@@user-ce6ig1tv3k i mean fair ig, and that probably is how i actually am (its never 100% of both tho :P) im going with trans for now though cus that seems like the closest fit
True but you could have a little picnic blanket and enjoy your cake! Watch out for seagulls though, I assume this is all covered in the song.... right?
The older generation getting upset over gender non-conforming is so weird to me. Some people I know have a son and he was talking about how much he loved my daughters Pikachu themed dress. I made a comment about how they should buy him one too since he likes it so much. I cannot exaggerate when I tell you they went on for about 15 minutes about how he was a boy and that dresses are for girls and that he was never going to wear a dress. Both of these children in question are 6 years old
Yeah! Like, what's the harm done by someone amab wearing a dress? I work with little kids in childcare and one of the boys occasionally will show up in a dress - and literally no one cares. Not his kid's parents, not my colleagues or the other kids. It's like: that's what he wanted to wear that day.
Do they know the show Pikachu is a boy? (you can tell by the tail) Also, how does a dress threaten masculinity? Do they fear that feminists might lunge at the sight of a dude in a skirt, and dive under it to cut off his balls?
17:06 The cis boy ball goes from straight to hetero-flexible which is under the bi umbrella (basically bi but with a very strong preference for the 'opposite' gender OR hetero but with some exceptions) hence the middle bit peeling to reveal the hetro-flexible flag. Incase anyone was wondering why the comic may have been made like that and not the cracking egg style we typically see.
My mother recently started to avoid calling me by gendered terms (mostly things like "your brother/sister" when talking to my siblings) but because there isnt really a word for "sibling" in my language she comes up with increasingly creative synonyms for it. Its really cute ^^
Yay, a new video to watch! I needed it today, since there was an incident at my school lgbtq+ club😕some boys from the school keep on entering the club and sitting down, making members uncomfortable, crowding the door and one time throwing rocks at the wall outside in an attempt to intimidate us all😢My school has become pretty homophobic recently, people are just allowed to walk around using the F slur so it's not too great. And I've even heard kids talking to the teachers about not accepting trans kids, and the teachers agreed! I cannot wait for Uni, I have looked around a few times and I can tell it is more accepting.
That sounds awful!!! I hate that people are trying to make you uncomfortable in a space that's supposed to make you feel safe. Hope you find somewhere where you can be yourself
Is it possible to get a councelor or a parent involved? Teachers are paid to keep all students safe and educated, so openly siding against certain students is a no go! I'm very sorry this is happening, I hope the club can keep each other company and lift each other up. You're a wonderful, valid person and deserve kindness and respect! 🫂❤🩹🏳🌈🏳⚧
@@ame1ias_wife Simply chemitry. Mix two genderfluids to see wether or not they mix and what happens to their genders. Turns out, the individual gender parts of the genderfluid are polarizing, making the outcome Bigender. Thanks for the dragon, now can you tell me where i can find the nearest Garlic bread factory?
17:36 More specifically, the black-and-white straight flag with a narrow rainbow stripe in the middle is for heteroflexible, or basically, "mostly straight with a few exceptions".
I wish we would just let them! I think most older generations still see interactions between sexes as having to have a net-win turnout, like the 'niceguy' who thinks he pays compliments to gain sex. So men and women seeing each other as equals would erase that, which is why they hate gender equality (and also same sex relationships), because it's no longer able to be dumbed down into: he pays her for this, so he deserves this, she gives this to him, to earn her (safety, living, food, shelter...) The controls shift. Sorry I can't explain it clearer, I'm off to bed now. Maybe I can edit tomorrow.
At least to my understanding (as a late 20s ace person who is still trying to learn the memes) the “ace is scheming” thing is kind of an extension of the general joke of “aces are like: who has time for romance when you can X”, mixed with the ongoing joke of them taking over Denmark due to sheer population size that is statistically likely to be acespec ~ Frankly I love it 😂 especially since it also defects from the idea of ace spec individuals being squishy uwu naive folks due to lack of sexual or romantic attraction being misconceived as being unaware. As for blending the gender fluid, I can’t begin to decipher that lolol
Wait, can you explain the Denmark thing for me? Are there more ace people in Denmark, or is it that the estimated population of ace people is the same as Denmark? I assume it's one of those 2 but I've never heard of this lol
Meanwhile, as an asexual trans woman: "Yes, that gay couple is nice, but I ship those two straight girls together! Also, the male lead and his male rival! Their rivalry is actually love because they can't recognize their feelings! Also, I'm not saying the character is actually trans, but this episode is totally a trans allegory! She spent the entire episode voice training and learning how to socialize! She even has a deadname!" For the record, not talking about the same show for all three.
>> "Their rivalry is actually love because they can't recognize their feelings!" Huh?? It doesnt even matter if the ship is straight or gay its just that this dynamic just infuriates me. If they are arch enemies, they are arch enemies, you cant force love and say "they just cant see it yet", they would have seen it if they actually DID love eachother and werent arch enemies... >> "I ship those two straight girls together!" Im not straight nor a women but this is just wrong. You cant ship two STRAIGHT women together, if they are straight it means they are attracted to the opposite gender, so shipping them is also technically forcing.
@@rinkuraku5251 yes i do understand what shipping is, its just it doesnt feel right to me for two arch enemies to be shipped, it just doesnt make that much sense. Yes, i guess maybe thats fine in some way, and maybe its my opinion. But the "i ship those two straight girls together" is as bad if not worse.
Crows can talk but it requires a process called "freeing their tongue" Is it immoral to train a murder of crows to say things like "run" or "they are coming for you" and release them on a hiking trail late at night?
