It's a double standard in the workplace. The alpha men at the top in management allow for this behavior because they're the one's being pursued and enjoy it. It' gives their ego a rush while the lower ranked betas have to walk on eggshells for fear of losing their jobs.
Agreed. Also, the other part of that double standard is, the females get to benefit from that. Everyone else has to abide by the code of conduct, except them, as long as they're playing along with the men in corporate.
Good thoughts can come from anyone. Even if we generally disagree with their politics. Maybe it’s best to listen to a plethora of opinions. There are good opinions in every corner of society. Judge the point. Not the person.
HR is mostly driven by women and they wont have any, any sympathy over men when some women comes with a false accusation. You'll be blamed, judged and convicted. That's a certainty.
More like you are gaslit into thinking that not knowing the human history and the modern state of affairs in your country and then ignorantly saying that you live in a matriarchy will make you look smart, but you just crapped your pants
There are literally women wearing yoga pants to work now. There was a woman in my office who initiated a conversation with me wearing this, only to smirk and turn her body to where she was facing me, but her behind was turned out to the side. Obviously, she wanted me to look, but I refuse to reward this kind of behavior.
@CulturalCommentary Women are well aware of what they're doing; in fact, I've spent years researching women's behavior. Office settings are dominated by women, so when they get a male co-worker, the women may resort to competing with each other to see who can get his attention, who can obtain certain emotional responses, etc., via manipulation. I actually cover this on UA-cam, and covered what these women were doing. Interestingly as well, they were secretly watching my videos on female behavior which I was aware of, and they received this info. from my last job. I made it known that I knew they were watching, my subs went down by 20, and the women suddenly changed their behavior and couldn't look me in the eyes.
Since when did showing cleavage at work become acceptable? Since when did wearing sports bras which is underwear and gym pants literally riding up their butt crack become acceptable? This makes ME uncomfortable.
Since you men started praising them for doing it. Do you see the likes, comments, views on the videos of women working out here on UA-cam? This is what they're emulating. They see you guys looking at them, and you're sneaking into the public restroom with them, or cheating on your spouses with them on lunch break. So, in general, men are sneakily and silently encouraging it. (I don't mean you specifically)
One of the female marketing directors at my former company was a staunch advocate of women in the workplace, women's empowerment and feminism. Whenever she attended a meeting with men who were above her in position, or consultants she was trying to low ball, she would wear a push up bra and low cut blouse that exposed a lot of cleavage. Her skirt was short and exposed 2/3 of her thighs. Bright red lipstick. She was so bold as to brag to us, her lowly minions, that she did it to gain leverage over the men at the meetings.
It's curious that so many people want to be exhibitionists living in "safe spaces." It's like walking around naked in a glass house while pretending to be modest. btw. years ago I was in a convenience store on a beautiful Saturday summer afternoon when a pretty young lady in a thong bikini said, "Hi!" like she knew me. I didn't know who she was. She said, "You don't recognize me, do you?" I said I didn't. It turned out she was the branch manager at my bank. At work she dressed professionally, had coiffed hair, and look about 40. And here she was in all her bare glory, revealing a shapely early-20-something figure. I told her, "I didn't recognize you without your clothes on." She about fell on the floor laughing. In those days, people were modest at work, and waited for the weekend to let their hair down.
@@cs3818919please make a mention of jobs where women are hardly there except the dangerous and difficult work. Women want equality only in white collared jobs
@@Chaitanyaworld2692 they are what they are, mother nature has made them that way. Wishing them to be something else isn't going to change the situation.
I think they know. But they go like "it is what it is, if I don't look pretty and sexually spectacular, I might not succeed and survive on such environment" the best we men can do is avoid looking at and move on with our lives, without getting into serious trouble. As is written in Matthew 18:9 And if your eye causes you to sin, tear it out and throw it away. It is better for you to enter life with one eye than with two eyes to be thrown into the hell of fire.
I remember a female co-worker who was drop-dead gorgeous. She always downplayed her appearance with plain clothes and no makeup. She was married and obviously didn't want the wrong kind of male attention. But I wonder if dealing with the envy of other women in the workplace might have been an even bigger problem.
I actually have an opposite reaction each time i wanted to get a job in the tech industry as a hijabi female in modest clothing, i was actually labelled as unintelligent or not presentable or less capable or not modern enough because of my modest clothing n demeanour. N also being too sexy at a techincal/ engineering work will make one not look serious so there’s that angle for female as well. But dressup should be modest for a job setting unless it is a modelling job or sth of that sort. Overall modest clothing female doesn’t always get the job they deserve, usually it goes to the more provocatively dressed up female rather than talented one/most capable one. Women in these sexy dress usually get bettet compensation in jobs like teaching, nursing, hr, sales rep, marketing rep, doctors n other typically female orientated jobs.
I am not Muslim but I am a conservative woman who is always dressed properly and my all interaction with men is purely professional. Dont take men seriously, they will complain about it but then will decide sexually provocative women in any job situation, they hope that they can have a chance with her so that is why they choose her in the first place. If they can get what they want from her all good, if they cannot they will be angry and ask women not to be in the workplaces. A principled man can always simply say NO!
@@YoncaYüce-m5fno, we really don't want it in our face any more than you would want men in the workplace wearing next to nothing and putting you in jeopardy for not knowing where to look
You have a point. I have seen this. The more attractive you are, the more opportunities you will get in all areas in life. Modesty doesn't exist in north America.
