How to Introduce New Players to D&D - Leave the Rule Book at Home

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  • @theDMLair
    @theDMLair  6 років тому +9

    Let me know other good ways to introduce new players! (Or how NOT to do it!)
    🔴My giveaway of Mordenkainen's Tome of Foes is still open. Enter here: gleam.io/g42XL/mordenkainens-tome-of-foes

    • @umkm2k
      @umkm2k 3 роки тому

      Still open, eh? Haha

    • @spidercow1997
      @spidercow1997 3 роки тому

      Totally off topic, but is that a Tiwaz Rune?

  • @Zirbip
    @Zirbip 3 роки тому +105

    I introduced my wife to RPGs recently. She insisted on being a magic user, so the first game was her final trials to complete her training. One trial was a social encounter, one was an exploration/puzzle encounter and one was combat. After she completed these trials, her Arcane Order released her to the world to go on adventures!

    • @DanTheReaperMann
      @DanTheReaperMann 2 роки тому +8

      Excellent way to do that.
      Don't stop players playing spell casters if they're new, explain the added features and complexity and if they still want to play one work the encounter around it.

  • @scooby45247
    @scooby45247 4 роки тому +1

    THIS WAS A PERFECT RUN THROUGH OF HOOKING NEW PLAYERS..

  • @KILLRAIN42
    @KILLRAIN42 4 роки тому +8

    I just started dming for my girlfriend, shes playing solo through lost mines of phandelver. She hates math and isn't much of a role player yet. But her first encounter she ran straight through it without giving a damn because shes a circle of the moon druid and can already be a giant hyena. Shes enjoying being borderline untouchable and slaughtering goblins so far. Now I just have to figure out how the hell I'm supposed to adjust encounters because she managed to pick the happy animal class which also happens to turn into incredibly powerful beasts at low levels.

    • @theDMLair
      @theDMLair  4 роки тому +1

      That's awesome! I have some videos on the channel about adjusting encounters btw. 😀

    • @KILLRAIN42
      @KILLRAIN42 4 роки тому +1

      @@theDMLair Oh I know, believe me. Those videos are rapidly becoming my new religion.

  • @booleanillogical4757
    @booleanillogical4757 3 роки тому

    I feel like I'm being attack whenever you get closer to the camera because you go from being pretty close already to right up in my face. Add in the hand movements, sometimes swinging your hand at the camera... should I be rolling initiative.
    As for the actually content of the video it's very helpful

  • @rileygoddard7181
    @rileygoddard7181 5 років тому +1

    Gonna try to convince my girlfriend to play. I've been watching videos and looking up advice all day.

    • @theDMLair
      @theDMLair  5 років тому +3

      Awesome! Do it.
      If you need more advice and stuff check out my Discord server. Lots of DMs there with lots of experience.

    • @rileygoddard7181
      @rileygoddard7181 5 років тому +1

      @@theDMLair thanks!!!!

  • @princesskanuta3495
    @princesskanuta3495 5 років тому +1

    Yeah! I read 10 books before started and 2 quiz every week!!😈

  • @mushythemushroomwizard7712
    @mushythemushroomwizard7712 4 роки тому

    *Me who started with wizard*

  • @BookWormMega
    @BookWormMega 2 роки тому

    A good group I like to watch of "normal people" is called Viva La Dirt League. Check them out and commemt what you think😊

