You guys are missing the context of this scene. The girl in the scene, named Domino, used Andrew for emotional support by letting him believe she had feelings for him. She even kissed him. When she had what she wanted, only then did she decide to "do the right thing" by rejecting him. Her attitude seems compassionate, but her actions are cold. She even used him as a surrogate father figure for her daughter! She played on his heartstrings then gaslit him.
@@P.90.603 I hear you. But from firsthand experience you will Never love em the same way as you would before you got your knowledge up and that’s ok DONT. You should never make a chick your world. That pathway brings misfortune. Cuz the chick should ALWAYS love like and respect you more than viceversa. Because often enough if u treat her like a celebrity they treat you like a fan. It’s crazy how treat them too good comes with it’s own risks. My advice be the best version of your self. Vet her extensively look into her ppl family friends background etc..all of this info is relevant test her character an mind see what her morals an ethics are cuz u can best believe she will test you with the mind games etc..be the best that she can do, she be on u like glue.
That's kinda messed up. Like I've been lead on by a girl before myself because she wanted emotional support and someone to "flirt" with and gave me the idea that we could be together (her words btw) and then got with her boyfriend without me even knowing until a week later. Obviously she's entitled to her choices but I definitely felt somewhat manipulated until I wasn't useful to her anymore and so she could get with the person she actually liked.
she is wise enough to not tempt the whole "grass is greener on the other side." sometimes happiness and love doesn't mean the same thing, and each can have its own meaning depending on each individuals journey
I found out the other day that grass is literally greener on the other side because of the way light bounces off the blades at that angle. The grass looks greener from across the street than from directly above. And the analalogy holds for relationships. Relationships you're not in seem more promising than the one you're in because you can't see the limitations of the new one from the outside. You'll only see its limitations when you're in it.
wrong, Love is decision you make every single day, that is why marriage exist, and you need to fight for it, love is commited by 2 person until they dont.
Personally I don’t get it….I’m just not scared of loving people tbh. I’ve gotten hurt very badly…like bad badly. But you bounce back and do it again. And now I’m engaged 🤷♀️ you just keep trying and eventually it’ll work out. It’s only as hard as you make it. Life is life, and part of life is pain. Avoiding pain means not living.
Being in pain almost killed me. Seriously almost turned into oncoming traffic. For the next 10 months, if I'd had a gun in the house I wouldn't be here anymore. Pain isn't the same for everyone. It's been more than a year and I still haven't bounced back. Might never. That's not a dig on you, just an explanation.
@@MrDavidKord that’s severe depression, which is significantly from heartbreak or sadness. I’m really sorry to hear you’re going through that, and would seriously seek medical help. Anti-depressants have helped me so much. Sometimes it takes a bit to find the right one, but I would really suggest seeking help. It makes life so much easier once you get your brain chemicals better :)
@@Samantha-dv4je Right, and I have been in therapy for awhile. Anti-depressants didn't do anything for me, but neither here nor there. Just saying, that's why people avoid heartache. Some people truly can't take it, at least without it doing serious damage to their lives. Until I'm able to, I'm being very careful.
You’re also a girl too, the pressures that men have is a different scale than woman do. You have the ability to move easier than men. Men are the only ones that have to love conditionally. I am not invalidating your journey, but men in the sense of romance have it much more difficult than women.
@@MrDavidKord dude, I understand where you’re coming from. I too had my big heart break that I still haven’t recovered from. But what keeps me going day by day is my purpose, my why I am living. Focusing on perfecting the man that I ought to be, being a true keeper of my soul, it has enabled me to feel satisfied with my life. The pain is always there, it’ll never go, but you will grow stronger to tolerate it. This is time for you to begin asking questions, who are you and how does he suppose to look like. Everything will fall into place on its own accords when you start this self righteous path brother. I promise you.
Had that happen to me but the ghosting wasnt immeadiate. Sorted everything out once I found out about avoidant attachment, self work is an amazing tool we should all have.
@@fredleeland2464 Yes bro love alyways is deal, Love is emotion business, don't fool yourself there is true love or loyality. Love is business so make sure you get profit from it
@@anoldpotentin2446 Love is unconditional. Relationship is not unconditional. Relationship is an agreement. In it, there are balance of power, take and give, commitment compromise, etc. It's like business partnership which both parties need to be in win-win situation. Breach of 'agreement' and imbalance of power can be disastrous.
