EP 1420: यहां सपने पलते हैं यहां सपने मरते हैं, कोटा फ़ैक्ट्री की कहानी | CRIME TAK

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    आज वक़्त के जिस दौर में हम जी रहे हैं उसमें आने वाला पल किस शक्ल में हमारे सामने आएगा कोई नहीं जानता। हां....अगर हम कुछ कर सकते हैं तो सिर्फ़ इतना कि आने वाले पल के क़दमों की आहट को ज़रूर भांप सकते हैं। मगर आने वाले वक़्त की नीयत क्या है ये तभी जाना जा सकता है जब हम अपने आंख और कान खुले रखें। और इसमें CRIME TAK आपकी मदद करेगा। क्राइम की दुनिया की हर छोटी-बड़ी ख़बरों से आपको आगाह करके। ताकि आप सुरक्षित रहें।
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  • @ramkishanbeniwal2977
    @ramkishanbeniwal2977 Рік тому +139

    आज आपने क्राइम तक पर बहुत अच्छा मुद्दा उठाया है सर ❤️🙏

  • @pareek123-e5b
    @pareek123-e5b Рік тому +312

    I was failed IIT exam three times in Kota, depress but give up exit from Kota and prepare for defence exam now present I am working 4th largest force in the world -INDIAN AIRFORCE

  • @bhagchanddhakar4339
    @bhagchanddhakar4339 Рік тому +50

    सम्स सर‌ सादर प्रणाम
    मैं काफी समय से आपकी कहानी सुन रहा हूं।
    आपने आज जिस मुद्दे पर बात की है उस पर अभिभावकों से यह निवेदन करना चाहूंगा कि आप दुनिया के सभी फूलों को गुलाब बनाने की कोशिश ना करें क्योंकि दूसरे फूलों की भी अपनी जगह वही अहमियत है जो किसी गुलाब की होती है। अतः आपका फूल जिस रूप में महकना चाह रहा है उसे उसी रूप में महकने की आजादी प्रदान करें।🙏🙏🙏

    • @sur77777
      @sur77777 Рік тому

      Fully agreed 🙏👍💐

  • @AbhayKumar-gc4yi
    @AbhayKumar-gc4yi Рік тому +54

    शम्स भाई, आप एक शानदार जनर्लिस्ट के साथ एक जबरदस्त इंसान हैं। आपको सुनना बहुत अच्छा लगता है और आज आपने जिस मुद्दे पर एपिसोड किया वो वाकई दर्दनाक और आंखें खोलने वाला है 🙏🏻

  • @kuldeepshukla1077
    @kuldeepshukla1077 Рік тому +49

    आपके कहने का तरीका एक जिम्मेदार पिता जैसा लग रहा है।
    दिल रो पड़ा

  • @piyushpal6470
    @piyushpal6470 Рік тому +37

    आपने बहुत ही संवेदनशील और भावनात्मक मुद्दा उठाया है, बच्चों का भविष्य बनाइए, लेकिन जान देने की कीमत पर नहीं।

  • @kavitajoshi7770
    @kavitajoshi7770 Рік тому +293

    Hi Shams
    I am listening you since last three years but commenting first time
    My Son is in kota lince April 2022. But I choose to send my wife and daughter there and staying alone here in NCR just to make sure that he don't take any pressure
    I told my son बाप के कंधो पर बेटे की अर्थी का बोझ सबसे भारी होता है IIT Clear ho ya na ho
    पर ऐसा कुछ मत करना जिसे मैं संभाल ना सकूं

    • @fm_frequency
      @fm_frequency Рік тому +11

      🙏🙏😔

    • @DREAMAIIMSGORAKHPUR
      @DREAMAIIMSGORAKHPUR Рік тому +13

      It is very hard to get parents like you. My father never let me felt that I'm his son everytime he treated me as friend and never put any types of pressure on me even sometimes I get low marks in test 💞🥰

    • @LearnDecentEnglish
      @LearnDecentEnglish Рік тому +5

      Mashallah

    • @apurvmehta9399
      @apurvmehta9399 Рік тому

      ​@@fm_frequencyright

    • @classicfoodfragrance
      @classicfoodfragrance Рік тому +4

      Sir Dhanyawad
      Her Parents ki soch aisi hi honi chahiye.
      But parents 14- 15 sak ke bacchon ko Chodker chale jate hai.
      Aisa nahi karna chahiye .
      Apne bacce ka mind bhi padhna chahiye fir thik thik hai.

