Wisdom for Dominion praise Tha Lord brother....I need know about my life...I suddenly met one girl and unfortunately we met sexually..she lost her virginginty...offer that I come to know about her life ...she had a boy friend...but I cannot yeskep from her..but still we don't marry.,so now what should I do ...plz I don't understand Tha situation...
@yetunde olubode agreed but you can’t have responsibilities or be responsible if you don’t “know” them... A man can love a woman but not know or have what it takes to take care of them. So until you do, “love” wont be enough. God TYPE OF love is great because God himself can actually handle and have shown with his life he can handle the responsibilities of loving us as word stated. If you don’t separate the two you would make it seem, if I can’t be responsible”LOVE” that mean I dont love you. (Which is not true….
It's better to have love first in marriage as your foundation and then you let your love to be active and be ready to build your love and seek knowledge to sustain it..
@@kompanjonac I do not see your logic. How can you marry whomever you want unless you're an idiot. If you’re ruled by emotions, no relationship will last because feelings change. But with commitment, even if the feeling was gone, you’re committed to make it work.
@@jliggerdale1222 I kind of get David. Sorry David don't mean to speak for you but I understand you as saying that love is one criterion used to chose a partner for most people so going by this sermon you can marry whom you chose and commit to them without love but with a strong commitment to the institution of marriage
I never liked this statement. If you do not love your spouse - have the FEELING of love for them, you will eventually grow resentment. You cannot CHOOSE to love anyone, otherwise everyone would choose to love the best possible match for them and then there would be no divorce. A partner by this definition of love could just as well be chosen for you by a computer for best possible marriage outcome.
You love by feeling, that's true...but our emotions are not stable. They change. If we just go by our feelings, no wonder divorce and separatin are a thing nowadays. And even if your married and yielded to temptation, just follow your heart. Okay if that makes you happy, go ahead.
I agree. I lost a woman I love dearly because I was ill-equipped. The last conversation we had she said to me, "love is not enough". She was right. Thank you for the video.
Love is enough because love is not onlu a feeling but simple caring for another..give yourself lay down opinions ,the other is more important .if you do this both thats real love...if it is only lust you dont make it...
Facts!! Love is NOT a feeling it's an ABILITY! You have to be "Able" to love Unconditionally.... Agape love! if you don't have it in your marriage you won't have a successful one!
1 Corinthians 13-8, Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. love shouldn't fail in marriage. But we do not fully understand Love, that's why we should seek for wisdom and get understanding, then shall LOVE NEVER FAIL.
Most people get married because they are "I'm Love". And yet, look at the divorce rate. Love may never fail, like the Love of a mother to her child. But marriages do fail.
Love fails when is not associate with understanding and the knowledge, without understanding love cannot hold the marriage, divorce show us that love fails
Absolutely 100% correct everything he said. Because love isn’t a feeling and some days you don’t “feel” like dealing with any issues that your marriage can have. Therefore, you shouldn’t getting married because you “fell” in love. Cause if you can “fall in? You can “fall out! You grow into loving someone. It takes Wisdom and knowledge and then ok we are super in love with one another and we get it. That’s how it’s supposed to be.
True. but I think the right understanding of this message is having the right concept of LOVE. If you LOVE your husband or wife, you will respect him/her, and you will earnestly seek knowledge from God and understanding. The word is clear Ephesians 5: 25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26 to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, 27 and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. 28 In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29 After all, no one ever hated their own body, but they feed and care for their body, just as Christ does the church- 30 for we are members of his body. 31 “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.” 32 This is a profound mystery-but I am talking about Christ and the church. 33 However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband. 22 Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.
Don't confuse erotic desire with love. Erotic desire is generated by love but not consistently. Love is always present even when you're pissed up with who you love.
That is totally true. This man was really wise. His statements are in 90% unique. You won't find someone else who will tell you the same thing, except if he got it from him.
It’s because Dr. Munroe’s statements are based on God’s word. And it’s not exclusive to Dr. Munroe. God can make you wise too if you seek him. Start by reading the Bible. Moreso, start by surrendering your life to Jesus Christ.
I love his presentation but I learnt this from the cross of Christ. I ask myself how does God love us. Then I realised that love doesn't make marriage the Will to love makes marriage.
Wise teachings from this Man. He may be gone but still making a difference in society from his teachings. Dismantle ignorance because it's generational. You can only pass on to your children what your mind has conceived.
My take on this is Eph 5:22-25 Husbands love your wives, wives submit unto your own husbands. No one can truly love another except the love of God is in his heart. The bible also says dwell with each other according to knowledge. Love is the foundation then you build on it with knowledge, wisdom etc.First its your love for God & its kingdom that empowers you to love others every other thing is hanging on love.
+Harry Wealth... From your phase "Love is the foundation ..." is in contrast with what Dr Myles earlier mentioned that "...Love is not the foundation of marriage"? Is that so? If, kindly assist with your opinion. Thanks
Richmond Amponsah Agyemang Matthew 22:36-40 King James Version (KJV) 36 Master, which is the great commandment in the law? 37 Jesus said unto him, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind. 38 This is the first and great commandment. 39 And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. 40 On these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets. Every other thing is hanging on love that makes it the foundation.
Hi brother, I guess what Dr Monroe was teaching us, is to sustain the marriage with the knowledge and wisdom of God... Because the attacks of the enemy also comes with strategy.. So to counter these attacks, we NEED to grow in knowledge and wisdom of God(spiritual strategy), but the foundation should be LOVE, because God is Love 1John 4v8, and with out love we are nothing, 1Corinth 13
Hi brother, I guess what Dr Monroe was teaching us, is to sustain the marriage with the knowledge and wisdom of God... Because the attacks of the enemy also comes with strategy.. So to counter these attacks, we NEED to grow in knowledge and wisdom of God(spiritual strategy), but the foundation should be LOVE, because God is Love 1John 4v8, and with out love we are nothing, 1Corinth 13
God sent this message to me for a reason. I was just praying today... should I get married or stay alone. Wouldn’t it be easier to stay alone?? But I’m not young and naive anymore. You’re sooo right. Being “in love” is a fickle thing. Loving someone means exactly what the vows say. Love is based on understanding and knowledge. This message was exactly what I needed to hear tonight. God bless you... and your wife. :)
Well said. Dr. Myles Munroe was talking about the idea of romantic love and marriage work. The emotional feeling one gets from being with someone. Love is not a feeling that we feel. Love is a decision that we make daily. The genuine act of love leads to our feelings but love is not what we feel. love is who we are. Love is what we give. For God so love that He gave.
People express their Love for one another Differently. A man may Love his Wife and stilk Cheat but Never leave her. A Women may Love her Husband and Never Cheat. I do believe if their Equally Yolked and have GOD in their Union their Marriage will be Great. This is Agape/ Unconditional Love.
But then did they ask God for direction on spouse did God show you who that man or woman is. Because if you can have the knowledge and know how to commune etc but maybe just maybe the patner wasnt right.
