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  • @shreya8139
    @shreya8139 3 місяці тому +9

    I never felt the love of my mother. She was always critical of me if I didn’t do anything according to her. Now I know the reason . Thanks!

  • @fizahayat786
    @fizahayat786 Місяць тому +2

    The father part hit me hard
    My dad used to love me and he is a quiet person
    Mom ne unko bhi manipulate krke unko mere against kr diya
    Ab dad bhi kuch support nai krte
    And recently jab meine mom ko kuch clarify krne ki kosish ki toh mujhe bola chalo niklo niklo drama mat kro

  • @liveparadiseonearthwithbha1307
    @liveparadiseonearthwithbha1307 3 місяці тому +3

    O my God you have opened up all my childhood to youth story 😢 Each & Every word i have faced.. HATS OFF to you❤🎉 It was the Deepest Wound-Trauma in my soul which i have healed..I never wanted to pass all this to my Daughter..

    • @PinkZindagi
      @PinkZindagi  3 місяці тому

      Glad you liked it.. Keep it up👍

  • @ummekulsumkuwala8768
    @ummekulsumkuwala8768 Місяць тому +2

    💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

  • @shahp84
    @shahp84 3 місяці тому +3

    Our Looks, Food prepared by us, our academic results and everything we do is worst as per toxic parents perspective. Even if they don't hit us, but, due to the chaos they create, we have severe mental and physical health issues.

  • @FaizaBajwah-r1p
    @FaizaBajwah-r1p 2 місяці тому +3

    You are right moms are narssaiste ,some times people know when they have to face themselves my mother ruined my life. I’m fifty but still stuck in life because of her

  • @rajendranagar4205
    @rajendranagar4205 3 місяці тому +11

    किसी भी मां ने बच्चे पैदा करके , बच्चे पर कोई अहसान नहीं किया है । मां ने खुद चुनाव किया कि वो बच्चा पैदा करेगी। बच्चे ने मां के सामने कोई आवेदन नहीं दिया था कि मुझे पैदा करके अहसान करो। न बच्चा पैदा होने के लिए मरा जा रहा था । तो फिर देवी का पद क्यों ?
    जानवर भी तो बच्चे पैदा करते है और पालते हैं।

  • @vandanathakur7452
    @vandanathakur7452 3 місяці тому +4

    Ma'am, Aapka ye vdo dekhkar, me kya hi bataun mere to man-bap dono hi toxic the bas unhone hame jinda chhod dia, inta hi kaphi h..aapke yek-yek shbd se relate kar pa rhi hu.or kuch toxic pattern mere aandar b aa gye h genetically jo aapki maddad se dur ho rhe h..
    Aapki ki madad se me na toxic mother banugi or na hi toxic mother in law..
    Dil se aabhar Ma'am..❤😘🙏

    • @PinkZindagi
      @PinkZindagi  3 місяці тому

      We need more empowered women like you. 👍🤗💖

  • @prernamohanty3790
    @prernamohanty3790 3 місяці тому +3

    We need these kind of helpful information more and more. If western societies can openly talk about narcissist mother why we pretend to be normal in Indian society.
    Your vedios are eye opening and we look forward for part 3.
    Thank you again for everything ❤❤ you are a true blessing.

  • @hemajha2085
    @hemajha2085 3 місяці тому +6

    Aap 100%sahi bol rahi hain

  • @ProjnaMitra-i3e
    @ProjnaMitra-i3e 3 місяці тому +2

    You are so right.

  • @monikasharmamonika
    @monikasharmamonika 2 місяці тому +2

    lot of health issues...u understand the things in deep

  • @monikasharmamonika
    @monikasharmamonika 2 місяці тому +3

    they have doubt problem to on her husband too and they do blame game. very toxic

  • @ridamazhar581
    @ridamazhar581 3 місяці тому +2

    You are great hr swal ka jwab mil Gaya Mahan hyn ap thsnk you so much love you

  • @shobhisweety3709
    @shobhisweety3709 3 місяці тому +2

    Y bulkul sach hai. Sach me aise log hote hai. Jis k upar beet ti hai. Vhi janta hai. Jisne y sb feel nhi kiya. Vhi khte hai ki aise log nhi hote. Jin toxic relatives ki bat krte hai vo bhi kisi ki maa hoti hai.