  • @bholakumal2292
    @bholakumal2292 Рік тому +14

    आप के ईस मेसेज से मै अपने आप को रोक नही पाया 😢 आंखो मे आंसू भर आया पता नही मूझे क्या होता है अइसी कहानी सून कर खुद रोक नही पाता ..धन्यवाद सम सर

  • @SeemaSharma-fl7xi
    @SeemaSharma-fl7xi Рік тому +32

    I did my coaching from Kota Allen, now am an MBBS doctor. But 1 thing I promise myself that i will never-ever send my kids to Kota, to undergo extreme pressure, mental torchure & trauma. Kota creates self doubt, low self esteem. Some teachers have bad intentions towards Female students. Many students are lost in the lime- light of Drugs, Sex and Sleep. Moreover the hostel/ PG owners are the worst. They talk sweet when your parents are with you, and then finally reveal their real color once they leave. Negativity everywhere

    • @dakshajoshi3572
      @dakshajoshi3572 Рік тому +2

      Oh bechare student par kya gujrati hogi very sed

  • @avneeshkum621
    @avneeshkum621 Рік тому +14

    सर मै कोटा में कोचिंग करता हूँ... नीट की... एलन मे❤❤........ सर ये सच है जो आप सुना रहे हैं 🥰🥰

  • @akshay_dapke
    @akshay_dapke Рік тому +48

    बेरोजगार भारतीय बच्चो का दर्द बहुत असहनिय हैं

    • @kuna38
      @kuna38 Рік тому +5

      There is thousands way to live

  • @NarottamNagar-j1j
    @NarottamNagar-j1j Рік тому +18

    बड़ी जल्दी पकडली खबर सर आप ने
    वरना हमारे कोटा की खबर आप के कोमल हृदय की मधुर वाणी से सुनने के लिए काफी वक्त गुजर जाता है तब तक
    😌👍

  • @vipinagarwal2867
    @vipinagarwal2867 Рік тому +19

    जिंदगी कामयाबी का नाम ही नहीं जिंदगी जीने का नाम भी यह बात कब समझ में आएगी इंसान को सिकंदर भी खाली हाथ इस दुनिया से गया था

  • @hamidansari6070
    @hamidansari6070 Рік тому +28

    20:50 मै 3 साल से आपकी कहानी सुन रहा हु मै एक NEET Aspirant हु और आज ये कोटा से ही सुन रहा हु यार कुछ तो गड़बड़ है इस एजुकेशन सिस्टम में हम मिडिल क्लास के एवरेज बच्चे कोटा आते है और यहां 2 मॉक टेस्ट के बाद हमारे ज्ञान को नाप दिया जाता है और टॉपर्स को अलग स्टार बैच दे दिया जाता है और हम एवरेज बच्चो को बैंकर्स की तरह यूज किया जाता है फिर हमारे टेस्ट में नंबर नही आते तो मां बाप की डांट और ये डिप्रेशन में और ये बढ़ता हुआ syllabus आखिर हम करें तो करें क्या मुझे कोटा आना ही नहीं चाहिए था 😭🥹 I am so dippressed 😒🙃

    • @Chandu_philosopher
      @Chandu_philosopher Рік тому

      कुछ गलत मत कर लेना भाई क्योंकि तुम मां बाप के बुढ़ापे की लाठी हो

    • @user-fp1nb7hr1c
      @user-fp1nb7hr1c Рік тому

      Hello brother mein Kota se koi problem hai to shier karo,,,

    • @rita3793
      @rita3793 Рік тому

      Tum ghar se online prepare karo 100% tumhara ho jayega best of luck

    • @chavdasanvi2081
      @chavdasanvi2081 Рік тому

      Aap vaps aajaye pls or bhi to kam he krne keli pese kmavu bhle km kmavo khus rho pls

    • @crickeeda000
      @crickeeda000 Рік тому

      Kota wale ka yahi problem h 🤣🤣

  • @rajivranjankumar6811
    @rajivranjankumar6811 Рік тому +5

    कोटा में मेरे लिए भी सपनों का शहर जैसा लगा जब मै अपने बेटा को वहां तैयारी करने को रखा था लेकिन असली समस्या वहीं से शुरू होती है यह परिजन को रोज अपने बच्चों को बात करके यह बताना चाहिए कि पढ़ो सफल हो गए तो भी ठीक नहीं हुआ तो भी ठीक। आज सफल हो गया यह हम सब का तकदीर है। असफल होने वाले छात्रों को भी इसी तरह दुसरे जगह भी संभावना है।

  • @jaiprakashgautam2497
    @jaiprakashgautam2497 Рік тому +4

    सर नमस्कार, में कोटा के कोचिंग क्षेत्र का ही निवासी हु,और छात्र जीवन से ही जबरदस्त संघर्ष किया है मेरा सभी छात्रों से करबद्ध निवेदन है कि एक असफलता से दुनिया खत्म नही होती है,दरवाजे औऱ भी खुले है।अतः आत्महत्या जैसा कदम उठाना कायरता है।आशा है आप बहादुर बनेंगे।

  • @AshokPatel-bn1yn
    @AshokPatel-bn1yn Рік тому +15

    सर ये घटना हमारे गांव में भी हुई है दो साल पहले वो लड़का भी कोटा ही पढ़ाई कर रहा था