@cruiser6260 if this was true this practice would have stopped already. C-level are dominantly males. What is stopping them to implement policies about dress code?
@@YoncaYüce-m5f I don't know what C level is. Maybe CEO. Many managers are women, HR responsible for policy is mostly women. Most western countries have predominantly women leaders and ministers. They are feminists and promote the idea that it was the bad old days when for example the width of bikinis on the beach was measured. Anyone defending the idea of doing the same again would be shamed and sacked for suggesting a maximum 6 inches of cleavage. In fact that is a hate crime of misogyny which is a criminal offence, controlling women's bodies. There was furore even 25 yrs ago for a male judge of Australian Idol suggesting a contestant in a too tight dress, wear more appropriate attire. you COULD 'police your own' as they say. Male priests and pastors no longer dare mentioning this issue from the pulpit. With churches now having women priests and pastors, they can speak up.
As a woman I am 100% against this and I believe that there has to be strict dress code at the workplaces. But I do not understand why we only blame women? To have a sex we, at least, need two people. If women are stelling sex, why do men buy it? Do they have to? I suffered in unfair environments that this kind of sexual affairs created. As a woman, I am extremely professional, be it my dress code or how I interact. I am skilled, intelligent, experienced... but then manager promotes another woman because she has sex with him. Isnt he as well guilty?
Excellent commentary Rich and it's high time this behaviour by women was called out. Some women dress v. sexually provocatively at work, it's distasteful, dishonours the company/organisation's reputation, lures young men into lewd conduct and creates a discriminatory attitude in workplace attire. A man comes to work in a pair of shorts (even in hot weather) he's told to go home and change or worse suspended! A woman wears a body hugging low cut dress showing lots of cleavage and nothing is said. It's unfair and vulgar and every employer should have the right to demand acceptable attire in their premises. Finally, there are some women who are not as smart as they make out and they use sexual narcissism to progress their careers. So employers need to lay down ground rules to stop this discriminatory, provocative process. 😮
This is why Islam mandates modest dress codes for men and women, and asks both to lower their gaze, and demands both to speak and interact with restraint..... Not because We OpPrEsS WoMeN 🥴 or We cAnT cOnTroL OuRsElvEs There's wisdom behind God's counsel to humans (which He created and knows best about).
women like attention and if there's a chance that she can climb the corporate ladder with it, the take extra measure to make sure they get that attention. my ex used to specifically go shopping before an office event to look her attractive best. and she knew what she was doing.
@@YoncaYüce-m5f showing off work you have done to make yourself better as a human is not the same as showing yourself off for your looks that you are born with / put on with makeup to gain something from it b/c I can tell you right now showing off a good bod as a man for a office job wont do you any favors lol it will for hardworking jobs tho so you got that going for you at least lol
I once quit a job of 4 years because the new owner kept hiring random women off the street and I could not hang around the nasty, NASTY stuff they were talking about at work... worst part was the whole workplace was a KITCHEN
Very good video. I've seen that happen before... One girl complained to a coworker that she caught me staring at her (and I wasn't, maybe she wanted me to). She said she would go to HR, but the coworker (who is a friend of mine) calmed her down. Many months later she said, in a joke (there were many people around btw), that she caught me staring at her. I said "I think it only happened in your imagination" (yes, I hold a grudge). Imagine, I could have been sent to HR for absolutely no reason. She became famous for dressing in a "unique" way...
Women don’t care about bringing advantages to men. And there is no reason they should. And what about you? If you have a job, you also have a boss , male or female. Regardless of gender you would also want obey them, if you don’t want to lose the job
As long as men they are themselves getting sex and advantage they do not care about women selling sex in the workplace. When they cannot get sex but other men get it, they are angry. As a woman, if I am not selling sex but male managers only promoting other women who do, isnt the male manager also responsible for it? Who does say male has to buy sex? They can say no.
The 1960s is often seen as a turning point in societal and cultural values, particularly in the Western world, due to a combination of transformative events and movements that challenged traditional norms. Some reasons why this period is viewed by some as the beginning of a "degenerate" society include: 1. The Sexual Revolution The 1960s saw the rise of the sexual revolution, characterized by a more open discussion of sex, the development of the birth control pill, and the breakdown of traditional sexual taboos. These changes led to a shift in attitudes toward premarital sex, marriage, and fidelity, which some saw as a departure from moral decency and modesty. 2. Counterculture Movement The counterculture of the 1960s, epitomized by groups like the hippies, rejected mainstream societal values, including materialism, conformity, and conservative social norms. This movement advocated for personal freedom, peace, and love but was also associated with the use of drugs, anti-authoritarianism, and a more relaxed approach to traditional behaviors and dress codes. 3. Rise of Feminism and Gender Roles Second-wave feminism emerged during this time, advocating for women's liberation, equality in the workplace, and reproductive rights. Traditional gender roles and the nuclear family model were questioned, causing tensions between those who valued these structures as cornerstones of a decent society and those who sought more equality and freedom. 4. Civil Rights Movements and Anti-Establishment Sentiments While the civil rights movement in the 1960s sought to address racial injustice and promote equality, it also led to a broader questioning of established institutions. This era saw protests against government policies, particularly regarding the Vietnam War, and a general distrust of authority. For some, this rise in dissent and activism represented a breakdown in respect for tradition and order. 5. Changes in Media and Entertainment Media, television, and music in the 1960s also began pushing boundaries. Rock and roll, psychedelic music, and films like "Easy Rider" reflected the changing cultural landscape. Themes of rebellion, anti-establishment attitudes, and hedonism became more mainstream, challenging older forms of entertainment that promoted modesty and conformity. 6. Decline in Religious Influence The 1960s also witnessed a decline in the influence of organized religion in public life. Traditional religious values, which often emphasized modesty, self-discipline, and moral absolutes, started to lose their hold, particularly in the West, as secularism and individualism became more prevalent. This is the reason why
Same absurd thing that happens so much in Nigerian companies. You can’t get ahead if you do not have a curvy, attractive lady that shows just the right amount of skin in your business team. Its sad.
