Africa speaks about “social filter, context and reading the room”. Self censorship is a deep need to express something that’s important to you but out of fear you choose not to so that. That was my take😊
Yes, and so on my channel I focus on self prioritization and self celebration - celebrating surviving - and all it takes to survive- and we should take credit for those things
I think what many people fail to mention is that if you suffer a consistently traumatic and unsafe childhood, it sets you up to be more vulnerable in the future, and you end up experiencing trauma after trauma because you don’t have that foundation of safety to keep you steady. I do have childhood trauma, yes, but the traumatic experiences that I find consistently playing through my mind and interfering with my life tend to be things that happened more recently.
And this is where I’m at currently. God is moving and doing some shifting. He’s shifting me from a ministry that I’ve been at for a very long. It’s a family ministry (well my mom, aunt, grandma, cousins…attend there as well) So now I’m at place where I’m listening and feeling The need to get away from my familiarity. I wanna keep the peace because I know they’re gonna try to say some things to keep me there, but I can’t keep being concerned about what they will say I have to do it FOR ME.
Self censorship - I did an episode on my channel challenging the idea of fulfillment and I don't believe fulfillment is achievable in this life - I feel like chasing fulfillment is like chasing the wind - many people disagree though
This has been me for the past 27 years as a child no one paid me attention or interacted with, growing up the same happened at school, got bullied for being the quite scrawny ginger kid. But now I've healed myself of all those traumas I've taken back the drivers seat and saying things I never would have before. Feels so good a empowering. Go with your gut. Trust and belive in yourself. 🎉
Im learning to put people in their place and not be afraid no matter who and what. I can't do this anymore . Trying to keep peace and avoid conflicts, that is not me. Oh God please help me in Jesus Mighty Name Amen 🙏
❤ I love this conversation between two beautiful humans helping others, trying to navigate the human experience. I am so grateful for this... thank you so much! 💓
her insights into the perils of self-censorship are a profound reminder to embrace authenticity in our personal and professional lives. Breaking free from the expectations of others not only fosters genuine self-expression but can ultimately lead to a more fulfilling existence. 🌟
Oh my goodness this has just come with perfect timing. I have been chewing on something since yesterday, it has been eating me up. You have given me the courage to speak out. Thankyou.
I live in a bubble. I could focus on the loneliness but instead I have found that through my voice journaling I have connected so deeply with self compassion and love that I realized...there is no way I could say these things to anyone else and have them understand and completely accept my perspective. I know that isolation isn't good and I'm working to find my tribe. I spend so much time alone that I don't have the social filters most people do. I tend to tell the truth and say how I really feel about things because I'm so used to expressing my truth in my voice journals. I can't pose for pictures like other people. You gotta catch my real smile because I can't just put my hand on my hip and pose. I keep asking myself, is this sad or is it actually integrity? I dunno but when I listen to my journal and I hear myself say ' I love you...' it fills my heart like nothing else. I'll take that...🤗
This is a conversation I need, the world needs... Thank you Rangan and Africa for modelling the art of conversation, sharing ideas, wisdom, and compassion for a weary world. 🙏
Very helpful conversation. As I prepare to publish my mother’s memoire on line and accept that it’s a deeply therapeutic process I expect to break free from the expectations of others and eventually feel deeply healed and comfortable with my identity 🙏🏿
Thank you for existing Africa and Dr Rangan. I appreciate this podcast more than i can express in words. I will send positivity and good thoughts your way
I absolutely loved this, such a meaningful conversation, I relate so well to Africa, it's actually quite comforting and allows me to be self- compassionate without feeling like I'm feeling sorry for myself ❤, I love your work Ragan🙏
This conversation is so fulfilling that i deeply related with so many parts of it. I will come back to this each time i need to relisten something i have skipped. I am releasing myself from that golden cage " and i forgive myself for having stayed in it too long. I will practice and learn continuously foe my higher self. It is a daily process and i will indulge in it deeply. Thank you Rangan and Africa for sharing your hearts out.
