How to Cope When Waiting for Biopsy Results for Breast Cancer

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  • Опубліковано 31 гру 2024

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  • @heleneg525
    @heleneg525 9 місяців тому +23

    My pathology report came in a day earlier than I expected, so I didn't have too long to worry. Fortunately, it was negative.

    • @yerbba
      @yerbba  8 місяців тому +3

      Getting your pathology report early and finding out it was negative must have been a huge relief. Those moments of waiting can be so stressful, but this outcome is definitely a positive turn. Thank you for watching and being a part of the Yerbba community!

  • @sarahf.318
    @sarahf.318 Рік тому +24

    Thanks so much for normalizing this for women! I don't feel scared of having cancer as I've come to a place of acceptance of that possibility but I feel oddly stressed by being in limbo--I just want to know!

    • @yerbba
      @yerbba  Рік тому +3

      You're very welcome! It's completely understandable to feel stressed or anxious when in a state of uncertainty, especially regarding your health. The waiting period can be challenging, and the desire for clarity and information is entirely valid.

    • @tracywest2065
      @tracywest2065 2 місяці тому +3

      I'm waiting on my biopsies,I have to have 3 and I'm scared to death also. I'm okay with not being here but I'm just stressed about what am I in for?!

    • @tracywest2065
      @tracywest2065 2 місяці тому

      ​@@yerbbaI'm here for you

  • @lli_loue
    @lli_loue 11 місяців тому +18

    I had a biopsy 2 weeks ago, had to wait 10 days …
    in the end, it was benign, but the wait was certainly a rollercoaster.
    I had multiple panic attacks.
    working was the most efficient way for me not to think about the result.

    • @yerbba
      @yerbba  10 місяців тому +2

      We're relieved to hear that the biopsy results came back benign. The waiting period can indeed be a rollercoaster of emotions. It's understandable that keeping busy with work helped distract you. Thank you for watching!

  • @mutegabriel4812
    @mutegabriel4812 8 місяців тому +21

    Done biopsy on April 18,2024 Thursday.Im in waiting mood for the results this coming April 30.I feel scared but nothing to do important I know what's inside my breast.I keep on praying that it's negative.In Jesus name it's negative.🙏🙏🙏

    • @yerbba
      @yerbba  7 місяців тому +3

      The wait for biopsy results can indeed be nerve-wracking. We are sending you our best wishes for favorable results.

  • @willowlumsden7474
    @willowlumsden7474 9 місяців тому +4

    Thank you so much. I have stage 2 breast cancer and the waiting was for results was crazy. Thank God it’s not in the lymph nodes but they found another lump in my other breast. I have been waiting 2 weeks for another ultrasound on this lump, if it is malignant, another biopsy will be done. Hoping that it’s not malignant. To easy my stress I excercised and did a few spring wreaths to keep me occupied. It’s at night time when your brain just runs into all scenarios. Keep strong,

    • @yerbba
      @yerbba  8 місяців тому

      Thank you for sharing your experience. The waiting period for results can indeed be incredibly stressful, and it's understandable how your mind might churn, especially at night. It's great to hear that you've found some relief in exercise and crafting spring wreaths-those activities can be very therapeutic. Keeping busy with things you enjoy can help manage some of the anxiety that comes with waiting for medical updates. Hoping that the additional tests bring good news.

  • @CrumpetMode
    @CrumpetMode 5 місяців тому +3

    Had my US guided core biopsy today and I am grateful to have found this channel. It has only been a few hours and it has already been a rollercoaster of emotions so far. Thank you for your detailed information and the kindness in your advice.

    • @yerbba
      @yerbba  5 місяців тому

      Thank you for your kind words. We're so glad you found Yerbba's UA-cam to be helpful during such an emotional time. Wishing you strength and support as you navigate this journey.

  • @shawnrichardson1996
    @shawnrichardson1996 Рік тому +4

    I distracted myself with work & I truly didn’t think I had cancer as I had many tests previously with dense breast but this time was different and unbelievable. And prayed to remain calm! Thanks for this channel! 💕

    • @yerbba
      @yerbba  Рік тому

      Thank you for sharing your experience. Waiting for biopsy results can be an incredibly anxious and challenging time. It's understandable to distract yourself and try to remain calm during that period. Thank you for being part of the Yerbba community!

