The key to a successful relationship, avoiding jealousy and more Q&A.

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  • @pedroeduardo5509
    @pedroeduardo5509 Рік тому +62

    It is so encouraging to see couples like you to embrace closed relationships just like traditional couples do. I gives me hope to find someone like me.Thank you for sharing a little piece of you.

    • @fransiscocardenas1971
      @fransiscocardenas1971 Рік тому

      I do to! To each their own BUT I also prefer the closed relationships. I dont need sex with different men! For me the more I have sex with my man the more I want him ❤️🥵😍

    • @DanielSelk
      @DanielSelk 8 місяців тому +1

      I wish it was a lot more like this with the gay community. I've gotten laughed at so many times for wanting this kind of relationship and treated as if I'm insane.

  • @dougl945
    @dougl945 Рік тому +7

    I used to be insanely jealous the first couple years. Not because I didn’t trust him…. (Together now 32 years)… but because I had a lot of loss and separation issues from my childhood. I was just sure he would leave me. It took a few years to realize I was of great value to him and frankly he was also afraid I would find someone better. Insecurity and fear are life’s biggest challenges.
    We lived in Fort Lauderdale for 5 years…. It was fun but we had difficulty finding friends who respected our monogamy.

  • @danielm3192
    @danielm3192 Рік тому +24

    Fish & Sparrow are becoming interweb stars! 🤩🤩

  • @petercourtien4581
    @petercourtien4581 Рік тому +28

    You guys are a joy to watch and listen to. My partner and I just celebrated 24 years together. There was nothing like YT when we were starting out. Coming out was difficult for both of us. But here we are in 2023 with accepting families and a great life. My message to you and your subs is that you can have it all. And you deserve it!❤

  • @CSS995
    @CSS995 Рік тому +30

    Very informative Q&A! Nice to see fellow monogamous gay men too!

  • @chgome
    @chgome Рік тому +8

    We have been together 45 years. Interesting watching you guys talk about relationship management.

  • @1aikane
    @1aikane Рік тому +7

    Trust, respect, communication

  • @donweiss1888
    @donweiss1888 Рік тому +8

    I like how you both engage with each other. As a viewer it gave me a nice understanding of what a relationship can be like. You should feel very proud of your connection to each other.

  • @nancyborden5860
    @nancyborden5860 Рік тому +19

    Good video guys. You can see the love you guys have for each other, may it last forever.

  • @albertharvey4363
    @albertharvey4363 Рік тому +4

    You two are like two peas in a pod, I'm 75 years old and I've never found a relationship as loving as. Please don't lose what you have, it's really hard to find a relationship is true is yours that you have together!!!🤨

  • @jacqueswieciech9829
    @jacqueswieciech9829 Рік тому +5

    You guys are great. My husband and I have been together 13 years and married 10. We are raising our grandson who has been with us for 8 years now.

  • @WraithW69
    @WraithW69 Рік тому +3

    You guys are just awesome. Love you so much. Value what you have & enjoy every moment.
    I love how you share your lives with the world & give others hope.
    I lost my partner / husband of 27 years last year to Liver cancer & I miss him so much.
    We didn’t need sex to show our love for each other, just being there for each other was enough.
    Look after each other, take care of each other & keep being who you are.
    Love to you both

  • @michellefucile7426
    @michellefucile7426 Рік тому +5

    Aww don’t get jealous over either one of you, just remember that the one you’re with isn’t giving attention back. But stays focused on whom you’re there with. Jealous people that shit gets old fast! You guys made your 2 year mark so I don’t see that happening anymore 💙💙 much love ❤️

  • @michellefucile7426
    @michellefucile7426 Рік тому +4

    My husband and I share our phones and it’s real nice cause we don’t have anything to hide especially after 26 years ❤

  • @ronsmith2241
    @ronsmith2241 Рік тому +4

    I really admire your love and support for one another.

  • @benjaminscameron
    @benjaminscameron 11 місяців тому +1

    Y’all are my favorite couple on social media…KEEP UP THE GREAT WORK!!!

  • @kevinhenry177
    @kevinhenry177 Рік тому +6

    Yes we definitely love the fact that you are both hairy! #HairyMenAreTheBest.

