Befriending my friend’s Killer

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  • @adambrown4470
    @adambrown4470 4 роки тому +309

    I think you should do a podcast and get all old g members to come in week in week out to tell there story and how they changed their life around. You could get drill artists in to tell there story. I think this would be a positive thing and could inspire the youth to not follow the same destructive path. I definately think you could make a massive difference Bro. I support your movement mate keep up the REAL work pal.

    • @robertmuhammad7253
      @robertmuhammad7253 4 роки тому +4

      Like the UK taxstone

    • @mozzy1268
      @mozzy1268 4 роки тому +6

      David Erlstoke stop forcing the accent man

    • @adambrown4470
      @adambrown4470 4 роки тому +7

      No I want stabbings and shootings to stop. People are a product of their environment. I grew up on Rayners lane estate, thankfully my parents moved us out if there at 13 year's old to southampton. I'd hate to see where I'd be if they didn't because I was starting to get in with the wrong crowds. I remember my sisters friend got stabbed to death in an argument over a cigarette. A podcast with success story's could be beneficial. Whilst intriguing at the same time. Plus Bobby is a good guy and kids look up to him for inspiration.

    • @adambrown4470
      @adambrown4470 4 роки тому

      @David Erlstoke I'm a Caucasian male

    • @3Horus
      @3Horus 4 роки тому +3

      This is a great shout. We need a podcast!!!

  • @unknown8402
    @unknown8402 4 роки тому +127

    these stories only thing keep man goin thru this lockdown ting big up

    • @mrboateng_
      @mrboateng_ 4 роки тому +1

      lol trust

    • @black2.017
      @black2.017 4 роки тому +2

      Frr we don't hear enough positive stories like this

  • @arim1721
    @arim1721 4 роки тому +42

    I respect this guy a lot, brutal honesty and let’s others learn from it👏🏾 wish him all the best

    • @weirdsciencethe2nd205
      @weirdsciencethe2nd205 4 роки тому +2

      Innit he's real I subbed I'm from London he's talking real shit and he's giving positive advice he's on a good way gotta support him get his book 👌👍

    • @youngesshaytch6000
      @youngesshaytch6000 4 роки тому

      Seriously his a legend ☝️☝️☝️❤

  • @RAGEHXARAGO
    @RAGEHXARAGO 4 роки тому +73

    It takes a real man to forgive, it takes a great man not to forget.

    • @recklezzone7926
      @recklezzone7926 4 роки тому +21

      bullshit.. if a guy raped your mum and you don't forgive him that means your not a "real man" smh

    • @AK-pq5ss
      @AK-pq5ss 4 роки тому +23

      @@recklezzone7926 your moving disabled bro...pipe down smh

    • @recklezzone7926
      @recklezzone7926 4 роки тому +3

      Bxnji67 lool what an inbred you are sir

    • @RAGEHXARAGO
      @RAGEHXARAGO 4 роки тому +13

      @slick rick that’s obviously different, that’s a straight M charge n back to wanno or scrubs.

    • @recklezzone7926
      @recklezzone7926 4 роки тому +5

      Hassan Rageh im going off on what you wrote, he said it takes a real man to forget he never stated what circumstances.. it’s a shame some people can’t debate with someone without getting triggered 🤣

  • @Ash-ro4jb
    @Ash-ro4jb 4 роки тому +63

    Sorry bro that you lost so many close people but its inspiring to see how you changed your life and got out of that surtan life stile keep safe bro🙏

