HOW WE MET | Pastor Benjamin Mwape and Lucy Lisulo Mwape | The Wait Is Worth It

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  • Опубліковано 1 жов 2024
  • #RCV #howwemet #2024edition #CelebratingMarriage #LoveOvercomes #InspiringMarriages
    Is there such a thing as a right or wrong partner?
    How do I know if the person am with is the one for me?
    How do I know God has given a go ahead?
    What does timing have to do with marriage?
    What factors should I consider when I decide to get married?
    Welcome to "How We Met," where you will find all the answers you have about pre-marriage, marriage and everything in between.
    In a world where negativity often overshadows the joys of partnership, join us as we highlight the unique tales of love, commitment, and resilience.
    Through these videos, we aim to inspire and uplift, offering a refreshing perspective on relationships that goes beyond the usual narratives of betrayal and heartache.
    Let's celebrate the magic of love together, one inspiring story at a time.
    Don't forget to SUBSCRIBE, TURN ON YOUR NOTIFICATION BELL, COMMENT AND SHARE.

КОМЕНТАРІ • 174

  • @christakalembe241
    @christakalembe241 3 місяці тому +14

    Please God this year should not pass me by,my husband should locate me in Jesus name.

  • @malusisarahmulola
    @malusisarahmulola 3 місяці тому +20

    This is worth the watch for Christian relationship building...
    Points taken;
    Accountability
    Patience
    Clarity of vision
    Foundation
    No secret dating
    Woow intentionality even In marriage💯💯
    Intentionality in never stopping to learn..
    Intentionally Growing together

  • @trydiamundele5616
    @trydiamundele5616 3 місяці тому +15

    It’s the holding of the hands for me😊 this shows how strong their love is❤️ I’ve been smiling from the beginning to the end of watching this video ❤️ i love them 😍 they’re just unique

  • @PatienceMwansa-b6f
    @PatienceMwansa-b6f 3 місяці тому +12

    God i want this kind of marriage💍❤I Love the way they look at each other, holding hands and feel free to each other❤

  • @ElizabethNambao
    @ElizabethNambao 3 місяці тому +8

    I have loved these two from the moment I knew about them even before Pastor Benjamin became the Youth Pastor of Bread of Life Church . A clear example that kingdom love is worth the wait. Mrs Mwape is sooo warm and friendly, she will greet you like you’ve known her for years!
    I wish you could add pictures and some videos while they explain certain things.. it would make the stories a lot more engaging.

    • @chipashamusawa5524
      @chipashamusawa5524 2 місяці тому +1

      Very charming and always calm❤.

    • @rcv.zambia
      @rcv.zambia  2 місяці тому

      Kingdom love is worth the wait...👏👏👏👏 Subscribe for more

  • @NayameGloria
    @NayameGloria 3 місяці тому +5

    I have appreciated and learnt a vital lesson from what Lucy has said about staying things in the moment and later regrate ,from now on will be talking later,thanks RCV for such upbuilding and educative programs,l always look forward to listening to new couples you bring forward , watching from ndola

  • @reginakapamba3806
    @reginakapamba3806 3 місяці тому +5

    Married for nine year still holding hands and looking at each other like you just met. Am inspired❤❤❤❤

    • @julielove8932
      @julielove8932 3 місяці тому

      I know, right?! Just awesome 👍

  • @madalisozulu9886
    @madalisozulu9886 3 місяці тому +4

    Because God answers prayers my favourite couple ❤I don't go to their church but had an encounter with the wife when I was in 3rd year...

  • @mrmrs.bulawayo444
    @mrmrs.bulawayo444 3 місяці тому +10

    As you watch this as a single man, work hard and buy yours 🚶🚶

  • @TeddySheba1992-f4x
    @TeddySheba1992-f4x 2 місяці тому +1

    Beautiful Couple! But ba RCV is this program just for Pastors and their Wives?

    • @rcv.zambia
      @rcv.zambia  2 місяці тому +1

      No, its for anyone who is willing to share there story

  • @NayameGloria
    @NayameGloria 3 місяці тому +4

    I love the way Lucy is looking at Mwape so loving,I love this couple young but mature and wise , watching from ndola

  • @lindiwenkhuwa3683
    @lindiwenkhuwa3683 2 місяці тому +1

    Our Youth pastor ❤🥺awww beautiful

  • @lufeyonyirenda5660
    @lufeyonyirenda5660 2 місяці тому +1

    Wow, this is time well spent a lot of lessons learnt if there's one thing am taking away from this is the aspect of being intentional. Great content RCV.

