HATING MY EX??? | Britt Chat Episode #19 |

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  • @GodsDe
    @GodsDe 7 років тому +56

    Girl! You're 31, and I'm 32 with no kids. I still want 2-3 kids. It is definitely not too late!

  • @Leanna_Wiltshire
    @Leanna_Wiltshire 7 років тому +45

    “Forgiveness is a funny thing; it warms the heart and cools the sting” ... zero idea from where this quote originates, but I have experienced the freeing nature of forgiveness, and just looking at your face in this video ... Brittany, you wear that freedom very well. You look amazing ! Great video.

  • @cleopatraellis9578
    @cleopatraellis9578 7 років тому +45

    My ex was my life he was the first man I ever slept with, we were together for 8 years still I slept with no other man but him. We then had two kids and he just left me with no reason, atleast he did not tell me, I waited, cried, prayed for him hopeing he would come back,but he did not.
    I never wised him bad never sad bad things about him always good things. I missed him greatly, God gave me the strength to move on, now I feel completely nothing for him.

    • @wildlyplanted
      @wildlyplanted 7 років тому +5

      cleopatra Ellis Glad you're doing better. Usually, we (women) see the signs/red flags and explain them away. The healing process will help you see what happened, dig deep because you have the answer inside, just takes a little courage to analyze and sift through the hurt. Although I'm the one who left, I gave myself a dose of gentle honesty, about my role and all the times I explained away red flags that if I had listened, I should have ended the relationship before it even got too far in. Just to be clear, your ex was 100% a coward and wrong, he should have had courage to thoughtfully end the relationship in a respectable way. We can't control others. What we can do is heal ourselves and break the patterns/cycles so we recognize and run from cowards, cheaters, liars and choose better men OR we will just choose the same. People show their true character; we have to pay attention and not excuse it or assume they will be change. Wishing you beautiful love the next time around.

  • @94MaryO
    @94MaryO 7 років тому +62

    You're not old, you're young. Life doesn't stop when you turn 30.

  • @ktsls82
    @ktsls82 7 років тому +192

    This channel has improved 1000 fold since you took it over! You are gorgeous inside and out! You are definitely not too old to have a baby, if you met the right man and wanted one in the future. I'm 35 and pregnant with baby #7. I'd love a couple more. :) My Grandma had my Dad at 40. She got to meet many of her Great Grandchildren and lived until I was in my mid-twenties. God bless you!

    • @SarahBevElizabeth
      @SarahBevElizabeth 7 років тому +6

      ktsls82 my grandma was 12, 14, and 15 years younger than her siblings! Her mom was 43.
      She met all her grandchildren and one great grandchild (me lol). I think that’s a pretty good life :)

    • @sunlightthroughthecracks6389
      @sunlightthroughthecracks6389 7 років тому +7

      ktsls82 Yah I didn't even start having babies until 32!

    • @rhun4832
      @rhun4832 7 років тому

      She's glowing

    • @christineawuor8443
      @christineawuor8443 6 років тому

      7 kids??? Wow!

    • @wintermistique3399
      @wintermistique3399 6 років тому

      7 kids? Superwoman!!

  • @boothedup9741
    @boothedup9741 7 років тому +13

    In conjunction with your response to hating your ex, we have to understand that hating someone is an unnecessary burden, while that person is still smiling etc... forgiveness and prayer as you suggested! Life exists beyond the sight of our minds! Love you Britt keep beaming! Love the webisode.

  • @Ebbers380
    @Ebbers380 7 років тому +44

    Thanks for answering my question (about possibly having more kids). You’re not too old, Britt. I’m almost 38, and no kids. I still have hope, though. 🙌🏾

  • @mdatx2012
    @mdatx2012 7 років тому +80

    You're not too old, but I understand it's your own personal choice. I'm 34 and my first child is due in 3 weeks.

    • @elisabak
      @elisabak 7 років тому +3

      M. L. Wow you looks 17

    • @mdatx2012
      @mdatx2012 7 років тому

      elisabak thank you! Think I was 32 in this pic if that makes a difference 🤣.

  • @christiwright2249
    @christiwright2249 7 років тому +90

    31 is not old at all Brit😂

  • @ScarlettJ1221
    @ScarlettJ1221 7 років тому +22

    I love how postive you are Britt, keep up the good work and God will always be there through the ups and downs ❤

  • @dalphine45
    @dalphine45 7 років тому +16

    Not to say I'm glad your marriage broke up because I'm not, I started watching because you were an interracial couple. But since your divorce, I think you have come into your own and you are more confident in yourself.