So true! My marriage is based on our commitment to God and our marriage. We are committed to growing together, to continue to learn together, to make our union stronger. A commitment to do whatever it takes to make our marriage work. So much more than love! Thank you for this teaching.
Indeed, Nirmala Nimmi Because it takes true wisdom for a man or woman to love just like the word of GOD says To enjoy the Spoils Of A Fruitful Marriage!!!
Love is the foundation of everything. For without love, all things will collapses around us. To be able to gain anything in this universe , we must have the passion first toward whatsoever our heart's striving for... in order to seek knowledge and understanding, we must have love /passion to persuit them both.
The ignorance is generational part really got to me. "and I must also reject your children"...wow. Lord Almighty I pray you deliver any one of us from any form of generational ignorance.
He actually has done his part. Our part is to deliver ourselves from generational ignorance by seeking knowledge and understanding and getting wisdom...😊🙂
I would like to ask whoever reads this, to pray for healing over me spiritually mentally physically emotionally and financially. I ask that whoever is reading this pray the same over my husband and my step children. Whatever God has to do to bring healing, let it be done. It may hurt but to know there is light on the other side is what it's all about.
Praying what you asked in your post, covering you and your family in the fire and raw shed blood of Jesus. Healing deliverance stability peace FREEDOM Joy and grace shall be your portion, in Jesus name Amen
May the stripes and the blood of Jesus Christ healing Power flow through your house touching everyone from the crown of your head to your feet in Jesus Name Amen
I pray for healing in all areas of your life as well as your husband’s and step children’s lives. In Jesus name you will get deliverance and your breakthrough. Amen. X
I think he isn't saying do not love but Love and dont ignore Understand and Knowledge...cz that will definitely help the love and marriage to stay forever.....powerful message ......
I Have To Agree As Well Because Without Wisdom & Knowledge A Marriage Does Not Stand A Chance To Blossom Much... Miss You Myles & Still Feel The Pain Of Your Untimely Wrong Passing....
Thank You Wisdom For Dominion, But Noticed I Said Untimely "Wrong" Passing, Because YAH Gave Me A Vision That His Death Was Actually Murder & So It Is Painful To Me Because I Get Visions About Things That Are Painful To See how man loves to take innocent lives for whatever reason to serve their purpose....
I fully agree that Love is not enough to keep a marriage. Love is often overrated. Of the many requirements for a good marriage, Trust is like a foundation but Knowledge is key to building and maintaining a successful marriage.
Feeling of love, just as any other feeling, is just an indicator for the action. Real love comes with commitment. Love is an action. It's a commitment. It's an attitude towards another. FEELING of love is just an indicator, like feeling of satiation when you have eaten. But just like any other rewarding feeling - people tend to focus solely on that aspect and abuse the system.
My heart always Aches when i know myles is no more with this great & inspiring teachings. May you soul continue resting in peace you left a legacy thats why we are always blessed by your wise teachings.
Your right on the money, when I pray to God I always ask for wisdom!!!! !!! I know that with God's given wisdom there is nothing that I can't do!!!! !!! God bless you my friend for spreading the need for God's wisdom!!!! !!!
One more thing. I will not and cannot tolerate crazy nonsense from a man. I'd rather stay single. I can't take too much drama and dysfunction. Marriage SHOULD enrich your life, not subtract from it.
I agree. However marriage and love wasn't established to be perfect as love is found through imperfection. Imperfection is apart of development for any relationship, through then you truly find the essence of what love and forgiveness means. Last but not least," we must learn in life to walk in the rain, if we don't the rain will never go away". God works in reciprocity so Good isn't confined to man's perception of happiness and sadness. God is limitless. Much love to you and be blessed☺️🙏
I agree but sometimes the bad doesn’t come out till months later I was in a relationship and the lady turned physically and verbally abusive after 6 months I stayed for 3 years hoping she was going to change. Never happened
Mitchell Your words had quite an impact on me. Yes, love is found through imperfection. And now I am seeking counseling after I realized that I do want our relationship to work. And I will be manifesting the same behaviors in ALL of my relationships unless I get professional guidance. I need to forgive him. It's my issue, and again, thank you 🌷
I cried... Huhuhuhu! You don't know how much you help me direct my life into the right direction. Thank you so much! I will never forget your shared knowledge to me. It is truly treasured 100%. ❤👍📮💭
I agree love does not make a marriage, I’m seeing that now for myself. I’ve been married for 5 years and got married when I was 21 not knowing a thing about how to be a husband but I knew I loved my wife. Here I am 27yrs old and before any man or woman gets married I would say get knowledge and understanding. On what it means to be a man and a woman, and also how he be a husband and a wife. This is just my opinion but this was a great message to watch.
Yes, love is a commitment, decision, and most of all a covenant. If you choose to get married, choose to make it last a lifetime, especially if there are children involved.
This is so true..I loved a woman once, she was the love of my life..I never understood her and what she needed.. I loved her but I was so ignorant I lost her. The love is here she told me.. The commitment is not . Haven’t been whole ever since.
I totally agree. Even if it sometimes isn't that easy to apply this knowledge. It would definitely help to ask yourself before marrying someone: I love my partner all right, but will I be able to deal with his/her idiosyncrasies? Will I be able to shut down my ego for the sake of the relationship? Do I really know how men/women tick, so that I can understand the dynamik of my marriage? I think Love's role in a relationship is to soften our heart, to make us willing to forgive if neccessary, to give us the impulse to show affection, to manifest our good feelings towards our partner. Feeling real love deep inside (not just having a crush or phantasizing over someone) is a indicator that you may be compatible with that person, ideally on all three levels: physical, intellectual and spiritual. Nevertheless, engaging in a relationship with the person who makes you feel like this, is a CHOICE. They say "Love is blind". Yes, love is blind to the shortcomings of our partner, makes us accept him the way he is more easily. Makes us question our own behaviour. Makes us in extreme cases even ready for sacrifice. If it weren't for Love, it would probably be harder for us to do that on the basis of knowledge and understanding alone. BUT it definitely takes knowledge to keep a marriage/relationship going. You have to know HOW.
That’s true however it’s just like he said, if that person don’t love you back or had never fully loved you in the first place, on top of not having a relationship with God? All the praying in the world won’t fix that marriage
Yes why is the music so loud. Did you not hear this wen making the video. Does anyone have the full sermon of this teach. God bless this amazing man. Gone too soon.
Am glad i have learned the truth before its too late i will teach my childrean thank you daddy.i agree with you i was married for Love and it ended because something came up..now i can never make that mistake after this powerful massege.i have learn to love myself.praise God.
This is very true, in every essence of it. You need a lot of things to make a marriage work. It requires a lot of things that can enable the person to be a good and respectful husband and a wife. You need, wisdom and understand and good character traits, and work ethic to bring home an income.
I love brother Myles Monroe when I first got saved I learned a lot, boy I miss him a lot 😭 I don't think God took him the enemy saw how effective he is. He can sharpen your thinking. I never saw him as a black man I just saw him as a wise father.
