Pregnancy & Endometriosis: "I had six miscarriages" - BBC URDU
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- Опубліковано 18 вер 2024
- ’ماہواری کے دنوں میں مجھے اتنی تکلیف ہوتی تھی کہ میں دعا کرتی تھی کہ میں مر جاوں اور اسی درد اور تکلیف کو کم کر کرنے کے لیے میں اپنے آپ کو زخمی بھی کرتی تھی”۔‘
عورتوں میں ماہواری کے دنوں میں ہونے والا شدید درد ایک مخصوص بیماری سے منسلک ہے جسے انڈومیٹریوسسز کہتے ہیں۔ اس حوالے سے دیکھیے لاہور سے ترہب اصغر ، فرقان الہی اور وقاص انور کی یہ ڈیجیٹل ویڈو۔
#Endometriosis #PeriodPain #Pregnancy #Health #Miscarriage
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I was born after 10 years of the wedding of my parents, and my mom shares unbelievable stories with me that how she spent 10 painful years.
@Little Fairy hloo
Allah bless your mom
I became mother after 1.9 years of my marriage and guess what my life was a hell till that time
more power to her
I am still living a life of a infertile lady.may allah creat better solution of evey infetile women and bless them at least one baby.Allah has full power to remove these problem.may Allah bless them all infertile ladies including me😭
Amen amen Allah hamri jholi Saleh Omar wli auald sy bhar dy amen
Start doing miswak five times
Ameen
Ameen.
Ameen Allah sb ko aulad ata farmaey
agr bache hon bhi log fir b nahi chorte...
"Sirf betian hain beta koi nahi?"
"bs aik hi bacha????? "
"aik beta hy tou jori bna lo aik aur peda kr lo"
our social taboos never end at any point....
Hhhhhhh good
Very very well said
Ma ek he beti hu apnay parents ki bas batain sune ko milti hain
@@fatimaurooj4691 I don't think you should listen to people. This all is by ALLAH'S will so just thank and pray ALLAH. Don't care about people they can just talk they can't give any benefit to you. All the best!!
Totally agree
Hr mushkil k bad asani hr taqleef k bad rahat (al quran)
Beshak.
Beshak bilkul theek,
Allah har women par khas raham farmay Aameen
Please don't disrespect a woman if she is unable to give birth to a child.
Right
Yes agree
sach kaha hy ap ny meri shadi ko 4 years ho gy hn baby nhn hy mjhy asa koi problem to nhn but 2 miscarriges ho chuky hn reason pta ni . kch log city or country donon nhn bdl skty but log kha jaty hn andr sy yaqeen kren mera exp hy . dua kren Allah mjhy zindgi wali aulad dy or sb by auladon ko dy ameen😭😭
Ameen
Help lai skty ap meri videos sy...m ny b face kya h sb so videos bna rhi ab
@@medicalguideawareness8889 جزاك الله. میں سمجھ سکتی ہوں آپکی باتیں اور خود کو سنمبھال بھی لوں ۔ زمانے کو اپنے ہی رشتوں کو کون سمجھاے 😔😔 میں آپ اور باقی سب کے لیے دعا کرتی ہوں آپ سب مل کر میرے لیے کریں نہ جانے کس کی دعا کس کی آمین کے انتظار میں ہو
@@medicalguideawareness8889 ap ka channel visit kia hy ۔ good infor mations hn sister mn ap k channel sy tch mn rhon gi .
@@isherajpoot223 ji thanku
Brave woman. An inspiration for many.
The biggest problem in Pakistan the doctors won’t aware about your disease until it get severe, then you realise it’s hard to be cored
well most of them are white collar butchers...if you look around today, 95% delivery cases are C-section and how much they charge for it operation, thats not hidden...and during 9 months, every visit will cost you thousands with all the medications given...like today almost every women have vitamin, iron,protein etc deficiency as per Dr.
Entirely wrong ! The biggest problem is patient ( specially female) visits the hospital only when the condition gets out of control .
