So glad I watched this. Been standing for 3 months and God has given be signs that my marriage is being restored and it’s near. Although it feels like it’s farther and farther away. But before I watched this I was just telling a friend that I need to move on with my life since my husband seems so happy and engaging with other women. And how it’s not fair how I’m over here miserable and tired. It’s so hard. And we see each other almost daily because we have a baby together. Ive looked at my wrongs and apologized to him about it but his response was how it was “pathetic apology”. It’s definitely difficult to keep standing, although I get the signs I ask from God, it still seems like it’s hopeless. I know he’s working though, even when I can’t see it or feel it.
Zip your lips! My (ex)husband lashed out at me constantly. One year divorced and I'm finally at a point where I can chuckle (because I know it's the enemy) when I hear things that my husband is doing (this past weekend he gave the ow a ring). I'm quite certain most people think I'm crazy to keep standing at this point, but I know that the harder the hits from the enemy gets, the closer I am to a break through! I actually thanked my husband for leaving me because it enabled me to hit bottom so that I could rebuild myself in Christ. I fought the divorce, but when it came to finally signing God said to me, how much do you trust me? Let me have him completely so that he can't say you had anything to do with restoration! I get positive affirmations from God occasionally that He is working on my husband. Standing is probably the toughest thing I've had to do - I'd rather go through boot camp again because at least I would know when it would end!!
@@nenepchildofthemosthigh4307 no, but.... he's finally being nicer to me. I'm even more at peace. He married the ow this year, but God has clearly told me to keep standing.
@@nembree622 Well I know even in that, God can change his heart back to you. I am glad you are at peace I am standing with you and am going to pray, standing isn't easy, and we all need to stand together. God bless you.
Your video is awesome and may God bless you 🙏 for your encouraging words and guidance on how I, we need to pray 🙏. God I am waiting and trusting You are healing my husband and restore our hearts and marriage and send Peter home. Stop divorce and sell of our home that he is taking me to Supreme Court because my father had just passed away when he left and mom 90 just returned home asking where is her son in law that she/they treated him like a son for 37+ years full of love and affection. God I love and trust you and this gentleman for hope in our prayers 🙏 ❤ Amen
Bro, I was thinking about you yesterday and was hoping you'd drop a vid soon. This reminds me of our conversation a week ago. Great vid, thanks for the advice as always....God Bless you brother..🙏
Thy lord will restore your marriage again,no condition is permanent,I will recommend you to a powerful pastor who save my marriage through healing and deliverance and my husband came home ...he can help you too
So good…this blessed & encouraged me! Thank you so much!! Be blessed brother. God has transformed me and continues to do it daily. God told me years ago…I will change you…it begins with you. Stop looking at your husband for change first. I will begin with you. I obey and it’s amazing! I want me husband to see Christ in me. 🙏
This is a Facebook group for women. It’s a resource for women to encourage others and be encouraged as they go through this difficult trial. facebook.com/groups/159001288535154/?ref=share
Looking inside is what I first do, I’ll take on what I did, but not the other persons. I stopped filling my store, as you put it, because I was neglected in all aspects. I’m working on being a better person generally, but I’m not going to keep giving myself away for no return, I’m done. I’m not losing myself again. Great video, you shout a lot though lol. I do wait for your videos though. Although there are MANY female videos I prefer to learn about the “stand” from a male perspective, as I am standing for the opposite sex. May God bless and keep you
Lauren James Thank you for your honesty. It is incredibly difficult to give ourselves. But especially when someone does not reciprocate. One thing that I have learned during the process of my stand is that loving somebody that loves you back is simple and easy. Truly loving someone is doing so when they do not reciprocate. There are different stages in this process and sometimes constantly giving yourself to the other person is not the best thing to do. If you look at the story of Hosea he had given and given and given. But it one point he stopped providing for his spouse and let her hit rock bottom. I don’t know the ins and outs of your situation but I can definitely tell you that as you stand for your marriage the most critical point is to have an intimate relationship with God. And as you wait pray and fast your relationship with him will increase and he will give you the strength and direction to do whatever it is that needs to be done. In response to the yelling LOL I do apologize if it bothered you :-). Marriage restoration is something that I am incredibly passionate about.