    • @ulas1458
      @ulas1458 4 роки тому +8

      Ash Stephens raven Certain** Style**

    • @Jahmed5635
      @Jahmed5635 4 роки тому

      Certain

    • @Ash-ro4jb
      @Ash-ro4jb 4 роки тому +1

      @@ulas1458 ye sorry kinda shit at spelling

    • @Ash-ro4jb
      @Ash-ro4jb 4 роки тому

      @Malik Shariff 😂

    • @Ash-ro4jb
      @Ash-ro4jb 4 роки тому

      This is why I dont chat on comments 😂😂🙏

  • @yourmegabots
    @yourmegabots 4 роки тому +155

    Big ups for these stories

    • @Ty-J_250
      @Ty-J_250 4 роки тому +1

      Lol rah

    • @londonboy217
      @londonboy217 4 роки тому +2

      Lee kray wow proper baiting up my man

    • @londonboy217
      @londonboy217 4 роки тому +1

      Lee kray what is he lying about? Did he grass on man to get them moved out of jails?

    • @londonboy217
      @londonboy217 4 роки тому +1

      Lee kray yeah I get that you’re basically calling him a snitch, but what’s he lying about in these stories?

    • @londonboy217
      @londonboy217 4 роки тому +1

      Lee kray do you feel like you two are in competition now it’s talking to youngers in jail or on road about changing?

  • @EDCG.0214
    @EDCG.0214 4 роки тому +41

    Respect all the way from PA in the United States✊🏽. I’m gonna get one of your books, support you.

  • @jaysmith7532
    @jaysmith7532 4 роки тому +11

    You can feel the emotion when he’s talking about his friend that’s real love for a brother right there.loving the stories bobby your a g bro relatable as you grew up in the same ends as me

  • @chrishatton865
    @chrishatton865 4 роки тому +10

    Real Big man talk right their. Showed he can forgive the guy that killed his friend and move on with life 💯 the way forward make them proud with living a bright future not with revenge

  • @maz_vs_maz
    @maz_vs_maz 4 роки тому +2

    I have been listening to your stories and I hope you understand how blessed you are. If you had known the out come could have been crazy. Thanks for sharing bless

  • @TheManufan1000
    @TheManufan1000 4 роки тому +11

    Don’t listen to the first 20 seconds of this with your eyes closed 😂😂

  • @xXYVNGXOGXx
    @xXYVNGXOGXx 4 роки тому +13

    You got a good heart fam R.I.P.

  • @KingThomas86
    @KingThomas86 4 роки тому +5

    Hold your head high bro. God has a plan for us all, i pray yours is full of blessings

  • @ab456z
    @ab456z 4 роки тому +1

    New subscriber here, I am hooked to your vids man. Just real shit. For you to forgive one of your closest friend's killers, is admirable and shows how emotionally intelligent you have become. I know, most people out there would not be able to do so, but it takes a big man for you to put your emotions to the side and see it for what it is. Peace and blessings, and please keep these videos coming.

  • @CashLondon93
    @CashLondon93 4 роки тому +16

    I can’t forgive someone that killed my guy but I respect you point bro

  • @jayd8246
    @jayd8246 3 роки тому +1

    In my opinion I would try to forgive but never befriend and I’ve been through similar situations,not knocking anyone who has tho,”different strokes for different strokes”

  • @3Horus
    @3Horus 4 роки тому +2

    This is crazy man. Respect and RIP

  • @mrmonero4588
    @mrmonero4588 4 роки тому +1

    Your stories have got man hooked, you should try and do a series.

  • @SB-h8y1ds
    @SB-h8y1ds 4 роки тому +1

    Not going to lie. I ain't got a clue who you are. And know nothing about you.. U popped up on my recommendations and I watched a vid. Fuckin glad I did. Love the story's mate. Fair play to you for changing your life around. Keep inspiring pal.

