Q&A: You asked.I answered | AUNTY JOY-ish | relationship advice, financial tips and more

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  • @SharonMalonza
    @SharonMalonza 2 роки тому +37

    I really admire how clear you are about what's for you and what isn't in all areas of your life that you talked about. Your self awareness and confidence really shines through.

  • @bluepapertrails9638
    @bluepapertrails9638 2 роки тому +24

    When she answered the question on her weight I saw myself. I'm currently starting all over again after losing my job last year in May. I really want to be a content creator but I'm going through teething problems. I have a very small following and no brand knows me yet. So I'm as broke as she was back in the day and I hate burdening my loved ones too. I'm in a really dark and lonely place. It's tough but Joy just reminded me that it takes time but I'll make it eventually. Thank you soooooo much for sharing💛

    • @wairimu8611
      @wairimu8611 2 роки тому +4

      Hugs, a day at a time. Consistency is the answer, it gets lonely but also remember it's lonely at the top and that's where you're headed. I send you lots of hugs...

    • @MyP.O.V
      @MyP.O.V 2 роки тому +1

      💐

    • @OLYMPIALIZA
      @OLYMPIALIZA 2 роки тому +1

      @bluepapertrails XOXO you'll be fine

    • @bluepapertrails9638
      @bluepapertrails9638 2 роки тому

      @@wairimu8611 thanks for the encouragement and this pov. Never thought of it this way. 💛

    • @bluepapertrails9638
      @bluepapertrails9638 2 роки тому

      @@OLYMPIALIZA thank you and a day at a time 💛

  • @NameShalom
    @NameShalom 2 роки тому +28

    She is relatable and inspirational, all love.

  • @styled_by_fash
    @styled_by_fash 2 роки тому +24

    Watching Joy’s vlogs..you don’t need to be in a hurry,you might miss a second and miss the vibe or something that will spice up your life ❤️.

    • @iam_fayii312
      @iam_fayii312 2 роки тому

      I know right… in Kendi’s voice ,’’you know wharam seyiiiing!’’
      Pure vibes

  • @lizinde
    @lizinde 2 роки тому +17

    The Uni advice had me in stitches 🤣 why are you like this Joy😂😂 but also your advice was solid. graduating early doesn't mean succeeding in life, people should take their time and research scholarships they're so many out there---even if you aren't a genius🌺

    • @sakuraesther6309
      @sakuraesther6309 2 роки тому

      Thankyou for this,I will def be finishing late than my agemates and I am scared I might never succeed

    • @sakuraesther6309
      @sakuraesther6309 2 роки тому

      Feel free to tell me a few scholarships you know of

    • @lizinde
      @lizinde 2 роки тому

      @@sakuraesther6309 never say never. You'll get to where you want to be you just need to focus and work hard. I've been out of uni for a while but I suggest you look at the places you'd like to study and ask the unis to send you a list of scholarship options you can also Google scholarships for women etc. I know they sponsor African women arou d the world you just need to be prepared to write a compelling motivational essay. Good luck!

  • @Misskamuhia
    @Misskamuhia 2 роки тому +7

    I like what you said actually..3 years living with my partner we all buy things separately.like he will buy the fridge and i will get a microwave ...though if there is something I'd really want to get and i need a few coins chipped in he will still come through and vise versa.whatever works for you guys❤

  • @jessey141
    @jessey141 2 роки тому +16

    I agree!! 15 yrs with my other half, we have both our own bank accounts and 1 together. In that way, my own account, since I work full time, since covid hit my mum&brother's business badly, I've helped them and thank God business is starting to pick. That way, he keeps his money and our joint one is for our house. Less stuff to worry about 😅

  • @joys_style
    @joys_style 2 роки тому +3

    Joy I love what you said about keeping your parents in the loop concerning an “unsafe” career! I think also the youngins are in the space of I wanna do my thung don't tell me nothing and the parents want them to just be safe.

    • @JoyKendiKE
      @JoyKendiKE  2 роки тому

      exactly... they are not coming from a bad place

  • @mercymallel2074
    @mercymallel2074 2 роки тому +6

    Love the living below your means part!

