT WHEN OUR STEPDAD QUIRINO CELERIDAD PAST AWAY TO HIS RUINING OF HIS GRAVE BACK IN NOVEMBER 2013 THE ONLY STUPID GIRL WHO WOULD GO TO HIS FUNERAL BY HERSELF REMINDER NOBODY LOVES OR LIKES AN ABUSER. ONLY OUR MOM SHE ASK HER FIRST EX HUSBAND HE TOLD HER TO F OFF AND SAID HE HATES HIS BROTHER IN LAW THAT HE IS HAPPY THAT KARMA GOT TO HIM AND FOR US KIDS THATS A RELIEF HE WONT ABUSE NOBODY NO MORE THATS ENOUGH ABUSE WE ALL SHOULD END THE STIGMA OF ALL VIOLENCE AND IDIOTS AND ABUSERS SHOULD GET THE ELECTRIC CHAIR OR LETHAL INJECTION. THAT IS HOW TO PUT IT IN TERMS OF ENDEARMENT... There are movies on Domestic Abuse Sleeping with the Enemy Girl Interupted and ENOUGH With Jennifer Lopez The last one I cried to all the time when I see the violence in all scenes because that feels like what How Me and My Brother had to go through life and in school we past our grades yet we had Dyslexia and kids you know how they are even adults are and can be very mean and not so understanding or kind, would make fun of us we would get jealous because even though their lives are and or had been dysfunctional the parents know not to show violent attitudes towards their own offspring. We got bullied in the elementary school playground and my baby meaning my boyfriend aka fiance lol saved me no joke i would not waste nobodys time I know better!! He would kick all 8 of those mean kids and send them scared running for their lives. Me and my brother had broken ribs we still have the scars to prove it at times we do not cry and at times we do we had have a difficult childhood. when it came to sunday we was pleading with our real dad to not send us to Our stepdad and moms and many times he let us stay because he cannot stand our stepfather!!! I am so happy we are happy me and brother that our stepfather is no longer around but he left so much unanswered questions that we like to pick on him for all the damages he has done to divide up the entire family. If all of yall people understand what me and my brother went through Abuse is not love it is strickly abuse if you and or somebody is suffering please do something about it fast!! You can be a Hero or Guardian Angel to them and get them into a safe place where they cannot get harmed with their kids because who wants to go through this trauma!! Like me and my brother been through that is only half of my situation story there is more to it just ask me please thank you My name is Miss Melody Jasmine Gupta Alhuwalia Singh If anybody likes to know Have a good long safe weekend AMEN JAH BLESS NAMASTE TO ALL HAVE A BLESSED GOOD MORNING SINCERELY MELODY SINGH
This is a very good song from NICKLEBACK It played in The Movie ENOUGH Jennifer Lopez and it effected me all straight through the movie I was crying in the movie theater being abused with my brother by our Stepdad who emotionally verbally mentally psychologically physically sexual abused and child abused and sexual gratification on us behind closed doors and he was very controlling and hurtful he was a bully. He only loves his wives and our stupid mom married the jerk and she knew he cheated on her behind her back, yet to say she married the fool!! Then her too got spousal domestic abused by her husband who has been deceased since November 22, 2013 yet it leaves us permanently damaged with scars that do not heal. We feel broken inside. Why do some women and men I know males get abused too its mostly they mentioned the women. I know I have male friends who came out that they was abused growing up and they cannot shrug off the bad feelings when they hear this song from NICKLEBACK. Well Done NICKLEBACK IT TRULY HITS HOME BIG TIME!!! My mom is now like my stepdad she has been harassing the entire family I was stressed out last saturday and sunday. I went to get self evaluated at the Douglas Hospital In Montreal, Quebec Canada They are referal me to See Theraphy in 3 to 4 weeks from now in my area I live in Montreal yet in Saint Jacquest Rue. I pray for my sake my brothers and fathers sake That God can heal us all and For all those who are now suffering from any type of abuse Go Seek Professional Help!!! Please It is not a sign of weakness it is in strength that you are doing this for your own self and your children if you have kids and for those who do worry and care and love you. Try to get to a safe place do not tell your abuser where you are because they will eventually find you people who are stalkers do not know the meaning of leave us alone. Ohh One Thing Go Directly File A Report On The Abuser Ask them to help you and protect you and your children if you are by yourself still ask them if they can do something for you to be protected because abuse should not be allowed in society they are mentally sick and then they pass it to us. Stop Abuse before it ends up way too late!! My BFF Rebekah Love Harry Passed away not too long ago I still have her poster but due to COVID-19 WE WHO KNEW HER WANTED TO GO FOR THE PROTEST RALLY TO END THE ABUSE TO ALL WOMEN AND OR MEN WHO BEEN IN ABUSIVE NARCISSISTIC RELATIONSHIPS. YET WHEN WE CANT DO THAT WE WAS WATCHING IT ON LIVE TV EVERYBODY WAS CRYING AND SO ARE WE. Rebekah Love Harry We love you youve touched so much lives and hearts even if you did not know them you was kind to be a friend to those who kindly need reassurance and care you was there for people. Her nasty ex abused her and put her in misery and I am miserable because before she past away RIP Honey Girl She was going to hangout with friends in Saint Michel area where I was living in and she knew my friend Lynda and her Boyfriend which is a