    • @BookWormMega
      @BookWormMega 2 роки тому

      Viva la Dirt League DnD channel, separate from their normal channel

  • @AuntLoopy123
    @AuntLoopy123 3 роки тому +46

    When introducing my mother to D&D, I helped her create a character. First, I said she should focus on something basic, like fighter or monk. She asked, "What's a monk?" I said, "a martial artist, like Jackie Chan or Bruce Lee."
    She had recently been reading the Mrs. Pollifax books, about an old widow who always wanted to be a spy, so she volunteers at the CIA, was supposed to be turned away, but do to a mix-up, got confused with an already established low-level spy, and was sent on a "simple" mission, which was not so simple, after all, but she CRUSHED IT.
    After that, she was officially a spy for the CIA, and one of the most valued ones, at that, and when she took up karate, she became quite good at it, and Mom said, "I want to be Emily Pollifax!"
    So, we created an old elf monk, who has been an acolyte for years, but now her husband was killed by the dragon attacking Phandalin, and Emily wants to get out, and LIVE, and fight, and maybe get some vengeance for the dragon (whom she has already forgiven, because she has a heart of gold, and found out that the dragon was just hungry, not just killing for sport - My Mom, folks!).
    Anyway, monks have lots of cool abilities, now including spells (Way of the Shadow), but only a few spells, and I encouraged the other party members to chat with her PC about her abilities, and now they know what she can do, so they can say, "Emily! Will you please cast Pass Without a Trace on us all?" or "Emily! This would be a good time for Silence." Or "Emily! You have the best perception in the whole group, even better than the cleric, AND you can be sneaky, so will you please scout ahead?" or "Emily! Use your Ki!"
    The players help her out, in character and out, and that helps a LOT. And as for role-playing, she is playing a beloved character from some of her favorite novels she has read over and over through the years, and knows quite well. Unlike the other players, who have to make up characters from whole cloth, and think, "How would this person I don't even know respond in this situation?" my mother can say, "How would Mrs. Pollifax respond in this situation?" and then do the unexpected, because unexpected is literally Mrs. Pollifax.
    Anyway, that's my comment for the algorithm.

    • @theDMLair
      @theDMLair  3 роки тому +4

      Awesome getting your mom into D&D. Epic. :-) and the algorithm appreciate your comment as always.:-)

  • @anthonytorres-cruz1598
    @anthonytorres-cruz1598 4 роки тому +119

    Its finally happened...in a few days, I'll be introducing friends who are interested in D&D to the game. I'm terrified and this helps a lot, thank you

  • @guglielmofranchini1946
    @guglielmofranchini1946 6 років тому +68

    Couldn't agree more, I think players don`t need to know the rules at all, well except for combat maybe... but that they'll learn by playing the game. I'm 3 sessions into DMing "Lost mine of Phandelver" for a group of newbies, only thing I did was presenting a rough description of the ambient and context of the adventure, and encouraged them to use their imagination to get into character (used the pregenerated one for the starter set), it worked like a charm, I was honestly surprised by how quickly they got into roleplaying because the only thing they think about is going into adventure, killing goblins, talking with NPCs, discover. It is A LOT of fun.

    • @theDMLair
      @theDMLair  6 років тому +7

      That's awesome! I love running sessions for completely new players. It's really cool to introduce the game to new folk, and see them having a blast. I think what you said about "using your imaginations" is the key element for sure. And that's what drives the fun to a large extent. It's like being a kid again and doing awesome crazy crap and forgetting that we're grownups for a few hours. 😁

  • @fredricknoe3114
    @fredricknoe3114 5 років тому +27

    But if I'm playing at my home where do I leave my Players guide.

  • @FourElemental
    @FourElemental 6 років тому +86

    HOW TO *NOT* INTRODUCE NEW PLAYERS
    Step 1: Call them names and show them how terrible his or her character is!
    Step 2: Discourage him or her from roleplaying!
    Step 3: Kill his or her character as soon as he or she starts!
    Step 4: Don't tell him or her basic information on D&D
    Step 5: Kick him or her put of the group and blame it on him or her for "being a terrible player!"
    Step 6: *PROFIT!*

    • @theDMLair
      @theDMLair  6 років тому +20

      Dude, that's a great list! I mean, that could be a whole other video: 10 Horrible Steps to Ensure a Player Never Returns to Your Game. Did some of that actually happen to you?

    • @Ironic_daemonic
      @Ironic_daemonic 6 років тому +13

      How to lose all your friends in 6 easy steps!