  • @spaceli8850
    @spaceli8850 4 роки тому +2

    RIP nerves!!!! Always have to show that respect u was a real one....to u big man of course u don’t know u wasn’t from wooly u just knew of him but to teach u it was a robbery gone wrong they was young broke and wanted weed.....#facts

  • @Listen2YaMama
    @Listen2YaMama 4 роки тому +12

    God is ever merciful so who are we to not be forgiving of others? Especially in these circumstances. Bobby didn’t know the guy he was pals with in jail was involved in the murder of his primary school friend. Personally, I don’t know if I could be a big enough person to forgive that but respect to Bobby. It takes a man to be understanding and forgive something like that 👏🏾

    • @crispouk3070
      @crispouk3070 4 роки тому +3

      Listen 2 YaMama god merciful? Isn’t he the guy who made the eternally burning pit of sulfur and suffering also known as hell... for “sinners” who don’t agree to his rules

    • @AdamsApple1
      @AdamsApple1 4 роки тому +5

      @@crispouk3070 God only forgives those who are willing to receive His salvation and are worthy of his forgiveness. E.g. Peter repented and showed how he was very sorry for denying Jesus 3 times and then Jesus called him 3 times to remind him when he was denied 3 times and from then on Peter was forgiven. If not for Jesus we'll be forgiven for he died on the cross for us (like most people know). I ain't on no preaching thing tho... 😅

    • @crispouk3070
      @crispouk3070 4 роки тому +2

      Adam's Apple fair enough bro. That’s a cooler definition. Forgiveness is important in life fr

    • @VOLRAK1
      @VOLRAK1 4 роки тому +1

      Now that I have been thru the comments I can see some of the dangers of what @Lee Kray was saying now. Check out my thread up top. 👆🏾👆🏾👆🏾👆🏾

    • @VOLRAK1
      @VOLRAK1 4 роки тому +3

      @@leekray9691 this guy's a plum 😂 oi independent go check ure notifications I've finally replied to your bullshit. You have no sense but you're here talking your little one line YT adlibs every time people like you say something you bait up yourself.
      I swear 😂

  • @MrGingamac
    @MrGingamac 4 роки тому

    Bro , I rate your channel. Can feel how genuine you are I know it’s real . Big up From Brum 🏆🏆

  • @casmartin790
    @casmartin790 4 роки тому +2

    This story is nuff close to my heart coz the same ting kinda happened to me. My best friend got stabbed and died, difference is, I found out later that one of my other boys did it (I don't know how true this is). Killa ting is I had introduced them once before but I can't be sure they'd have remembered each other 😥
    RIP PATS/SP.

  • @noname4608
    @noname4608 4 роки тому +2

    Yes rest in peace! Nerves, will never forget you❤️

  • @x-g1
    @x-g1 4 роки тому +4

    That is insane bro, a similar thing happened to me in 09 at Hmp Highpoint. I bucked a young brudda in the gym and he started training wid us and we became friends, I got released, and saw his mug across the tv and felt sick to my stomach. This dude who I wont name, murdered a child in a high profile case and he also stabbed a childhood friend of mine and I was rolling with the guy totally unaware and until then i'd always thought I was a good judge of character.

    • @AliAli-fb9sd
      @AliAli-fb9sd 4 роки тому +3

      @Esau knows Is he on about the liverpool shooting of that 11 year old kid?

  • @jonnyvirgomusic
    @jonnyvirgomusic 4 роки тому +1

    RIP Nerves. I had the studio oppositw him in Bermondsey. He had mad positive energy and inspired all the people around him. RIP.

  • @walkinsilentmtfr7976
    @walkinsilentmtfr7976 4 роки тому

    God Bless your best friend R.I.P. 🙏 for him , keep doing wot your doing good story"s , you are sharing fella Salute to you 💯🇬🇧

  • @snaketheadversary6964
    @snaketheadversary6964 4 роки тому

    Nah you're humble bro, God loves those who forgive 🙏🤲

  • @liltjaysnippets3376
    @liltjaysnippets3376 4 роки тому

    Sorry for your loss keep grinding and make sure you and your daughter are alright ❤️⚽

  • @ghettochild389
    @ghettochild389 4 роки тому +26

    I actually remember you g I grew up round you and your bro I never actually hung round with ether of you but I always used to say hello.
    RIP Anthony/BIG nerves