    • @gmagam
      @gmagam 10 місяців тому +1

      I'm waiting now 3 days in.

    • @NancyWeller-rh1el
      @NancyWeller-rh1el 9 місяців тому

      me too, one day in and 3-5 til i hear..frightening, out of my mind scared.@@gmagam

  • @lewis2u
    @lewis2u 11 місяців тому +4

    I cooked for a friend at church who was recovering from a surgery for Chiari malformation. Sometimes when we help others, it's helping us feel better. It gets our mind off of our own issues and makes us feel good that we're helping someone ELSE.

    • @yerbba
      @yerbba  10 місяців тому

      Absolutely, helping others can be incredibly therapeutic. Study after study shows that helping others gives us the same (if not more) benefit. It not only provides practical assistance but also allows us to shift our focus away from our own worries and find fulfillment in supporting someone else. It's a beautiful reminder of the interconnectedness of humanity and the power of compassion. Thank you for sharing your experience with the Yerbba community!

    • @vickikaravas8774
      @vickikaravas8774 6 місяців тому

      I waited 2 weeks and it was so hard not to think about it. Unfortunately it is cancerous, stage 1, but caught early enough according to the doctors. Surgery is coming up in 2 weeks time.. Not going to lie. I am scared.

  • @lilamydogscruffy8842
    @lilamydogscruffy8842 5 місяців тому +6

    Waiting is that worst part. I was very on edge and stressed. I think the waiting is worse then the biopsy. I've had two breast biopsies and it doesn't get any easier. Thank God both results were benign.

    • @yerbba
      @yerbba  5 місяців тому +1

      Waiting really is the worst part, isn't it? It’s so stressful and nerve-wracking. We're so glad to hear that both of your results were benign. Thank you for sharing your experience with our community.

  • @Anna_Rozanska
    @Anna_Rozanska 10 місяців тому +8

    Today, in about 2 hours, I'll get my biopsy results. Right after the biopsy I was rather hopeful. I told myself "a biopsy is not a cancer" and took comfort in the fact that most biopsies come back showing benign changes. The nearer I was to the results "deadline" - what a fitting term! - the more agitated I became. And the moment the clinic called me, saying the results had arrived and invited me to a consultation with a doctor who would explain the pathology report to me - I fell into pieces. I suddenly grew sure I had a breast cancer and would have a mastectomy and possibly chemo or radiation. All the worst case scenarios were unleashed. Now I am soothing myself with this great video and some music. Walking and being physically active, as you said, helped me too.

    • @dawncape5877
      @dawncape5877 10 місяців тому +2

      Update?

    • @Anna_Rozanska
      @Anna_Rozanska 9 місяців тому

      @@dawncape5877Thanks for asking. It turned out to be only healthy breast tissue with interspersed microcalcifications. Probably some residues left from breastfeeding (?). I felt as much relieved as I felt angry. It seems the most imprecise branch of medicine I have ever encountered. So many biopsies coming back healthy or benign. Some sources say 80% of women subjected to biopsy learn upon receiving their results that it was nothing to worry about. And yet, I still have a hard lump in my breast that hurts when pressed - the remains of a hematoma that formed at the biopsy site regardless of cold compresses in the first 48 hours. It is an ugly reminder of what I went through, seemingly for no reason. I wonder if I had taken my mammography pictures to another doctor, would he have downgraded their BI-RADS score? I got BI-RADS 4B, but I read about people who were moved down the scale to BI-RADS 3 or 2 in other mammography centres and thus spared from biopsy. I was shocked and scared and didn't have the wits to ask for a second opinion. The only good thing is I grew wiser (and silver-haired).

    • @yerbba
      @yerbba  9 місяців тому +1

      It's completely normal to experience a range of emotions during this time, from hopefulness to anxiety. It's great to hear that you're finding comfort in videos and music, as well as staying active through walking. Keeping yourself occupied with activities you enjoy can help alleviate some of the stress. The whole Yerbba community is here for you.