I just looked up what freeing the tongue meant, and that is absolutely fucked, it literally means to split the tongue of a crow, and it does not actually result in a bird that can talk
Also, from googling, you are almost word for word repeating a Tumblr post by crack--attack Their post saying "Fun fact! Crows can talk just like parrots do! It requires a process called "freeing their tongue" (don't ask) but yes I want to train a flock of them to say "Run" and release them onto a hiking trail"
Hello to all. Hear me out. As a theater kid raised in a conservative neighborhood but not family I’ve given this a LOT of thought over the decades. What is it about not-straight that gets some people the Willie’s? It was ”oh won’t someone think of the chiiiiiildrennnnn” gave me the clue: it’s because, when you explain “gay” you have to (not really) use the suffix -sexual. That’s what gets the shorts in a twist. Having to say sexual in front of a kid. The other thing of course is that lgbtq+phones are inherently obsessed with what’s in everyone else’s pants-and are projecting that now on to the kidlets. (Underfunded undersupported schools in the US are performing nonconsensual gender reassignment?! I need a nap.) Edited to add. Never mind. Don’t hear me out. LGBTQ+phobia makes no sense.
funny, because i remember explaining it to my kids without having to say "sexual" at all. i think one of them said something about having to marry a boy/girl (whatever was the opposite of their sex) and i just pointed out that they don't have to if they don't want to. because some boys like boys and some girls like girls and some people like both and some people aren't interested in marrying anybody.
I've come out as transfem to two of my online friends because I have no real ones, my family is anti-lgbtq (except my lesbian cousin), I'm a minor and I live in BRITAIN. How can things get any worse😢
Having on-line friends is also great.. 😊 Do the best that you can in school and learn as much as you can about stuff that you like and/or you're good at (hobby for now) so when you turn 18, you have more chance to get a job you like, earn money, try to get your own place (rent for start, I guess), move out of your parents' home and start to live your happy life.. ❤ Till then, try to survive and know that your time will come.. 😊 I hope you're 17, not 12.. (less time for waiting)
i had to come out to my dad as trans twice because the first time he convinced himself it was a "phase". the second time i came out to him, he literally told me as much. there was about 1-2 years between both times, and it took him around 3 years more to actually become supportive, but im glad after the second time he accepted it and started at least trying to gender me correctly and use my chosen name
@@Augustt01 "You can brush my hair, undress me everywhere Imagination, life is your creation" ... "I'm a blonde bimbo girl in a fantasy world Dress me up, make it tight, I'm your dolly You're my doll, rock and roll, feel the glamor in pink Kiss me here, touch me there, hanky-panky" "You can touch, you can play If you say I'm always yours, ooh woah" ... "Make me walk, make me talk, do whatever you please I can act like a star, I can beg on my knees Come jump in, bimbo friend, let us do it again Hit the town, fool around, let's go party"
As a cis woman, I find it hard shopping for shorts because most shorts for women are short shorts. I mainly buy boys now because most men’s are too big
@@minestar2247 yeah, I believe the Japanese actually have a word or term for duel wielders (two sword user is what it translates to if I'm not mistaken) and was also used as a euphemism (I think that's the correct word to use) for bisexuals
@@minestar2247 yeah especially "Jedi" being taken from "Sengoku-Jedi" if I'm not mistaken, kinda funny though since there are Jedi "knights" despite being inspired by the Japanese samurai in the name
At Christmas last year, my uncle and dad were making transphobic jokes, and my brother laughed--I think because that's easier than the awkwardness of not--and it was just so uncomfortable and stressful for me. I'm still not out, because they've gone and made it clear that they're not going to accept me, and that just sucks.
Please stay safe and keep building other support networks. You are valid, and deserve respect and love! 🫂🌻 And just as a sidenote, a lot of bigots can change, once they actually meet people of their prejudice and find how normal they are. Maybe ask your uncle or dad seperately, if they would hate the other, if one of them came out as gay or trans. Maybe they'll rethink it, if it hits close to home. And if not, you know for sure to keep quiet about it to stay safe.
@@AmarisFrede Thankfully I don't live at home anymore, so the worst thing that could happen is I get cut off from seeing my younger siblings. I do have a great and supportive community of my own which is amazing! 💜 They might change, but they still refer to my older sister as being "cured" of being bisexual when she married a man, and are highly religious. I've got a book I'm planning on giving them if I come out that's basically "You don't have to agree with your queer child, but you do have to love and respect them" that's a Christian book, so maybe that will at least get some level of acceptance. We'll see I guess. And also thank you, you are so valid and loved too! 💜
When it comes to clothes shopping as an AFAB NB, I feel like I have double the choices, manly-man 'and' lady-lady. Growing up, long before figuring out my NBness, my mum would regularly find me in the boys section, and would be like, "This is the boys section!", "Soooo?". I can totally see why it can be triggering for other NBs though T_T
2:58 yeah, i love steven universe, and it was so age appropriate that even the arab and cuts couldn't get rid of the lgbtq rep (which kinda made me predisposed to be an lgbtq ally)
I've never been homophobic and I wear it like the biggest pride flag I just loved everyone until I loved everyone lol(I'm bi) I'm happy I can say this. I've also never been transphobic, the first time I heard of it (I was 8) I did research to the best of my little ability and just said "I mean yeah ok" then went back to life with new information
"I did research to the best of my little ability and just said "I mean yeah ok" then went back to life with new information" THIS! Can this become the standard for everything? Please and thank you!