@@KhalidKhan-bk2kc i don't know where are you from, if you belong to a village, then yes but in cities and towns the moment she finds her pregnancy, the 9 months Gynae clinic visits start....people do biweekly and monthly routine checkups..everytime they visit, Ultra-sound is must....
@@syedshah7902 endometriosis or any other gynaecological issue doesn't show up suddenly during pregnancy , there is always a gradual progression for a disease but people from our society no matter from where they are, are not bothered by it until it gets serious . I am specifically talking about women . Once they want to conceive and if between that any issue comes up , only then they visits a hospital . You will never see any women visiting a gynaecologist when their periods are delayed or when they have serious cramps during menstruation .. They don't value these signs . It's very easy to blame a doctor by ignoring the actual facts
@@KhalidKhan-bk2kc yes i agree, its because of lack of awareness in women but my point was that today every pregnant woman after visiting a dr. is given so many medicines that you will think she is so weak and lacking minerals,vitamins,proteins etc..my initial point was that today 90% cases are now C-section and that is business. Dr. recommends to them C-section otherwise you are your child life will be in danger. I was talking about white collar butcher..so who wants to risk their loved ones life? not even educated people forget about uneducated. again i agree with you about not taking it series even before pregnancy but thats not true for every women.
I had 2 miscarriages 1 ectopic pregnancy and lost 1 full term baby in first six years of marriage. Then my in laws decided to marry my husband for second time I only wanted to die because I was made to believe that I m a useless garbage on earth but then Allah heard my prayers and I was blessed with my first alive child.just be patient Allah will hear your prayers .
❤
Beshak
Did you treat or it was auto recovered? My wife as 2 miscarriages as well 2 years before. Doctors said you could get pregnant after 4 years now safely but my wife has painful periods each month after miscarriages
Alhamdulillah
Mere liye dua karain k Allah mujhe aur meri jaisy jitni be aulad behnain hai Allah unko aulad ki nemat se nawaz Ameen
Allah sehat e qamla ata kray ap ko ar sb bemaron ko shifa ata farmay Aamen
Very good initiative towards awareness of such diseases specially in Pakistan. 👍👍
I lived with endometriosis for twelve years . It was living hell . I could not lift a step without pain. After hysterectomy I got new life. Nobody in my family cared about my pain bcz it was invisible monster. Everybody asked me to stop talking about it . The disease itself was very painful but equal was the painful behaviour of people around me .
Stay strong sister 💪
Is there a way to contact you to find out about the doctor you were treated by?
what is Hysterectomy plz let me know
I feel you
Madam aap ka bacha aap say bohat milta hai , Allah Pak is ko naik our tandrust zindagi dey , aap ko iss ki khushiya daikhaye....
Strong lady, her kisi ki Zindagi dosry sy different hoti hy, Allah sb k ley aasani farmay.ameen
This video made deep cuts into my sufferings for 8 years!!
Mre b ghr a jaiin
I'm experiencing the same at age 30 from 2 years. I know the pain.
MRE b ghr a jaain
The same thing happened with me i also this endometriosis problem after long treatment Allah give us 2daughters alhamdulellah
Same problem
Unbelievable. Heartbreaking. Yet motivating.
She is so right.... I suffered from such pain but for different reason but these pains are unexplainable
Endometriosis pain is equal to labour pain every month.
100% ture
@@manokhan5786 yes sadly true dear.
i also suffer thatz y i know very well.
@@manokhan5786 aww dear sorry to hear that. this pain is hard to explain and its even more heart breaking when even doctors can't understand our pain. Did you take any treatment? Anything helped?
@@ammykins5241 only pray help me.