Charities do this too & for those that do i completely ignore their solicitation. I am not callous to charitable giving, i am not going to be the Simp. So i noticed whenever theres solicitors for charity its always young women, reasonably fit, & they are all bubbly outgoing & really want to talk to men. We never see this from them in ordinary life. They are selling "an attractive young woman is speaking directly to you & wants to interact with you. This MIGHT be your lucky day! Cant you spare a little cash for her charity? " Where the middle aged or old women soliciting this charity? Where are the men? If this is a legitimate charity, why are you only using young women as solicitors? The implication is, young women , especially white women, who would never give you the time of day in real life are giving you a CHANCE! So be a simp & give to a completely unknown charity. There is no chance, & they despise us in real life. So why am i giving to her charity? I would not speak to one who got up in my face in a parking lot for "Food for the World" or something bogus like that. Finally, she said "You didnt even give me a Chance!" Her "Chance" for me she is implying is not real & therefore my chance i am giving her is zero. Plus her charity sounds totally fake. "Food for the World"?, why not just call it the Human Fund?
I am with you. I immediately recognized who you are talking about. I had the same experience watching her video I had to cut it half way through when I recognized that I am starting to watch her body instead following the subject, I felt embarrassing. I thing every decent man should react this way to such shallow individuals. The fact that they pop up on this platform so often speaks something about decline of role of a man in society as a true man.
It's not that women don't know, they don't care. It only benefits them, and they like that. Of course they will always deny it to keep that power, but we know they are smart enough to notice and do it on purpose. It's almost impossible to not be aware of the effect of your clothes
Just for a different perspective, you all know you don't have to buy anything a woman is selling, right? I don't complain about the local Porsche dealership displaying their sexy cars, I can admire them without any intention of buying one. And who put men in charge of determining when a woman is or isn't selling sex? It might be leggings and a sports bra for you, it might be a bare ankle being visible to someone else. Who gets to decide, you or the guy who's uncontrollably turned on by the site of a bare ankle? And if you can state that that guy just needs to chill out, could the same not be said about you? Lastly, are you just as outraged at men who exaggerate their sexuality with huge muscles, tattoos and Harleys? Do they also need to stop? Look, I understand your argument and part of me agrees that some things are just not professional, but I see both sexes engaging in this behavior and overall think people need to MASSIVELY grow up and learn how to control their emotions.
“Who put men in charge of when a woman is or isn’t selling sex?” lol. If men don’t intervene, women will destroy the world. It’s been proven that the patriarchy came into existence, when it was determined that women couldn’t navigate their lives independently without causing societal collapse. Out of necessity, men stepped in and controlled them. Creating the modern world. Women are children. It’s why they’re great mothers.
Men can get away with this too.....if a muscular fit male wears a well fitting Polo shirt or dress shirt to show off his guns and pecs nobody is going to say shit... and anyone who appreciates muscular fit males I am sure will encourage it lol. Personally I think people should "flaunt what you got", if it helps you close deals or get ahead in life. Why not?
I have a few questions that I hope you can elaborate on: 1. You mentioned that societal and biological factors influence women using their sexuality in the workplace. Could you explain more about how these pressures shape behavior, and do you think it's possible to fully overcome them? 2. While you argue that the sexualization of the workplace is harmful, how can organizations enforce professionalism without restricting personal expression? 3. How do you balance respecting a woman's agency in her choices with the negative implications of sexualization you mentioned? Is there a way to empower women without reinforcing these dynamics? 4. What alternatives do you suggest for women who feel pressured to use their appearance as leverage in male-dominated industries? 5. Finally, what do you believe are the most effective strategies for addressing and dismantling the root causes of this issue, both in society and within workplace policies? Looking forward to your thoughts!
This has been the case since females entered the workforce, everyone knows it, but today it's simply revealed via females themselves on social platforms. The workplace (was) built on a meritocracy around rationality and logic, these are skills not both genders (YT friendly word) have in abundance, so what does one gender use....I talk from experience.
Decades ago, on my first day at a new job, the middle-aged but attractive lady in the office down the hall dropped by to say "hello." She was wearing a see-through top and see-through bra, so you could see it all. She was unpretentious and not at all show-offish, and I never had anything other than routine business interactions with her for years. But I do remember that first day on the job. She might have heard a new man was in the building and wanted to make a great first impression, which she did.
So what? If there are not buyers you cannot sell anything, if there is no demand, there is no meaning of having supply, simple economics rule. If women are selling sex it is because there is a high demand. Cut the demand and no matter how much they sell sex they will not be able to gain any advantage.
I’m not saying the behavior is wrong, it just doesn’t help to focus on that one HR lady when I want to have a broader conversation about the issue she represents.
They are just addicted to their sex advantage. Man, you should do video about woman junior IT developers.... . They just think it´s normal for 4 senior colleagues to compete to help them and stuff for them.