  • @chamoli445
    @chamoli445 Рік тому +20

    इंजीनियर,डॉक्टर,IAS,IPS किसी की भी तैयारी करो लेकिन मुझे लगता है की बच्चों को एक और रास्ता जरूर अपने भविष्य के लिए सोच कर रखना चाहिए। ताकि ऐसे हादसे न हो। अभिभावक महोदय अपने बच्चों को समय समय पर motivate krte रहें।

  • @mdarmansahil5936
    @mdarmansahil5936 Рік тому +5

    Sir ye jo aap 17 bol rahe na ye official data hai Mai khud Kota me hun na jane kitna suicide ko daba diye jata coaching ke dwara kyuki in logon ka buisness na band ho Jaye Kota me koi aasa din nhi jis din suicide na ho kal meri pg ke bagal me hua hai koi news bahar nhi aai😢😢😢😢😢

  • @Harish..odedara
    @Harish..odedara Рік тому +13

    मेरे कालेज के एक प्रोफ़ेसर ने ऐसे दबाव बनाया था अपने दोनों बच्चों पर। आज़ उस प्रोफेसर का एक भी बच्चा नहीं है।😢😢😢

    • @Amvi567
      @Amvi567 Рік тому +1

      Bilkul sahi kha pressure mein padhai nhi hoti

  • @user-vz3vg3bz2v
    @user-vz3vg3bz2v Рік тому +6

    बच्चे लोग पलायन वादी मत बनो. कोटा नहीं जाना.और भी रास्ते हैं. माँ बाप को ज़िन्दगी भर रोने के लिए मत छोड़ो. तुम्हे जीना है.

  • @kuldeepkumarsrivastava506
    @kuldeepkumarsrivastava506 Рік тому +28

    आपके विचार कोटा फैक्ट्री सभी अति महत्वाकांक्षी मां बाप की आंखों को खोलने वाले हैं। हमें इनसे सबक लेकर अपने बच्चों के नैसर्गिक विकास पर ध्यान देना होगा।अंधी दौड़ से अलग करना होगा। ईश्वर का लाख लाख शुक्र गुजार हूं कि मेरी बेटी बगैर कोटा गये ही एम डी हो गई।

  • @Eduflation
    @Eduflation Рік тому +64

    I studied in Kota and cleared Exam.
    All things said in this episode are absoulte Truth.

    • @aamir4684
      @aamir4684 Рік тому

      How much you have got in jee?

    • @AbhijitDas-zq3ni
      @AbhijitDas-zq3ni Рік тому

      Kya rank Aya JEE me. Kaunse IIT se padhe ho?

    • @mbnt96
      @mbnt96 Рік тому +4

      फर्जी नाम से क्यों हैं यूटूब पे 😂

    • @vellyveer2554
      @vellyveer2554 Рік тому +2

      Mera bhi agar 2024 tak nahi huya to mere paas bhi atamhatya ke ilava koi aur options hi nahi nahi 😢😢😢

    • @KiranSingh-ng6sg
      @KiranSingh-ng6sg Рік тому

      ​@@AbhijitDas-zq3ni😅

  • @sagarpala2480
    @sagarpala2480 Рік тому +38

    One of the best Crimetak videos I have seen. We need more awareness on such topics and parents need to understand that their kids have unique abilities and talents and should nurture those abilities and act as guides rather than robot manufacturers .

  • @akhilpratapsingh3505
    @akhilpratapsingh3505 Рік тому +94

    I can relate myself with your explanation bcz i took coaching there in 2005-07 but unfortunately could not clear medical entrance exam. but one thing must be kept in mind that whether you become an engineer/doctor or not from kota but definitely you will be successful in your life in any other field if you have really given honest effort to your subject...By the way now I am assistant professor of zoology in central university that all due to my teachers of Kota...thanks

    • @sandeeppal7929
      @sandeeppal7929 Рік тому +1

      You should guide to everyone 🙏

    • @dsaint_charcha
      @dsaint_charcha Рік тому +2

      Picture kat rhe the kya

    • @soniaahlawat2507
      @soniaahlawat2507 Рік тому +1

      ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @vickyvs5658
      @vickyvs5658 Рік тому +1

      I think on different way you are supporting kota model,I really not like this place from beginning of my college life,I am mechanical engineer I not support this bloody place.

    • @NaveenOm786
      @NaveenOm786 Рік тому +1

      Jiski layki nhi wo engineer upsc kyu karte hai 😂😂

  • @harsh7msd
    @harsh7msd Рік тому +6

    कोटा में कोचिंग महज एक व्यापार का जरिया है।सभी अभिभावकों को अपने बच्चों को कोटा भेजने से पहले सोचना चाहिए।

  • @syedayubkirmani6664
    @syedayubkirmani6664 Рік тому +12

    Very honest analysis! My son was two years at kota. But not clear neet. He got 93% of icsc .i think he got talent. But go kota, that was our wrong decision. Because kota 's success rate maximum 5% .so i want to warn everyone take right decision. Because 95% student select to study their own place.