Masha Allah brave woman...salute
Thanks for uploading this informative video. My pray that Allah 👆 bless her and keep her in blessing always and give her complete healthy life and away from saten mindset
ماءشااللہ میری ایک بہٹی ہے لیکن میرا بہٹا نہیں ہے دیوار مجھے ہر وقت بےعزت کرتے ہے سوا رونے کے میں کچھ نہیں کر سکتی یہ عورت اتنی بے بس کیوں ہے جب شوہر کہتی ہوں تو وہ کہتا ہے اللہ پر چھوڑوں لیکن کب تک جب وہ مجھے کچھ کہتے ہیں تو میں کہتی میری دل کی دھڑکن روک جائے میں اتنی پڑھی لکھے نہیں ہوں
Allah se mango
I had 1 miscarriage and its being 7 years of marriage. I live in UAE but i remember i went to Pakistan for one month and become a stress patient by people's attitude. I know it hurts alot. Why people keep on asking so private things so openly. I am also trying IVF and much hopeful.
Rabia baiti spit upon others. My son was diagnosed with testicular cancer later during his peritonial lymph nodes removal the Tracy which carries spern from testicle to penis was cut by surgeon hence he is not able to help his wife to convince.. Same peole were worried why no bachcha yet.. Me and my wife shut their mouths by saying this is non of their business and we do not need babies for the time being it is already planned...do not pay attention just ignore.. In Sha Allah soon u will have many babies in Sha Allah
Rabia Saeed Rabia God bell you bundle of prayers frome my side. Plz could you tell me what is the way how baby born by IvF
Have you tried hijama for that?
Mari shadi ko 5 sal ho ga hain 2 miscarriage ho ga hain 2nd 3 month phle hva hai husband or main ny tu zikar nahe karty baby nahe hai etc Allah ki raza man ka khamosh ho jate hain dubai main rahti hun Pakistan jany sa ghabrati hun ka log is pa bat na karyn. Allah sa dua karti hun Allah pak ulad ki kami kisi dushman ko bhi na dana bht painful hai.
Neelu Abbas kudha par bharosa karain aik bar hijama karwayen ,meri ulad hijama ki treatment sa hoye hy.
Allah sab Kay haal par rehm farmaye ameen
U r a brave lady! My Prayers are with u!
My husband , tells me that he, Suleman was born after 3 years of his parents marriage. Until then inlaws had very bad and taunting attitude & misbehavior. It was very uncertain situation. Then God blessed them with Suleman. later, everyone was happy with them. How selfish or worldly attitude. Now they are grandparents shukr Alhamdulillah. Anyhow, they never give. Some in family & inlaws were supportive & nice towards their struggle. Khuda sbko lambi umr sehat de. Aur bemari se mehfuz rakhy. aur taufeeq de k 1 dusry ka khyal rakhyn. Ameen.
Very true people never forget and give us reminders that you have these faults. Always remember only your positive thinking, courage and believe in yourself can solve your problems. Give strength to your daughters and sisters. So they can survive in life problems with confidence. 😊😊😊😊
My dear I love you 💓 I am feeling sad for you. May you have a blessed life aheed.
I have suffer 4 years without baby and people make my life hell😭
Pata nahi logo ko kia problem hota hy jab hum Allah ki raza main razi ho jaty hain tou log yad kerway ajaty hain why we r happy we have no right becaz we don have kidz
@@shabanashahzad5395 u r right.l have my own experience.
@sk Khan Bilkul har kisi ky apny naseeb kisi ko Allah aulad dey ker azmata hy aur kisi ko na dey ker Mujhy tou lagta hy Allah ki aur kitni namtain hain jo us nay hamain di sub say zyada tou Allah apny siwa kisi ka muhtaj na karain kai dafa Jin ki aulad hy un ko mane roty and rulry dekha Allah 70 maoon say zyada pyar kerta hy wo wo kerta hy jo hamry haq main better hy
Ap khush raho apni family k sath ameen
At the end of the vedio i saw ur kid i really happy god bless u
Allah pak ap ko khair wali olad sa nawazay ameen
Yeah awareness is important for this illiterate society with 70% zero understanding of many gynaecological problems and absolutely wrong thinking of considering that patient as drama queen or isolating effectee from attending events because of being "manhoos"
More power to you!