    • @theDMLair
      @theDMLair  6 років тому +6

      Cody Lee LOL - You know, I actually love doing spoof videos, just haven't done too many yet. So these are actually AWESOME ideas. 😁

    • @FourElemental
      @FourElemental 6 років тому +6

      Cody Lee No its
      How to be the worst person in the world in *6 EASY STEPS*

  • @crispychris8399
    @crispychris8399 2 роки тому +8

    This is super helpful! In an hour, I'm holding an online session zero, and three of my four players are just friends who I convinced to give D&D a shot. I'm scared out of my mind, and I'm quite literally taking notes from this video haha

  • @joshuasolt8416
    @joshuasolt8416 6 років тому +30

    Running my first game tonight. This is a great video!

    • @theDMLair
      @theDMLair  6 років тому +3

      Thanks! Good luck with your game! Let me know in our Discord how it went. 👊

  • @diegojesussilvaeduardo9347
    @diegojesussilvaeduardo9347 2 роки тому +3

    A new player went through the book and he saw the spell section.
    Oh. Geez. Yeah.
    He got nuts when thought about all the things his bard could make, he got really excited too when making the personality section of the sheet.
    He didn't even realize that a 15 in intelligence is good! He just wanted to play his gnome bard of the forest that could make squirrels dance with him.
    Playing next week, edit on that.

  • @Robloxers12
    @Robloxers12 4 роки тому +13

    I love how he says: don’t make them read the book, there’s no way that they will remember any of it. Then there be me who reads the book for fun

    • @kareemwilson8426
      @kareemwilson8426 2 роки тому +1

      I feel like that's just a GM thing, but who knows

  • @lancerischar4165
    @lancerischar4165 5 років тому +12

    Good stuff to know lol I know it seems basic, but I've been playing with veteran players for so long I forgot how to start explaining everything to new players xD

  • @pcompani715
    @pcompani715 6 років тому +13

    When I started to play, my DM sent me pdf files if nearly all 3.5e books, and asked us To read the rule compendium... needless To say, none of us did... Though, making the first character, and explaining what all in it means, as you make it, is a very good way To learn the basics.

    • @theDMLair
      @theDMLair  6 років тому +11

      Wow. "Hey guys! Here's a thousand pages of required reading to play this game. Good luck. See you next week!" Learning D&D shouldn't be so hard that it's worth 4 credits at your local college.

  • @bigdog421
    @bigdog421 3 роки тому +5

    This is definetly going to help, im gonna try to get my sister into D&D. The only hard part (as i can tell atm) is that she's not big into roleplay events. But this does help a bit in thinking on how to streamline it

  • @Manda_Kat
    @Manda_Kat Рік тому +2

    When my brother tried teaching me D&D when I was a kid he wouldn't let me try a spellcaster at all, forced me to use a random backstory (which didn't line up with a character I wanted to play) gave me the animal companion I wanted, but forced it to be a randomly selected animal, which turned out to be a monkey, which I hated. He made us roll our stats randomly, which gave my character abysmal stats in absolutely every regard (with no rerolls allowed) and when I tried roleplaying my character as clever, he would remind me that she had terrible intelligence and was an idiot.
    Basically instead of actually playing I just sat down and listened to my brother tell me who I was, what I was doing and what my plans were.
    Nowadays I still wanna play but can't even convince him.

  • @calebharper5019
    @calebharper5019 5 років тому +7

    I have got a new job recently and have got myself into DMing for 5 new players and am looking forward to the ideas they will have from not being bogged down by a particular culture of playing!

    • @theDMLair
      @theDMLair  5 років тому +3

      That's something I like about players who have never played DnD before, too.

  • @wolfe8035
    @wolfe8035 5 років тому +8

    Lets just say, the only reason I got into D&D recently, is the fact that I had one of your videos pop up on my recommended. Obviously I clicked it, because I've subbed, and been watching more and more... otherwise, I would not be here typing and watching this?

