My ex destroyed my face, said no other man will ever have me PART 1 | Tuko Talks
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- Опубліковано 16 вер 2024
- Jackline Nyaguthii wishes she had walked out of her relationship with Stanley Ouma the first time he laid hands on her 10 years ago, but regrets aside, she is very thankful to God to be alive because two weeks ago, Stanley wanted to completely finish her using a maasai sword but he did not succeed
You see, when Jacky met Stano, he showered her with presents and gave her the world. Then small arguments led to big fights and she even missed out on her final exams because of how bad Stano had bruised her face.
But Jacky made execuses for him and even hid the marks from her friends by wearing oversize clothes and covered facial bruises with makeup
Then she met Kevo who was very kind and loving, completely opposite from Stano. She fell for him but as fate would have it, Stano was not to be walked out on.
He planned Jacky's final journey by renting a house next to Kevin's place where Jacky was staying and for an entire month, he waited for her to leave the door open and launched an attack on her that would leave her begin for her life.
Here is Lynn Ngugi with today's episode of Tuko Talks
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Part 2 pliz ! ! Hopefully the killer is in jail .
@@kabarungimarion1158 pose the video, while posed, you will see two letter (cc). Press on the (cc) then the subtitles will come on.
At what time is part two airing....
This is what psychologists would call “Female slave conditioning”! It also seems as though there’s no consequences for domestic violence perpetrators hence all atrocities committed against women in this part of the world. Real Fathers are also missing in most homes and therefore marital relationships perception is distorted. Please Lynn bring more of these experts to speak to your Nation’s women.Lord have mercy.
Tuko hamchelewangi..watu wa notification nipeni likes👍👍
This story reminds mi of the time I was married woi nikama kurogwa mutu anakupiga kama braryfuking then anakuita beb ,juu tu anajua unampenda I said enough is enough am a happy single mom of 3 atakama life ni ngumu najaribu my best to give them what that dude didn't give them😊 ukiskia single mom respect them likes za ma single moms zikuje
Me too ningetadikwa Alf bado naitana beb aky siku hizi mapenzi ni shikamoo
We see red flags ,red duvets and even red sea but we still stay🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️May God help us women to know that true love never hurts...if it hurts it's not love.
Hahaha ati duvet
Literally red colour... Blood... Aki Mimi mwili yangu ni uchungu even being shouted at just hurts my body... Woooi God help us
If you see a red flag please 🏃🏃🏃🏃
Even Red juice.
I second you
Who else is watching reading comments jitambulishe na like,
These so hurting aky
Please ladies dont accept to be beaten and u accept to sit for talks better pack leave before u call death please am scared of men nowdays once they have reacted one just go
Golden heart dear cant manage to stay with my core please
U are right
So sad
Many do that
My sister was in an abusive relationship now she's free and happy and am grateful to God 🙏
Myne too
AMEEEEEN!!!!
Me too
Ladies should be very careful with the kind of relationship they go into, try and be very stable financially and you should have a good source of income before going into relationship.
I make good income weekly without the help of my husband
@Bounlieng Naja I've heard so much about that woman Steph, but I've not gotten her contact
I'm really interested in my trading account management
@@tonyjames9828 Mrs Steph Chipres got a good trading strategies that's why she makes her clients proud
My first withdrawal was just too amazing because I wasn't expecting that much
Aki life ni ngumu yaani someone is planning your death just because you don't want to be with the person,God help us
As I always say,"if marriages/relationships doesn't work just leave it don't let fear leads you" ,be strong and run away ..
hii stori ya KUVUMILIA is what makes people to stay in abusive relationships. i truly feel for her because once upon a time, that was me.
