Ladies once he messes up continuously..just cut your losses and move on .Show him you don’t need him and better your life . I cut all access with my ex. Now he is blowing me up on the phone and showing up to my work as a stalker ..unfortunately. I have idgaf attitude now ( before I was empathetic and he told me he loves me more than any woman he has ever met )… too little too late . He fucked up too many times . I’m moving on 😎😎😎
Great video! Unfortunately, my two-year relationship ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, and I still love him deeply. I can't stop thinking about him. I've done everything I can to get him back, but nothing has worked. I'm frustrated and can't imagine my life with anyone else. Despite my best efforts, I can't get him out of my mind. I really miss him.
It's incredibly hard to let go of someone you love. I was in a similar situation when my twelve-year relationship ended. I couldn't let him go, so I did everything I could to get him back. I sought the help of a spiritual counselor, who assisted me in reuniting with him.
Elliot I absolutely LOVE you. You are the brother I always wished my parents would give me but couldn't. You tell it in a way I need to hear. Brutally honest. Something I can respect. That is how I need to hear it. God I love you. I made every excuse to keep this man when I knew he was no good. Thank you so much for giving me the strength to get rid of that sh$!
The perfect video at the right time❤️ Walk away from him last week because he wasn’t sure of our future together. The hardest thing I did but Elliot reminds me of why I did what I did. Thank You Elliot for teaching us not to tip-top around men 💪🏽
Right , he wants Friend with Benefits and nothing more . So now he's getting Friends without Benefits from me . I just flipped the switch on him . Let's see how that goes ...
Well, I disappeared and when he reached out I told him I am seeing someone else. He acted frustrated and dissappointed and told me I can delete his number forever. 😂
I cam give you a tip as someone who absolutely obsesses. It's OK to obsess for a bit. You need to essentially let it run its course. It will eventually go out of your system as time goes on. Just do things to make you happy and take it day by day.
I left him 3 weeks ago. Well, the brake up ended up being mutual after i made my move. He needed to have the last word. Okay, cool, np. My god, it's all so juvenile. Im clearly not worth fighting for in his eyes. Meh.
Nearly 4 years of all this BS. I finally left for 2 months I blocked him. I unblocked him but did not reach out. He reached out, cycle repeated.. except he was demanding I block my genuine male mates but would not tell me what he wanted from our relationship! I got so confused and felt right back at the start again - so yesterday I full on blocked him ON EVERYTHING and forever. I feel completely disrespected and have wasted so much time and effort on this dude just for him to still be unsure. I’m gone for good and if (very much doubt this will happen) he turns up at my door, he will be told to leave. I deserve better than to be dragged down to that level ❤
I went no contact and i do not talk to him or engage him whats so ever. But he is spying on all my stuff and showing up in places where I frequent. I am also friends with mutual friends and he will be around too. I dont want to stop talking to my other friends just cause of him. Ugh.
Then don’t. Keep doing you. Ignore him. He’s hovering he wants to know what you been up to who your with seeing if ur dating anyone. DO NOT reach out first it’ll be your worst mistake ever. Let him come to you and when he does do not respond instantly wait a few days until the excitement or the anger wears off and you can think clearly this will help you respond better. :) hope this helps.
Oh man it’s crazy when I was trying to work it out diplomatically it didn’t work out . He played me like I was going to stick around thru the bs . I had enough. To be honest I’m turned off by him now I don’t want anything to do with him . When someone shows you who they are believe them . Calling me on different numbers is a whole different crazy lol 😆
Elliot, after I was honest with the guy and told him I felt that I may like him more than he does he responds with “how do you know that?” What does that even mean? How do I go about it I’m pretty sad😔
He might like you more than he’s letting on. But you want him to PROVE himself with ACTIONS x the words are wonderful, but if actions aren’t side by side with the words and consistent.. that’s when it becomes questionable
One year. The higher the value of the man (im talking money) the longer it takes him. I was dating a gorgeous doctor who was doing this crap and then I met a simple yoga instructor who is short with a big nose who I just fell for cause he was giving me what tye doctor would not. Value, friendship and emotional connection. After 5 months, of me barely answering his texts and pulling away. Not seeing him. He finally asked. I told him I'm seeing someone and go away every weekend. He asked if he could remain in contact with me. That he doesn't want to lose my friendship. I said that was fine as long as it wasn't anything sexual. Now he's trying to have deep conversations about stuff we connect on. He is now about 6 months out and starting to wake up to the fact that I'm really gone. I do not reach out and will not reach out on my own ever again. So he's trying to fix it. I'm waiting to see what will happen out of curiosity . My guess is he will break before the year is out and tell me how he really feels. He's very out of touch with his own feelings. I'm the only woman that fits all his wants and needs yet he has a hard time seeing that. Space has given him that time to see it. He can get women but he's about 54 years old...does not have kids, does not want kids, has an STD (I don't care about that I've been through a devastating illness, STDs is not a deal breaker), works all the time (I used to work in the medical field so I'm very understanding about that, doesn't wanna date younger cause he can't go on dates and be avaliable a lot (I have my own life), people want him for his money and status (I don't care about that, I've dated richer), etc.. My point is, if you are the one he will see it. But money clouds the time it takes because they have more options. The poor guys notice it right away.
