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  • @trribvrd
    @trribvrd Рік тому +154

    The pain in that first girl is so understood.... I wonder where her parents/guardians are to comfort her.

    • @hawksfriedchicken
      @hawksfriedchicken Рік тому +5

      or anyone, like anyone to help her and comfort her

    • @idk_whyi
      @idk_whyi Місяць тому +1

      @@trribvrd probably work.

  • @I_like_bread321
    @I_like_bread321 2 місяці тому +218

    My toxic trait is that I care about these strangers more than I care about myself.

    • @desolate3275
      @desolate3275  2 місяці тому +29

      @@I_like_bread321 that just shows how big of a heart you have, but please remember you’re just as important as everyone else but should be even more important to yourself

    • @sierrasii
      @sierrasii 2 місяці тому +8

      same.

    • @mariellanothere
      @mariellanothere 2 місяці тому +5

      i really relate to that, but that just means you have a big heart. it’ll all get better i promise ❤️‍🩹

    • @Melody-m8w
      @Melody-m8w Місяць тому +1

      My toxic trait is thinking my grades are more important than my mental health😊

    • @unkown-r2m
      @unkown-r2m 28 днів тому

      ​@@Melody-m8wplease don't say that,your mental health is way more important than grades,I'm so sorry u have to go through this.. no one deserve to feel like this,u can always vent to me I will always be here.ily>3💗💗💗

  • @Clover_the_AgeRe_Therian
    @Clover_the_AgeRe_Therian 10 місяців тому +27

    To anyone who does SH.
    It's ok, I did it too, what helped me was to fill up a little bottle that had a nozzle so I could direct the flow of the water, I filled it up with tap water and dyed it red, whenever I feel like doing it, I just grab the bottle instead of a razor or anything that could be replaced. It was difficult at first but it helped a ton, and it only leaves scars for so long and goes away like it never happened so when you do heal you don't need to look back on the things you've done in the past, look at the positive things instead like a new movie you're looking forward to or going somewhere or seeing someone like a friend or family member. I love you and you're cared for by me, and a bunch of other people. Things may be hard but things can be possible. I'm proud of you and I believe in you. You can do this! ❤️☺️🍀

    • @myhairycats
      @myhairycats 10 місяців тому +1

      Ty i needed that

    • @Abby-x8x4m
      @Abby-x8x4m Місяць тому

      @@Clover_the_AgeRe_Therian I'm three days clean..!

  • @aspennichols6174
    @aspennichols6174 Рік тому +46

    Guys, I go to my first therapy session on Tuesday! Wish me luck! I love you all and i'm so proud of you. You can do this

    • @desolate3275
      @desolate3275  Рік тому +3

      I’m so proud of you for going to therapy!! I wish you luck and the best on your journey to recovery

    • @Kai_yamikumo
      @Kai_yamikumo Рік тому +1

      Good luck and I hope things go well for you

    • @robincollins8749
      @robincollins8749 5 місяців тому

      I’m so proud of you! I hope you have an amazing life! ❤ 💕

    • @IsabellaLamour-u4u
      @IsabellaLamour-u4u 17 днів тому

      Good luck

  • @L1ttleL0v3r
    @L1ttleL0v3r Місяць тому +12

    "You'd probably make an earthquake when you walk"
    Thanks Liam, I'm never gonna fucking forget that one.

    • @sadee15
      @sadee15 Місяць тому +2

      I’m sorry someone said that to you that’s really screwed up kids can be assholes I hope you are having and amazing night and I wish you the best

  • @Iynn-b
    @Iynn-b 11 місяців тому +231

    my friend killed himself yesterday. i was crying like the first video, worse, even. i miss him.

    • @hotmilfsinyourarea5milesaway
      @hotmilfsinyourarea5milesaway 11 місяців тому +16

      i'm so sorry for your loss. I know how it is, and i know how it hurts. but please, please, don't lose hope in yourself. it will be okay, trust me. if you need a comfort playlist, i have one on spotify if you want.

    • @lailawyatt
      @lailawyatt 11 місяців тому +9

      im so sorry for your loss. i may not understand your relationship with him or the extent of your emotions or feelings but i know that certain feeling, the one when you lose someone. you need to stay strong, because everything will be okay. use the past with your friend as your strength for the future. everything will be okay ❤

    • @iamstillverysleepy
      @iamstillverysleepy 7 місяців тому +2

      I’m so sorry I hope he’s in a better place now, my friend is also suicidal and he hasn’t been responding to my texts and I’m worried I can’t even visit him and it’s killing me

    • @AlondraRangel-tf8is
      @AlondraRangel-tf8is 4 місяці тому +1

      I’m so sorry for you lose

    • @shadow.is.a.therian
      @shadow.is.a.therian 4 місяці тому +1

      Everyone is starting their comments with sorry, I do feel sorry, but you can get through this, im 7 months late and I hope you are doing amazing! ❤❤❤❤

  • @ichrissturniolo-g6t
    @ichrissturniolo-g6t 11 місяців тому +16

    when i got really mad when i was younger i used to bite myself and scratch myself and cry and bang my head into the floor. now i always have extreme migrains, scars from biting and scratching myself.

  • @ImJustThatDa-nana
    @ImJustThatDa-nana 11 місяців тому +13

    W’s in the chat and respect for our pillow that caught our tears when nobody else would.

  • @lunad2595
    @lunad2595 11 місяців тому +20

    That first person made me tear up.

  • @Just_A_Mirage_
    @Just_A_Mirage_ Місяць тому +10

    TW SH and suicide
    I was clean for almost two years. I was so proud of myself, and my grades were getting better, my friend healthier, ect. All until it came grade time. I was incredibly proud to show my mom the grades (which my lowest was an 83) and her only response to it was “that 83 Better come up” it was just a sentence, but it made me want to die right there. I was so embarrassed of being proud of it that when I went to m room that night, I seriously considered suicide, and broke my streak. I know it’s a small thing, but things shes said have been stacking and idk what to do anymore.

  • @Millerrobotics
    @Millerrobotics Рік тому +21

    Me after having a literal break down: that wasn't real I just faked it for attention
    My empty ass room: for W H A T?

