About Last Night | Ft. Shreya Gupto and Anjali Barot | Woman Up! | Blush
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- Опубліковано 29 вер 2024
- The office is where we spend most of our waking hours, and so people who were once acquaintances become colleagues, and colleagues turn into friends. But what happens when attraction changes a friendship into something more. Presenting, About Last Night, a ‘Woman Up’ story that explores the bittersweet dynamics of a professional relationship that starts becoming personal.
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Presented by Culture Machine
Cast:
Anjali Barot
Shreya Gupto
Gaurav Arora
Vinay Iyer
Rickson Ambrose
Simantika Choudhury
Shehnaz Mansoor Khan
Jhanavi Thakkar
Channel Head:
Deepshikha Bhatnagar
Director:
Avijit Pathak
Writer:
Puneet Naik:
Avijit Pathak
Script Supervisor:
Ayesha Nair
Talent Acquisition Head:
Mehul Vadodaria
Talent Acquisition:
Rachita Agarwal
Cinematographer:
Ihjaz Aziz
Art Director:
Sandip Kunchikorwe
Art Assistant:
Sana Sheikh
Setting Boys:
Viku Sha
Raj Kapoor
Deendaya
Mungul Upadhyay
Saleem Khan (Tapeist)
Head Of Production:
Laxmi Singh
Line Producer:
Vimal Nirmal
Camera Equipment:
Video Plus
Camera Attendants:
Abhay Singh
Anwar Shaikh
Focus Puller:
Sohail Sayyed
Sound Recordist
Sikander Shaikh
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Makeup & Hair
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Sunil Pandey
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Dressman:
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Post Production Head:
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Editor:
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Rushabh Wagela
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That girl is lucky to have such a great best friend
Absolutely!
S
It's true yaar
Yes.
Every one should have such a good frnd..
*did anyone notice she is the one who played Harshad Mehta wife in SCAM 1992*
Oh wow, didn't notice, that's why youtube recommended this on my feed, great A. I from youtube
Ya I know that
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This is such a wonderful info,I hope this help me sometimes in my future.
I even searched for her, anjali barot
“About Last Night”
Really good story, I liked this very much.
Best friend...nam hona chahiye film ka...nice MSG...👍👍
cute and a good one! it is ok to have crush that are passing clouds as long as you dont act upon it!
Very true 👍
I'm not in any kinda of relationship but still I got confused how someone really come to know about true love or crush.🤔
@Emotional Eagle @6:29 defines dat
Never cheat the person who blindly trust u...
She is lying that my dad is calling not hubby ..first step of cheating starts here only 😎
Noooo.... Husband must not be giving time.. May be there ia no commucation.. No respect.. Or irritation... Warna wife aisa kyu karegi.. Sex is not only the fact.. Ladkiya dil se joodi hoti he.. She needs that special place n intrest
@@smritiathanimath5232 rest is fine but "warna wife aise kyu karegi". This wrong even if it's "husband aisa kyu karega".
@@niranjanshekar3049 - ego.. Attitude.. Men is men wali feeling.... Kitne saare ghar dekhe.. Jisme biwi sirf kaam karti rehti he.. Kyuki o biwi he.. Biwi ko respect thodi hi hoti he.. O toh aurat he.. Husband late aaye ya na aaye.. O toh men he.. Wife ko understand karna chahiye.. Uska chakkar chal raha.. Aisa hota hi he.. Tujhme hi kuch fault rahega.. Tu achhese dekhti nai.. Maar peet kare.. Usko bhi understand karo.. Physical nai deta.. Bechara thak jaata he.. Kiske liye kaam karta he.. 1000 of reasons... Warna husband aisa kyu karega ka reasons jyaada he.. Anyways tum men ho k paida huye toh karo manmaani... Hazaar jhoot din me bolte he ladke.. Sab valid... Ek jhoot ladki bolne do.. Khara khota badnaami ho jaayegi.. Respect feelings of everyone..chahe maa ho.. Biwi ya behen... Ya tum khud.. Baaki aapki marzi...
Smriti jee you saying true but ... You think about my ....dot dot and you are girl so you write about bad girl , bad habits in girls ,wife cheat her husband , why girls breaks boys hearts, why girls plays boys imotional and carrer and at last many reason behind as.so, you tell me answer of my question
@@smritiathanimath5232 tum log ki cheating ka reason bhi mard hi hote hai......bunch of fuckin hypocrites
When you are committed to someone you don't allow yourself to find perfection in someone else.
Exactly! I think I was looking for this only. Thanks for writing it down. 👍
@@moizh3399 haan toh feminism matlab cheat karna thodi hota hai !!! Cheating is not okay, and it applies to everybody. Cheat karne waalon ka dil nhi tut te hai, committed waalon ka tut jaate hai !!!
You are absolutely right 👍💯
Before we go ka dialogue chaap diya wah bhai atleast quote toh kar deta😅😓
Yep as simple as that.
We all can develop feelings, cause we are human. But remember if your partner trusts you blindly, never prove them blind by lying to them.
joysurya dutta love ur words broda
Absolutely!!
Nice
Nice
Nice bro
She already cheated her husband actually
Correct. Getting Physical is extremety of cheating, but cheating starts as soon as u start thinking about someone.
No why she did
True
Stay single stay blessed✋😂😂😂
Stay alone crazy but give enjoyment someone
Staying single is the best choice in this Morden shit world 😁🤭🤣😂
@Mahi Sanak gd 😛
@Mahi Sanak maybe 😝
Two. management theory tell always keep alternative for your talented employee.