KUVUMILIA kitu gani na mtu anakutesa
Thank you Tuko, I learn a lot from this program, love you from Tanzania 🇹🇿
Lyn does not interupt her interviewies like other people do to shut the whole show by the long speech to a point where it's like their own stories to tell... thank you Lyn your skill is golden in the whole Kenya
😂😂😂😂true
Who else is enjoying free life after heartbreaks.. unaanza ku heal ukiwa college na hujaolewa rasmi.. guys dalili ya mvua ni mawingu 😡
Lyynnn I love how you were shocked at some of the things she said, like planning to take care of the side chick he got pregnant BUT you had to be professional and understanding 🤣🤣🤣🤣 You're my favorite interviewer for reals 👏👏😬
She's not honest in telling the story or she didnt understand how some Luo's will bring their village girl as wife and treat the other like a doormat.They first introduce the girl as a cousin.
Side chicks out to destroy you? This mami needs help, this is life.
Yaani, this one is so naive. Who moves in with their spouse's side chicks? Mimi nimeshangaa sana.
@@AishaAisha-eb9hh Its as though she was that desperate yet she calls herself a business lady.I think she surely needs help.
When i was young & stupid, my ex and i got into an argument and coz i hate shouting matches i turned around to leave which he grabbed me from the back and pinned me on the wall and started choking me. He did it soo firmly that i would feel myself fading😔i remember asking him to stop and he said it would be good if i die. I managed to kick him and free myself,that was the end of us. I really fear abusive men😩i always take someone like a pinch of salt things turns around very quick
Dear Wanjiru, we love you and we want you to know we see you and value you. Glad you are out of that situation. Sending you lots of love and light:)
Woiyee karembo,that must have been traumatic.Happy you are well now❤️
Pole dear,
@Muya Wanjiru polee sanaa mummy .....BT huwa nakupenda tu koz huwa lazma nipate ur comment nkiingia uku
Mtu ata asiniletee,kama kisu iko hapo tutamalisana,hasira ikipanda ni kufa kupona.Ati unislap na sina makosa..hapo tutakanyakana mbaya.
Mimi ile phobia niko nayo when it comes to men only God knows.. Mimi wanaume nawaskia nafunga maskio na nina sanitize.. sitaki kutumwa mbinguni na sijatimiza ndoto zangu.. pole sana Dear Aki.. may you heal soonest ❤️❤️
You're not any different from me :/ I mean people are so crazy with even the killings recently
Na unajiita Jeny (PAUL) HEHEH
Same dear
😪😪😪sameeeeeeeeeeee...anytime naskia mwanaumme nashikwa na goosebumps 😨😨
@@stevekipepeo2134 ulikuwa unataka nijiite steve 🙄🙄.. idiot.. And for your info. Paul is my father.. Fool
Have been abused marriage for 18years kupingwa na kuvumilia but lastly when God recused me fro mashete l decided to move out not only of my marriage but out of country to be secured for all threats. Jackline ur story relate me completely. My prayer never to turn back again. 🇶🇦🇰🇪
Story yako nikama yangu.....lol 🇺🇸
Nikujieni😭😭
@@brucemoma7734 💃🏾🤳🏽nakuja
Uko Qatar, pole though
@@salmapeace6191 kuja
The moment a man raises his hand to hit it should be the end of that relationship. Wanaanzanga na ntawahi kugonga wewe..unfortunately many women are going through abusive relationships and they are unable to talk...When you see red flags run for your life🏃🏃.
Am glad that Jackline had the courage to open up...hugs mama you are so strong 🤗
Wale wa comment b4 watching tujuane👋...
Beaty apa kisumu
She really looks scared.. Reliving that must have been painful am so sorry❤️ you are such a strong woman
I agree with you. Hope she can get some therapy to get her spark back.
My dad once told me listen to life's whispers and little ear pinch before it smacks you on the head " . Always believe red flags and that gut feeling .God bless this beautiful woman .
Gut feeling it is for me
@@sallylimo3070 it always is the truth that gut feeling Mungu atufunze about it aki
Ladies ladies 🙄🙄.nini ni huwa inatusumbua. Unachapwa tena you keep entertaining the same man.