    • @rcv.zambia
      @rcv.zambia  2 місяці тому

      Glad it was helpful! Subscribe for more

  • @sidomwape4149
    @sidomwape4149 3 місяці тому +4

    vital information and very wholesome
    We are a generation that desperately needs Godly marriages like this to look up too. Keep point taken- to have a fulfilling marriage, you need to be intentional on working towards that! Good marriages don’t miraculously happen, one has to put in the work, sacrifice and delayed gratification with a goal in mind.
    Well done the Mwapes

    • @rcv.zambia
      @rcv.zambia  2 місяці тому

      Good marriages don't miraculously happen, one has to put in the work...👏👏👏👏 WORD. Subscribe for more

  • @lindamwandila7093
    @lindamwandila7093 2 місяці тому +1

    Wow
    You're an amazing couple ❤️❤️

    • @rcv.zambia
      @rcv.zambia  2 місяці тому

      Thank you!! 😊 subscribe for more

  • @NayameGloria
    @NayameGloria 3 місяці тому +3

    "Am not fighting Lucy, the issue is communication" point take sir,we are learning

  • @NakukaNila
    @NakukaNila 2 місяці тому +1

    My Youth Pastor and My Mentor 🔥 soo much wisdom

    • @rcv.zambia
      @rcv.zambia  2 місяці тому

      Glad you think so, subscribe for more.

  • @mercymuyumba5544
    @mercymuyumba5544 2 місяці тому +3

    Wow ❤️❤️❤️

  • @pezomushibi7129
    @pezomushibi7129 3 місяці тому +3

    I must say you were meant because this man is for keeps honestly they are a few who can wait that long after popping up a question.His patience says alot

  • @chipashamusawa5524
    @chipashamusawa5524 2 місяці тому +2

    Lucy and her hubby are a great couple.I remember the unza days and how they love God and other people.This is beautiful to watch ❤.

    • @rcv.zambia
      @rcv.zambia  2 місяці тому

      Thanks so much, subscribe for more

  • @humphreydavidkalela642
    @humphreydavidkalela642 2 місяці тому +1

    You should be showing us the pictures of the events

  • @bupethepoeticmind1320
    @bupethepoeticmind1320 3 місяці тому +3

    Love is beautiful 😍 At this stage they still look at each other like the meet today ❤

    • @rcv.zambia
      @rcv.zambia  2 місяці тому

      We noticed that too, Subscribe for more

  • @mwimbanjikho1945
    @mwimbanjikho1945 2 місяці тому +2

    Wow growing and pushing together

  • @hgeorge3566
    @hgeorge3566 2 місяці тому +1

    That was great. You both are very wise!

    • @rcv.zambia
      @rcv.zambia  2 місяці тому

      Glad you think so, subscribe for more.

  • @mumbachabwe8881
    @mumbachabwe8881 3 місяці тому +2

    Great stuff the Mwape's I knew Pastor Mwape way back in the day. Congrats!

  • @joycezulu115
    @joycezulu115 17 днів тому

    23:46 wow this is so beautiful, encouraging.

  • @gilberthlucwayolungu3723
    @gilberthlucwayolungu3723 3 місяці тому +2

    Beautiful story...beautiful couple. .God be praised

    • @rcv.zambia
      @rcv.zambia  2 місяці тому

      Amen. Subscribe for more

  • @HonestyKalimbwe
    @HonestyKalimbwe Місяць тому

    Wow this is beautiful guys,I weded my wife on the 15 August 2015, clocking 9 years this year,I have two beautiful daughters

    • @rcv.zambia
      @rcv.zambia  Місяць тому

      wooow lovely to hear from yeshe.is/6057lYIVf blessed always.