  • @kdunham1964
    @kdunham1964 Рік тому +16

    I’ve said it on Twitter, I will say it here. You 2 are adorable, you both have the cutest personalities, bodies that are gorgeous, perfect amount of furryness, if we lived near each other we would do dinner. I thoroughly enjoy watching these vids. Good luck on doing this full time, I have a feeling you are going to be very successful. Never let anyone make you feel bad or guilty for anything you post. If I had a physique like yours I would proudly show it off to anyone who wanted to see….♥️♥️♥️

  • @juangaytan94
    @juangaytan94 Рік тому +4

    I just want to say first of all thank you so much for this brilliant, optimistic and beautiful answered Q&A. I appreciate the kindness that you show to your viewers of how we should handle relationships and it really does help a lot. I hope one day we can have an interaction personally I’m glad to know that we can, meet y’all one day, if the time comes. y’all seem like incredible people from what I’ve seen in your videos y’all seem so humble kind and Brilliant

  • @月風-m4h
    @月風-m4h Рік тому +6

    It's really not easy for two men to be together, God bless you guys forever(from Taiwan )

    • @sufyanlowel4631
      @sufyanlowel4631 Рік тому +1

      in fact two man together easier than man and woman together. because c'mon this is two men, this is one species. the only 'not easy' here is homophobia around them. I can't imagine how hard for hetero dudes live with all that girl's stuff around - whats this? and whats that? and why do you need those? and what do you mean? the same for hetero girls. ugh. it's like permanent quiz show with the alien. and two dudes lived together - drink beer, got laid, go to sleep. simple just like that.

  • @ksiazepingwin8056
    @ksiazepingwin8056 Рік тому +2

    So nice to see such a reasonable, kind and loving couple, especially in times where most gay guys claim that open relationship is the only way to be together, which I think is not true. Thank you for sharing your opinions and experience 🤗💚

  • @billshay1740
    @billshay1740 9 місяців тому

    Much love ❤. Glad to see. Hear. The past doesn’t define your future. Nothing takes the past away, like the future. Nothing takes the dark away, like the light.
    Keep shining ❤

  • @laygomahaka5955
    @laygomahaka5955 Рік тому +9

    Please keep this going. Too many of us gays opt for open relationships. Monogamy is possible. It’s a beautiful thing, because you see the other as a complete human, not just a body part.

    • @campbellreither550
      @campbellreither550 Рік тому +1

      You realise that they also have an onlyfans? So yeah, it kinda is all about the body parts.

    • @enzomartinez8083
      @enzomartinez8083 Рік тому

      @@campbellreither550 that is just a part of who they are

    • @RayRaySD941
      @RayRaySD941 9 місяців тому

      Lol that’s like soooo boring, girl please I love the open ups, it’s like I don’t even know who this next guy is he might be a criminal or something “else” dangerous going in with him, it’s like Russian Roulette and it get my heart GOING gurlll 🎉

  • @janmontarsi.-blendangles7960

    There’s nothing more precious than the feeling of oneness when you’re in a relationship, jealousy, lack of forgiveness for the every day stupid stuff, like leaving a glass on the counter, are really things that can tear down relationship unnecessarily. And sometimes one person Has to forgive a little bit more to the other person. It’s just how it is if you love them completely that feeling of oneness will carry you through. one unit and the ability to always consider what’s best for the both of you as a unit will carry you through, relationships take work and when you’re 60 and 70 you’ll really appreciate the small sacrifices you made along the way, finances are another big issue, you should really never financially be together until you’re actually married, but once you’re married, just like everything else, you need to talk about your future and your finances, and being responsible with money and debt

  • @user-nikal
    @user-nikal Рік тому +4

    Hello, Guys! Happy New Year! I am Nik from Russia with love for you!

  • @darrenwilson3800
    @darrenwilson3800 Рік тому +1

    You guys are the sweetest, funniest guys, I think if ever had the chance to meet, would be so polite to you as I can tell you are interested and dedicated to your fans… keep making us all smile, laugh and be inspired by you… good things happen when you put good out into the world… so, thank you ❤️ from 🇦🇺

  • @tarikhelo4269
    @tarikhelo4269 Рік тому +5

    Loving the daily videos ! More and more of them ! Yay so entertaining

  • @brianlydy6812
    @brianlydy6812 Рік тому +1

    Thanks for explaining fish and sparrow. Your videos are always a bright spot to my day.

  • @bluejack287
    @bluejack287 Рік тому +4

    You two are relationship goals.

  • @jorgerivera3675
    @jorgerivera3675 Рік тому

    If you have nothing to hide, there is nothing to worry about. Love you guys.

  • @jethrojackson2524
    @jethrojackson2524 Рік тому +8

    You dudes are a marvelous couple! In all ways. Continue being a role model for us.