Lucky she, that she has a caring husband & a supporting best friend❤️
And, a boyfriend colleague 😁
@@yashwanthbhat4299 She have no right to have a boyfriend colleague while being married to her husband you idiót 😠😡😠
"Stop supporting such DÍRTY *cheater* womén". The next victim could be you 😂
@@jaydutta7711 why?
Yes she have everything but not Common sense of Trust
carrying husband my foot ye caharacterless aurat kuch bhi kregi
Cheating never starts with sex, it starts with conversation.... Get your facts right.....
Truly 👍
I don't think it ever starts with conversation and friendship..... Both males and females have friends from both the genders... It doesn't mean they are cheating on each other!! I think cheating starts due to "lack" of " conversation" and "spark" in a relationship...Just always keep that alive.... And remember how would you feel if your partner cheats on you... I think this thought will keep everyone away from cheating 😂
True
🔥
Absolutely
And people are thinking she didn't cheat in this video
Loyalty is all that matter, doesn't matter ..boy or girl..Love taste better when served with Loyalty and a lot of understanding
@Amazing World why wouldn't it?
Absolutely true 👍
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What a wonderful concept. Women should listen to other women without judgement. Kudos!
All in the name of without judgement accepting a cheater abusive friend is best friend .
@@rkdeshdeepak4131 she definitely talked her out of cheating... She changed her....
@@QwertyQwerty-eq7th she already cheated . Emotional infidelity is also cheating . If someone just wasn't able to kiss just because of a phone call , it is clearly cheating .
Anyway , I am not denying that she did was good , buy this "not judging " bullshit was what I was talking about
Every women are not not like Shreya infact they feel happy to break house of couples and push their frnd other guys...
@@rkdeshdeepak4131 exactly 💯
Cheating is not just about having sex with someone other than your partner if you lying to him it's also cheating cause it can hurt your partner
Agreed . Cheating is about choosing another, it can be physical and emotional .
@@pretty948 true and that's sooo wrong..it can never happen if we love someone
Your Comment Earned My Respect ❤️
Keep ur gf or wife happy she ll never lie😂😂
@@smritiathanimath5232 u are getting on my nerves a lot. Stop with this hypocrisy
Thank god...you guys didn't promote 'it's okay for a woman to have extra marital affair' in the name of feminism 🙏
Himanshu Vatsal I think they did.
@@gokusaiyan6809 nope they didn't. They showed it's natural to develop feelings for someone other than your husband, but it also means that something is lacking in your partnership which needs to be worked upon. Talking and sorting that out together is must in such situations.
Same feel bro...
This is exactly why i dont believe in marriage..
how can cheating be okay?
Seriously she didn't even feel to say Nikhil she is married. So bad . Best part is her friend was so wise
He already knew she was married!!
@@creamyhora4005 So what if he already knew? Why didn't she told him that her husband was calling her from home?
What kind of a wife she is? 😠😡😠
In this video, the girl literally cheated on her husband... The *_Emotional infidelity_* is also cheating . If someone just wasn't able to kiss just because of a phone call , it is clearly cheating. Period!!
@@jaydutta7711 See, its not like she wasn't wrong or anything. She did cheat. But it wasn't just her fault. Why do people fail to realise that Nikhil is equally responsible for initiating that kiss when he knew she was married. It is offcourse cheating dude. Nobody is denying that she cheated. But the message behind the video is to help each other get out of such situations and that too without judgements. Its as simple as that.
@@creamyhora4005 Nikhil is single
Lady is committed to someone she has to be more careful & responsible
This video is so practical. Everybody needs a friend like her.
I was at a club with my girlfriends when I saw 3 extremely drunk college chicks unable to get up from their table and guys were hovering around them like bee..so my girlfriends and I decided to give up drinking for a while helped them call an uber got them safely into the cab and tracked them till they reached their home. I am very happy for giving up out fun for a while to help some strangers who looked like they could use some help.
Great job di👍
Well done
Great job
Awesome video
Awesome
Imagine the genders reversed. But at least you guys didn't promoted extra marital affair for woman in name of feminism. Thank you for that at least.
😂😂😂😂✌
Exactly
Bro no one says that feminism justifies women cheating duh
@@anushkasingh3014 Baitho beta, bhut kuch dekhna hai abhi life me ✨
@@Kshitij-vv3fr Ummm ok
Shukla is the only betrayed person here.
Shuklaaaaa.. Miss him
Yes....... Ruchi bewafa... White board loyal.
Ruchi bewafa nei hai..
Exactly 😢😂😂😂
😂😂😂
When you are emotionally involved with another person, you are cheating your partner. Not necessarily to have physical relation.
You will find many people that are better than you in every aspect, but still your partner chose you, and the same applies for your partner as well.. That is the trust and commitment that every relationship needs.. Communication really helps 👍
You quoted the right thing so well 👍
That's ryt boy
Waoww so thoughtful ❤
Nice to hear, commitment and trust is more important for healthy relationship... thank you
Manish kumar right
Cheating does not happen when you get physical with someone other than your partner, cheating happens the moment when such a thought arises within you. There's nothing more important in life than commitment and loyalty.
Well i personally feel this is not only for women. Guys should also follow this advice because in co-working space these kind of things are common. You guys make really nice videos on sensitive issues. A lot of love from Pakistan.
yup. 😊 as it happnd with me once but here situation was a bit chnged
True yaar..
and that's why sasu maa don't allow their bahu to do jobs
Correct bro
i hope you're dream come true
I love the way how, she had helped her friend, with the correct mindset and judgement..