I met a trans male a few weeks ago in class. We haven't really talked yet because my social awkwardness exists but I'm trying to talk to him. I'd love to be friends with him ngl. He seems like such a nice guy. I sit near some transphohic people so its really awkward when they talk about him and I'm just sitting there questioning if I have a crush on him (they don't know I'm lgbtq) Also, there are tons of homophobic and transphobic people in my class and when I hear them saying some really homophobic/transphobic things it's incredibly awkward. God I'm just yapping on and on XD
⚠Above all, stay safe! But, if it is possible for you, maybe find some comebacks to their rhetoric? Something that makes them think. Like idk, if they comment a boy can't wear nail polish, ask if they think masculinity is so weak and fragile, that a little paint would destroy it? Also, if they say stuff that you know is wrong, but can't argue with, try to do research on that. Like if they say, religion is against it. I've seen multiple mentions in reels and tumblr posts about how in the Thora and Old Testament, they describes 7 different genders. That God and the angels are genderless and thus perfect. Or that the favorite phrase "man shall not lie with man" originally meant "man shall not lie with boy", thus not condemming homosexuals but pdf-iles. I'm sure you'll find sources if looking it up. And I hope you soon get a chance to talk to the trans guy in peace. Best of luck to you both, hope you can be friends! 🍀🌈
I discovered “gendervoid” or “void” yesterday and realized that I feel very connected to that label while still leaning toward nonbinary which I have identified as for more than a year
4:17 I'm Ace and I have no idea what's going on either but if I had to guess maybe they're mixing liquids of all the gender fluid colors and hoping it will turn into a gender fluid? I genuinely can't think of anything else the Ace ball could be doing.
As a Trans woman who is a parent; it is very difficult for me to explain to others "Transparent" joke. Lol I really don't understand why it is that hard of a concept. Lol
I think us bi's and the pans and you omni's (presumably anyway going off the "we" part) are often mixed together since we're all into more than one sex/gender
@@_StarlightRose_ yeah, hope you're having a good day, night or evening, Omni-light Rose I hope that play on your username and sexuality isn't bad or anything
Ace here! I had no idea "cake by the ocean" was about s3x until my sister explained it because I made a comment about how silly the song was because eating cake by the ocean is very impractical as you'd get sand in the cake!
Something that I find funny is that, at all the jobs I've ever had, most of my coworkers have been LGBTQ+. I'm not sure how but we all choose the same places to work.
The pointlessly gendered talk reminded me of Atlantis and how the mechanic girl's father wanted 2 sons and got 2 daughters instead, who both went on to fulfill his son fantasies anyway.
The sister ball in the leg dysphoria comic is unlabeled pride. Typically used by those in the community who do not want to use specific labels or if they do not feel like existing ones fit but are part of the community in some way. It’s a fairly newer one as well.
Old lady here, only thought sigma was a greek letter but Google is my Friend! Popular among Generation Alpha, sigma is a term that refers to a person who acts independently and does not need many friends.
As a trans guy, it's hard for me to find pants that are just right. It's either getting boy pants for my hip size and get the excess length chopped off at the tailor's or the boy's shorts are past knee length for me and too baloony or have wide leg openings 🥲 no pants/shorts for wide hipped but short legged men? huhu And I definitely don't want to get ladies' pants bc they're either skinny fit or whatever, it makes my legs feel claustrophobic bc I have thicc thighs Funny enough my dad and 3 brothers have the same problem (we're asian) bc we actually got our legs from him. My mom and her legs are thin af bruhh whyyyy didn't we inherit mom's body type?? 😭
Nooo I have the opposite problem where I have to tighten my belt an insane amount or else my pants are way too short Where do you get your clothes I need solutions
One of the running jokes of asexuality is that because we aren't thinking about sex, we have time to think about other things... Like world domination. You know.... Just as an example. Not super sure what ace was doing to Genderfluid, though.
Hey, jamie’s comment section! I had an idea for a t-shirt but I need feedback on whether it’s too cheesey/heavy-handed or anything. So basically I’m aro/ace/agender(not entirely sure on that last one though). So I thought of having a T-shirt with “call me a LR03, because I’m AAA” written on it, with each A coloured as one of the flags representing me(plus maybe a drawing of a battery to make the joke more understandable). Do y’all think it’s funny or should I change it some way or another?
I felt bad for the enby ball going shopping... I've actually found discovering my identity has been helpful with shopping for clothes. If anything, I feel like I have more choices, and I can mix and match within an outfit for something that feels just right. For any enbys that feel like that little ball right now, think of clothes like art supplies, they don't define you, you define them by how you choose to use them, so go nuts❤❤❤❤❤
The "just friends" trope (used incorrectly when we're talking about gay & bi people) doesn't hurt only gay & bi people. It also hurts the aroace people who actually wanted "just" a platonic relationship, no matter how deep and committed the relationship was. If the relationship really is "just platonic", you do not act like a gay person xD Sincerely, an aroace
For that first one with the homophobe shipping the platonic M/F pair... I love the Disney film Moana for its representation of platonic-ness. Two attractive adults, a woman and a man (who aren't blood-related), spend most of that movie stuck alone together and there's no sign of romantic/sexual/gendered tension. And neither of them talks about having a partner or crush back home, so we don't even find out what type of person (if any) they're into. Are either of them ace/aro/both? IMO it doesn't matter. A romance subplot wouldn't have made their story better, so there wasn't one. Maybe there'll be something in Moana 2, but I'm honestly fine either way.
Older Gen Z here, and sorry if this sounds weird Back really early in elementary school I remember the teachers saying most sites have rules that say you aren't allowed on them till you're at least 13 are there now Gen Alpha children old enough to be in compliance with that rule? The Gen dividers were never clear to me, and I don't know where anyone is half the time
Lgballt is how I got into your channel! Glad to see it being covered again! (Also Jamie struggling to describe the subreddit at the start is so iconic)
Jamie! Gen Z here that interacts with Gen Alpha slang ironically. Sigma-from what I gather-is essentially the same concept as alpha male but for cocky little kidduns. To be sigma is to be awesome and cool and epic. You're welcome
Fun fact: I actually had a bisexual eraser when I was like 9 and then I lost it and I was so sad and then I found it the other day and realised what turned me gay was not my Luna lovegood obsession, but in fact an eraser with the bi colours on it
I'm a trans parent. My kids are trans, so I'm multiple trans' parent. And when you shine a light behind my fingers, you can see slightly transparent. So I'm a transparent trans' parent, trans parent :P
The genderfluid and ace joke is that they became a bigender fluid.
