5 Signs Your Crush is Trying To Make You JEALOUS

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  • @kbabin01
    @kbabin01 6 років тому +28

    Yes he flirts with girls at my table at school then looks at me trying to get my attention and to make me jealous

  • @Lorenzo_Rivera
    @Lorenzo_Rivera 7 років тому +249

    Josh, my crush is giving me mixed signals. Some days, she talks to me and really tries to get my attention, then some days she just completely blows me off. When we talk, we always have deep conversations with great eye contact. When we’re across the room from each other, I catch her looking at me. Advice?

    • @Allexmartinez23_
      @Allexmartinez23_ 7 років тому +16

      Lorenzo Rivera approch her when she is not in front of her friends

    • @Allexmartinez23_
      @Allexmartinez23_ 7 років тому +13

      Lorenzo Rivera thats whats happening to me to so i feel u

    • @gtfomaha5876
      @gtfomaha5876 7 років тому +44

      she's playing hard to get

    • @joyfilonczuk8344
      @joyfilonczuk8344 6 років тому +33

      Lorenzo Rivera okay boi she definitely likes you. It is possible she doesn't but it is most likely she likes you. I am a girl so i know... These signs are most commonly signs that a girl is attracted to a guy. Im not sure but im 80% sure. She could be playing hard to get or she's trying to make you jealous. Now go ask her out!! 😉

    • @fazeraid7289
      @fazeraid7289 6 років тому +2

      Lorenzo Rivera Smile While Making Eye Contact so she feels better about you

  • @therandombakingshow9828
    @therandombakingshow9828 5 років тому +160

    So basically I'm going to be single af

    • @felliperamos5620
      @felliperamos5620 5 років тому +2

      the random baking show same

    • @parkbyul8521
      @parkbyul8521 4 роки тому +5

      Don't worry bro me too

    • @andrewcruz7595
      @andrewcruz7595 4 роки тому +1

      The chances of this comment standing the test of time is very unrealistic. You're probably already dating someone else or just moved on .

    • @KingVictor7
      @KingVictor7 4 роки тому +2

      Lol. I'm single AF but I don't care. Actually, I've been planning to stay single forever 😆😎

    • @alreadyknowing9443
      @alreadyknowing9443 2 роки тому +1

      Same all this is just Emotion ,hurt, feelings don't waste your time chase your gold

  • @chamberofprosperity
    @chamberofprosperity 5 років тому +22

    But in the end you still can’t really tell

  • @CodeToadd
    @CodeToadd 7 років тому +45

    Relationships are hard man, I can't seem to get it right, I'm always messing stuff up.

    • @xglichersxd7235
      @xglichersxd7235 7 років тому +1

      CodeToad Relationships can be hard but it’s all about the communication if y’all are being honest and loyal to each other the relationship is already very healthy which means less stress but you will have arguments and times where u feel like y’all want to brake up but if y’all always seem to make up again it’s because the love is real and y’all really have a special connection that’s not worth loosing

  • @the_monstah6378
    @the_monstah6378 4 роки тому +18

    My crush said she was in a relationship that she got going a few days ago. But I know her so incredibly well that it made it sound so ridiculously impossible. I believed it at first. But the more I thought about it, the more I realized it’s less real and actually just a jealousy tactic. Now I’m not saying that if your crush says he or she is dating someone then it’s automatically a jealousy tactic. I’m saying that if you’re crushing over someone that you know too well, like your best friend or something, and it sounds so ridiculously unbelievable then it’s most likely not real.

    • @hp2546
      @hp2546 3 місяці тому +1

      If I were you, I would just say have fun in your relationship and walk out on them. I mean normally, people who wants to be with you is not supposed to be currently in relationship. Remember that person was not your fiance from day 1 which means you should never fall for any manipulation tactics. If I were in that position, I would not waste time fighting for a relationship that isn't mine to begin with. If you are attached, this is how your crush would choose you as an easy target. So smart way is do not even bother playing any of her hard to get games. So it sounds like your crush did make a friend and ended up seeing how boring that relationship with someone else is.

  • @calicoruinseverythinginc.7447
    @calicoruinseverythinginc.7447 5 років тому +7

    I’m not even watching this to find out if he is trying to make me jealous. I know he is. I’m trying to figure out why. He literally goes right in front of me, makes sure I see him, then gets all touchy with another girl. I have no idea why.

    • @XTen1000DaysX
      @XTen1000DaysX Рік тому +1

      to make u want him and fight for him. Although thats weak mentality, you should ignore him if he did that.

  • @lovespread6489
    @lovespread6489 7 років тому +72

    *But that moment when your crush and your best friend know both that you're in love with him but date eachother and don't give a damn about you.. So now I'm moving on, is it the right thing to do?*

    • @joyfilonczuk8344
      @joyfilonczuk8344 6 років тому

      ayah lahrichi either move on or wait for them to break up

    • @joyfilonczuk8344
      @joyfilonczuk8344 6 років тому +3

      ayah lahrichi btw sorry that sucks it happened to me

    • @irenenj
      @irenenj 5 років тому +3

      They’re monsters that hurts

    • @onlyhuman5669
      @onlyhuman5669 4 роки тому

      I'm sorry for you :(

    • @lovespread6489
      @lovespread6489 4 роки тому

      @@onlyhuman5669 just got this notification and i cant believe i wrote this comment like 2 years ago ahhahah im totally over that and i can tell u that's when my spiritual awakening started lmao much love!