    • @crimston-gaming
      @crimston-gaming Рік тому +4

      deadass that was me last week after i had the worst panic attack ive ever had 💀

    • @averag33
      @averag33 Рік тому +3

      the power of being able to cry on command bro, i faked sick so many times

  • @rori.disinger561
    @rori.disinger561 2 місяці тому +11

    The first one hits way to close, it just reminds me of when my dog was rehomed and I came home for the first time without a wagging tail to greet me, then he died a month later and I never got to say bye

  • @Polandsfriendlyfriend
    @Polandsfriendlyfriend 9 місяців тому +23

    Thats first one hit me hard. I feel her/him

    • @silly.yuzushi
      @silly.yuzushi 9 місяців тому +2

      what happened in the first one? i don’t get it? i see something. on the floor but idk what it is can u explain plz

    • @frannbat
      @frannbat 4 місяці тому

      @@silly.yuzushiits the way she's crying (i think)

  • @StephiePooBear
    @StephiePooBear 10 місяців тому +11

    POV: No one ever asks if your okay or worried about how you feel, but you constantly avoid saying things in fear of being judged or ignored because of it and always let people vent to you because your that kind of friend.

    • @thatonestrangerthingsfan9927
      @thatonestrangerthingsfan9927 10 місяців тому

      How are you doing today?

    • @StephiePooBear
      @StephiePooBear 10 місяців тому

      ..... Thank you. I really do go through these periods where I'll start watching these videos, and they put me in an even worse place than I was before...... And today was okay, but stressful because I'm behind on schoolwork and still procrastinating. But hbu? 🫂❤️

    • @thatonestrangerthingsfan9927
      @thatonestrangerthingsfan9927 10 місяців тому

      @@StephiePooBear that's great to hear! school is rlly stressful-- i have a procrastination problem too-- but i believe in you💕 i'm doing ok. it sort of feels like all my friends are closer to each other than me rn, but it's ok bc i have taylor swift

    • @StephiePooBear
      @StephiePooBear 9 місяців тому +1

      Taylor's Swift's such a great artist and such a nice person ❤️❤️ Also, it's okay to feel distant from your friends sometimes, you just need to find your favorite person who also sees you as their favorite person. 🫂❤️❤️

    • @thatonestrangerthingsfan9927
      @thatonestrangerthingsfan9927 9 місяців тому

      @@StephiePooBear That's all so true! I have my best friend who just recently moved away, and though I miss her, I still text her almost every day, and she makes everything better💕

  • @lmaoooo_.
    @lmaoooo_. 11 місяців тому +30

    0:00-17:42 was so relatable lol ! (im abt to give up) 😂

    • @pinkkhias
      @pinkkhias 11 місяців тому +1

      Im so sorry. Im so proud of you for waking up everyday. Keep it up, even when you think you cant anymore. I may be a random person on the internet but hang in there it's going to be okay

    • @pinkkhias
      @pinkkhias 11 місяців тому +1

      Im so sorry. Im so proud of you for waking up everyday. Keep it up, even when you think you cant anymore. I may be a random person on the internet but hang in there it's going to be okay

  • @Heyhjdj
    @Heyhjdj 3 місяці тому +26

    My parents are always saying “u can tell us anything” but I can’t. They will tell me I’m being over dramatic and that they give me anything I want and that I’m spoiled.

  • @geethikanookala6056
    @geethikanookala6056 Рік тому +7

    When your parents tell u to stop crying so u shut down all your emotions, can’t differentiate good from bad, nice and rude and always keep a fake smile on your face because of which your tears get stuffed up in your eyes and when u let it all out they say you’re being over dramatic when you are actually overwhelmed >>>>>>>

  • @suma8110
    @suma8110 Рік тому +6

    The first tiktok really hit me bro :( I hope that person will recover.

  • @trulyawesome5723
    @trulyawesome5723 7 місяців тому +11

    There’s nothing worse than having/wanting to cry but can’t no matter how hard you try…

  • @kittyizyiyi
    @kittyizyiyi 3 місяці тому +20

    For anyone who needs to hear this:
    I love your hair
    I love your forehead
    I love your eyebrows
    I love your eyelashes
    I love your eyes
    I love your ears
    I love your nose
    I love your cheeks
    I love your mouth
    I love your laugh
    I love your teeth
    I love your chin
    I love your neck
    I love your shoulders
    I love your chest
    I love your arms
    I love your hands
    I love your tummy
    I love your hips
    I love your thighs
    I love your knees
    I love your shins
    I love your stretch marks
    I love your feet (not in that way.)
    I love your moles/marks
    I love your scars
    I love your voice
    I love what you do
    I love your personality
    I love you on your good days
    I love you on your bad days
    I love you when you when you wear makeup
    I love you when you don’t wear makeup.
    I love your skin
    I love you when you’re sad
    I love you when you’re mad
    I love you when you’re happy
    I love you when you hate me
    I love you when you love me
    I love you when you forget me
    I’m proud of you for getting some sleep
    I’m proud of you for trying to sleep
    I’m proud of you for waking up
    I’m proud of you for getting up
    I’m proud of you for brushing your teeth
    I proud of you for tending toward your braces
    I’m proud of you for doing your hair
    I’m proud of you for washing your face
    I’m proud of you for doing skin care
    I love you for doing your makeup (if you wear it)
    I’m proud of you that you got out of your room
    I’m proud of you for getting dressed
    I’m proud of you for eating breakfast
    I’m proud of you for being clean
    I’m proud of you for trying to be clean
    I’m proud of you for being alive
    I’m proud of you for being a good friend
    I’m proud of you for trying to be I good friend
    I won’t judge you for your looks
    I won’t judge you from your race
    I won’t judge you for your life
    I won’t judge you for your family
    I won’t judge you for your past/childhood
    I won’t judge you for your body
    I won’t judge you for your tears
    I wont judge you for your age
    I won’t judge you for your sexual orientation
    I wont judge you for your gender
    I wont judge you for your money
    I won’t judge you for where you come from
    I won’t judge you for your language
    You aren’t ugly
    You aren’t too fat
    You aren’t too skinny
    You aren’t annoying
    You aren’t mean
    You aren’t evil
    You aren’t crazy
    You aren’t weird
    You aren’t worthless
    You aren’t scary
    You aren’t selfish
    You aren’t too feminine
    You aren’t too masculine
    You aren’t too young
    You aren’t too old
    You aren’t disgusting
    You aren’t a doormat
    You aren’t a toy
    You aren’t a monster
    You are beautiful
    You are pretty
    You are handsome
    You are kind
    You are cool
    You are everything you want to be
    You aren’t perfect, nobody is, but you are perfect in my eyes
    I wont judge you for anything
    Im so proud of you
    I love you.