Self censorship!! That avoidance gap is uncomfortable no matter how short the void. True authenticity makes some uncomfortable. Learning to be my transparent self regardless. I am never going to be for everyone.
This is truly special. It highlights how social media and technology have made it easier than ever to achieve wealth and success in all areas of life. By paying attention and putting in the effort, we can all thrive. The type of work varies for each of us, so it's crucial to discover your unique talent and refine it. We all possess these gifts, and now is the perfect time to utilize them. This wise queen exemplifies the power of wisdom. What's your gift? Utilizing our talents is the new path to thriving, not just for one generation, but for everyone. Thank you, Ms. Brooke.
Absolutely loved this interview! It was informative, thought-provoking, and totally engaging. By far the best I've seen. Dr., your research and interviewing style brought out great depth from Ms. Brooke. Thank you both!🙌🙌♥️♥️
For the question on discernment vs censoring- my clear cut answer would be whether or not you plan to say something *at some point.* Sometimes it’s not appropriate to say something to your supervisor at a team meeting, but it could make sense to have a private meeting expressing your viewpoint to supervisor. That is using discernment.
Thank you Dr Rangan and Africa, I loved this conversation! With regards to how we approach others, I was taught in my culture that you always greet to acknowledge the other person (sawubona, a zulu greeting, directly translated literally means 'I see you'). But as I've interacted with others I've realised how much this is taken for granted. In fact, it seems to annoy a few people when you greet them, oh and then you ask 'how are you' and you see the frustration on their face because now they need to answer you...
Thank you so much for the education you imparted in this conversation..it’s going to help me find myself. my voice as i acknowledge my broken past as an african woman who was shortchanged in many ways as a little girl growing up in zimbabwe. ….a lot of speaking truthfully about me and walking away and heal. I can’t thank you enough. God bless you and the work you do both ❤. I am going to share this with my 33 year old daughter…the future looks bright because knowledge is power! I can never thank you enough ❤
I'm with Africa when she talks about the "africa" she was when she was drinking...i couldn't resonate or identify more with how she feels about "that afreica"
Omg, who is this lady? I am loving this podcast. I have turned the tv on and just put anything to make noise on background as i work, and i cannot even express how makes me feel. Thank you sooooo much for such a great content❤❤❤❤
This is such a fulfilling and freeing conversation. Thank you both for sharing so generously and pouring into our lives. I appreciate the intellectual gymnastics and gems 💎 I can always rely on getting from your podcast. Thank you!
Very impressed with this conversation. Thank you. It reinforces my own beliefs and what I make an effort to express in my community. I run a monthly poetry open mic night, and I encourage free speech - that means I encourage people to express their truth, but not in a way that is detrimental to others, and I say that if someone says something that you do not agree with, it does not now make them your enemy. Have an open conversation, be empathetic, be curious - what has happened in their life to make them think or behave this way. And, can you create a counter argument in a poetic, creative way? A healthy community does not mean you all have to be the same, think the same, look the same. Difference is a good thing.
And it's so interesting Africa, that you talk about your father in the same way that I talk about my ex-partner, he is an evil, abusive man, and has been convicted of atrocious crimes, but, he is always the best dressed, polite, charming, adorable man - I understand the path to his addiction, but I do not agree with it, and I am learning now to create my own boundaries to ensure I maintain my own goodness. I have much to write about....
Thank you so much for this conversation, it was so needed. I'm pretty much a loner but I do use FB as a social place, lovely people who share music with me. But occasionally I comment about the world in general and some of these beautiful people turn every word I say into something other. At this point because I never like confrontations I back away and feel almost the way I did when I was abused as a child. I have so much to contribute but at times just back away from reaching out.
You can compromise so as not to offend good people, (e.g not wearing culturally unacceptable western clothes with family, understanding their conditioning compassionately), but be rigid when attempting to overcome evil or plain wrong situations such as questioning Covid19 lock downs and unproven jabs.