  • @mdfarooq1980
    @mdfarooq1980 3 місяці тому +2

    Bilkul Aap ne sb sahi sahi bola Aapki baaton main eitna wazaan hai beyaan nii karsakti Aap ki baatein sun kar dil ko chain Aa jata hai Aap bahut Gharayi Tak jate ho meri hamesha dua hai Aap k liye Allah tala Aap ko sehat Aatha kare aur salamt rakhe aur kush rakhe Allah tala Aapko

    • @PinkZindagi
      @PinkZindagi  3 місяці тому

      I wish the same for you.. Thank you. 👍

  • @preetisarojssecretsofsucce4791
    @preetisarojssecretsofsucce4791 3 місяці тому +1

    Absolutely right these features are correct....

  • @KrishnaDevi-m5l
    @KrishnaDevi-m5l 2 місяці тому +3

    Maine bachpan se ab tk yhi sb jhel rhi hu 😭😭

  • @steadyhorse1
    @steadyhorse1 3 місяці тому +4

    Ye bahot common dialogue h indian moms ka: tumhari rotiyan banane me hi meri zindagi khatm ho gyi😂

  • @MeenuSharma-st3or
    @MeenuSharma-st3or 3 місяці тому +3

    You're right madam

  • @SeemaYadav-mj5fi
    @SeemaYadav-mj5fi 3 місяці тому +2

    mam aapk ek ek words True h..mai 💯 agree krti hu 👍🏻 👍🏻

  • @upasanabandyopadhyay5385
    @upasanabandyopadhyay5385 3 місяці тому +2

    Ma'am yes, I definitely want to know the reasons behind this. One point I specifically want to mention... if the mom is always praise about her mom (to a superlative extent that might even sound unusual and a bit odd at times), can this be a sign that her mom too was similar in certain ways and she is still in that circle not realizing the fact? Asking bcoz often daughters are made to believe the greatness of their moms in an exaggerated way. If a mom literally worshipped her mom, she might expect her daughter to worship her as well and anything short if that might amount to lack of care, love, respect or gratefulness. Please elaborate on this point if you can.
    Thank you

  • @jagratijonwal3726
    @jagratijonwal3726 3 місяці тому +3

    Mam jealousy to hoti h mothers ko ye sach h or periods k pain me bhi wo hume sirf tana marti h

  • @radheyshyam7501
    @radheyshyam7501 3 місяці тому +2

    100 percent true

  • @kusumSharma-d7q
    @kusumSharma-d7q 2 місяці тому +3

    Mem ji sap ki vedio ki comment dekh ker damjh aata ki logo maa baap se kitna persaan
    Ye sara mere bhi experience h per mai kisi ko batau to mujhe he ladok samjhge

  • @trivenikulkarni1383
    @trivenikulkarni1383 3 місяці тому +1

    Ha mam bilkul sahi kaha hai aapne 💯

  • @vandanasharma5334
    @vandanasharma5334 3 місяці тому +8

    Meri mother bhi maa ke naam pe धबबा h उसने मेरी life kraab kr di 😭

  • @RoshanLal-lc6df
    @RoshanLal-lc6df 3 місяці тому +4

    Thanks mam for the amazing video 😊😊

  • @MeenuSharma-st3or
    @MeenuSharma-st3or 3 місяці тому +9

    Plz make a video on toxic siblings how to deal with them they are always jealous. They gaslight me my parents also narcissist

    • @Mrnatureforever
      @Mrnatureforever 2 місяці тому +1

      Same my sister.
      From last 20 years m dealing with it.
      Life is horrible

    • @NA-vt6mz
      @NA-vt6mz 2 місяці тому

      @@Mrnatureforeverwhy complain cut off karo simple

    • @endlessjoychannel71
      @endlessjoychannel71 2 дні тому

      Same ....meri toxic sister ne kaan bhar ke poori family ko mere against kar diya....meri life kharab kar di aur ab meri ye halat dekh ke bohot khush hai .....nark me sadenge aise log