surprise lol I had no idea. They told me to go file report and tell them what he has done ok we got harassed by him verbal abuse but they got me out and into a womens shelter and I am now on the right track sort of I am going to get counselling or therapy to get rid of these scars I do not want to live with the pain nomore it hurts really it does. Especially when I lost a very good friend who was a good friend with Lynda and her Boyfriend They grabbedd me by my arms and dragged lol me across the other side of their street into their apartment. Because Lynda has a retired police man friend and Danny we call him Dan his two sons and two daughters are working for Saint Michel District they drove me to women shelter and now I am in another one because the other one is 3 months probation and this one is one year my time is almost done due to I am going to be in a new apartment of my own in end of october 2021 So wish me good luck!! I will continue with my Therapy and Counselling despite where I am living so far I Am in a safe place where nobody can hurt or harm me but the bad scars cannot heal I am still dealing with the past. :( So God Help me and Be By My Side RIP Rebekah Love Harry that Bastard should get lethal injection I lost a good friend yet I have some good memories of my childhood with my brother and my real dad and You Rebekah. I MISS ALL OF YOU TAKE CARE
"Father" is a name you haven't earned yet. You're just a child with a temper." Reminds me of my father when I was just four years old and he would literally throw me into the wall because I had annoyed him. My mother probably never really earned the title of "mother" either because she never did anything about it except tell me it was my fault because I annoyed him. My mother also possibly had some form of Munchhausen By Proxy because she was always wanting me diagnosed with one condition or another yet would never take it into consideration that she might have had those same conditions herself.
This song rocks! And yes, my father was abusive to me and mother, left when I was just 12 years old and haven’t heard of him, and surely hope I don’t so in the future.
love this song and love the fact that none of them stories u guys posted happened to me ...never ever had to think about this song the way some of u thinking never experienced any kind of abuse in my home or never been a witness ...and also never ever done any of that crap myself reading what some of people posted iam feeling relieved and thanking god that my life wasnt what it has been to some of you...now is your time u all grownup people and its all in your hands to make sure that nobody will ever go through what u did ....
Thankfully I'm a survivor of domestic abuse happened in 2014 but I was one of the lucky ones I'm sorry your daughter was taken from you by him Elizabeth frink I hope you get justice for your daughter soon there's no excuse for physically harming another human being my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family x
Just got out of a emotional abusive relationship. I have been through fiscal, sexual and emotional abuse growing up, but I never thought I'd go through it in a relationship. emotional abuse is just as bad.
So just gotta make a minor correction...at 3:05 it starts 'He's drunk again, it's time to fight, same old shit, just on a different night. She grabs a gun, she's had enough, tonite she'll find out, how fuckin' tough is this man, pulls the trigger fast as she can... I think if you listen again you'll hear it. Thanks!
This is such a sad song. Even though songs are for entertainment I always end up sympathizing with the people in the song. Poor kid having to watch his father beat his mother abd his mother feeling the only way out is to kill him. Why is the world like this??
This song has got me through something my ex boyfriends dad was an abusive alcoholic he tried to kill his own son right in front of me I saw my boyfriend get stabbed 6 inches in the chest luckily he survived this pos used to beat up on his wife almost every day it was a wrestling match in our living room about a month after my boyfriend got stabbed his dad got drunk pulled a shot gun to the back of my head my boyfriend grabbed me told me to hide in the attic I've never been so scared I was hiding in the attic I could hear my own heart beating I heard my boyfriend's mom go out the front door to confront her husband as soon as she went out the door I heard the gun go off I ran outside grabbed the mom she died in my arms that night the dad grabveda knife and slit his wrist trying to kill himself I refused to get him anything to stop the bleeding I wanted him to die for what he had done he did survive but had it not been for this song idk how I would have coped the bartered did go to jail I was always scared of him getting out and trying to kill me again like he did previous times
lived in X 2 relationship's now widowed n still some in new relationship. but now I don't take that crap. my income my house u go sleep in your work vanilla and but f'er LMAO 😂 😂 in NJ And 2° deg lol I have two girls to raise who saw enough of Daddy my husband if 13 ys. fatal heart attack wasn't even there. I call that Karma 😑 but damn me I NEVER MISSED SOMEONE MORE. Not innocent. gave as good as I go..no fragile flower here. AND now sadly stronger from it all. use a lesson n pick up n move on ,😉
Only Nickelback song I honestly like. it resonates to a point because my sister was in something like this many years ago. It was straightened out in the long run though.................... EDIT: Nobody died IRL.