  • @joanntheman8297
    @joanntheman8297 7 років тому +50

    Good choice Britt! Hate just causes more hurt to you and takes too much energy! You truly are strong.😘

    • @kittylove6368
      @kittylove6368 7 років тому +1

      Joann & The Man I love you guys !!! I love your channel ❤️🎀

  • @olayinkaidowu9492
    @olayinkaidowu9492 7 років тому +20

    1. You aren't too old for children!
    2. If you still desire a relationship, I hope God brings you the man of your dreams.

    • @Wise_Observant
      @Wise_Observant 7 років тому +1

      I hope God brings her the guy of His dreams😊🙏 sometimes what we want is not His plan and God always wants the best for us

  • @94MaryO
    @94MaryO 7 років тому +20

    I like the new structure of your channel and how positive you are.

  • @11226keena
    @11226keena 7 років тому +16

    My face when Brit said she's too old to have kids 😒. Just had my last and I'm on the end of 30s.
    Side note. I can't wait til Brit starts dating. I think she's going to find someone wonderful.

    • @11226keena
      @11226keena 7 років тому

      Jonitka Hall oh ok that makes sense.

    • @lashawndraaadaya8823
      @lashawndraaadaya8823 7 років тому

      11226keena Same! She deserves someone wonderful.

  • @manuigill7998
    @manuigill7998 7 років тому +5

    Girl I applaud you for being so brave and being an amazing mummy to your 3 beautiful kids I applaud you for not hating Austin in such a way that's what you call a real Strong beautiful women who doesnt hate the father of her kids Even tho he hurt you after so many years you dont have hatred for him and that's amazing and beautiful to see and your kids can see and ferl that

  • @jillosborn5160
    @jillosborn5160 7 років тому +20

    I had my child at 36 y/o. Since my separation I have become so much stronger emotionally & mentally. I agree with praying in those difficult times. I also go to counseling which has helped tremendously.

    • @cjo4210
      @cjo4210 7 років тому +2

      Whew, that makes me feel better. I don't want kids until I'm career settled and even at 26 I don't feel I'm there quite yet. I freaked when she said 31.

  • @reina20two
    @reina20two 7 років тому +22

    Don't you ever want to answer with, "I ABSOLUTELY HATE HIS GUTS but Jesus tells me to love everyone..." LOL We wouldn't judge you if you did. lol

  • @rumbidzainyashaguruva1563
    @rumbidzainyashaguruva1563 7 років тому +30

    Britt, this weave man..wow!! Make up on point as well

  • @dr.dermixgirlmd7479
    @dr.dermixgirlmd7479 7 років тому +18

    You’re still in your prime. I had my first daughter at 33 and my second last year at 38. Both healthy beautiful girls and easy pregnancies.

    • @wildlyplanted
      @wildlyplanted 7 років тому +2

      Dr Dermix Girl I'm 39 and I plan to have 2 kids. Grateful I waited. So many life lessons, lifetimes and healing took place. They will have the best version of me. 😊

    • @dr.dermixgirlmd7479
      @dr.dermixgirlmd7479 7 років тому

      Mina D VLOGS- Amen to that sis.

  • @mrspatriciasteele
    @mrspatriciasteele 7 років тому +45

    Hi Brit!!! You’re beautiful!!! Xoxoxo Girl you are not too old. I just had my first baby at age 37. We shall see what God has for you!!

    • @RenieNostalgic
      @RenieNostalgic 7 років тому +7

      tricia leigh Congratulations!! I had my first at 35. I'm hoping to have my second soon. I'll be 37, God willing.

    • @mrspatriciasteele
      @mrspatriciasteele 7 років тому +2

      Natural Fantastic amen! Congrats to you too!! You will 😍

    • @mdatx2012
      @mdatx2012 7 років тому +8

      I'm 34 and 3 more weeks til birth!

    • @mrspatriciasteele
      @mrspatriciasteele 7 років тому +1

      M. L. Congrats and God bless you and your baby

    • @stillwndrful
      @stillwndrful 7 років тому +1

      Natural Fantastic me too!

  • @stillwndrful
    @stillwndrful 7 років тому +64

    Janet had a baby at 50... there is no longer a too old for babies! 😝 Yes girl to having more confidence! While your divorce is unfortunate, this is a wonderful outcome and selfishly, I LOVE that we see you ALL the time! I really love your positive attitude.

    • @totaly52
      @totaly52 7 років тому +13

      We have to take into consideration that Janet is a very rich woman and it takes lots of money to go thru the steps of having at baby at that age.