  • @maureennalikena7971
    @maureennalikena7971 3 місяці тому +3

    She is my dental mate🥰😘

  • @zangimumba1304
    @zangimumba1304 3 місяці тому +1

    Lucy!! Knew her from Unza as we did ministry when Chi Alpha and other fellowships came together

  • @faithchali2462
    @faithchali2462 3 місяці тому +1

    Why am I smiling throughout this entire video🤭🤭🤭🥰...hearing my Pastor and mum Lucy share this just says that indeed real love does exist❤

  • @princedavidphiri5472
    @princedavidphiri5472 2 місяці тому +1

    Brother Ben 🤣

    • @rcv.zambia
      @rcv.zambia  2 місяці тому

      🤣🤣🤣 right! Subscribe for more

  • @nizamulenga3275
    @nizamulenga3275 3 місяці тому +1

    This is so wholesome ❤️ I love kingdom couples ❤️ God continue to bless them 🙏🏾🌺

  • @ClementSitumbeko-vd3hq
    @ClementSitumbeko-vd3hq 3 місяці тому +2

    Commitment is what have picked and it's what has inspired me of how committed Mr Mwape was

    • @rcv.zambia
      @rcv.zambia  2 місяці тому

      Glad something spoke to you. Subscribe for more

  • @lailakachotazulu5498
    @lailakachotazulu5498 Місяць тому

    Pastor Brian my youth pastor

  • @hannelchaulezo6729
    @hannelchaulezo6729 2 місяці тому +1

    I have really enjoyed watching these two important people in society...... Please RVC help me reach out to them, and let them know how much i would love them to be my mentors as a young man trying to fit in correctly and orderly....I will appreciate it...

    • @rcv.zambia
      @rcv.zambia  2 місяці тому +1

      You can use their Facebook to reach out to them, am sure they will be more than happy to help out

  • @julielove8932
    @julielove8932 3 місяці тому +1

    These are good Pastors ...just awesome. Your church is blessed to have you. May GOD increase you both you and your children In Jesus Mighty Name 🙏🏽

    • @rcv.zambia
      @rcv.zambia  2 місяці тому

      Amen. Subscribe for more

  • @HellenKumwenda
    @HellenKumwenda 2 місяці тому +1

    This is beautiful,May God continue blessing your marriage.

    • @rcv.zambia
      @rcv.zambia  2 місяці тому

      Thank you so much! Glad you think so, subscribe for more.

  • @malabomumba9434
    @malabomumba9434 3 місяці тому +1

    My international youth Pastor and his gorgeous Wife😍

  • @dianasianagowa1878
    @dianasianagowa1878 3 місяці тому +2

    From Brother Ben to hubby, this is beautiful ☺️❤️

    • @rcv.zambia
      @rcv.zambia  2 місяці тому +1

      hehehe, God is a wonderful. Subscribe for more

  • @thandiwemwale9040
    @thandiwemwale9040 3 місяці тому +1

    Officially one of my favourites and I just started watching it😅❤

  • @GetrudeChileshe-to7gc
    @GetrudeChileshe-to7gc 3 місяці тому +9

    Woow being intentional about personal growth. Feeding from the same source and preparing for parenthood.
    Working on weaknesses in unison. Wooow powerful nuggets here😊😊😊

  • @harrietgracekambole5426
    @harrietgracekambole5426 3 місяці тому +1

    Wow…your story is so inspiring. Greatly inspired by the intentionality-soo amazing! May God continue to sustain you both!
    Thank you for modeling dating,courtship,marriage and parenting soo well! Your union is a blessing.

    • @rcv.zambia
      @rcv.zambia  2 місяці тому +1

      Glad this spoke to you. Subscribe for more

  • @EstherMunyenyembe-u6g
    @EstherMunyenyembe-u6g Місяць тому

    This woman 😮‍💨🤌🏾

  • @margaretmwale366
    @margaretmwale366 3 місяці тому +1

    Beautiful stories on here❤ so motivating.🥹

    • @rcv.zambia
      @rcv.zambia  3 місяці тому

      Glad you like them! subscribe for more

  • @Rosekwaya
    @Rosekwaya 3 місяці тому +2

    This couple looks alike, you got ur rib

  • @thechristcentredlifeminist1263
    @thechristcentredlifeminist1263 3 місяці тому +1

    Been a while , the Chanel just popped up ! God bless you and your family brother Ben

    • @rcv.zambia
      @rcv.zambia  2 місяці тому

      Welcome back! Subscribe for more

  • @HarrisonIngemar-c9i
    @HarrisonIngemar-c9i Місяць тому

    874 Collins Wall

  • @passionatereader77
    @passionatereader77 3 місяці тому +2

    Great episode.

  • @JamesTembo-up9kz
    @JamesTembo-up9kz Місяць тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @chibesamalama4315
    @chibesamalama4315 3 місяці тому +1

    So love Mr and Mrs Mwape.. Mrs Mwape , Big sis Lucy ❤

  • @malabomumba9434
    @malabomumba9434 3 місяці тому

    ❤❤

  • @naulutaruth9544
    @naulutaruth9544 3 місяці тому +1

    Uwww❤️….how interesting is their love story 😊😊 super Glad they are together!!