    • @goblinmasque653
      @goblinmasque653 3 місяці тому +1

      Yes but i'm lonely and you can't do anything about this lmao

    • @goblinmasque653
      @goblinmasque653 3 місяці тому +1

      Idk why i'm doing all this shit fr thanks for saying that all stuff you are a good person that deserve to bé happy have a good life

    • @6himari9
      @6himari9 3 місяці тому +1

      i love u too >:33

    • @Samuel20125
      @Samuel20125 3 місяці тому +1

      *magically feels better*

    • @Samuel20125
      @Samuel20125 3 місяці тому +1

      Yeah no it doesnt help

  • @I_LOVE_THE_WORD_SHAMPOO
    @I_LOVE_THE_WORD_SHAMPOO 7 місяців тому +19

    "Why don't you tell anyone"
    "You could get help if you told someone"
    But then I tell them and it's all
    "Ugh you such a pick me"
    "No one cares"
    "That sucks. Well... "
    "Stop lying."

    • @Bell-kv8fb
      @Bell-kv8fb 7 місяців тому +1

      i dont want help. people dont understand the pain i feel. ive had depression zince i was 10 and its worse and worse lately. i havent told anyone.

    • @I_LOVE_THE_WORD_SHAMPOO
      @I_LOVE_THE_WORD_SHAMPOO 7 місяців тому

      @@Bell-kv8fb I'm so sorry

  • @no-hl4vp
    @no-hl4vp 11 місяців тому +17

    the first one is the realest

  • @gh0stsh4rk123
    @gh0stsh4rk123 5 місяців тому +7

    5:23 so real. when i was little, whenever there was a fight, i would go in my room, crying and just beg him to take me. it hurts to think abt it now but i've always hated myself.

  • @Ice0472
    @Ice0472 Рік тому +5

    That first one.. That just broke my heart..😭

  • @o.o.o.o-c9s
    @o.o.o.o-c9s Місяць тому +13

    Dear stranger,
    I couldn't help but notice the incredible beauty that emanates from within you, illuminating the world with its warmth and compassion. I am deeply sorry for the immense challenges and hardships that have found their way to you. You are truly deserving of unwavering love and support, and I sincerely hope that you will find the strength to overcome these obstacles and experience a swift and complete recovery. The world is undoubtedly a better place with you in it, and I eagerly anticipate the day when you are fully healed and flourishing.
    With warm regards,
    Anonymous

  • @palebirdwcue
    @palebirdwcue 2 місяці тому +5

    me looking at every person in this video and not caring that I’m just a kid, I want to hug each and every single one of them, tell them they’re beautiful, tell them it’s gonna be okay, and just sit there with them for hours until they can finally fall asleep:

  • @gaysnail3936
    @gaysnail3936 Рік тому +27

    "Just until Friday :("
    "Just until Friday"
    Just until Friday
    Just until Friday
    I don't think I can make it to Friday anymore

    • @elexiawalker
      @elexiawalker Рік тому +3

      Hey.. hey.. I’m here for you. You can do this. I know this won’t change your mind.. bc trust me I’m there too. But please. Know that I’m here. ISTG I’m here

    • @gaysnail3936
      @gaysnail3936 Рік тому +4

      @@elexiawalker thank you, thank you so much, and im so sorry but I read the reply a lil to late, idk who you are, but you seem like a cool dude, keep thuging it out for me homie 👋 see ya around

    • @averag33
      @averag33 Рік тому

      amongus

    • @RainworldAddictt
      @RainworldAddictt Рік тому

      Hey dude. I don’t know you but.. I don’t want you to go :( please, so many people want you here! I’m here for you :)

  • @idekman-
    @idekman- Рік тому +3

    the way i started sobbing when i heard the first girl. i don't know why or how but the empathy i felt was so real.

  • @Aetherins
    @Aetherins 8 місяців тому +5

    The kid at the end saying 'you matter' made me ball my eyes out even more

  • @heartfullofbows
    @heartfullofbows Рік тому +8

    2:21
    i have never felt so stuck. its the worst feeling wanting and trying to get better but not being able to and destroying my whole life.

  • @IDK_MATH_LOLZ
    @IDK_MATH_LOLZ 7 місяців тому +27

    Bro... the first one honestly made me cry. I feel so bad for whatever she's going through. She cried so fast bro, you could tell you wanted to cry like that all day..

  • @RAAAAGGHHH
    @RAAAAGGHHH 6 місяців тому +33

    Worst feeling is when you mentally wanna cry but you physically don’t want to

  • @mavis353
    @mavis353 5 місяців тому +47

    I want to hug the first girl so bad

  • @TheFashionClinc
    @TheFashionClinc 5 місяців тому +5

    Me getting out of bed and my legs feeling like giving out, that dizzy feeling, and being sick to your stomach

  • @no.08898
    @no.08898 11 місяців тому +7

    I always just want to hug someone and just vent to them but when people hug me I push them away and when people say "talk to me" I just don't.

  • @River.the.Pawprint
    @River.the.Pawprint 6 місяців тому +6

    Sometimes I think that I’ve cried so much it wouldn’t be possible anymore, but then I remember that one day, I’m coming home from school without my dog there to greet me, and that day is coming too soon for me to like

  • @lordoreocat
    @lordoreocat 11 місяців тому +35

    Depressed people watching depressing videos of depressing people, overall becoming a more depressing person. These are not vent TikTok's, they are "make me more depressed" tiktoks. Don't fall into it. If you want to vent, go outside and feel the sunshine. Take a nice warm shower, shed a few tears, watch some puppies do silly stuff, write down all your problems, and figure out ways you can improve yourself. And don't keep those toxic people around you because you want their attention, it's not worth it. Take a break from social media. LISTEN, I am not the best person at it, but I have been improving. I am working on it, ok? Anyways, you get off your butt and put down your phone or laptop or Ipad or whatever in the world you have, and I PROMISE it will help.

