3:42 was a hint and a half that you should not let your daughter go to her grandparents house. Read the room. She basically spelled out how she felt about Kate. You should have never let her go.
That is why I live 300 miles from my father and family and my wife family when we got married. they would come to visit stay a day or two and leave and we would visit them the same way, (they are not longer with us). Mississippi Gulf Coast, USA)
It's a cultural thing, just like the constant "respect your elders" line the MIL kept using. The elder son is frequently expected by everyone in the family to take on the obligation for the care of his parents, with his wife being very much a part of this situation. The custom of the groom and groom's family paying a 'bride price" is still in effect in many cultures. The groom actually pays his wife's family to marry her. She leaves her family and becomes part of his.
The only rude and disrespectful one is the MIL. And I don't get why OP is calling that monster-in-law mom, she's not her mother. Besides a DIL is only obligated to serve her family while her husband is obligated to serve his family.
So what’s the difference between the DIL and the SIL why is he considered family but not her? The way she refers to her own grandchild is disgusting and how can the woman’s husband allow his own wife and child to be excluded. If the MIL was so concerned about her grandchild’s wellbeing and was worried because her parents work too much then why did she deprive her grandchild love and affection especially after berating her son and DIL for working too much and not giving their child enough attention, she’s such a hypocrite.
Shouldn't have to "win" anyone over! And you know how our household runs, how? "You have to respect me..." Respect is a 2 way street. Age has nothing to do with it.
"I'm allowed to make my own decisions, you know." "Yes, you are. And Nate and I are allowed to protect our child, by completely cutting you out of our lives, forever. Goodbye!" There. Problem solved, and no more time, tears, or money wasted. PROTECT YOUR CHILD. Don't even try to force her grandmother to love her. Just keep her away from the hateful wench.
If someone sent me some steaks, I would have been in heaven. Also the way she treats your daughter is a real red flag. Don't ignore it, and protect your daughter from this monster!
ML is very self and greedy. Never put your child in arms way. If ML says she don't like you and your daughter keep her away. I would never send my child to ever see her ML again. Shameful Shameful Shameful
Both of my grandmothers were this way thanks to an misdiagnosis. My brothers and half sister would get nice presents and money. I would get an fifty cent birthday card with an hard plastic Barbie still it's bag with $1.00 on it. My other grandma would simply send an cheap card. Christmas I was expected to buy these two bags nice things yet get dollar tree presents. They got off on seeing me upset. When I turned 12 I simply stopped. I gave them the care and thought. When they can treat me like my brothers and half sister then I will. NEVER happened.
14:11, Why would they wish Happiness to someone who Dispises them? it literally makes no Sense.... Wishing Happiness to an Enemy. 14:21, No you dont, and you know it. 14:59, But I am not your DIL as you Clearly Stated. 15:23, that type of Honor and respect is given to Elders who have EARNED IT, not Tarnished it. 15:23, And now she is Telling JOKES. What is this BS about being REQUIRED to Forgive her, and Love her Unconditionally. That is what she is required for her CHILD, not her MONSTER IN LAW. 16:21, NO, its because she loves her Husband More and dont want to leave him for a Evil and Disrespectful Old Hag. 16:48, because those are the words your Loving Daughter told to her. 18:20, Maybe they TO want you to Drop Dead due to your Abusive Behavior, and how much you DEMAND of them because you cant do it Yourself. 18:32, if you dont understand by now, then I would suggest giving her TIME. TIME ALONE with no one to Care or Love her. then maybe she will understand how bad her ABUSE OF FAMILY IS. 19:42, She is your DIL not your SLAVE... And the fact you dont see a Differance between the two is why you will always be alone. 20:31, A LITTLE BIT OUT OF LINE.... you ignored your Grand Child at Christmass..... As for a GrandParents SIN I can think of NON WORSE short of Physically abusing them. 20:58, What DELUSIONAL PSYCHOTIC ever concluded that it was HER JOB to take care of your Abusive Hide? And I bet O.P. Never agreed to that, because you never made the Stupid DEMAND of her either. you just ASSUMED it in your Evil Mind while Abusing Her and YOUR GRAND CHILD. 21:22, am betting LESS rather then More. 22:05, Drama Queen? no thats someone who Intentionally IGNORES her Grand Child at christmans in order to get a RISE out of her MOTHER. 22:17, Would suggest dropping DEAD for starters?