My son says he believes I have PTSD from his biological who was the meanest drinker. I planned my escape, ran while he was at work with my two kids and we lived almost a year in a gated community that sheltered us from him. Another young mother was staying there after shooting her child's abuser and she gave me this CD and as soon as I heard this song I knew why she had given it to me. One of my most played tracks during that time. I never looked back. I made an affirmative decision to run when I realized how many nights I stayed up plotting how I could kill him and make it look like an accident. I was terrified of him but I wanted to be around for my kids. Listening to this just brought it all flooding back but I felt so empowered whenever I listened to this song. Strange how a certain song can take me to an exact moment in time.
It's weird, but I've felt oddly apathetic to domestic abuse awareness efforts ever since I had to do a project on it. Gotta finish that education. As it turns out, somewhere between 15 and 40 percent of domestic abuse victims are actually male. And if you think that's an oddly large range of error, you're entirely correct. People don't take it seriously, but it's a huge problem in our society that most people either deny exits, are too bigoted to take seriously, or simply honestly don't know exists. Abused men actually have it much worse than abused woman.( now watch my magic trick: I shall now create an instant flame war with nothing but facts and fairness!)
Dragonlover553 hey, you're not wrong. Men have more of a stigma to reporting it because they feel like it hurts their pride, that it's not manly to be abused by a woman so they don't tell anyone.
Agreed. Men have it worse because they are shamed and not given any sympathy in our society. Women can be VICIOUS, trust me on that. Still, family court favors the woman and men are stigmatized. I hope we can change things. The feminists can all go die.
I don’t think you can really say men have it worse I think it’s fairly bad for both. But hey until you see your mother on deaths door bc of a man I don’t think you could. Until your being hurt by a man and your actually scared for your life and afraid you will die you won’t understand.
Just divorced my dope fiend ex. The violence, abuse, covert narcissism...I'm lucky to be alive. He destroyed everything. Now he has a 3rd degree felony for family abuse (3 assault charges from me), got out of jail with 2 charges "time served" with 2 months in jail cause he's poor (homeless) and now he's out and has a bolo on his for another assault charge. Some justice system huh. A new adventure awaits on the horizon. I'm taking it. The future is bright.
this song here describes what my step sis and her mom have to go thru every night with her damn drunk lazy ass step father and my advice is to anyone that goes thru this please leave the guy and remember your kid is the first thing you think about and yourself its not worth living life like that.
It is "how fucking tough is this man." Speaking from experience, lyrics booklets can be wrong. I've had several that had whole verses missing from the song lyrics. Also, "How fucking who tooketh this man." makes no sense. :/
In my linkin park booklet the lyrics for 'crawling'... The line 'these wounds they will not heal' was 'consuming all I feel' in it. So I sometimes sing the one in the booklet just because. XD (Also yes I realize this reply is 5 years old. I apologize.)
I like the song but dont like the memories, ive lived this as a teenager, n my childhood, i finally stopped it, but i dont speak to my father anymore. I guess this happened all around the world. Its Iike chad took the night events and put into words.
I don't know why some lyric sites (and stupid people with obviously no sense of hearing) say the lyrics go "time to run when you see him LICKING his hands" that doesn't even make sense why would someone lick their hands before beating someone up????
what if is not your father but ur mother boyfriend and he verbally abusive to her and controlling that there argument are so bad and get worse to where you afraid she will end hurt even though he's never land his hand on her but you have own daughter but yet she decided to still stay with him
Someone fucked up on the lyrics. You put, "Tonight she'll find out a fuckin tooketh this man?" The fuck?? Its "Tonight she'll found out how fuckin tough is this man!"
My son Robby taught me rockstar lyrics .she didn't do it he did.my husband has it me punched a hole in my bedroom at 10pm hard alcohol and beer affected his mind he is diabetic no excuse after my son died by beer going to college he did not drink a beer or own a beer these nen hiding behind their teanster number and I was in the United food workers union with my son at Albertsons Smith's in billings Montana
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The best anti abuse song out there. Powerful, dark, real, and from some place deep in the soul of Chad
This is nothing but truth at its finest people whom has never been on the receiving end of mans first,anger etc has no idea the toll ot takes on a person. It's real and I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy ❤❤❤💯💯💯💯💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔
My Daughter was Recently Killed Dec 15th 2014 Due to Domestic Abuse!! This song Fits Him well....We are fighting to get him arrested still, #Justicefordanielle
Oh my God!! Im sooo sorry to hear that! I dony know if you are religious or not and if you aren't then I'm sorry if I offend you but I have faith that justice will prevail just dont give up or lose hope. I'll be praying for you!