  • @anitarana6103
    @anitarana6103 3 місяці тому +1

    Bilkul sahi 100%

  • @pallabipujary5440
    @pallabipujary5440 3 місяці тому +1

    Very true kaun ese maarte hain but yes i hv observed few in society

  • @Naturelover6606-s7d
    @Naturelover6606-s7d 2 місяці тому +2

    Isliye ma baap ko bhagwan nahi banana chahiye....they are human only..😮

  • @KrishnaDevi-m5l
    @KrishnaDevi-m5l 2 місяці тому +2

    In fact mujhe bahut dar lgta h ki mummy phone krengi to pta nhi kya tension de dengi 😔😔

  • @akanshaagarwal868
    @akanshaagarwal868 3 місяці тому +1

    I agree with you

  • @sabitakushwaha-nh9jl
    @sabitakushwaha-nh9jl 2 місяці тому +2

    Aap sahi ho

  • @saddamkischool4486
    @saddamkischool4486 3 місяці тому +1

    आपका शुक्रिया आपने narcsisstic mother पर वीडियो बनाई बहुत नॉलेज है और मैं आपको थैंक्यू कहता हूं?❤❤❤❤ Respect sister ❤❤

  • @vandanasharma5334
    @vandanasharma5334 3 місяці тому +2

    Meri shadi ek narrcist aur सायिको se karva kr mayke to jo saha but ससुराल में उस से भी ज्यादा सब लोग टॉक्सिक मेरी जिंदगी नरक बना दी अब टो मेरी शादी को 22 साल हों गए shtye shtye अब बस मौत का इंतजार है 😭

  • @asthas33
    @asthas33 3 місяці тому +2

    I love that you covered this topic. It's so much needed for young daughters to realise this reality. I appreciate this amazing work of yours 👏👏 👏
    And, you don't have to worry or apologise about other people getting uncomfortable/ offended by your topics - those people can never face reality, so they come at you with their projections.

    • @PinkZindagi
      @PinkZindagi  3 місяці тому

      I'm so glad!Thank you. 👍

  • @monikasharmamonika
    @monikasharmamonika 2 місяці тому +2

    Narcissistic mother do domestic voilence to father and he is still accepting that.

  • @rtiokjbgdjknnfdd
    @rtiokjbgdjknnfdd 3 місяці тому +3

    Toxic devrani k v video banaya..kam m help nhi krti..bolo to bahas krti h..inlaws husband sab usi ko support krte h..what to do mam pls..usse kaise deal kre..

  • @MeenuSharma-st3or
    @MeenuSharma-st3or 3 місяці тому +2

    Thank u madam

  • @IamPoulomi
    @IamPoulomi 3 місяці тому +3

    When she is at home, she expects me to be with her all the time. I can not study, I cannot talk to my friends. If I do that, she says " jin logon se baat kar rahi ho, wo tumhari future ki theka lagi, wo karwayegi tumhari shaadi?" Means she wants me to be with her only. I can not have my own life. I have to sit in front of her and listen to her gossips. If I say please stop these then she says 'haa maine pal poshke bada kiya ab to maa ki batein to buri lagegi hi"

    • @PinkZindagi
      @PinkZindagi  3 місяці тому +1

      I can feel your pain.

    • @IamPoulomi
      @IamPoulomi 3 місяці тому

      @@PinkZindagi ma'am I wish, meri dusman ko bhi aisi mother na mile. It is too painful. Because she is someone who was supposed to give me unconditional love. She always judges me , harshly criticizes me for everything I do. She can never be satisfied with whatever I do. Once I gifted her a beautiful white saree. I thought she would like it. But she said " mai itni bhi buri ho gayi hoon kya jo white saree pahnungi" it pained me deeply ma'am. Tab se mai unko koi bhi gift nahi deti. Tab bolti hai ki ' maa ko gift kyun degi tu, selfish jo hai" Mai tuition padhati hoon. 3 hazar ke aas pas kamati hoon. She is a bank manager m she earns 80k per month but expects me to give her gifts