  • @jusavinalookguy5841
    @jusavinalookguy5841 4 роки тому

    Just found your channel today.. really good stories. Real recognise

  • @King-ns6dw
    @King-ns6dw 4 роки тому +1

    Your good bro if you can forgive him, me personally when it comes to stuff like that there is no forgiving. But i take my hat off to you enough respect

  • @JAYHUMBLESMUSIC
    @JAYHUMBLESMUSIC 4 роки тому +2

    just clocked who u are your carly bro well done bro keep doing the positive work

  • @harpalchauhan428
    @harpalchauhan428 4 роки тому

    Shit i could feel the pain in your voice that's some real talk there. 👏👏👏

  • @Zoro3-3
    @Zoro3-3 4 роки тому +1

    My respect for you was already high. Now it’s through the roof

  • @hibaghangs4853
    @hibaghangs4853 4 роки тому +4

    Man can say yeah they respect your change in life and this and that lol.
    But In jail man talk about their charges especially in remand, that’s one of the main things people talk about. ⛽️⛽️⛽️⛽️⛽️⛽️⛽️⛽️⛽️⛽️⛽️⛽️⛽️ don’t try justify it by saying you didn’t know who he was. 🤥🤥🤥🤥🤥🤥🤥Befriending you’re friends killer, nah that could never run 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢 letting it slide is one thing but befriending that person?? Would it be the same if it was your blood brother? Low all the fake chatty patty business 🐍🐍🐍🐍🐍🐍 Wouldn’t be surprised if the snitch rumours are true after hearing this

  • @thedefender8747
    @thedefender8747 4 роки тому +4

    You should b an Up and coming actor in rapman movies

  • @FAZ2917
    @FAZ2917 4 роки тому

    I'm not gonna lie I could never do this, not saying you shouldn't but bro, this would finish my head. I'd feel betrayed by my guys killer and feel like I betrayed my guy. You have some next level will power

  • @KenUbeleveit1
    @KenUbeleveit1 4 роки тому

    I hope you find time to rest. Please don't burn yourself out. You look so tired.

  • @Jim_Bexley_speed
    @Jim_Bexley_speed 4 роки тому

    That's deep man. Sounds like a movie plot

  • @89bristooll55
    @89bristooll55 4 роки тому +9

    Rate this guy 🙌🏽 but eye for eye.. if them guys to to hear them must feel for reaaal

  • @loopis9886
    @loopis9886 4 роки тому +15

    You really should try get talking to Shaun attwood and tell ur story

    • @loopis9886
      @loopis9886 4 роки тому +1

      Stop talking bullshit shaun isn’t racist. He has had people of all races on his show u are just chatting shite.

    • @andycorzine720
      @andycorzine720 4 роки тому

      @@loopis9886 Shaun is defo racist and pretty sure he a nonce aswell

  • @scottrobertson5610
    @scottrobertson5610 4 роки тому +3

    Bro just subscribed 2 your channel keep up gd work them cookies was the 1 in Rochester bro

  • @psgamer3741
    @psgamer3741 4 роки тому

    This guy gonna blow up he just started and mans getting 35k views keep it up

  • @MPezant1215
    @MPezant1215 4 роки тому +3

    yo if you both mic'd up and did lik a sit down interview that would be sick

  • @stanross8235
    @stanross8235 4 роки тому +3

    RIP Nerves amazing story!

  • @djrazer2k12
    @djrazer2k12 4 роки тому +7

    R.I.P nerves!! Jeffrey Chaucer man dem, thoughs was the days

    • @ybuzz
      @ybuzz 4 роки тому

      Hahaha Walworth all day

  • @BGynwa
    @BGynwa 4 роки тому +1

    Feeln ye bro from liverpool be safe my man

  • @antden6218
    @antden6218 4 роки тому

    Goes to show how small the world is. R.I.P Nerves.