There is no specified amount of time written in stone. Every guy and every breakup is different. I've had an ex reach out to me after 3 months, one after 6 months and I even had one reach out after 2.5 years. I've also had a few that never reached out. But you cant wait around hoping. Live your life with no expectations; as if they will never come back because the truth is, they might not.
If I have to let you go that means you never wanted me. This video go against everything you teach lol 😂… Debrief get over the dude and just keep it moving girl…
Elliot, it’s been 4 months of no contact with my ex boyfriend. My ex still had mom on instagram. My mom posted a photo of me and her on Instagram for the first time and my ex unfollowed my mom after he saw the photo. Does this mean there’s no hope of my ex and I getting back together?
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I like how he doesn’t edit out his mistakes. And I love how passionate he is in his videos he almost gets angry over these guys😂❤️
I know, LoL....
Even tho I'm older than he, I feel like he's the protective older brother i never had 😅👍
As soon as you start getting bs excuses, lay your boundaries down and back off ❤ go make your life beautiful.
Ladies once he messes up continuously..just cut your losses and move on .Show him you don’t need him and better your life . I cut all access with my ex. Now he is blowing me up on the phone and showing up to my work as a stalker ..unfortunately. I have idgaf attitude now ( before I was empathetic and he told me he loves me more than any woman he has ever met )… too little too late . He fucked up too many times . I’m moving on 😎😎😎
You’d think they wouldn’t wanna do anything to stuff it all up eh
What is he doing? Abusive, demeaning language, cheating, flirting?
Same and absolutely your comment!
Cool.
Girl I wish I could have your attitude
I need to be cold
Nah, I’d rather let him go for good 😂😂
😂😂
Then why even watch girl bye
@@PrettyAngel3355 you obv don’t get jokes, byeeeee🙄🙄✌🏼✌🏼
Good for you 🙄🫤
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Great video! Unfortunately, my two-year relationship ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, and I still love him deeply. I can't stop thinking about him. I've done everything I can to get him back, but nothing has worked. I'm frustrated and can't imagine my life with anyone else. Despite my best efforts, I can't get him out of my mind. I really miss him.
It's incredibly hard to let go of someone you love. I was in a similar situation when my twelve-year relationship ended. I couldn't let him go, so I did everything I could to get him back. I sought the help of a spiritual counselor, who assisted me in reuniting with him.
That's amazing! How did you find a spiritual counselor, and how can I reach him?
His name is Fatherabulu, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can help bring your ex back.
Thank you for this valuable information! I just looked him up online, and he seems impressive.
Elliot I absolutely LOVE you. You are the brother I always wished my parents would give me but couldn't. You tell it in a way I need to hear. Brutally honest. Something I can respect. That is how I need to hear it. God I love you. I made every excuse to keep this man when I knew he was no good. Thank you so much for giving me the strength to get rid of that sh$!
The perfect video at the right time❤️ Walk away from him last week because he wasn’t sure of our future together. The hardest thing I did but Elliot reminds me of why I did what I did. Thank You Elliot for teaching us not to tip-top around men 💪🏽
Right , he wants Friend with Benefits and nothing more . So now he's getting Friends without Benefits from me . I just flipped the switch on him . Let's see how that goes ...
Don’t even talk to him, he’s still getting his ego stroked by having you around.
Yes, don't be his friend.
I agree don't be his friend. Those are still the assets Elliot talks about.
Cool.
@@rosiechic5590 So how is it going?
Well, I disappeared and when he reached out I told him I am seeing someone else. He acted frustrated and dissappointed and told me I can delete his number forever. 😂
😆 😝 😂
Can you make a video about how to not obsess lol
How to focus on yourself during no contact effectively
I cam give you a tip as someone who absolutely obsesses.
It's OK to obsess for a bit. You need to essentially let it run its course. It will eventually go out of your system as time goes on. Just do things to make you happy and take it day by day.
I left him 3 weeks ago. Well, the brake up ended up being mutual after i made my move. He needed to have the last word. Okay, cool, np. My god, it's all so juvenile. Im clearly not worth fighting for in his eyes. Meh.
Did he reach out?
This is great. Lots of wisdom and may I say, very entertaining. Thank you Elliot.
Diddly squat was what u were looking for. I gave dude so much power he walked all over me. 😢
Same here. That was a stupid lesson I just had to learn lol.
Nearly 4 years of all this BS. I finally left for 2 months I blocked him. I unblocked him but did not reach out. He reached out, cycle repeated.. except he was demanding I block my genuine male mates but would not tell me what he wanted from our relationship! I got so confused and felt right back at the start again - so yesterday I full on blocked him ON EVERYTHING and forever. I feel completely disrespected and have wasted so much time and effort on this dude just for him to still be unsure. I’m gone for good and if (very much doubt this will happen) he turns up at my door, he will be told to leave. I deserve better than to be dragged down to that level ❤
I read the guide. Pure gems
Thank you 😊
I went no contact and i do not talk to him or engage him whats so ever. But he is spying on all my stuff and showing up in places where I frequent. I am also friends with mutual friends and he will be around too. I dont want to stop talking to my other friends just cause of him. Ugh.