  • @ashishran1234
    @ashishran1234 Рік тому +10

    In am also ex Kota student from 2012-2015, today I m a doctor, although I was very very avg Student.
    I have studied day and night there and faculty supported me too much.
    Even aaj bhi mujhe wo yaadein itna confidence deta hai ki ,I wish I will go there soon.
    But as a doc that cases u have told ,is problem of parenting(how u train ur child before in primary schooling),
    I was from poor family and got trained ki be brave and mitti se jura raho apne maa baap ka condition hamesa yaad rakho.
    I just love Kota , from bihar

  • @devendrakumarsingh5445
    @devendrakumarsingh5445 Рік тому +12

    शम्स साहब सादर नमस्कार अभिवादन ।।
    आज का ये एपिसोड काफी साथ॔क एव विचारणीय है,
    आपके हिसाब से आखिर इस समस्या का समाधान क्या है ,आखिर उपाय क्या है।।कृपया बताने का कष्ट करे ।।

    • @nondescript4311
      @nondescript4311 Рік тому

      Kota bhejna band kar do. Online classes are much better.

  • @priyavinn
    @priyavinn Рік тому +29

    I lived with my son in Kota from 2017 for 3 years. The pressure is too much. Also, there are many distracting things like drugs and cheap movies. You can buy pirated copies of 3 movies for Rs.10. So, kids get distracted and realise when it is too late. Pressure is not just on kids but also parents living with them. It is not a good city too send your 16 year old. My kid could not get through but i did see him struggle and supported him through out

  • @vikasbhardwaj3441
    @vikasbhardwaj3441 Рік тому +6

    देश में एक अच्छे इंजीनियर एवं एक अच्छे चिकित्सक से ज्यादा जरूरी है एक अच्छे कुशल तकनीशियन एवं एक अच्छे प्राथमिक चिकित्सक की

  • @mahaveersinghshekhawat1765
    @mahaveersinghshekhawat1765 Рік тому +2

    सम्श सर आप ने बहुत बढ़िया जानकारी दी है
    मेरा लड़का एनडीए देहरादून में इंटरव्यू देने गया था लेकिन पास नहीं हुआ वहां पर एपीजे अब्दुल कलाम जी की तस्वीर लगी उसके नीचे लिखा कभी हताश मत हो ईश्वर ने आपके लिए कुछ अच्छा सोच रखा होगा आज वह
    आई आई एस ई आर भोपाल अंतिम वर्ष में है बच्चों पर कभी भी दबाव नहीं डालना चाहिए

  • @jyotisagarchowrasia6764
    @jyotisagarchowrasia6764 Рік тому +15

    Bahut bahut dhanyawad Sams sir...our pleasure to be a part of Crime Tak family...❤

  • @jagdishjaiswal1985
    @jagdishjaiswal1985 Рік тому +3

    मैं सबको मना करता हूं कोटा जाने को भाई अपने लोकल शहर में ही पढ़ो और पढ़ाई घर से भी हो जाती है

  • @geereeshpandey3714
    @geereeshpandey3714 Рік тому +13

    IIT और medical दोनों का entrance cuet ug को दे देना चाहिए जोकि केंद्रीय विश्वविद्यालयों में प्रवेश के लिए होती है । पाठ्यक्रम भी 12 लेवल का होना चाहिए । समय से पहले बच्चों का परिपक्व होना ठीक नहीं है।

  • @boblyon5720
    @boblyon5720 Рік тому +22

    This is one of your best episodes and should reach all the aspirant parents who didn't do well in life but need their children to be in the cream of this society. Great Episode indeed.

    • @bingurugyannahoyegopala9027
      @bingurugyannahoyegopala9027 Рік тому

      I am listening your stories since long time . your's this episode is really very touching and an eye opener . parents should understand it and not pressurise their children for this.

  • @factsbin123
    @factsbin123 Рік тому +14

    Give me some sunshine
    Give me some rain
    Give me another chance
    I wanna grow up once again😢❤

    • @mr.skeletonman375
      @mr.skeletonman375 Рік тому +1

      Kahndoh ko kitabon ke bhojne jhukaya riswat dena toh khud papa ne sikaya. 99% marks laogea toh khadi worna chadi....🤣😂🤓😁😆😃😄

  • @sarlabhatt6482
    @sarlabhatt6482 Рік тому +23

    बहुत दुखदायी माँ बाप बच्चों को जबरदस्ती क्यों भेजते हैं बच्चा भी गया और पैसा भी😢

  • @durgakharel3342
    @durgakharel3342 Рік тому +13

    Addicted to listen ur all stories ♥️🙏🏼🇳🇵

  • @deshrajpal515
    @deshrajpal515 Рік тому +4

    बहुत सुंदर ढंग से सर समझाया thanks sir ❤

  • @abraajbansh7137
    @abraajbansh7137 Рік тому +6

    कोचिंग के नाम पर मनवाधिकारों का साक्षात् उदाहरण है यह कहानी l
    शमश भाई, काबिलेतारीफ़ - राजबंश, कांगड़ा (हि. प्र.)l

  • @ruhaani24
    @ruhaani24 Рік тому +28

    Totally agree. I did MBBS nd MD Gynae. I was just average student.I gave UG pre xam with double drop in 2011-2012.but i tried my best because my aim was clear. Nd i got my PG seat without coaching.. Parents should aware of their children's behavior and give them mental support 🌸

    • @swatia6729
      @swatia6729 Рік тому +1

      Sir need some suggestions from u as m expecting...