Lauren James I agree with you sis. I was a great wife. I got no consistent reciprocation. He decided to leave after a petty argument. Been no contact for almost 4 months. It has been hard during this quarantine time especially. I pray for him. I know God hates divorce. But I'm getting to the point if he doesn't feel out marriage is worth it ,I'm not keeping anyone who doesn't want to be kept. I have no more anger in my heart. I wish him the best.
Thy lord will restore your marriage again,no condition is permanent,I will recommend you to a powerful pastor who save my marriage through healing and deliverance and my husband came home after 7 years of separation ...he can help you too
You know what good for you! Although I know God can restore marriages but at some point I feel you should let go. Life is too short to be waiting around on someone to change their mind about you especially when there out doing what they are doing amd probably enjoying every minute of it!
Jason Toner I don’t remember specifically now which message it was but the message was by jimmy Evans. He has a lot of wonderful messages on marriage and tools for success therein.
What if your spouse tells you they never loved you (even though they said did previously)? They feel like they were pushed into the marriage and it wasn’t Gods timing. Now what?
Wow i have never heard a male standers perspective. I appreciate your humility. May God's will be done in all of our marriages.
Amen!! I will be praying for you. Appreciate your prayers for me and my family as well. :)
So glad I watched this. Been standing for 3 months and God has given be signs that my marriage is being restored and it’s near. Although it feels like it’s farther and farther away. But before I watched this I was just telling a friend that I need to move on with my life since my husband seems so happy and engaging with other women. And how it’s not fair how I’m over here miserable and tired. It’s so hard. And we see each other almost daily because we have a baby together. Ive looked at my wrongs and apologized to him about it but his response was how it was “pathetic apology”. It’s definitely difficult to keep standing, although I get the signs I ask from God, it still seems like it’s hopeless. I know he’s working though, even when I can’t see it or feel it.
I feel the same way. He tells me he will give it a chance but then proceeds to ignore me
Zip your lips! My (ex)husband lashed out at me constantly. One year divorced and I'm finally at a point where I can chuckle (because I know it's the enemy) when I hear things that my husband is doing (this past weekend he gave the ow a ring). I'm quite certain most people think I'm crazy to keep standing at this point, but I know that the harder the hits from the enemy gets, the closer I am to a break through! I actually thanked my husband for leaving me because it enabled me to hit bottom so that I could rebuild myself in Christ. I fought the divorce, but when it came to finally signing God said to me, how much do you trust me? Let me have him completely so that he can't say you had anything to do with restoration! I get positive affirmations from God occasionally that He is working on my husband. Standing is probably the toughest thing I've had to do - I'd rather go through boot camp again because at least I would know when it would end!!
It's been a year, how are you doing now? Has restoration come?
@@nenepchildofthemosthigh4307 no, but.... he's finally being nicer to me. I'm even more at peace. He married the ow this year, but God has clearly told me to keep standing.
@@nembree622 Well I know even in that, God can change his heart back to you. I am glad you are at peace I am standing with you and am going to pray, standing isn't easy, and we all need to stand together. God bless you.
@@nenepchildofthemosthigh4307 thank you so much! God bless you!
God bless you. Your video has given me courage to continue standing even 9 months later. Please restore our hearts and marriage. Amen 🙏 🙏 🙏
Praying for you
Yup.. that's my husband.. vilifies me to everyone he meets.
Your video is awesome and may God bless you 🙏 for your encouraging words and guidance on how I, we need to pray 🙏. God I am waiting and trusting You are healing my husband and restore our hearts and marriage and send Peter home. Stop divorce and sell of our home that he is taking me to Supreme Court because my father had just passed away when he left and mom 90 just returned home asking where is her son in law that she/they treated him like a son for 37+ years full of love and affection. God I love and trust you and this gentleman for hope in our prayers 🙏 ❤ Amen
Amen...pls pray for our marriage restoration... divorce proceedings is going on..
Been standing for years. Still waiting
Bro, I was thinking about you yesterday and was hoping you'd drop a vid soon. This reminds me of our conversation a week ago. Great vid, thanks for the advice as always....God Bless you brother..🙏
Thank you my friend we are in a war! God will win this for His glory look to Jesus!! See the impossible in Jesus Name!!!
Very true. God bless your ministry. Glory to God. Humility is asking God to be all in our lives. God never abandons us when we surrender completely.