  • @playstar2727
    @playstar2727 6 років тому +15

    It turns out my crush actually liked me not too long ago (I realised how obvious it was), but I’m not sure if they do now. Their behaviour has changed a lot and I have to approach all the time vs them approaching 50% of the time

  • @PeachyLiv
    @PeachyLiv 7 років тому +128

    Perfect timing! Do u remember that easy-going guy that I like who's only shy around me? We've been friendzoning each other for almost a year even tho we both knew we liked eachother. But lately i've been hanging a lot with my guy bestfriend (I don't usually hang around with a boy) a few days ago my crush uploaded an instastory Which showed a blank screen with a song playing about "you are a Flower.. blablabla" and someone tagged on it (a junior at my school) it really crushed me bcs just a week ago he bought me icecream, we talked & flirted as usual.. do u think he's doing that bcs he's finally moving on from me? Or is he just trying to make me jealous by pretending he's into other girls?.. what should I do bcs I cant bear seeing him at school.. or that junior..

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  7 років тому +7

      +Peachy Liv hey, I'm sorry to hear that happened. It always sucks seeing a crush showing interest in someone else. It's possible that he may still be viewing his options for who he likes. I think if you do eant to build something with him, it's important to start moving things away from the friend zone. You can always try flirting with him or even asking him to go on a more romantic type of hangout like getting food together or spending a day at the park. Anything where you two can really connect mighy help him start to see you differently. If he's not up for it, then it's possible he does like this other girl and in that case it may mean working on moving on at least for now.

    • @PeachyLiv
      @PeachyLiv 7 років тому +2

      Thanks again for the advice, ur the best!

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  7 років тому +2

      +Peachy Liv no problem, good luck!

    • @playstar2727
      @playstar2727 6 років тому +2

      Peachy Liv I’m almost certain he still likes you

    • @ELdASenSei
      @ELdASenSei 5 років тому +1

      Any updates on this?

  • @nv3tter
    @nv3tter 6 років тому +25

    Going through this right now and don't even want to go back to work :(

  • @woollimonly3631
    @woollimonly3631 6 років тому +6

    Lately my crush behaviour just strange.before,he never even tried to talk to me and now he is the one approaching me.i even caught him staring at me.
    One day,i was talking with my guy classmate about homework and we're sitting sitting next to each other.then he suddenly interrupted by calling the guy's name.
    I don't know anymore.he gives me so many mixed signals,like sometimes he seems to ignore my presence

    • @badosinghi1762
      @badosinghi1762 6 років тому +2

      same

    • @s.h9325
      @s.h9325 5 років тому +1

      Girl he likes you.. Hes just jealous and wants to make u jealous too.. Go get him

  • @joystick396
    @joystick396 6 років тому +7

    It’s really hard to listen to you say don’t give up with the second path because my crush and I had a situation this past weekend where she was bluntly trying to make jealous (it wasn’t in my head because she was flirting and touching this one guy only when I was around and she would look right at me and stand in front of me) I got so annoyed that I purposely ghosted her for the rest of the night and am still ignoring her. It’s not that I gave up, I just genuinely don’t like her now

  • @ethanolol3895
    @ethanolol3895 7 років тому +52

    There was a bug on your wall behind you. I thought it was a dot then it moved and i wen tlike O_o

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  7 років тому +9

      +TushBag Darza oh snap, I'm gonna rewatch the video now to see

    • @jansley4
      @jansley4 4 роки тому +1

      🤣🤣🤣

  • @lithjade5986
    @lithjade5986 6 років тому +8

    One time, my friend sat between me and my crush when we were watching a movie even tho she knows i like him. I notice her sooo close to him so i move somewhere else and ask her to sit with me but she said she doesnt want to...
    I got kindda jelouse tbh

  • @Manuzoka1996
    @Manuzoka1996 3 роки тому +4

    There's a 3th path! Inducing jealousy DESTROYS ANY trust and your "The only one" feeling. It becomes hell...
    Just walk away and look for mature ones instead. ;)

  • @JayJay-iu2yp
    @JayJay-iu2yp 7 років тому +17

    I've been having this problem with this one girl at my school. So for the first year of highschool we were really good friends and we hung out a lot. Than we didn't talk for the whole summer and she's avoiding me all of a sudden. I have no idea what it means and I need a little help.

    • @zaviera_7547
      @zaviera_7547 4 роки тому

      She isn't interested in you. Move on

  • @Desire-ey2tj
    @Desire-ey2tj 7 років тому +11

    My crush seems to be trying to make me feel jealous by talking and hugging other girls, we used to talk a lot in 7 grade but since we promoted to 8 grade we stopped talking, hugging or even looking at each other, well I didn't stop looking at him, every time I tried to talk to him he would ignore me, I don't know why?

  • @jackmarlow4355
    @jackmarlow4355 7 років тому +32

    You're a freaking genius... I saw her talking to her ex and she asked my friend if I was jealous about it and my friend said yes to her but then she said they're just friends (I'm talking to her more often and we have normal conversations. She obviously isn't bothered that I like her so). She know I like her so I'm asking her out to homecoming tomorrow with flowers and a poster (I gotta a plan). We talked on Instagram so you may remember me.

    • @plugshawty214
      @plugshawty214 7 років тому +2

      Hey guys read this and I hope you can help: So back in 8th grade there was this girl I really liked but only thought of me as a friend fastfoward to high school. So a couple days later i find a girl that looks like MY CRUSHES twin and they look exactly alike. But I am a freshman and theres only around 50 freshmans in my school and shes not one of them which means shes older then me. During lunch I see her walking around the hall and I only see her like one or twice every week and shes walking alone so when I see her I have to make a move. BUT I REALLY NEED HELP ON HOW TO APPROACH HER. AND WHEN I APPROACH HER WHAT DO I SAY ?? And if asks bout my grade do i lie or not ?And I really tryin to do this so I can get her number so i can talk to her. AND ALL TIMES OF MY DAY I CANT Stop Thinking about her because she reminds me of my old crush Someone please help!