  • @martinkelly2332
    @martinkelly2332 Рік тому

    Watching Alex and Carter and listening to your answering questions is truly remarkable and and the trust you have for one another is absolutely beautiful you share the love for each other I wish I had with my partner who unfortunately isn't alive anymore he died 5 years ago and miss him so much...after seeing you both I feel as if I have known you both for years and you make me laugh smile and want to party with you...and watch you both go on amazing outings and vacations..pam springs festival was awesome and the lights fireworks and everything about it was amazing...so thankyou to you both for sharing your precious memories with me and everyone else❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @cesarjouvin6740
    @cesarjouvin6740 Рік тому +8

    Open communication and being truthful and honesty. Those two tools you'll have the best marriage ever in life. Take care of your selfs boy's

  • @danielimpastato3466
    @danielimpastato3466 Рік тому +2

    Great advice from you guys👏I always held my partners to "No secrets. No surprises." It worked❣Of course, I did the same😊.

  • @michaelthompson3157
    @michaelthompson3157 Рік тому

    Good video guys and I have been in a monogamous relationship with my husband now for 14 years and in our 3rd year of marriage. Our relationship is built on trust,. communication and respect and compromise. There will always be some challenges and obstacles to overcome and if you have those four things in your relationship and sex filled with Love you will and can be very happy together! Good Luck! 💞

  • @TheGaloof
    @TheGaloof Рік тому +1

    Great video guys. Its great to hear you guys talk. Still images are great but this puts a more human spin on both of you . Hope you both have a fantastic 2023.

  • @richardhornsby1712
    @richardhornsby1712 Рік тому +2

    Love you two guys,it's so nice to see two gay men that are so down to earth and handsome too and it's refreshing to see a couple that are not screaming camp and bitchy like a lot of the younger gay generation are.im rick from Kingston upon Hull in the UK my partner and I were together for 12 years before he sadly passed away 5 years ago.keep the channel going guys I find you greatly entertaining. Xx

  • @dugald56
    @dugald56 Рік тому

    Jealousy can also stem from feelings of insecurity and low self esteem from childhood/teen years, especially if you’ve had to live a ‘double life’ to fit into any of the tribes you belong to. Developing trust goes hand in hand with growing self esteem/confidence, at least in my experience.

  • @sathissubramaniam
    @sathissubramaniam Рік тому +2

    Guys, thanks for responding to the questions♥️So brilliant of you both in answering to all. God bless you guys🤗 Waiting for more contents from you both.

  • @herbanomics5198
    @herbanomics5198 10 місяців тому

    Thank you for sharing. I respect you guys.

  • @terrelljordan9595
    @terrelljordan9595 Рік тому +3

    I am not tech savvy at all... But I must admit I do like this channel.
    1. You are right. Gay culture has become so abnormal that having male friends means you are intimate with them. I am not. I love my friends and will NEVER blur that line
    2. I like how open and honest you guys are. I hope in my future relationship I will be able to voice opinions.
    3. I did have this video idea of possibly doing like a challenge against random people on the street. Like push ups or basic things.
    4. If I ever meet you guys I won't be creepy... (At least I hope not lol)
    5. Be well and good luck! I would follow you on more platforms but I'm not social media expert lol.

    • @richcampbell6808
      @richcampbell6808 Рік тому

      YOU hope you'll be able to voice your opinion? Stop giving your power away. Voice your opinion if he doesn't like it TOO BAD!! Plenty fish in the sea .

  • @keithanthonyfluitt7381
    @keithanthonyfluitt7381 Рік тому +1

    Love you guys you both complement each other so well.❤😊

  • @stevenwood7270
    @stevenwood7270 Рік тому +3

    You guys are great. Have you thought of getting married? A family?

  • @railroadralf
    @railroadralf Рік тому +1

    You two are totally amazing.

  • @stevehofmaster4292
    @stevehofmaster4292 Рік тому +1

    Thanks guys great video,I find you both so very handsome and I like your style and of course your beautiful smiles!

  • @johndeboard2843
    @johndeboard2843 Рік тому +1

    You two are the best ❤ real people loves it wishing you the best !

  • @michaelalanjunak
    @michaelalanjunak Рік тому +1

    I wish you much success with your social media. I know that I will keep watching you on UA-cam. I don't have Instagram but I also watch your TicTok channel. Love you guys ❤️

  • @davidmcclellan9959
    @davidmcclellan9959 Рік тому +2

    AWW THANKS YOU GUYS LOVE DAVID😀🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @tob4b1
    @tob4b1 Рік тому

    I’ve been together for 12 years, we dont really get jealous…well, anymore 😅….and he has helped me overcome that trust aspect, since both of our exes had cheated on us in our previous relationships. And earning that trust, is so true!