    • @rcv.zambia
      @rcv.zambia  2 місяці тому

      God ordained we'd say. Subscribe for more

  • @natashamwamba-nzambi2336
    @natashamwamba-nzambi2336 Місяць тому

    God when😩❤️

  • @inongekapya3500
    @inongekapya3500 3 місяці тому +2

    Separate the issue from the person ✍️✍️✍️

    • @rcv.zambia
      @rcv.zambia  2 місяці тому

      👏👏 a major takeaway that one. Subscribe for more

  • @thabisasibongani8119
    @thabisasibongani8119 3 місяці тому +2

    My youth pastor 👏♥️

  • @ronicamusuka-lc6ih
    @ronicamusuka-lc6ih 3 місяці тому +1

    This is a romantic couple 😘..you love birds are an inspiration 😍

    • @rcv.zambia
      @rcv.zambia  3 місяці тому

      You are so kind, subscribe for more

  • @CharlesLengwe
    @CharlesLengwe 3 місяці тому +2

    Beautiful ❤‍🔥

  • @SulaMavuya
    @SulaMavuya 3 місяці тому +1

    My favorite youth pastors 🥳🥳❤️❤️❤️

  • @persis3805
    @persis3805 3 місяці тому +1

    Getting information from the same source very important point 🙌✨

    • @rcv.zambia
      @rcv.zambia  3 місяці тому +1

      Glad you think so! subscribe for more

  • @youarenotalone5532
    @youarenotalone5532 3 місяці тому +3

    Soon when God blesses me with a Godly marriage, I will also testify like them on this platform 🩵🔥🦋

    • @dianangula1978
      @dianangula1978 2 місяці тому +1

      Amen

    • @rcv.zambia
      @rcv.zambia  2 місяці тому

      We are patiently waiting 🫡for now, Subscribe for more

  • @schubertchilambe3602
    @schubertchilambe3602 3 місяці тому +1

    Hmmm Playing hard to get why ladies ? awe ine i move on

    • @rcv.zambia
      @rcv.zambia  2 місяці тому

      😅😅 patience pays, just look at our lovely couple

  • @BridgetMKKasanda
    @BridgetMKKasanda 3 місяці тому +1

    This is so inspiring 💯...may God continue blessing your union

    • @rcv.zambia
      @rcv.zambia  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you! God bless you too. Subscribe for more

  • @GetrudeChileshe-to7gc
    @GetrudeChileshe-to7gc 3 місяці тому +1

    I like you already❤❤❤ am only 2 minutes in 😂

  • @chisalameki646
    @chisalameki646 3 місяці тому +1

    Lovely couple ❤. Continue being an inspiration to others.