    • @LegoGamer5502
      @LegoGamer5502 6 років тому

      So whats happening now that its 5 months later? Did it turn out ok

    • @Tayd0g
      @Tayd0g 2 роки тому

      How’d it go?

  • @ksubsWithvideos-fn4tu
    @ksubsWithvideos-fn4tu 5 років тому +5

    My crush making me mad saying she got a boyfriend hating me and I told her stop and I have anger issues and I don’t wanna hurt her honestly

  • @nihongochopsocky808
    @nihongochopsocky808 6 років тому +11

    I experience this alot.Dangerous grounds cuz I thinking they lost interest or they weren't into me.Its best to be straight up.

  • @Snowballs-uy2vx
    @Snowballs-uy2vx 5 років тому +4

    Someone help!!
    So my crush always says in front of me is “I need a girlfriend” or “I have so many hoes” and even “ wow I have so many girls talking to me right now” is he purposely trying to make me jealous

    • @nopeii6569
      @nopeii6569 4 роки тому

      Your crush is trying to see a reaction from u

  • @divine8223
    @divine8223 7 років тому +23

    I need help on talking to a girl.please! I really do need to talk to girls. So many girls want me to talk to then but I'm to shy to even look at them. Any advice is helpful

    • @expireeggplant3136
      @expireeggplant3136 7 років тому

      Alfred Montes
      Go talk to them

    • @divine8223
      @divine8223 7 років тому +1

      TheSociallyAwkwardLamp I try but my mind keeps telling me " walk away "

    • @Brandon-xq6vw
      @Brandon-xq6vw 7 років тому +1

      Alfred Montes
      You need to just do it. I remember asking my crush for her number and i was nervous as hell. But after knowing I wouldn’t be able to do it I did it and it worked out. Be confident in talking to girls.

    • @divine8223
      @divine8223 7 років тому +1

      Orange Hoodie Guy thank you so much. I appreciate. I'll talk to my crush. Thanks guys

    • @kylaholland3742
      @kylaholland3742 7 років тому

      Try to get to know her friendly first! Pay her a compliment and start a conversation! Otherwise you'd be stuck staring from afar. If girls are coming up to you, that means they like something about you. Otherwise the girls wouldn't care to pay you attention. In that sense you won't find much of a problem about loyalty, only if they like you the same way you like them. But it's your opinion then if you want to be with a girl who is confident or shy. Both have benefits. How hard you try and how long you try to know the girl depends on that decision. Good luck! 🍀

  • @ricardofernandez6005
    @ricardofernandez6005 7 років тому +12

    Like when i was talking to a consulor my crish just bugded in our conversation then looked at me and smiled and left and i got mad.

  • @marlaeagle7451
    @marlaeagle7451 5 років тому +4

    i tried to make my crush jealous once by telling him i had a crush on this particular guy(who is not my crush) and he acted weirdly and that evening he showed me his new crush. what do i do now?

    • @MichelleChoe
      @MichelleChoe 5 років тому +2

      Just start with saying “lovin the single life”

    • @MichelleChoe
      @MichelleChoe 5 років тому

      If he says “same”

    • @MichelleChoe
      @MichelleChoe 5 років тому

      Say plz help me find a mannnn😂

  • @ifyourespondyourmad.2409
    @ifyourespondyourmad.2409 3 роки тому +13

    This is true. In highschool their was a girl that I checked out alot. And one of my friends told her that I checked her out, but she never asked me or confronted me about it. At first I thought she would think I was weird and would avoid me alot. But it didn't seem to bother her either. I think she liked the fact that I checked her out. Cause she would sometimes knowingly walk in front of me with short shorts. And the few times I came near her, she smiled. But one day i started checking some other girl out abd she noticed cause she caught me staring at her. And she heard me talking to my friend abt how hot the other girl was. And she soon made that girl her friend, even though they never even interacted. I feel like it was her way of stoping me from shooting my shot with that girl. Cause from their on, she never even let her walk alone when we got out of class. Therefore leaving me with no time to shoot my shot.

  • @codslayer125
    @codslayer125 7 років тому +6

    Wow I fucked up bad 💀😂

  • @samrojas7631
    @samrojas7631 7 років тому +34

    Hey I love your videos

    • @samrojas7631
      @samrojas7631 7 років тому +3

      Thanks for the heart i appreciate it

  • @gemmajowett610
    @gemmajowett610 6 років тому +5

    but what if u can't date tho

  • @cohantorres223
    @cohantorres223 7 років тому +1

    what if you like your crush and your crush likes you.But u cant talk to them

  • @Bubbatiana
    @Bubbatiana 5 років тому +6

    I need an answer.
    So I have a crush (it’s a boy) we talk sometimes and he always gives eye contact and we have really deep conversations, I also catch him staring at me ALOT! but then sometimes he doesn’t even talk to me and he starts talking to my friend..so I don’t know if he likes me anymore and is starting to crush on my friend. Anyone have any advice?