Their friendship is really appreciable.
Often this types of times comes in everyone's life, but at that moment before taking any decision, we have to be calm and discuss the matter with someone whom we can trust.
Maybe that person can help with a better perspective
5:32 - 5:53 make this line say by a men and whole comment section would be going nuts on him with the tag of feminism
@@Sa.._ For example ? (and also to just let you know my bestfriend had gone through this situation so i have witnessed the other side of story )
@@Sa.._ If you watched it carefully he was a drug addict
@@Sa.._ to kaun taali mara us scene me fir?
@@Sa.._ they are literally sending a msg that one should not judge a person even if they have stepped towards something this wrong and that to in the name of women empowerment.
Man or woman, society should be resistive towards these people
इस लाइन को एक आदमी द्वारा बनाया गया था और पूरी टिप्पणी अनुभाग नारीवाद के टैग के साथ उस पर पागल हो जाएगा
Not one woman here accepts that it was completely her fault to take it to the unacceptable level of extra marital affair. Imagine if it would have been done by a guy the whole woman power here would go insane.
We're not trying to justify her, she should have told him, she was married & put an end to it. Even if the genders are reversed, the fault is also on the girl if she countinues to be in the relationship after knowing the dude is married.
If she had really loved her husband, she wouldn't have fallen for the other guy. The same goes for the man if the genders are reversed. There's a chance its due to the lack of communication between her & her partner. Anyways, I believe it was her fault.
I feel like emotional cheating is just as painful as wrong as physical cheating. It clearly shows here that she was starting to develop feelings for her coworker and instead of immediately telling her husband about it or even consulting anyone else, she starts to get comfortable in the situation and encourages those feelings as well. If that phone call hadn't come, she would've bloody made out with him. Which qualifies as cheating in my opinion. If this were a man, he really would have been almost strung up by his balls by all the people in the comment section. As you gain more emotional maturity, you do see that there are certain areas of feminism that are corrupted with thoughts and ideas that hold a man up to certain expectations but the rules aren't the same for women. And as a woman myself, I am of the opinion that this sort of situation will never be okay for any gender.
Austin ka yahoo hot Hai bhai aadmi cheat keeps to wo kamina, aurat keep to lakh ya 10 lakh reasons rhe honge
stay single. focus on work. make money. see the world. have fun. life is too short.
mann ki baat chin li
Kitna kamalega ?
Best advice really...
@@gokusaiyan6809 to travel around world... instead of this emotions single and travel around world sooo good
Rubbish
*Okay! So just hear me out for once.*
Having feelings towards Nikhil is the starting of cheating. Cheating starts from thoughts then emotions and then physical. And having to get ur brains put right in place by someone else and not by ur own responsibility and maturity. I don't know what woman up will do for you and for how long. If you want a real man become that rare strong woman yourself first. Loyalty starts from oneself and then towards others. M a 23 yrs as I speak but this video is not what I expect to see in 2021 year's of day and age. Live a clear sorted life guys.
Ur thought process is good
Where r u from
Oh no man, when she said "he is not married but you are'" I got a massive shock. Man......that’s so not good.
That is r8 sis...the married ones should draw a line
Ikr she's doing sooo wrong
@@45_ipsitabasak72 dude we don't even have to set boundaries when we are in love with someone...if one has to force themselves to set boundaries then they are aldready cheating
Its scary man. Damn scary.
Same here brother, I was watching with interest and suddenly I got to know that she was married.
And what was that"old and rusty-new and shiny thing"?
And think ultra-feminism should draw boundaries between feminism and hypocrisy.
Most sensitive relationship is husband-wife. Which can easily break due to absence of mutual conversation and trust on each other. I'm in relationship we love each other from the bottom of heart also have trust on each other. I was worried about my relationship due to such incident I talked on this issue with my partner. She told me I have feeling only with you and other people feels me normal.
I'm only attracted towards you and I only think about you when I alone.
Then I asked why such things happening?
She answered we should stop to compare our partner with other guy ,god gives everyone anything special which is not common in all and people attracted towards such things.
If you were attracted towards somebody that means you can't live with one guy.
Your love with your partner should not only physical but also emotional.
She could have tell that guy, that she is married. It's very wrong to cheat your partner, just because now you have an option. 👎🏻👎🏻👎🏻
💯
The world is not fair their is no right or wrong
@@КонстантинКругляков-г1у yes, there is right and wrong.
Case 1: you are married and you are not much happy with that, and suddenly someone comes in your life and you find that person attractive. And you fell in love with that person. And one day you guys gets intimate.
Case 2: same story, but first you take divorce with your partner then you gets intimate.
Case 1 is wrong and Case 2 is right.
In case 2 you are not cheating on someone.
@@ProfessorsChoice1 what i meant was that if you are loyal to someone dont expect loyalty in return from them . People dont owe us anything they can cheat,kill,betray anyone as per their wish .
@@КонстантинКругляков-г1у Expecting nothing is really good. But it's normal human tendency to expect things in return. Let's be practical, for how long you can let someone exploit you. You are doing all favors for them and they are doing nothing, and at last you came to know they are cheating. That's not how things work. If you are doing something, that should reciprocate. It's good to say that, don't expect anything in return when you love someone, but for how long that relationship would sustain?
5:47 if this was said by a guy, feminism would have erupted...