  • @princesinghchandell
    @princesinghchandell Рік тому +36

    I was in kota in 2012, i have to say that there is too much pressure build up with time i quit studying after few months and started playing games instead. It was good idea instead of suicide

  • @busy779
    @busy779 Рік тому +2

    Thanks sir Apne at Kota ka administration ka Sahi time par reality Duniya ke samne laya kiq ki mere jayse parent Sahi time per sabhal jaynge

  • @DREAMAIIMSGORAKHPUR
    @DREAMAIIMSGORAKHPUR Рік тому +60

    You told just 50% of problems of KOTA students but thanks for giving such opinion to parents not to pressurise theirs children.I will request all the parents to treat their children like friends and stay in touch with them 😢🙏

    • @sirajtambadiya1018
      @sirajtambadiya1018 Рік тому +2

      Tt

    • @sirajtambadiya1018
      @sirajtambadiya1018 Рік тому

      Trtrtt5

    • @whatnext9480
      @whatnext9480 Рік тому +5

      मेरे भाई ने भी कोटा में रह कर 2 साल पीएमटी कि त्यारी की पर क्लियर नहीं हुवा,
      फिर उसने अपनी कॉलेज पूरी की ओर यूपीएससी की तयारी की, आज वो डॉक्टर ना सही पर इनकम टैक्स इंस्पेक्टर हैं।

    • @bhadwamodi8294
      @bhadwamodi8294 Рік тому +2

      I will request all the parents to teach their children that this world is brutal and there is a cut throat competition in every field and they should prepare themselves for that competition.

    • @NaveenOm786
      @NaveenOm786 Рік тому

      Jiski layki nhi wo engineer upsc kyu karte hai 😂😂

  • @ROKEY88
    @ROKEY88 Рік тому +4

    You are a good crime reporter & a good father..... Your daughter is lucky to have you. ❤ From BENGAL.

  • @ved297
    @ved297 Рік тому +2

    ❤ से सलाम
    आप ने तो आँखे हे खोल दी
    सिर्फ नाम का ही कोटा है असल में तो खोटा है
    जरुरत है तो सिर्फ हिम्मत और लग्न की
    जिन आशियानों में रौशनी भी लुप्त है
    वही आशियाने भी आबाद होते देखे है .

  • @samitashelar2781
    @samitashelar2781 Рік тому +17

    My son has just passed his 10th standard examination and he wanted to follow his passion and he chose arts stream. But our society is so narrow minded that the think a child can pnly be successful by choosing science stream as an option and giving these entrance exams. Our society's mentality needs to be changed.

    • @Sammy-tl2ik
      @Sammy-tl2ik Рік тому +1

      Don't see the society. Its your child.let him chose his own stream.ppl are not going to do anything good

    • @ViratKohli-gp4cc
      @ViratKohli-gp4cc Рік тому

      Yes bro 👊👊 ye baat society ko kon sajhayega

    • @humairaali75
      @humairaali75 Рік тому

      Yes it's true same condition in Pakistan

    • @loomingdreamsstudymentorra16
      @loomingdreamsstudymentorra16 Рік тому +2

      Agr aapka beta art m interest rkhta hai to ho skta hai vo india ka best artist bn jaay... So don't worry vo jo b krna chahta hai ushe vo krne de. 👍

    • @NidhiDhyanivlogs
      @NidhiDhyanivlogs Рік тому

      Yaha sab society ko koste hain jab sab yaha hain to ye society kaha hai mujhe to ye samjh nhi aata hum hi log hai aur hum hi society hain

  • @parmjitkaur3460
    @parmjitkaur3460 Рік тому +3

    It is really true sir. Very important episode for children and parents.parents should aware their children 's. behaviour and give them mental. Support.Thankyou sir for this important knowledge
    .

  • @victorpatro5364
    @victorpatro5364 Рік тому +6

    Sir you have taken a very important and valuable topic to make parents aware about these facts.

  • @rakeshsabbarwal1022
    @rakeshsabbarwal1022 Рік тому +16

    I am a doctor setteled in UK . I am basically from Kota and visit Kota twice a year. What you have potraid is partial story. There are two issues I have noticed first the parents are ultra rich, the son or daughter gets twenty thousand rupees a month and even more. They live in luxury apartments some of the valuce of 10.000 Rs per month especially in Rajiv Ghandi nagar. And they become drug addicts and hard core. Those who want to study do it but you have to remember the colleage and institute canot keep eagle eye on them. 24/7. What we need in these places is mental and councilling facilities. I feel I sad to listen to your naration. Please keep me unanimous

  • @AnkitSharma-oq4wi
    @AnkitSharma-oq4wi Рік тому +10

    it's very true. i remember i was preparing iit examination in jaipur on 2013. I can't remember if i met my school friends in that year. there was no time for our habits. Just attending classes, travelling home to coaching & vice versa. This is how that whole year went with tremendous pressure. But as shams bhai says suicide is not the only way😔.