This is the act of a simp being desperate to have access to some box. Like trust, love has to be earned with a cost to take effort and work. That’s the point of building a relationship.
I find this stupid, because it implies that instead of having serious relationships, you should just jump around for a while, why not get into a committed relationship?
No, she just wasn’t into the dude like that and was trynna tell him that committing to someone is a risk that needs to be thought out further than infatuation
It’s like me and my ex just flipped ..I’m 9 years younger than him…he did in fact take our break up with such calmness of a grown man…that made me very very frustrated..I thought he actually never loved me to be so okay….he accepted all of my rage…and sat next to me like a father would..hugged me and said “when you’re my age you’ll understand that your happiness matters more than your love towards me…”.. I thought he was so cruel at that moment…he was so sure no amount of tears was enough to convince him I just didn’t see how much potential I got…he was sinking and kept going down..now years later I’m grateful that he was strong enough to choose me over his own desires…!! I would have been completely destroyed for that relationship..
That man was truly wise yet true to himself and prolly understood you way better then you probably did yourself at the time. Sheesh chicks will be loyal to there feelings above just about everyone, Everytime. Remember fellas a man will sacrifice his own happiness for his love & family but most womyn will choose her own emotions & happiness above All else. Sadly u learn as a man No one will ever love you the same way you love them fr… this is why your lady should ALWAYS love admire and Respect you more then you love her. Only way a love can last.
Same situation I face recently since the last 5 months. I don't mean to exaggerate but I can assure you it's certainly not a very pleasant situation to be in.
I don't understand her Thinking, because she will eventually give her Heart to Someone, and every decision is based on many possibilities or outcomes. And it will turn out great, or not so great, or something in-between. This is True no matter who you choose. I Want a Woman to Marry me because she feels Alive, and Special when I am with her, and if she doesn't feel Alive, and Special, when she is with me, then it us not the Kind of Love for a marriage of a LifeTime. I want a Woman for her to feel Unspeakable, Intense, Special, Vibrant feelings. Feelings of Care, Concern, Compassion, Respect Elation, Admiration, Dedication, Love, and I should retain, and hold the Same Reciprocal intentions, and Feelings towards her. This description is the type of Love that I desire. Author Advocate for Humanity, Jason Sandifer, Michigan
I read this book because a girl I know read it or was reading it at the time. It's really not that great a book but there is so many quotable lines in it that you can say to women casually and if they have read it it turns them on a bit. I used to know them but I forgot them all. They were just so stupid.
I agree completely. To add to that, don’t look both ways when crossing the street. Matter of fact, don’t even keep your eyes open when crossing the street. Matter of fact, only cross when you hear a car coming.
Zelim ti ljubav.Onakvu kakvu ti dajes....najcistiju, najiskreniju i najverniju. Zelim ti srecu, mir i harmoniju. Zelim ti najlepse i najbolje. Najbolje moje....
it’s not. ain’t not way. y’all are ADULTS.. there’s age gaps WAY bigger than your guys. she should’ve told you the truth instead of giving you her idea of an excuse
Oh fuck me, you gotta be shitting me.... why is this in my feed ? I am still in love with an old flame who happens to be my best friend (and he's not over me, even after ten years, and we tried being together twice), while talking with my currently boyfriend of 5 years about us getting engaged and working towards owning a home together... my heart is hurting and I am still processing this. I can't let my best friend know about how I buried this feeling because I don't want him to suffer even more. But it hurts everytime he looks at me like a schoolboy in love.
Is ok, knowing I can love, it's hard sometimes when it's not reciprocate. But at least we have each other for a while. And nobody can take away the memories from me and all the love that I felt because of someone.
Goes to show writers don't understand attraction, so they write a fantasy of how they WISH attraction worked. Trying this in real life is guaranteed to get you rejected, because it's super unattractive. Granted, she was already rejecting him, but his constant insistence would have completely helped her solidify the fact that she made the right decision.