    • @fatmata141
      @fatmata141 5 років тому +2

      Sadie Gillespie he probably likes you

  • @ibrahimsylla8388
    @ibrahimsylla8388 5 років тому +5

    3:08 this is exacly what happened to me i swear!!!!! She want my attention but i ain't responding. So she decided to flirt with someone else in front of me

  • @victoriacondello2315
    @victoriacondello2315 4 роки тому +2

    My crush was like flirting with someone while I was with them he talked to me a little but then he full on ignored me like I didn't exist and I think was trying to make me jealous I don't know then I was like "it's like I didn't exist" and he said I could stay but I said "no if you wanted to be alone you could of said something" and that was it ..he stopped doing it in front of me what do I do

  • @sebby19
    @sebby19 5 років тому +3

    My crush has a gf... And I don't know if he is trying to make me jealous or is he being serious? should I give up? or not? Idk what to do someone help me please..

    • @meili5005
      @meili5005 4 роки тому

      Lollipop XCake when someone is taken hop off

    • @user-cs7yd7cv2t
      @user-cs7yd7cv2t 4 роки тому +1

      @???Q oops sorry I replied to the wrong comment 😂😂💔💔plus I don't date because I'm a Muslim ☻ and people around me are Muslims too so yeah

  • @random_user2050
    @random_user2050 6 років тому +1

    my crush is hugging my female friends, bugs everytime when I chat with them. He stares me down when I chat with two guy friends, I do not know If he is jealous or just wants to quit our friendship.

  • @itsyeboizander8535
    @itsyeboizander8535 7 років тому +48

    My friend and my crushes friend say That me and my crush are a perfect match

  • @why-pl5he
    @why-pl5he 5 років тому +1

    I'm really confused, my crush doesn't pay attention to me but sometimes when I talk to him, he laughs and blushing kinda? He seems nervous but afterall, he doesn't talk to me at all, he tries to stay away from me idk why he confused me more than math :/

  • @realnito
    @realnito 7 років тому +36

    My crush has a bf but i heard she gonna break up with her cause he doesn't give her attention but i stared talking to her on Monday like a real conversation i talked to her before on 1st day of school and now and then but imma talk to her everyday i talked to her monday and today it ill i win her

    • @xglichersxd7235
      @xglichersxd7235 7 років тому +2

      U doing good just keep trying to make her become comfortable with u then try to be more flirtatious

    • @realnito
      @realnito 7 років тому

      XglichersXD ok ty

    • @GitHubStiizz
      @GitHubStiizz 7 років тому

      Juan HD dude I was in the same exact situation but me and this girl were a little bit more than flirting anyways it sucks dude cuz she'll probably just stay with her BF and stick with you too cus you're giving here the attention she wants from her bf. She can be saying that she'll break up with him just to bring in someone else to grab attention from

    • @LegoGamer5502
      @LegoGamer5502 6 років тому +2

      This is 5 months later... Did you get your crush?

  • @kenzieh9927
    @kenzieh9927 6 років тому

    My crush always talks about girls that told him they liked him, that he didn’t like, and I’m like DUDE!! Are you trying to make me jealous!?!? Or telling me not to tell you!

  • @sudharsan505
    @sudharsan505 5 років тому +15

    Yo this dude is taking me as an example
    Literally everything he said happened to me lol

  • @kenz649
    @kenz649 6 років тому +2

    I feel like this boy try's to make me jealous because when we hang out we will play fight but when he hits me hard and he knows that he puts his arm around me to try to make me feel better but when someone asks who is single and who isn't he says he has a girlfriend but when I ask his friends and the girl they say he is single
    Sorry for not spelling some stuff correct I just am not good with words and spellings

  • @alexisarianna940
    @alexisarianna940 4 роки тому +20

    My crush KNOWS I like him but he still talks about how hot or cute other girls are in front of me😒 smh

    • @duck8049
      @duck8049 4 роки тому

      LMAO mood. Like hell talk to me about all of these other girls he’s into and all that but then ask me questions about myself like- 🗿

    • @starsaber9631
      @starsaber9631 8 місяців тому

      How rude

  • @megablademe4930
    @megablademe4930 6 років тому

    Oh boy!So,there is this girl I am really good friends with.A week ago she broke up with her boyfriend,and since then she started to argue and,only when I am around she goes to other people and shout “Hi X” and start talking so I can hear it.She also literally comes in front of me and starts flirting with some other friend of mine and she acts friendly with my friends only when I am with them.

  • @munamahmud8224
    @munamahmud8224 4 роки тому

    Help me? Today in french class,we have like the a table and 4 people each sit on one long table. My crush sits on the row before me and we got our exams, he asked EVERY girl literally everyone how their exam was and literally laughed with them. He was like asking everyone in a row. He was like "what do you have" "and you?" "What about you?" And he wasnt even close with the girls. And then the last one in the table was me he didnt asked. He looked at me then looked back again. Like? Hello? Am i nothing? Only because im shy? I hate this guy so much in trying to forget him

  • @saltylevers8522
    @saltylevers8522 4 роки тому

    My crush used to flirt with me all the time but recently he started flirting with another girl. Sometimes he still acts like he likes me, but whenever the other girl is around he obsesses over her. Help!!! ;-;

  • @jotarokujo2780
    @jotarokujo2780 Рік тому

    guys if a girl is trying to make me jealous by talking to my bestfriend way too much does she means she is trying to make me jealous

  • @MAJA-wb2oc
    @MAJA-wb2oc 6 років тому +5

    Today my crush made me jealous he was looking at me and thinking I am going to be jealous but I did today is my first day hearing hims voice!!! The voice is soooooo cuttte but tomorrow I guess my friend is gonna tell him I like him cuz I can't he doesn't even know me so I'm little bit nervous but I hope it will be a good day!!! I'm gonna like my comment cuz nobody will

  • @rajahpoonyth8446
    @rajahpoonyth8446 5 років тому +1

    I can't approach my crush....I'm so scared....the more I put in my mind that yeah tomorrow ima ask her out but in reality everytime I see her I a try my best to hide from her...what do I do?