    • @meghadhorage1061
      @meghadhorage1061 3 місяці тому

      Exactly... It's A biggest trauma

    • @NA-vt6mz
      @NA-vt6mz 2 місяці тому

      Close door and study have ur own life get a job later when u can and move out

    • @endlessjoychannel71
      @endlessjoychannel71 2 дні тому

      ​@@IamPoulomi whereas I am craving live and attention of my mother but she ignores me ....mai baat karne jau to uth ke chali jati, muh fer leti..... I feel so lonely

  • @saddamkischool4486
    @saddamkischool4486 3 місяці тому +1

    Thank you, you made a video on narcissistic mother, you have a lot of knowledge and I thank you.❤❤❤❤ respect sister

  • @2903kiran
    @2903kiran 3 місяці тому +1

    100% true

  • @PoonamSingh-eg5oh
    @PoonamSingh-eg5oh 3 місяці тому +2

    O my god mene socha me hi galat hu ..maa se meri nahi banti😢 but me sahi thi😢

  • @mallavijayalakshmi3098
    @mallavijayalakshmi3098 3 місяці тому +1

    How to handle this
    Plz make a video on handling toxic mother and daughter relationship

  • @ridamazhar581
    @ridamazhar581 3 місяці тому +2

    Life bna de apne

  • @heenasaifi31
    @heenasaifi31 3 місяці тому +8

    Mam...in toxic mom..ke karan...bs taruma hota h...and khud ki health kharab....insecurity feel hoti h khud ke ghar mai...safety ki feeling h hi nhi
    Meri mom to kpde khridne ka bhi aisaan jtate h...upar se...ghar ke ek kaam na kru...to or toxicity hoti h....bs krna hi krna h...chahe tabiyat khrab bhi ho...
    Kisi baat se dukhi ho kar rone bhi lgu ..to...bs chillane lgte h...abuse krte h...chup krane ki bjaye...or supress krte h...

    • @choudhary2k
      @choudhary2k 3 місяці тому +3

      I totally relate with it, but hamari sunne wala koi nhi

    • @jugveersingh4742
      @jugveersingh4742 3 місяці тому +2

      ससुराल जाने के बाद कभी मत आना वापिस

    • @anshuthakur5846
      @anshuthakur5846 3 місяці тому

      ​Mai bhi Sochi thi par 29:13 suddenly father ki death ke baad unko sambhalna para Mai bari thi Bhai ki education ke liye bahar tha wo mere se Chhota tha mere husband gov. Job me hai kafi help kiye mere parents dono gov.teacher the.
      Bhai ke Saadi hoye hi apne puraane ruap me aa gaye kewal blem tumne ye bhi boli tumse help nahi lena chahiye Maine galti kar di. Even mere husband ko bhi nahi chchori.
      Mai Aaj Tak yahi Sochi maa galat nahi hoti meri age 47 hai or mai thak gaye abh2 months se unse baat nahi karti .Mai sukun feel karti hun ye mere baare me mere bachcho or ko bhi bharkati hai meri beti or pati meri maa ka nature samajh gaye par mera beta kahta aapko to naani bhi badmash kahti hai bahaut dukh lagta hai maa bhi yeshi hoti hai par ma'am ka video dekha to pata chala Haan hoti hai .
      Jis bharat par gaurav karne kaha jaata hai ye mahan hai hamara bharat.​@@jugveersingh4742

  • @prachigupta9888
    @prachigupta9888 3 місяці тому +1

    We are two sisters. My mother is do same.

  • @shahp84
    @shahp84 3 місяці тому

    Aapki baate sun kar samaj me aata hai aapka bachpan bhi bahot painful raha hoga 😢😮😢 aap bhi kafi struggle karke narcissistic abuse se recover huye ho.

  • @MeenuSharma-st3or
    @MeenuSharma-st3or 3 місяці тому +1

    Narcissist siblings and friends and ex boyfriend sab par video banao ...narcissist bhi kuch type hota hai

  • @IamPoulomi
    @IamPoulomi 3 місяці тому +1

    Make more videos on narcissistic mother

  • @IamPoulomi
    @IamPoulomi 3 місяці тому +2

    She says ' I gave birth to you. I fed you, you are living in my house' so you should obey me.