@@YoncaYüce-m5f The purpose of a business is to sell the businesses goods and services, while paying employees to produce and provide these goods and services. It's not to create alternative markets, which trade and sell the personal goods and services of the employees. As employees are explicitly paid to serve the commercial interests of the business, as defined by their employment contract.
So what? If there are not buyers you cannot sell anything, if there is no demand, there is no meaning of having supply, simple economics rule. If women are selling sex it is because there is a high demand. Cut the demand and no matter how much they sell sex they will not be able to gain any advantage.
Buddy, you’re sitting here complaining that you don’t have the self-control to treat people equally based on your own personal perception of sexual attraction. Think about the logic.
Women have always used their beauty for their advantages and thats not a problem for itself. The problem is that nowadays man are accused to quickly and to harshly for trivial things like you showed in your other video where you had to attend to HR for a coffee invitation. This is bad for man and woman.
The Islamic world has pushed back against this overt sexuality in public and in the work place. Maybe that is where we are headed? I can understand why men in general would lean toward that ideology in todays Western Societies.
That's why the older ladies in the office get catty when a new lady arrives, especially if she is attractive and/or younger. They know that whatever male supervisors/managers are around will gravitate towards and favor the new person.
That's true. Even in Europe. As am Men you have to wear shirt and chino, perhaps a 👕 or the almighty suits. Women have more freedom of what they can wear and what's acceptable. You're getting strange glances if you are coming to office with 🩳
Women in Europe come to the office wearing shorts? Or bikini? Or what are you trying to say? That women shouldn’t reveal their sexually dimorphic features? Then why don’t men cover up their Adam’s apple with scarves? Maybe because women are not perverts? Haven’t you thought about that, huh?
It's a double standard in the workplace. The alpha men at the top in management allow for this behavior because they're the one's being pursued and enjoy it. It' gives their ego a rush while the lower ranked betas have to walk on eggshells for fear of losing their jobs.
Agreed. Also, the other part of that double standard is, the females get to benefit from that. Everyone else has to abide by the code of conduct, except them, as long as they're playing along with the men in corporate.
You nailed it.
Bingo !
@@mattw4496 the law of diminishing returns kicks in during the race to the bottom
so going for the alpha heads is part of the solution, then
Jordan Peterson talks about this. They dress like night workers then complain if they catch you staring.
Jordan Peterson is not a good adviser
Good thoughts can come from anyone. Even if we generally disagree with their politics. Maybe it’s best to listen to a plethora of opinions. There are good opinions in every corner of society. Judge the point. Not the person.
@@allears434he is a hypocrite for some things, but for others he is pretty much on point.
@@allears434i know, he extols the virtues of marriage. He should be cancelled for that bad advice. Everything else is beneficial and indisputable😊
He also said, not wearing makup in companies should be mandatory.
I personally would not put women into work.
this video may get cancelled, but thank you for speaking this uncomfortable truth. deep down we all recognize whats going on
More like comfortable lies to please a bloated male ego
I don't care what women wear as long as they don't complain to human relations. I feel like HR is the real issue.
Hr is the problem.
HR is the matriarchy.
HR is mostly driven by women and they wont have any, any sympathy over men when some women comes with a false accusation. You'll be blamed, judged and convicted. That's a certainty.
We live in a matriarchy, but we are gaslit into thinking it's a patriarchy.
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Gaslighting isn't a symptom of matriarchy, it's the definition of it. Because the only power a matriarchy has is if you give it to it (as a man).
More like you are gaslit into thinking that not knowing the human history and the modern state of affairs in your country and then ignorantly saying that you live in a matriarchy will make you look smart, but you just crapped your pants
ding ding ding . you figured it out, here's your prize ⛓
How is that so? Please explain your answer.
I know a woman that dresses almost borderline like a joker at work. I mean a black lace corset and everything. No repercussions
There are literally women wearing yoga pants to work now. There was a woman in my office who initiated a conversation with me wearing this, only to smirk and turn her body to where she was facing me, but her behind was turned out to the side. Obviously, she wanted me to look, but I refuse to reward this kind of behavior.
Yeah. #ImUncomfortable
@CulturalCommentary Women are well aware of what they're doing; in fact, I've spent years researching women's behavior. Office settings are dominated by women, so when they get a male co-worker, the women may resort to competing with each other to see who can get his attention, who can obtain certain emotional responses, etc., via manipulation. I actually cover this on UA-cam, and covered what these women were doing. Interestingly as well, they were secretly watching my videos on female behavior which I was aware of, and they received this info. from my last job. I made it known that I knew they were watching, my subs went down by 20, and the women suddenly changed their behavior and couldn't look me in the eyes.
Why were you were wearing this?
They do it because they no longer have a fear of being shamed or physically disciplined for acting that way.
Since when did showing cleavage at work become acceptable?
Since when did wearing sports bras which is underwear and gym pants literally riding up their butt crack become acceptable?
This makes ME uncomfortable.
I don’t know when, but it has. And it shouldn’t be in my opinion. It’s very uncomfortable
Just to clarify my comment. The part about sports bras and tight underpants is actually in GYMS
i remember two women i worked with, would wear skin tight, white yoga pants all the time.
white yoga pants and high heels
Since you men started praising them for doing it. Do you see the likes, comments, views on the videos of women working out here on UA-cam? This is what they're emulating. They see you guys looking at them, and you're sneaking into the public restroom with them, or cheating on your spouses with them on lunch break. So, in general, men are sneakily and silently encouraging it. (I don't mean you specifically)
One of the female marketing directors at my former company was a staunch advocate of women in the workplace, women's empowerment and feminism. Whenever she attended a meeting with men who were above her in position, or consultants she was trying to low ball, she would wear a push up bra and low cut blouse that exposed a lot of cleavage. Her skirt was short and exposed 2/3 of her thighs. Bright red lipstick. She was so bold as to brag to us, her lowly minions, that she did it to gain leverage over the men at the meetings.
was it her company? or was she a 304 for hire?