    • @lukester102d6
      @lukester102d6 5 років тому

      Rajah Poonyth Work out, get super buff, and then make it seem like your too busy for the ladies.

  • @D1koq
    @D1koq Рік тому

    My crush is talking to my friend. I tried to ignore him at a party I went to but he kept looking at me answer smirking at me. He talked to me when I walked in. He never answers my calls.

    • @hp2546
      @hp2546 5 місяців тому

      Don't even try to make excuses for them. Already why isn't your friend trying to defend you from your crush's mind games? You need to expect that your friend may be tempted to play mind games with your crush. Ask yourself this question. Why do you even have a hard to ignoring them? That is because part of you will defend your friend. Your crush is trying to manipulate you into creating a scene and wanted you to confront your friend out of anger. Don't even think about defending your friend. If you defend your friend, you defend your crush. Just settle for solitude life if you have to. You don't want to end up staying with your friend out of peer pressure. You need to show that you are not desperate to keep the friendship. If you are desperate, your friend can work with your crush to play mind games on you.

    • @D1koq
      @D1koq 4 місяці тому

      @@hp2546 Thanks! So much has happened he’s had a whole girlfriend that he broke up with and we think he might have feelings for me

    • @hp2546
      @hp2546 3 місяці тому

      @@D1koq Sounds like your crush's mind game backfired. That is what he gets when he gets into a relationship for showing off. Whoever your crush is with, he needs to commit to it. Otherwise, if he uses his gf and wanted to cheat on his gf, they don't have a good relationship. That is why your crush felt miserable on his current relationship. Your crush did not even think about making a relationship work.

  • @miriamcosta9937
    @miriamcosta9937 4 роки тому

    I’ve had a crush on a guy for 3 years, he has rejected me 3 times. However lately he’s been trying to talk to me and get close to me, he sends alot of mixed signals, he says he just wants to be friends but then when we hang out with our group of friends and I’m not there he gets upset and tells his best friend and texts me saying that he got upset because I was there and he wanted me there. Nowadays we talk alot more like everyday, he considers me as a girl best friend but flirts me and gets pissed and jealous when I speak to other guys. Recently, he started saying that he was gonna text a mutual friend of ours ‘hey’ after him not speaking to her for so long and I told him not to and said that he wouldn’t do it but he went ahead and texted and I got mad, my best friend said that he did that to get a reaction from me. Could he actually like me or is he just trying to mess with me?

  • @wewogaming1153
    @wewogaming1153 7 років тому +1

    This video released at the right time...got me thinking now

  • @yourfather5324
    @yourfather5324 4 роки тому +2

    Me and my crush both like each other and are best friends we hang out with each other everyday at school and a couple of days ago she posted an insta story showing another guy at her house, she knows I hate that guy she was with and he was painting her nails, I threatened him( I shouldn’t have done it), then he told her and now she won’t talk to me and she literally posted another story today, literally the exact same thing, the same guy at her house painting her nails again

  • @LeonardoDelacruz-dq7im
    @LeonardoDelacruz-dq7im 4 місяці тому

    I give up too, its still hurts but whatever, Im just gonna let them go.

  • @brianasantos7090
    @brianasantos7090 5 років тому +1

    My crush Has a girl, but i started to cry because he told me that he kissed her, knowing that i like him but he likes me back at that point i felt like someone had punched me in the stomach And i just wanted to leave but i couldn’t so i just turned away and when i got home i was crying so much😭😭😭😭😭

  • @maxbernabe2803
    @maxbernabe2803 5 днів тому

    @4:11 Josh I don't know if you'll ever read this comment or ever take the time to reply but I think this what's happening with me. My crush knows I like her and throughout the time of getting to know each other, she has flirted with me a couple of times. (Idk if these were "signals" she was sending me to make a move) .But I never really made a move by asking her out or flirting back because I'm scared, the last time I showed interest I looked so desperate that I scared her away, so I just try to keep it cool and try not to look desperat and be mysterious . But today at work she flirted with a guy infront of me to make me jealous and my jealousy was sooooo obvious. She even ask him to go to lunch together in front of me. Basically I don't know if she's just toying with me or she wants me to pursue her and make a move. 😢 Please help.
    Edit:Even if I try to talk her,when this other guy is working, they're basically always together.This guy already knows alot more about her. And yes he's also interested and I'm pretty sure she knows it too.

    • @maxbernabe2803
      @maxbernabe2803 5 днів тому

      One last thing to add. The few moments we did talk to each other I felt that there was always a connection/spark and I think she felt it too.

    • @hp2546
      @hp2546 День тому

      Look at the situation you are in. Your crush is already making you want to become extrovert. This meant you had already made it clear to her you like her. You showed attachment to her. If you have habits of making it obvious you are interested, any crush have a choice of either walking out on you if she don't like you. Or if they like you but also want to go out with other men, she can use you as a rebound by putting you in line as a rebound. I mean originally, you wanted to stay quiet about it and remain mysterious and then when she flirts with a guy in front of you, you were tempted to compete with that guy. If you compete, the days of you staying mysterious is over. If you compete, you will expose yourself. The reason why your crush knows you like her is because you were competing against another guy to have her. If you are going to stay mysterious, you don't ever show signs of desperation. If you play this game, this is how your crush knows. If you get jealous easily, the days of you being introvert is over. When she knows you wanted to confess, this is how your crush can take advantage of you. If your crush plays hard to get games, do not invest.