Hello Rangan, hello Africa, still not through the talk and you are voicing so much of my thought already. I felt deeply hurt when a relative of mine who lives in a country where manners and etiquette seems to be still very important, at one time just stopped greeting and going right into the message in our WhatsApp exchange. That would be okay in an ongoing daily conversation, however it was hurtful when these greeting were just cut out in an occasional exchange, while at the same time, the greeting was still used with other people. When you brought up this matter it was a release and I can see it more as a potential general behavior rather than just another attempt of belittling. There are many other valuable nuggets and o definitely will listen to this conversation more than once. Thank you
@DrChatterjeeRangan This is really good...there needs to be a follow-up podcast on effective communication and self-expression (if there's such a thing...)
I think the example Rangan gave of his mum making a comment about his weight is something that has been normal or common in many families and sometimes it might be meant as Rangan said his mum meant is as an expression of concern that he is looking after himself and sometimes in a way that is critical or demeaning or just some kind of judgement on a person "gaining weight". I think we have all become alot more conscious about making comments about a person's body or weight but it was very common a few decades ago but I think intent is everything and Rangan knew his mother meant well. I think it is a cultural shift though where we are more aware of eating disorders and senstivities around body image which 20 years ago or so we weren't.Cultures change and do not stay the same and what is and isn't acceptable change.
Ouch! “That’s a lot of work or too much work” is the frequent go to. Holding back on true thoughts is the safest… no energy to deal with the reactions. Avoid the “angry woman syndrome” “disrespectful child syndrome” response to setting boundaries.
"social filtering"is about thinking whether you might cause unncessary offense,harm or upset and self censoring"is more when you are scared or fearful you may find rejection or social exclusion due to expressing your true thoughts or feelings.
😮 Yes absolutely there's "Self sponsorship" in whatever way you're trying to differentiate it . Yes you have to be that way around any particular setting. People will eat up at you and your spirit..... People can be true Savages*
I get severely punished (and harmed) because I don't go with the flow or follow the norm. I tend to go against the grain. And that makes me very unpopular (even hated).
You just changed my life's view seeing the similarity between most African culture which ends up creating resentful, controlling and lost grown kids called Adults
I really love your content but I wish it were in slightly more digestible nuggets! It’s so hard for me to get through this in full long form but it’s also so valuable. Any way to spread it out a bit more?
So hard to be self expressive when it’ll break an elderly family member who wants to follow my work online. I made an excuse up to explain they won’t see my posts because of an elaborate algorithm change but I’m still not expressing as I want to.
Yes the book can be seen as a health book because I am in a narcissistic relationship with a husband who blames everything that goes wrong in his life on everybody else. His narrow minded views are forced upon me and he does not have the ability to understand other’s opinions. He swears he’s always correct and one day every one will see he was right. I’m not exaggerating here.
“Why is this criticism bothering me?” TRIGGER alert. Politeness Exhaustion from the “be the bigger person” “don’t take it personal” deflection response.
Terima kasih atas semua pembahasan tentang aku bapak ibu yang menonton mendapingi ,menjadi saksi dan Tuhan Allah pun melihat segala perbuatan sikap perilaku yang di tampilkan di hadapan bapak ibu teman teman semua oke kiranya di berkati Tuhan Allah ampuni dosaku oke Ilove you Jesus Christ ♥️👍
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We must remember that its neither necessary or advisable that we have or share a viewpoint on everything
Africa speaks about “social filter, context and reading the room”. Self censorship is a deep need to express something that’s important to you but out of fear you choose not to so that. That was my take😊
@@jollymollyramram9702 totally
@@jollymollyramram9702👏🏽👍🏽
Absolutely! This is explored in the episode. Love it🤍
@@jollymollyramram9702Exactly! This is me unfortunately at times.