  • @sehhzade1
    @sehhzade1 Рік тому +9

    Bansal sir worked in JK company. I have been a student of him 😊

  • @neetupawar1850
    @neetupawar1850 Рік тому +7

    My 10 years-old want to be a space scientist and always busy in researching. I tell her to not stress herself rather enjoy and learn. Even now a days schools and tutors are also putting so much stress on kids. Let them understand and enjoy. And if a student is average then also its okay.

  • @sportseditsbraj5395
    @sportseditsbraj5395 Рік тому +15

    I'm in kota and preparing for Jee, he is my favorite story teller

    • @alltechin1638
      @alltechin1638 Рік тому +4

      Brother may Allah bless you with successful life... Please bro don't take tension & more pressure
      Srk said you don't see others your compitator your compitator is yourself...
      Best of luck for your bright career brother keep away negative thoughts

    • @Anas_playtime
      @Anas_playtime Рік тому +2

      ​@@alltechin1638Very good aap ne achcha samjhaya 😊

  • @anjalianand8017
    @anjalianand8017 Рік тому +18

    I was in Kota last year . And whatever he said is true. There is a very pressurized environment and competitive is on its peak. Sote jagte bss yehi feel hota hai ki avi mai so rha hu to koi aur pdh rha hoga 😓😓. Aur issi drr se sone ka v mn nai krta . Mock tests me marks km aane pr sch me bachho ko categories me bat dia jata hai aur confidence ki aisi taisi ho jati hai. 😔😔. Din bhar pdhai krne k bad v lgta hai ki kuch nai pdha . Aur chhuttti k nam pr bhut sara homework mil jata hai . Parents k bharose ko dhyan me rkhte hue pdhai krne k bawjud ye lgta hai ki agr nai ho paya to sb ka viswas uth jayega . 😢😢. Tests k pehle raton ko nind nai aati rat bhar jag kr pdhna pdta hai . Aur marks fir v km aa jate hain. 🥺🥺. Papa ka call aate hi ye dimag me aata hai ki mera test bilkul shi nai gya . Kbi kbi to chije itni intese ho jati hai ki dimag kam krna bnd kr deta hai . Pdhai se jada bojh to zimmedari ka rehta hai . Aur ye khyal kbi pichha nai chhorta ki kota se waps ghar jate samay maine kuch hasil kia hoga ya nai .......😔

    • @ChhaviVats-lv5pm
      @ChhaviVats-lv5pm Рік тому +2

      Bilkul same story meri beti ki h m use bhu samjhati hun ho jayega addmission to bhut badiya vrna koi bat nhi hamare liye tere se jyada kimti kuchh bhi nhi h nhi hua to bhagwan ne kuchh aur achha socha hoga pr fir bhi uski same to same aap jaisi story h pr beta Anjali Etna Mt shocha Karo sb achcha hoga love u meri bachi hamara aashirwad tumhare sath h tum heera ho❤

    • @anjalianand8017
      @anjalianand8017 Рік тому +1

      @@ChhaviVats-lv5pm Thank uh so much aunty for ur well wishes 🥺💝. Hope aapki beti ka v selection jldi se ho Jaye . 🥺🥺. Mai iss bar fir se Neet Dene wali hu . Thank uh once again .💝💝💝💝

  • @rashminanda6310
    @rashminanda6310 Рік тому +9

    Horrible 😢 only n only parents r responsible for this. Kuchh Parents ko doctor, enginer hi chahiye, apne bachhon se matlab nehi
    Thanks a lot for this awareness sir❤ parents aur govt ko samay rehte sambhal jana chahiye

  • @PradeepKumarPandaEconomist
    @PradeepKumarPandaEconomist Рік тому +5

    Best show ever. My favorite show. Salute Shams bhai and team for excellent narration. Top class 👏

  • @rajtilak1587
    @rajtilak1587 Рік тому +3

    कितने घुटन घीसे है मोहब्बत में याद रखना
    खुद की नजरों मे कितनी बार गिरे याद रखना
    याद रखना की प्यार करने का शीला था वो
    किसी पर मर मिटने की सजा मिली थी
    वो आएगा एक दिन रास्ता बदल कर मिलने के लिए
    उससे कहना ये रास्ता गलत है आगे से याद रखना

  • @Soniamania0910
    @Soniamania0910 Рік тому +1

    Maine last 25 years se kota me reh kar dekha h.....bahut pressure me rahte h bachche...... parents ko ye samjhna hoga ki sirf kota bhejna doctor banne ki garantee nahi h....har 100 me se 1 bachche ko government medical College milta h...baki ke 99 bachche.....unka kya....
    2 din bad aaj tak 19 ho gye sir