  • @ilhamjuma46
    @ilhamjuma46 2 роки тому +2

    You have a kasense of humour that just gets me...love you💕💕

  • @pabloristic
    @pabloristic 2 роки тому +1

    This vlog felt like I was having a conversation with my bestie on life, finances and more. You are a wise one dear and very true to yourself. Thanks for the Vlogs and keep them coming ✌💕

    • @JoyKendiKE
      @JoyKendiKE  2 роки тому +1

      Aww thank you so much hun

  • @sadiadida3035
    @sadiadida3035 2 роки тому +9

    'They call me thickarella!!!'😂😂😂 oh joy!!

  • @WanguiNjeri
    @WanguiNjeri 2 роки тому +8

    Thank you Aunty Joy😁. I really learned a lot from this vlog. You rock girl💜

  • @rosielifeinafrica
    @rosielifeinafrica 2 роки тому +5

    When am happy...…literally paused with you because I know what happens on my side

  • @isadorascarlett1028
    @isadorascarlett1028 2 роки тому +16

    The advise on the living situation is so true.Some men will literally dog you when you don't have your own or contribute nothing.They start off open to sharing then the dynamic gradually gets weird .

  • @lydiaobonyo3662
    @lydiaobonyo3662 2 роки тому +8

    I'm loving your responses, goofy and informative.

  • @lynnekims6741
    @lynnekims6741 2 роки тому

    I don't know what took me soo long to start watching your vlogs ... I love everything, you are soo relatable you so interesting to watch and listen to.. My New favorite ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @missmiriam1682
    @missmiriam1682 2 роки тому +2

    Loved this Joy. You are full of wisdom girl!! I enjoyed listening to everything. Plus you can be an actress of sorts. Keep soaring 👍

  • @daisymarindany7392
    @daisymarindany7392 2 роки тому +2

    Love the chat and yeah kindly continue with auntyjoy ish make it relatable ....love you

  • @veronicawaithera9145
    @veronicawaithera9145 2 роки тому +1

    Joy is funny y'all 😄.
    Imagine getting educated and entertained at the same time..

  • @nashthediva3464
    @nashthediva3464 2 роки тому +2

    Wow wow...waira minute... I just found out through this Q&A that you are my people's....hay girl hay..... Meru' people😂😂😂😂🔥🔥🔥🔥 I loouve it😀😀

  • @pocahontas467
    @pocahontas467 2 роки тому +5

    i'm i the only who gets Joy Kendi Notification and i make a happy dance❤️❤️❤️

  • @usajimary
    @usajimary 2 роки тому +3

    On the weight point I can totally relate. It has been a journey, I have added weight and I love it. Just looking forward to toning my body but I would never want to be below 50kgs, ever again

  • @susanogutu3799
    @susanogutu3799 2 роки тому +2

    What an insightful talk! Impressive 🙂🙂🙂

  • @krystyntyrone3949
    @krystyntyrone3949 2 роки тому +3

    You’re so relatable ❤️
    The part ya remaining na 200bob ..been through it

  • @kananah9040
    @kananah9040 2 роки тому +7

    Your content is always top notch and very informative. Love love the content of this video💯.Thank you.

  • @nellymckenna6552
    @nellymckenna6552 2 роки тому

    New subbie! Like how articulate you are...& the drama😂the heels testimony😂. Also, your mannerisms remind me of Bailey Sarian

  • @annk1169
    @annk1169 2 роки тому +2

    The cookie part had me weak! LOL, honestly some people have way too much time HA!

  • @Cinematic-Frenzy
    @Cinematic-Frenzy 2 роки тому +1

    Started watching this at 3am. Gal, I love you 💕

  • @rosa629
    @rosa629 2 роки тому

    Wouw Joy, you are such the energy and relatable and human, love you,mwaa🌼🌸🎉👓... Karibu sana Tanzania

  • @jaclynexjaclyne4693
    @jaclynexjaclyne4693 2 роки тому +2

    Lovely as always

  • @JOY-ig9ip
    @JOY-ig9ip 2 роки тому +1

    I admire you so much I had to comment juu wee hati what thigh gap😂😂😂the expression was really honest. Love you big❤️. All the best with your new brand.