Thank you prayers are very welcome
So sad 😭😭😭
Iam ...my Dad is a pastor... So prayers very welcomed
did they arrest the fucker yet?
This is my power song after taking years of abuse out of fear and being all alone. I stood on my own feet and did it all by myself. Makes me think of my son though and what he saw. 😢
I'm proud of you... I only saw AND continue to see my narcistic father verbally abuse my filthy bipolar mother and it fucked me up growing up(I grew up fearful and insecure) I'm 26 now and haven't made anything of myself in life but I know that everything will change once I find the courage to leave.
@@usernameistaken666 it's never too late to mange something of yourself. I just turned 40 years old and in a couple months I'm going to start college to become a psychologist for children. I've lived in poverty my entire life and have fought mental health issues for as long as I can remember but now I'm finally taking the reins on my own life and I'm working towards giving my daughters a better life. Get yourself the help you need first then work towards finding your happiness
wow, all these songs are very meanigful and tasteful, wonderful band and wonderful song that speaks to ppl and speaks the truth
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A subject that is real...abuse is not only physical, but also mental , verbally, and emotional abuse is just as scarring to a person ...maybe the worst form of abuse...wounds heals but emotional abuse is the most traumatic.... Great way to speak out about this ...
Silver Side Up was my very first CD as a kid, this was song #1. Made me so sad 😭
This is actually a great song of how if in an abusive relationship, and how not getting out of it, after the very first time can turn very tragic. If a woman stays and puts up with a man physically or verbally abusing them most often times it ends tragic. Verbal abuse can be worse then physical abuse sometimes. So I must say on my own thoughts if your in an abusive relationship ask yourself why? If a man hits a woman it will never stop you have to stand up for yourself and make a stance. You either stay and let it become trafic or get out of the bad relationship, and move on. There is always a way out.
Why a "man hits a woman"? Why not a SPOUSE WHO HITS A SPOUSE?
@@kennastout7621 Especially infront of the children then they think what they say and do as parents is the right way in reality when they grow into adults. Abuse is Abuse and Abuse is not Love No Abuse is better I am very sorry for all who had to go through this we are strong together okay do not give up justice will be serve its called KARMA I AM ALSO A ARMY BRAT AND SURVIVOR AND WARRIOR OF OUR MEANING MY BROTHER AND ME BEEN THROUGH ABUSE OF WORSE KINDS BEHIND CLOSED DOORS AND HE WAS SO CONTROLLING MY STEPDAD ALL HE CAN DOES WAS THINKING OF HIMSELF NOT OTHERS HE DID NOT CARE FOR ANYBODYS ACTIONS BUT HIS OWN AND HE PUT A FAKE SMILE TO OTHERS THAT IS WHY OUR NEIGHBOURS THOUGHT OUR STEPDAD WAS A GOOD GUY THEY WHERE POISONED BY HIS MENTAL BRAINWASHING AND SCAPEGOATING AND GAS LIGHTING THEY DID NOT SEE THE WARNING SIGNS AND AS KIDS GROWING UP WE ALL ADULTS IT STILL EFFECTS US AND WE WAKE UP AT NIGHT OR MORNING CRYING IN TEARS!! WE SUFFER PTSD ADHD ANXIETY NERVOUSNESS PANIC ATTACKS TRUST ISSUES DEEP DEPRESSION AT TIMES THE OTHER WORD BUT I AM NOT GOING TO SAY IT HERE SAFE TO SAY THAT WHEN OUR STEPDAD QUIRINO CELERIDAD PAST AWAY TO HIS RUINING OF HIS GRAVE BACK IN NOVEMBER 2013 THE ONLY STUPID GIRL WHO WOULD GO TO HIS FUNERAL BY HERSELF REMINDER NOBODY LOVES OR LIKES AN ABUSER. ONLY OUR MOM SHE ASK HER FIRST EX HUSBAND HE TOLD HER TO F OFF AND SAID HE HATES HIS BROTHER IN LAW THAT HE IS HAPPY THAT KARMA GOT TO HIM AND FOR US KIDS THATS A RELIEF HE WONT ABUSE NOBODY NO MORE THATS ENOUGH ABUSE WE ALL SHOULD END THE STIGMA OF ALL VIOLENCE AND IDIOTS AND ABUSERS SHOULD GET THE ELECTRIC CHAIR OR LETHAL INJECTION. THAT IS HOW TO PUT IT IN TERMS OF ENDEARMENT...