I feel terrible to admit this but u r right
@@beenasakthi111 ya.. Women too can have crush! Everyone has their own feelings and fanatacies. I was just pointing out the hipocracy of media and fake feminists who pointlessly react to everything and give stupid judgements... If that dialogue was said by a male character, there will be soo many criticisms coming up. And that's for sure without any doubt. I am against this hipocracy not against women🤦♂️🤦♀️
@@beenasakthi111 ok this is your personal opinion but...
In my opinion you can compliment someone , you can attract to a person for some days or weeks
But when you think below points...
1. To get physical
2.. Sharing emotional thoughts
3. Trying to kiss
4. Having 15-20 sutta break with your colleague
5. Introducing your hubby as your DAD
6. Lying about your relationship status to your so called CRUSH
Its a CHEATING DOT.
I agreee
true💯
She is lucky 🍀 having such a bestie.. ❤️
a real beasty she is
At somewhere in the middle of their conversation!! Its high time to choose?? Are they giving chance to her husband?? She's like she is not doing wrong!! Fuck her best friend just bcauz of ppl like them many relationship have fallen down!!
Now who just noticed that Anjali got married to the same guy in reality 🔥😂
Had the same thought when I saw that engagement video
Seems like the project was not really over haha
@@Hurairahgiri 😁😂
Yup brother
Really ...
Instinctively, we judge same actions by a man or a woman differently.
If the role of the man was changed slightly, made him married...we would all have termed him a CHEAT....somebody doing wrong to his spouse.
But in this story, its about the woman...and she evokes sympathy ! & we feel she has done no wrong to her spouse !
& they say its a man's world !!!
Sir, its not sympathy . These days all working men and women are facing this kind of situation.They made a video on it to show this to everyone . So please stop judging.
@@sumoulibhattacharyya8828 This video is posted on a public platform to be judged by the millións of people, so why are you telling him not to judge the matter been shown in this video, like an ignorant?
It's like saying don't eat the food while you are present at a restaurant.
@@sumoulibhattacharyya8828 In this video, the girl already cheated on her husband... The *_Emotional infidelity_* is also cheating . If someone just wasn't able to kiss just because of a phone call , it is clearly cheating. Period!!
@@jaydutta7711 you didn't get my point madam ....
@@sumoulibhattacharyya8828 wow baat sidha hai she was going to kiss. Means she was going to cheat.Fake feminism mat failao
Cheating starts with , conversation , friendship then clubbing then drinks ends with SEX....
Absolutely
I don't think it ever starts with conversation and friendship..... Both males and females have friends from both the genders... It doesn't mean they are cheating on each other!! I think cheating starts due to "lack" of " conversation" and "spark" in a relationship...Just always keep that alive.... And remember how would you feel if your partner cheats on you... I think this thought will keep everyone away from cheating 😂
@@creamyhora4005 yes that fear works
@@creamyhora4005 actually he meant a conversation that you don't do with every other friend. If you know you know or else there is lot to learn kiddo.
@@saptarshipal6743 I don't want to learn this bs
Why did the wife lie about incoming call from a hubby's phone and said it's her father ?? Why ? Does it tell about her intentions already ??
Because that's how her hubby behaves with her. Just like her dad.
@@yashwanthbhat4299 so what is wrong if husband is checking on her wife ?
@@yashwanthbhat4299 well sorry if u never had a father figure.
@@yashwanthbhat4299 True. Its the hubby's fault for worrying about his wife because it's already so late night. He should sleep sound even if something happens to her wife.
That girl is already messed up. Better to get divorced with people like this.
The minute you see someone lie that it’s your dad and not your husband is all messed up
"Mujhe nhi pta tha , mere piche CBI padi h...."CBI toh padegi hi kyunki Harshad Mehta ki biwi jo ho🤣🤣🤣
I like it she is the real friend ,but some people think that such kind of friends give advises bcoz they are jealous
Athira R exactly
sometimes they really are . I personally felt this in the same situation.
and that type of people are motherfuckers, who think they are jealous
May be
All in the name of without judgement accepting a cheater friend is best friend .
Now, every guy will think twice when his working wife or gf will speak about any office project....
Moral: always have a wise friend
Always be wise😆
Always avoid this kind of girls
So realistic man! And the motto - "women helping out women." Cherry on cake. Thanks BLUSH for this kind of woman empowerment.
I thought it was Virat kohli in the thumbnail🤷♂️😜😜😜
Lol
Me too 🤣🤣🤣
Me too...that's why i came here. 😛
He is way more good looking than virat
Me too🤣 shukar hai nhi hai warna aadhi ladkiyo ne mar jana tha😅😅
I don't know what the author was trying to reciprocate, instead of commenting on feminism, I would like to say that this video's content is a bit inhumane because the subject was something and the video turned out to be something different. When you are in a relationship whether it is a girl or a boy you should understand and respect your boundaries, why would you stay late nights lying to your partner about meetings, when someone is not giving you their entire attention does that mean you find it in someone else? how mean and cheap it is. When two people get committed they need to accept each other wholeheartedly with the flaws, if not why the hell do you need a relationship? On the one hand, Girl says she loves his husband and also says she is getting attracted so when you really love someone how could you lie, she just simply closed her eyes understanding her colleagues' intention, What if her husband didn't call her, She was very lucky to have such a good friend but will there be always a person to correct us?? Once you fell for false attraction maybe you can again sometime later to some other, so knowing boundaries in a relationship are very important, imagine when a loved one knows the truth will that person be able to trust someone else in the future??? I respect the fact that there should be gender equality but this video is an irrelevant message instead of showing how she went down to such an act if they had shown how she respected the relationship and turned away from her attraction when she found her colleagues intension and so on, The worst part is when her friend suggests her that this is wrong she says it will be difficult for her to do and move on from him oh my god what kind of love you are trying to show people, this video can even be taken for granted, communication is the best way to improve relations when you feel neglected and get attracted to others try to make an effort, it should be from both sides, maybe your partner is really busy in giving you a comfortable life by working hard, so reason might be different maybe a man or a woman but don't allow a third person, communicate everything but don't conclude on false attractions and infatuations. So I spoke a lot, yeah I couldn't stop after watching this video, because what is not right should be said so. Please do not play with someone's feeling trying to reach out for temporary things, If everyone would have run away with the ones they get attracted then there would be no meaning left for the word 'Love'.Think safe to be safe.