This video made a lot of sense. The title itself was very touching! I was born and raised in a traditional Church of Christ household and I met a girl from the Church of Christ and I followed the scripture and loved through all the thick and thin and really thought that that would always keep our marriage together. The marriage did not last too long. The reality was she was a spoiled child who moved back in with her mother to take care of her because she was not ready to be an adult. She still isn't to this day because we still care for that same child that we had together. A 38-year-old woman raising a 7 year old girl. No knowledge on how to be a wife no knowledge on how to be an adult. This all really hit home. And I am currently having serious problems with my second wife. We have been together 3 years, and for all the love and all the connection I was certain we had, I know that the love will not keep it together.
This is amazing. I think you’re spot on. When you say love doesn’t hold a marriage together, I think you’re referring to fleshly love. Godly love is a different story, Godly love or Agape love says LOVE ENDURES ALL THINGS. That kind of love conquers all! Sadly,that’s not the kind of love most of us humans have. Most of us, when we say we’re in love aren’t talking abut that kind of love. Our feelings and infatuation for someone isn’t enough. People in love get divorced all that time. Having the proper knowledge to effectively handle conflict is what keeps a marriage together. When stuff hits the fan, how do you handle it? Knowledge is everything.
Love is so pure and when two persons sacrifice their love for one another on the altar of marriage never intending to get that back again, then a family is established. After that the family is sustained through periodical addition of more love, more sacrifice, thoughtfulness, care on the altar of marriage. When you attain 55 years of age and cannot even eat out alone in a fine restaurant except with your spouse and children, know that you still carry the embers of love inside you for your spouse. Nothing can destroy your marriage when you attain that status, provided you are still humble enough to acknowledge the blessing that God bestowed upon you two in extreme privacy. Hope I just shared my inner man with someone in need.....
I loved this!! Thank you! I was married for 20 yrs. He lacked both understanding and knowledge. I’m about to get married again. This time he Does have those things!!
I learned one thing in this 🌎 life, always get both side of the story! Sometime people say: He/She lack understanding and the other person feels the same way about you! Sometimes the grass looks greener on the other side and has soon, you step a 🦶 in you realize it's mud that was cover with nice grass on top 😉.
I think that true love is what moves one to get the knowledge to support their marriage to get through the humps and work it out. But, it takes two people to make it work. Commitment is key also, but knowledge would let you know that you must have comitment along with other things. I love Dr. Monroe's preachings.
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together......
This is a diamond 💎 teachings and it must lasted forever in our hearts.. what a legacy Dr Myles Munroe left before he died. See you in heaven Brother Myles.
LOVE!-LOVE!!-LOVE!!! Dr. Myles & Ruth Munroe!!! 💗💙🥰 i met them at a conference in Virginia in 2006 and had an opportunity to privately speak with both of them. Myles Munroe is an Excellent Man and his wife is an Excellent Woman. i absolutely adore being able to connect with people who are congruent and consistent and constant. A LOT of what i Learned "after" theological training in Virginia (2001-2005) was from Munroe, and what he taught helped me Develop Foundationally from other Exceptional Teachers. The "use" of Knowledge is Power... Get Knowledge, get Understanding, and Learn the Art Form of "HOW" to "USE" Knowledge. 🔥🔥🔥🔥💗👑👑💙🔥🔥🔥🔥
Great word, but background music is too loud and distracting. It drowns out words in many parts of this video. Please keep that in mind for future videos.
Pastor i totally agree... U shall know d truth and d truth shall set u free... Love is foindation on which marriage is built... Rest all the building we have to build with right knowledge otherwise it can collapse..m
I can't say I agree, but it depends on what type of love that is projected in relationship. People make mistakes thinking that sensation is love, it isn't love is GOD.
It is evidently true that love is not the key ingredient in a marriage- just look at divorce rates anywhere in the world! Knowledge of self is the first step then knowledge about what a spouse needs I would say. Great video, thank you Dr Myles Munro for leaving us this font of knowledge as your legacy to humanity! I have just finished a course on finding a soulmate and am learning from these videos as a means of gaining further insights. I have neglected making finding love a priority and do wish to share my life so I am preparing for that meeting. May everyone reading this message find their soulmate.
As a African American, I think about my slavery ancestors who were unable to read or write yet their marriages flourished under extremely unjust condition. What kept them together? Love… Love is the foundation of marriage not knowledge. Don’t need to read to love. It’s written in the heart.
Knowledge is not just or only gotten by books ( read or write). Knowledge is "Information about...". The more information you have about something, more you can better deal with it. Analyzing your example "slavery ancestors..." although they didn't know how to read or write; they knew more about how to deal to be together. They knew the principles of living together. Each party knew his place, duties, rights in marriage. It is about "Knowledge" and the application of that knowledge. There are several channels to receive knowledge ( Culture, Persons, resourceful person or well-versed person in domain, and the modern resources of stocking knowledge: books audios, internet...)
I agree love does not save a marriage. As the word declare in Proverbs 24:3-4, through wisdom is a house is built and by understanding it's established, and by knowledge are the rooms filled with all precious and pleasant riches. Without these ingredients a marriage will fail. As the famous Tina Tuner once said "WHAT LOVE GOT TO DO WITH IT" and you know the rest of the song.
I kind of agree and somewhat disagree at the same time. Love is a choice. I love because He first loved me (1John 4:19). I live a life of because I am so loved. I can know what my wife needs, but if I don't make the choice to love, or if I am starving for love myself, she won't receive from me what I now choose not to give her (selfishness), or don't have the capacity (strength of character) to give her. Knowledge and understanding is good, but we often need grace to both will and do that what we know. My thoughts on this very interesting topic and video!!!
Brother Simon bless you bro. Sometimes we preach everything and talk so much and do not respect and recognize the will of the person. It’s ultimately up to you or the other person. Many of us humans KNOW what is right and CHOOSE to do the exact opposite for many reasons personal to us. I’ve come to understand that human relationships are not theoretical as man is not a reagent. Even God, after the cross and all the amazing sacrifice of love towards man, recognizes that it is still up to the man to choose to accept or reject it. You can do all that is right and still have a failed marriage because you can not manipulate the will of the other person. Knowledge is good, wisdom is great, but two can’t work together if they’re not in sync.
great points!!! At the end of the day also, there are good, bad, mediocre -and everything in between - marriages, and then there are great marriages. Where I can kind of agree with this video is that if one spouse wants a better marriage, they can be the instrument that God can use to bring about change in the other, and change in the marriage. It takes 2 people to fight for a great marriage, to have a great marriage, and at times it is only one person who may want a great or better marriage. Through continual growth of the one spouse, and the practical application of knowledge as Dr. Munroe puts it, great things 'can' happen. (Key word 'can'). For the husband - Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life ...(1 Peter 3:7) For the wives - Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives; (1 Peter 3:1) That takes character, willingness, and the wanting of a better marriage, and wisdom and understanding to get there one step at a time!