There are movies on Domestic Abuse Sleeping with the Enemy Girl Interupted and ENOUGH With Jennifer Lopez The last one I cried to all the time when I see the violence in all scenes because that feels like what How Me and My Brother had to go through life and in school we past our grades yet we had Dyslexia and kids you know how they are even adults are and can be very mean and not so understanding or kind, would make fun of us we would get jealous because even though their lives are and or had been dysfunctional the parents know not to show violent attitudes towards their own offspring. We got bullied in the elementary school playground and my baby meaning my boyfriend aka fiance lol saved me no joke i would not waste nobodys time I know better!! He would kick all 8 of those mean kids and send them scared running for their lives. Me and my brother had broken ribs we still have the scars to prove it at times we do not cry and at times we do we had have a difficult childhood. when it came to sunday we was pleading with our real dad to not send us to Our stepdad and moms and many times he let us stay because he cannot stand our stepfather!!! I am so happy we are happy me and brother that our stepfather is no longer around but he left so much unanswered questions that we like to pick on him for all the damages he has done to divide up the entire family. If all of yall people understand what me and my brother went through Abuse is not love it is strickly abuse if you and or somebody is suffering please do something about it fast!! You can be a Hero or Guardian Angel to them and get them into a safe place where they cannot get harmed with their kids because who wants to go through this trauma!! Like me and my brother been through that is only half of my situation story there is more to it just ask me please thank you
My name is Miss Melody Jasmine Gupta Alhuwalia Singh If anybody likes to know
Have a good long safe weekend AMEN JAH BLESS NAMASTE TO ALL HAVE A BLESSED GOOD MORNING SINCERELY MELODY SINGH
This is a very good song from NICKLEBACK It played in The Movie ENOUGH Jennifer Lopez and it effected me all straight through the movie I was crying in the movie theater being abused with my brother by our Stepdad who emotionally verbally mentally psychologically physically sexual abused and child abused and sexual gratification on us behind closed doors and he was very controlling and hurtful he was a bully. He only loves his wives and our stupid mom married the jerk and she knew he cheated on her behind her back, yet to say she married the fool!! Then her too got spousal domestic abused by her husband who has been deceased since November 22, 2013 yet it leaves us permanently damaged with scars that do not heal. We feel broken inside. Why do some women and men I know males get abused too its mostly they mentioned the women. I know I have male friends who came out that they was abused growing up and they cannot shrug off the bad feelings when they hear this song from NICKLEBACK. Well Done NICKLEBACK IT TRULY HITS HOME BIG TIME!!! My mom is now like my stepdad she has been harassing the entire family I was stressed out last saturday and sunday. I went to get self evaluated at the Douglas Hospital In Montreal, Quebec Canada They are referal me to See Theraphy in 3 to 4 weeks from now in my area I live in Montreal yet in Saint Jacquest Rue. I pray for my sake my brothers and fathers sake That God can heal us all and For all those who are now suffering from any type of abuse Go Seek Professional Help!!! Please It is not a sign of weakness it is in strength that you are doing this for your own self and your children if you have kids and for those who do worry and care and love you. Try to get to a safe place do not tell your abuser where you are because they will eventually find you people who are stalkers do not know the meaning of leave us alone. Ohh One Thing Go Directly File A Report On The Abuser Ask them to help you and protect you and your children if you are by yourself still ask them if they can do something for you to be protected because abuse should not be allowed in society they are mentally sick and then they pass it to us. Stop Abuse before it ends up way too late!!