  • @whysoserious3100
    @whysoserious3100 4 роки тому

    Iv watched a few videos of yours, all I'm getting from this is even your day 1 wont ride out when you die if they think the guy who killed you is safe.. that's kind of fucked

  • @kamsaleh170
    @kamsaleh170 3 роки тому +1

    Derek chisora a roadman?

  • @giddgamz4361
    @giddgamz4361 4 роки тому

    Mad love big bro, keep with the positive energy 🙌🏿.. also what's your food business called please?, would love to try Congolese food when I'm next about 👊🏿

  • @OFFICIAL_DSR
    @OFFICIAL_DSR 4 роки тому

    You’ve done a lot in 5 years man 💪✌️

  • @millerbruv
    @millerbruv 4 роки тому +12

    somebody put man onto the links to the books please🙏

  • @kranyat2024
    @kranyat2024 4 роки тому

    Respect for You a real g safe brother

  • @raykamal5644
    @raykamal5644 4 роки тому

    Where can I buy your book?

  • @reatlegilemokgatlhe6568
    @reatlegilemokgatlhe6568 4 роки тому

    You're sick bud respect

  • @jamesmcgrath6019
    @jamesmcgrath6019 3 роки тому

    I've really enjoyed your videos and have become almost addicted to them on a daily basis. However I just can't hear this or see your point at all. I'm not saying you have to retaliate but to be cool with him wow.

  • @declanbrookes3432
    @declanbrookes3432 4 роки тому +2

    You can forgive but can never forget

  • @tanishahillman1601
    @tanishahillman1601 4 роки тому

    Keep up the great work 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @abdul.0121
    @abdul.0121 4 роки тому +3

    take ur time u dont have unlimited stories

  • @dylanward3750
    @dylanward3750 2 роки тому

    big up big ego media real street life lessons

  • @ogreavesx
    @ogreavesx 4 роки тому +1

    mad respect bro. wow

  • @AdamsApple1
    @AdamsApple1 4 роки тому +2

    When I saw the title I was like how??? 😱

  • @roisali9255
    @roisali9255 3 роки тому

    This is on destiny you can’t do nothing about it rest in peace

  • @elonar6691
    @elonar6691 4 роки тому

    FRom Australia mad ups bro ❤️❤️

  • @mkodyglobalsouthsoldier
    @mkodyglobalsouthsoldier 4 роки тому +4

    Bless from amsterdam

  • @acemulli3539
    @acemulli3539 4 роки тому

    Consistency is key keep it up bro

  • @smokingwiththepharaohs4037
    @smokingwiththepharaohs4037 4 роки тому +1

    Did you ever tell him that that was your guy like did you confront him about the situation or did you not ever speak again

  • @yeahmanidontknow
    @yeahmanidontknow 4 роки тому +1

    This is really sad.

  • @justacting234
    @justacting234 4 роки тому

    You need to put a link for your book

  • @eastlondon1389
    @eastlondon1389 4 роки тому

    i fw this guy he keeps it 100 whats his socials

  • @ceasaddict2531
    @ceasaddict2531 4 роки тому

    I personally don't know the names of the people you speak about in videos, but I hear you talk about Peckham a lot. Do people watching this from Peckham or even else where, know the people he's talking about? (This isn't sarcasm, I'm curious)

  • @mullet08
    @mullet08 2 роки тому

    Big up to your channel bro 💯 what's your Instagram name?

  • @JayJay-xs4ij
    @JayJay-xs4ij 4 роки тому

    Great story teller 🔥

  • @ccovnottz
    @ccovnottz 4 роки тому

    Fam keep these stories coming my G! You could defo take this UA-cam ting far! 💯👌🏼👊🏼

  • @cykablyat9333
    @cykablyat9333 4 роки тому

    why the fuck are so many people glamorizing this life style. not worth anyone losing their lives over

  • @jeevan8197
    @jeevan8197 4 роки тому

    my new favourite youtuber g

  • @36marl75
    @36marl75 4 роки тому

    Blood u got some crazy lifeb

  • @LloydJamesWu
    @LloydJamesWu 4 роки тому

    Would love a podcast from you. What's the insta?