  • @smith3329
    @smith3329 3 місяці тому +2

    I was scheduled for a biopsy 5 days after a suspicious lump was found. At 7:45 am. For 3 days I tried to get up at 6 am but it was no use. I was awake worried all night. So I put the biopsy off until the next available, nearly weeks later, and then put myself on standby. I had to look at my options, and also muster a few close friends. My partner of 24 years was not one of them. Lot to think about. I am 71 and the odds are not tipped in my favour. But my greater fear was doing this alone. I'm glad I gave myself the chance to sort it out first.
    Thank you for listening.

    • @yerbba
      @yerbba  3 місяці тому

      Thank you for sharing your story with the Yerbba community. It’s completely understandable to feel overwhelmed and need time to process especially when facing something as stressful as a biopsy. Giving yourself that space to gather support from close friends and sort through your emotions is so important. Going through something like this alone is never easy, and we're glad you were able to take the time you needed to get ready.

    • @tracywest2065
      @tracywest2065 2 місяці тому

      I'm here for you

  • @naththomas9946
    @naththomas9946 Рік тому +4

    Thank you, Dr. Griggs, for your helpful advice and for explaining the meaning of a biopsy.

    • @yerbba
      @yerbba  Рік тому +1

      Thank you for watching. We are so glad you found this video helpful.

  • @mctaylor8465
    @mctaylor8465 6 місяців тому +2

    Thank you so much for being caring and understandting..I was dx with stage 3 lobular ca 14 yrs ago and now I have an enlarged 3 cm lymph node..its been a 5 month wait and see. I'm going to have a biopsy, but my thoughts and emotions are going around in my head..thank you for your suggestions to help me redirect my obsessing and calm my thoughts down.. You videos are wonderful..

    • @yerbba
      @yerbba  6 місяців тому +1

      Thank you so much for sharing your journey. It’s completely natural to feel a whirlwind of emotions during this time. Taking time to calm your thoughts and redirect your focus is important, and we’re glad our videos can help. Wishing you strength and clarity as you go through the biopsy.

  • @miga6170
    @miga6170 8 місяців тому +7

    My biopsy was horrible, 45min without moving. 10 medicine students assisted my biopsy procedure. I was exhausted, half of my body which I laid on was sore and couldn't move it after all. I started to cry because I had an impression that I was falling down from the bed to the floor. Traumatic experience 😢

    • @yerbba
      @yerbba  7 місяців тому +5

      We're sorry to hear about your traumatic biopsy experience. It's essential for medical procedures to be communicated clearly and performed with care. Don't hesitate to request better pain management and support during medical procedures. Thank you for sharing your experience with our community.

  • @BarbaraCarlini-b8h
    @BarbaraCarlini-b8h 8 місяців тому +5

    I'm in Canada and I had my biopsy 7 days ago. Then I called and they told me I will be given my results in another 9 days on my previously scheduled visit at the breast clinic. They will tell me nothing. 16 days of waiting. My hair will go completely Grey by then...but those are the regulations

    • @yerbba
      @yerbba  8 місяців тому +1

      So hard to wait. We hope some of the strategies in this video were helpful.

  • @juaquiene7726
    @juaquiene7726 Рік тому +6

    I could second the gentle recommendation of accepting oral or twilight anesthesia. Before submitting to a core biopsy. As the probe needle can be painful. You will experience soreness, swelling and bruising afterwards. Do not allow yourself to experience fear, dread and anxiety. Having to undergo this necessary procedure. Sure wish I had. Also prepare to treat the after results with a small icepack tucked into your bra. It can help. Releav swelling and bruising.

    • @yerbba
      @yerbba  Рік тому +1

      Thank you for sharing your experiences with the Yerbba community.

  • @angelistorres116
    @angelistorres116 9 місяців тому +2

    I’m having a punch biopsy for a Paget’s diagnosis in 2 days. I’m only 39 but have all the symptoms. I am beyond stressed but my children keep me very busy. I try to go for walks with my boys and get some vitamin D. I am praying it is negative.

    • @yerbba
      @yerbba  8 місяців тому

      Of course this is stressful, and we are also hoping it's negative. Thanks for taking the time to share your story with the Yerbba community.