  • @woobuh2762
    @woobuh2762 5 років тому

    Idk if she likes me, looks at me in class, I catch her, looks away. Sometimes I’m talking to her, end the conversation then I see her look at me in the eye if I’m not looking at her. Idk if she likes somebody else. I think she does, how would I be able to tell? I get jealous when she talks to this dude and looks at him gracefully. I just wanna know bc feeling jealous isn’t very good for me. Sometimes I don’t rlly talk to her. I’ve known her for 6 years almost 7. Plz respond

  • @Papertoiletx
    @Papertoiletx 6 років тому

    This guy is telling me if the girls given me the silent treatment it means go for gold and if she peppers sprays you that means she don't want you looking at any other girl.

  • @TorrieHalz3
    @TorrieHalz3 7 років тому +7

    A guy I like is on Tinder, but both him and his friends tell me that it's "just for fun." He always brings it up to me, telling me he's going to "check his Tinder" and sometimes he makes sure I watch him and kinda talks me through it. It makes me uncomfortable that he's looking through these photos of girls and maybe striking up conversations with them...I'm worried that I'm in such a deep friendzone that he isn't shy in showing me this.

  • @biakii7009
    @biakii7009 6 років тому

    My crush friend once told me in March to say 143 to him. We met in a Whatsapp group. i texted him first in Instagram too. and one day he was like "Did you save my mobile number? i really want to increase the viewers of my status" and when we chat it's usually about questioning me about girls he's texting. eg: should i text her,she is like that/like this and i'm really confused. he doesn't even tell her name.i'm confused please help!

  • @reginawoess4928
    @reginawoess4928 4 роки тому

    Went back to see my ex and the second night his new gf kept calling and he said shes trying to keep us from being intimate. Was he trying to make me jealous or her??

  • @hoodiegirl2458
    @hoodiegirl2458 6 років тому +2

    I blew it with my crush I will never get the chance again to go out with him I'm so sad and nobody understands !!!!!!!!!

    • @felliperamos5620
      @felliperamos5620 5 років тому +2

      hoodie girl don’t worry buddy, you’ll definitely find someone better I promise

  • @maiklsav3459
    @maiklsav3459 6 років тому

    I hope you see the comment , i am no contact more than 3 mounths.She was trying to make me jealous on first mounth it didn't worked.Now,she came back in town and she is trying the same.What can i do about it?

  • @yubin1744
    @yubin1744 4 роки тому

    I need help the person eho has a crush on me is super mad cuz i was talking to her friends instead of her. Help what do i do

  • @caseyburnet
    @caseyburnet 6 років тому

    I've been trying to get something going with a woman for the past year or more, and it's been getting better and better, but now I get the impression she is using her boyfriend to make me jealous. In fact, I get the impression she got a boyfriend period, to make me jealous. I knew she wanted to ask me out for a long time, but in the middle of that she got a boyfriend. She does flirtatious things to me and drops hints that she likes me like all the freaking time, but now I have to wait for some mysterious plan of hers to unravel. Sigh.

  • @RinisAnimeVideos
    @RinisAnimeVideos 6 років тому

    My crush only sent me emojis for 2 days because I put up on my story "Movie dates" then later on showed that I was with my best friend. He sends me conversations with other girls and he's never asked me for innopropriate pics, which he normally asks girls. He wants to meet me some time and him and I always have deep conversations and have funny moments.

  • @roachdoggjr4285
    @roachdoggjr4285 3 роки тому +1

    Ahahahhah my crush did a jealousy tactic on me 2 weeks ago and now she is interested to talk to me again xD

  • @megtheegg5357
    @megtheegg5357 3 роки тому

    I was at school and I looked over at my crush he was touching her face and laughing at her jokes while stareing deeply into my eyes I didn't know how to react so I just sat there feeling weird

  • @olgacroft7420
    @olgacroft7420 7 років тому +10

    So..my crush is shipping me with someone else, but I learned that they liked me in the past and I don't want to give up. I told them I liked them and they didn't rejecy me, but they didn't like me back.. Now he doesn't like me but he liked me once and I think if I try I can do it but, I think of trying to get over them...idk what to do..I'm too deeply in love with them and I think I can do it. Josh can you make a video about this? Well idk how you can do it but I'm just saying.. And they are a very close friend of mine and we rrally match too...idk what else to explain but can anyone tell me what do I do?

    • @plugshawty214
      @plugshawty214 7 років тому

      Hey guys read this and I hope you can help: So back in 8th grade there was this girl I really liked but only thought of me as a friend fastfoward to high school. So a couple days later i find a girl that looks like MY CRUSHES twin and they look exactly alike. But I am a freshman and theres only around 50 freshmans in my school and shes not one of them which means shes older then me. During lunch I see her walking around the hall and I only see her like one or twice every week and shes walking alone so when I see her I have to make a move. BUT I REALLY NEED HELP ON HOW TO APPROACH HER. AND WHEN I APPROACH HER WHAT DO I SAY ?? And if asks bout my grade do i lie or not ?And I really tryin to do this so I can get her number so i can talk to her. AND ALL TIMES OF MY DAY I CANT Stop Thinking about her because she reminds me of my old crush Someone please help!

  • @amandabriones3707
    @amandabriones3707 6 років тому

    A guy told me he loved me, but the next day he has a girlfriend. Keep in mind we were talking the past few days. I still like but I don’t know if he still likes me. He talk about her to me all the time, so I’m really confused and don’t know what to do. Advice?

  • @YoungSneaky__
    @YoungSneaky__ 4 роки тому

    This is actually what happens with me she keeps looking at me tells me to sit by her and keeps asking me who she likes

  • @RajuGupta-zf3ue
    @RajuGupta-zf3ue 6 років тому +1

    What if she blocked me?