OOOOOH thats what that was lol. i just thought 2 genderfluids = bigender
@@tristantheoofer2 bigender can also mean that you fluctuate between genders but you always have 2
@@user-ce6ig1tv3k i mean fair ig, and that probably is how i actually am (its never 100% of both tho :P)
im going with trans for now though cus that seems like the closest fit
@@tristantheoofer2 i am actually surprised i had a talk thats 1 comment and 4 replies long with the hit youtuber
YESS im bigender-flux. its so perfect!
as an ace, im not sure I'd eat cake by the ocean. like, what if I drop it in the water, and now its covered in sand and seawater??
True but you could have a little picnic blanket and enjoy your cake! Watch out for seagulls though, I assume this is all covered in the song.... right?
Sand in the cake… poor cake
extra flavor
Seasoning
@@grasstails9737 no XD
The older generation getting upset over gender non-conforming is so weird to me. Some people I know have a son and he was talking about how much he loved my daughters Pikachu themed dress. I made a comment about how they should buy him one too since he likes it so much. I cannot exaggerate when I tell you they went on for about 15 minutes about how he was a boy and that dresses are for girls and that he was never going to wear a dress. Both of these children in question are 6 years old
Wow..
Yeah! Like, what's the harm done by someone amab wearing a dress?
I work with little kids in childcare and one of the boys occasionally will show up in a dress - and literally no one cares. Not his kid's parents, not my colleagues or the other kids. It's like: that's what he wanted to wear that day.
Older, right-wing people think their ways of life are correct and want to keep them as the status quo.
Do they know the show Pikachu is a boy? (you can tell by the tail)
Also, how does a dress threaten masculinity? Do they fear that feminists might lunge at the sight of a dude in a skirt, and dive under it to cut off his balls?
@@Nino-xp5df the only people who care are the other parents sadly. It's none of their business though 🙅
22:26 The meme of banging on the table saying "X is X!" comes from the scene in _Incredibles 2_ where Bob says "Math is math!"
- Me about to have a moment because I keep forgetting how gimbal lock works in Blender -
17:06
The cis boy ball goes from straight to hetero-flexible which is under the bi umbrella (basically bi but with a very strong preference for the 'opposite' gender OR hetero but with some exceptions) hence the middle bit peeling to reveal the hetro-flexible flag. Incase anyone was wondering why the comic may have been made like that and not the cracking egg style we typically see.
19:33 That flag is the unlabeled flag for anyone wondering 💚🤍🩵💛
I was gonna say this, so here's a reply to boost the comment
@@thinecyber_cat Thanks!
@@Blake-ij4kw np (here's another boost)
BOOST/BUMP!! There’s also an opposite version to this it’s where you have a very strong pref for the same gender:]
hello lgbt people, i'll be 3 months on t in a week, and my own mum said she didn't recognise me 😎
yippee!!! i'm 6 months on ^_^
Hey YOU.
CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!
Did she mean it in a good way or bad way?
Anyway happy for you mate
OMG LESGOOOO
Nice! Congrats!
My mother recently started to avoid calling me by gendered terms (mostly things like "your brother/sister" when talking to my siblings) but because there isnt really a word for "sibling" in my language she comes up with increasingly creative synonyms for it. Its really cute ^^
Yay, a new video to watch! I needed it today, since there was an incident at my school lgbtq+ club😕some boys from the school keep on entering the club and sitting down, making members uncomfortable, crowding the door and one time throwing rocks at the wall outside in an attempt to intimidate us all😢My school has become pretty homophobic recently, people are just allowed to walk around using the F slur so it's not too great. And I've even heard kids talking to the teachers about not accepting trans kids, and the teachers agreed! I cannot wait for Uni, I have looked around a few times and I can tell it is more accepting.
That sounds awful!!! I hate that people are trying to make you uncomfortable in a space that's supposed to make you feel safe. Hope you find somewhere where you can be yourself
@@mezbezls ty❤️
@@Madi_H210 yw yw
well that is horrible I hope that the best for you
Is it possible to get a councelor or a parent involved? Teachers are paid to keep all students safe and educated, so openly siding against certain students is a no go! I'm very sorry this is happening, I hope the club can keep each other company and lift each other up. You're a wonderful, valid person and deserve kindness and respect! 🫂❤🩹🏳🌈🏳⚧
LGBallT is one of the most interesting SubReddits. Also, love decoding the colour schemes.
I'll explain the Ace and genderfluid joke in exchange for a dragon.
Rawr 🐉
Here 🫸🐉 now explain🥲
@@ame1ias_wife Simply chemitry. Mix two genderfluids to see wether or not they mix and what happens to their genders.
Turns out, the individual gender parts of the genderfluid are polarizing, making the outcome Bigender.
Thanks for the dragon, now can you tell me where i can find the nearest Garlic bread factory?
What kind? True dragon, Wyvern, Lindwyrm?
hi im an otherkin dragon do i count ill live with ya
17:36 More specifically, the black-and-white straight flag with a narrow rainbow stripe in the middle is for heteroflexible, or basically, "mostly straight with a few exceptions".
" Im Straight but 20 dollars is 20 dollars"
23:41 "It's Adam _and_ Eve, not Adam _or_ Eve!"
YES I LOVE THIS!
Well, I mean….if they’re open to that sort of thing I can be down for trying anything once.
As a Bible-reading, bisexual gal, I love this!
As a gay agender myself, absolutely make that pun.
as a gay agender myself, i have made that pun
@@galaxygorl As a gay agender myself (ctnd.), I will make that pun in future.