  • @mandybradley3079
    @mandybradley3079 6 місяців тому

    Well done. We needed this. I have a tiny white patch and they want a biopsy. But I say it’s from sitting in hot water with epson salt. I’m not worried. But doctor ordered it. I needed to hear what you had to say.

    • @yerbba
      @yerbba  6 місяців тому

      We’re glad you found the video helpful and we hope everything turns out well for you.

  • @paularies3282
    @paularies3282 Рік тому +1

    The most PTSD I have as a 2 type cancer survior is the biopsies I've had. Really wish they did a twilight or had even offered that I could have even done twilight.

    • @yerbba
      @yerbba  Рік тому +1

      This sounds so difficult. Please take the best care of yourself.

  • @deborahholland-z3x
    @deborahholland-z3x Рік тому +2

    How common is it for sisters to both get breast cancer? I was diagnosed with stage I Invasive ductal carcinoma ten months ago. My sister is going through dcis now. Both in 60s Paternal grandmother had breast cancer as did 3 of her 5 sisters-when in 50s/60s. No first degree relatives have had it except us.

    • @yerbba
      @yerbba  Рік тому

      It is not unusual for sisters both to be diagnosed with breast cancer. Even in the absence of a genetic syndrome, we do see familial cases of breast cancer. If there are other cancers in the family, this type of family history may make genetic testing appropriate.

    • @deborahholland-z3x
      @deborahholland-z3x Рік тому

      Thank you!!!@@yerbba

  • @Soralella71
    @Soralella71 3 місяці тому

    I am waiting for the results. I am not coping well. As a result, I've been sent to the department of psychiatry and the crisis team. Nothing has worked and I have basically stopped living while waiting for the results.

    • @yerbba
      @yerbba  3 місяці тому

      We're so sorry you’re going through this-it sounds incredibly overwhelming. Waiting for results can be one of the hardest parts, and it’s completely understandable to feel like everything is on hold. It’s good that you’re reaching out for help, but we know it’s frustrating when it feels like nothing is working. Please don’t hesitate to keep reaching out for support-sometimes it takes time to find the right approach. You don’t have to face this alone, and there are people who care about you, even when it feels impossible to cope. Take things one moment at a time, and remember that your feelings are valid.

  • @ohmywhatagoodbuy
    @ohmywhatagoodbuy Місяць тому

    Just had my first biopsies this past week. Results came back benign, but doctor doesn’t agree with the L side’s diagnosis so I have to go back in for another biopsy. How often does this happen and what would be the reason?

    • @yerbba
      @yerbba  27 днів тому +1

      It’s not uncommon for a second biopsy to be ordered if the doctor feels the initial result isn’t fully conclusive. In order to rule out cancer, there needs to be concordance (everything needs to match) between the physical exam, the imaging, and the biopsy results. It sounds like this is an excellent and careful doctor. It’s frustrating but often done to ensure nothing is missed. You’re doing the right thing by following up-it’s always better to be thorough.

  • @joeyfountain3712
    @joeyfountain3712 9 місяців тому

    I've had 4 now 5 BIRAD 4 AND 5 DX and multiple bilateral lumpectomies. I'm currently waiting to meet with my surgeon and i have a large mass with a birads 4 nammo and ultrasound with very significant differences from the previous. I'm 54 post menopausal with five children and 13 grand children. I want a total mastectomy. Is my request unusual or out of line? I have a lot of health issues and I just can't.

    • @yerbba
      @yerbba  8 місяців тому

      The multiple biopsies may be making the imaging more difficult to read. If any of the previous biopsies have shown atypia (some abnormalities but not cancer), there may be a role for the use of tamoxifen to decrease the so-called "busy-ness" of the breast tissue. While mastectomy is not standard in this case, talking this over with your surgeon makes a lot of sense.

  • @victoriahughes3626
    @victoriahughes3626 9 місяців тому

    I'm in the uk, had ER+ and PR+ result after 14 days but still waiting for HER2 aftet 31 days, which I've been told determines whether or not I have surgery or chemo. I'm going mad waiting😢

    • @yerbba
      @yerbba  8 місяців тому

      Waiting is so hard. We hope you found some strategies in this video to be helpful.

