Honestly I’m 25 and legit have no friends, I work from home and I’ve just moved from Scotland to England! No one told us how hard it is to make and maintain friendship as an adult, it’s very isolating.
@@saralongridge4648 yes I totally get that. I guess I'm cautious who I have in my life and obviously that prevents me from having friends. However in the past I've had friends who just used and abused our friendship
I get down about this but it’s both comforting and sad to hear so many others experience this! I just want some more friends I can go for coffee, brunch, shopping and hang out with especially as I’m about to move into a flat by myself 🥺
I lost my best friend to suicide, the loneliness after was unreal, she someone I picked and loved, I have few friends but nothing compared to what me and dovile have we were so equal yet 2 very different people, have me wee family husband, 2 boys and my pug all I truly need, also I have friends from school I see a few times a year to, if something terrable going on I know they are there x
I was the same as you Demi last year following lockdown (I actually also live in Newcastle!). I joined bumble BFF and made such a great best friend who I love so much. We talk all the time, go out and away together, so lovely to have more friends like you say! Not to replace the old ones 😊 So I really recommend the app to anyone reading this xx
Isn't it funny though that as a teenager you'd love to be a popular girl but as an adult that does not appeal! 😅 those friends are not nice genuine friends.
I'm glad you were able to go from being a loner to having a close group of amazing friends, you really are lucky. Unfortunately I have gone pretty much my entire life being a loner, when I was in high school I had "friends" but they weren't really friends so in a way I was still a loner and since I left high school I have been a literal loner ever since and I am in my 30's now. I did try making friends in jobs but nobody liked me or wanted to be my friend even though I'm super nice, I developed social anxiety in my 20's and it just progressed as I got older so now I barely leave the house and I'm at a point in my life where I'm ok being a loner and I don't need or want any friends since the "friends" I had in the past were a massive dissapointment and no one wants to be my friend anyway but I'm cool with it coz I'm very independent and I don't crave human interaction
27 in Newcastle and my whole life I’ve been surrounded by people and I’d say the last 5 years I’ve fully just ended up a complete loner almost scared to go out and make connections. The only connections I make seem to be through work as my customers but always feels weird making that step to actually be ‘friends’ Defo should be an app for friends or even mixers in Newcastle for people like us!! make it happen mama x
Fully agree hopefully Demi can make it happen ❤ I’m the same as you live in Newcastle & work from home so don’t see many people 😂 xx someone in below comments mentioned Bumble BFF
Watched you since day 1 and I can safely say you’re the realest, most pure person on this app. Biggest inspiration and a massive hats off to you for keeping it so real on your channel through and through❤👏🏽
I’m so much older I have a few very close friends , lots of acquaintances, it’s quality over quantity for me , I’m lucky though to have 4 wonderful sisters . Xxx
Btw Makeup looks fab❤️ eyebrows are looking so good and full😍 I struggle so bad with friendships and I’m 25 also with no friends my boyfriend is my only friend🤦🏻♀️ but when I watch your videos I’m like I think we would be friends😂
I have the same besties since kindergarten..I'm now 40 they are like my sisters...BUT that's it I haven't got the energy to make new friendships it's just too much work, I cant be fake either..my friends get me and thats enough! I've tried but can't keep new "friends " and I like being in my comfort zone!
I love this Demi ❤ socialising can be v hard as we get older. I have friends from ppl i work with in jobs etc but it'd be nice to have friends that have the same interests as me or similar 😅 if anyone is based in the Manchester area watching/reading this and open to friend ships I'm all for it. I'm 28 y/o female 😊🎉 thanks demi x
Im 36 this year, other than my partner, i just don’t have many, im quite introverted so other than work it’s hard and they often are a lot younger than me but I try my best but I think im lucky if I have 2 people I could hang with. And maybe once a month for a “coffee” But even then they aren’t my type of people, im a big kid, into Asian culture, cute things, games and so finding people for me it’s hard. People my age im my city like me don’t exist. I want a friend to be silly with. Instagram it’s nice to see they exist but I wish I had one.
38 Scottish lass living in Newcastle, moved here 9yrs ago, only got work colleagues no1 that i can call as a friend, so i am a right loner. Got my kids our dogo..