  • @yvonnemaina7177
    @yvonnemaina7177 2 роки тому +2

    Really enjoyed Aunty Joy moment
    Hope it becomes a series😊😊😊 love you advice moreso on the side of finances🤩

  • @Cinol-d8p
    @Cinol-d8p 2 роки тому +3

    That point on being a burden to people we are together. Am also trying to get rid of it. I just can't bring myself to ask for help. It needs to stop.

  • @tyjuma
    @tyjuma 2 роки тому +2

    First time watching you Joy - Amazing!

  • @nishynish1900
    @nishynish1900 2 роки тому +2

    We are here😜🎉🌻

  • @heatherwanjuguna4629
    @heatherwanjuguna4629 2 роки тому +2

    Beautiful skin. Nice vlog. Classy woman.

  • @nothingheard
    @nothingheard 2 роки тому +5

    I love when you say : "I learned this from my mom"
    I love our mom

  • @mariononyango6016
    @mariononyango6016 2 роки тому +1

    Always love to see you here♥️

  • @jayshiku
    @jayshiku 2 роки тому +2

    This was too much fun to watch ☺️❤️

  • @ms_olonje
    @ms_olonje 2 роки тому +1

    This is just the best content I have related to the entire day 🥰❤

  • @sarahnjenga1082
    @sarahnjenga1082 2 роки тому +1

    I love this💯

  • @msg9528
    @msg9528 2 роки тому

    What an honest conversation! ❤️

  • @the.unpredicable.soul_1002
    @the.unpredicable.soul_1002 2 роки тому +1

    I love this, very relatable and real.

  • @faysfancy6638
    @faysfancy6638 2 роки тому

    I need to like this video more than once. UA-cam make something happen.

  • @toototo
    @toototo 2 роки тому

    I don't even mind joint account. What I hate is a man who can't let go or get it in his head when the relationship is over.

  • @liliankim4127
    @liliankim4127 2 роки тому +1

    I actually enjoyed this vlog so much❤

  • @annekimani4051
    @annekimani4051 2 роки тому

    I love this...Totally relate to the heel situation.

    • @JoyKendiKE
      @JoyKendiKE  2 роки тому

      right.... we are not comfortable . we just love the look enough to suck up being uncomfortable .

  • @loreenmakdal6380
    @loreenmakdal6380 2 роки тому

    Had to watch this one to the end🤗

  • @melissamalala
    @melissamalala 2 роки тому +2

    So relatable!

  • @sharonnabachwa2035
    @sharonnabachwa2035 2 роки тому +3

    Joy some tips on how you learnt swahili to become really fluent….it’s a struggle

  • @africanfusion8754
    @africanfusion8754 2 роки тому +3

    I love your content 😍😍😍

  • @eunicewanjiru0607
    @eunicewanjiru0607 2 роки тому +2

    Love your content Joy🔥.

  • @bethkawira8619
    @bethkawira8619 2 роки тому

    I always enjoy watching your vlogs.so real

  • @patrahgichobi
    @patrahgichobi 2 роки тому +1

    'social media Is a lie'.. 'thickorella'... 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂Gosh you are so funny

  • @LindaMary
    @LindaMary 2 роки тому +1

    Yeees to a Q&A 😍😍

  • @andrewlemayian
    @andrewlemayian 2 роки тому +1

    I bet you already know this but u are literally so funny lmao!!!

  • @winniealuoch2391
    @winniealuoch2391 2 роки тому

    I can relate to every topic in here.i never did a pap smear never knew about abnormal cells.did one, now am keen on the same.Joy is real I must say

  • @estherhadassahgitau5560
    @estherhadassahgitau5560 2 роки тому +1

    I just love her❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @teresiasyowai5156
    @teresiasyowai5156 2 роки тому

    How you speak about your sister!wow lots of love there

  • @loribee858
    @loribee858 2 роки тому

    Love! Just subbed 💃🏾🌻

  • @cxllider
    @cxllider 2 роки тому

    Joy really said pain is temporaray, drip is forever 33:00

  • @happysoul7140
    @happysoul7140 2 роки тому +1

    Oh Joy!

  • @marynyokabi5036
    @marynyokabi5036 2 роки тому

    I wish you came to Nairobi West to get tested...