  • @GP-uu2qe
    @GP-uu2qe 4 роки тому

    It’s a small world we live in

  • @TiboSG
    @TiboSG 4 роки тому

    Youre smart ye the football club... youngers from different gangs...
    Basically u got backers from multiple gangs bruv
    Mad ting

    • @mrRandomvideos1
      @mrRandomvideos1 4 роки тому +8

      i think hes more tryna bring the different yutes together to make them realise this gang shit is a load of bollox you completely missed the point lol man said he doas he so hes backed by gangs smh.

    • @TiboSG
      @TiboSG 4 роки тому

      Iwill Hurtyoubuddy nah ye nah i mean if suttin was ever to happen hes got all the youths backin him from local gangs... hes good ye i kno g

    • @mazzinas5610
      @mazzinas5610 4 роки тому +1

      Hahahahahahahahaha your a doughnut "backers from bare gangs" u Asian patty hahahahahahahaa he does it to get them out from gangs u wallad

  • @freepalestinelonglivegaza9416
    @freepalestinelonglivegaza9416 4 роки тому +1

    Baaaaare love for bein REAL

  • @bermsjerms
    @bermsjerms 4 роки тому

    Same thing happened to fredo bang

  • @hmystery1684
    @hmystery1684 4 роки тому +1

    Could a real brudda plug me with his insta, respect

    • @Shushhhhh
      @Shushhhhh 4 роки тому +2

      It’s @bobbykasanga20 he should put it in the description or suttn

  • @daniellaageh1428
    @daniellaageh1428 4 роки тому

    What’s his socials please?

  • @williamrose3378
    @williamrose3378 4 роки тому

    Good vids mate real guy

  • @my2cents831
    @my2cents831 4 роки тому

    MAKE A PODCAST‼️‼️‼️

  • @Tyler-tc3ct
    @Tyler-tc3ct 4 роки тому +2

    What ur insta @

  • @E_nJs
    @E_nJs 4 роки тому +1

    Bro what's your insta

  • @noblerichosseiberkoh9196
    @noblerichosseiberkoh9196 4 роки тому +1

    Deep ting still. Peace

  • @user-nw1hq5ic1p
    @user-nw1hq5ic1p 4 роки тому +1

    Fam I thought he died when you were on way to football

    • @sonofsoweto
      @sonofsoweto 4 роки тому

      He is congolese

    • @farazh1078
      @farazh1078 4 роки тому

      That was someone else

    • @BigEgoMedia
      @BigEgoMedia  4 роки тому +1

      That was another friend

    • @DontAttme
      @DontAttme 4 роки тому

      randumz randumz that’s how it is

    • @DontAttme
      @DontAttme 4 роки тому

      randumz randumz that’s true for 90%

  • @Tubeyou329
    @Tubeyou329 4 роки тому +1

    Man's high lol

    • @amman3014
      @amman3014 4 роки тому +3

      s k nah he’s been delivering food all over London this past week he’s just tired asf not high 🤣

  • @dolbearrr
    @dolbearrr 4 роки тому

    what's his Instagram? anyone know?

  • @user-rp2tz9lr1m
    @user-rp2tz9lr1m 4 роки тому

    “I’m coming man I’m coming”

  • @J_x2
    @J_x2 4 роки тому

    That’s tough!!

  • @ndh4052
    @ndh4052 4 роки тому

    Where can i get taba whats your instagram

  • @declanbrookes3432
    @declanbrookes3432 4 роки тому +6

    Who else high af rn

  • @noone7461
    @noone7461 4 роки тому

    I guess AC is official

  • @riopowell7369
    @riopowell7369 4 роки тому

    What’s his insta??!