My BFF Rebekah Love Harry Passed away not too long ago I still have her poster but due to COVID-19 WE WHO KNEW HER WANTED TO GO FOR THE PROTEST RALLY TO END THE ABUSE TO ALL WOMEN AND OR MEN WHO BEEN IN ABUSIVE NARCISSISTIC RELATIONSHIPS. YET WHEN WE CANT DO THAT WE WAS WATCHING IT ON LIVE TV EVERYBODY WAS CRYING AND SO ARE WE. Rebekah Love Harry We love you youve touched so much lives and hearts even if you did not know them you was kind to be a friend to those who kindly need reassurance and care you was there for people. Her nasty ex abused her and put her in misery and I am miserable because before she past away RIP Honey Girl She was going to hangout with friends in Saint Michel area where I was living in and she knew my friend Lynda and her Boyfriend which is a surprise lol I had no idea. They told me to go file report and tell them what he has done ok we got harassed by him verbal abuse but they got me out and into a womens shelter and I am now on the right track sort of I am going to get counselling or therapy to get rid of these scars I do not want to live with the pain nomore it hurts really it does. Especially when I lost a very good friend who was a good friend with Lynda and her Boyfriend They grabbedd me by my arms and dragged lol me across the other side of their street into their apartment. Because Lynda has a retired police man friend and Danny we call him Dan his two sons and two daughters are working for Saint Michel District they drove me to women shelter and now I am in another one because the other one is 3 months probation and this one is one year my time is almost done due to I am going to be in a new apartment of my own in end of october 2021 So wish me good luck!! I will continue with my Therapy and Counselling despite where I am living so far I Am in a safe place where nobody can hurt or harm me but the bad scars cannot heal I am still dealing with the past. :( So God Help me and Be By My Side RIP Rebekah Love Harry that Bastard should get lethal injection I lost a good friend yet I have some good memories of my childhood with my brother and my real dad and You Rebekah. I MISS ALL OF YOU TAKE CARE
Bobbie, so damn true!! Bruise will go away but " u fuck... Cu.. i hate u" yet Iam still here so screwed health wise😭
Nickelback are AWESOME!!!!!!!
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"Father" is a name you haven't earned yet. You're just a child with a temper."
Reminds me of my father when I was just four years old and he would literally throw me into the wall because I had annoyed him. My mother probably never really earned the title of "mother" either because she never did anything about it except tell me it was my fault because I annoyed him. My mother also possibly had some form of Munchhausen By Proxy because she was always wanting me diagnosed with one condition or another yet would never take it into consideration that she might have had those same conditions herself.
+misspinkpunkykat i'm so sorry sweety...you are not alone
I hope you are well
Yeah could name some with that!😥
I hope you are doing okay now.
Same as my late parents, mom , broken jaw, man, my Father made her "FLY"!!💔
Never has another song been written that is exactly what should happen
its like he is my daughter and i am the mum. we ended up in a womans refuge. mental scars never go.
you have the same first and last name of my nan that's weird
This song rocks! And yes, my father was abusive to me and mother, left when I was just 12 years old and haven’t heard of him, and surely hope I don’t so in the future.
@dchapo9261Hey, why do you think anyone cares about you or your comment? Slink back into your hole you lonely slug! Is being single fun?
love this song and love the fact that none of them stories u guys posted happened to me ...never ever had to think about this song the way some of u thinking never experienced any kind of abuse in my home or never been a witness ...and also never ever done any of that crap myself reading what some of people posted iam feeling relieved and thanking god that my life wasnt what it has been to some of you...now is your time u all grownup people and its all in your hands to make sure that nobody will ever go through what u did ....
These are real men ❤
Thankfully I'm a survivor of domestic abuse happened in 2014 but I was one of the lucky ones I'm sorry your daughter was taken from you by him Elizabeth frink I hope you get justice for your daughter soon there's no excuse for physically harming another human being my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family x
My favorite song by them.
Do not let abuse come to this. Stand now and stand with loved ones.
The vocal arrangement is the most brilliant in history.
Love this song can relate💯💯💯
I have been looking g everywhere for this song!
Usedd to listen to this on my portable cd player on the school bus and cried lol
That used to be me well heheh. Back in 2001 or so. Listening to it in my portable red CD player hehehe. Carrying it to school.
Me too
Omg
Why do people hate on nickelback so much? Theyre one of my favorite bands
I like them too
@@sonictailsandfortnitekidth4814 I like them 3
My son Robby I worked this last concert together before he died .July 2007 as security at the stage crew mixer
THE BEST SONG OF NICKELBACK
Hits home
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cromea, this is an amazing upload. beautiful work. TY. ✌
They have so many really good songs!🎵
It's a good song.
I reckon there's no such thing as "Just a woman", though. We're more than that.
Jesus christ.
@@jakebaggio527 ...Dude, my comment is 13 years old.
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@@jakebaggio527 Right?
Holy s*** I was a naive dumbass
I mean I wasn't exactly *wrong* but wow, nuance, past me, you did not have it.
Soo cool but sad as this is a life for many women!!
It's NOT who tooketh this man! It's how tough is this man! God!
Ugh that made me cringe. Also he said he changed it 3 times lol
Ugh yes thank you
Judith barsi rest in peace. Gone too soon at age ten 1988.
Just got out of a emotional abusive relationship. I have been through fiscal, sexual and emotional abuse growing up, but I never thought I'd go through it in a relationship. emotional abuse is just as bad.
Jackie Jones i dont give a fuck
You are a fucked up person.
Jackie Jones
Virtual hugs if you want them.
These assholes are going to get it. Jackie, warm wishes. Hope you find a good man.
