The Acceptance Method (Letting Go)

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  • Опубліковано 25 лис 2024

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  • @hlybry3
    @hlybry3 10 місяців тому +6

    I wish your teaching could reach the whole world. You have such an incredible way of distilling complex eastern/meta-physical processes into such a practical and understandable way. Thank you, Sunny. Please keep doing these teachings.

  • @Peter-rg4ng
    @Peter-rg4ng 8 місяців тому

    Beautiful Sunny. Very powerful 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @LinguisticLifeform
    @LinguisticLifeform 3 роки тому +14

    11:26 "thoughts are what contract the awareness into a personal perspective". So well expressed

  • @anweshaP14
    @anweshaP14 4 роки тому +19

    This method is really effective and often the emotion is dissolved in a matter of minutes and the heaviness lifts and you feel peace. I can dissolve my emotions with this method but physical pain I’m somehow not able to. I have tried but I guess I cannot go over the programming that since his hurts it is bad.

  • @merylo888
    @merylo888 Рік тому +1

    Truly amazing you explain so well.....Thank you and sincere gratitude

  • @Knickelos-yu3du
    @Knickelos-yu3du Місяць тому

    I constantly get caught up in the story of thoughts but never really shift awareness to the feelings. I will practice this more daily!

  • @lauraparker396
    @lauraparker396 2 роки тому +3

    This actually works. I was so surprised. Separating yourself from thoughts makes the emotions go away faster. Thank you!

  • @mithilaweerakoon3754
    @mithilaweerakoon3754 4 роки тому +25

    Wow. This is deep.As for my experience, when I closed my eyes, I realized I was feeling inferior low down fear, which was coming from my subconscious programming of what I believed or felt about me. But as you said I didn't care about these interpretations that are coming and instead focused on that feeling continued to stare at it. Just looked at it.
    As I looked at it fully emptily or silently, I didn't care about the interpretations any stories, knowing that it was not me and it was the mind. And suffering was gone. It was the mind that was suffering. not me. Thank you Sunny for this life changing video.
    Live the life vs. Living in the mind. :) identifiying with what you are not creates all the "uneasiness". Cz What you are is always comfortable and easy and it's at rest. It is due to identification with what you are not (the problematic nature of the mind) that creates all the suffering or unsettledness in the world. It's time to open our eyes and see the truth. Choose you (Silent Bliss) VS. Mind (loud suffering through interpretation)

    • @q.m17
      @q.m17 4 роки тому +3

      love this

  • @selfinquiryschool
    @selfinquiryschool  4 роки тому +23

    The Acceptance method starts out as a technique but soon turns into a natural way to respond and relate to life in each moment. If you'd like to accelerate and deepen your understanding of this teaching, please watch my free Letting Go Masterclass here: www.personalmasteryquest.com/letting-go-masterclass

    • @xkapoor1724
      @xkapoor1724 4 роки тому

      Apologies a bit off topic! Ever wondered selling your background ! Absolutely love the wallpaper/ poster.

    • @tiyanskievlogzzz3644
      @tiyanskievlogzzz3644 4 роки тому

      This video is so good but after watching my anxiety came 🔙
      I tried to dissolve negative thoughts

    • @joelstrickland8890
      @joelstrickland8890 4 роки тому +1

      Thank you Sunny, this teaching is very good, I listened to it more than once to be able to ‘feel’ the detachment from mind creating emotions. I now understand how some people are able to stay calm & respond rationally in a perceived stressful situation.

  • @afafq.7905
    @afafq.7905 4 роки тому +22

    As soon as I watched my pain in my back as it is & stopped thoughts, it started to go away! !! This is wonderful Sony :) I'll practice this in everything :) .. Thank you thank you . God bless you xxx .. I can feel now that I'm on the right track :)

    • @ira4600
      @ira4600 Рік тому +1

      I find same thing with strong emotions: stop the story, judgement, labels, interpretation and the emotion dissipates

  • @pennyhan568
    @pennyhan568 4 роки тому +4

    Perhaps you could use this method with pain......somehow, if you go to the area in your body which is in pain, and you face it and watch it.....the pain actually changes. It can move or disperse or lessen. No story about it....no judgement about why, etc. Anyway.....thanks for this, Sunny.

  • @roelofdewidt4464
    @roelofdewidt4464 Рік тому +2

    Thank you sunny, you are such a big man. Thank you brother🙏🏻

  • @divain4257
    @divain4257 4 роки тому +3

    Embrace the experience release the story.

    • @NandoMusicOfficial
      @NandoMusicOfficial 7 місяців тому

      Simplest way to put it. Simple-not always was but correct.