  • @perisbahati8482
    @perisbahati8482 2 роки тому +1

    You always remind me of bonang

  • @sandradejesus9188
    @sandradejesus9188 2 роки тому

    I'M NEW TO YOUR CHANNEL AND I RECENTLY SHAVED MY HEAD WHAT DYE DO YOU USE? ALSO WHAT DO YO RECOMMEND FOR SALT AND PEPPER HAR? LOVE YOUR CHANNEL ❤

  • @cherisherri
    @cherisherri 2 роки тому +1

    AUNTY JOY💃❤️🤗

  • @shakie_my_love
    @shakie_my_love 2 роки тому

    Looking good mummy💚💙💙💙💙

  • @tannyouda5988
    @tannyouda5988 2 роки тому +1

    That my gal

  • @damarismaina839
    @damarismaina839 2 роки тому

    who are the guys who did your covid test? so convinient that they come to you

  • @wairimukaruga8364
    @wairimukaruga8364 2 роки тому

    Lol I like how you referred to Swahili as Swa

  • @wambuiw.4032
    @wambuiw.4032 2 роки тому +1

    Thickarella... 😂....like it!!

  • @thepodzw
    @thepodzw 2 роки тому

    Joy, can you make your videos downloadable ? Please 🥺🙏

    • @dr.ohuruc.1511
      @dr.ohuruc.1511 2 роки тому

      She mentioned in one of her videos its a youtube thingy after monetization

  • @estherhadassahgitau5560
    @estherhadassahgitau5560 2 роки тому +2

    Let's get joy to 100k subbies 🙏

  • @shikushi3286
    @shikushi3286 2 роки тому +1

    Hey dear 💓

  • @JustScovia
    @JustScovia 2 роки тому +3

    First one😀

  • @monicahwanjiru6455
    @monicahwanjiru6455 2 роки тому

    You can get a virtual Assistant

  • @annitarebornmamakeblessing1591
    @annitarebornmamakeblessing1591 2 роки тому

    I just love u

  • @hannahkitchenkenya
    @hannahkitchenkenya 2 роки тому

    The 50/50 part🤣😂😂

  • @missphina718
    @missphina718 2 роки тому

    I love you baby gaaal daaaamn 😊😊

  • @nungariii377
    @nungariii377 2 роки тому +1

    SML mamaaa😍

  • @kathybenson3964
    @kathybenson3964 2 роки тому

    Hello hunn....💕

  • @ayumasore6931
    @ayumasore6931 2 роки тому +1

    🤣🤣🤣🤣 Funny human being

  • @maycee6910
    @maycee6910 2 роки тому +1

    I really enjoy your videos Kendi💯🥰🥰

  • @violajemutai697
    @violajemutai697 2 роки тому

    🤗💟

  • @margaretwanjiku7863
    @margaretwanjiku7863 2 роки тому +1

    You funny af

  • @angiemash_
    @angiemash_ 2 роки тому

    The 200 bob part currently there but mine is literally 50bob 😭

    • @joyance
      @joyance 2 роки тому

      We are in this together....don't worry gal😭

  • @shikokariuki212
    @shikokariuki212 2 роки тому

    👌👍✨👏.....

  • @bethanyopuka6479
    @bethanyopuka6479 2 роки тому

    Joy when did you have 200 in your account?😭

  • @jenngitongah9343
    @jenngitongah9343 2 роки тому

    They call me Thickerella.........

  • @caroeicon105
    @caroeicon105 2 роки тому

    😂😂😂😂😂

    • @caroeicon105
      @caroeicon105 2 роки тому

      "Woow!I look like a trash bag!"

  • @charlsemusina9698
    @charlsemusina9698 2 роки тому

    32:19😃😃😁😂😝🤣thank me later!

    • @JoyKendiKE
      @JoyKendiKE  2 роки тому

      haahahahah. imagine issa thing

  • @rotail4873
    @rotail4873 2 роки тому

    Does Joy have a bae?

  • @Torihappyness
    @Torihappyness 2 роки тому

    I would never recommend Nairobi women's.
    Please avoid ladies!

  • @nzilanimiriam1620
    @nzilanimiriam1620 2 роки тому +1

    We weigh the same kgs and i want to get to 68 too its been challenging but im determined. lets do this @joy kendi

  • @melissamalala
    @melissamalala 2 роки тому +1

    So relatable!