    • @rcv.zambia
      @rcv.zambia  2 місяці тому

      Thank you so much! Subscribe for more

  • @mapalomachiko6255
    @mapalomachiko6255 3 місяці тому +1

    Awwwr 🥺❤️🥳
    Sooooo excited watching this

  • @MarthaChila-qj5be
    @MarthaChila-qj5be 3 місяці тому +1

    Nice and beautiful smiles

  • @MonicaChipampe
    @MonicaChipampe 3 місяці тому +1

    She looks like pastor Gladys Paswani and also sounds like her❤

  • @inongekapya3500
    @inongekapya3500 3 місяці тому +1

    "I called you brother Ben "🤣🤣

  • @JOSPHATKABOMBO
    @JOSPHATKABOMBO 3 місяці тому +1

    This is so beautiful and I am inspired 🎉🎉

  • @ailessmwale5974
    @ailessmwale5974 3 місяці тому +1

    This love is lovely 🥰🤍🤍🤍

  • @Aquila_Esther056
    @Aquila_Esther056 3 місяці тому +1

    Such a lovely couple ❤🥹🙌🏾 God I want

    • @rcv.zambia
      @rcv.zambia  3 місяці тому

      And He will grant you your hearts desires. subscribe for more

  • @lombechewemukulu3767
    @lombechewemukulu3767 3 місяці тому +1

    some pictures would be nice! along the journey

    • @rcv.zambia
      @rcv.zambia  2 місяці тому +1

      noted, we will consider that for our next uploads. Subscribe for more

  • @joycekundak3833
    @joycekundak3833 3 місяці тому +2

    Men that know what they want🙌

    • @rcv.zambia
      @rcv.zambia  2 місяці тому

      Indeed, Subscribe for more

  • @eunicemcsekwila6326
    @eunicemcsekwila6326 3 місяці тому +1

    Favorite couple❤️❤️ I have learnt a lot in this video 🎉🎉

    • @rcv.zambia
      @rcv.zambia  2 місяці тому

      We are glad you learnt something. Subscribe for more

  • @maloni_c
    @maloni_c 3 місяці тому +1

    Beautiful, in Every Sense of Word❤

    • @rcv.zambia
      @rcv.zambia  2 місяці тому

      yes indeed, Subscribe for more

  • @pmkkalwa2001
    @pmkkalwa2001 3 місяці тому +2

    Awesome

  • @malabomumba9434
    @malabomumba9434 3 місяці тому +1

    It's the look and holding of hands for me🥰

    • @rcv.zambia
      @rcv.zambia  2 місяці тому

      Right! subscribe for more

  • @inongekapya3500
    @inongekapya3500 3 місяці тому +1

    Growing at the same time 🙌🏿

  • @Graceinthesoul
    @Graceinthesoul 3 місяці тому

    Wow ❤ already loving this couple and mama she is very intelligent and patient and humble ❤ more grace to you sir chose wisely 🎉🎉

  • @inongekapya3500
    @inongekapya3500 3 місяці тому +1

    Amazing 😍✍️ lots of learning here

    • @rcv.zambia
      @rcv.zambia  2 місяці тому

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  • @GetrudeChileshe-to7gc
    @GetrudeChileshe-to7gc 3 місяці тому

    Such a mature couple I really can't get enough of your wisdom, am loving every second of this session ❤❤❤

  • @maamelordina5310
    @maamelordina5310 3 місяці тому

    Very solid marriage 💑 ❤ they are both learning together and willing to grow. God bless you both ❤

  • @YTM6
    @YTM6 3 місяці тому +1

    Awesome

  • @margaretchitumbo4749
    @margaretchitumbo4749 3 місяці тому +1

    Beautiful

  • @esthernanyangwe1589
    @esthernanyangwe1589 3 місяці тому +1

    Aaaw 😍😍😍
    A beautiful couple ❤

    • @rcv.zambia
      @rcv.zambia  2 місяці тому

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  • @Jesusforu
    @Jesusforu 2 місяці тому +1

    Beautiful couple ❤

    • @rcv.zambia
      @rcv.zambia  2 місяці тому

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  • @PaulMillian
    @PaulMillian 3 місяці тому +1

    So encouraging

  • @mondejoyceliswaniso6578
    @mondejoyceliswaniso6578 3 місяці тому

    Very beautiful couple 😍 God I too desire a Godly man

  • @hopelungu7273
    @hopelungu7273 3 місяці тому

    Lovely ❤may God continue to bless your union and your beautiful family

  • @musondalubemba2228
    @musondalubemba2228 3 місяці тому

    Simply beautiful 😍 so many takeaways.

  • @BettyNgoma-rq4iv
    @BettyNgoma-rq4iv 3 місяці тому +1

    Beautiful🎉❤

    • @rcv.zambia
      @rcv.zambia  3 місяці тому

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  • @stacylemwela409
    @stacylemwela409 3 місяці тому +1

    Lovely 😊

  • @munyanewane4067
    @munyanewane4067 3 місяці тому

    What a beautiful couple. Lord i want

  • @WombaChimbs
    @WombaChimbs 3 місяці тому

    I couldn't wait to watch this much love for you 🥳🥳

  • @PatienceMwansa-b6f
    @PatienceMwansa-b6f 3 місяці тому

    This is so beautiful 💗 Am inspired 💍💑

  • @inongekapya3500
    @inongekapya3500 3 місяці тому +1

    Koseni ba groom 😂😂😂

    • @rcv.zambia
      @rcv.zambia  2 місяці тому

      alakwena 🤣. Subscribe for more

  • @taongamcekeni4460
    @taongamcekeni4460 3 місяці тому

    Very down to earth couple

  • @PaulMillian
    @PaulMillian 3 місяці тому +1

    Lovely journey

    • @rcv.zambia
      @rcv.zambia  2 місяці тому

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  • @NancyNamfumu
    @NancyNamfumu 3 місяці тому

    Beautiful to watch and learnt alot❤