Then don’t. Keep doing you. Ignore him. He’s hovering he wants to know what you been up to who your with seeing if ur dating anyone. DO NOT reach out first it’ll be your worst mistake ever. Let him come to you and when he does do not respond instantly wait a few days until the excitement or the anger wears off and you can think clearly this will help you respond better. :) hope this helps.
😂😂😂this video really made me see the humorous side of toxic relationships😂
Love it Elliot! I agree with you. Thank you.
Wise and funny too. Thank you! 😊
The way you are making this look like a math equation on the chalkboard tho! 😅 Great advice
You like math nerds 🤓 haha
Honestly, if a man pulls away, let him go. He's a confused little boy who needs his mommy.
Great video! So simple but complex at the same time.
How to know he is thinking? Is it possible that he cant sleep at night?
Oh and I meant blowing up my phone with different numbers .. I have him blocked lol 😂
Lucky you have that lol.. but lucky may not be the right word lol. I say that loosely.
Oh man it’s crazy when I was trying to work it out diplomatically it didn’t work out . He played me like I was going to stick around thru the bs . I had enough. To be honest I’m turned off by him now I don’t want anything to do with him . When someone shows you who they are believe them . Calling me on different numbers is a whole different crazy lol 😆
Holy frick Elliot you are actually hilarious on caffeine oml 😂😂😂❤
I don't want him back
Lol you said it can't take it back 😂"the more YOU GUYS are messing up" 😂😂😂
Elliot, after I was honest with the guy and told him I felt that I may like him more than he does he responds with “how do you know that?” What does that even mean?
How do I go about it I’m pretty sad😔
He might like you more than he’s letting on. But you want him to PROVE himself with ACTIONS x the words are wonderful, but if actions aren’t side by side with the words and consistent.. that’s when it becomes questionable
Everything will be alright dear❤.
I realized I liked you when you said “pulling some bs***” 😅7:30
Thank you!
@Elliot, the link to the guide is not working, I did not receive it nor the other one I requested few days ago.. Could u support?
Whay if i let him go and then i realize i csnt do it lol 😢😂
Do i fake it til i make it lol
Lol I understand what you mean, girl we should connect✨
"Not pulling some bullshit" 😂
Diddly-squat is what you were looking for 😂 doesn't mean diddly-squat
Even if he chooses me im still gonna be a simp
Ok gonna have to right your HVW guide lol
Elliot.when or how much time pass we can tell that we have no chance..?
@@CD-ip1iw mine after 6 months then again after 6 months. I ignore his texts,i know he has gf..why he does this?
One year. The higher the value of the man (im talking money) the longer it takes him. I was dating a gorgeous doctor who was doing this crap and then I met a simple yoga instructor who is short with a big nose who I just fell for cause he was giving me what tye doctor would not. Value, friendship and emotional connection. After 5 months, of me barely answering his texts and pulling away. Not seeing him. He finally asked. I told him I'm seeing someone and go away every weekend. He asked if he could remain in contact with me. That he doesn't want to lose my friendship. I said that was fine as long as it wasn't anything sexual. Now he's trying to have deep conversations about stuff we connect on. He is now about 6 months out and starting to wake up to the fact that I'm really gone. I do not reach out and will not reach out on my own ever again. So he's trying to fix it. I'm waiting to see what will happen out of curiosity . My guess is he will break before the year is out and tell me how he really feels. He's very out of touch with his own feelings. I'm the only woman that fits all his wants and needs yet he has a hard time seeing that. Space has given him that time to see it. He can get women but he's about 54 years old...does not have kids, does not want kids, has an STD (I don't care about that I've been through a devastating illness, STDs is not a deal breaker), works all the time (I used to work in the medical field so I'm very understanding about that, doesn't wanna date younger cause he can't go on dates and be avaliable a lot (I have my own life), people want him for his money and status (I don't care about that, I've dated richer), etc..
My point is, if you are the one he will see it. But money clouds the time it takes because they have more options. The poor guys notice it right away.
There is no specified amount of time written in stone. Every guy and every breakup is different. I've had an ex reach out to me after 3 months, one after 6 months and I even had one reach out after 2.5 years. I've also had a few that never reached out. But you cant wait around hoping. Live your life with no expectations; as if they will never come back because the truth is, they might not.
If I have to let you go that means you never wanted me. This video go against everything you teach lol 😂… Debrief get over the dude and just keep it moving girl…
You are all squares!! 🤔😂
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If you're truly a high value woman... you wouldn't need a guide to determine your worth.
Also from a man? BrUH
Elliot, it’s been 4 months of no contact with my ex boyfriend. My ex still had mom on instagram. My mom posted a photo of me and her on Instagram for the first time and my ex unfollowed my mom after he saw the photo. Does this mean there’s no hope of my ex and I getting back together?
It was 4 months ago lol. Yes.