Well you saved me some time! I would assume you might be able to put together an even stronger, longer and close to irrefutable address here. However that's looking unnecessary All that remain are faith, hope, and love. I say this in contention to the concept that a marriage, or ANY relationship between to sentient humans requires more than love. I also believe one must universally, and not contextually define love in a minimum 3 ways: Romantic Love, platonic love, perfect love (God's Love) If these three were meant to be ranked in importance or sincerity we may find, that much like the catholic church, romantic love often falls short in proof of concept. Romantic love tends to be driven by individual desire, and while fixating on another being with such obsession one finds themeselves making their choices out of selfishness. Wanting to do things, and have others do things for your benefit in the relationship. I believe that God's Love is perfect, and much unlike any other "versions" of love named herein, focuses on the person(s) outside of you via refinement of the spirit being inside. The idea is that our EGOs, and phyiscal bodies make many grand requests of our time and mental energy to serve needs and systems aimed only at fulfilling that very Body and/or Ego. Those employing, studying, and walking in the path of God's love are truly blessed with the wearwithal to recognize the value of free will, intention, patience, selflessness ( to the highest of human capacity) are the bounty and when practiced ON PURPOSE, or by CHOICE it is more than enough to hold any relationship founded on positivity together.
Please Please Please...! This piece is so valuable... CAN YOU FOLKS PLEASE RE SET THE AUDIO TRACK?? I ACTUALLY CANNOT HEAR MYLES COMMENTARY.. That's so frustrating because I want to share this thing right now!
I agree AND disagree. I was in a common law marriage for 10 years. Okay, I was not perfect, I had faults. But he got involved with drugs and as a result, money issues and unsavory people hanging around our home. I felt he made that choice. Maybe I didn't try hard enough to be there for him when he needed me, but in the end I feel he should have not made the choice to take drugs. He is no longer on this Earth, and guess what? I still love him... He was a hurt soul.💖
Some people are in love with love. As soon as the feeling fades away they also fade away from each other. Sometimes I’m not lovable or my wife is not lovable. But one thing I know is that she’s worth it.
I'm tired trying. After infedility, financial abuse, neglect, verbal abuse, his friends and family disrespecting, no privacy at home, I got frustrated and moved out...... My husband is a narcissist in behavior. I ask God to bless him continuously still but I left.
Larry Cordray, in my case it's when you spouse refuse to provide you the financial assistance needed or as they should. Had to go in and see his superior!!
Have you kids with him ? And how are you feelings now? Have you regret that you leave? Tell me i’m in the same situation. I dont know what to do leave or stay.
Fleur Flowers good day, I'm good and I do have difficult days but i'm better for it. My mind is with me and i'm a better mother for it. Don't let anyone force you ti leave, weigh it yourself. Watch your health, self worth, self respect, if you both got children ask yourself what are you teaching your daughters to accept. Be cautious and love you first....
I think you need love first and then just as important, the knowledge and wisdom, that only comes from walking with God and living in his word. God is love... his words to us in the holy Bible are out of love for us to live in his righteous ways and love one another. Not “be in love with one another” because feelings come and go, and marriage can not be based on the feelings of being in love but by having the “knowledge” of how God loves us first And for us to love God above all, and then love one another the way God intended for us to love. ❤️I feel that someone that loves God first can love me sincerely.
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Wisdom for Dominion praise Tha Lord brother....I need know about my life...I suddenly met one girl and unfortunately we met sexually..she lost her virginginty...offer that I come to know about her life ...she had a boy friend...but I cannot yeskep from her..but still we don't marry.,so now what should I do ...plz I don't understand Tha situation...
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As we grow in life, we begin to discover that Love is more defined by responsibility and commitment towards one another than mere feeling of emotions
Well said in short!!!
@yetunde olubode agreed but you can’t have responsibilities or be responsible if you don’t “know” them...
A man can love a woman but not know or have what it takes to take care of them. So until you do, “love” wont be enough.
God TYPE OF love is great because God himself can actually handle and have shown with his life he can handle the responsibilities of loving us as word stated.
If you don’t separate the two you would make it seem, if I can’t be responsible”LOVE” that mean I dont love you. (Which is not true….
Right. Love just shows who you are willing to commit to.
Yes❤
It's better to have love first in marriage as your foundation and then you let your love to be active and be ready to build your love and seek knowledge to sustain it..
The knowledge that true love is NOT a feeling but a CHOICE, a DECISION TO LOVE NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS. A COMMITMENT.
So by that logic you can marry whoever you want regardles how much you do or do not love them
@@kompanjonac I do not see your logic. How can you marry whomever you want unless you're an idiot. If you’re ruled by emotions, no relationship will last because feelings change. But with commitment, even if the feeling was gone, you’re committed to make it work.
@@jliggerdale1222 I kind of get David. Sorry David don't mean to speak for you but I understand you as saying that love is one criterion used to chose a partner for most people so going by this sermon you can marry whom you chose and commit to them without love but with a strong commitment to the institution of marriage
I never liked this statement. If you do not love your spouse - have the FEELING of love for them, you will eventually grow resentment. You cannot CHOOSE to love anyone, otherwise everyone would choose to love the best possible match for them and then there would be no divorce. A partner by this definition of love could just as well be chosen for you by a computer for best possible marriage outcome.
You love by feeling, that's true...but our emotions are not stable. They change. If we just go by our feelings, no wonder divorce and separatin are a thing nowadays. And even if your married and yielded to temptation, just follow your heart. Okay if that makes you happy, go ahead.
I agree. I lost a woman I love dearly because I was ill-equipped. The last conversation we had she said to me, "love is not enough". She was right. Thank you for the video.
Love is enough because love is not onlu a feeling but simple caring for another..give yourself lay down opinions ,the other is more important .if you do this both thats real love...if it is only lust you dont make it...
Facts!! Love is NOT a feeling it's an ABILITY! You have to be "Able" to love Unconditionally.... Agape love! if you don't have it in your marriage you won't have a successful one!
1 Corinthians 13-8, Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away.
love shouldn't fail in marriage. But we do not fully understand Love, that's why we should seek for wisdom and get understanding, then shall LOVE NEVER FAIL.
I got ur point
point. thanks
Most people get married because they are "I'm Love".
And yet, look at the divorce rate.
Love may never fail, like the Love of a mother to her child.
But marriages do fail.
I get your point...
Hidden facts...
Love never fails when love is with understanding... Understanding is the foundation of knowledge...
Love fails when is not associate with understanding and the knowledge, without understanding love cannot hold the marriage, divorce show us that love fails
Absolutely 100% correct everything he said.
Because love isn’t a feeling and some days you don’t “feel” like dealing with any issues that your marriage can have. Therefore, you shouldn’t getting married because you “fell” in love. Cause if you can “fall in? You can “fall out! You grow into loving someone. It takes Wisdom and knowledge and then ok we are super in love with one another and we get it. That’s how it’s supposed to be.
U are right love cannot hold marriage. 👏👏👏👏❤
Yaasss!!! Preach!😌
Sarah Oh wow
True. but I think the right understanding of this message is having the right concept of LOVE.