So disgusting. Having sux with someone for fun and marrying another one. It's just so disgusting. If u can't marry him then why to love why to have sux with. Disgusting shameless ppl
Tell her that you will become toxic and that is not fair to her. I get the feeling she likes the security and the fact that you're handsome. Tell her it's over and that it is final. It will take one to two years to get over you. Show her how toxic and emotionally abusive from the crown (Charles to Princess Diana with Camilla) Princess Diana became bulimic and till this day Prince William cannot stand Camilla. Tell her to watch Princess Diana for therapy. Give her a goodbye 🎁.
What is their age gap? Because is that that she's bringing up he's 22? Why can't she just say I'm not into you that way and end it without dragging it out.
Ohh my god this is my story he is 24 nd m 28 but i love him a lot this age gap makes me feel distant ....m just scared of hurting myself again ....this feeling makes me so lonely m happy to be alone in my solitude i feel safe thankyou God for this beautiful feeling this thing makes me happy i m alive yeah m not so happy....but m alive m proud of myself 🙏🫂m not the one who hurt someone thankyou thankyou God🕉️❤️😊🫂
This audio is exactly what a dream sounds like when you're just about to wake up
Do you know the audio name ?
@@hisshanspeaks6063 he meant about the echo when they talk
Oh man you dropped this👑 exactly the audio sounds like someone would hear the voice when they are dreaming
It’s called reverb
Giving your heart to somebody is the most scariest things. And I feel like I have done that mistake already it's to late now.
It's too late yeaah
🥺💔
Better get it back and worship it.
Add me too. Any tips to come out of it?
Congratulations!
You guys are missing the context of this scene. The girl in the scene, named Domino, used Andrew for emotional support by letting him believe she had feelings for him. She even kissed him.
When she had what she wanted, only then did she decide to "do the right thing" by rejecting him. Her attitude seems compassionate, but her actions are cold. She even used him as a surrogate father figure for her daughter!
She played on his heartstrings then gaslit him.
:( ;-;
@@P.90.603 🤡
@@P.90.603indeed you can either love em or understand them… can’t do both! The more you learn about the fairersex the more they dim in appeal sadly.
@@P.90.603 I hear you. But from firsthand experience you will Never love em the same way as you would before you got your knowledge up and that’s ok DONT. You should never make a chick your world. That pathway brings misfortune. Cuz the chick should ALWAYS love like and respect you more than viceversa. Because often enough if u treat her like a celebrity they treat you like a fan. It’s crazy how treat them too good comes with it’s own risks. My advice be the best version of your self. Vet her extensively look into her ppl family friends background etc..all of this info is relevant test her character an mind see what her morals an ethics are cuz u can best believe she will test you with the mind games etc..be the best that she can do, she be on u like glue.
That's kinda messed up. Like I've been lead on by a girl before myself because she wanted emotional support and someone to "flirt" with and gave me the idea that we could be together (her words btw) and then got with her boyfriend without me even knowing until a week later. Obviously she's entitled to her choices but I definitely felt somewhat manipulated until I wasn't useful to her anymore and so she could get with the person she actually liked.
she is wise enough to not tempt the whole "grass is greener on the other side." sometimes happiness and love doesn't mean the same thing, and each can have its own meaning depending on each individuals journey
I found out the other day that grass is literally greener on the other side because of the way light bounces off the blades at that angle. The grass looks greener from across the street than from directly above. And the analalogy holds for relationships. Relationships you're not in seem more promising than the one you're in because you can't see the limitations of the new one from the outside. You'll only see its limitations when you're in it.
ya what a cowardly woman.
poor dude hope he drove home safe in that sad emotional state...
Ella es una infiel engaño a su prometido con el protagonista para luego decirle lo siento amo a mi prometido
wrong, Love is decision you make every single day, that is why marriage exist, and you need to fight for it, love is commited by 2 person until they dont.
Love is a bond, it takes two. What you have is infatuation not love. You love the idea of a person and what they could be to you.
Key word: *Could*
Personally I don’t get it….I’m just not scared of loving people tbh. I’ve gotten hurt very badly…like bad badly. But you bounce back and do it again. And now I’m engaged 🤷♀️ you just keep trying and eventually it’ll work out. It’s only as hard as you make it. Life is life, and part of life is pain. Avoiding pain means not living.
Being in pain almost killed me. Seriously almost turned into oncoming traffic. For the next 10 months, if I'd had a gun in the house I wouldn't be here anymore. Pain isn't the same for everyone. It's been more than a year and I still haven't bounced back. Might never. That's not a dig on you, just an explanation.