So your MIL hates you and your daughter and you still send your daughter to her house? You are a terrible parent and you should've never let her go. That was your fault.
HAISLEY LISTEN UP AND LISTEN GOOD THERE TOO CUPCAKE AND STOP SWEARING AND CUSSING AND KNOW YOUR PLACE TOO HAISLEY THE CUPCAKE TOO AND I AM GLAD THAT RILEY CALLED OUT HER MOTHER IN LAW HAISLEY THE CUPCAKE
Where is the husband in this story? What exactly HIS responsibility to his immediate family of wife and daughter? My mother would never have done this and I would have stepped up if she did.
Why this ok didn't go off is a mystery to me. Who the he'll does this woman think she is, you don't listen to me!!! Her job to take care of her!!! Ok is an adult and makes her own decisions. God is of gone off like a rocket!!!
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If I had a mother-in-law like this I would have block their number and move on with my life and enjoy the freedom of not hearing her voice
I'm so glad that I don't have these MIL and DIL problems my in laws adore me and I'm grateful for it
Woman is such a busy body and suffers from a severe case of selfishness. She deserves to be alone.
I can't stand people who are busy bodies, at all, they are sad people.
I wouldnt let mil act like this to me. What a pos.
Happiness comes from within, Haisley sounds materialistic.
Haisley needs to be reminded you get respect when you give respect
Right..right..right ...
Give expensive present to Mil
we do not have to respect you in anyway respect is earned as far as we are concerned you do not exist
Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
3:42 was a hint and a half that you should not let your daughter go to her grandparents house. Read the room. She basically spelled out how she felt about Kate. You should have never let her go.
That is why I live 300 miles from my father and family and my wife family when we got married. they would come to visit stay a day or two and leave and we would visit them the same way, (they are not longer with us). Mississippi Gulf Coast, USA)
Hate these stories where mil is garbage and dil takes it ugh
we will never take care of you ever you are on your own so no contact
I have to agree, steaks are not a Christmas present
just stay out of our lives for ever
Did marriage vows suddenly include parents? Do the vows say, " Do you take this family as yours?"
It's a cultural thing, just like the constant "respect your elders" line the MIL kept using. The elder son is frequently expected by everyone in the family to take on the obligation for the care of his parents, with his wife being very much a part of this situation. The custom of the groom and groom's family paying a 'bride price" is still in effect in many cultures. The groom actually pays his wife's family to marry her. She leaves her family and becomes part of his.
@@dulcilass Poor women.
Monster In Law still living in a world that no longer exists … and I learned when I was 11 that respect for elders is earned, not obligatory
The only rude and disrespectful one is the MIL. And I don't get why OP is calling that monster-in-law mom, she's not her mother. Besides a DIL is only obligated to serve her family while her husband is obligated to serve his family.
So what’s the difference between the DIL and the SIL why is he considered family but not her? The way she refers to her own grandchild is disgusting and how can the woman’s husband allow his own wife and child to be excluded. If the MIL was so concerned about her grandchild’s wellbeing and was worried because her parents work too much then why did she deprive her grandchild love and affection especially after berating her son and DIL for working too much and not giving their child enough attention, she’s such a hypocrite.
Shouldn't have to "win" anyone over! And you know how our household runs, how?
"You have to respect me..." Respect is a 2 way street. Age has nothing to do with it.
I wish they’d quit saying ‘I’m sorry’ when someone is saying something rude.
Some of these mother's in laws like they have a couple screws loose , missing some brains missing 🙄😏
At 6:20. =. Agreed “you sure are disgusting “ what op should have said to Haisley, MIL.
"I'm allowed to make my own decisions, you know."
"Yes, you are. And Nate and I are allowed to protect our child, by completely cutting you out of our lives, forever. Goodbye!"
There. Problem solved, and no more time, tears, or money wasted.
PROTECT YOUR CHILD. Don't even try to force her grandmother to love her. Just keep her away from the hateful wench.