    • @desolate3275
      @desolate3275  11 місяців тому +4

      I agree that people shouldn’t watch my type of videos all the time and it will lead to being more depressed but the reason I post them is because sometimes people just need to be in their sadness and get out their frustrations like they do in my comment sections. Its easy to say “just go outside,” or “just improve yourself” but its way more complicated then just that. I don’t think telling people to just stop being depressed and go outside will help them much, either. /nm
      Writing your feelings down, doing activities, being anywhere but on your phone is extremely beneficial and *can* help and it *will* but sometimes you need to just have people that listen to you or a place where you can see you are not the only one and you are not alone.

    • @lordoreocat
      @lordoreocat 11 місяців тому

      I see. I know, believe me, I know it’s hard. But sometimes we have to push harder, step out of our comfort zone, and do something about what is going on. If you want to vent and let your feelings out, don’t watch other depressing people be depressed. Please. Write down everything in bed. Then write back to yourself the next day or a few hours later. Every day you change a little, so it’s quite literally a different person talking back to your past self.

    • @AddyJacksoj-q9n
      @AddyJacksoj-q9n 4 місяці тому +1

      These videos make me feel like I'm not the only one.

    • @E4rthL1n9
      @E4rthL1n9 4 місяці тому

      Ik but I just want to relate to someone for once in my stupid worthless life and before anyone says “oh well u have so many things you can do and so many people to live for!” Like no I fucking don’t I’m so drained I can barely get out of bed

    • @julz._.0npawzz
      @julz._.0npawzz 4 місяці тому

      Doing those things will just make it worse.

  • @znniiee
    @znniiee 2 місяці тому +17

    0:03 poor baby.

  • @3denx
    @3denx Рік тому +11

    8:40 this made me cry. nobody, once, has ever said this to me.

    • @Sam_The_Creator120
      @Sam_The_Creator120 Рік тому

      Are you okay? ❤

    • @Kai_yamikumo
      @Kai_yamikumo Рік тому

      I almost cried for this. It is something people need to hear and/or be asked.

    • @averag33
      @averag33 Рік тому

      i cried a month after seeing this 😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔

    • @UnknownUser-j9j
      @UnknownUser-j9j Місяць тому

      Are u really ok? ❤

  • @xamyli.
    @xamyli. 11 місяців тому +8

    Vent : It’s so funny how my mom thinks that she is comforting. After I finally started to eat and feel actually hungry again she told me I needed to work out. after all I did too.. :(

  • @Arizona.Therian
    @Arizona.Therian Рік тому +8

    Watching this after u say how u felt abt what your abusive ex did to you then they blame you…

  • @Random-rw6xr
    @Random-rw6xr 9 місяців тому +6

    Recently this friend of mine passed away at our school, it was a slow and sad day. Rest in peace Kevin Aguilar.

  • @xxmoonxxlovestar8696
    @xxmoonxxlovestar8696 10 місяців тому +8

    1:49 i cannot describe how pretty she is and i rlly want to be her friend bc she seems so genuine and ik that will prob nvr happen cz shes js a stranger on the internet but still,pretty😭

  • @mistermossman6074
    @mistermossman6074 5 місяців тому +4

    Its strange that certain things make us feel certain ways, and that feeling corresponds to your eyes releasing a watery substance and makes us breathe weirdly and makes us want to curl up into a ball.

  • @KurO_playz_J-fan
    @KurO_playz_J-fan 8 місяців тому +11

    0:28 I’m sorry but the way the cat walked away.. 😭

  • @Heyhjdj
    @Heyhjdj 3 місяці тому +6

    I wanna give the first girl a hug omg

  • @benjaminanderson2310
    @benjaminanderson2310 11 місяців тому +7

    the people i best connect with i met in a mental hospital and i cant even talk to them they really understood🥲

  • @Oopaloompa
    @Oopaloompa 11 місяців тому +5

    The “you matter” kid at the end got me

  • @honeyyandwine
    @honeyyandwine 6 місяців тому +8

    reading these comments makes me so sad bc i remember when this was me. i remember when i was sad and angry and alone and felt like there was no point to life. but please, please believe me when i say it does get better. and i don’t necessarily mean that in the “the situation will change” sense, although that might be the case. it might also be the case that you get stronger. it might be the case that you live and you live and you get hurt and you heal and love again because humans have a way of being strong as fuck when we need to be. maybe it’s not all gonna magically be better one day, but you’ll get up one morning and smile at how the sun makes a pretty pattern on your bedroom wall. and the next morning you’ll go for a walk and stop to enjoy the morning breeze. and your friend’s laugh will make your chest feel light, and a little kid at the supermarket will tell you they love your shirt, and the small things in life will make it worth living. trust me when i say it’s not the end. you’ve got too much love to give to the world for that. and in case nobody’s told you in a while, you are beautiful and strong and smart and brave and kind and i love you. be well

  • @VarahiP
    @VarahiP Рік тому +10

    Life kinda just feels like a dream.. not a bad one but not good either..every day just passes by and it’s the same old thing every fucking day..

    • @n.e.r.d.2213
      @n.e.r.d.2213 5 місяців тому

      Cool story bro but nobody asked

    • @IsabellaLamour-u4u
      @IsabellaLamour-u4u 23 дні тому +1

      You need to stop wasting your time saying stuff like that cause you don’t know what she’s through so unless you don’t have any opinion, that’s nice for her you can shut it

  • @lmaoooo_.
    @lmaoooo_. 11 місяців тому +8

    man i dont even know how to live without the constant feeling of wanting to not wake up anymore 😂 ⁉️🙏

  • @l0vely_rat90
    @l0vely_rat90 25 днів тому +1

    This reminded me of something..
    When you try to act tough but they say “you probably have no friends” but they’re actually right this time.