    • @SarahBevElizabeth
      @SarahBevElizabeth 7 років тому +11

      I personally think 50 is too old. You’re basically guaranteeing you’ll die before you get to experience much of your child or your grandchildren’s lives. Or you’ll be too sick. And I know that technically a parent can die anytime, my grandma died in her 40’s before I was born. My mom shares my view. Even though she only had 20 years with her mum, they were good years. And she should have had more, she thinks it’s irresponsible to make sure you have a lot less years.

    • @noneyabusinezz6671
      @noneyabusinezz6671 7 років тому

      organical true true, my ex husband/daughters father died at 35.

    • @onlylikemindedbw
      @onlylikemindedbw 6 років тому

      I'm sorry to say ...50 is a bit old in this day and age .. but up to 42 or 43 isn't bad but any longer than that ...it's better to just adopt or foster. ... honestly

  • @laurenhp451
    @laurenhp451 7 років тому +16

    The lighting is making you glowwww, girl!!!

  • @kellykanemedia
    @kellykanemedia 7 років тому

    I love Britt Chat!! You're so open and honest with us. Keep the postivity flowing!

  • @TheJabberCrew
    @TheJabberCrew 7 років тому +10

    Britt you look amazing..you can tell you have a ton more confidence than before 😁❤️

  • @taytay-ug9pp
    @taytay-ug9pp 7 років тому +2

    Haha, Britt you are one of the VERY few UA-camrs I can watch out of focus and not be bothered at all because you are a wonderful person.

  • @QueestaLoo
    @QueestaLoo 7 років тому

    I love the natural lighting! And thanks for answering these questions so honestly. You are such an inspiration, and I always enjoy watching your videos. I started before Audri was born, and I'm still watching. ❤️

  • @kg-nc8ig
    @kg-nc8ig 7 років тому +4

    Britt is always apologizing for the lighting haha! We don’t care as long as we get to see your beautiful face! 💓

  • @kayliababe
    @kayliababe 7 років тому

    I love you Brit, honestly i look up to you like a big sister! Thanks for always being so positive and being a great example of Gods love and grace Keep doing your thang Sis! ✨

  • @honeypickle39
    @honeypickle39 7 років тому +1

    Yes! Love that alone time at restaurants and Coffee shops too! Even movies sometimes! My friends used to think that was so odd, but I love it. You never have to compromise what you want. ..

  • @Kekeforever-n6q
    @Kekeforever-n6q 7 років тому +4

    Good morning, you’re such a strong independent and confident woman Britt and a great mom.

  • @simplyrachealk9412
    @simplyrachealk9412 7 років тому +36

    Omg britts you looking so beautiful #skin so glow #stunning 🔥🔥

  • @BrandyChanell
    @BrandyChanell 7 років тому +8

    I love all the positive comments of hope and love!

  • @kellyy__ann4889
    @kellyy__ann4889 7 років тому +25

    Yay you answered our question! I'm so glad you're more confident! You're doing great mama!💕

    • @SerbSimulator
      @SerbSimulator 7 років тому

      I've been investigating getting your ex partner back again and discovered a fantastic website at Partner Reboot Recipe (google it if you are interested)

  • @JustNakitaVlogs
    @JustNakitaVlogs 7 років тому +8

    You look so BEAUTIFUL BRIT!! 👏🏾👏🏾 push through dark lippie !!! Love 🖤

  • @raed3063
    @raed3063 7 років тому +16

    Looking gorgeous as usual Britt. Love the new hair style ❤️🌈

  • @willow003
    @willow003 7 років тому +1

    Britt, you're so sweet!! Just such a sweet demeanor and sweet voice. And gurl don't worry about your voice 'cause we've all heard tidbits of it through the years, from what I can remember it's beautiful, and a lot of times it's the emotion behind the voice that people feel and enjoy. I say make a music video!! ;D

  • @tammysheartnlove
    @tammysheartnlove 7 років тому

    You are so beautiful inside and out Britt..part of being a good friend is speaking up on things to help each other out..not to be critical, your hair style fits you soo perfect..the texture color style..but you really need to get a beautician to go over the cut a little..you did better than I would have trying to cut hair☺️but it does need a little professional work for the cut! Take care!☺️❤️

  • @thelifeandjourneyofthehatc8163
    @thelifeandjourneyofthehatc8163 7 років тому

    Loving your new look! Super cute and great advice on forgiveness! I have also learned to pray my blessings at though!