I’m exactly the same, I hardly have any friends and the ones that I do have are work friends. If I’m honest I don’t even know how to make friends.. mainly because I don’t know what to talk about. I have no hobbies, not many interests, I work from home so pretty much spend 24/7 in my house.. what do I talk about?! My favourite colour? Childhood traumas? I just don’t know 😬🤣
I’m from the north east, live in blyth bit of a loner myself 😅 but love your energy think you’d be a great friend you’re so funny and seem so caring. I also love performing arts as well musicals are the best xx
Fab vid…very relatable! I feel like a make friends meet in Newcastle has your name written on it ❤💃🏻💃🏻or a little share your socials & make friends type thing ❤
I want a friend that has her own life and wants to meet up once or twice per year lol, i need a space. I had a friend who wanted to meet up every month and i honestly couldn't do it. He ended up blocking me because he felt that i wasn't making any effort 😂, i didn't realise adults blocked each other, i thought we left this at school. He didn't understand what it meant for me to be an introvert who really struggled with socialising. I just wanted to be alone most of the time
I'm autistic so I find it difficult to make friends and I only really have one or two good friends where I live and then I have a few other friends that live all over but I'm happy with that because at least I know they're loyal xx
A don’t need friends a have my family that does me a had loads off friends at school as well but things change weans marriage etc better on your own like my own company 😊😊❤❤
I'm 31 and I don't have freind ,I suppose my family are my freinds. I think as you get older you have less time for freinds too. Totally unrelated but so sad that paul ogrady has died after just seeing him in your videos 😢x
I’ve made a group for anyone in the north east wanting to connect with others! Message me insta to be added to it ❤
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Honestly I’m 25 and legit have no friends, I work from home and I’ve just moved from Scotland to England! No one told us how hard it is to make and maintain friendship as an adult, it’s very isolating.
I’m 26 and have no friends either. It’s difficult not having friends but I also struggle maintaining friendships 😢
I'm a loner too but do you know what I dont mind it
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@@isthatyoursandwich I don’t mind it either, though sometimes I do wish I had someone to just experience some things with
@@saralongridge4648 yes I totally get that. I guess I'm cautious who I have in my life and obviously that prevents me from having friends. However in the past I've had friends who just used and abused our friendship
I think the reason why we find it difficult to befriend people is because we are so cautious with who we can trust
This is sooo common! I’m 33 and have 2 friends I would love to have more but it is difficult to meet like minded people when you are older xx
Try doing something you like to do a class or something the just smile and say hi x
I get down about this but it’s both comforting and sad to hear so many others experience this! I just want some more friends I can go for coffee, brunch, shopping and hang out with especially as I’m about to move into a flat by myself 🥺
It does change when kids come along as you meet and make new friends through them. Also big friendship groups are hard to maintain. Good content!
Omg stop I’m crying! Miss you so much! 💗
I lost my best friend to suicide, the loneliness after was unreal, she someone I picked and loved, I have few friends but nothing compared to what me and dovile have we were so equal yet 2 very different people, have me wee family husband, 2 boys and my pug all I truly need, also I have friends from school I see a few times a year to, if something terrable going on I know they are there x
I was the same as you Demi last year following lockdown (I actually also live in Newcastle!). I joined bumble BFF and made such a great best friend who I love so much. We talk all the time, go out and away together, so lovely to have more friends like you say! Not to replace the old ones 😊 So I really recommend the app to anyone reading this xx
I'm a loner, been stabbed in the back too many times.... Loving your eye makeup ❤
Isn't it funny though that as a teenager you'd love to be a popular girl but as an adult that does not appeal! 😅 those friends are not nice genuine friends.
I'm glad you were able to go from being a loner to having a close group of amazing friends, you really are lucky. Unfortunately I have gone pretty much my entire life being a loner, when I was in high school I had "friends" but they weren't really friends so in a way I was still a loner and since I left high school I have been a literal loner ever since and I am in my 30's now. I did try making friends in jobs but nobody liked me or wanted to be my friend even though I'm super nice, I developed social anxiety in my 20's and it just progressed as I got older so now I barely leave the house and I'm at a point in my life where I'm ok being a loner and I don't need or want any friends since the "friends" I had in the past were a massive dissapointment and no one wants to be my friend anyway but I'm cool with it coz I'm very independent and I don't crave human interaction
I feel this video, so grateful for my small circle now!
27 in Newcastle and my whole life I’ve been surrounded by people and I’d say the last 5 years I’ve fully just ended up a complete loner almost scared to go out and make connections. The only connections I make seem to be through work as my customers but always feels weird making that step to actually be ‘friends’
Defo should be an app for friends or even mixers in Newcastle for people like us!! make it happen mama x
Fully agree hopefully Demi can make it happen ❤ I’m the same as you live in Newcastle & work from home so don’t see many people 😂 xx someone in below comments mentioned Bumble BFF
I’ve made a group on insta message me if you want added x
Watched you since day 1 and I can safely say you’re the realest, most pure person on this app. Biggest inspiration and a massive hats off to you for keeping it so real on your channel through and through❤👏🏽
I’m a loner/introvert and enjoy my own company. I’m in my 50’s and have no true friends..I have work acquaintances but none that I would call close.