Trauma is not only from childhood but many healers focus on childhood. I like that she's tapping to identifying adulthood Traumas
Yes, and so on my channel I focus on self prioritization and self celebration - celebrating surviving - and all it takes to survive- and we should take credit for those things
The reason why they focus on childhood is because our childhood is what mold us into the adult that we are today .
Yes, that's where it all begins 🥰
Absolutely. I love that as well
I think what many people fail to mention is that if you suffer a consistently traumatic and unsafe childhood, it sets you up to be more vulnerable in the future, and you end up experiencing trauma after trauma because you don’t have that foundation of safety to keep you steady. I do have childhood trauma, yes, but the traumatic experiences that I find consistently playing through my mind and interfering with my life tend to be things that happened more recently.
I love her and her aura. She is so calm
I love her approach to this topic. Many times, I do not say what I want to say because of wanting peace
And this is where I’m at currently. God is moving and doing some shifting. He’s shifting me from a ministry that I’ve been at for a very long. It’s a family ministry (well my mom, aunt, grandma, cousins…attend there as well) So now I’m at place where I’m listening and feeling The need to get away from my familiarity. I wanna keep the peace because I know they’re gonna try to say some things to keep me there, but I can’t keep being concerned about what they will say I have to do it FOR ME.
This what we all do, we shy away from expressing how we feel deep inside for the sake of peace.Thank you Africa for the conversation.
Self censorship - I did an episode on my channel challenging the idea of fulfillment and I don't believe fulfillment is achievable in this life - I feel like chasing fulfillment is like chasing the wind - many people disagree though
This has been me for the past 27 years as a child no one paid me attention or interacted with, growing up the same happened at school, got bullied for being the quite scrawny ginger kid. But now I've healed myself of all those traumas I've taken back the drivers seat and saying things I never would have before. Feels so good a empowering. Go with your gut. Trust and belive in yourself. 🎉
Her turtle neck and vest is gorgeous especially with her hair cut!
Im learning to put people in their place and not be afraid no matter who and what. I can't do this anymore . Trying to keep peace and avoid conflicts, that is not me. Oh God please help me in Jesus Mighty Name Amen 🙏
I am with you. I need to find my tribe.
I totally understand
Help us all! The kinder we are the more comes attacks of the enemy… we annoy them
❤ I love this conversation between two beautiful humans helping others, trying to navigate the human experience. I am so grateful for this... thank you so much! 💓
AFRICA BROOKE EVERYBODY!!!
her insights into the perils of self-censorship are a profound reminder to embrace authenticity in our personal and professional lives. Breaking free from the expectations of others not only fosters genuine self-expression but can ultimately lead to a more fulfilling existence. 🌟
To be inner directed - not other directed!
absolutely! you summed it up so beautifully. thank you
Oh my goodness this has just come with perfect timing. I have been chewing on something since yesterday, it has been eating me up. You have given me the courage to speak out. Thankyou.
You always have to have the courage to speak up. No matter what.
I live in a bubble. I could focus on the loneliness but instead I have found that through my voice journaling I have connected so deeply with self compassion and love that I realized...there is no way I could say these things to anyone else and have them understand and completely accept my perspective. I know that isolation isn't good and I'm working to find my tribe. I spend so much time alone that I don't have the social filters most people do. I tend to tell the truth and say how I really feel about things because I'm so used to expressing my truth in my voice journals. I can't pose for pictures like other people. You gotta catch my real smile because I can't just put my hand on my hip and pose. I keep asking myself, is this sad or is it actually integrity? I dunno but when I listen to my journal and I hear myself say ' I love you...' it fills my heart like nothing else. I'll take that...🤗
I hear you...keep going.
This is a conversation I need, the world needs... Thank you Rangan and Africa for modelling the art of conversation, sharing ideas, wisdom, and compassion for a weary world. 🙏
africa brooke is inspiring. her voice and courage, authenticity and integrity… in the world of self abandonment and self betrayal… is so needed.