    • @theDMLair
      @theDMLair  5 років тому +2

      Glad to have brought you over to the dark side. 😁

  • @iPuzzlePirate
    @iPuzzlePirate 4 роки тому +2

    I on-board new players very much the same way described up until this point. I meet them some place neutral, a local game store, the library, or the mutual friend's house who introduced us. I get to know them a little, and find out their past gaming experience if any, and then I figure out what kind of character they want to play, I often make the character for them, with them there doing the writing, and me proposing different options based on the type of character they described wanting to play. ("You said you want to play a big strong guy who's good with a sword, is he more like Do you imagine him more like a Samurai, A Knight in heavy armor, or The Hulk? ...") and then offer them appropriate choices, ("Like The Hulk you say? [Sounds like] A barbarian would work for you...") And then, after character creation, I throw them in the deep end... We play. I keep a particularly close eye on new players, and often, especially if they've never played before, I have story events of the first session they play designed to revolve around them. New players get to have the spotlight for the first session or three I never ask my other players if its alright with them, they seem to naturally be cool with it, and besides my stories tend to pass the spotlight around, so they know everyone eventually gets the spotlight... but the new guy or gal, they get to be the star for their first two or three sessions of my games.

  • @Styxintheriver
    @Styxintheriver 2 роки тому +1

    Yeahhhh I've got a game set up,,,, with six new players
    And I've only dmed with three players before
    Gods help me

  • @ericjkier
    @ericjkier 4 роки тому +2

    I used an attack dummy for getting my very first game started. I justified it by saying their employer wanted proof of skill before hiring these new guards. Everyone was new including myself at the time.

  • @blueicer101
    @blueicer101 2 роки тому +1

    I kinda disagree with steering new players away from spellcasting. I would rather inform them that they have the option to chose it but they must also learn it. I mean when it comes to it, it's really not that complicated. I mean, my first character was a druid and being able to turn into any animal was very cool, and not actually that complex with modern technology. For spells there are many apps and things. I guess it is more complicated but there are ways that you can simplify it aswell such as material components for lower level spells. There are many ways to aid them in getting to what they want to do.

  • @megaqualium1169
    @megaqualium1169 3 роки тому +2

    thank you this helps a lot. i have been asked to dm for 5 players who dont know how to play, wish me luck!

  • @shaevillas5958
    @shaevillas5958 3 роки тому +1

    lol so this is very helpful because I’ve played multiple games and even hosted a few however this new campaign is different… I finally talked my family into doing it but they’ve never played once and they are going to ask me a lot of questions, I’ve helped make their characters and I might be able to play this Saturday on family game night.. however I’m not sure how the game will go

  • @ShePlaysIt
    @ShePlaysIt 3 роки тому +2

    I was basically given a book, told to read the rules, and left to figure out the character sheet by myself. I almost gave up, but I really wanted to try, so I watched a lot of UA-cam guides. And now, I’m more interested in DMing

    • @anthonytorres-cruz1598
      @anthonytorres-cruz1598 3 роки тому +1

      Damn, that sucks that that happened to you. Have you had more luck in D&D after that?

  • @jb6748
    @jb6748 4 роки тому +2

    I have found the old D&D cartoon is a great teaching source. As an episode is playing in the background, during character creation, I can point out how someone's particular character relates and how a decision is role played.

  • @GetReadyforGameNight
    @GetReadyforGameNight 2 роки тому

    Any ideas or tips for a situation where EVERYONE at the table is new to D&D? And they are all 14 or 15 years old? And it's in a school cafeteria right after school? And I only have 2 hours? And this is going to be the start of an after-school D&D club.

  • @Netharas.
    @Netharas. 4 роки тому +1

    Perfect guidelines for introducing to this world of DnD. Just the one thing I disagree on is that I would encourage watching pros like the cast of critical role as models, much more than other so called 'normal players'. Because if you pick as your model the ones that do so damn well roleplaying, you would strive for more cause that would be the ceiling you know. You may get further or less in your actual roleplaying skills, and it's ok, but at least you have that horizon as a landmark.