If you LOVE your husband or wife, you will respect him/her, and you will earnestly seek knowledge from God and understanding.
The word is clear Ephesians 5:
25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26 to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, 27 and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. 28 In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29 After all, no one ever hated their own body, but they feed and care for their body, just as Christ does the church- 30 for we are members of his body. 31 “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.” 32 This is a profound mystery-but I am talking about Christ and the church. 33 However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.
22 Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.
Don't confuse erotic desire with love. Erotic desire is generated by love but not consistently. Love is always present even when you're pissed up with who you love.
That is totally true. This man was really wise. His statements are in 90% unique. You won't find someone else who will tell you the same thing, except if he got it from him.
Jonathan Beya Yes Sir Jonathan. Dr. Myles was extremely wise. He read a lot yes. Also, God gave him more as well because he seeked it.
Jonathan Beya
Thats very true
susansusan138, sought after knowledge. Not ”seeked” it.
It’s because Dr. Munroe’s statements are based on God’s word. And it’s not exclusive to Dr. Munroe. God can make you wise too if you seek him. Start by reading the Bible. Moreso, start by surrendering your life to Jesus Christ.
I love his presentation but I learnt this from the cross of Christ. I ask myself how does God love us. Then I realised that love doesn't make marriage the Will to love makes marriage.
This was a great teaching. I will listen to it over and over again. I am embarking on marriage in a year and I needed this word!
Marry the one you love BUT GET KNOWLEDGE
exactly, get knowledge to keep it
Wise teachings from this Man. He may be gone but still making a difference in society from his teachings. Dismantle ignorance because it's generational. You can only pass on to your children what your mind has conceived.
My take on this is Eph 5:22-25 Husbands love your wives, wives submit unto your own husbands. No one can truly love another except the love of God is in his heart. The bible also says dwell with each other according to knowledge. Love is the foundation then you build on it with knowledge, wisdom etc.First its your love for God & its kingdom that empowers you to love others every other thing is hanging on love.
+Harry Wealth... From your phase "Love is the foundation ..." is in contrast with what Dr Myles earlier mentioned that "...Love is not the foundation of marriage"? Is that so? If, kindly assist with your opinion. Thanks
Richmond Amponsah Agyemang Matthew 22:36-40 King James Version (KJV)
36 Master, which is the great commandment in the law?
37 Jesus said unto him, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind.
38 This is the first and great commandment.
39 And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself.
40 On these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets. Every other thing is hanging on love that makes it the foundation.
Hi brother, I guess what Dr Monroe was teaching us, is to sustain the marriage with the knowledge and wisdom of God... Because the attacks of the enemy also comes with strategy.. So to counter these attacks, we NEED to grow in knowledge and wisdom of God(spiritual strategy), but the foundation should be LOVE, because God is Love 1John 4v8, and with out love we are nothing, 1Corinth 13
Hi brother, I guess what Dr Monroe was teaching us, is to sustain the marriage with the knowledge and wisdom of God... Because the attacks of the enemy also comes with strategy.. So to counter these attacks, we NEED to grow in knowledge and wisdom of God(spiritual strategy), but the foundation should be LOVE, because God is Love 1John 4v8, and with out love we are nothing, 1Corinth 13
ismael Fonjah Great words
The person that doing the drawing is awesome!!!!
Absolutely
They use a software...
God sent this message to me for a reason. I was just praying today... should I get married or stay alone. Wouldn’t it be easier to stay alone?? But I’m not young and naive anymore. You’re sooo right. Being “in love” is a fickle thing. Loving someone means exactly what the vows say. Love is based on understanding and knowledge. This message was exactly what I needed to hear tonight. God bless you... and your wife. :)
Hallelujah!!! Praise God! We're excited to hear that! Thanks!
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I agree 100%, I would rather be with a man i respect and trust that a man i love because when I trust and respect him then love won't be an issue
Awww thank you 💃💃💃
Monica Banda it will be hard for that man to respect your looks
Monica Banda right on. you're on the money girl!!
amen amen
Well said. Dr. Myles Munroe was talking about the idea of romantic love and marriage work. The emotional feeling one gets from being with someone. Love is not a feeling that we feel. Love is a decision that we make daily. The genuine act of love leads to our feelings but love is not what we feel. love is who we are. Love is what we give. For God so love that He gave.
I’ve watched this when it was uploaded, and tonight it came back to my mind. It’s wonderful how memory works! That was a potent food for the soul.
I do agree ! Cause if love was the master if a relationship no one will ever broken up /divorce
People express their Love for one another Differently. A man may Love his Wife and stilk Cheat but Never leave her. A Women may Love her Husband and Never Cheat.
I do believe if their Equally Yolked and have GOD in their Union their Marriage will be Great. This is Agape/ Unconditional Love.
Spot on!
But then did they ask God for direction on spouse did God show you who that man or woman is. Because if you can have the knowledge and know how to commune etc but maybe just maybe the patner wasnt right.
Knowledge is power but if applied in the wrong place there will be no harvest
So true! My marriage is based on our commitment to God and our marriage. We are committed to growing together, to continue to learn together, to make our union stronger. A commitment to do whatever it takes to make our marriage work. So much more than love! Thank you for this teaching.
While the music needs to be turned down, this man is onto it!!
this is a beautiful piece... Love is not sufficient to make a marriage work!.. i need to listen to this till it dominates my thoughts
I think pride is the main reason that causes broken marriages. Most marriages that ended up in divorce received counseling but yet they divorced.
Only wise person can love....anyone to agree with me
Indeed, Nirmala Nimmi Because it takes true wisdom for a man or woman to love just like the word of GOD says To enjoy the Spoils Of A Fruitful Marriage!!!
Yes God people
Those pastors, great men and women of God getting divorce, are they not wise???? I don't understand sometime.
Love is the foundation of everything. For without love, all things will collapses around us. To be able to gain anything in this universe , we must have the passion first toward whatsoever our heart's striving for... in order to seek knowledge and understanding, we must have love /passion to persuit them both.
The only love that lasts is the love that comes from the Lord Jesus. Through wisdom and understanding the world was created.
The ignorance is generational part really got to me. "and I must also reject your children"...wow. Lord Almighty I pray you deliver any one of us from any form of generational ignorance.
Yes.
Same here..powerful statement!
He actually has done his part. Our part is to deliver ourselves from generational ignorance by seeking knowledge and understanding and getting wisdom...😊🙂
Love Dr. Munroe. Met him year's ago in The Bahamas. This message is very good. Music too loud. He was a great man of JESUS. 🙏
I don't know I've never been married, but the things you've said from beginning to end makes valuable sense thank you for teaching this!
I would like to ask whoever reads this, to pray for healing over me spiritually mentally physically emotionally and financially. I ask that whoever is reading this pray the same over my husband and my step children. Whatever God has to do to bring healing, let it be done. It may hurt but to know there is light on the other side is what it's all about.