Thy lord will restore your marriage again,no condition is permanent,I will recommend you to a powerful pastor who save my marriage through healing and deliverance and my husband came home ...he can help you too
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I’m standing for my marriage, I love my husband I pray he can forgive me. Just started watching your videos and have gained insightful information
I am thankful for you messages. Great video. It really hot home with me. I will continue to fight for my marriage 🙏🏻
I need to hear this! Thanks for sharing
So good…this blessed & encouraged me! Thank you so much!! Be blessed brother. God has transformed me and continues to do it daily. God told me years ago…I will change you…it begins with you. Stop looking at your husband for change first. I will begin with you. I obey and it’s amazing! I want me husband to see Christ in me. 🙏
I needed this message. Thank you, Amen. God bless you brother!!
Humility & love amen 🙏🏼
God is with me. I have faith 🙏
God is forever faithful. ❤️
Tea Plus Shade he sure is!!!
I totally needed to see this when I did.
Chrystal Grant praise God that it was an encouragement to you!!
This is a Facebook group for women. It’s a resource for women to encourage others and be encouraged as they go through this difficult trial.
facebook.com/groups/159001288535154/?ref=share
Looking inside is what I first do, I’ll take on what I did, but not the other persons. I stopped filling my store, as you put it, because I was neglected in all aspects. I’m working on being a better person generally, but I’m not going to keep giving myself away for no return, I’m done. I’m not losing myself again. Great video, you shout a lot though lol. I do wait for your videos though. Although there are MANY female videos I prefer to learn about the “stand” from a male perspective, as I am standing for the opposite sex.
May God bless and keep you
Lauren James Thank you for your honesty. It is incredibly difficult to give ourselves. But especially when someone does not reciprocate. One thing that I have learned during the process of my stand is that loving somebody that loves you back is simple and easy. Truly loving someone is doing so when they do not reciprocate. There are different stages in this process and sometimes constantly giving yourself to the other person is not the best thing to do. If you look at the story of Hosea he had given and given and given. But it one point he stopped providing for his spouse and let her hit rock bottom. I don’t know the ins and outs of your situation but I can definitely tell you that as you stand for your marriage the most critical point is to have an intimate relationship with God. And as you wait pray and fast your relationship with him will increase and he will give you the strength and direction to do whatever it is that needs to be done. In response to the yelling LOL I do apologize if it bothered you :-). Marriage restoration is something that I am incredibly passionate about.
Lauren James I agree with you sis. I was a great wife. I got no consistent reciprocation. He decided to leave after a petty argument. Been no contact for almost 4 months. It has been hard during this quarantine time especially. I pray for him. I know God hates divorce. But I'm getting to the point if he doesn't feel out marriage is worth it ,I'm not keeping anyone who doesn't want to be kept. I have no more anger in my heart. I wish him the best.
You are an inspiration. When Im Down I See your videos. Would love to communicate and thank you in a more personal matter
This good stuff
Standing for my marriage was a horrible decision for me. Hope it works for you
Thy lord will restore your marriage again,no condition is permanent,I will recommend you to a powerful pastor who save my marriage through healing and deliverance and my husband came home after 7 years of separation ...he can help you too
Message pastor on WhatsApp +2348144358180
@@sarahlove9830 i appreciate your kind words. My wife put me through to much pain. I am glad I am divorced now and just looking to recover.
You know what good for you! Although I know God can restore marriages but at some point I feel you should let go. Life is too short to be waiting around on someone to change their mind about you especially when there out doing what they are doing amd probably enjoying every minute of it!
@@shanewinfrey1723 Good for you Shane
Thank you.
D3SIR33 smith you are most welcome
Can you share the sermon that you were making reference to in this video? Thank you brother.
Jason Toner I don’t remember specifically now which message it was but the message was by jimmy Evans. He has a lot of wonderful messages on marriage and tools for success therein.
Faith In The Making,I have listened to many of his teachings.
What if your spouse tells you they never loved you (even though they said did previously)? They feel like they were pushed into the marriage and it wasn’t Gods timing. Now what?
Has your marriage been restored yet brother?
7 YEARS???????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????
Hi, I found your vlogs to be useful and encouraging. Do you mine me reach out to you via email. What is your email.
Healowaemay@gmail.com