  • @ebrukilincarslan713
    @ebrukilincarslan713 4 роки тому +5

    Dear Sunny, since I am on my spiritual journey, I never ever found something that powerful than letting go... Which is acceptance in a way. You are a great teacher 🙏 Please keep it up it changes everything!💞💞💞

  • @andreatalbot5330
    @andreatalbot5330 4 роки тому +13

    Sunny, I really needed this today. Have been feeling frustrated about my self realization journey. My mind has been telling me it’s an endless goose chase and I’ll never get there, even that it’s not true and I should give up trying. I’ve felt so emotional. This has really helped, thank you 🙏🏻

    • @selfinquiryschool
      @selfinquiryschool  4 роки тому +11

      See what you’re falling into and identifying with. What is this “me” to whom the mind is speaking? Is this one true? Or is this one itself a mind-made identity? And if it is then what are you? Look

    • @andreatalbot5330
      @andreatalbot5330 4 роки тому +3

      Thanks so much Sunny. I feel like I’ve fallen off the wagon 😢

    • @selfinquiryschool
      @selfinquiryschool  4 роки тому +9

      Andrea Hampton this itself is just a thought arising and being seen. Currently it’s being engaged with and being believed in as “my voice,” as the truth.

  • @erumqureshi4314
    @erumqureshi4314 4 роки тому +5

    Thank you so much🙂 jazakAllah

  • @ray60723
    @ray60723 2 роки тому +2

    Very wise accurate and clear phrases for those observations. Thank you Sunny :) It helped me right away

  • @q.m17
    @q.m17 4 роки тому +2

    u don’t understand how much u have and r helping me

  • @mindful__gardener
    @mindful__gardener 2 роки тому +2

    these thoughts that we have are bait to lead us to the emotion. the emotion needs to be acknowledged like an ⏰️. so it sends thoughts to reel you to it. with fear the thoughts will feel intense..and it's supposed to feel intense because it needs us to decide if we are going to fight or Flee. the content of the thought never matters. you will notice after you allow the emotion to be acknowledged that you will forget what the thought was. because the emotion has been released and acknowledged...making the bait thought useless.

  • @AsifAli-fb5mq
    @AsifAli-fb5mq 11 місяців тому

    THANK YOU BROTHER
    GREAT PRACTICE❤
    GREAT JOB

  • @swati9574
    @swati9574 2 роки тому +2

    thank u so much , i can not express in words how much your lesson added value to my life

  • @laika5757
    @laika5757 4 роки тому +1

    Music to my ears...🎼🎵🎶🎸

  • @hansjorgsattler349
    @hansjorgsattler349 10 місяців тому

    Love it. Thank you so much 💗

  • @Martha-LaMexa
    @Martha-LaMexa 3 роки тому +3

    I love your videos, I am learning so much from you. Thank you so much.

  • @conejodemadera75
    @conejodemadera75 4 роки тому +3

    Live the life vs living in the mind .
    I AM so grateful for this message, Sunny. Much love 😚😚😚

  • @anamacklis2355
    @anamacklis2355 4 роки тому +3

    Thank you so much Sunny, much love 🖤🙏🏼

  • @dkl2282
    @dkl2282 4 роки тому +1

    thank you, thank you, thank you

  • @dborateles5796
    @dborateles5796 4 роки тому +2

    That's so amazing, Sunny. I always find myself looking for meaning in everything people do or say to me and that's torture. It really makes me suffer, I need to change that in myself, and in this pandemic time, I just see this getting worse.

  • @RobbeyT1
    @RobbeyT1 4 роки тому +2

    Perfect timing and on que omg! Have been very annoyed an someone who owes me a lot of money I loaned him years ago, I've been badly let down, but this really does help. Thank you. Maybe it will resolve everything through connection with true Self, or consciousness.

  • @Nothanksbakwas
    @Nothanksbakwas 3 роки тому +1

    Very very helpful 🙏

  • @jasonc8910
    @jasonc8910 3 роки тому

    Thank you.

  • @shazw8964
    @shazw8964 3 роки тому +2

    Your my safe space. Your teachings are amazing. Thank you so much

    • @selfinquiryschool
      @selfinquiryschool  3 роки тому +1

      Happy to hear they are helping you Shaz :)

    • @shazw8964
      @shazw8964 3 роки тому +1

      @@selfinquiryschool ❤️❤️

  • @rondagreenham259
    @rondagreenham259 4 роки тому +2

    Thanks Sunny, yes, this video was very helpful, and I will be practicing it, DEFINATELY !!!!!!! Xxx RONDA

  • @Maya-cp9sf
    @Maya-cp9sf 4 роки тому +2

    Soooo good! ❤️❤️🙏🙏 thank you!

  • @ConsciousYou888
    @ConsciousYou888 Рік тому

    Thank you

  • @bernadinemeilicke807
    @bernadinemeilicke807 3 роки тому +2

    I like to listen to your video twice sometime to soak it in my heart and brings meaning what I'm going through in my life , I have been working on letting go for a while now
    So far your teaching helps me do it much better of letting go
    I really want to thank you! 🙏❤👍🤗😘

  • @lambolim2178
    @lambolim2178 3 роки тому +2

    I love your explanation, keep it up!