@@saeedhossain6099 304 for hire. Employee.
It's curious that so many people want to be exhibitionists living in "safe spaces." It's like walking around naked in a glass house while pretending to be modest.
btw. years ago I was in a convenience store on a beautiful Saturday summer afternoon when a pretty young lady in a thong bikini said, "Hi!" like she knew me. I didn't know who she was. She said, "You don't recognize me, do you?" I said I didn't. It turned out she was the branch manager at my bank. At work she dressed professionally, had coiffed hair, and look about 40. And here she was in all her bare glory, revealing a shapely early-20-something figure. I told her, "I didn't recognize you without your clothes on." She about fell on the floor laughing. In those days, people were modest at work, and waited for the weekend to let their hair down.
Walking in a thong bikini at the convenient store still isn't ok because its in public.
@@synqelectric6163 oh but it is seeing how freaks can come out with next to nothing and show it off to EVERYONE
There should be male only and female only gyms. The less cheap attention women get the better. Or gyms with a dress code.
Dress appropriately and men will not approach you. I dress appropriately and have no problem.
@@YoncaYüce-m5f I'm a dude lol
I support this
Skip the gym and build your own home gym or work-out in nature.
Bring back sex segregated workplaces
Work in a trade. Lots of trades have next to no women in them. By their own choice.
As a woman I agree with that suggestion
@@YoncaYüce-m5fI wouldn't hire black and white women at all
@@YoncaYüce-m5f Salute toTurnKey
@@cs3818919please make a mention of jobs where women are hardly there except the dangerous and difficult work. Women want equality only in white collared jobs
Its in her nature to act like this, shes playing to her strengths. A VVomens strength is not her intelligence, what did you expect?
But that's pathetic 👎
@@Chaitanyaworld2692 they are what they are, mother nature has made them that way. Wishing them to be something else isn't going to change the situation.
Red Pill saves men. It’s nice to see everyone waking up.
I think they know. But they go like "it is what it is, if I don't look pretty and sexually spectacular, I might not succeed and survive on such environment" the best we men can do is avoid looking at and move on with our lives, without getting into serious trouble. As is written in Matthew 18:9 And if your eye causes you to sin, tear it out and throw it away. It is better for you to enter life with one eye than with two eyes to be thrown into the hell of fire.
God did not put one man and one woman for 8 hours ino one room.
I prefer eclesiastes 25:19
@@Dos-dh9ul Good one too, but isn't suitable for the context on the video. Matthew 18:9 fits way better to this subject.
May as well ask a fish not to swim.
"You're not looking at her eyes"
I literally cannot see her eyes.
I remember a female co-worker who was drop-dead gorgeous. She always downplayed her appearance with plain clothes and no makeup.
She was married and obviously didn't want the wrong kind of male attention. But I wonder if dealing with the envy of other women in the workplace might have been an even bigger problem.
I actually have an opposite reaction each time i wanted to get a job in the tech industry as a hijabi female in modest clothing, i was actually labelled as unintelligent or not presentable or less capable or not modern enough because of my modest clothing n demeanour.
N also being too sexy at a techincal/ engineering work will make one not look serious so there’s that angle for female as well.
But dressup should be modest for a job setting unless it is a modelling job or sth of that sort.
Overall modest clothing female doesn’t always get the job they deserve, usually it goes to the more provocatively dressed up female rather than talented one/most capable one. Women in these sexy dress usually get bettet compensation in jobs like teaching, nursing, hr, sales rep, marketing rep, doctors n other typically female orientated jobs.
I am not Muslim but I am a conservative woman who is always dressed properly and my all interaction with men is purely professional. Dont take men seriously, they will complain about it but then will decide sexually provocative women in any job situation, they hope that they can have a chance with her so that is why they choose her in the first place. If they can get what they want from her all good, if they cannot they will be angry and ask women not to be in the workplaces. A principled man can always simply say NO!
@@YoncaYüce-m5fno, we really don't want it in our face any more than you would want men in the workplace wearing next to nothing and putting you in jeopardy for not knowing where to look
You have a point. I have seen this. The more attractive you are, the more opportunities you will get in all areas in life. Modesty doesn't exist in north America.
@cruiser6260 if this was true this practice would have stopped already. C-level are dominantly males. What is stopping them to implement policies about dress code?
@@YoncaYüce-m5f I don't know what C level is. Maybe CEO. Many managers are women, HR responsible for policy is mostly women. Most western countries have predominantly women leaders and ministers.
They are feminists and promote the idea that it was the bad old days when for example the width of bikinis on the beach was measured. Anyone defending the idea of doing the same again would be shamed and sacked for suggesting a maximum 6 inches of cleavage. In fact that is a hate crime of misogyny which is a criminal offence, controlling women's bodies. There was furore even 25 yrs ago for a male judge of Australian Idol suggesting a contestant in a too tight dress, wear more appropriate attire. you COULD 'police your own' as they say. Male priests and pastors no longer dare mentioning this issue from the pulpit. With churches now having women priests and pastors, they can speak up.