You nailed it buddy..I agree with you
R u married sourav?? If yes is it a love marriage or arrange marriage??? When u marry or love a girl it is ur responsibility to involve her in family.. To give her respect n lot of love n care.. If she is feeling alone in ur big banglow... Big car.. N with ur big business n family then u think u r earning this for her??? She is not happy... Understand.. U r not giving her time.. U r just giving reasons daily.. Bcoz u dont have intrest in her.. U can earn lot of money but not love... N care . Wt attracts to a girl? Is it only money n ur hardwork u think? She needs a family.. N how to communicate when u dont even have time to speak... ?? Y cant u kw ur boundries of work.. ?? Y cant u people dont understand that u have to give quality time.. U want luxury.. U earn for ur status... How it feels when u dont give her attention... U r saying its ok.. Y?? Then y u got married.. Same question even a girl can ask... ? Every man should understand their boundties too.. They learn to balance between work n family... Everything ll be ok... It is ok if u take holiday n spend little money n time wid ur wife.. She is ur life partner... She has heart n feelings too.. Keep her happy.. Y she ll lie..?? In this video it is just shown that she is bit distracted bcoz hubby is not giving time.. N that space... And its a age when boys thinks that its a correct time to earn.. N girls thinks that its a correct time to enjoy n make a family n memories... Both r right... Both should balance.. Bcoz both ll be young... Can ur money bring the lost age?? After 40 or 50 u r going to communicate wid ur wife or love n care her.. Or travel wid her? Or going to give physical?? What r u saying?? Till that time u r going to keep.her unhappy without anything? Or wid half satisfication like no communication n please understand me as m working n making life n carrier? Dont be panic.. Just spk nicely wid ur wife n give her some time.. She wont lie..
@@smritiathanimath5232 Mam I don't know what were you able to understand from my comment , but I was also saying the same the above applies for both man or a woman , what I was concerned is this video is being promoted as a support for feminism which it doesn't actually depict, and secondly as you mentioned about communication it is again both ways in a relationship , marriage is all about having everything from both ways , both have equal responsibility in that relationship, If either one person feels neglected they should reciprocate that , If not acknowledged then they can leave that relationship , but being in one relationship and cheating on that is a sin
If all our ancestors thought in that way you and me would not have had this beautiful life were we are liberally commenting on this website and secondly when you say a woman only wants a mans time that is just a fiction no no man in this society is being loved unconditionally , he is respected only if he earns or brings something back , So at the end of the day what I say is when in relationship it is not at all a better option to cheat , this video was supporting that if a friend was not there to stop her the other thing would have happened so when they shared this video as a support for feminism , I was distraught by its content and moreover when my wife feels she is not happy with me I will try to change , I would not spend time with my colleagues as the women in this video , I hope you got what I wanted to say ....
@@ch_5659 - y dont you think to give time before these all things happens... ?? Reason of work n not communicating properly with family is very common in boys so i said that.. M a villager... So i keep patience... But i have worked at metro cities like pune n bangalore.. I have seen max married people ll be having affairs... When i was young.. I used to say same like u.. We should know our boundries n limits n all.. Its sin n all.. I never had any affair bcoz of this thinking... But when i got.married now.. After some years i tried m n still trying to keep good relation wid my partner... I do many things to keep him happy.. He respects me for that.. But i feel that he dont love me... He never cares.. When i go to speak or cut off jokes.. He ll be always busy on calls n his work is a best reason for him.. One sided love is of no use.. But i stay for my baby.. Offcourse i love my hubby... But he cant understand... There is lot of difference in commenting n living that life.. Cant explain u everything.... I m going to live my whole life till.my last breath wid him.. But m sad somewhere... I feel m all alone.. Whenever he comes n says anything.. I give double intrest i wont ignore.. Bcoz i feel atleast for 2 mins he is speaking wid me... I had got married wid him when he has only 2000 rs payment.. Its a love marriage of course.. Supported him financially physically morally.. All the time i have taken care of him.. But now sometimes i feel... Pity on myself... Now he is earning in lakhs.. When i got married we used to stay in rented home.. Now we have nice flat... N cutest doughter... 9 yrs i tried my best.. I kw its not late yet.. M still trying that he should give atleast 1 hour for my daughter n me... But work n money which he is earning for us he says.. When did i ask this? I wanted another baby bye no chance... Work n work n work... See love should not be one sided... So i feel that boys should know how to balance family n work both.. Even i do the same.. N i proved that m the best.. As his full family n my family every relation says that m the best.. We must handle every relation wid love.. But aakhir me mujhe bhi bura lagta he.. N now i understand k y external affairs hote he... I just understand.. M.not going to do anything as such.. As i told u na... He kws me.. N sometimes in months when he ll be having his work wid me.. He spks nicely for some minutes.. Or else no call nothing.. My duty is to serve breakfast lunch dinner.. Handle kids.. Handle office everything... Every relation.. Home.. He has only responsibilty to earn money.. N say that i do it for ur happiness n it irritates... N feel.that can anyone loves me too.. Everyone says in family n frnz kaash tere jaisi ladki hame milti.. Etni bhi buri nai k mere pati mujhe naa dekhe.. Onlything he has no time.. No sunday.. No monday...leave.. I dont wanna continue to reply..