@@MrDavidKord that’s severe depression, which is significantly from heartbreak or sadness. I’m really sorry to hear you’re going through that, and would seriously seek medical help. Anti-depressants have helped me so much. Sometimes it takes a bit to find the right one, but I would really suggest seeking help. It makes life so much easier once you get your brain chemicals better :)
@@Samantha-dv4je Right, and I have been in therapy for awhile. Anti-depressants didn't do anything for me, but neither here nor there. Just saying, that's why people avoid heartache. Some people truly can't take it, at least without it doing serious damage to their lives. Until I'm able to, I'm being very careful.
You’re also a girl too, the pressures that men have is a different scale than woman do. You have the ability to move easier than men. Men are the only ones that have to love conditionally. I am not invalidating your journey, but men in the sense of romance have it much more difficult than women.
@@MrDavidKord dude, I understand where you’re coming from. I too had my big heart break that I still haven’t recovered from. But what keeps me going day by day is my purpose, my why I am living. Focusing on perfecting the man that I ought to be, being a true keeper of my soul, it has enabled me to feel satisfied with my life. The pain is always there, it’ll never go, but you will grow stronger to tolerate it. This is time for you to begin asking questions, who are you and how does he suppose to look like. Everything will fall into place on its own accords when you start this self righteous path brother. I promise you.
Its sad when that older someone tells you your special then ghosts you. 😢
Had that happen to me but the ghosting wasnt immeadiate. Sorted everything out once I found out about avoidant attachment, self work is an amazing tool we should all have.
Dude just get a Gym Membership.
😂
Bro🤣🤣🤣🤣
💀💀💀💀💀
God that's funny 😂😂
Actually did got an gym membership month ago
Movie - Cha Cha Real Smooth 🎬
(Like if you were searching for the name)
Thanks
THANK YOU
you are such a gem. thank you
thanks
Slide to the left🎵
Love is very pure and decent feeling. But nowadays, love is just like deal.
Jane Austen wrote about this in the 19th century and Italian playwrights wrote about this in the 14th century...it's always been a "deal"
@@fredleeland2464 Yes bro love alyways is deal, Love is emotion business, don't fool yourself there is true love or loyality. Love is business so make sure you get profit from it
@@anoldpotentin2446
Love is unconditional. Relationship is not unconditional.
Relationship is an agreement. In it, there are balance of power, take and give, commitment compromise, etc. It's like business partnership which both parties need to be in win-win situation. Breach of 'agreement' and imbalance of power can be disastrous.
@@zitronentee that's the best and the truest thing I've heard my entire life!! You, my man, are a man of wisdom!
@@zitronentee omg it's said so well, that's exactly what I needed
She has another guy in the home rn 🤣
She was trying to reject him but not hurt him. Anyway when you get the vibe that they’re just not into you….YOU LEAVE. Do not stick around.
This is the act of a simp being desperate to have access to some box.
Like trust, love has to be earned with a cost to take effort and work. That’s the point of building a relationship.
I find this stupid, because it implies that instead of having serious relationships, you should just jump around for a while, why not get into a committed relationship?
No, she just wasn’t into the dude like that and was trynna tell him that committing to someone is a risk that needs to be thought out further than infatuation
Movie name: "cha cha real smooth"
It’s like me and my ex just flipped ..I’m 9 years younger than him…he did in fact take our break up with such calmness of a grown man…that made me very very frustrated..I thought he actually never loved me to be so okay….he accepted all of my rage…and sat next to me like a father would..hugged me and said “when you’re my age you’ll understand that your happiness matters more than your love towards me…”..
I thought he was so cruel at that moment…he was so sure no amount of tears was enough to convince him I just didn’t see how much potential I got…he was sinking and kept going down..now years later I’m grateful that he was strong enough to choose me over his own desires…!! I would have been completely destroyed for that relationship..
why? there are people with 10-year age gaps that are very happy together, many....
@@k.b.6844keyword: sinking. Health issue probably
Whay happened?