  • @lov-karma
    @lov-karma Рік тому +6

    my life most relates to "i need to cry but i cant get anything out of my eyes" that song i miss how things were a year and 7months ago

    • @newjeans1998
      @newjeans1998 Рік тому

      hey, u okay? You can always vent, if needed!

    • @lov-karma
      @lov-karma 11 місяців тому

      @@newjeans1998 awww thxxxx im fineee

  • @itsyourgirlsage.
    @itsyourgirlsage. 10 місяців тому +7

    So many people say that school is horrible, and that it hurts them mentally and or physically. I understand that 100%, but for me school is an escape a safe zone I never want to lose.

    • @YHILUV
      @YHILUV 10 місяців тому +1

      im glad you are able to enjoy it

    • @Sponey_n_akira
      @Sponey_n_akira 10 місяців тому

      Same but it’s also the reason for my sh issues

    • @YHILUV
      @YHILUV 10 місяців тому +1

      @@Sponey_n_akira i can kinda relate, i hate school. it is the main reason my mental is in shambles, but its also the only place i have to talk to the few friends i have. so mixed feeling ig

    • @Sponey_n_akira
      @Sponey_n_akira 10 місяців тому

      @@YHILUV exactly! I hope things get easier for u ❤️

    • @YHILUV
      @YHILUV 10 місяців тому +1

      @@Sponey_n_akira ty

  • @Written4youml
    @Written4youml 4 місяці тому +9

    5:37.
    I worked out every day.
    I went on long runs.
    I had the longest skincare routine.
    I had a whole group of friends.
    I had an imagination.
    I had love.
    I had a father figure.
    I had happiness.
    I had attention.
    I had good grades.
    And it all turns right around.
    I’m tired.
    I’m lazy.
    I have one parent, who is always stressed.
    I haven’t been eating.
    I barely drink.
    I’m sad.
    My grades are plummeting.
    My future is ending.
    And I’m not sure, why I’m still here.

  • @MyScreenTimeIs8Hours
    @MyScreenTimeIs8Hours Рік тому +12

    3:18 pov: this is your everyday life at school too

  • @A_L_I_C_E_103
    @A_L_I_C_E_103 3 місяці тому +10

    to anyone who needs that ,
    i love your smile
    i love your laugh
    i love your personality
    i love your hair (or lack thereof)
    i love your insecurities
    i love your accomplishments
    i love your failures
    i love your eyes
    i love your beauty
    i love your handwriting (or the way you communicate)
    i love the way you dance
    i love you on your happy days
    i love you on your sad days
    i love you on the days you feel lonely
    i love you on the days you feel helpless
    i love you on the days you feel like no one cares
    i love you on the days you feel forgotten
    i love you on the days you feel unmotivated
    i love you on the days you feel loved
    i love you on the days you feel sick
    i love you on the days you feel motivated
    i love you on the days you feel depressed
    i love you on the days you feel stresses
    i love you on the days you feel crazy
    i love you on the days you feel hopeful
    i love you on the days you feel cuddly
    i love you on the days you feel clingy
    i love you on the days you feel amazing
    i love you on the days you feel beautiful
    i love you on the days you feel like a failure
    i love you on the days you feel angry
    i love you on the days you feel aggressive
    i love you on the days you feel horrible
    i love you on the days you feel safe
    i love you on the days you feel unsafe
    i love you on the days you feel vulnerable
    i love you on the days you feel weird
    i love you on the days you feel ok
    i love you when you're healthy
    i love how you sing (or hum or feel the music)
    i love your taste in music
    i love your taste in movies
    i love your taste in tv shows
    i love the way you move
    i love the way you act
    i love you when you cry
    i love you when you're kind
    i love you when you're mean
    i love you when you're alone
    i love you when you can't feel
    i love you when you feel too much
    i love you when you can't take life anymore
    i love you when you feel like it's too much
    i love you when you're asleep
    i love you when you have nightmares
    i love you when you have dreams
    i love how you believe
    i love you when you believe in yourself
    i love you when you don't believe in yourself
    i love you when you hate yourself
    i love you when you love yourself
    i love the way you think
    i love you problems
    i love your solutions
    i love how you support
    i love you when you're in pain
    i love you when you're hurt
    i love your promises
    i love your secrets
    i love your attitude
    i love you freak(i hope i can match it)
    i love you sass
    i love your creativity
    i love your voice (or lack thereof)
    i love you hand gestures
    i love your stories
    i love your wounds
    i love your scars
    i love your face
    i love your past
    i love your future
    i love your present
    i love your outfits
    i love your style
    i love your art
    i love your honesty
    i love you when you lie
    i love you when you're tired
    i love you when you're energetic
    i love how you look
    i love how you cook
    i love you when you're adventurous
    i love you when you're scared
    i love your imperfections
    i love your perfections
    i love you when you worry
    i love you when you talk (or communicate)
    i love your opinions
    i love you when you have a headache
    i love you when you have a stomach ache
    i love you when you help others
    i love you when you need help
    i love you when you're mature
    i love you when you're immature
    i love you in the hard times
    i love you in the easy times
    i love you when life is meh
    i love you when you're responsible
    i love you when you're irresponsible
    i love you when you fight
    i love you in your darkest moments
    i love you in your brightest moments
    i love your heart
    i love you in the day
    i love you in the night
    i love you at midnight
    i love you at 3 am
    i love you at all times
    i love you at your best
    i love you at your worst
    i love the little things you do
    i love all of you
    i love you when you're you
    (from a stranger in the internet to you)( it's not mine but i hope it'll help)

    • @Frannsissoamazing
      @Frannsissoamazing 3 місяці тому

    • @Johnna-zf8kf
      @Johnna-zf8kf 3 місяці тому

      𝙼𝙰𝙺𝙴 𝙰 𝙷𝙴𝙰𝚁𝚃 𝚃𝚁𝙰𝙸𝙽 ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @EvanBateman1
    @EvanBateman1 8 місяців тому +7

    Hi everyone, I can see how you all seem to be struggling but please trust me when I say that constantly watching and exposing yourselves to this kind of negative content only highlights your problems and makes you feel worse. When therapists and doctors say to watch something to take your mind off of your negative feelings, this is not what they mean. It’s great for feeling less alone, but please try to not consistently watch depressing and isolating videos that only amplify your negative feelings. I know this from experience, it doesn’t do you any good.