@@smritiathanimath5232 The only thing anyone can get it is you are pretty love deprived person. Or your partner doesn't give you time.
Whatever be the reason of your desperation you should watch stuff properly first. Working women is also a term if you know that. And here she is one who lied and stayed in office with a friend pretty much everyday after office hrs to complete his assignment and ended up almost doing smtg. Maybe she is not giving time as well. Well in the video she is the one who is lying everyday though his husband makes plan.
And even if you are left out doesn't mean you will go cheat and feel the sparks. Everyone specially who are working outside will be having period of few yrs where they will be working hard and cannot give ample time. Doesn't mean the partner will go and so such things behind his or her back. Either just tell your needs or just wait.
Their was a line where she said with her hubby it is rusty whereas with him it's new and fresh. What do you actually want to say the hubby is a car or what? When you are lying to your partner and doing such things you already know their smtg wrong. And actually you can just pull of instead of going ahead. But that is if your partner has equivalent importance to your needs. If anyone just thinks abt their needs then no relationship is gonna stay.
You cant give reason for doing extramarital affair.. infedility will be infedility forever.. i wonder when that protagonist is in dilemma what to choose? Her hubby is not interesting anymore and new found crush will still remain so.?? How come even married women have this dilemma..? That means she doesnt love her hubby truely.. just becoz marriage turns boring after few years doesnt mean you will go for affair.. sad. If you truely love ur hubby you wont entertain any crush and will try to figure it out abt marriage.. what needs to change. Everytime there wont be any frd to guide u. You have to guide urself. Keeping ur morals high abd being true in relationship is rare nowdays and pple who do that are considered orthodox
Atleast someone is good at morals here
Cheating cheating cheating,, Sala jisko dekho cheating..!! Love , commitments , marriage, understanding, breakup, move on , loda lashun ,, Kya hai bc yeh sab chutyapa. Jitna itna pachdo se dur rho utna dimaag sahi kaam krega aur Zindagi bhi lambi hogi....!! Be single be independent be happy and love yourself..!! 😎😎
Dil jeet liye bhai
Follow Ramdev baba. Do kapalbhati stay away from girls. Be a baba. Om Shanti 🙏🏻😎
Right
Focus on your goals bro, Girls gonna come and go...Just don't get attached easily coz time reveals the real truth about that special someone.
Not only girls... Sometimes boys can also be like that best friend..😎
2:06 "itna kya sutta phukna hai tujhe"
that line killed me😂
Kavi ki kalpana dekhiye 😂😂
😂😂🤣
Struggle to find a separate place was real 😂👌
Clever...
Successfully lived 20 years without being in any relationships
Going to give party after lockdown to my friends
I fell for a person just in 2 days, he was in the army so maybe i had a connect with him as i'm also from the same backgeound. So, things started to become very ugly in the first week itself, i wanted to come out of it asap. Back then, i was in a 4 year relationship ( sweetest guy on earth ), so i decided to finally open this up to my Partner. Believe me, my partner was so open about it, he never judged me on what i did to him infact he told me one thing that whatever happens i shall share it with hiim so that we can Together sort it out :') I had tears, respect,gratitude for my partner. So that's my *WOMAN UP moment*
Hi
Lucky you
@@ruchitasingh9745 hi how r u
Shreeja how r u
Happened the same thing with me, my gf admitted to having a crush on someone else, I took her back with open arms, only to be cheated on and dumped six months later. If one loves their significant other truly, such things never happen.
Raw Reality content You people made! Perfect and good one Really!!😍😍
Ridiculous story. So she is immoral, she smokes and she does not feel guilty about it.
Destroying Indian Society and culture.
Oh really she is very lucky having such best friend and to get this advice
All in the name of without judgement accepting a cheater friend is best friend .
My friend name is Nikhil
And you can see my name.. Then me
(Wtf) 🤣
😂👏👌
Is there anything more common ..? Girl ...??
@@sunshine-bright. One of my friend Name Karan Also.. 😅
@@rohanbhatia9951 wah! What a coincidence
@@sunshine-bright. Yeah.. 😅
This is not what always happens to a good friend who goes on to give advice in relationship matters. Most probably that friendship ends.. Or she would be avoided as behanji. Not many deserves a true friend coz they just don't know what is the best for their life and starts hating even those who points it out to them.
Well said happened to me twice once with my best friend in college and once with a girl who was my lab partner. I tired to advise them not to go on the wrong path of cheating, they stopped talking to me until their respective partners found out and left them, then they contacted me for help with their old partners. As I was a good friend of both of them. I tried to hint them also is something missing in your relationship, give a little more attention to your partners they just neglected my words.
It’s so fucked up when the other person is giving there best to work on there relationship and the other cheats
Just bcoz off some So called mood swings which have no logic in this practical world
The funny part is the other guy whom you think is giving best on the relationship have all already been there and done that .... humans are not created to be monogamous this is a fact and we all are just pretending that it’s not mostly the list tops hypocrites are Indians ...us...