This was one of the best interviews I’ve ever watched on UA-cam. You both really touched a place in my mind AND in my heart. Really great job ❤
Very helpful conversation. As I prepare to publish my mother’s memoire on line and accept that it’s a deeply therapeutic process I expect to break free from the expectations of others and eventually feel deeply healed and comfortable with my identity 🙏🏿
Wow! Wow! She is so so so Beautiful!!!❤ so intelligent. Love my African beauty. From Mama Victoria- South Africa,Johannesburg.
Never been so encapsulated by two people. Beautiful souls and beautiful minds. Thank you for this video and the messages within it🫶
Thank you for existing Africa and Dr Rangan. I appreciate this podcast more than i can express in words. I will send positivity and good thoughts your way
I absolutely loved this, such a meaningful conversation, I relate so well to Africa, it's actually quite comforting and allows me to be self- compassionate without feeling like I'm feeling sorry for myself ❤, I love your work Ragan🙏
This woman is so elegant and beautiful..
I am inspired to read the book by Africa Brooke. I feel there is much for me to learn from her.
This conversation is so fulfilling that i deeply related with so many parts of it. I will come back to this each time i need to relisten something i have skipped. I am releasing myself from that golden cage " and i forgive myself for having stayed in it too long. I will practice and learn continuously foe my higher self. It is a daily process and i will indulge in it deeply. Thank you Rangan and Africa for sharing your hearts out.
absolutely beautiful content. God bless Africa and everyone here. So beautiful and genuine…
I listened to the entire episode!!! OUTSTANDING AND LIFE CHANGING
Its not just discernment its wisdom
The chemistry between these two is electrifying.
Self censorship!! That avoidance gap is uncomfortable no matter how short the void. True authenticity makes some uncomfortable. Learning to be my transparent self regardless. I am never going to be for everyone.
So healing...full. loved it. Thank you !!!❤
This is truly special. It highlights how social media and technology have made it easier than ever to achieve wealth and success in all areas of life. By paying attention and putting in the effort, we can all thrive. The type of work varies for each of us, so it's crucial to discover your unique talent and refine it. We all possess these gifts, and now is the perfect time to utilize them. This wise queen exemplifies the power of wisdom. What's your gift? Utilizing our talents is the new path to thriving, not just for one generation, but for everyone. Thank you, Ms. Brooke.
Very nice Conversation! Thank you both of you🙏🏿
Beautiful content. Thank you so much to both of you 🙏
Thank you for being authentic ❤😊
Awareness ,responsibility and expression
Absolutely loved this interview! It was informative, thought-provoking, and totally engaging. By far the best I've seen. Dr., your research and interviewing style brought out great depth from Ms. Brooke. Thank you both!🙌🙌♥️♥️
For the question on discernment vs censoring- my clear cut answer would be whether or not you plan to say something *at some point.* Sometimes it’s not appropriate to say something to your supervisor at a team meeting, but it could make sense to have a private meeting expressing your viewpoint to supervisor. That is using discernment.
Thank you for this very enlightening podcast. I learned so much as you are both so very knowledgeable and easy to listen to.
🙏❤🙏
Wow Finally I saw Africa, I'm super fan of her wisdom and persuation!
Beautiful conversation. Thank you❤
Thank you Dr Rangan and Africa, I loved this conversation! With regards to how we approach others, I was taught in my culture that you always greet to acknowledge the other person (sawubona, a zulu greeting, directly translated literally means 'I see you'). But as I've interacted with others I've realised how much this is taken for granted. In fact, it seems to annoy a few people when you greet them, oh and then you ask 'how are you' and you see the frustration on their face because now they need to answer you...