  • @sjstone7337
    @sjstone7337 4 роки тому +1

    So good.

  • @pure-pisces9470
    @pure-pisces9470 4 роки тому

    Soooooo True!! If u have the awareness to do this 🙏

    • @selfinquiryschool
      @selfinquiryschool  4 роки тому

      Greater awareness comes BY doing it. Don't wait and let the mind make excuses :)

  • @hemiltonxo
    @hemiltonxo 4 роки тому +2

    Great content, thank you so much for your Channel, for your knowledge to us!

  • @militantjah4060
    @militantjah4060 4 роки тому

    Bless up🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @unknownstar3942
    @unknownstar3942 4 роки тому

    Thanks sunny,🙏🙏🙏🌹

  • @pauliehaley103
    @pauliehaley103 4 роки тому

    Great video. Thank you

  • @hencehuman
    @hencehuman 4 роки тому

    ThankkKkkKkKK YOU!

  • @hansgouda8593
    @hansgouda8593 4 роки тому

    Well said! :)

  • @bobalberto4943
    @bobalberto4943 4 роки тому

    I been suffering the loss of my wife. I know thinking keeps me trapped.
    This sounds like the solution!!

  • @priyankawalde3814
    @priyankawalde3814 4 роки тому +5

    This is freedom Sunny! I have a question here. So while meditating everyday, what shall be practiced? Self inquiry or this?

  • @giuliascherzoso2134
    @giuliascherzoso2134 4 роки тому +1

    Thanks for this its really powerful, this is a mind question though by doing the process how does it change the relationship with the person or trigger, will the same event or person etc occur again. Does it drop the mind story that comes with sensation.

  • @shankarimanoj6938
    @shankarimanoj6938 2 місяці тому

    ❤🙏

  • @Summer-tk8yk
    @Summer-tk8yk Рік тому

    💯

  • @rhondapelletier2141
    @rhondapelletier2141 2 роки тому

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @knockitdown20
    @knockitdown20 3 роки тому

    Hey Sunny, very curious, have you looked into Acceptance and Commitment Therapy? If you have, could you enlighten me on whether this is similar? Or perhaps it's different? (In what ways is it different?)

  • @m.m7732
    @m.m7732 4 роки тому +2

    I’ve been having negative emotion cuz I resisted it and it’s stayed for so long now :(

  • @shilparanimonga6815
    @shilparanimonga6815 2 роки тому

    10:00

  • @wira771
    @wira771 2 роки тому

    Why is f.e. the anger feeling
    "impersonal" ? (I haven't figured this out yet ... )

  • @13_Kas
    @13_Kas 2 роки тому

    How do you do this for a long time (while in the moment)...for example if you are getting angry at someone you are arguing with and they just keep on going and going...

  • @e2ification
    @e2ification 2 роки тому

    hi ,can this method cure my low self esteem?

  • @martinnhantran
    @martinnhantran 4 роки тому

    first :)

  • @camillodimaria3288
    @camillodimaria3288 2 роки тому

    Disengage is a very tall order. He doesn’t really tell you how to disengage.

    • @selfinquiryschool
      @selfinquiryschool  2 роки тому +2

      By looking away. Turn attention to sensation of emotion.

  • @martinnhantran
    @martinnhantran 4 роки тому +1

    When you want to let go but you can't because you're addicted to suffering and pain. You procrastinate all the time, depressed about your own life, and turn to instant gratification. The answer? I don't know. Help me. What is life? How do you give purpose to your life when life is meaningless. Any tips?

    • @selfinquiryschool
      @selfinquiryschool  4 роки тому +4

      If you can’t let go, then let be.

    • @martinnhantran
      @martinnhantran 4 роки тому +1

      @@selfinquiryschool Ok ill try my best :D

    • @rforreedasforsquirrel5310
      @rforreedasforsquirrel5310 4 роки тому +5

      For a great start, you are already aware that the "mind" is addicted to suffering and pain, try to locate a deeper sense of separation from the ego mind. Perhaps thru more meditations or a positive affirmation that resonates. You are just stuck in a state of mind that views life as meaningless, you know deep down inside it is not true. Remind yourself constantly you are not the stories, you are beyond the body and mind. Sunny has so many great videos for staying aware, you are in the right place!!! The answer? The noise of the mind is blocking the answers from you, get rid of the illusion what is not you, come to term with who you are not, you hold the answers within.

    • @johnnywlittle
      @johnnywlittle Рік тому

      Sounds like you’re in a tough space. Wondering how you’re doing today a couple years later. Hope there’s been a shift in perspective around life and living. 🙋🏻‍♂️