@@judyosoro2530 mostly due to low self esteem and not seeing oneself as the prize .
Ata the birds in the background zinakemea uyo Stanley na uyo nduthi guy that left u to die.. beautiful mama,ur future is very very bright and no one should tell you otherwise...You are way strong
Lynn hawa watu wa nipee likes hupereka wpi hzo lykes hapa tuko ni kusikizaa na kutoa maoni to educate each other.
😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣😂🤣Huwa wanaudhi ama mtu huzichange zinakuwa bundles😂
That girl was so naive she was only waiting to be killed. And also moving from one relationship to the other?no no why don't you give yourself tym to heal .
@@christinewaswa5188 thts is it girl
Wanasinya sana 😂
😂😂😂
I thank God that you are alive today
😭😭😭😭I don't ignore any red flags in a relationship...my dear sisters just leave better deal with "single mum stigma" than die in the hands of the so called lover or a man.
Don't ignore red flags in a relationship run for your life
Ruuuuuun dont stay there😐😐😐
Sure
Excatly i had a boyfriend who once slapped me at 12 midnight i walked out same night thinking it was a joke i made it more funny by not coming back.. I cant tolerate such
@@Flowerdivinelove ⁰
Kabisaaa. Once inatosha
This story has just drowned me it has reminded me back when we parted ways with my x he wasn't ready to let me go he even sent for me men to come and attack me on my way to work but thanks God one of his friends learned of the plan and told me to change my time of going to work it was the toughest thing and most painful moment in my life the things he uses to do to me made me shift to Nairobi so that I can be able to live with peace
Am going the same thing right now but am trusting to God it will come to end
@@margaretnjeri9757 if you fear for your life you better go and report or move.
@@margaretnjeri9757 my dear it's time you leave. Don't wait until things get worse. I wish we can talk.
Margret pls pls take action b4 its too late
If a partner hits you once run run for your dear life😭💔
Many ladies after being beaten get melted by the am sorry babe I'll never do that again , sometimes spiced with a flower , others feel trapped or threatened to leave !
Huyo hakua chief. Alikua ng'ombe.stupid chief .ashindwe na asarabatike!!!!
@@blessedmama5367 My Ex once choked me after we got into an argument😔he did it soo hard that i would feel myself fading away😩after i managed to get away from him that was the last day 😒
CORRECT ✔️
Wanjiru Muya those type of breed won't stop if given the chances . Some are brought up in violence homes so they don't know what's respect for women and children others are just cowards who feels superior when they beat their women .
"Ni nini Owino alikua anakupea yenye, haungetoka?"
Thank you @LynnNgugi for asking her that question!
And may it go out to all women and men out there.
Let that be a wake-up call because, there is no excuse whatsoever to abuse or remain in an abusive relationship.
Not all of us are the same...Narcicists are very good in choosing their victims...they can trap you and you will not leave. It is never a choice...it is very very difficult situation
If you listen to her...she grew up seeing her mother beaten...that's child hood trauma...it never heals
Kama Maisha n Safari Sina fare
Kichapo na ni boyfriend?na akiwa husband sasa, si ni kifo.
No second thought nikuleft No turning back.
Ni kifo
That statement “nikitaka kitu ana nibuyia” that’s the wrong reason to be with someone .. ladies please do not feel like a man should give you what you need and ignore personality, values and character ... those are key the rest ni bonus! Material things are an additional blessing to a good and genuine union!
the first man who beat me I went to Nairobi hospital got a P3 form and he was arrested, he almost lost his job and my boss had to come and beg me to withdraw the case after he had paid for the damage, he was so shocked and i dont think he ever laid his finger on another woman, you teach people how they treat you
Me too I took a p 3 form akanilipa 70k na nikamtoka
Very good
@@korirjoan7620 wow a good one
Yes! Teach it and be firm
Baby daddy threatened to kill me.Hata sikuwait hiyo siku iishe it's been ,8 yrs now and I don't regret anything wacha nikufu single
5 years ago an ex of mine threatened me that if he ever sees me with any other man he will kill me then kill himself.... My friend, that statement made me start walking away till I finally got the guts to run. Talking from experience, these toxic relationships have very many red flags but since your partner has managed to control you, you will never see the fault in them. My ex always blamed me for everything that went wrong and I believed him. He knew how to control me... But when I had enough I literally had to go on my knees and pray to God to give me the strength to walk away.