Im sorry for what happened to you and i can relate to that with my dad when he choked his ex girlfriend
This song is an inspiration to my day on 24 August 2012.
Never Again Will you hurt me!!
So just gotta make a minor correction...at 3:05 it starts 'He's drunk again, it's time to fight, same old shit, just on a different night. She grabs a gun, she's had enough, tonite she'll find out, how fuckin' tough is this man, pulls the trigger fast as she can... I think if you listen again you'll hear it. Thanks!
MultiScrappydo no i have read the whole lyric page on nickelbacks site its not wrong
MultiScrappydo. Also I think they are saying in the waiting room with roses. Not in the waiting room with those hands.
scrappy- you Are absolutely CORRECT !
+Level4 Gaming listen again..scrappy s correct...
It took my family my entire life to find the right man for them. Never again.
All these years later now that I’m a bit older I’m getting goosebumps listening to the lyrics.
this is my favorite Song
No more!!!
Never....
Same old shit just a different night
2:50-3.05 most epic bit of the song :D
Good job on this song
Still have the actual, literal scars and NEVER AGAIN.
Jamie Shelton me to. I have a bone sticking out of my face and my nose is cracked
Home sweet home.
I like this song because this is the song to listen to when your wrestle playing
This is such a sad song. Even though songs are for entertainment I always end up sympathizing with the people in the song. Poor kid having to watch his father beat his mother abd his mother feeling the only way out is to kill him. Why is the world like this??
the world is a fucked up place thats why
You don't get it Hannah
Glad you said most of them. I've nocked someone unconscious don't make me any less tough just because I'm female.
This song has got me through something my ex boyfriends dad was an abusive alcoholic he tried to kill his own son right in front of me I saw my boyfriend get stabbed 6 inches in the chest luckily he survived this pos used to beat up on his wife almost every day it was a wrestling match in our living room about a month after my boyfriend got stabbed his dad got drunk pulled a shot gun to the back of my head my boyfriend grabbed me told me to hide in the attic I've never been so scared I was hiding in the attic I could hear my own heart beating I heard my boyfriend's mom go out the front door to confront her husband as soon as she went out the door I heard the gun go off I ran outside grabbed the mom she died in my arms that night the dad grabveda knife and slit his wrist trying to kill himself I refused to get him anything to stop the bleeding I wanted him to die for what he had done he did survive but had it not been for this song idk how I would have coped the bartered did go to jail I was always scared of him getting out and trying to kill me again like he did previous times
One of their best songs and a great band fuck the haters
Killer song
My life....
thanks
How tough is this man 🎶🎶
I AGREE ALL THE WAY!
still their best song by far though
lived in X 2 relationship's now widowed n still some in new relationship. but now I don't take that crap. my income my house u go sleep in your work vanilla and but f'er LMAO 😂 😂 in NJ And 2° deg lol I have two girls to raise who saw enough of Daddy my husband if 13 ys. fatal heart attack wasn't even there. I call that Karma 😑 but damn me I NEVER MISSED SOMEONE MORE. Not innocent. gave as good as I go..no fragile flower here. AND now sadly stronger from it all. use a lesson n pick up n move on ,😉
Only Nickelback song I honestly like. it resonates to a point because my sister was in something like this many years ago. It was straightened out in the long run though....................
EDIT: Nobody died IRL.
Guys, on aserious note. How tooketh this man lmao
I'd love it to never happen again.
My son says he believes I have PTSD from his biological who was the meanest drinker. I planned my escape, ran while he was at work with my two kids and we lived almost a year in a gated community that sheltered us from him. Another young mother was staying there after shooting her child's abuser and she gave me this CD and as soon as I heard this song I knew why she had given it to me. One of my most played tracks during that time. I never looked back. I made an affirmative decision to run when I realized how many nights I stayed up plotting how I could kill him and make it look like an accident. I was terrified of him but I wanted to be around for my kids. Listening to this just brought it all flooding back but I felt so empowered whenever I listened to this song. Strange how a certain song can take me to an exact moment in time.
This song is my fight song
This song is about a justified murder and it’s awesome 🤟🏻
Judith. Barsi rest in peace. Gone too soon at age ten.
I seen what you put on the comments of the black song
lifes a dance....
It's weird, but I've felt oddly apathetic to domestic abuse awareness efforts ever since I had to do a project on it. Gotta finish that education. As it turns out, somewhere between 15 and 40 percent of domestic abuse victims are actually male. And if you think that's an oddly large range of error, you're entirely correct. People don't take it seriously, but it's a huge problem in our society that most people either deny exits, are too bigoted to take seriously, or simply honestly don't know exists. Abused men actually have it much worse than abused woman.( now watch my magic trick: I shall now create an instant flame war with nothing but facts and fairness!)