1:30 yeah, i kinda hate how many unnecessary straight romance plots exist, like, can't a man and a woman be friends?
There are shows that ask people on the road these kinds of questions, and many claim that men and women can't be friends
@@ShinyTillDawn yeah, I know, adults have told me that before, its just cultural background, which doesn't mean it can't be done
I wish we would just let them!
I think most older generations still see interactions between sexes as having to have a net-win turnout, like the 'niceguy' who thinks he pays compliments to gain sex. So men and women seeing each other as equals would erase that, which is why they hate gender equality (and also same sex relationships), because it's no longer able to be dumbed down into: he pays her for this, so he deserves this, she gives this to him, to earn her (safety, living, food, shelter...)
The controls shift.
Sorry I can't explain it clearer, I'm off to bed now. Maybe I can edit tomorrow.
Ok? Just don’t watch the show lmao, if you want friend relationships watch gravity falls or something
At least to my understanding (as a late 20s ace person who is still trying to learn the memes) the “ace is scheming” thing is kind of an extension of the general joke of “aces are like: who has time for romance when you can X”, mixed with the ongoing joke of them taking over Denmark due to sheer population size that is statistically likely to be acespec ~
Frankly I love it 😂 especially since it also defects from the idea of ace spec individuals being squishy uwu naive folks due to lack of sexual or romantic attraction being misconceived as being unaware.
As for blending the gender fluid, I can’t begin to decipher that lolol
Wait, can you explain the Denmark thing for me? Are there more ace people in Denmark, or is it that the estimated population of ace people is the same as Denmark? I assume it's one of those 2 but I've never heard of this lol
@@jijittersthe establishmented number of Ace people exceeds the population of Denmark. Therefore the Aces could take over Denmark.
Meanwhile, as an asexual trans woman: "Yes, that gay couple is nice, but I ship those two straight girls together! Also, the male lead and his male rival! Their rivalry is actually love because they can't recognize their feelings! Also, I'm not saying the character is actually trans, but this episode is totally a trans allegory! She spent the entire episode voice training and learning how to socialize! She even has a deadname!"
For the record, not talking about the same show for all three.
Well, you could'a fooled me! I'm sure I've read fanfics with all those bullitpoints about every major tumblr fandom. 😅
>> "Their rivalry is actually love because they can't recognize their feelings!"
Huh?? It doesnt even matter if the ship is straight or gay its just that this dynamic just infuriates me. If they are arch enemies, they are arch enemies, you cant force love and say "they just cant see it yet", they would have seen it if they actually DID love eachother and werent arch enemies...
>> "I ship those two straight girls together!"
Im not straight nor a women but this is just wrong. You cant ship two STRAIGHT women together, if they are straight it means they are attracted to the opposite gender, so shipping them is also technically forcing.
@@samtheking5759 do you not understand what shipping is?
@@rinkuraku5251 yes i do understand what shipping is, its just it doesnt feel right to me for two arch enemies to be shipped, it just doesnt make that much sense. Yes, i guess maybe thats fine in some way, and maybe its my opinion. But the "i ship those two straight girls together" is as bad if not worse.
Crows can talk but it requires a process called "freeing their tongue"
Is it immoral to train a murder of crows to say things like "run" or "they are coming for you" and release them on a hiking trail late at night?
Yes, but stopping you would require more effort than i am willing to put
It is actually not required to free the tongue of crows to enable them to talk. It is simply an abusive practice.
I just looked up what freeing the tongue meant, and that is absolutely fucked, it literally means to split the tongue of a crow, and it does not actually result in a bird that can talk
Also, from googling, you are almost word for word repeating a Tumblr post by crack--attack
Their post saying
"Fun fact! Crows can talk just like parrots do! It requires a process called "freeing their tongue" (don't ask) but yes I want to train a flock of them to say "Run" and release them onto a hiking trail"
@@outtathepantry I know I am
Thats the point
Hello to all.
Hear me out. As a theater kid raised in a conservative neighborhood but not family I’ve given this a LOT of thought over the decades. What is it about not-straight that gets some people the Willie’s? It was ”oh won’t someone think of the chiiiiiildrennnnn” gave me the clue: it’s because, when you explain “gay” you have to (not really) use the suffix -sexual. That’s what gets the shorts in a twist. Having to say sexual in front of a kid.
The other thing of course is that lgbtq+phones are inherently obsessed with what’s in everyone else’s pants-and are projecting that now on to the kidlets.
(Underfunded undersupported schools in the US are performing nonconsensual gender reassignment?! I need a nap.)
Edited to add. Never mind. Don’t hear me out. LGBTQ+phobia makes no sense.
funny, because i remember explaining it to my kids without having to say "sexual" at all. i think one of them said something about having to marry a boy/girl (whatever was the opposite of their sex) and i just pointed out that they don't have to if they don't want to. because some boys like boys and some girls like girls and some people like both and some people aren't interested in marrying anybody.
I've come out as transfem to two of my online friends because I have no real ones, my family is anti-lgbtq (except my lesbian cousin), I'm a minor and I live in BRITAIN. How can things get any worse😢
Having on-line friends is also great.. 😊 Do the best that you can in school and learn as much as you can about stuff that you like and/or you're good at (hobby for now) so when you turn 18, you have more chance to get a job you like, earn money, try to get your own place (rent for start, I guess), move out of your parents' home and start to live your happy life.. ❤ Till then, try to survive and know that your time will come.. 😊 I hope you're 17, not 12.. (less time for waiting)
I saw the title and thought Shaaba was pregnant for a second. XD
Great video, Jamie!
i had to come out to my dad as trans twice because the first time he convinced himself it was a "phase". the second time i came out to him, he literally told me as much. there was about 1-2 years between both times, and it took him around 3 years more to actually become supportive, but im glad after the second time he accepted it and started at least trying to gender me correctly and use my chosen name
As an ace, nothing made me more angry than the day I found out Cake by the Ocean wasn't about having a picnic on the beach.