  • @Nora-cj3jx
    @Nora-cj3jx 6 місяців тому +13

    the first one made me think about that one day when nobody cared (sorry if it doesn't make sense)

  • @weeeezeeer
    @weeeezeeer 3 місяці тому +19

    i wanna hug that first girl so bad, "why is it always me!" i relate. ❤️‍🩹

    • @l1ghtxsh0w3r
      @l1ghtxsh0w3r 3 місяці тому

      what was she saying?

    • @weeeezeeer
      @weeeezeeer 3 місяці тому

      @@l1ghtxsh0w3r she kept saying "why is it always me" i can't remember the rest

    • @l1ghtxsh0w3r
      @l1ghtxsh0w3r 3 місяці тому +1

      @@weeeezeeerI feel bad for her

  • @Def.Not.Haley_ME
    @Def.Not.Haley_ME 11 місяців тому +18

    0:18 “Why is it always me!” I relate 😕

  • @skateprogressandparkourithink
    @skateprogressandparkourithink 8 місяців тому +6

    16:11 omg it hurts so much (i force myself to not cry until im alone everytime i cry)

  • @INACTIVE-ACCOUNT1635
    @INACTIVE-ACCOUNT1635 Рік тому +11

    When you cry sm that u actually throw up

  • @Millerrobotics
    @Millerrobotics Рік тому +12

    GUYS I JUST REALIED MY HOSPITAL CHECKED ME FOR DEPRESSION AND NOW THEY PROBABLY THINK I'M CLINICALLY DEPRESSED AHHHHHH

    • @Sam_The_Creator120
      @Sam_The_Creator120 Рік тому

      I hope you get better! ❤

    • @Kai_yamikumo
      @Kai_yamikumo Рік тому

      I’ve been diagnosed with severe anxiety and depression and it’s tough but things get better I promise. You may never fully heal but it will get better.

  • @prettyluh.kai_lyn
    @prettyluh.kai_lyn 10 місяців тому +5

    When your feelings are constantly pushed aside and disregarded

  • @HBDoodlesByHB
    @HBDoodlesByHB 10 днів тому +3

    When that sudden cry hits so hard your fingers tingle and you’re numb

  • @vamp_pure
    @vamp_pure 10 місяців тому +7

    I’m watching these, and I want to relate like I used to. I really do. I want to have that gut wrenching feeling back that won’t go away. Because maybe then I’ll feel something again.
    Because, the reality is that I don’t feel much at all anymore. I don’t find the point in anything, happy or sad things. I don’t see the sentimental value in life or anything connecting me to my body. Maybe that’s selfish. You’d be right to use that word against me, because it’s true. My newfound apathetic nature towards my body and soul aides me in further hurting others and stitching their desperation to my ‘long list’ of reasons to keep going.
    But I just don’t care because I know I’ll never truly be wholly me. I’m just a shell of glued promises and an effect of my own indifference. It’s sort of gross.
    At this point I’m just an echo, an effect of other peoples causes.
    I’m not a human being. I’ve been diluted down to a concept, I always have been. Just an idea for others to manage. I don’t have a soul, no core. nothing that’s truly and only me. Beings that have no heart are dammed from birth. Like a typo, an error that the world forgot to hit backspace on.
    I only felt guilt for a really long time. But, again, now I just feel hollow. Unable and to the core worthless in a world like this one.
    6:51

  • @idekanymorebru
    @idekanymorebru 2 дні тому +3

    0:06 was me in my head bc ion want ppl hearing me cry that loud

  • @ATBarrelRacing
    @ATBarrelRacing Рік тому +6

    Im so glad you’re back desolate, your videos make me feel a bit better about myself, knowing I have videos to bawl too, and comment to relate to. I love you, hope you’re doing fine.

    • @desolate3275
      @desolate3275  Рік тому +1

      I love you too and i want you to know that it will get better and that you aren’t alone no matter what.

  • @SamayaandFRIENDS-bn4gx
    @SamayaandFRIENDS-bn4gx 6 місяців тому +3

    I like things like this because it shows me Im not alone in my darkness it tiring coming home from school and have to do so many things over top of saddnes tiredness and wanting to CRYYY.
    But I don't want to because people will ask questions that I don't want to answer and going to sleep with my brain telling me HOW FREAKING WORTHLESS I AM and its goes like a never ending sycle over and over

  • @iii_h3art_bella
    @iii_h3art_bella 10 місяців тому +9

    When you to let it out but they will say you are faking it for attention

  • @LilaMarren
    @LilaMarren 10 місяців тому +3

    The kitty coming in the to see her in the first one warms my heart

  • @1604abc
    @1604abc 5 місяців тому +6

    Honestly, i have never experienced anything that made me want to end my life,but to all the people out there who do feel that way......im begging you.....dont hurt yourself. Dont end your life because you're too precious and important to do that. SCREW all the people who ever told you that you're meaningless or dont have any self worth. Just PLEASE. DONT DO IT. ok??? Youre here for a reason. God made every human important and unique just the way they are. You have a purpose in this world. So attend to it. CONTINUE being a amazing, beautiful human being. And if youre facing a horrible situation in life and feel deserted and outspoken, PLEASE reach out to someone. Ok? NEVER deprive yourself of food, water, sleep etc. NEVER harm yourself because your skin is NOT paper, and your body is not plastic that you or anyone else can toy around with. Ok?

  • @TouchSomeGrass2137
    @TouchSomeGrass2137 16 днів тому +3

    1:09 is like... I can relate to the loss of interest, concentration, speed and some other things...

  • @Iheartivan_cornejo
    @Iheartivan_cornejo 6 місяців тому +6

    0:00
    real cause he acts like i was just another one of his exes that did him wrong but in reality he listened to everyone else but me and thats how i sounded that day except he will never care.