Unfortunayeley ladies critisize in such scenerios. We are cluster of uncivilised ceeatures(I will not use the word humanbeings) we are moving dead bodies who do not spare a minute to critisize others
yes my husband call me daramy baz when I was suffering from my abortion pain its just like labour pain which I bear 4 days but most who hurts me is my so called husband
Bilkul painful hota hy jab log ? Kerty hain meri shadi ko kafi arsa guzar Gia no kids Aur main jis country main hoon best ilaj and everything lakin ivf bhi kerwaya tab bhi no kids main Allah ka bara Shuker kerti hoon mery in laws itny achy hain jab pak jao koi mujh say sawal kerta mery husband meri mother in law jo meri khala bhi hain khud ans dety Aj mery dewar meri nandoon sub jy bachy hamain Maa and dad khety hain ap ko apny susral ki tarf say support ho phir ap happy life guzar sakty hain 20 sal hamari shadi ko ho gy Aj bhi mery husband and sub family asy anniversary celebrate kerty hain jasy 1st ho Allah sub ko kush rakhy aur Jin ki aulod nahi un sub sehat zindgi wali aulod atta farmay Ameen
Ma sha allah
@@farheenmalik3509 Thanku❤️
Ap baby adopt krlyn
We blossoms through every Hardships 🌸 Allah bless you all 🌺
🌷💕🌷
MRE b ghr ajaiiin
This is so heartbreaking 💔
Good information. Great effort
پیدایشی طور پر انسان محتاج ہے اللّٰہ پاک کے حکم کے مطابق سب کچھ ہوتا ہے اور در حقیقت جب ایسے حالات ہوتے ہیں تو انسان پر آزمایش کا وقت ہوتا ہے جس میں ایک وقت میں بیت سے لوگوں کا امتحان ہو رہا ہوتا ہے اور صبر کرنے والے اس میں کامیاب ہوتے ہیں ہمارا معاشرہ ہندو معاشرے کی قباحتوں سے لبریز ہے کسی کے ساتھ کوئ حادثہ ہو جاتا ہے تو اسکو اس طرح ددھکارا جاتا ہے جیسے وہ اچھوت ہے مگر ایسا کچھ بھی نہیں ہے اگر دین اسلام کا علم ہی نہ ہو دنیا داری اور ذاتی منگھڑت باتوں کو جبرن مسلط کرایا جانا اس جہالت کا اصل سبب ہے۔
I am happy to see u with ur husband and jano beta.maa shaa Allah
I m unmarried.. But can truly feel this pain.. Because I severely suffered with it..Even after lapartomy, I m still suffering with this painful disease...
Think about who lives in desert and deep jungle area and village.....how they treat their families ...this is realy ajeeb alot of women die every year.....Alas
These women have one way ticket to jannah
Allah Tala gayab sa madad farmy ameen suma ameen
*Bohat khob, ap ki himat ko salam.*
Mre b ghr a jaaain
God bless you sister 🌹😘
more power to you
Sahi kaha well done
Allah hamari society ko hidayat day Ameen
Thank you for sharing this!!
Brave woman 💖
May God bless uh... try in God don’t be worried about the people around uh..
Very good BBC Urdu news good
Bless you Aameen ❤️
I am proud of you to stand for your right
So relatable Rama....childless couples aren't invited to baby birthdays and even their closed ones don't share their pregnancy news to them!
Ameen sum ameen.
Ma'shaaALLAH Rama sister congratulations on finally getting blessed
And yes you are right. People's taunts and tantrums can have devastating effects on our lives.
ALLAH se dua h apk hq m acha kry ar apko apni owlad ki khsyan dkhna naseeb kry aameen
Allah bless you respected sister...
Allah pk apko sbar dy r naik r saleha olaad dy ameen
🌷🌷💕
She is such a brave lady good luck
Very informative and nice ❤🎉
Brave Allah apko happy rakhy Ameen
Veri nice meri sis
👌
Please do talk about adenomyosis too!!