@@terminatorv7611 there is enough space in the jungle. Chop chop
Hey,
I as a guy would actually love if you guys make more content in this series about women that does not include a man in its main theme. You all are doing a lovely job of providing us with such great content. But honestly, more content like that would be appreciated because like, honestly, I would love to know more about problems pertaining in the lives of women that are not directly related to men.
So considerate 👍🤗🤗
What a gem
Yesss
I'm glad they're not glorifying infidelity in the name of Feminism.
OK my god.... I had same situation in my life,,, thankfully I too had a friend,, my inner voice
Lucky people who have such besties.
But i think every woman have their own bestie i.e. her " inner voice "
N it help us many times 🙏
We should always litsen to our bestie inner voice. It will save us from getting in trouble. ❤
It's is gud thing☺️ we should think which is right and which is wrong .... everyone have our inner voice we have to follow that...
Well if she really loved her husband then she wouldn't have kissed anyone else. So difficult to trust girls these days.
After going through a lots of comments, many women and girls admitting that they are there in theses situation. Simply shows how hollow is love and relationships of modern times. Are we still gonna talk about patriarchy ONLY!!!; Yet forgiving everything on the name of gender empowerment.
Something like this happened with me too an year or so ago.. N i talked to my bf about it.. The best thing was he understood, supported me and gave more time to me. That instantly made my head clear about what I wanted. After some time the relationship really gets rusty n boring.. Then you find new things n people quite happening. But remember after few years it will just repeat.. So the best choice is to be clear in your head and try to enhance your current relation with your partner. Hope this video n my comment helps someone. Most importantly Talk to your partner.
@Akash k Itna gyan bat diya hai to solutions bhi suggest kr dijiye Sir
@Akash k totally agree with you men N women totally behave like dogs today.they just look for sexual gratification.being single is much better than being in toxic relationship like this where you cheat behind and came with justification.
@@shraddhasrivastava1198 solution for what that you want to enjoy sex with other while being with someone in marriage,then break your marriage and go here and there for sense gratification.marriage is responsibility not a show off.
@Akash k Dear sir......everything you said is right but your words, "this generation" is absolutely wrong. Yes technology has been developed....buildings have been built, etc. However, the people haven't changed at all. If you think technically many kings and queens of ancient India can also be termed as cheaters. But I absolutely support this video as it provides us a lot of guidance.......Thank you. #Spread peace.
@Akash k Yes sir........I know that you mentioned both men and women. I too did that. I think you misunderstood me. It's okay. I am happy that you are noble enough to listen to others' arguments. Happy to talk to such a good person.☺☺
Not all the woman takes advice from another "woman".
#fact
woman understands woman better tho.
bcoz they are not trust worthy simple.. #NotAllBut99.9%
But that's not the reality...
Nowadays cheating becomes a daily life routine in relationship...no one cares about loyalty
The trust and commitment that existed in marriage is slowly becoming dim. The way the girl easily says that I like my hubby also and my colleague also and is in two minds about choosing one. She fears that she might not have same feelings for the other guy as time passes on. What kind of life we are showing? So feeble minded. There will be attractions in our surroundings and natural that we as persons will be drawn towards it. This is the time our upbringing and strong sense of our culture comes to play not some friend who rescues us. Smoke breaks why? Isn't smoking injurious to health.
Weak minded people
I wonder . . why the guy didn't know that she is married or why she hasn't disclose in office that she z married . . . after knowing, the other person will definitely think twice before coming close to her
i strongly support ur arguement man...
this shouldn't be like this...
if u r married it is undrdtood that u r responsible enough to the emotions of ur partner.. such... directions mislead a proper sense of life...such hook ups lead to fun without responsibility... i think great initiative by this channel to clear the minds of such irresponsible people... and to show them correct direction
but cant say this is wrong cuz feminist will rip us down... 😂😂😂😂
Better World well it’s a truly reflection of what generally happens, it’s not very uncommon. We’ve been raised watching those saas bahu serials and those stereotypical movies, hence it all seems wrong on the cultural and moral ground, whilst it being true and evident in many relationships these days
@@prachisharmaaa Do movies and serials dictate what's right or wrong. They don't. What's wrong is wrong. Infidelity cannot be treated so casually. Moral and ethical standards have to high to lead a respectable life. It's really unfortunate if such cheap behaviour is becoming an accepted norm in society
Didi ko loyal husband bhi chahiye didi ko bahar boyfriend bhi chahiye didi khud chahe kitni bhi boring pr didi ko sab kuch new aur interesting bhi chahiye didi ko sab pata hai didi kya kr rhi hai pr kise ke puchne pe didi bolti hai i don't know what to do didi ko lagta hai feelings ki puri tokri vo he utha ke bhagi thi baki dono londo ke pass to keval aujar hai ...aise kaise chalega didi!
Sahi kaha Bhai aapnay . Bhai Jo log single hai vo khush hai apni life may
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂damn funny comment
She was confused....... And we r humans it happens.........
But the thing is, atleast she understood what is correct for her....... and if we tont and jurg people then how will they get chance to correct their mistakes....... On offence!!!! It's just an other view of thinking about the same thing.....
@@Keerthana-w5u Yup... I agree
When we love someone truly..it doesn't let us to get attracted to someone else
.no matter how much handsome the other person is...to her ...her partner is the perfect one...as well as...if still we are getting attracted...most of time it is just a very weak and temporary phase...anyhow..the main focus of this video was to show the friend helping her best friend and it is really worth to see..because true friendship between girls without any judgement and jealousy is really becoming rare...and those who get this...are damn lucky💓
Yes
Absolutely correct
Bullshit
"Man up" was so misogynist and patriarchial for feminists but now "woman up" is okay.. :D Second thing, I noticed almost everywhere also endorsed as something natural, it was the husband to blamed for wife being a philanderer, it was nice to see you didn't show that.