  • @A_certainUser
    @A_certainUser 7 місяців тому +5

    The first one. When my grandma died. One time my mom (she was drunk at a party with plenty of adults and honestly if responsible drinking was a think this would be it) she had been telling me about my grandmas brother. And then she asked me if I remember my grandma. Because my mom thought I might of forgotten my grandma. But I cry, YEARS later. YEARS. Multiple time a night! Because I fucking miss my grandma.

  • @Vee_the_quadrobist
    @Vee_the_quadrobist Місяць тому +7

    I don’t know why I watch these.. maybe it’s just because I want to cry. I don’t know why I like crying, I don’t understand myself

  • @ruwazai
    @ruwazai 11 місяців тому +7

    the first one being too relatable

  • @tgxsyE
    @tgxsyE Рік тому +9

    Yk.. When I was 10… 7 years old, I never thought I’d make it past 13 years. But here I am. 13. But nothing feels the same, along with only getting happy birthdays without a birthday party. Going to birthday parties for people older than me.. hurts me a lil bit cause I didn’t get that milestone party this year. Especially for my 1st year as a teen🙂. I never thought I’d be here tonight, right now. Cause I thought I’d kms before today. With scars on my arm, on my legs, and my stomach. With trauma from my past, with trauma on my body, and even trauma in my mind. And yet I’m still here. Breathing. Something younger me wouldn’t have thought I would be doing at this moment. I wish I can go back and tell her it wasn’t her fault. That nobody should’ve done anything to her. The body dysphoria+dysmorphia, the depression, the anxiety. Was not her fault.
    Im trying to heal but I can’t go far without missing the comfort in the depression ykwim? 😕

    • @theyluvavva
      @theyluvavva Рік тому +2

      Yeah i do and im so proud of you for doing that suffering through the silence is really hard and that is amazing. Ily stranger 🫶🏼

    • @averag33
      @averag33 Рік тому

      when i was 7, i wanted to fly.. 😔

  • @DarkSF-ew1wo
    @DarkSF-ew1wo 5 місяців тому +7

    I know there are a lot of people out there with many things going on in there life whether it's depression, disorders, syndromes, etc. but whatever it is I know that you are all good people with kindness inside yourselves. Giving speeches like this won't help everyone and I know that, but whenever you are feeling down, don't resort to SH [self-harm]. Just remember that if it was someone who tried to bring you down just know, "if someone is trying to bring you down, they are already below you." They can think what they want but you aren't whatever they say. So here's some things [or poems kinda] for everyone out there:
    #1
    They didn’t notice you were crying
    They didn’t notice you were sad
    They didn’t notice you were tired
    They didn’t notice you were alone
    They didn’t notice how attentive you are
    They didn’t notice how sweet you are
    They didn’t notice how you actually try make others smile
    They did notice you failing
    They did notice you’re unattractive
    They did notice the mean side of you
    They did notice all your mistakes
    They did notice all your flaws
    They decided you weren’t good for them
    But you stayed strong
    You never gave up on hope
    And never let them take you down
    And that’s what makes you stronger
    You aren’t ugly
    You aren’t mean
    you aren’t lazy
    You aren’t a failure
    You aren’t a mistake
    You are beautiful
    You are worth it
    You deserve everything
    You are trying
    You are smart
    You do deserve to live
    #2
    Your parents will think they have failed you
    Your siblings with miss your voice
    Your friends will be waiting for you to come back
    Your best friend will be missing their other half
    Everyone will remember how you smile
    You’ll never be able to listen to your favorite song
    You’ll never be able to achieve your dream
    You’ll never know if you met the one
    I’m so proud of you for being here today
    There’s always a way to solve your problem
    Don’t give up yet…
    [Sorry for it being so long 😂]
    Thank you all [even though I don't know you guys heh] for being yourselves and continue being strong. I know you can do it.

  • @Thefinger_1
    @Thefinger_1 Місяць тому +8

    0:29 the cat was just trying to comfort her

    • @idk_whyi
      @idk_whyi Місяць тому +2

      No the cat was walking by maybe to go comfort or walk past b

  • @e.m2962
    @e.m2962 Рік тому +2

    girl you don't understand how glad i am you're back 😭 i thought something had happened to you. i'm really REALLY glad that you're seemingly okay enough to post. you make me feel really safe so thank youuu ❤

    • @desolate3275
      @desolate3275  Рік тому

      I love you so much thank you. Im sorry I didnt want to make anyone worry just stuff happens and I never have any type of motivation :,) I appreciate you so much and I hope you’re doing at least a little bit well

    • @Melon_theLemon120
      @Melon_theLemon120 11 місяців тому

      @@desolate3275hey man it’s okay! And I’m glad you’re back I love you! 🫶 and I hope your okay!❤ if you need ever need anything I’m here for you. ❤️🫶

  • @violetsonyt
    @violetsonyt 9 місяців тому +7

    I was 12 years old when I first had an anxiety attack, truly why do kids have more mental health problems then the average 30 year old? From a stranger on the internet, I want whoever is reading this to realise that a stranger is there for them♡♡♡

    • @violetsonyt
      @violetsonyt 9 місяців тому

      @Alia13121 Crazy how sometimes parents don't even support you

  • @oliiva_
    @oliiva_ Рік тому +5

    i really struggle with how i look, i’ve always hated myself. the one time i get excited to go out and i prepare an outfit i feel really pretty in and i wwait ages for that day to come my mum always has to just ,, idk. she always has to put me down. i ended up crying and ruining my makeup, i also ended up not going out.

    • @Kai_yamikumo
      @Kai_yamikumo Рік тому +1

      I bet you look amazing and your mom is wrong for making you feel bad about yourself. I’m here if you need to talk

    • @averag33
      @averag33 Рік тому

      i ate the goldfish

  • @Thescooped23
    @Thescooped23 29 днів тому +8

    I wish I could give you a hug right now. Even if you think it won’t make you feel better, it might.