Praying what you asked in your post, covering you and your family in the fire and raw shed blood of Jesus. Healing deliverance stability peace FREEDOM Joy and grace shall be your portion, in Jesus name Amen
May the stripes and the blood of Jesus Christ healing Power flow through your house touching everyone from the crown of your head to your feet in Jesus Name Amen
@@itiswell thank you so much
@@samujnks8912 thank you so much
I pray for healing in all areas of your life as well as your husband’s and step children’s lives. In Jesus name you will get deliverance and your breakthrough. Amen. X
I think he isn't saying do not love but Love and dont ignore Understand and Knowledge...cz that will definitely help the love and marriage to stay forever.....powerful message ......
I Have To Agree As Well Because Without Wisdom & Knowledge A Marriage Does Not Stand A Chance To Blossom Much... Miss You Myles & Still Feel The Pain Of Your Untimely Wrong Passing....
Thank You Wisdom For Dominion, But Noticed I Said Untimely "Wrong" Passing, Because YAH Gave Me A Vision That His Death Was Actually Murder & So It Is Painful To Me Because I Get Visions About Things That Are Painful To See how man loves to take innocent lives for whatever reason to serve their purpose....
I fully agree that Love is not enough to keep a marriage. Love is often overrated. Of the many requirements for a good marriage, Trust is like a foundation but Knowledge is key to building and maintaining a successful marriage.
Feeling of love, just as any other feeling, is just an indicator for the action. Real love comes with commitment. Love is an action. It's a commitment. It's an attitude towards another. FEELING of love is just an indicator, like feeling of satiation when you have eaten. But just like any other rewarding feeling - people tend to focus solely on that aspect and abuse the system.
My heart always Aches when i know myles is no more with this great & inspiring teachings. May you soul continue resting in peace you left a legacy thats why we are always blessed by your wise teachings.
God + Love + knowledge= Marriage
Glory Roldan AGREE!
Knowledge of the word of GOD is the beginning of wisdom .You're right Pastor
Yes! I agree! Love is not everything that holds a marriage, it’s the combination of things, knowledge is number one, wisdom, and biblical knowledge ❤
Your right on the money, when I pray to God I always ask for wisdom!!!! !!! I know that with God's given wisdom there is nothing that I can't do!!!! !!! God bless you my friend for spreading the need for God's wisdom!!!! !!!
This is the utter most TRUTH! I'm 36, been married 10 yrs, but it's been a struggle.
One more thing. I will not and cannot tolerate crazy nonsense from a man. I'd rather stay single. I can't take too much drama and dysfunction. Marriage SHOULD enrich your life, not subtract from it.
Wisdom for Dominion Thank you for replying. So true.. 💖
I agree. However marriage and love wasn't established to be perfect as love is found through imperfection. Imperfection is apart of development for any relationship, through then you truly find the essence of what love and forgiveness means. Last but not least," we must learn in life to walk in the rain, if we don't the rain will never go away". God works in reciprocity so Good isn't confined to man's perception of happiness and sadness. God is limitless. Much love to you and be blessed☺️🙏
I agree but sometimes the bad doesn’t come out till months later I was in a relationship and the lady turned physically and verbally abusive after 6 months I stayed for 3 years hoping she was going to change. Never happened
david kiragu Did you seek couples therapy for your marriage?🏵
Mitchell Your words had quite an impact on me. Yes, love is found through imperfection. And now I am seeking counseling after I realized that I do want our relationship to work. And I will be manifesting the same behaviors in ALL of my relationships unless I get professional guidance. I need to forgive him. It's my issue, and again, thank you 🌷
This is one of the best teachings I've ever heard of marriage. GOD BLESS YOU and please keep it up
I cried... Huhuhuhu!
You don't know how much you help me direct my life into the right direction.
Thank you so much!
I will never forget your shared knowledge to me. It is truly treasured 100%.
❤👍📮💭
I agree love does not make a marriage, I’m seeing that now for myself. I’ve been married for 5 years and got married when I was 21 not knowing a thing about how to be a husband but I knew I loved my wife.
Here I am 27yrs old and before any man or woman gets married I would say get knowledge and understanding. On what it means to be a man and a woman, and also how he be a husband and a wife.
This is just my opinion but this was a great message to watch.
Yes, love is a commitment, decision, and most of all a covenant. If you choose to get married, choose to make it last a lifetime, especially if there are children involved.
You are truly missed Dr. Myles,you understood the word so well
Love is kind, honest, humble, patient, gentle, caring, never gives up 👆, always persevers and rejoices with the Truth 😊
The last part is significant for me, the impact on future generations. Learn for our kids to avoid a generational impact. Thank you Sir.
Amazing teaching! Only by discerning in the spirit can someone understand what this truly means. Thank you!
That's not true, you don't have to be spooky to think.
This is so true..I loved a woman once, she was the love of my life..I never understood her and what she needed.. I loved her but I was so ignorant I lost her. The love is here she told me.. The commitment is not . Haven’t been whole ever since.
I certainly agree, first comes knowledge and then love.
One of thee greatest teachers God has blessed us with. I totally agree with this message. Thank You Abba Daddy.
I totally agree. Even if it sometimes isn't that easy to apply this knowledge.
It would definitely help to ask yourself before marrying someone: I love my partner all right, but will I be able to deal with his/her idiosyncrasies? Will I be able to shut down my ego for the sake of the relationship? Do I really know how men/women tick, so that I can understand the dynamik of my marriage?
I think Love's role in a relationship is to soften our heart, to make us willing to forgive if neccessary, to give us the impulse to show affection, to manifest our good feelings towards our partner. Feeling real love deep inside (not just having a crush or phantasizing over someone) is a indicator that you may be compatible with that person, ideally on all three levels: physical, intellectual and spiritual. Nevertheless, engaging in a relationship with the person who makes you feel like this, is a CHOICE.
They say "Love is blind". Yes, love is blind to the shortcomings of our partner, makes us accept him the way he is more easily. Makes us question our own behaviour. Makes us in extreme cases even ready for sacrifice. If it weren't for Love, it would probably be harder for us to do that on the basis of knowledge and understanding alone. BUT it definitely takes knowledge to keep a marriage/relationship going. You have to know HOW.
Great wisdom
Love to hear Myles Munroe teaching... my life is improved lots of love from India
Knowledge Of How A Wife Should Act and How A Husband should act how parents should act ect
Man, this is deep, its the things we as people just miss the simple things on something like this.
I agree! I saw it in my own life how important it is to apply what we already know in order to grow more and become wiser.
I agree in a way, but a strong love for God will cause one to never leave they partner. especially in a fire. (Quote from the movie fireproof).
That’s true however it’s just like he said, if that person don’t love you back or had never fully loved you in the first place, on top of not having a relationship with God? All the praying in the world won’t fix that marriage
@@sarahoh7593 Because it actually takes two to tangle.
This was for me good teaching I have 30 years of marriage and it made me think about things I still need to work on.
Great video. Thanks for making it. Kindly make the background music less loud in new videos. Love your videos.