I’m so much older I have a few very close friends , lots of acquaintances, it’s quality over quantity for me , I’m lucky though to have 4 wonderful sisters . Xxx
Btw Makeup looks fab❤️ eyebrows are looking so good and full😍 I struggle so bad with friendships and I’m 25 also with no friends my boyfriend is my only friend🤦🏻♀️ but when I watch your videos I’m like I think we would be friends😂
I have the same besties since kindergarten..I'm now 40 they are like my sisters...BUT that's it I haven't got the energy to make new friendships it's just too much work, I cant be fake either..my friends get me and thats enough! I've tried but can't keep new "friends " and I like being in my comfort zone!
I love this Demi ❤ socialising can be v hard as we get older. I have friends from ppl i work with in jobs etc but it'd be nice to have friends that have the same interests as me or similar 😅 if anyone is based in the Manchester area watching/reading this and open to friend ships I'm all for it. I'm 28 y/o female 😊🎉 thanks demi x
Iv been a loner since I move to Sunderland from Yorkshire 😂 I moved here at 16 am 29 in June I'm starting to accept it now 😂 xx
Girl I live in Blyth in Northumberland if you ever want to go for a coffee let me know :) xx
I’m just down the road in Teesside ☺️ xx
Im 36 this year, other than my partner, i just don’t have many, im quite introverted so other than work it’s hard and they often are a lot younger than me but I try my best but I think im lucky if I have 2 people I could hang with. And maybe once a month for a “coffee” But even then they aren’t my type of people, im a big kid, into Asian culture, cute things, games and so finding people for me it’s hard. People my age im my city like me don’t exist. I want a friend to be silly with. Instagram it’s nice to see they exist but I wish I had one.
Very honest and relatable, love Jess thanks for sharing xx
Hi Demi! I love that you do this it’s really cool.
38 Scottish lass living in Newcastle, moved here 9yrs ago, only got work colleagues no1 that i can call as a friend, so i am a right loner. Got my kids our dogo..
I’m exactly the same, I hardly have any friends and the ones that I do have are work friends. If I’m honest I don’t even know how to make friends.. mainly because I don’t know what to talk about. I have no hobbies, not many interests, I work from home so pretty much spend 24/7 in my house.. what do I talk about?! My favourite colour? Childhood traumas? I just don’t know 😬🤣
Same ! You’ve basically described me 😂😂 work from home & gym on lunch to see actual humans! Fully agree hard to make friends as adult.
@@suzannebrown8882 Ahaha aw bless you! Well least we're not alone with our lonliness lol x
Me seeing the title - ah yes this one’s for me 🥰👏🏼😂
I am from teeside I am 25 don’t really have many friends I live and work on our farm x
I relate to this so much. I struggled with friendships for so long but now I’m in university I’ve found my very close group and it’s amazing!! 💕
It Is alright we lasse I a certain you have tons of mates 😂❤
I’m from the north east, live in blyth bit of a loner myself 😅 but love your energy think you’d be a great friend you’re so funny and seem so caring. I also love performing arts as well musicals are the best xx
Fab vid…very relatable! I feel like a make friends meet in Newcastle has your name written on it ❤💃🏻💃🏻or a little share your socials & make friends type thing ❤
I want a friend that has her own life and wants to meet up once or twice per year lol, i need a space. I had a friend who wanted to meet up every month and i honestly couldn't do it. He ended up blocking me because he felt that i wasn't making any effort 😂, i didn't realise adults blocked each other, i thought we left this at school. He didn't understand what it meant for me to be an introvert who really struggled with socialising. I just wanted to be alone most of the time
Omg i am a loner too. Fell out with people...lost touch etc. I kinda like my own company better in ways.. plus i have trust issues with friends x hugs
You’re makeup is looking stunning ❤
I'm autistic so I find it difficult to make friends and I only really have one or two good friends where I live and then I have a few other friends that live all over but I'm happy with that because at least I know they're loyal xx
I RELATE - although I feel like I’ve messaged you a million times :(
Love this video!
A don’t need friends a have my family that does me a had loads off friends at school as well but things change weans marriage etc better on your own like my own company 😊😊❤❤
So relatable Demi! What did you study in college ? x
Yeah this is me right now needing to make new friends also 😅
Message me on insta 🥰🥰 might make a group so many people have asked x
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@@12missmolly there’s literally proof that He does. shroud of turin, so many other things that archeologists have found ha
I can take em or leave em to be honest 😊
I'm 31 and I don't have freind ,I suppose my family are my freinds. I think as you get older you have less time for freinds too. Totally unrelated but so sad that paul ogrady has died after just seeing him in your videos 😢x
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My sisters are my best friends
Anyone else from the North East??xx
Yeah..from Newcastle/Killingworth. Should do a little North East meet 👍🏼👍🏼💃🏻
Message me on insta going to make a group as so many have asked xx
Me I’m from blyth xx
I’m in Teesside xx
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I lost all mine when I had my children don't mind though clearly wernt real ones :)
Do you not speak to Harry anymore
Unfortunately not like we did - but we recently got back in contact and it’s amazing to see him doing so well! Proud of him x
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