Dragonlover553 hey, you're not wrong. Men have more of a stigma to reporting it because they feel like it hurts their pride, that it's not manly to be abused by a woman so they don't tell anyone.
Agreed. Men have it worse because they are shamed and not given any sympathy in our society. Women can be VICIOUS, trust me on that. Still, family court favors the woman and men are stigmatized. I hope we can change things. The feminists can all go die.
I worked in the field and some of the saddest cases are abused men.
It's probably even more than that seeing most of it goes unreported, particularly with men
I don’t think you can really say men have it worse I think it’s fairly bad for both. But hey until you see your mother on deaths door bc of a man I don’t think you could. Until your being hurt by a man and your actually scared for your life and afraid you will die you won’t understand.
Its not just women that get abused,they can also be the abuser.i speak from experience
Just divorced my dope fiend ex. The violence, abuse, covert narcissism...I'm lucky to be alive. He destroyed everything. Now he has a 3rd degree felony for family abuse (3 assault charges from me), got out of jail with 2 charges "time served" with 2 months in jail cause he's poor (homeless) and now he's out and has a bolo on his for another assault charge. Some justice system huh.
A new adventure awaits on the horizon. I'm taking it. The future is bright.
I've been there....
very goooooooooooooooood
Isn't the lyric "How fucking tough is this man"
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this song here describes what my step sis and her mom have to go thru every night with her damn drunk lazy ass step father and my advice is to anyone that goes thru this please leave the guy and remember your kid is the first thing you think about and yourself its not worth living life like that.
I just love the part when he says She’s just a woman
Never before have I seen HIM- This bad....
"Tooketh" hahahaha
He says, "How tough is this man".
That's still very admirable of you. I'm pretty sure there's a few girls out there somewhere taking advantage of that chivalry, though XD
3:21 "who tooketh this man" lmao
Third-person singular simple past of of take
Oh how I wish he'd given me the chance...
It is "how fucking tough is this man." Speaking from experience, lyrics booklets can be wrong. I've had several that had whole verses missing from the song lyrics.
Also, "How fucking who tooketh this man." makes no sense. :/
In my linkin park booklet the lyrics for 'crawling'...
The line 'these wounds they will not heal' was 'consuming all I feel' in it.
So I sometimes sing the one in the booklet just because. XD
(Also yes I realize this reply is 5 years old. I apologize.)
I walked away from a domestic abuse realationship.. on both parts.. and I miss him so much. But I know this is for the best
Same here I've been away 2 days now.
how can u miss someone who abused you? and that too many times?
@@brycedsilva1142 Abusers have control over their victims
No woman no kid should ever get abused no matter what they do
2.9 likes with 100 dislikes. I think I know what kind of person dislikes this song lol
I like the song but dont like the memories, ive lived this as a teenager, n my childhood, i finally stopped it, but i dont speak to my father anymore. I guess this happened all around the world. Its Iike chad took the night events and put into words.
This was my life until I eventually escaped.xx
Any woman beaters... I'm here for you
XX 😎👉👍100%
Ah, I see.
I guess we're strong in different ways... like how you should never give us chairs when we're angry XDDD
That sounds like a GarageBand. No wonder people say they suck.
It is a good band though.
I don't know why some lyric sites (and stupid people with obviously no sense of hearing) say the lyrics go "time to run when you see him LICKING his hands" that doesn't even make sense why would someone lick their hands before beating someone up????
Most people's comment saying how they was treated as i child me I'm just trying to enjoy the song
what if is not your father but ur mother boyfriend and he verbally abusive to her and controlling that there argument are so bad and get worse to where you afraid she will end hurt even though he's never land his hand on her but you have own daughter but yet she decided to still stay with him
her own
I'm just here cause of a Fairy Tail Crack video which was hilarious
OtakuPlaysGraal same
i love this song...but what compelled him to write about a girl being beat by her father
It's about his parents.....
lol you still fucked up, the last verse is tonight she find out how fucking tough is this man
YHWH 👁️
Tooketh? 4:21
What the fuck is tooketh? It’s tough as this man.
y do ppl argue online god u dont know the person so if they make a mistake let it go ppl!
Someone fucked up on the lyrics. You put, "Tonight she'll find out a fuckin tooketh this man?" The fuck?? Its "Tonight she'll found out how fuckin tough is this man!"
My son Robby taught me rockstar lyrics .she didn't do it he did.my husband has it me punched a hole in my bedroom at 10pm hard alcohol and beer affected his mind he is diabetic no excuse after my son died by beer going to college he did not drink a beer or own a beer these nen hiding behind their teanster number and I was in the United food workers union with my son at Albertsons Smith's in billings Montana