  • @vent-ing
    @vent-ing 10 місяців тому +19

    Vent:
    About 2 years ago I was sexualy assaulted by my bsf. Today I had an assembly at school about sexual harassment. It triggered me so much. I didn't feel like myself all afternoon. At lunch I'm usually loud with my friends but today I isolated myself a bit and was quite. Nobody even noticed. I told my friend I was feeling suicidal and she laughed. I relapsed and I promised my parents I would tell them but I haven't.

    • @Ariana-the-Christmas-elf
      @Ariana-the-Christmas-elf 3 місяці тому

      YOUR FRIEND LAUGHT OK THATS ONE SING TO GET A NEW FRIEND AND IF YOU CANT GET ONE *I will be your friend* ok no need to think about Su!idal thought people care about you

  • @Enidrheexx
    @Enidrheexx Рік тому +6

    The first girl is how I wanna cry but I can’t lmao

  • @-giulyunicorno-4256
    @-giulyunicorno-4256 7 місяців тому +6

    Words hurt. Too much.
    Its not funny being called a “trash can” or “garbage” or “useless”,you know victoria?

  • @cats_rule_this_world
    @cats_rule_this_world 7 місяців тому +6

    3:42 i just wanted to say, that i know a person who is really pretty, and most people think so. they still have a shitty fucked up life, so even if pretty privilege is real for some people, if someone hates you and/or abuses you mentally or physically, being pretty won't change much..

  • @Leixxlaaa
    @Leixxlaaa 7 місяців тому +13

    Anxiety is ruining my whole fucking live

    • @simpIyes
      @simpIyes 7 місяців тому +2

      I have never read anything more relatable

  • @Sophieh-sn2jt
    @Sophieh-sn2jt 4 місяці тому +19

    my toxic trait is that i start watching these kinda vids when life gets absolutly worse🙂

  • @Crazyd0wgy
    @Crazyd0wgy Рік тому +4

    this def made me cry the most..

  • @Ian_isEMO
    @Ian_isEMO 11 місяців тому +14

    So proof that this generation of kids are terrible, the average high schooler has the same levels of anxiety as a mentally insane person in the 1900s
    I was diagnosed with heavy clinical depression, my councilor is thinking about sending me to a mental institution because I just started cutting, and I can't stop biting my cuticles until they bleed, and I purposely cut myself when I'm shaving my face hoping that I can change the way I look, but today my mom said that I'm the reason my brother is depressed and angry, but the fact is I'm 13 almost 14

  • @zc_artstuff3223
    @zc_artstuff3223 Місяць тому +15

    0:20 I’m not allowed to cry in my house or else I will get in trouble so I have to cry VERY silently or not at all (I’m 12 and for all my life I’m not allowed to cry)

    • @Wisteria_Bookworm
      @Wisteria_Bookworm Місяць тому +3

      Hi sweetheart, I am the same situation, you wanna be friends?

    • @zc_artstuff3223
      @zc_artstuff3223 Місяць тому +1

      @@Wisteria_Bookworm yesss (:

    • @Wisteria_Bookworm
      @Wisteria_Bookworm Місяць тому +1

      @@zc_artstuff3223 great! Do you use discord or Roblox?

    • @Melody-m8w
      @Melody-m8w Місяць тому +1

      Same, and since I’m not allowed to cry, I resort to other methods such as (drumroll, please)$H😊

    • @zc_artstuff3223
      @zc_artstuff3223 Місяць тому

      @@Melody-m8w oh I’m sorry. I hope you’ll be able to stop self harm and recovery. ❤️‍🩹 I’m here for you.

  • @i.love.claire
    @i.love.claire 9 місяців тому +6

    6:04 i was in 5th grade and in the worst week of my life. thats when i had ever dealt with depresion for the first time. my family didnt notice, neither did my friends, my fucking LIBRARIAN NOTCED>. she asked me if i was okay and i almost broke down fucking crying.

  • @user-jw1qy9dg1v
    @user-jw1qy9dg1v 11 місяців тому +6

    For those who are in households of abuse:
    You are enough. You deserve better. Know this. I may have not been in this position, felt the pain you did, but I’m here to tell you that you can get through this. You will get through this. Be brave, Hero

    • @amandalin8180
      @amandalin8180 10 місяців тому

      The body shaming one hit me hard man. I went through childhood bodyshamed by my parents and teachers here and there. Now, i dont get it as much as before but any mention of it crashes into my heart

    • @user-jw1qy9dg1v
      @user-jw1qy9dg1v 10 місяців тому +1

      @@amandalin8180 I’m really sorry you had to go through that. I may not have experienced it to the length you have but I still understand how it feels to some extent. I hope you learn to love your body as I have mine

  • @LilyFiglia-hr8hs
    @LilyFiglia-hr8hs 8 місяців тому +9

    When you’re sick and none of your friends check in on you even though you always try to

    • @patrickbatemanscard
      @patrickbatemanscard 8 місяців тому

      how are you doing love? :) i hope you’re over your sickness soon, i know it’s sucks! drink water and rest up

    • @hdt8710
      @hdt8710 8 місяців тому

      Yo u ok? Hope u get better soon :)

    • @emilovesme.
      @emilovesme. 8 місяців тому

      I hope you're okay ml!! Keep going get better soon always here 💓

  • @Zane_The_Fox
    @Zane_The_Fox 8 місяців тому +7

    Thing is, I never realized how much hurt I’ve been going through because of my dad.. he always tells me “you don’t have depression or anything wrong with you so stop putting that shit in your head”. Shut up. SHUT UP. I HAVE ISSUES YOU COULD NEVER IMAGINE I GO THROUGH. YET TO COME INTO MY LIFE WITH THAT BULLSHIT IS SO LOW.. and you know.. I can’t hate him, because I love him too much.

    • @alienorcatsim4136
      @alienorcatsim4136 8 місяців тому +2

      Kinda same with my mom 😅, they can't really undersand that beacuse they never been through this...

  • @Expo_offical
    @Expo_offical 5 місяців тому +5

    4:53 hits hard man i pretty much base my whole personality based on people around me and honetly i dint know what my favorite color is or what my favorite video game is i js adapted to other people's likings over the years... I don't know who i am anymore

  • @K_and_A1
    @K_and_A1 15 днів тому +4

    8:20. The Triplets made me smile as soon as I saw them