Thank you so much for the education you imparted in this conversation..it’s going to help me find myself. my voice as i acknowledge my broken past as an african woman who was shortchanged in many ways as a little girl growing up in zimbabwe. ….a lot of speaking truthfully about me and walking away and heal. I can’t thank you enough. God bless you and the work you do both ❤. I am going to share this with my 33 year old daughter…the future looks bright because knowledge is power! I can never thank you enough ❤
This was such a powerful conversation! Thanks so much 💜
An transformative, transparent,, effortless and vibrant discussion🧡
Wow wow this was absolutely amazing I am absolutely blown away with gratitude 🙏🏽 ❤thank you both for this powerful message
Blessings and love
Thank you to you both - Rangan and Africa - amazing podcast. Soul nourishing x
I'm with Africa when she talks about the "africa" she was when she was drinking...i couldn't resonate or identify more with how she feels about "that afreica"
Omg, who is this lady? I am loving this podcast. I have turned the tv on and just put anything to make noise on background as i work, and i cannot even express how makes me feel. Thank you sooooo much for such a great content❤❤❤❤
Thank you for this.
What an absolutely gorgeous woman!!! The outside as well as the inside!! A Beautiful human!!
her interview on diary of a ceo still resonates with me daily. book ordered. looking forward to the read.
This conversation spoke to me a lot
This is such a fulfilling and freeing conversation. Thank you both for sharing so generously and pouring into our lives. I appreciate the intellectual gymnastics and gems 💎 I can always rely on getting from your podcast. Thank you!
Loved every sec of this conversation
Very impressed with this conversation. Thank you. It reinforces my own beliefs and what I make an effort to express in my community. I run a monthly poetry open mic night, and I encourage free speech - that means I encourage people to express their truth, but not in a way that is detrimental to others, and I say that if someone says something that you do not agree with, it does not now make them your enemy. Have an open conversation, be empathetic, be curious - what has happened in their life to make them think or behave this way. And, can you create a counter argument in a poetic, creative way? A healthy community does not mean you all have to be the same, think the same, look the same. Difference is a good thing.
And it's so interesting Africa, that you talk about your father in the same way that I talk about my ex-partner, he is an evil, abusive man, and has been convicted of atrocious crimes, but, he is always the best dressed, polite, charming, adorable man - I understand the path to his addiction, but I do not agree with it, and I am learning now to create my own boundaries to ensure I maintain my own goodness. I have much to write about....
Thank you so much for this conversation, it was so needed. I'm pretty much a loner but I do use FB as a social place, lovely people who share music with me. But occasionally I comment about the world in general and some of these beautiful people turn every word I say into something other. At this point because I never like confrontations I back away and feel almost the way I did when I was abused as a child. I have so much to contribute but at times just back away from reaching out.
Thank you for sharing your story ❤️ very brave and bold.
Came to me at the right time ❤thank you
Hi!Thank you ! Have a great day 😊
You can compromise so as not to offend good people, (e.g not wearing culturally unacceptable western clothes with family, understanding their conditioning compassionately), but be rigid when attempting to overcome evil or plain wrong situations such as questioning Covid19 lock downs and unproven jabs.
Africa Brooke… totally agree.
Beautifully said👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾wow thought provoking. Thank you for your inspiration to start conversations that would never have happened
Hi Rangan, loving this podcast.
Very helpful ❤❤❤
Hello Rangan, hello Africa, still not through the talk and you are voicing so much of my thought already. I felt deeply hurt when a relative of mine who lives in a country where manners and etiquette seems to be still very important, at one time just stopped greeting and going right into the message in our WhatsApp exchange. That would be okay in an ongoing daily conversation, however it was hurtful when these greeting were just cut out in an occasional exchange, while at the same time, the greeting was still used with other people. When you brought up this matter it was a release and I can see it more as a potential general behavior rather than just another attempt of belittling. There are many other valuable nuggets and o definitely will listen to this conversation more than once. Thank you
Oh this is Golden ✨
Profound Interview and lessons. Thanks for sharing
Powerful ❤
Absolutely 10/10 conversation. Thank you both for this amazing podcast.