Husband is not being blamed here
Old charm or boredom
She understood her mistake and worked on it b4 it's late
@@shikhasinha8143 I exactly said that's something not happened here which happened almost everywhere and feminists conveniently choose this argument very proudly. I clearly said that :)
@@AnuragSinha7 sorry I misunderstood
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@@shikhasinha8143" old and rusty" what does itean ?
I appreciate the way her frnd figure out..the prblmm...
I felt like she didn't love karan and nikhil either if she would have loved karan nikhil will never be her option and so with nikhil this vid was misleading tbh there's no loyalty here
A timely and great one for the current generation. Hats off 😍
People now a days make life so complex we marry some1 bcz even when we talk to that person a sense f releif nd joy u feel which is different from fun if u may have expereince ull know thing is simple if u r making a commitment like mairraige stick to it heart keep ur heart clear if u r not feeling amymore get divorce and live ur life if u r not getting that chemistry dnt get married but dnt destroy some1 life just fr fun u r not picking his call bcz u r feeling sexually excited for ur colleague for god sake he love u dnt fool people with excitment in name of modernity its easy to understand why my grandparents even after their 60 years f mairraige smile nd laugh so joyfully nd today generation need phychatrist swimging one night stand etc
You're right, these days, its mostly this "exciting/excitement" factor that makes people cheat on their partner. Person sees an exciting factor in some another person & ends up being unfaithful to the partner. Truly, the people from previous & the generation before were clearly much more faithful than the current one. Add to that the influence of media & the so called "western liberty & freedom" model, you've got the recipe to ruin marriages.
Awesome team!!
I love what you said just now, yes my friend few years ago was in a same situation and we had a conversation just like this....only difference she owns big businesses and I am into empowering minds, I did what I do best and she just felt to give her marriage another fair chance, today the family travel like friends.....life is beautiful when family becomes friends and friends become family...!! Applause and due respect!!
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Introduction of ghor kalyuga 😂
well she already cheated on him emotionally first she lied about her husband ,second lying to her husband to spend time with another man and if it takes someone else to put some sense into her mind that she should not cheat but try to work things out even she doesn't have the best chemistry she is a cheater.
If all women are like her then we men are doomed.
And again blush brought to us raw reality....
Great content guys
One of my friends had an affair with her married boss and she ended up with a broken heart. I tried to explain her to stay away from him but she didn't listened. On the other hand her boss moved on easily and she has lost her faith in love forever.
It's totally her fault , even after knowing that he is married she took a chance
sad
I think this problem is faced by many new girls in job, like having crush on boss and how much we try to explain them they just fall for boss. Hope your friend try to move on not all but some boss really try hard for Young's to fall for them and just move on from it.
Bullshit, she was trying for promotion. A middle aged, married boss is not attractive to anyone. Only in movies and TV series can that happen. She didn't get the promotion/favours and regrets that.
My besti is same 😂....koi bhi new male friend bna ..she say ...Kuch ho skta hai kya dono me like love 😂😂😂....duniya ke same ldke usse jiju hi lgte hai 😂
The best thing is about this video is that no one is judged here, u guys shows respect for man as well.. this is relatable for me ..as my gf said that he is charming i couldn't resist myself to kiss him" that time i don't know what should i do. still i'm confused what should i do.
Tu rhna de
wtf dude.
breakup kar le
She is behind lust bro
True love Karne wala kabhi aisa nahi bolega
Tu pachhtayega baad mein
There should be a friend like dis in everyone's life
I am the so called DAD who actually Hubby and now Divorce in process..........😶😶😶
😲
I am so glad that #Blush has done it correct way showing a friend like she got in the video who guided her correctly rather than diverting her because most of the people don't care about you, getting a good friend who takes you out from risk you are about to do is great.
Salute to the writer and cinematography 👍👌🙏
True
Technically such girls ruin either hubby's peace or crush's ending up with a feeling I'm super matured now..
This Nikhil guy is Anjali's Hubby now😅😅
"Nikhil se door reh" such sound advise. Good job! Guard your relationships....that is ALWAYS the most important thing!
We rarely get such friend who suggest us the right path
Did anyone notice nikhil urff gaurav Arora is the guy she actually got married to!!!!!
Such a cute and adorable couple!!😍😍😍❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
it’s NEVER OK to have an extramarital affair, NO MATTER WHAT THE REASON IS, in the end you will ruin someone else’s life and REGRET IT
Well, you can keep it short and secret
@@amolkhobaragade all fun and games until your partner does it 😆
@@amolkhobaragade bubble is going to break
Hi and hello , all said and done ....nothing can beat honest friends. A big thumbs up to the best friend.
this is not helping out it is called clear cheating dude.
How can everything is justifiable?
Superb... May all girls get this kind f sweet friend ..
Absolutely...
All in the name of without judgement accepting a cheater friend is best friend .
Just love Shreyo Gupto.... amazing attitude.... very casual & natural...... nothing more.... nothing less in..... always justifies her role..... seeing her performance after Mom& co......
A lovely, go- lucky girl..... Shreya.....
Its really great to have a friend like her...... in reality......
Such a balanced best friend and such an amazing view on what could be an extra marital affair. We need more educated people like this!
All in the name of without judgement accepting a cheater friend is best friend .