  • @JMDornb
    @JMDornb 2 роки тому +1

    I haven't played D&D since v3.5 and recently I've been looking at videos to see what the newest version is like. This is a good video. I think sitting with a new player and helping them create their character is a great way to explain the aspects of the character (race, class, ability scores, feats, skills) and how they work together vice just handing them a PHB and letting them try to make sense out of it. Keep up the good work!

  • @realdragon
    @realdragon Рік тому

    Tips: Don't say "you can do whatever you want" because it's confusing, new players don't know what they can or want to do. They just want to play
    Some easy one shots are great way to introduce them. It's not open world, players know exactly what they need to do, something like "You were hired by this guys to do this thing" at the beginning.
    Probably most importantly give them some time, new players know nothing about their abilities

  • @soulstitches9900
    @soulstitches9900 5 років тому +13

    I played a sorcerer my first game😂as much as I love the class, it was...chaotic

    • @rileygoddard7181
      @rileygoddard7181 5 років тому +1

      Wild magic sorcerer? Yeah, those are really fun.

  • @marzipanbugg
    @marzipanbugg 2 роки тому

    I just started D&D after being a Mutant Year Zero rp gamer.
    I’m starting the Essentials Kit, no gnomes...I’m being a gnome anyway.
    I’m non binary so is my character and I have spent about a week prepping so I can use this character.
    I’m not a DM, but I will be one day so this is still relevant to me

  • @RIVERSRPGChannel
    @RIVERSRPGChannel 5 років тому +1

    Good information
    I’ve had 3 new players join our campaign in the last 1 1/2 years, and they’re all online. There’s 10 PCs and 5 of them are online.
    It’s fun

  • @Dark_Jester89
    @Dark_Jester89 11 місяців тому

    Yeah, I agree with meeting up at a store first. That, letting the player use a pre-rolled sheet, not worrying about the rules, and throwing a bunch of low balls. Don't go full-hard and do a 5 hour session. Do an hour or so.

  • @kouskous117
    @kouskous117 Рік тому

    Hey, man. 3rd time player, 1st time DM since some guys at work wanted me to show them how to play. No idea what im doin, and super embarrassed. Hopin to find some wisdom here on ur channel, ty so much

  • @michaelwells529
    @michaelwells529 Рік тому

    I’m basically just going to explain the rules as they come up for my players, most of them new, until they remember how to do it themselves.

  • @KHJohan
    @KHJohan 2 роки тому

    Me: How should I introduce new people to DnD?
    Also me: wait I never read the PHB 👁👄👁

  • @blagachu1107
    @blagachu1107 4 роки тому +1

    I have been dming in my school for about 2 months and tommorow i am hosting the christmas special d&d game. There are about 10 player and 4 of them have never played before. A few of them could bet bored easily, could you tell
    how can i make battles and storytelling more fun for them ?.

  • @anthonyorvis8969
    @anthonyorvis8969 3 дні тому

    i don’t agree in haveing random strangers at my house

  • @PeeWees-day
    @PeeWees-day Рік тому

    I have a few people at work from other countries outside of the us and its hard to explian dnd to someone who has no idea what dnd is besides the movie.

  • @Cosmic_demonartist
    @Cosmic_demonartist 2 роки тому

    Man, the only two characters I've played as were casters, I'm big brain

  • @ftferlo8868
    @ftferlo8868 2 роки тому

    I'm running waterdeep dragon heist for 3 new players and one veteran wish me luck

  • @WorldAnvil
    @WorldAnvil 6 років тому +2

    Very well said - Excellent video sir.

  • @emilygordbort7300
    @emilygordbort7300 3 роки тому

    Introducing my family to dnd tonight, my dad and my little sister with maybe her friend

  • @nagolbackwards1335
    @nagolbackwards1335 2 роки тому

    Im a dm for a game for all fresh players. We start next week… let’s see how it goes!

  • @molodecrus
    @molodecrus 4 роки тому +1

    Very moist

  • @quasi8180
    @quasi8180 2 роки тому

    Im starting a campaign on twitter if anyone's interested.