  • @indianyoutubersiya6114
    @indianyoutubersiya6114 3 місяці тому +1

    Thanks for this video mam❤
    Jis vyakti ne ye dard jhela hai wahi samajh sakta hai.
    Jis vyakti ko har cheez mili ho,aage badne ka mauka mila ho vo us vyakti ko kaise samjhega Jo talent hote hue bhi aage nahi bad Paya?
    Similarly is duniya me agar do log hain achche aur bure,ab inke bachche bhi honge
    Aur bachcha agar ye kahde ki aap ye iska Paisa màt Khao ya ye trap plan mat karo to vo galat nahi hai..
    Dard bahut hota hai par samajh wahi sakta hai jisne jhela ho

  • @naushadhussain2097
    @naushadhussain2097 Місяць тому +1

    me batau bete kese effected hote he,kese beto ki tamaam zindagi barbaad ker deti he maa mujhse behtar kon jan sakta he.

  • @PoonamSingh-eg5oh
    @PoonamSingh-eg5oh 3 місяці тому +1

    Thank god meri maa kam toxic hai.... Main hairan Hun itni khatarnak my hoti hai😢😢😢

  • @GoluAnsari-nc1ou
    @GoluAnsari-nc1ou Місяць тому +1

    Meri ma ne to sasural walo ko bhadkaya hai mere khilaaf jisse meri jindagi narak 😢😢😢ban gayi hai please help me

  • @krishnsakhi8909
    @krishnsakhi8909 3 місяці тому +1

    Ye hota h

  • @forever10369
    @forever10369 3 місяці тому +2

    Maam please video banaye and how do deal with them

  • @manisha-lf4vs
    @manisha-lf4vs 6 днів тому

    Mam, aajkal alimony wale mom bhi hotey hai. Aap is point ko mention nhi kiye😢. Mere mom hamesha ,papa aur hum bache logo ko pareshan kartey hai, 50 percent alimony k liye😢. Mom k ander koi emotions nhi hai kisi k liye.😢. Abhi bache logo ka shaadi ka time ho gya, unko koi chinta nhi, bas property se matlab hai.Chote se koi guidance bhi nhi diya😢.Abhi bolti hai, ki court case krenge. Case k wajeh se hum bache log apne, flat bhi nhi bna sakte.😢. Jo mom nhi chahti, ki apne bache shine ho. Yeh kis type ka narcissist hai?😢

  • @KrishnaDevi-m5l
    @KrishnaDevi-m5l 2 місяці тому +2

    16 आने सच 🙏🙏

  • @sumansharmasvlog8316
    @sumansharmasvlog8316 3 місяці тому +2

    Man apne email ka answer nahi dhya

  • @jyotirao7840
    @jyotirao7840 3 місяці тому +1

    Please 🙏 beat toxic Papa or narcissistic Papa per bhi ek video banana bohut bariya bola hai God bless you

  • @tanyabisht2943
    @tanyabisht2943 3 місяці тому +2

    My mother is narcissist

  • @steadyhorse1
    @steadyhorse1 3 місяці тому +1

    Seriously jinko devi devta jaise parents mile h unhe ye videos nai dekhne chahiye 😂

  • @gorakhanathmudhale3127
    @gorakhanathmudhale3127 2 місяці тому +1

    Meri mother bhi maa ke nampar ek dhbha hai

  • @MeenuSharma-st3or
    @MeenuSharma-st3or 3 місяці тому

    Bahut simple words ma explain kiya lakin madam 4 type narcissist hota ha ek hota Jo victims banta ek flying monkey support lata ek ha Jo charming hota ha ek psycho hota ha ..madam ap inka upar bhi video banao

  • @poonamvermaofficial
    @poonamvermaofficial 3 місяці тому +1

    Hamare saas sasur bhi humse jalte hai aur kahte hai ki tere bachche ache nikal gaye humare bachche ache nahi nikle kyonki humare bachche humein bahut pyar krte hai jabki wo unko bhi pyar karte hai please video banay es per bhi