Yes why is the music so loud. Did you not hear this wen making the video. Does anyone have the full sermon of this teach. God bless this amazing man. Gone too soon.
Am glad i have learned the truth before its too late i will teach my childrean thank you daddy.i agree with you i was married for Love and it ended because something came up..now i can never make that mistake after this powerful massege.i have learn to love myself.praise God.
This is very true, in every essence of it. You need a lot of things to make a marriage work. It requires a lot of things that can enable the person to be a good and respectful husband and a wife. You need, wisdom and understand and good character traits, and work ethic to bring home an income.
Thanks veryvmuch for this deep teaching. But I think it is better to say "Love ALONE does not hold a marriage".
I love brother Myles Monroe when I first got saved I learned a lot, boy I miss him a lot 😭 I don't think God took him the enemy saw how effective he is. He can sharpen your thinking. I never saw him as a black man I just saw him as a wise father.
Great message🙌🏾...what a gem, this man was; grateful His teachings are available for us and future generations🙏🏾.
Wow so powerful I am soaking this knowledge up!
This video made a lot of sense. The title itself was very touching! I was born and raised in a traditional Church of Christ household and I met a girl from the Church of Christ and I followed the scripture and loved through all the thick and thin and really thought that that would always keep our marriage together. The marriage did not last too long. The reality was she was a spoiled child who moved back in with her mother to take care of her because she was not ready to be an adult. She still isn't to this day because we still care for that same child that we had together. A 38-year-old woman raising a 7 year old girl. No knowledge on how to be a wife no knowledge on how to be an adult. This all really hit home. And I am currently having serious problems with my second wife. We have been together 3 years, and for all the love and all the connection I was certain we had, I know that the love will not keep it together.
This is amazing. I think you’re spot on. When you say love doesn’t hold a marriage together, I think you’re referring to fleshly love. Godly love is a different story, Godly love or Agape love says LOVE ENDURES ALL THINGS. That kind of love conquers all! Sadly,that’s not the kind of love most of us humans have. Most of us, when we say we’re in love aren’t talking abut that kind of love. Our feelings and infatuation for someone isn’t enough. People in love get divorced all that time. Having the proper knowledge to effectively handle conflict is what keeps a marriage together. When stuff hits the fan, how do you handle it? Knowledge is everything.
Thanks for that TMera
I totally agree! I seen so many marriage end in a bad divorce because they thought Love was going to keep them together!
This man was truely blessed by God. R.I.P
You just made me VERY SAD! I didn't know that. Rip Myles Munroe.his job here on EARTH was Finished... God said to be continued in heaven...
They killed him
Love is so pure and when two persons sacrifice their love for one another on the altar of marriage never intending to get that back again, then a family is established. After that the family is sustained through periodical addition of more love, more sacrifice, thoughtfulness, care on the altar of marriage.
When you attain 55 years of age and cannot even eat out alone in a fine restaurant except with your spouse and children, know that you still carry the embers of love inside you for your spouse. Nothing can destroy your marriage when you attain that status, provided you are still humble enough to acknowledge the blessing that God bestowed upon you two in extreme privacy. Hope I just shared my inner man with someone in need.....
Myles Monroe! Your words are still supper alive. Rest in peace sir.
I use this mans teaching every time for marraiges and couples. Amazing
This video is a blessing on to me in my household. Praise the Creator of Heaven and Earth for your channel my brother.
I loved this!! Thank you! I was married for 20 yrs. He lacked both understanding and knowledge. I’m about to get married again. This time he Does have those things!!
Amen!
So did your husband cheat on you? If not then you have no excuse for marrying another
I learned one thing in this 🌎 life, always get both side of the story! Sometime people say: He/She lack understanding and the other person feels the same way about you! Sometimes the grass looks greener on the other side and has soon, you step a 🦶 in you realize it's mud that was cover with nice grass on top 😉.
I think that true love is what moves one to get the knowledge to support their marriage to get through the humps and work it out. But, it takes two people to make it work. Commitment is key also, but knowledge would let you know that you must have comitment along with other things. I love Dr. Monroe's preachings.
True Love - Knowledge - Marriage
This is so profound 🙏🙏. Love doesn’t keep a relationship let alone marriage. It’s beyond love
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together......
I beg to differ with you. It takes true love to make a marriage work. I’ve been married 60 years until he passed and I still love him and always will.
This is a diamond 💎 teachings and it must lasted forever in our hearts.. what a legacy Dr Myles Munroe left before he died. See you in heaven Brother Myles.
Beautifully explained. Thanks 4 this message which is so relevant for everyone everywhere in every time.
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LOVE!-LOVE!!-LOVE!!! Dr. Myles & Ruth Munroe!!! 💗💙🥰 i met them at a conference in Virginia in 2006 and had an opportunity to privately speak with both of them. Myles Munroe is an Excellent Man and his wife is an Excellent Woman. i absolutely adore being able to connect with people who are congruent and consistent and constant. A LOT of what i Learned "after" theological training in Virginia (2001-2005) was from Munroe, and what he taught helped me Develop Foundationally from other Exceptional Teachers.
The "use" of Knowledge is Power... Get Knowledge, get Understanding, and Learn the Art Form of "HOW" to "USE" Knowledge.
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Great word, but background music is too loud and distracting. It drowns out words in many parts of this video. Please keep that in mind for future videos.
JLynnDsMyoosik Yes I totally agree with you
Pastor i totally agree...
U shall know d truth and d truth shall set u free...
Love is foindation on which marriage is built...
Rest all the building we have to build with right knowledge otherwise it can collapse..m
I can't say I agree, but it depends on what type of love that is projected in relationship. People make mistakes thinking that sensation is love, it isn't love is GOD.
It is evidently true that love is not the key ingredient in a marriage- just look at divorce rates anywhere in the world! Knowledge of self is the first step then knowledge about what a spouse needs I would say. Great video, thank you Dr Myles Munro for leaving us this font of knowledge as your legacy to humanity! I have just finished a course on finding a soulmate and am learning from these videos as a means of gaining further insights. I have neglected making finding love a priority and do wish to share my life so I am preparing for that meeting. May everyone reading this message find their soulmate.
As a African American, I think about my slavery ancestors who were unable to read or write yet their marriages flourished under extremely unjust condition. What kept them together? Love… Love is the foundation of marriage not knowledge. Don’t need to read to love. It’s written in the heart.
Knowledge is not just or only gotten by books ( read or write).
Knowledge is "Information about...".
The more information you have about something, more you can better deal with it.
Analyzing your example "slavery ancestors..." although they didn't know how to read or write; they knew more about
how to deal to be together.
They knew the principles of living together.
Each party knew his place, duties, rights in marriage.
It is about "Knowledge" and the application of that knowledge.
There are several channels to receive knowledge ( Culture, Persons, resourceful person or well-versed person in domain, and the modern resources of stocking knowledge: books audios, internet...)
@@eeceec8449 You are very intelligent
@@restartnaija8087 Thanks. It's so kind of you.
@@eeceec8449 your right on the money wanted to deliver the same message
@@josephsicilima2982 Please, what do you mean? Could explain further your thoughts?