True true true true girlfriend
If someone sent me some steaks, I would have been in heaven. Also the way she treats your daughter is a real red flag. Don't ignore it, and protect your daughter from this monster!
I'm with you. Even a quarter of a beef I'd be beyond ecstatic, prime rib or ribeyes will not last long in my head.
ML is very self and greedy. Never put your child in arms way. If ML says she don't like you and your daughter keep her away. I would never send my child to ever see her ML again. Shameful Shameful Shameful
Steaks a waste of gift?! What the hell is wrong with her? Id be beyond ecstatic if i got a side of beef cut and ready for the deep freeze.
Both of my grandmothers were this way thanks to an misdiagnosis. My brothers and half sister would get nice presents and money. I would get an fifty cent birthday card with an hard plastic Barbie still it's bag with $1.00 on it. My other grandma would simply send an cheap card. Christmas I was expected to buy these two bags nice things yet get dollar tree presents. They got off on seeing me upset. When I turned 12 I simply stopped. I gave them the care and thought. When they can treat me like my brothers and half sister then I will. NEVER happened.
14:11, Why would they wish Happiness to someone who Dispises them? it literally makes no Sense.... Wishing Happiness to an Enemy.
14:21, No you dont, and you know it.
14:59, But I am not your DIL as you Clearly Stated.
15:23, that type of Honor and respect is given to Elders who have EARNED IT, not Tarnished it.
15:23, And now she is Telling JOKES. What is this BS about being REQUIRED to Forgive her, and Love her Unconditionally. That is what she is required for her CHILD, not her MONSTER IN LAW.
16:21, NO, its because she loves her Husband More and dont want to leave him for a Evil and Disrespectful Old Hag.
16:48, because those are the words your Loving Daughter told to her.
18:20, Maybe they TO want you to Drop Dead due to your Abusive Behavior, and how much you DEMAND of them because you cant do it Yourself.
18:32, if you dont understand by now, then I would suggest giving her TIME. TIME ALONE with no one to Care or Love her. then maybe she will understand how bad her ABUSE OF FAMILY IS.
19:42, She is your DIL not your SLAVE... And the fact you dont see a Differance between the two is why you will always be alone.
20:31, A LITTLE BIT OUT OF LINE.... you ignored your Grand Child at Christmass..... As for a GrandParents SIN I can think of NON WORSE short of Physically abusing them.
20:58, What DELUSIONAL PSYCHOTIC ever concluded that it was HER JOB to take care of your Abusive Hide? And I bet O.P. Never agreed to that, because you never made the Stupid DEMAND of her either. you just ASSUMED it in your Evil Mind while Abusing Her and YOUR GRAND CHILD.
21:22, am betting LESS rather then More.
22:05, Drama Queen? no thats someone who Intentionally IGNORES her Grand Child at christmans in order to get a RISE out of her MOTHER.
22:17, Would suggest dropping DEAD for starters?
So your MIL hates you and your daughter and you still send your daughter to her house? You are a terrible parent and you should've never let her go. That was your fault.
Show respect...to you? Don't make me laugh!
I'm not subjecting my child to anyone like this. This, is the reason I don't speak with my own Nmom.
Where is the Dil Mom and Dad? Why is she dependent on the mil. I don't understand.
HAISLEY LISTEN UP AND LISTEN GOOD THERE TOO CUPCAKE AND STOP SWEARING AND CUSSING AND KNOW YOUR PLACE TOO HAISLEY THE CUPCAKE TOO AND I AM GLAD THAT RILEY CALLED OUT HER MOTHER IN LAW HAISLEY THE CUPCAKE
Why are these stories about vile people all the time
Where is the husband in this story? What exactly HIS responsibility to his immediate family of wife and daughter? My mother would never have done this and I would have stepped up if she did.
Whilst I would not harm my mother, but if she did that, it definitely will not go unchallenged.
If it was anyone else, wig-splitting time.
Why this ok didn't go off is a mystery to me. Who the he'll does this woman think she is, you don't listen to me!!! Her job to take care of her!!! Ok is an adult and makes her own decisions. God is of gone off like a rocket!!!
none at all
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