  • @LoveSharox
    @LoveSharox 7 років тому +18

    You’re young, beautiful and blessed🌸Love your lip colour suits you so much!☺️

  • @JasmineB7
    @JasmineB7 7 років тому

    This was super interesting to watch and that lip color looks amazing on you!!! ❤️❤️

  • @deneperks8706
    @deneperks8706 7 років тому +10

    Brittany , love the hair and makeup

  • @BritneyDearestFamilyVlogs
    @BritneyDearestFamilyVlogs 7 років тому

    I love your answer about what has changed since your separation. I'm personally struggling with self-confidence issues and working on my breakthrough! It's tough! Lol

  • @fdoctor79
    @fdoctor79 7 років тому

    Britt, I must say you are serving us some looks! Keep shining from the inside out!

  • @Chiloshome
    @Chiloshome 7 років тому +21

    Loving the new look! And the channel! Go girl ✊🏾❤️

  • @lizcat98
    @lizcat98 7 років тому

    I am 41 and now 30 sounds so young! You have plenty more child bearing years if you choose to go that route again someday. I had my son at 33 and really didn’t feel ready to have kids until my 30’s but everyone is different. What people fail to realize is that you can go into perimenopause in your early 40’s so best not to wait if you don’t have too.

  • @aliciarush8478
    @aliciarush8478 7 років тому

    Loved this Britt! You are such an amazing woman! Keep on keeping on!

  • @carolineboatright7213
    @carolineboatright7213 7 років тому

    your hair is amazing!!! so beautiful :)

  • @knittingneedles
    @knittingneedles 7 років тому

    Your hair and make up is amazing in this video!

  •  7 років тому

    Britt is glowing and slaying this look. Love it. 👍💖

  • @mariclar53
    @mariclar53 7 років тому +7

    I would totally love it if you would do tee shirts! Nice tee shirts are so hard to find for people like me who take care of a very sick mom and can’t get out to shop.

  • @katherinekaramaena8907
    @katherinekaramaena8907 7 років тому +22

    It's 2am and I am awake because Britt posted

  • @00NessaBoo
    @00NessaBoo 7 років тому +2

    I love this channel sis. If you had merch id buy for sure

  • @SharronsTake
    @SharronsTake 7 років тому

    Dang baby #7!! You go girl!! 😊 You're right about britts channel

  • @latonyahughes8494
    @latonyahughes8494 7 років тому +2

    Just love you Britt! Have a wonderful day🙌💕

  • @DnAFamilyVlogs
    @DnAFamilyVlogs 7 років тому

    Yet again another great q&a as always thanks for sharing

  • @honeypickle39
    @honeypickle39 7 років тому

    You are Rockin' that confidence Britt! It shoes! So proud of You! Love to ya from BFF (in my head) Tanya...

  • @veronicakiyoko5862
    @veronicakiyoko5862 7 років тому

    Hi Britt, I hope your day is going well. I wanted to compliment you on your new look, I love the way your hairstyle compliments the frame of your face, and I am happy to hear that you find time for yourself, by spending time with a book and a cup of coffee or just going out for dinner and a glass of wine. Stay bless!

  • @JudithIrene
    @JudithIrene 7 років тому +3

    Just loving your hair, Britt :)

  • @SHELLYnKELLY
    @SHELLYnKELLY 7 років тому +6

    Are we forgetting that Britt had Arthur the dog? I miss him :(

  • @stillwndrful
    @stillwndrful 7 років тому +12

    First! Hey Britt👋🏽

  • @TejalThomas
    @TejalThomas 7 років тому +3

    I love this look on you!!!! 😍😄

  • @mackenziep7011
    @mackenziep7011 7 років тому

    Can you make a tutorial on making leg warmers and different ways to wear them? Then again, do you wear them?

  • @sleepyone444yes7
    @sleepyone444yes7 7 років тому

    Love you booo boo. Black girl magic! You’re positive spirt helps me get through the day.

  • @shar6256
    @shar6256 7 років тому +6

    I'm at the end of my 30s and still haven't had children yet. But I don't believe it's too late. God willing it will happen soon enough. My mum had my youngest sister at 40 and I'm sure she would've had more, but stopped at 5. You're still 31 years young Britt definitely not old.

  • @AsteriETERNAL
    @AsteriETERNAL 7 років тому

    Have a great week, Britt! 🌺

  • @brandivaa
    @brandivaa 7 років тому +11

    You should think about selling accessories or designing handbags too, Britt!! :)

  • @giorjett13
    @giorjett13 7 років тому

    Loving the new look Girl 😍😍😍 gorgeous!

  • @mariacasella979
    @mariacasella979 7 років тому

    Love the shorter hair!!very flattering on you

  • @emmiearrington3419
    @emmiearrington3419 7 років тому +2

    Did you see the ninja in background ps.love your videos.