Yooo, just wanted to say thank you Jammi. You literally helped me realise I was trans. Couldn’t have done it without you 😭😭😭
🎉Congratulations on finding out more about yourself!
I wish you a loving supportsystem in place, and ease in making new friendships wherever you go! 🍀
9:46 Just wait until Ace actually reads the lyrics to Barbie Girl...
What do you mean 😨
Oh, not even i knew that and i want to forget it
@@Augustt01 "You can brush my hair, undress me everywhere
Imagination, life is your creation"
...
"I'm a blonde bimbo girl in a fantasy world
Dress me up, make it tight, I'm your dolly
You're my doll, rock and roll, feel the glamor in pink
Kiss me here, touch me there, hanky-panky"
"You can touch, you can play
If you say I'm always yours, ooh woah"
...
"Make me walk, make me talk, do whatever you please
I can act like a star, I can beg on my knees
Come jump in, bimbo friend, let us do it again
Hit the town, fool around, let's go party"
@@isabelcarrasco4528 I still don't get it - aplaroace
The lyrics are not at all subtle. I don't know what hidden meaning Ace people (like me) would not understand.
Lets do a chain of trans parent jokes. I dont have one, you start
My friend tried to tell me they were a trans parent, and i had to keep insisting that, i could infact, see them, and not through them
you cant see this reply, its a transparent
I was such a good fem boy as a child people used to think I was a girl 😭😭
Normal parents & phobic parents when child comes out as trans
“I no longer have a (son/daughter)”
My family used to love me but now I feel like I’m transparent
As a cis woman, I find it hard shopping for shorts because most shorts for women are short shorts. I mainly buy boys now because most men’s are too big
It's always those assumptions that all women want this And that...
And large collars. I wear mens shirts because I absolutely hate the large collars
@@marinasplaylist2251 or really wide necks on t-shirts and don’t even get me started on everything being crop tops
With the Star Wars lightsaber thing, i was expecting the bi flag to be duel wielding lightsabers
Oh, thats so cool
@@minestar2247 yeah, I believe the Japanese actually have a word or term for duel wielders (two sword user is what it translates to if I'm not mistaken) and was also used as a euphemism (I think that's the correct word to use) for bisexuals
@@thenexus8384 ah, didnt know that
It also fits star wars because it was inspired by Japanese movies
@@minestar2247 yeah especially "Jedi" being taken from "Sengoku-Jedi" if I'm not mistaken, kinda funny though since there are Jedi "knights" despite being inspired by the Japanese samurai in the name
@@thenexus8384 well, there were a lot of inspirations, the original name for the jedi was "jedi bendu",
Don't worry about the Sigma BS Jamie. It means literally nothing.
8:24 they also could have used "I have the bi ground"
That's where I thought they were going to go with it, until they didn't.
9:38 WAIT WAIT WAIT- ITS NOT A SONG ABOUT EATING SWEET DELICIOUS CAKE BY THE SEASIDE???
why did i thought it was about eating cake on a cliff by the seaside
At Christmas last year, my uncle and dad were making transphobic jokes, and my brother laughed--I think because that's easier than the awkwardness of not--and it was just so uncomfortable and stressful for me. I'm still not out, because they've gone and made it clear that they're not going to accept me, and that just sucks.
Please stay safe and keep building other support networks. You are valid, and deserve respect and love! 🫂🌻
And just as a sidenote, a lot of bigots can change, once they actually meet people of their prejudice and find how normal they are. Maybe ask your uncle or dad seperately, if they would hate the other, if one of them came out as gay or trans. Maybe they'll rethink it, if it hits close to home. And if not, you know for sure to keep quiet about it to stay safe.
@@AmarisFrede Thankfully I don't live at home anymore, so the worst thing that could happen is I get cut off from seeing my younger siblings. I do have a great and supportive community of my own which is amazing! 💜
They might change, but they still refer to my older sister as being "cured" of being bisexual when she married a man, and are highly religious. I've got a book I'm planning on giving them if I come out that's basically "You don't have to agree with your queer child, but you do have to love and respect them" that's a Christian book, so maybe that will at least get some level of acceptance. We'll see I guess.
And also thank you, you are so valid and loved too! 💜
Oh gosh that's tough, I'm so sorry.
6:20 Apparently that's the cisgender flag! So the comic is just establishing that the mom and aunt are cis while the kids are nonbinary
I get top surgery tomorrow!!!!!! I am so excited!
Best of luck!
Good luck on getting that off your chest!
💐 Best wishes for a speedy recovery, and lots of supportive friends around you.
"its like the skibidi"-Jamie 2024
4:10
Genderfluid + genderfluid = bigender
(In this comic, not necessarily irl)
Also I’m genderfluid :D
Wouldn't that just make more genderfluid?
@@alexjewett7455 yeah, probably but shhhhhhhhh let your disbelief be suspended
Genderfluid squared (mathematically)
I'm not completely sure if I got the flag right, but... I think that was bigenderflux, or something like that?
4:02 ace mixed 2 gender fluids and got bi-gender! (haveing 2 genders usually male and female!! Like me)
When it comes to clothes shopping as an AFAB NB, I feel like I have double the choices, manly-man 'and' lady-lady. Growing up, long before figuring out my NBness, my mum would regularly find me in the boys section, and would be like, "This is the boys section!", "Soooo?". I can totally see why it can be triggering for other NBs though T_T
2:58 yeah, i love steven universe, and it was so age appropriate that even the arab and cuts couldn't get rid of the lgbtq rep (which kinda made me predisposed to be an lgbtq ally)
The captions changing "I hate dysphoria" to "I hate Florian" I CANT-
Jamie need OT to teach him to make sound effects 😂
I've never been homophobic and I wear it like the biggest pride flag I just loved everyone until I loved everyone lol(I'm bi) I'm happy I can say this. I've also never been transphobic, the first time I heard of it (I was 8) I did research to the best of my little ability and just said "I mean yeah ok" then went back to life with new information
"I did research to the best of my little ability and just said "I mean yeah ok" then went back to life with new information"
THIS! Can this become the standard for everything? Please and thank you!