  • @osamamohammedomer9924
    @osamamohammedomer9924 Рік тому +6

    Dear All Family Members, I totally agree with Mr.Shams Bahi, Requesting all not to force your children to do this or become doctors or engineers, let them do what is their wanted.
    Thanks your 🙏🙏🙏

  • @rishibhatt2896
    @rishibhatt2896 Рік тому +1

    Aaj aapne n sirf bahut samvedansheel bindu uthaya balki aapne siddh kar diya,,,, ki you are a true journalist,,,,, salute

  • @lalitpotar6309
    @lalitpotar6309 Рік тому +11

    यहां होने वाली मौतों का कारण सिर्फ उन लड़कों के माता पिता है जो उन्हें मजबूत नहीं बनाते
    अच्छा एनवायरमेंट नही दे पाते
    प्रेशर साहब

    • @chakradharigautam1247
      @chakradharigautam1247 Рік тому

      Murder hai na ki sosaied

    • @raghulakhawat3620
      @raghulakhawat3620 Рік тому

      ​@@chakradharigautam1247abe chutiya bacho ko kon marega yha ,,,ye Kota h up nhi ,,,yaha crime 0% h google search kr le gawar अनपढ़

  • @SHEETALSHARMA-um4nh
    @SHEETALSHARMA-um4nh Рік тому +1

    Bahut sahi baat hai sir, last year Mai bhi apane bete ko neet preparation k liye kota admission karayi thi, kyoki mera beta scl topper tha, bt jab wo coaching me pichhe hua to wo bahut depression me chala gaya tha, na to wo vapas aana chahata tha na hi competition me rah pa raha tha, in this year Mai hi kota shift ho gayi tab wo deprassion se bhi bahar aaya and vapas position la paya, mai to parents se yahi kahungi ki 10 k baad akele na bheje kota, bachche akelepan me depressed ho jate hain and kota se apane bachche ko sahi salamat vapas le ja pana hi real success hai🙏

  • @radhamohansoni5329
    @radhamohansoni5329 Рік тому +12

    Aapke saare episodes meine kayi baar dekhe hai aapke jaisa koi nahi 👍👍👍👍

  • @jitendrakhairnar6783
    @jitendrakhairnar6783 Рік тому +2

    सर आपने अपने भाइयों की तारीफ की बहुत अच्छा लगा मन को सुकून हुवा

  • @user-et5hw6yl8l
    @user-et5hw6yl8l Рік тому +21

    Rabindranath Tagore, First Asian honoured with Nobel Prize, educational qualification - class 7.
    Dear Students always remember few numbers are not at all a level to calculate/evaluate anyone's success. In class 10, I earned only 40/100 in SSt. but today I am a History teacher in a higher secondary school.

    • @sehhzade1
      @sehhzade1 Рік тому +1

      It's not true Rabindranath Tagore was home schooled and was highly educated. Update your history knowledge sir

    • @el_a_76juv21
      @el_a_76juv21 Рік тому

      Okay? How many students have interest in literature? How many people got noble with upto class 7 qualification? You are too old minded and slow sir.

  • @creativeinsaan_
    @creativeinsaan_ Рік тому +2

    I'm medical aspirant at kota, attending coaching here from last 1 year and the your analysis is absolutely right.... #fact hai 😢

  • @worldfacts5673
    @worldfacts5673 Рік тому +3

    Sir me abhi kota me study kar raha hu
    Aap bahut shari bat bilkul sahi bol rahe ho
    Yaha par bache ko ek money machine ke tarah dekha jata hai
    Sabhi extra charge karte hai
    Hoste me acha khana nhi milta
    Class bacho se puri full hoti hai
    Bahut pressure,pain, sadness, exam stress etc life hai kota ki

  • @user-ut7lq3xf8q
    @user-ut7lq3xf8q Рік тому +1

    Top rated commentry on very sensitive and relivent topic.Thanks.

  • @anilgoyal3819
    @anilgoyal3819 Рік тому +36

    in 2014,my nephew Mr Subham Goyal ranked SIX in JEE exam . He took coaching from Lakshay institute,Patiala. A person from Kota came to us and offered Rs Five lacs just to write a message as he has taken coaching from their institute of Kota( name of institution concealed) but we rejected his offer of five lacs and remained intact with Lakshay.
    They offer 5 lacs from one to ten rank,
    3 Lacs to 11 to 50 rank and two lacs from 51 to 100 ranks

  • @SalmaKhan-ii7vh
    @SalmaKhan-ii7vh Рік тому +1

    sab se achhi coaching mujhe Allen lagi meri beti ne bhi wahan coaching ki aur kamyabi bhi hui mashaAllah MBBS &MD AMU se kiya h. Ma baap ko bachhh mi himmat afzai karni chahiye koi pressure nhi dalna chahiye

  • @nidhisharma8698
    @nidhisharma8698 Рік тому +4

    I liked this Episode very much... Aaj ki duniya me Success Selection Package... Inhi words k sath log kisi ki worth dekhne lage hain... Money is essential but it is not everything in Life... Value Life.. Value Happiness...