That’s so sad 🥺😭😭 Just call it quits when you see red flags honestly . Don’t settle hata kama ni life poa ama anaprovide . If it’s abusive just walk out .
Physical abuse is the visible symptom, such men break you psychologically. That’s why others will wonder why don’t you leave
I'm a victim of such.... Luckily got out...
True Farida. Narcissists..very dangerous.
OMG, so true! That's why some people don't even tell anyone they are being abused. I was a victim
Why are you sweetening his name his a beast! Mwite Oduori,Omolo ama Kioduori!!
Hahaha ATI amwiteee 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
True mshenzi yeye
Ati kiodwori🤣
I think it part of my life 😭😭😭been BF na GF inakuanga poa but the moment mumekaaa pamoja things change i remember vile nlepata ball my life change 4 ever kuchapwa 😭yani n nko na ball 🙊 i used to be open to my dad but dad told he (you don't have to fight to be a man) 🙊 but n kukaa n mwanaume ako n wevu ako insecure, , but i remember kuna vita nlepata kalibu ball itoke 😭😭😭😭any way i thank God to my parent their stand with me hadi nkapata mtoi and know it 5yrs know saa hii ndio anasema ako sorry for what he did 🙊 but ur Ex come back to test ur foolisness
Wee my dear ebu hama uede mbali... Na usahau nayeye hujui vile amepanga...run my sister run run run!!!!!🏃🏃🏃wacha aone dust
U r a smart woman... He doesn't intend or wish u well... Go on with your life. God will guide your feet to your intended destiny.
Run gal RUN
@@tessdxb7871 ilebidi nihame kenya😂😂
@@nancykymm542 good girl ata ukieda vacation usitake ajue...juu ameona umeomoka sasa anakuja kusema pole? he's jealous and he want to destroy your life...tutafutie Toto wasome
My ex husband tried to kill me 3 times with a knife 😭😭😭😭7 years down the line enjoying single life but hopefully one day I will find my bond 🙏🙏.
😳😳😳
3 times 😳😳. The first one would have been enough 🙄
1,2,3!!!!
@@nyakoboke yes ile ujinga the sake of kids and what people they're going to say if I walk out from the marriage.
@@marykui8761 sake of kids and protect marriage 😜😜
Woi the luo in me huezi hata niguza once 😭😭ladies when a man hits you once, hata kaa u nampenda kiasi gani run for your life enda ukaponee mbele na heartbreak, mimi my baby daddy alinichapa once nkiwa na ball ya three months hajawai niona hadi Leo my baby is six years now
True siku hizi ni kubaya.
Mimi tutainuana jujujuuuuuuuuuuuuu🏋️🏋️🏋️🏋️🏋️🏋️🏋️🏋️🏋️A man can never raise a hand on me..I swear
You made the right decision. Ladies please usingoje kupigwa makofi tafadhali.