  • @rebeccacormier7929
    @rebeccacormier7929 19 днів тому

    I haven’t even had the biopsy done yet and I’m losing my 💩.I can’t deal with this

    • @yerbba
      @yerbba  5 днів тому

      It’s completely normal to feel overwhelmed right now. Waiting for answers can be one of the hardest parts. Try to take it one step at a time; focus on what you can control in this moment, like finding ways to calm your mind, whether it’s through deep breathing, journaling, or talking to someone you trust. Trust us, you're not alone in feeling this way, uncertainty can be so hard.

  • @MG-xt3wu
    @MG-xt3wu 7 місяців тому

    I had developed a 5cm hematoma after my stereotactic breast biopsy. My biopsy was positive for IDC, ErPr+, HER2-. I have since gone through double mastectomy and total area of cancer was 1.37mm from the biopsy and only residual disease after surgery (less than 1mm), so extremely early stage. Two oncologist have told me my risk of reoccurrence is extremely low and I do not need endocrine therapy, chemo and radiation but I keep coming back to that hematoma and somehow it spread the cancer. Is there any research on this? Both the oncologist said no evidence a hematoma after a biopsy spreads cancer, but I can’t get it out of my mind.

    • @yerbba
      @yerbba  7 місяців тому +1

      Such a good question, and you are not alone is asking it. There is no relationship between having a hematoma and the risk of recurrence. A hematoma forms when there is a cavity, or space, left after surgery. Have you heard the expression, "Nature abhors a vacuum"? Your body will fill in any space that's left, sometimes with fluid (which leads to a seroma) and sometimes with blood (which leads to a hematoma). After a bilateral mastectomy with such a small amount of disease, there is no remaining breast tissue "at risk" to be protected by radiation therapy and endocrine therapy. We hope this is helpful.

  • @aliciamagcalas899
    @aliciamagcalas899 Рік тому

    How long will be for receptotors result? Like estrogen and her2? This is my 50 th day after surgery

    • @yerbba
      @yerbba  Рік тому

      For invasive cancer, the results should be available within 1 to 4 weeks. For non-invasive breast cancer (DCIS), specimens are often not tested if the results of estrogen receptor testing will not change treatment plans.

  • @brucemerrill122
    @brucemerrill122 2 місяці тому

    Do you know of any negative effects of having clip placed in breast at biopsy?

    • @yerbba
      @yerbba  2 місяці тому

      Clips placed during biopsy are generally safe and helpful for marking the area for future imaging. Negative effects are rare, but if you experience any discomfort or concerns, it’s always a good idea to bring them up with your medical team.

  • @EbonyEnigma13
    @EbonyEnigma13 9 місяців тому +1

    I'm having a biopsy this Tuesday due to BIRADS 4 suspicious fine calcifications in the right breast; 2 groups of suspicious fine calcifications to be exact, and both groups are being biopsied. 😫😩😫 I've had a biopsy done before in 2019 on my left breast due to a group of BIRADS 4 suspicious calcifications after my first mammo at 40 yrs old. It came back benign (fibrocystic breast changes), so I know what to expect during the procedure. I'm just dreading the "wait" afterwards. 😔😔😔

    • @yerbba
      @yerbba  8 місяців тому +1

      Waiting is so hard. We hope this video was helpful.

    • @EbonyEnigma13
      @EbonyEnigma13 8 місяців тому +6

      @@yerbba Extremely helpful, thanks for sharing! ❤️❤️❤️ To my surprise, I received my results sooner then expected! I found out the calcifications were benign the very next day! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @smith3329
    @smith3329 3 місяці тому

    Chamomile tea.

    • @yerbba
      @yerbba  3 місяці тому

      Chamomile tea is a great choice for relaxation, especially when waiting for biopsy results or dealing with anxiety. It has calming properties that can help ease your mind during stressful times. If you'd like us to explore more about chamomile tea in a future video, feel free to let us know!

  • @lollyrussell3521
    @lollyrussell3521 Рік тому +1

    It's been 2 months from the start I see the surgeon on the 20th of November?😢

    • @yerbba
      @yerbba  Рік тому

      Thank you for watching. We hope your appointment goes well!