Great content
@DrChatterjeeRangan This is really good...there needs to be a follow-up podcast on effective communication and self-expression (if there's such a thing...)
22:12 🤫 Thank you
Lovely ❤
Thank you
I love how she laughs 😂❤️
I wish I had found your channel along time ago
What a clarity of thought!!!
Love this, well done you two. ❤
Charles Duhek - communication
I think the example Rangan gave of his mum making a comment about his weight is something that has been normal or common in many families and sometimes it might be meant as Rangan said his mum meant is as an expression of concern that he is looking after himself and sometimes in a way that is critical or demeaning or just some kind of judgement on a person "gaining weight".
I think we have all become alot more conscious about making comments about a person's body or weight but it was very common a few decades ago but I think intent is everything and Rangan knew his mother meant well.
I think it is a cultural shift though where we are more aware of eating disorders and senstivities around body image which 20 years ago or so we weren't.Cultures change and do not stay the same and what is and isn't acceptable change.
Ouch! “That’s a lot of work or too much work” is the frequent go to. Holding back on true thoughts is the safest… no energy to deal with the reactions. Avoid the “angry woman syndrome” “disrespectful child syndrome” response to setting boundaries.
Perhaps discernment/social filtering is other-focused, while self-censoring is self-focused... analogous to the distinction between guilt and shame?
"social filtering"is about thinking whether you might cause unncessary offense,harm or upset and self censoring"is more when you are scared or fearful you may find rejection or social exclusion due to expressing your true thoughts or feelings.
Yes, that part. Because we don't feel like we're enough and not worthy of the space we occupy
Interesting 🤔 it’s true alot of people are dead inside don’t know who they are anymore just want peace ✌️
Interesting conversation. Add that to the fact that this woman is wearing her confidence on her sleeves with her bald beauty. Good for her.😅
😮 Yes absolutely there's "Self sponsorship" in whatever way you're trying to differentiate it . Yes you have to be that way around any particular setting. People will eat up at you and your spirit..... People can be true Savages*
I get severely punished (and harmed) because I don't go with the flow or follow the norm. I tend to go against the grain. And that makes me very unpopular (even hated).
I hear you!
He should have said he was quoting Bronnie Ware at the beginning from her book Top 5 Regrets of The Dying
You just changed my life's view seeing the similarity between most African culture which ends up creating resentful, controlling and lost grown kids called Adults
Wantibi 👍
Which movie is it - the son of?
The Zone of Interest
Thank you!
I really love your content but I wish it were in slightly more digestible nuggets! It’s so hard for me to get through this in full long form but it’s also so valuable. Any way to spread it out a bit more?
youtube.com/@drchatterjeeclips?si=GdkHubhtAFW0bj55
Clips 🙂
She's so beautiful waw. ❤
So hard to be self expressive when it’ll break an elderly family member who wants to follow my work online. I made an excuse up to explain they won’t see my posts because of an elaborate algorithm change but I’m still not expressing as I want to.
But I did know better. I really did and I did it anyway. How does one forgive that?
Does anyone remember the film they recommended?
The Zone of Interest
What is the name of the movie they spoke of?
Zone of interest
❤
Don't act your care about me I got that
Yes the book can be seen as a health book because I am in a narcissistic relationship with a husband who blames everything that goes wrong in his life on everybody else. His narrow minded views are forced upon me and he does not have the ability to understand other’s opinions. He swears he’s always correct and one day every one will see he was right. I’m not exaggerating here.
“Why is this criticism bothering me?” TRIGGER alert. Politeness Exhaustion from the “be the bigger person” “don’t take it personal” deflection response.
Terima kasih atas semua pembahasan tentang aku bapak ibu yang menonton mendapingi ,menjadi saksi dan Tuhan Allah pun melihat segala perbuatan sikap perilaku yang di tampilkan di hadapan bapak ibu teman teman semua oke kiranya di berkati Tuhan Allah ampuni dosaku oke Ilove you Jesus Christ ♥️👍