@@Amicus.Curiae411 wewe u dont fear... Some people attack when not aware
@@Amicus.Curiae411 on point
Seeing a woman in this condition pains me alot..my ex husband used to beat me up and pluck my braids like Grass waaaaiiiii that pain I can't even compare with child labour ,he used to chase me at night I sleep out in cold as he keep warm in bed and keep peeping through the window to see if I had gone ...sugarmummy coming to my house and make food to extent of calling me and telling that my food is packed I will find it in cupboard...Nooooooooooo!!!!Hio maisha nilitoka saa hii ziezi Taka kuskia mapenzi karibu na mimi...Acha nilee katoi kangu..my Dear take Heart it's well and Glory to God you are alive
Hahaha ati like grass..I die🤣🤣🤣 but atleast you made it out alive Dear
Chilling!... we thank God you are in a better place
We thank God
Plucking your braids? Soo painful
May God bless you and may such an incident never happen to you again in Jesus name
Thanks for the courage to walk out
Aki huyu dame amepitia physically n mentally...women are going thru alot
When i was very very young there was a neighbour where we used to stay, she was being beaten everyday the man would come home drunk each day and beat her vibaya sana. One day my mum went and asked her if she could go far away to another county far away and help her start a new life with her kids she accepted, mum organized with some women she new in that county and it has been almost 12 years she changed her number and started life again she is happy sometimes when people who go through this its like they are in a hole they need help if you can help them please do juu kwenye wanaendea help hawana sauti huyo chief hakufanya any.
Wow ur mama was an angel.may she be blessed wherever she is.sometimes watu hukosa options
Kenyan Ladies treat your ex as an ex,If you move on Just move on hizi viatu za kukutana na yeye tena unamsalimia anakupeleka Out hizo ni Nini,to make Matters worse huyo ni toxic ex.
True
My Dia sometimes i wonder With our sister's is like Wengine wanakuanga wemefunikwa they don't see at all,me hata slap I will go for good
Exactly
Kuna ex wangu alikua abusive i had to move on with my life, ilifika mahali nikachoka nikaamua its over
I prefer to be single and hustle for my own money than being in an abusive relationship. Huwa nasema kama its over its over na mambo ya ex ni ya ex, kusalimiana na kupelekana out hakuna kitu kama iyo. Kuna maex wengine wako very toxic hata sumu ya nyoka afadhali.
That moment jacky amesema atakaa na mpango wa kando akizaa hahaa lyn wa about to loose her mind....wooye innocent jacky kwa mapenzi ulizama🤦♀️🤦♀️🙆♀️🙆♀️
+ she sounds innocent and naive.
Nikuzama ama ni threats?
Single life is boring but it's has is happiness, praying God one day to tell my story to Tuko
She was Naiv!!!!. Hakuna life poa with an abusive person, paying rent only is not ( maisha mzuri)
Mostly women are blinded by sex
@@janicekola7244 But how? sex iko kila pahali and how beautiful is sex with somebody abusing you physically or emotionally?
Ladies Please, Don't wait till you have been left with one eye to leave a toxic relationship. Their is nothing worse than being given a Slap... once He shows you His other side Hits you. RUN FOR YOUR LIFE....
Yah its true
Today am on time, Lyn you are my mentor I like your everything, humbleness, humanity, good listening skills and also your questioning is on another level
N me I love how Lyn is dressed
Whaaaat this lady is so strong... You're a strong lady and I thank God for you're alive today to testify
This girl is also scared of being alone. She needs to take time off Relationships
She needs to heal and learn to love herself
Nowadays marriage is too difficult even to understand each other..only God...and don't worry as well you are alive and Lord will reward you more beautiful than before in another brightness level of future life amen
That man must be obsessed!!! Your such a beautiful lady😊
Never let a man Hit you ,Never say “let me stay if things get worse nitatoka” you’ll die young .. run !!! God will always give you the right person ,wait on God ..his timing is perfect.. we make hasty decisions ,we decide for ourselves instead of letting God.. My dear you’ll be okay .sorry for your experience .
Tuned inn
But Madame please aki ukiona some signs na mapema aki toka don't wait eti everything will okay. I nooo
Pole Sana gal
We give thanks to God for your life
Ametuaribia jina wajaka huyo wajaka hawabehave hivyo
Waaaah , we pass through alot , I did good to run for my life after alitaka kunichoma , 3yrs now til today ananiulizanga kama mapenzi ikwisha , mara oooooooh Tinnah come back pliz , ooooh Tinnah siku hizi mimi ni takataka hunipendi?Nkt 😏😏😏 ata siwezi rudi huko ata hiyo mtaa siwezi kanyaga
Usijaribu dear
Huyu usimkaribie hata
I was thinking of going back to ex....but heri nkae kwetu
Kaa kwenyu kama mimi my dear haujafukuzwa🌺
God is in control over your life,he rescued you and he's going to uplift you to greater levels
amen
Hakuna MUNGU hii ni ujinga waschana wengine ni wakubafu sana.. anachapwa kaa madazi huku anatulia eti chali anampea everything just ujinga..