I truly agree with Dr.Myles I always listen to his teachings ful of wisdom still unable to believe he is no more.
I agree love does not save a marriage. As the word declare in Proverbs 24:3-4, through wisdom is a house is built and by understanding it's established, and by knowledge are the rooms filled with all precious and pleasant riches. Without these ingredients a marriage will fail. As the famous Tina Tuner once said "WHAT LOVE GOT TO DO WITH IT" and you know the rest of the song.
Knowledge + Understanding + CHARACTER
Sound is bad, can not hear the message clearly. Insturmental is to loud!
Yes it is +zuster tita I listened with a earphone.
zuster tita I heard it nice and clear 🤗
I completely agree! I can say this with much confidence from experience 😟
Sound is too loud. Disappointing because message was great! Please release a better version
I don't know. I am not sure. Then why love is the first commandment . Why does they say that love can open all doors ...
Wonderful depiction of a powerful message... THANK YOU ✨
I kind of agree and somewhat disagree at the same time. Love is a choice. I love because He first loved me (1John 4:19). I live a life of because I am so loved. I can know what my wife needs, but if I don't make the choice to love, or if I am starving for love myself, she won't receive from me what I now choose not to give her (selfishness), or don't have the capacity (strength of character) to give her. Knowledge and understanding is good, but we often need grace to both will and do that what we know. My thoughts on this very interesting topic and video!!!
Brother Simon bless you bro. Sometimes we preach everything and talk so much and do not respect and recognize the will of the person. It’s ultimately up to you or the other person. Many of us humans KNOW what is right and CHOOSE to do the exact opposite for many reasons personal to us. I’ve come to understand that human relationships are not theoretical as man is not a reagent.
Even God, after the cross and all the amazing sacrifice of love towards man, recognizes that it is still up to the man to choose to accept or reject it.
You can do all that is right and still have a failed marriage because you can not manipulate the will of the other person.
Knowledge is good, wisdom is great, but two can’t work together if they’re not in sync.
great points!!! At the end of the day also, there are good, bad, mediocre -and everything in between - marriages, and then there are great marriages. Where I can kind of agree with this video is that if one spouse wants a better marriage, they can be the instrument that God can use to bring about change in the other, and change in the marriage. It takes 2 people to fight for a great marriage, to have a great marriage, and at times it is only one person who may want a great or better marriage. Through continual growth of the one spouse, and the practical application of knowledge as Dr. Munroe puts it, great things 'can' happen. (Key word 'can').
For the husband - Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life ...(1 Peter 3:7)
For the wives - Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives; (1 Peter 3:1)
That takes character, willingness, and the wanting of a better marriage, and wisdom and understanding to get there one step at a time!
Brother Simon
I agree...love is indeed a choice
What did God say ??
Well you saved me some time! I would assume you might be able to put together an even stronger, longer and close to irrefutable address here. However that's looking unnecessary All that remain are faith, hope, and love. I say this in contention to the concept that a marriage, or ANY relationship between to sentient humans requires more than love. I also believe one must universally, and not contextually define love in a minimum 3 ways: Romantic Love, platonic love, perfect love (God's Love)
If these three were meant to be ranked in importance or sincerity we may find, that much like the catholic church, romantic love often falls short in proof of concept. Romantic love tends to be driven by individual desire, and while fixating on another being with such obsession one finds themeselves making their choices out of selfishness. Wanting to do things, and have others do things for your benefit in the relationship.
I believe that God's Love is perfect, and much unlike any other "versions" of love named herein, focuses on the person(s) outside of you via refinement of the spirit being inside. The idea is that our EGOs, and phyiscal bodies make many grand requests of our time and mental energy to serve needs and systems aimed only at fulfilling that very Body and/or Ego. Those employing, studying, and walking in the path of God's love are truly blessed with the wearwithal to recognize the value of free will, intention, patience, selflessness ( to the highest of human capacity) are the bounty and when practiced ON PURPOSE, or by CHOICE it is more than enough to hold any relationship founded on positivity together.
Thank you so much for this beautiful seminar
Please Please Please...!
This piece is so valuable...
CAN YOU FOLKS PLEASE
RE SET THE AUDIO TRACK??
I ACTUALLY CANNOT HEAR
MYLES COMMENTARY..
That's so frustrating because I want to share this thing right now!
The music is abit loud cannot hear the message clearly.
I’m so glade and thankful that I found this man he is helping me threw out my day to day life 😊🙏❤️
I agree AND disagree. I was in a common law marriage for 10 years. Okay, I was not perfect, I had faults. But he got involved with drugs and as a result, money issues and unsavory people hanging around our home. I felt he made that choice. Maybe I didn't try hard enough to be there for him when he needed me, but in the end I feel he should have not made the choice to take drugs. He is no longer on this Earth, and guess what? I still love him... He was a hurt soul.💖
Joanna Gipson how old are you?
Chales Brooks Hurte Why?
Joanna Gipson you look so young and innocent for such an experience.
Chales Brooks Hurte I guess that's a good thing...
Joanna Gipson I guess your right about that.
Some people are in love with love.
As soon as the feeling fades away they also fade away from each other.
Sometimes I’m not lovable or my wife is not lovable.
But one thing I know is that she’s worth it.
I'm tired trying. After infedility, financial abuse, neglect, verbal abuse, his friends and family disrespecting, no privacy at home, I got frustrated and moved out...... My husband is a narcissist in behavior. I ask God to bless him continuously still but I left.
Lyndy-Ann Phillip-York what is financial abuse?
Larry Cordray, in my case it's when you spouse refuse to provide you the financial assistance needed or as they should. Had to go in and see his superior!!
I totally understand what u mean..
Have you kids with him ? And how are you feelings now? Have you regret that you leave? Tell me i’m in the same situation. I dont know what to do leave or stay.
Fleur Flowers good day, I'm good and I do have difficult days but i'm better for it. My mind is with me and i'm a better mother for it. Don't let anyone force you ti leave, weigh it yourself. Watch your health, self worth, self respect, if you both got children ask yourself what are you teaching your daughters to accept. Be cautious and love you first....
I kind of agree with the statement. Yes love does not make marraige workout. Knowledge is the supreme thing here for successful marraige.
“Successful marriage is the result of the application of knowledge, not the exchange of love” 📖
“What you don’t know is transferred to your kids” 👍
You can’t give what you don’t have.
Your teaching still give us a lot of knowledges about life. May God bless your childreen..and keep them in the right way .
I think you need love first and then just as important, the knowledge and wisdom, that only comes from walking with God and living in his word. God is love... his words to us in the holy Bible are out of love for us to live in his righteous ways and love one another. Not “be in love with one another” because feelings come and go, and marriage can not be based on the feelings of being in love but by having the “knowledge” of how God loves us first And for us to love God above all, and then love one another the way God intended for us to love. ❤️I feel that someone that loves God first can love me sincerely.
Amen hallelujah.
Human love fade, but Gods Love is pure and save us.