Why were you so mad at him if you broke up with him
That man was truly wise yet true to himself and prolly understood you way better then you probably did yourself at the time. Sheesh chicks will be loyal to there feelings above just about everyone, Everytime. Remember fellas a man will sacrifice his own happiness for his love & family but most womyn will choose her own emotions & happiness above All else. Sadly u learn as a man No one will ever love you the same way you love them fr… this is why your lady should ALWAYS love admire and Respect you more then you love her. Only way a love can last.
I feel like I'm both of them at different stages of life
Same buddy
Same situation I face recently since the last 5 months. I don't mean to exaggerate but I can assure you it's certainly not a very pleasant situation to be in.
Love yourself first others will come along after life will be ok don’t worry
This is so F ed up especially when you fall for someone who is emotionally not available!! Learnt it the really hard way !! Its bad .
I don't understand her Thinking, because she will eventually give her Heart to Someone, and every decision is based on many possibilities or outcomes.
And it will turn out great, or not so great, or something in-between.
This is True no matter who you choose.
I Want a Woman to Marry me because she feels Alive, and Special when I am with her, and if she doesn't feel Alive, and Special, when she is with me, then it us not the Kind of Love for a marriage of a LifeTime.
I want a Woman for her to feel Unspeakable, Intense, Special, Vibrant feelings.
Feelings of Care, Concern, Compassion, Respect Elation, Admiration, Dedication, Love, and I should retain, and hold the Same Reciprocal intentions, and Feelings towards her.
This description is the type of Love that I desire.
Author Advocate for Humanity,
Jason Sandifer,
Michigan
I read this book because a girl I know read it or was reading it at the time. It's really not that great a book but there is so many quotable lines in it that you can say to women casually and if they have read it it turns them on a bit. I used to know them but I forgot them all. They were just so stupid.
A 22 old girl can date 50 to 80 man but a 22 old guy can't even love 30 or 40 old woman.
For money you think they want those old gremlins 😂
@@isabella6075 read about Leonardo DiCaprio
@@awesomepatt620 Leonardo is having a fling with Gigi who’s 27? His ex came out saying he’s bad in bed 😂
@@isabella6075 someone his status doesn't even care if he is good in bed
They can. I'm dating one
Never simp for a woman or expose your feelings to her. It has to be 100% from her side.
One way or another we are going to give our heart to someone
Name of the song at the end?
Don’t be afraid to give your heart out, it was made to be broken
I agree completely. To add to that, don’t look both ways when crossing the street. Matter of fact, don’t even keep your eyes open when crossing the street. Matter of fact, only cross when you hear a car coming.
@@iiii4271 you're mocking it 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 bro tried be philosophical and you shut him down
Don't love too much anyone.
If you love too much so this love give you too much pain
That's a bad way to think of it. You might as well enjoy yourself since a heartbreak will hurt either way
If this Guy is 22, I’m 11
I like you, but i can't be with you.. Complicated drama🤓
Zelim ti ljubav.Onakvu kakvu ti dajes....najcistiju, najiskreniju i najverniju.
Zelim ti srecu, mir i harmoniju. Zelim ti najlepse i najbolje.
Najbolje moje....
Yesterday...
My GF broke the relationship with me... after 3 years long.
Because, I'm 22 and she is 25.
I know that could be not the reason...🙂
it’s not. ain’t not way. y’all are ADULTS.. there’s age gaps WAY bigger than your guys. she should’ve told you the truth instead of giving you her idea of an excuse
What's the music at 1:28 please ?
What a wonderful choice,, really really a wonderful scene👌🏻🌹👍🏻🌹🙏🏻🌹
Oh fuck me, you gotta be shitting me.... why is this in my feed ? I am still in love with an old flame who happens to be my best friend (and he's not over me, even after ten years, and we tried being together twice), while talking with my currently boyfriend of 5 years about us getting engaged and working towards owning a home together... my heart is hurting and I am still processing this. I can't let my best friend know about how I buried this feeling because I don't want him to suffer even more. But it hurts everytime he looks at me like a schoolboy in love.
I wanted to marry him💔
He rejects me everytime without really leaves me away
Is ok, knowing I can love, it's hard sometimes when it's not reciprocate. But at least we have each other for a while. And nobody can take away the memories from me and all the love that I felt because of someone.
damn watching this in 2 am was not a good idea
Hope you are okay
meanwhile me. i don't think anything exists as pain. i don't believe pain. that's why iam happy. and i believe it
Thats why i never want to propose anyone
Been there done that... it sucks, it hurts, its inexpressible....