Huu dame aende shule aache ujinga..
Any man that do pinga a woman is NOT a man is an animal .. is a fool.. is an idiot... ia an aasch..
Amen
Amen he will surely uplift her to greater level
AMEEEEEN GOD IS GOOD!!!!!
Jackie:aty nlimwambia siku akijifungua nitakaa na yy nikimwangalia.
Lyn Aty!!!! Mukae wote kwa nyumba,ile kushtuka lyn ameshtuka hta mm nmeshtuka hvo🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
That dislike is from your ex...he's really inhuman💔😥
😂😂acha nicheke dia eti ni za nani
Kabisaa 😂😂😂
Na kamati yake ya roho chafu ya kutesa watoto wa watu
Yaweza kuwa pia ni team mafisi.
Napitia tu comments 🤣
😭😭😭😭yani hata baada ya kumwacha the ex has the hidden agenda kumfuata hadi .His mission was to finished her ooh GOD THIS so hurting
Infact the ex should be arrested
@@beatriceawuor3077 killed not arrested
relationship and marriages should not be your oxygen, once your beaten that's a signal of a toxic relationship it all start with a warning (kupigwa)
When a man is so possessive and jealous that's not love , it's obsession .... people of temper and not willing to change , is another dangerous breed . Worst of all is women who get used of being beaten by their boyfriends yet no leave and call it a past tense!!
Sam Gills mmmmh ! If hyenas hear this , they won't be happy .
Exactly...💯💯
She reminds me of how my x husband who almost sliced my 2weeks baby into two with a panga how I snached my baby from him was a miracle,,he turned to me and my older son,,,I don't even have strength to tell my story yet,,,,I left me and my children are safe thanks to Jesus....I'd rather be a chokoraa on the streets than being in an abusive marriage
Woiiiii. Pole 😥
Pole sana thats a dangerous person
Waah,I'm just happy that you're alive and not another statistic
Exactly
Pole sanaa my dear,God is good for keeping you Alive and Safe.
Nili support my girlfriend kupata job but after 3 months,nikaanza kuona change,and one day i went and found them in a bar with a man,when i asked her just one question,walinirukia na huyo mwanaume mbele ya watu na nikahaibika sana,i later moved on na uchungu ya roho na machozi,,am not sorry for her kusikia ati hana mguu aligongwa na huyo mwenye alifanya aniache,.
This is what Benjamin Zulu has been teaching ladies....Narcissistic behaviors are signs of red flags ,the man was brought up by a narcissist and that means it reigns in his blood,you are such a kindhearted gal ..stay blessed and thanks for sharing your story gal
😭😭😭😭 Hugs Jackie....
Hata mimi nilikuwa hapo na nikaondokea...
Nilipigwa kaa gunia ya wimbi na nilikuwa na mtoi wa two months😭😭😭.
Nilitoroka usiku upto date ni 19yrs
Amewahi kukutafuta tena?
@@brendamkangombekilimo5278 hawezi juu nilirevenge...
Pole dada
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😅😅😅ati kama gunia ya nn
She looks veeery scared,traumatised,her posture...tells it all. He really messed her face up,such a pretty woman,its a shame.