  • @jaydabot2661
    @jaydabot2661 5 років тому

    Alright but what if she starts dating ur friend and acts like everything u just said i...I... Don't know what to do

  • @meowlo_
    @meowlo_ 6 років тому

    What if my "best friend" is always talking to my crush and she likes him. Also she told someone who my crush is, what should I do? I'm scared.

  • @nosound__1236
    @nosound__1236 6 років тому

    My crush annoyed one of my friend and calling her skinny girl all the time. My bestfriend told me that my crush may be like her and also he looked my bestfriend's homework. Is he trying to make me jealous???or he like them im confuse and little heart break

  • @arichoffmann6241
    @arichoffmann6241 2 роки тому

    There a girl I met at dance club last night was invited by my male friend to join us for fun. Few hours past by, she chose to kissed me in front of him since she knew my male friend like her. He got very jealous watched 2 of her friends kissing each other. We made him uncomfortable and awkward to talk with us after the kiss

  • @apap4872
    @apap4872 6 років тому

    i have a crush and he showed me that he likes me before, he even gave me a gift at the end of the semester
    asking me for my recorded songs or if can i sketch him but i showed that i'm not really into relationships and i am single for almost 2 years because of my priorities. he then had a girlfriend who's also our classmate. my friends told me that he keeps on looking at me. do you think that he still like me? i don't know why i felt jealous and i kept thinking about him but i dont really want to fall for him.priorities first

  • @xmissxmi3eryx
    @xmissxmi3eryx 4 роки тому

    I don't get it...
    I like this guy, he's my neighbor.
    Me, him and his friends were talking the whole day. After hours when I gave my number to his friend he started talking about this girl. But he doesn't see I like him, not his friends...

  • @robsyhood
    @robsyhood 4 роки тому

    my crush told me i was just his friend so I was like okay. then i screenshotted a convo between my favorite senior (which is a guy) and he got all protective like "why do you text him" or "why do you save his number" and "why do you save his number with emojis". gosh 😩

  • @Ivefuckedbitches-hu5qe
    @Ivefuckedbitches-hu5qe 6 років тому

    wait he's making me jealous......I always think about giving up on him because he does these things...and I know he's not trying to only talk to other girls or flirt with them because he told me he liked me.....I finally know that he's making me jealous......you have no idea how much I've cried thinking he hated me......

  • @arthur7814
    @arthur7814 4 роки тому

    Can someone pls help me , so I met someone on snapchat, she said in a snap should you ask me out, I said ofc and more things , she searched me up on instagram without i knowing and followed me , now she dont send any messages anymore or everyday 1 snap , she still nice if I answer but her snapscore increases like with 600in a day

  • @itsurboy99-theking55
    @itsurboy99-theking55 6 років тому

    So i asked my crush and asked her what she was doing, she said, waiting for my friend, i said really, she said yeah "Hes bringing me food" and she knows i really like her, is she trying to make me jealous?

  • @Amyfroud1991
    @Amyfroud1991 6 років тому

    My crush told me he liked me talked for about 2 weeks but about for a week he's stopped talking to me and stopped uploading Snapchat stories and stopped using Facebook to. Both told each other we liked each other as well

  • @mlvso
    @mlvso 5 років тому

    so today i was hanging out with my friend and i was holding her arm leading her to where i was going and my crush saw but we arent talking, but she saw it happen and so later i as going to get my lil bear and she walked infront of me holding another persons hand, is that opposed as a comeback to me

  • @javierlizarraga6539
    @javierlizarraga6539 3 роки тому +5

    There was this girl at Costco who was a pretty good 7 and I would kinda go up to her to joke around and several times she would immediate start flirting with someone else and I would play it off. It happened about 3 times and I got annoyed and started ignoring her. And one day I was looking at shoes and she straight up came up to me like kissing up to me. What's that about? It's like I showed a bit interest then she sorta ignored me and I said f this b but then later on she's like heyy... Don't get it

    • @alreadyknowing9443
      @alreadyknowing9443 2 роки тому

      She want to seek your attention don't be a simp n when u stop pay no mind that she gonna try to Flirt with some else to see u chase her again she playing games move on gold I'm going through this RN

  • @FunEntertainment04
    @FunEntertainment04 6 років тому +3

    a guy i like invited me to hangout in a group last week. when we meet, everything was good. after 10minutes, i felt dry. then his female friend came and everything changed. he looked excited to talked with the girl than me. i tried to build my own world, keeping me busy chated with others friend. and he asked me "are u chat? what made u laugh?". he showed the girl about his cat, then when i am busy chating he said "this is my cat, wuri." and i said "i dont like cat" then back to my ponsel. i saw him looked rejected by me. then he said "join us, u looked bored" and i said "yes i am bored but its ok, i am chatting".
    honestly, i dont understand why he invited me hangout then busy talking with other girl??😕

  • @ashdoodge4325
    @ashdoodge4325 5 років тому

    My crush got a gf literally the day he told people he liked me back, that was 2 weeks ago, one of his friends told me secretly that he said he's just trying to see if I get mad or jealous BC he don't believe I like him . Idk if I should believe him.