  • @deemack5179
    @deemack5179 5 років тому

    This is one of the best UA-cam channels. I hope you don't hate your ex and have forgiven him. In the meantime, Janet Jackson and so many others had kids at 50 so you're definitely not too old for more babies. I absolutely LOVE your channel. If you get a dog, get a shiz tzu. They're cute, kid friendly, sweet, and adorable. :-)

  • @arlettymedor8248
    @arlettymedor8248 7 років тому

    Totally love ur hair style!!😁❤❤💋

  • @altrinaallen6134
    @altrinaallen6134 7 років тому

    Keep it up you doing a wonderful job I like the ideas but what you were saying good advice

  • @jazzchild1913
    @jazzchild1913 7 років тому +7

    Kinda giving me Ashley banks vibes oooooo😍

  • @cbclay56
    @cbclay56 7 років тому

    I enjoy the chats; how would you describe your town, it seems so laid back?

  • @ambermarie1615
    @ambermarie1615 7 років тому

    I have American Eskimo canines for 17 years now and they are amazing!

  • @zoe-lynn6998
    @zoe-lynn6998 7 років тому

    What lipcolour are you wearing??? lovee ittt!

  • @JackieHall71
    @JackieHall71 7 років тому

    You look beautiful! Love the new hairstyle. You look beautiful either way.

  • @zionenterin
    @zionenterin 7 років тому

    Good girl, just keep being you💝

  • @EsireA1
    @EsireA1 6 років тому

    Your an inspiration to ALL women💟

  • @hannahmarie5891
    @hannahmarie5891 7 років тому +1

    OKAY U BETTER GLOW GIRL!!!! WOW. YAS!!!

  • @Cj-en4fj
    @Cj-en4fj 7 років тому +6

    You are SO freaking gorgeous.

  • @teamschroeder8396
    @teamschroeder8396 7 років тому

    You look so pretty in this video. Love your hair.

  • @PopLife-hb3ks
    @PopLife-hb3ks 7 років тому +7

    31 is nowhere near too old to have kids.

    • @rainriver6398
      @rainriver6398 6 років тому

      ife leigh I said the same thing, I felt some type of way lol.

  • @MegaThehelp
    @MegaThehelp 7 років тому +1

    Hey Britt❤👋 hope you have a good day!

  • @brandies13
    @brandies13 7 років тому

    Britt you look beautiful as always. Love your videos

  • @dsnipes2850
    @dsnipes2850 7 років тому

    I love eating and going to the movies by myself! 😀

  • @shanaerobinson1899
    @shanaerobinson1899 7 років тому

    Like the new hair❤️

  • @JakakaSmits
    @JakakaSmits 7 років тому

    Love your hair Britt!

  • @nancymanukuo7343
    @nancymanukuo7343 7 років тому

    Love your hair 🔥👌🏽

  • @arthuriarossiii6332
    @arthuriarossiii6332 7 років тому +4

    🥀🥀🥀 Bless you Britt!

  • @EllaDiamondAzzurra
    @EllaDiamondAzzurra 7 років тому

    Dah Dah Dammmmnnn Girl! This look is yes yes Yes!

  • @Clo95
    @Clo95 7 років тому +2

    lip color??? loved the video, girl!

    • @BrittsSpace
      @BrittsSpace  7 років тому +2

      “Shawty” from Fenty Beauty’s MatteMoiselle line.

  • @LatashaTrueHeart
    @LatashaTrueHeart 7 років тому +1

    WHAT??!?!??? Not that GOOD... WHAT?!??!! This chick is so musically gifted, but... WHATTTTT???? Oh come off it, Britt! I say this with love. You have an amazing soprano voice AND you play piano beautifully! We dunno what other hidden skills talents you've left to be revealed, but GIRL! stop selling yourself so short!

  • @curtain2222
    @curtain2222 7 років тому +6

    31 is soooo young, please don’t think you’re getting too old

  • @Nad3108
    @Nad3108 7 років тому

    Your hair!!!!!!!!!! 😍😍😍😍😍😍

  • @germanitastaton
    @germanitastaton 7 років тому +1

    Stay blessed...🖤💪

  • @onelove4556
    @onelove4556 7 років тому +3

    I like eating alone too.. INTROVERTS UNITE...xoxox

  • @heavisbubbles
    @heavisbubbles 7 років тому

    I’m on Brits side all the way :) Brit lost weight too she looks so much happier

  • @sdb1082
    @sdb1082 7 років тому

    Oooh the hair! 😍