Tchai nani ameona linn akishtuka vile huyu demu akisema owish dem wa pregnant aje tutaishi tu, ngai nikama linn ametaka kuruka toka kwa kiti, love linn from Tanzania 🇹🇿
Nimeshangaa pia
I have gone through abusive relationships too....I even had to travel out of country to run out of that n this man still try to reach me...and this kind of men are good in apologising they even cry but they still repeat it again and again...I've gone through same thing..pole mamii
May they have no peace in this world........ people from hell brothers of Satan
First slap na nitasahau kama I had ever met such a fool in my life
😂😂😂 ata ile ya bahat mbaya
@@aminamwakio2299 hakuta kuwa na time ya ku analyze ni bahati mbaya ama intended
Better wewe ni slap Mimi shouting inatosha kunifukuza roho safi
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This life sometimes we have to check for true love, because true love cannot be like that, single mums out there big up we have a reason to be single mothers ❤️👍
My ex husband used to beat me up then sooth me later bt one day I said enough is enough and walked out since then am happy with my 5yrs kid
Wow! we need to hear part of story in TUKO
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Me too.He would even miss work n give me double cash for me not to leave,but I saw he was using me,so I decided not to be a fool again n left 5yrs ago
@janet wairimu the moment u walk out u realize ua worth mami u are set free na U have peace that's what matters
Yaani unachapwa hivyo vyote na bado unammeet oooh may God,,, mm nliguzwa mara moja tu na nikatoka I love my self so much, I'm single na 33yrs aki
Mimi kingongwe single with 45 😃😃😃
I'm asking the same question,,hizi story za mapenzi zimefanya niogope kuolewa niko thirty three pia but let me stay single forever
Mm nasikianga jina kuolewa nafunga masikio,, siwezi jipata kwa marriage aki
Ata sijawahi sikia mtu amekufa juu ya kuwa single
This is a disturbing story😢 Pole sana Jackline. Gender violence is real!!!
Nakuru my home land
Semaje ekiababa😇
Yes I feel very disturbed watching
@@joshuakeganda4975 Tebango,
Thanks TUKO cause of this story I swore never to meet my ex period
Never say never
🤣🤣🤣🤣you were to go back to him kua serious 😂😂😂
Am happy that my X husband is making Jacky happy, may God bless you kevo for giving this girl a smile on her face and may he keep you guys strong together.
Kevo alikuwa bwana yko
@@hadijasalim816 yes 4yrs
Heeee
@@ruthnyambura6552 whaaaat??
Wueeeh, the problem is assuming the red flags. Pole sana Jacky
Sorry mommy ..men r wicked ..the thing happened to me my husband alindunga na kisu three times he thought nimekufa
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This is what psychologists would call “Female slave conditioning”! It also seems as though there’s no consequences for domestic violence perpetrators hence all atrocities committed against women in this part of the world. Real Fathers are also missing in most homes and therefore marital relationships perception is distorted. Please Lynn bring more of these experts to speak to your Nation’s women.Lord have mercy.
Pole dada mm pia niliishi kwa ndoa ya kuchapwa like Everytime for eighteen gud years and I was the one providing like everything niliona nikiendelea kuvumilia depression itanimaliza nilichukua break after aliniambia ataningoa meno na anichome na acid I thought that he was just talking Hadi one day alinigonga ngumu ya mdomo adi karibu meno ianguke am in Saudi life is not that easy but I don't have option coz watoto wako shule na inabidii niwashughulikie
Mungu azidi kukupea nguvu za kufanya job na akupee afya
Wenye wame dislike hii video ni kumanyoko sana this is so sad aki mungu mimi wacha nibaki single wanaume wabaya sana nowadays 😔😔
Maybe ni mabeshte wa uyo Owish,
My ex husband used to beat me too 'even when I decided to leave him he still wouldn't let me go and once attacked me saying its better if I die,but I managed to escape with my son and am now really happy without him,God will punish that man jacky stay strong
God Loves you very much Felister Am happy you are safe with your son
This girl was the enabler in this relationship sadly. If she hadn’t allowed this to continue none of this would have happened to her. I wish her all the best and in the future I hope she knows better