  • @mariellezougheib3148
    @mariellezougheib3148 4 роки тому

    Guys help, im talking to a guy, we flirt ALOT, we really have fun talking together, we be talking about anything and out of nowhere he says ily (maybe overreacting idk), he replies right away, im getting alot of signs, but today i asked him like hey do u have a crush on someone ( kinda random question to ask but i didn't wanna make the convo boring) first he said no, then after a couple of min he said, actually i am nervous to see this girl next week (we're both going to the same party) i was like oh, so u do have a crush, he said idk kinda she isn't a crush yet she isn't a normal person in my life, i felt hurt for some reason, why is he doing this, he's giving me so much love, is he trying to make me jealous? Plus today his friend saw my picture in his contacts and was like oh who's this is she interested? He texted me and asked with this emoji 🙄, i said no im not interested, he said okayyyyy:))). Am i overreacting? Then after he talked about thid girl i was so mad that i asked him Bout his friends instagram, then he said oh, he told me if u said no to not give u his name and he made me swear no to ( I was like okay... That's sketchy)then i told him okayyy nvmur friend's weird. AND THEN HE LAUGHS IT OFF AND SAYS ILY WTF WHY IS HE DOING THIS HELP IK IT'S A LONG ASS PRG BUT I NEED HELP

  • @manneredgrain2183
    @manneredgrain2183 7 років тому

    What does it mean when your crush tells you fight me then playfully even though you never talked to them and they get into your conversation lots of times

  • @jessebotello3617
    @jessebotello3617 7 років тому +1

    You deserve more subs Josh

  • @ChristopherLuna.
    @ChristopherLuna. 7 років тому

    I wanna know how to win my crush back I chose not to date her and my best friend stabbed me in my back and is going out with her so I'm feeling depressed,
    And she smiles whenever I make a stupid joke but she acts like she hates me does she still like me or did I make a mistake

    • @darkmatter9487
      @darkmatter9487 7 років тому

      Chris the gamer You messed up, that's if your best friend is going out with her. If not then try talking to her more and getting comfortable

  • @dietwater9772
    @dietwater9772 7 років тому

    Hey josh, unrelated to the video, but over the weekend, the parents of one of my best friends were on vacation away from him and his brother. Well the vacation they decided to go on for the celebration they had was to a country concert, specifically Jason Aldean in Las Vegas. During the concert, as we all know, a man named Steven Paddock opened fire on the crowd, injuring over 500 and killing 59. During the shooting, my friends parents were separated, and my friends dad's condition was unknown, thus my friend wasnt at school on Monday but at around 11:00 this morning, (Tuesday) my friends dad was the 58th confirmed death of the shooting. We live on the east coast, and my friend was taken to Vegas because his mom was still there. We dont expect him back at school for at least a week, but when he does get back, I feel like he's going to be weird, and while I dont plan on being a therapist, I feel like holding a regular conversation will be hard to do in some way, what should I do?

    • @MinerVaiken
      @MinerVaiken 7 років тому +2

      Diet Water I say you should talk normally with him. If something traumatic like that happened to you, you wouldnt want your friends to abandon you and not talk anymore.

    • @krisgrafili6780
      @krisgrafili6780 7 років тому

      Minercommand212 Great reply sir!

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  7 років тому

      +Diet Water hey, I am so terribly sorry that that happened. It's such a tragic event to hear about but when it involves someone you know it becomes even more tragic. I'm sure your friend is going through a whirlwind of feelings right now, there's no easy way to process an experience like this, and I'm sure for you it's hard to even imagine what "going back to normal" means for you and him. I recently watched a video by Kati Morton on processing PTSD over the Las Vegas shooting which might help you understand how to cope with it and might help your friend as well. ua-cam.com/video/Wh4pOzASgfU/v-deo.html
      If you ever want to talk about it privately you can always message me on Instagram or Snapchat @thejoshspeaks. I'm here for you and I hope we can all work through this horrific experience together.

  • @rhondaalazzawi5259
    @rhondaalazzawi5259 6 років тому

    My crush he said that i’m Not his type but there is some sign that like me but he doesn’t want to tell me like making me jealous please help me

  • @ricedonut6567
    @ricedonut6567 4 роки тому

    Girls are complicated af.
    Like she hates when I talk to somebody..
    BUT WHEN I TALK TO HER SHE IGNORES ME

  • @aaliyahmontgomery6775
    @aaliyahmontgomery6775 5 років тому

    I'm scared to asked my crush out because I'm afraid of rejection

  • @jeffreythemajestic984
    @jeffreythemajestic984 7 років тому

    I asked a girl to homecoming, she said she was already going when someone then she said awe when she saw the flowers(cause flowers work), is that a good thing or bad thing.

  • @leahreilly6768
    @leahreilly6768 6 років тому

    My crush always asks me about different friends I was with that day? he also always when we are in a big crowd makes subtle hints that he likes me, he has asked me out several times and I have said no but I started gaining feelings for him. when I text him he seems to sometimes ignore and doesn’t seem as interested, please help what should I do!

  • @gamingguy4403
    @gamingguy4403 4 роки тому

    my crush would always get mad at me when I went somewhere else

  • @wewogaming1153
    @wewogaming1153 7 років тому +4

    Josh I've been watching you for awhile, If I can get in contact with you about stuff that be great

    • @krisgrafili6780
      @krisgrafili6780 7 років тому

      wewogaming He answers at Instagram too. So just slide into his dm's ;)

    • @TheJoshSpeaks
      @TheJoshSpeaks  7 років тому

      +wewogaming you can always just shoot me a message on IG @thejoshspeaks

  • @joshuabivens5825
    @joshuabivens5825 5 років тому

    I know a girl used to like me earlier this year, but she has lost interest and is considering another guy. I got In a fight over it with the guy( who was also my friend) and since then she has been harassing me about it. She does stare sometimes, and took a 10 second glance at me while I was flirting with someone I am sorta into. Does she have an interest in me, or should I consider going to the dance with someone else?

  • @user-mr1bm1qt3c
    @user-mr1bm1qt3c 4 роки тому

    Thank you for the advise bro