As a woman I am 100% against this and I believe that there has to be strict dress code at the workplaces. But I do not understand why we only blame women? To have a sex we, at least, need two people. If women are stelling sex, why do men buy it? Do they have to? I suffered in unfair environments that this kind of sexual affairs created. As a woman, I am extremely professional, be it my dress code or how I interact. I am skilled, intelligent, experienced... but then manager promotes another woman because she has sex with him. Isnt he as well guilty?
Yep! There is a reward for this behavior. Women have adapted to play that game.
If you're truly what you said you are. Then you're not working in a right job/company culture.
Yea he is guilty as well.
Yeah let's blame the men right
@muskreality If he cannot control his balls yes he is guilty. Nobody is putting a gun on his head to have sex with a woman, it is free will.
Excellent commentary Rich and it's high time this behaviour by women was called out. Some women dress v. sexually provocatively at work, it's distasteful, dishonours the company/organisation's reputation, lures young men into lewd conduct and creates a discriminatory attitude in workplace attire. A man comes to work in a pair of shorts (even in hot weather) he's told to go home and change or worse suspended! A woman wears a body hugging low cut dress showing lots of cleavage and nothing is said. It's unfair and vulgar and every employer should have the right to demand acceptable attire in their premises. Finally, there are some women who are not as smart as they make out and they use sexual narcissism to progress their careers. So employers need to lay down ground rules to stop this discriminatory, provocative process. 😮
"You're not looking at her eyes" - no shit, I can't.
but sir she's 90% dressless
Demon actually...
😂😂😂😂
This is why Islam mandates modest dress codes for men and women, and asks both to lower their gaze, and demands both to speak and interact with restraint.....
Not because We OpPrEsS WoMeN 🥴 or We cAnT cOnTroL OuRsElvEs
There's wisdom behind God's counsel to humans (which He created and knows best about).
they never complain when it benefits them, and cry victim when it doesnt
women like attention and if there's a chance that she can climb the corporate ladder with it, the take extra measure to make sure they get that attention. my ex used to specifically go shopping before an office event to look her attractive best. and she knew what she was doing.
Sounds like you dodged a bullet
Dressing up to impress other men is a huge red flag.
@@davidmoss9943 yes red also was her favorite color
If men do not like attention, why do try to show off their muscles in every chance?
@@YoncaYüce-m5fThey actually do but it's quite different. They are not trying to impress their way up the corporate ladder.
@@YoncaYüce-m5f showing off work you have done to make yourself better as a human is not the same as showing yourself off for your looks that you are born with / put on with makeup to gain something from it
b/c I can tell you right now showing off a good bod as a man for a office job wont do you any favors lol it will for hardworking jobs tho so you got that going for you at least lol
Love your channel.
Keep uploading more videos
I once quit a job of 4 years because the new owner kept hiring random women off the street and I could not hang around the nasty, NASTY stuff they were talking about at work... worst part was the whole workplace was a KITCHEN
That's ridiculous of him.
Very good video. I've seen that happen before... One girl complained to a coworker that she caught me staring at her (and I wasn't, maybe she wanted me to). She said she would go to HR, but the coworker (who is a friend of mine) calmed her down. Many months later she said, in a joke (there were many people around btw), that she caught me staring at her. I said "I think it only happened in your imagination" (yes, I hold a grudge). Imagine, I could have been sent to HR for absolutely no reason. She became famous for dressing in a "unique" way...
Its like in spy movies.. a man's weakness is women
men wearing yoga pants at work or gym be like Peter in Deadpool
It’s not for the men. It’s the women competing with each other to see who is prettier, younger, etc..
She’s Farah Sharghi if anybody’s wondering.
Omg. You speak the unspoken. I'm glad I don't work closely with young women for that reason and I'm gay 😂
When you know supervisors are having affairs lol
Of course they know. They just hate that the guys at their level or below are looking. That dress code is for the ceo to look.
We need people like you telling it like it is. We need the knowledge
I am always shock how "sexual" are some female pictures on linkedin. Doesnt look professional at all
I think 50.000 BCE is calling, it wants its old news back
BC. Not BCE. Dont be woke.
Patrice O’neil put it best on this, these women are the Honey covered salmon in the office and us men are the Bears! Haha
No reason women shouldn’t have a right to work. Men and women working together is bringing ZERO advantages to men, unless that man is the boss.
Women don’t care about bringing advantages to men. And there is no reason they should. And what about you? If you have a job, you also have a boss , male or female. Regardless of gender you would also want obey them, if you don’t want to lose the job
As long as men they are themselves getting sex and advantage they do not care about women selling sex in the workplace. When they cannot get sex but other men get it, they are angry. As a woman, if I am not selling sex but male managers only promoting other women who do, isnt the male manager also responsible for it? Who does say male has to buy sex? They can say no.
These woman barely survive , because they get tired and irrirated doing this 😊
agree 💯
We should get back on modest decent 1920s to 1950s culture.
The 1960s is often seen as a turning point in societal and cultural values, particularly in the Western world, due to a combination of transformative events and movements that challenged traditional norms. Some reasons why this period is viewed by some as the beginning of a "degenerate" society include:
1. The Sexual Revolution
The 1960s saw the rise of the sexual revolution, characterized by a more open discussion of sex, the development of the birth control pill, and the breakdown of traditional sexual taboos. These changes led to a shift in attitudes toward premarital sex, marriage, and fidelity, which some saw as a departure from moral decency and modesty.