Awesome!
I met a trans male a few weeks ago in class. We haven't really talked yet because my social awkwardness exists but I'm trying to talk to him. I'd love to be friends with him ngl. He seems like such a nice guy. I sit near some transphohic people so its really awkward when they talk about him and I'm just sitting there questioning if I have a crush on him (they don't know I'm lgbtq)
Also, there are tons of homophobic and transphobic people in my class and when I hear them saying some really homophobic/transphobic things it's incredibly awkward. God I'm just yapping on and on XD
⚠Above all, stay safe!
But, if it is possible for you, maybe find some comebacks to their rhetoric? Something that makes them think. Like idk, if they comment a boy can't wear nail polish, ask if they think masculinity is so weak and fragile, that a little paint would destroy it?
Also, if they say stuff that you know is wrong, but can't argue with, try to do research on that. Like if they say, religion is against it. I've seen multiple mentions in reels and tumblr posts about how in the Thora and Old Testament, they describes 7 different genders. That God and the angels are genderless and thus perfect. Or that the favorite phrase "man shall not lie with man" originally meant "man shall not lie with boy", thus not condemming homosexuals but pdf-iles. I'm sure you'll find sources if looking it up.
And I hope you soon get a chance to talk to the trans guy in peace. Best of luck to you both, hope you can be friends! 🍀🌈
I hope you and him become friends!
Thanks to everyone giving me advice
I discovered “gendervoid” or “void” yesterday and realized that I feel very connected to that label while still leaning toward nonbinary which I have identified as for more than a year
Nonbinary is an umbrella term for all labels that don't fit the man/woman binary. You can use both labels
We were all younger last year 🤣 I had someone look at a picture and say "You looked younger here" and I said "yeeeees, that's how pictures work."
i think that the majority of the male homophobes are just pissed that they couldn't find a guy who liked them back XD
11:51 Queer people are like Stand users.
W jojo reference
It's always been that way
I’m a woman married to another woman and she and I call each other homophobic slurs all the time
Thats because people that are really close can insult each other like that
@@minestar2247 yeah, people use the slurs against us all the time and we reclaimed them
@@Invisiblegirl109 oh yeah, I heard that queer used to be a slur, makes sense
"I fell asleep during that movie, I think I was 5 or 6 years old" No need to make me feel old!!! XD
"Sigma" is another level of male above alpha, but outside of the manosphere it's mostly a joke
4:17 I'm Ace and I have no idea what's going on either but if I had to guess maybe they're mixing liquids of all the gender fluid colors and hoping it will turn into a gender fluid? I genuinely can't think of anything else the Ace ball could be doing.
As a Trans woman who is a parent; it is very difficult for me to explain to others "Transparent" joke. Lol I really don't understand why it is that hard of a concept. Lol
I guess they just don't see it.
🥁🥁📀
I'll see myself out. After all, I'M not a parent. 😉
8:30 We have nothing to fear, but fear itself; and the possibility of Star Wars episode 10.
Fear is the mind killer - Star Trek
2:51 rare omni rep, cool
We need more representation lol
I think us bi's and the pans and you omni's (presumably anyway going off the "we" part) are often mixed together since we're all into more than one sex/gender
@@thenexus8384 yeah I guess that makes sense
@@_StarlightRose_ yeah, hope you're having a good day, night or evening, Omni-light Rose
I hope that play on your username and sexuality isn't bad or anything
Woop woop im omni
I think the balls with the pink and blue and the heart in the middle are basically the embodiment of comp-cis-het
or terfs (long sigh)
Comp?
no its a variation of the cishet flag
@@thenexus8384 Comp het = Compulsory heterosexuality (like when a person is obsessed and enforce hetero and cis standards onto people)
@@BiDisaster327 oh, well thank you for the information, my friend
This is so stupid but the bi-ble joke made me think; "Bi-bull gives you wings" lol
As an ace person, yes, I took "Netflix & chill" literally for a very long time.
6:04 He rocks these glasses
You know gaydar, now introducing: A-DAR! HELPS YOU FIND FELLOW ASPEC PEOPLE!
I need this in my life! I'm surrounded by a miasma of alloheteronormativeness. Where's my beacon of hope? Where's my lighthouse?
8:35 “it’s over! I have the bi ground!”
I was today years old when I learned that cake by the ocean is not just about eating cakes at the seaside.. 😮🍰
Ace here! I had no idea "cake by the ocean" was about s3x until my sister explained it because I made a comment about how silly the song was because eating cake by the ocean is very impractical as you'd get sand in the cake!
Something that I find funny is that, at all the jobs I've ever had, most of my coworkers have been LGBTQ+. I'm not sure how but we all choose the same places to work.
Yay! Finally more r/LGBallT
The appeal of Jammi is how awkward he is. How do I get such charming awkwardness?
The pointlessly gendered talk reminded me of Atlantis and how the mechanic girl's father wanted 2 sons and got 2 daughters instead, who both went on to fulfill his son fantasies anyway.
The sister ball in the leg dysphoria comic is unlabeled pride. Typically used by those in the community who do not want to use specific labels or if they do not feel like existing ones fit but are part of the community in some way. It’s a fairly newer one as well.