  • @sumitachattopadhyay5590
    @sumitachattopadhyay5590 3 місяці тому +1

    Hello mam .Narcissistic mother hoti hain aur bilkul hoti hain apni girl child ka is kadar Jina haram karke rakhti hain, unki vajaha se ladki 2-2 3-3 bar suicide attempts karne ko majboor ho sakti hai. Meri Maa meri college life men college aur tuitions Jane aane ke liye minimum 12-14 km ki cycling karke mujhe Jana Anna pasta tha,periods ke during 5 din continues cycling ki watch se mere dono jargon men ghao ho jate the, un 5 days ke liye tempoo se Jane aane ke liye 87 88 90s ki bat hai hardly 3-4 rs kerala lagta tha vo na to khud deti thin na hi father ko Dene deti thin. Agar main use Kahati ki this hai phir 5 days college aur tuitions Jane ko mat boliyega to ulta Brooke pet rakh ke punish karne ki dhamki deti thin .salon tak mujhe Har machine unka ye metal aur physical tourcher jhelna pada .sharam ke mare na to main kisi ko apne ghao dikha sakti thi na bata sakti thi. Ek mahine ke ghao such nahi plate the ki angle machine ki ghao ke upar ghao hote rahane ki Bari aa jati thi.ghao ke pain she meri aankho se aansoo bahate huye dekh ke man hi man khush hoti thi. Itni Jada cruel thi mere prati ki ek soframycin ya betadyne tube ghao men Lagane Dena to door ki baat thi ek boroline ya boroplus tak nahi deti thi Lagann ke liye. It is Jada attachable Manila thi. Japan booth ke Mera ek accha carrier nahi banne diya. Japan booth ke meri marital life ko bhi spoil Kiya.Life men jab kabhi bhi mujhe unke mental ,immotional ya financial support ki jaroot thi vo mere liye kabhi bhi available nahi thi. Meri puri life spoil karke apne hi Hathon apni ladki ko chalti phirti Jinda lash salon se Bana ke rakh ke chali gayest hain.jindagi bhar main Maa ka pyaar chote bachpan se pane ke liye Tarasti hi rah gayi. Now she is no more, I am 55 years old lady and I hate my mother because she never loved me.

  • @rajanisonawane7107
    @rajanisonawane7107 3 місяці тому +1

    आज दूनियमे अच्छी मा हैं बेटा बेटी बह यू भी हैं. कोई कोई खराब भी है लेकीन तू लोगोको जिस तरह समझा रही ओ गलत हैं सब के मन में विष घोळ रही है

  • @steadyhorse1
    @steadyhorse1 3 місяці тому +1

    Do make a video on why a mom bcums narc.yehi sochne me to adhi zindagi kt gai!

  • @komalbarguje1016
    @komalbarguje1016 Місяць тому

    Ho cchiy

  • @ridamazhar581
    @ridamazhar581 3 місяці тому +2

    Plz btaya kio banati hy mother toxic plz plz plz plz

    • @PinkZindagi
      @PinkZindagi  3 місяці тому

      Video coming very soon👍

  • @namratakulkarni2735
    @namratakulkarni2735 3 місяці тому +2

    Aaap ke dairing ki daad deni chaahiye, jo is vishay pe video bananeki dairing aapne ki ... 75% percent log toxic mother ke victim hote he ... lekin usmese 60% logonko ye samaz me hi nhi aata ke ,wo mother ke toxicity ke shikaar he aur ek barbaad character he .....

  • @aishwaryashrivastava7630
    @aishwaryashrivastava7630 3 місяці тому +1

    Meri ma kalank h ma k nam pr me uske sath rahna ni chahta kabhi i hate her marti b ni h

  • @EDUCANEET
    @EDUCANEET 3 місяці тому +4

    I think they themselves are narcs ,thats why they opposed.

  • @namratakulkarni2735
    @namratakulkarni2735 3 місяці тому +1

    Maa naam ke vimsical creature ke baare me, kuchh sun ne ki eccha hi nhi rahi .... Is lady ke kaaran Maa ye word se, itni nafrat ho gyi ke, jindgi me na maa banneka confidance raha, aur na hi ecchha rhi ...

    • @NA-vt6mz
      @NA-vt6mz 2 місяці тому +1

      😮😮😮 what’s ur story feel ur pain

  • @gorakhanathmudhale3127
    @gorakhanathmudhale3127 2 місяці тому

    Bhan bhai yoko jegda lageati hai