Owino is a true version of an abuser, they control and manipulate their victims. They make the victim think they cannot do without them. No-one can judge Jacky for staying and doing the things she did. When you are there, you are are a sleep covered with a big blanket. Friends are very key in helping one come out. Jackie you beautiful and strong don't let anyone take your confidence
If i ever get aman who beats me, it would be the 1st and the last time ata kama nampenda kama nyama.coz if aguy hit you once definitely will 2nd and 3rd time which sometimes its too late
I was saying so I got one he beat me the 1st time I chose to leave, then the family begged to stay that ndoa nikuvumilia, I told them that he never Lay's his hands on me , akasema ni hasira ,few weeks later he beat me again this time reported him police walinishow it's family matters we talk out , I packed everything ready to leave I was told nivumilie brabrabra but he attempted a 3rd time I told don't even dare coz am leaving ,I left and never turned back, I hate toxic relationship
Anne Wairimu best decision you ever done mwanaume wa kukuchapa once anarudia tu and people forget you someone's kid to sasa uvumilie mtu anakuumiza alah rekee nimwo nie
Pole sana Mwenyezi Mungu akulinde akutunze salama akutunze akutawale akuongose akupikanie akushindie akuweseshe vyema na kukupa nguvu na afia njema na uzima tele katika Jina La YESU KRISTO Aliye Bwana na Mwokozi wetu amen 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
This generation I better work like never before than end up in a wrong relationship
sijawai pata any like kwa channel ya TUKO, si leo mcheze ka nyinyi nidoz na njumu leo aki
I promised myself that the very first day a man will fight me or point me, is the very day I'll divorce him,, Hakuna spare part ya mwili bana,, sorry Jacky, I hope u have healed..
Same to me
You're still beautiful! He tried but he didn't succeed. Judgement is coming to him
This story has made me literally cry,so sad,mtu anakutesa na bado hataki umove on
Such men exist wako na tu madharau flani
It's like my story exactly and we are same age, but for me I decided to quit ealiar
@@everindimuli3449 you saved your life,be happy
@@beatriceawuor3077 walai ak😥
There seems to be a direct correlation with age and the capacity to withdraw from abusive relationships. It is critical for young ladies to grow and mature in themselves, to pick up skills and experience that can empower them and allow them to be independent. Whatever a man offers should never be the be- all and end- all so that you stick there at any and all costs. Also, always shield yourself in prayer.
once mmeachana na mwanaume usikubali hiyo upuzi ya "just friends"..jealousy will eventually take over n someone will be hurt...how do you go for outs with your ex anyway??
Alex Waweru true
Very true
Mimi siwezi hata na dawa
Take heart my dear, genuine souls are always betrayed on earth but thank God you are alive.May you receive total healing both physically and psychologically in the mighty name of Jesus Christ our Lord, Amen.
Niko hapa sipendi kupitwa hii😢
Men are heartless i passed alot in relationship but now I'm free from him and I'm happy, usikae kwa relationship dio uliwe niko single na si plan kuwa kwa relationship tena i call it quit
okay this woman grew up seeing her mother being beaten, this is called a generational curse that must be broken
True
The moment you raise your voice on me 🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️you will never hear of me again. Maybe that's why am single and I don't regret anything.
Mpaka kushoutiwa.... 🤔 🤔 🤔
Live your life mm cthani nikiwa Hai nitaruhusu msichana wangu kuyaona hayaa kwa Kim wanaume hajui vile umefika hapo uliko
Better to be single than to suffer in a man hands
@@faithmbithe1155 correct
Haki my single life is the best life I have ever have ngaiii ati kii
Same here..
Ladies, please stop making up with these abusers. The first time a man lays his hands on you in anger, LEAVE IMMEDIATELY! Love does not hurt! Be independent, make your own money, and live your best life. 💛🇯🇲💛🇯🇲
Typing while my hands are shaking ,me and relationships it's good that we teared apart long time a go
Mimi natetemeka hadi spinal cord
So sad indeed