2. Counterculture Movement
The counterculture of the 1960s, epitomized by groups like the hippies, rejected mainstream societal values, including materialism, conformity, and conservative social norms. This movement advocated for personal freedom, peace, and love but was also associated with the use of drugs, anti-authoritarianism, and a more relaxed approach to traditional behaviors and dress codes.
3. Rise of Feminism and Gender Roles
Second-wave feminism emerged during this time, advocating for women's liberation, equality in the workplace, and reproductive rights. Traditional gender roles and the nuclear family model were questioned, causing tensions between those who valued these structures as cornerstones of a decent society and those who sought more equality and freedom.
4. Civil Rights Movements and Anti-Establishment Sentiments
While the civil rights movement in the 1960s sought to address racial injustice and promote equality, it also led to a broader questioning of established institutions. This era saw protests against government policies, particularly regarding the Vietnam War, and a general distrust of authority. For some, this rise in dissent and activism represented a breakdown in respect for tradition and order.
5. Changes in Media and Entertainment
Media, television, and music in the 1960s also began pushing boundaries. Rock and roll, psychedelic music, and films like "Easy Rider" reflected the changing cultural landscape. Themes of rebellion, anti-establishment attitudes, and hedonism became more mainstream, challenging older forms of entertainment that promoted modesty and conformity.
6. Decline in Religious Influence
The 1960s also witnessed a decline in the influence of organized religion in public life. Traditional religious values, which often emphasized modesty, self-discipline, and moral absolutes, started to lose their hold, particularly in the West, as secularism and individualism became more prevalent.
This is the reason why
I watched old laurel hardy comedy videos woman and so well dressed just wow
Same absurd thing that happens so much in Nigerian companies. You can’t get ahead if you do not have a curvy, attractive lady that shows just the right amount of skin in your business team. Its sad.
Charities do this too & for those that do i completely ignore their solicitation. I am not callous to charitable giving, i am not going to be the Simp. So i noticed whenever theres solicitors for charity its always young women, reasonably fit, & they are all bubbly outgoing & really want to talk to men. We never see this from them in ordinary life. They are selling "an attractive young woman is speaking directly to you & wants to interact with you. This MIGHT be your lucky day! Cant you spare a little cash for her charity? " Where the middle aged or old women soliciting this charity? Where are the men? If this is a legitimate charity, why are you only using young women as solicitors? The implication is, young women , especially white women, who would never give you the time of day in real life are giving you a CHANCE! So be a simp & give to a completely unknown charity. There is no chance, & they despise us in real life. So why am i giving to her charity? I would not speak to one who got up in my face in a parking lot for "Food for the World" or something bogus like that. Finally, she said "You didnt even give me a Chance!" Her "Chance" for me she is implying is not real & therefore my chance i am giving her is zero. Plus her charity sounds totally fake. "Food for the World"?, why not just call it the Human Fund?
Good point
I am with you. I immediately recognized who you are talking about. I had the same experience watching her video I had to cut it half way through when I recognized that I am starting to watch her body instead following the subject, I felt embarrassing. I thing every decent man should react this way to such shallow individuals. The fact that they pop up on this platform so often speaks something about decline of role of a man in society as a true man.
Proof that devil is 8n control.
It's not that women don't know, they don't care. It only benefits them, and they like that. Of course they will always deny it to keep that power, but we know they are smart enough to notice and do it on purpose. It's almost impossible to not be aware of the effect of your clothes
They for sure know, it's a meta shit test. It's purposeful. Much like a high stress hostage situation. It's manipulative and it needs to stop
Just for a different perspective, you all know you don't have to buy anything a woman is selling, right? I don't complain about the local Porsche dealership displaying their sexy cars, I can admire them without any intention of buying one. And who put men in charge of determining when a woman is or isn't selling sex? It might be leggings and a sports bra for you, it might be a bare ankle being visible to someone else. Who gets to decide, you or the guy who's uncontrollably turned on by the site of a bare ankle? And if you can state that that guy just needs to chill out, could the same not be said about you? Lastly, are you just as outraged at men who exaggerate their sexuality with huge muscles, tattoos and Harleys? Do they also need to stop?
Look, I understand your argument and part of me agrees that some things are just not professional, but I see both sexes engaging in this behavior and overall think people need to MASSIVELY grow up and learn how to control their emotions.
“Who put men in charge of when a woman is or isn’t selling sex?” lol. If men don’t intervene, women will destroy the world. It’s been proven that the patriarchy came into existence, when it was determined that women couldn’t navigate their lives independently without causing societal collapse. Out of necessity, men stepped in and controlled them. Creating the modern world. Women are children. It’s why they’re great mothers.
Nobody else finds either bare ankles or motorcycles and tatoos erotic and arousing.
Neither is nudity modesty😮
How do you know? Are you attracted to men? I am a female and I find it attractive.
@@YoncaYüce-m5f try and control those urges then
@@cruiser6260 Says a rando on the internet who purports to speak for all of humanity.
spitting facts bro
I've been hit on more since married. I used to believe in how Wonderful women were I know better now.
Men can get away with this too.....if a muscular fit male wears a well fitting Polo shirt or dress shirt to show off his guns and pecs nobody is going to say shit... and anyone who appreciates muscular fit males I am sure will encourage it lol. Personally I think people should "flaunt what you got", if it helps you close deals or get ahead in life. Why not?
Study biology
I have a few questions that I hope you can elaborate on:
1. You mentioned that societal and biological factors influence women using their sexuality in the workplace. Could you explain more about how these pressures shape behavior, and do you think it's possible to fully overcome them?