  • @azzure1268
    @azzure1268 5 років тому +1

    Why do you keep changing positions every few seconds I cant concentrate on the video :notlikethis:

    • @theDMLair
      @theDMLair  5 років тому +6

      Ants were swarming across my floor. I had to move about to avoid being eaten.

  • @gabrielgamble6671
    @gabrielgamble6671 5 років тому +1

    So teaching multiple players at the same time is suicide?

  • @shenmuemasta
    @shenmuemasta 3 роки тому

    Even though this is a good approach, unfortunately it won't work for some people. Some people won't learn just by playing. I have a player that started with me and been playing for 2 years, and another one for 6 months, and they still can't create a character by themselves. It's fine to accompany them when they're new, but after a while, it's reasonable to expect some independance out of them, DMs already spend enough time preparing the campaign, they shouldn't have to spend multiple evenings with a player every time they level up.
    So the solution I will probably come up with is simply change system. D&D is simply too complicated for some of my players.

  • @blazerheata6479
    @blazerheata6479 2 роки тому

    "You should advise your players to not make a magic user" *sweats in player picking wizard and saying "can I be a magician magician?"

  • @marakonstantara3897
    @marakonstantara3897 3 роки тому

    Do not start with the character sheet.

  • @mikeh6177
    @mikeh6177 Рік тому

    Thanks for this. I'm box to 5e, I am hosting two completely new people in a few weeks and I've never been so nervous about something so seemingly simple. I want to help them capture that feeling of the first game. Unbound, unlock some imagination over structure.❤

  • @sascher7461
    @sascher7461 3 роки тому

    So, I have a group of semi-experiented PnP players (nobody has played D&D yet) where everyone is creating his own campain game at some point. On my turn I am thinking about creating a DnD campain. I allready got the players handbook so I more or less know the rules and the character creation. But I don't know how should I should explain the rules. I mean can't explain everything but I don't want a "only fighter because it is more easy" campain. I thought maybe I can cut some of the rules to make it easier and help them with character creation but maybe someone has some tips for me?

  • @AvengerYouT
    @AvengerYouT 3 роки тому

    I'll be finally introducing my girlfriend to D&D next weekend at her request. It's going to be a 1-DM-1-Player game, one shot and with someone with little background in medieval fantasy games/movies/books. Really hard for me, since I'm more used to long adventures with 5-7 fantasy nerds, myself included. I lliked the three scenes idea, it doens't have to be something complex after all.

  • @ZQMBGN
    @ZQMBGN 3 роки тому

    Haha, silly you. There are no rules for new players on 5e. There is only "what you wanna do? Oh, ok, roll this die. Add this two things. That's it. "

  • @RIVERSRPGChannel
    @RIVERSRPGChannel 5 років тому

    I used UA-cam to introduce them to the game play and made some videos for them to watch to get caught up on the campaign.

  • @SooothatsDonald
    @SooothatsDonald 5 років тому

    Is anyone else having a problem with this video loading past the 1:20 point?

  • @Harryson6
    @Harryson6 3 роки тому

    I am two years too late to the giveaway. :*

    • @theDMLair
      @theDMLair  3 роки тому

      Actually I think we still need to pick the winner. LOL

  • @DioBrando-yk5up
    @DioBrando-yk5up 4 роки тому

    Whatever weapon uses a d20 terrifies my level one sorcerer

  • @rockstarsakib1328
    @rockstarsakib1328 4 роки тому

    my dm did all that
    and he even goes to discord to help them to learn this

  • @collinwade
    @collinwade 3 роки тому

    I have my entire group as new players whoop

  • @lemonboy9yearsago760
    @lemonboy9yearsago760 4 роки тому

    Goddamn dnd 5th edition starter kit is expeeeensive

  • @real_pat_ftw7882
    @real_pat_ftw7882 5 років тому

    I ran a game where all my players were new. A year later and we’re still playing

  • @tommyfitzgerald5912
    @tommyfitzgerald5912 4 роки тому +3

    Try using they/them pronouns instead of he/him

  • @abrambootsma5150
    @abrambootsma5150 4 роки тому

    This guy is cringy but he gets to the point