Mujay bi adenomyosis ka masla h buhat pain rehti h
Dua hain app humesha khush rahy apni family k sat❤️❤️brave women i salute u dear💞💞🙏🙏
I'm suffering with adhesions and endometriosis IAM married for last 10 yrs
I've a history of multiple miscarriages
Last one lasts for 3 months . Ppl really don't let you live
Be brave
May Allah resolve all women problems and believe that we have reason to be in this World and being mother is not end of the World as our value is above all that. Serve humanity and be patient. We are in culture pressure MAY Allah ease everyone s pain Ameen
Allah Pak ap ko sabr dain AMEEN
Allah apko seht dy or apko naik olad dy
What a journey 👏🏽 👏🏽 👏🏽
Same here. My office heads said I don't want to work. They created this image I faced shity behavior. I just had a surgery
She is very brave
Yes it is very painful but no other person can understand it.
that's so mean people made fun of her. May Allah bless her
Ameen
Mery 11 saal sy baby nhi main ny apna country change krlia ha 1 saal phly bcz log jeeny nhi dety thy
Meri shadi 10 Sall ho gy or 9 baby miscearig hovy hain. B's sb dua krain Allah sb ko is neamt sy nwazy Ameen
Alla ap ko b zror Dy ga Inshallah
@@sumansuman2497 ameen sum ameen
@@sumansuman2497 aap n ivf krwaya agar nhi to q hoa miscarriage waja
@@shokatulislam6759 ni ivf boht zyada menhga h
That's why, I hate the idea of getting married! That's why I want to become financially independent, so that my parents don't force me to marry someone who is unknown to me. We should quit this idea that everyone should get married. We can also live by ourselves!
there would come an age when you'd want to get married, have a partner, have kids perhaps.. just sort your things out before it's too late to have kids or find your desired partner.
@@F-Khan491 actually we don't have marriage itself it just that we hate the unmarried phase of our life if u believe in destiny then u will know that the right person will come at the right time but the time before the arrival of that person is made hell for us so that's why we want to be financially independent bcz then they will let us live our life peacefully and they will leave us alone maybe
U r very very right
I can feel your pain.
I give birth my first daughter after 12 years of marriage but the whole time was sooooo painful for me I had no idea that I had viginasms desess I wish you guys aware about this to public please I request to you its very very important
Pleass share symptoms with people for awareness
I have been suffering with different kind of pelvic problems and one of them was endometriosis as well at least i know what kind of pain you have been through
Get homeopathic treatment
how you got to know about this problem ? can doctor detect with ultrsound?
Mere 2 mscrgs hochuke logo ne mera zehni twazn blkul khrab kr k rakh dia hai.jab tak kisi k ghr olad nahi hoti to mere sath normal or jese he baby hota to baten behavior sabb change in fact mai sbko kisi doosri dunya ki makhlooq lagti pagal hojaongi pleez aap sub se dua ki request krti hn plz dua krdn k Allah mujhy nek sehatmnd olad nawazdai khair kheriat k sath 😢😢😢
Ameen
Ap logo ki baton ko ignore kro busy kro khud ko or Allah se mango ap olad
بہترین
Motivational story 💕
MRE b ghr a jaaain
Brave lady. May Allah bless you.
Absolutely
God bless you
May Allah Pak bless you with more ameen
بے حد المناک ، اورسماج کا رویہ مزید المناک ھے -
Plz potRy postive Pic of pak
Allha ap ko sabar de amin
Kia kobsort baatien kee Hai...
Yes
You are nornal and brave woman........ ❤️.
I got my first baby boy after 12 years.......
acha knowledge ha
Bht sad bat ha Allah himmat de
Good effort
Same my story
U r right pain process😥
Brave woman 👍
Dear my sis is only 18 two years bak she oprated ovarian cyst now she is suffrng from endometric cyst..she is a student ..im v worried abt her health n life....will she b recoverd. Pls pray for health bright future amin..n also share ur recovry experiences