2. While you argue that the sexualization of the workplace is harmful, how can organizations enforce professionalism without restricting personal expression?
3. How do you balance respecting a woman's agency in her choices with the negative implications of sexualization you mentioned? Is there a way to empower women without reinforcing these dynamics?
4. What alternatives do you suggest for women who feel pressured to use their appearance as leverage in male-dominated industries?
5. Finally, what do you believe are the most effective strategies for addressing and dismantling the root causes of this issue, both in society and within workplace policies?
Looking forward to your thoughts!
Super based!
This has been the case since females entered the workforce, everyone knows it, but today it's simply revealed via females themselves on social platforms. The workplace (was) built on a meritocracy around rationality and logic, these are skills not both genders (YT friendly word) have in abundance, so what does one gender use....I talk from experience.
Only in the middle you dont find women around men
They dont know any other way.
Because they "can" sell sex, men are desperate.
Lotta hoo ahs !
I had a supervisor at one of my previous jobs that showed cleavage in my face.
Decades ago, on my first day at a new job, the middle-aged but attractive lady in the office down the hall dropped by to say "hello." She was wearing a see-through top and see-through bra, so you could see it all. She was unpretentious and not at all show-offish, and I never had anything other than routine business interactions with her for years. But I do remember that first day on the job. She might have heard a new man was in the building and wanted to make a great first impression, which she did.
Thirty and flirty keeps you employed I guess
So what? If there are not buyers you cannot sell anything, if there is no demand, there is no meaning of having supply, simple economics rule. If women are selling sex it is because there is a high demand. Cut the demand and no matter how much they sell sex they will not be able to gain any advantage.
Very interesting. Do you think men do it too? Do you think men encourage women to do it?
I think that's his point.
@@hbbstn I'm not sure. Seems like women are the punching bag these days, figuratively and literally.
What else do they do? Its what thay are,they are nothing else. Ever heard of the oldest profession? Reality is what it is,like it or not.
First time on this channel. Good job with this video
Hey where is this company I want to apply there. But I get it, they talk out of both sides of their mouth.
0:49 “it’s not him for beating his wife, it’s just a symptom of a larger problem.” Excuses protect no one in the long term
I’m not saying the behavior is wrong, it just doesn’t help to focus on that one HR lady when I want to have a broader conversation about the issue she represents.
They are just addicted to their sex advantage. Man, you should do video about woman junior IT developers.... . They just think it´s normal for 4 senior colleagues to compete to help them and stuff for them.
The question is: Why do they men help? Isnt males also guilty? Why are you blaming the girl ınstead of blaming these 4 guys?
@@YoncaYüce-m5f The purpose of a business is to sell the businesses goods and services, while paying employees to produce and provide these goods and services. It's not to create alternative markets, which trade and sell the personal goods and services of the employees. As employees are explicitly paid to serve the commercial interests of the business, as defined by their employment contract.
So what? If there are not buyers you cannot sell anything, if there is no demand, there is no meaning of having supply, simple economics rule. If women are selling sex it is because there is a high demand. Cut the demand and no matter how much they sell sex they will not be able to gain any advantage.
Islam is right about women
There has been and always will be double standards. It's not fair but that's the way it is.
Sex will always be the oldest profession and the longest lasting profession. Its the main driver of life itself.
"It's not her.... just a symptom of a problem " lol
Poor girl she's not responsible for her actions...... SMH, wow buddy
stop objectifying women and you’ll beat your misogyny
@@andreim5973stop saying misogynistic crap and not expecting a backlash
@@andreim5973 you don’t even have a job, what are talking about?
Children, children! Be nice. Stop acting like children. Haha 🙄
None of the women do this where I work. Which is a shame, because a couple are some real cuties.
Look at your answer. If you get sex you are happy and do not care women selling sex but if you cannot get but other men gets, you are angry.
Buddy, you’re sitting here complaining that you don’t have the self-control to treat people equally based on your own personal perception of sexual attraction. Think about the logic.
Look, they just like it. They like looking hot. Let em
You sell what gets you the highest price.
Women have always used their beauty for their advantages and thats not a problem for itself. The problem is that nowadays man are accused to quickly and to harshly for trivial things like you showed in your other video where you had to attend to HR for a coffee invitation. This is bad for man and woman.
And she will judge you....right.
3 mins in. annoyingly prudish. not for me
Are you a sharia law supporter?
Are you a hyperbolic jackass?
That's the only thing that they can bring to the table 😅
See Patrice O’Neal “harassment day”
Sounds like a you problem.
Lol! Exactly 😅
The Islamic world has pushed back against this overt sexuality in public and in the work place. Maybe that is where we are headed? I can understand why men in general would lean toward that ideology in todays Western Societies.
Because they're too weak to be able to control themselves
We need Trump for president to fix many gender related problems by going back to traditional ways.
they know it and they are playing it to their advantage. morally void without bound
That's why the older ladies in the office get catty when a new lady arrives, especially if she is attractive and/or younger. They know that whatever male supervisors/managers are around will gravitate towards and favor the new person.
That's true. Even in Europe. As am Men you have to wear shirt and chino, perhaps a 👕 or the almighty suits. Women have more freedom of what they can wear and what's acceptable. You're getting strange glances if you are coming to office with 🩳
Women in Europe come to the office wearing shorts? Or bikini? Or what are you trying to say? That women shouldn’t reveal their sexually dimorphic features? Then why don’t men cover up their Adam’s apple with scarves? Maybe because women are not perverts? Haven’t you thought about that, huh?