  • @josifw
    @josifw Рік тому +1

    One of my favorite pizza topping combos is chicken, pineapple, and feta. Worth a try!

  • @user-nikal
    @user-nikal Рік тому +1

    Hello, guys! I am Nik from Russia with love for you!

  • @1aikane
    @1aikane Рік тому +2

    You guys are awesome. Like your channel a lot. I look forward to each entry

  • @staswroblewski
    @staswroblewski Рік тому +2

    Carter, what do u use for your daily routine? your face looks always so glowing and perfect;)

    • @itscarterandalex
      @itscarterandalex  Рік тому +1

      Thanks - Sunday Riley products, their vitamin c moisturiser and good genes lines

  • @whitetiger1008
    @whitetiger1008 Рік тому

    I'm loving watching this with you guys, but the acoustics in there & my hearing aids make the talking fuzzy so I'll try to finish watching later. So sorry 😁 😏. But I agree with Peter, you guys are a joy to watch & listen to! 🥰

  • @SailorGreenTea
    @SailorGreenTea Рік тому +1

    2:21, jealous is fiercely protective and vigilant over people's rights and possessions.

  • @mohammaddhallam6884
    @mohammaddhallam6884 Рік тому

    Literally the most exciting part of the day, when i discovered your youtube channel guys .. i can watch more of you both ❤️❤️ you are freaking adorable and cute and fun to watch ..
    i know the youtube channel wasn’t hard to find since it’s in your bio everywhere on social media platforms 😆 but sometimes I don’t glance to links in bio 😆😆😅

  • @antoniosalazar2997
    @antoniosalazar2997 Рік тому

    Alex you remind me of myself a wonderful guy with a big heart !

  • @teams3345
    @teams3345 Рік тому

    We have been together for 33 years. Jealousy only existed during first year. I agree on the pizza. I don’t understand the ranch on pizza. Sounds good. I like smooth for me.

  • @rohitthapa1517
    @rohitthapa1517 Рік тому +2

    My favourite couple 💖. lots of love guys 💕 keep going 💓

  • @lugnut4848
    @lugnut4848 Рік тому +2

    You guys are adorable ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

  • @michaelouellette2576
    @michaelouellette2576 Рік тому +1

    Do you all get along with each others family. Would love to see a video of your families.

  • @averydavis4050
    @averydavis4050 Рік тому

    When you guys travel, do each of you pick a place and decide where to go, or Alex pickup a place for the both of you,and then Carter you pick a place?

  • @michelemarrone4932
    @michelemarrone4932 Рік тому +1

    Siete ciò che uno vorrebbe avere, l'amicizia, l'amore, la gioia, la vita, grazie

  • @hubertfriperson8429
    @hubertfriperson8429 Рік тому +1

    Love ❤ you guys God bless you 🙏🏻

  • @nickcannons100thchild2
    @nickcannons100thchild2 Рік тому +1

    Beautiful couple!! Come to Cleveland guys!! 😄

  • @SailorGreenTea
    @SailorGreenTea Рік тому +1

    7:51, that makes sense.

  • @wilbready
    @wilbready Рік тому

    Loved the video and you guys are really awesome together! Happy to see committed couples like my husband and I. My only critique would be on the sound, it was just too echoey. Otherwise, thanks for bringing us along on your journey!

  • @WCFBOYZ
    @WCFBOYZ Рік тому

    hi 👋🏽 guys been watching you on Tiktok long time. we are on youtube too! we subscribed cheers WCF BOYZ

  • @musicmoviesandmorewithbrian

    You guys are adorable. You seem pretty happy together. Do you guys have an agreement that if you get mad at each other to not go to bed mad?

  • @whitetiger1008
    @whitetiger1008 Рік тому

    Dang! I thought I was following you guys everywhere...forgot IG though. I am now.

  • @anuarvonen
    @anuarvonen Рік тому

    LovelyOnes!! Always!!

  • @peterkrey7273
    @peterkrey7273 Рік тому +1

    Alex, you're not exactly chopped liver but Carter, OMG that BEARD!