THE HEART GLASSES ARE ~VALENTINO~ CODED (sorry I'm on a Hazbin hyperfixation)
Old lady here, only thought sigma was a greek letter but Google is my Friend! Popular among Generation Alpha, sigma is a term that refers to a person who acts independently and does not need many friends.
0:21 there is also saying lgb ball t, but thats a but long
@jammidodger, the joke with the trans guy coming out to the boy who had a crush on him is that the hetero ball changed to a heteroflexible ball.
As a trans guy, it's hard for me to find pants that are just right. It's either getting boy pants for my hip size and get the excess length chopped off at the tailor's or the boy's shorts are past knee length for me and too baloony or have wide leg openings 🥲 no pants/shorts for wide hipped but short legged men? huhu
And I definitely don't want to get ladies' pants bc they're either skinny fit or whatever, it makes my legs feel claustrophobic bc I have thicc thighs
Funny enough my dad and 3 brothers have the same problem (we're asian) bc we actually got our legs from him. My mom and her legs are thin af bruhh whyyyy didn't we inherit mom's body type?? 😭
Nooo I have the opposite problem where I have to tighten my belt an insane amount or else my pants are way too short
Where do you get your clothes I need solutions
One of the running jokes of asexuality is that because we aren't thinking about sex, we have time to think about other things... Like world domination.
You know.... Just as an example. Not super sure what ace was doing to Genderfluid, though.
Jamie is one of the most wholesome UA-camrs I've ever watched
me (cis male) who grew up to like dressing up pretty and my sister (also cis) who grew up to play football.
Hey, jamie’s comment section! I had an idea for a t-shirt but I need feedback on whether it’s too cheesey/heavy-handed or anything.
So basically I’m aro/ace/agender(not entirely sure on that last one though). So I thought of having a T-shirt with “call me a LR03, because I’m AAA” written on it, with each A coloured as one of the flags representing me(plus maybe a drawing of a battery to make the joke more understandable). Do y’all think it’s funny or should I change it some way or another?
It's so dorky and corny I love it
6:13 my comic made it into the video :D
The flag of my aunt & mom is supposed to be the cisgender flag btw
I felt bad for the enby ball going shopping... I've actually found discovering my identity has been helpful with shopping for clothes. If anything, I feel like I have more choices, and I can mix and match within an outfit for something that feels just right. For any enbys that feel like that little ball right now, think of clothes like art supplies, they don't define you, you define them by how you choose to use them, so go nuts❤❤❤❤❤
5:55 WILL WOOD IS JAMMI CONFIRMED
I wish my skin peeled off when my egg cracked 🥰
2:29 i need to show this to my gen alpha brother he would find it funny to see Jamie stumble over the stuff he says all the time
9:30 the aro/ace experience of completely missing the sexual/romantic subtext.........while also just making the dirtiest jokes in your friend groups.
The "just friends" trope (used incorrectly when we're talking about gay & bi people) doesn't hurt only gay & bi people. It also hurts the aroace people who actually wanted "just" a platonic relationship, no matter how deep and committed the relationship was. If the relationship really is "just platonic", you do not act like a gay person xD
Sincerely, an aroace
For that first one with the homophobe shipping the platonic M/F pair... I love the Disney film Moana for its representation of platonic-ness. Two attractive adults, a woman and a man (who aren't blood-related), spend most of that movie stuck alone together and there's no sign of romantic/sexual/gendered tension. And neither of them talks about having a partner or crush back home, so we don't even find out what type of person (if any) they're into.
Are either of them ace/aro/both? IMO it doesn't matter. A romance subplot wouldn't have made their story better, so there wasn't one.
Maybe there'll be something in Moana 2, but I'm honestly fine either way.
Math isn't mathing
Study isn't studying
Brain isn't braining
4:10 lol the genderfluid turned into transfluid
As a gen alpha who hates the new slang, hearing Jamie say sigma and skibidi crushed me
Older Gen Z here, and sorry if this sounds weird
Back really early in elementary school I remember the teachers saying most sites have rules that say you aren't allowed on them till you're at least 13
are there now Gen Alpha children old enough to be in compliance with that rule?
The Gen dividers were never clear to me, and I don't know where anyone is half the time
Lgballt is how I got into your channel! Glad to see it being covered again! (Also Jamie struggling to describe the subreddit at the start is so iconic)
Jammi saying skibidi was not on my 2024 bingo card 💀
I finally have seen a gay, agender ball! The immediate smile and validation from that just made my day.
sometimes I wonder if I'm really ace, then I see that comic about Cake by the Ocean and I'm like....nah, I'm ace haha
Jamie! Gen Z here that interacts with Gen Alpha slang ironically.
Sigma-from what I gather-is essentially the same concept as alpha male but for cocky little kidduns. To be sigma is to be awesome and cool and epic. You're welcome
Just sharing some positive vibes- my friend just got approved for top surgery and he’s getting it in January !!!!
I'd heard of gaydar before but I just about spit out a huge bite of my dinner when Bifi came after. 😅
Fun fact: I actually had a bisexual eraser when I was like 9 and then I lost it and I was so sad and then I found it the other day and realised what turned me gay was not my Luna lovegood obsession, but in fact an eraser with the bi colours on it
20% = 1/5 I want every 5 man band in a story to have at least 1 LGBT+ character please I beg of you
6:36 Yes correct that is cis (not necessarily an ally though. I think the heart is there so it’s easier to tell apart from the bi flag iirc)
Ace ball will always be plotting chaos
Sigma isn't even gen alpha, it's gen z/millenial. It came from people making fun if the alpha males right?
I'm a trans parent. My kids are trans, so I'm multiple trans' parent. And when you shine a light behind my fingers, you can see slightly transparent.
So I'm a transparent trans' parent, trans parent :P
The one where the straight ball has a strip peeling off the front becomes the heteroflexible flag.