She was an asshole actually …she made him feel she was in love with him and then bam..she even cheated on her fiancé
Pov: God made you chad but you still simp💀
I think she meant 32. No way in hell is that man 22.
He is 25 years old in real life.
He's 25 but in the movie he plays a guy who's just 22 and is still trying to figure out his own life paths..
@@MaeiaT why she says u r 22.. is she older?
I'm 22 my self and look 32 already so💀
@@rashi5215 guys like older girls, so who knows it work in favor of u🤧
Thank u for making me more depressed
Goes to show writers don't understand attraction, so they write a fantasy of how they WISH attraction worked. Trying this in real life is guaranteed to get you rejected, because it's super unattractive. Granted, she was already rejecting him, but his constant insistence would have completely helped her solidify the fact that she made the right decision.
What my ex meant when she called him just a friend
not me thinking this was a 50 shades edit LMAOO
Most scariest most dangerous..... true
What film is this?
Guy should stop chasing unavailable immature woman and let the magic unfold 😅
I feel like it is only certain white women which go through this tug-and-pull of indecisiveness.
Am I right or wrong?
This broke my heart
WHAT IF WE WERE IN A RELATIONSHIP.. WHAT IF.. 🤔
So disgusting. Having sux with someone for fun and marrying another one. It's just so disgusting. If u can't marry him then why to love why to have sux with. Disgusting shameless ppl
they didn’t have sex
La mujer engaña a su prometido con el protagonista y luego bota al protagonista porque dice amar al prometido ...
Otra mujer infiel
I already took the risk. I am now miserable :)
Could someone help me know the song's name? Thank you sooo much
What is the song at the end of the clip?
chill bro
She is borderline
how
What's the melody at the beginning?
can anyone please tell the name of movie ?
why the sound like how i hear when i'm on drug
Movie name ?
Tell her that you will become toxic and that is not fair to her. I get the feeling she likes the security and the fact that you're handsome. Tell her it's over and that it is final. It will take one to two years to get over you. Show her how toxic and emotionally abusive from the crown (Charles to Princess Diana with Camilla)
Princess Diana became bulimic and till this day Prince William cannot stand Camilla. Tell her to watch Princess Diana for therapy. Give her a goodbye 🎁.
bro is good looking
Cha cha real smooth was so good
Movie name please
SONG NAME PLEASE....🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Man, I really want to experience love
So why can't they get together?
(I'm not watching the show/movie just tell me)
I had a similar conversation with a girl who had never been in a relationship. She couldn't grasp what I was telling her.
Sometimes I look at Dakota and can see the dictionary definition of what natural beauty is ❤
Song please?
Hari maya bas Jagat bhramahi
She doesn’t want him
Hurt people hurt people
Which movie??
Which movie ?
Yeah... sure untli a chad comes along....
What do I do I don't want to forgive you, I cannot forgive you
This is exactly what happened to me..🙂
there are a million reasons to not do something
Beautiful video and the choice of the music is really great
Bro i could not find it. Csn you pls put link of that song
Its like beyonce say my name
What's the song's name?
Madame Webb does have a point tho
They just had to take out the cringe on someone
What is their age gap? Because is that that she's bringing up he's 22?
Why can't she just say I'm not into you that way and end it without dragging it out.
she’s 32
Still no song name?
Only here for dakota
Okay I'll raise my kids on my own
22? He look older
what's the name of this movie
Name of the movie?
Background music name plz?
Ohh my god this is my story he is 24 nd m 28 but i love him a lot this age gap makes me feel distant ....m just scared of hurting myself again ....this feeling makes me so lonely m happy to be alone in my solitude i feel safe thankyou God for this beautiful feeling this thing makes me happy i m alive yeah m not so happy....but m alive m proud of myself 🙏🫂m not the one who hurt someone thankyou thankyou God🕉️❤️😊🫂
Music name plz
Movie name
What's name of song pls any link
Sounds like bey say my name
@@jhaypeexrihyonce7571 Destiny’s Child*
@@effysdrug no
Destiny child - say my name ..it just a lyric from it....go for slowed +reverb
Which movie
Where is this from?