  • @davidmcclellan9959
    @davidmcclellan9959 Рік тому +3

    HI FISH AND SPARROW AND I LOVE YOU BOTH VERY MUCH LOVE DAVID

  • @1BRITOREN
    @1BRITOREN Рік тому

    very nice guys, when I see you guys next, I will make a few comments, constructive/positive, of course😉

  • @VampTwinkie
    @VampTwinkie Рік тому +1

    his jawline always leave me speechless, I'm adding that to what Im looking for in a guy

  • @gregory_bloomfield
    @gregory_bloomfield Рік тому

    I love you guys! You are both so adorable.

  • @franknovella2345
    @franknovella2345 Рік тому

    Sausage, pepperoni, and pineapple is the best if you like Hawaiian and meat.

  • @mikehenkes
    @mikehenkes Рік тому

    I am SOOOOO glad to see two masculine committed gay men doing these video's. It's so refreshing to see for my partner and I we're very much the same. PS: For those of us in HOT Climates like FL or AZ you really need to trim. It's so much cooler... PPS: Where are the RING's Fellas?

  • @rickybrian.
    @rickybrian. Рік тому +2

    *Love You Guys 💞 Maybe You Should Add All Subtittle To Reach Many Subscriber and Made more lots people interested to your channel at Around The World Bcuz Not Anyone Can Understand English 🙏*

  • @ginoginelli156
    @ginoginelli156 Рік тому

    Love you guyz❤

  • @markgobble2401
    @markgobble2401 Рік тому

    Love you guys!!

  • @jorgerivera3675
    @jorgerivera3675 Рік тому

    They key is trust❤❤

  • @douglasmccoy5649
    @douglasmccoy5649 Рік тому

    you guys should try Dewies pizza in St. Louis... best pizza on the planet. Plus they have great seasonal salads.

  • @DamionLouisInPortugal
    @DamionLouisInPortugal Рік тому

    This was really great guys 👍🏽

  • @redhyer
    @redhyer Рік тому

    you guys so adorable

  • @ryan-pf9ud
    @ryan-pf9ud Рік тому

    Just found your channel. You guys are funny and fun.

  • @GreenLanternCorps2814
    @GreenLanternCorps2814 Рік тому

    Woooo! Anti-Mushroom crew! Carter not listening to the fact that Alex JUST said he likes pineapple, lol.

  • @chocolategrl8399
    @chocolategrl8399 Рік тому

    Great video.. Love your chats 😍😍😍

  • @honda97ish
    @honda97ish Рік тому +1

    You guys remind me of Zach and Alastair form Adventures of Zach and B. or AZB for short,

  • @davidknox1229
    @davidknox1229 Рік тому

    HAIRY is my best way. ❤❤❤😊😊😊

  • @antoniosalazar2997
    @antoniosalazar2997 Рік тому

    Hello Alex and Carter what is a typical Sunday morning with you both ? Thanks Tony S. from Barcelona .

  • @muthah3013
    @muthah3013 Рік тому

    Put your relationship before yourself. It just pays off.
    Second, share everything, including finances.

  • @paulmullen745
    @paulmullen745 Рік тому +1

    You look perfect together Don't çhange

  • @MarkusIngenfeld
    @MarkusIngenfeld 4 місяці тому

    Absolutes vorzeige paar! Alex, i love you🔥❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @kellydulin3796
    @kellydulin3796 Рік тому +1

    Two guys after my own heart ranch with pizza 🍕 😅

  • @taxol2
    @taxol2 Рік тому +1

    Is 2 years considered long? We’ve been together for 13 years and I know 2 close friends who’ve been togerther even longer

  • @dannipuckeridge6847
    @dannipuckeridge6847 Рік тому

    u guys r the cutest;)💋💋💋

  • @michaelouellette2576
    @michaelouellette2576 Рік тому +1

    Carter do you have trouble understanding Alex's family or do they speak English also? Just curious. Thanks.

  • @mickmaloy
    @mickmaloy Рік тому +1

    I wanna know how Carter has the most amazing teeth! WOW! Amazing teeth = amazing smile.

    • @itscarterandalex
      @itscarterandalex  Рік тому +1

      Thanks! All crest whitening products lol

    • @mickmaloy
      @mickmaloy Рік тому

      @@itscarterandalex be careful w/ those. They can ruin your enamel. I was specifically meaning your teeth in general. Your laterals are wide, overall teeth are great! Did you have bonding or veneers? They look great!

  • @kingsherbertthelll7397
    @kingsherbertthelll7397 Рік тому

    Wooh!! I live in utah!! Wish I could meet you both!!