  • @shreeramkhothkalijalsk4879
    @shreeramkhothkalijalsk4879 Рік тому +1

    सर अच्छी बात समझाई आपने मेरा तो मानना है कि बच्चे की जिसमें रुचि है उससे करने दो पेरेंट्स को उसकी हेल्प करनी चाहिए

  • @falgunichatterj8284
    @falgunichatterj8284 Рік тому +4

    Excellent episode sir. Eye opener of parents

  • @user-hp7jh9ki4f
    @user-hp7jh9ki4f Рік тому +1

    शम्स भाई,आपका यह मुद्दा उठाना बहुत अच्छा लगा।

  • @swastikasinha1447
    @swastikasinha1447 Рік тому +8

    दिल दहल गया सुन के।
    ये तो पता है कि intelligent students को categoery में divide कर देते हैं।
    आज कल बच्चों में इतना तनाव रहता साथ में अभिभावक को भी। जो कि गलत है।

  • @shashanks631
    @shashanks631 Рік тому +2

    saare top colleges ki combined strength hardly 2 lakh hai (IIT IIM NIT SPA NLU AIIMS NID NIFT etc plus other prvt top colleges)
    or 50k+ salary wali jobs bhi hardly 2 lakh he hain annually....
    ye haal hai bharat ka....😢

  • @deshrajpal515
    @deshrajpal515 Рік тому +5

    बहुत सुंदर कहानी सुनाते हैं सर❤❤❤

  • @Aniketkumar-je8io
    @Aniketkumar-je8io Рік тому +12

    Thanks for supporting this issue...suicide no seems small but how many die without dieing that can't be imagined...many are dying without dying...that's more harsh for that person

    • @SportsClubforall
      @SportsClubforall Рік тому

      Very true...I have seen many such examples

    • @NaveenOm786
      @NaveenOm786 Рік тому

      Jiski layki nhi wo engineer upsc kyu karte hai 😂😂

    • @partapvirk2136
      @partapvirk2136 Рік тому

      ua-cam.com/video/JY-0g_X8vms/v-deo.html

  • @BheruBhambi
    @BheruBhambi Рік тому +5

    🙏🏿🙏🏿 jai shree ram 🙏🏿🙏🏿

  • @aryamansingh8278
    @aryamansingh8278 Рік тому +6

    I would like to take this opportunity to admire my parents. Both my mother and father believe that whatever a child wants to do, he should be given full freedom to do that. Which is why, they allowed my brother to do his masters in International Relations Diplomacy Business and Law and now he is working as an Assistant General manager in OP Jindal Global University. As for me, it was my aim since my childhood that I want to do my graduation in political science from the university of Delhi. My dream came true when in the year 2022, having successfully cleared Common University Entrance Test, I was given admission in Motilal Nehru College where I am studying at present, and living a happy life.

  • @pavanbhai5130
    @pavanbhai5130 Рік тому +4

    घोर कलयुग का धोर हे साब 😔😔😔😔😔भगवान सबको सध्बुद्धी दे 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @alagharavi
    @alagharavi Рік тому

    Boss you are great aap bagwan ho uss family k liye jo apki iss kahani se sahmat ho jaye

  • @aayushvardhan369
    @aayushvardhan369 Рік тому +5

    I am current JEE dropper
    Great narration Shams Sir ❤

  • @raginising3187
    @raginising3187 Рік тому +1

    I have taken coaching from allen institute of kota and now also i am a student preparing for neet and i got du north campus clg. It's all due to my all teachers of kota it is not bad for everything i totally agree there is pressure there is distractions but ur passion ur positivity definately lead to a beautiful destination of u are working hard there i totally respect all my teachers heartly who make me to stand in this competitive world❤❤ i never feel kota is a bad town 😊

  • @RiseUp_Again
    @RiseUp_Again Рік тому +4

    Failure, Set-Back, Disappointment is all Part & Parcel of Life, Those who cannot face this reality, cannot face the Real Struggles of Life

  • @babitakumari6608
    @babitakumari6608 Рік тому

    Bahut achchi baat batayi aapne jisase ki aapne baccho ko kota bhejane se pehle is baat ka khyal kiya jaye

  • @AbhijitDas-zq3ni
    @AbhijitDas-zq3ni Рік тому +17

    I cracked AIEEE with AIR 1068(Gen)but I was not confident so didnot write IIT JEE that year. I have taken coaching in Akaash Institute back in 2007 and can relate the pressure situation. Completed degree from NIT Trichy and now running my own company successfully today. But I must say when I look back to the journey and the coaching I feel every bit was definitely worth it. But definitely students must introspect and discuss with their parents with an open mind and understand if really they are prepared to handle the tremendous pressure. If the answer is yes from within, they should surely give it the shot. If we fail also we should accept it with an open mind and move towards any other career of interest. It's a challenging journey ofcourse but definitely suicide is not an option at all. My younger brother is currently studying in IIT BOMBAY he is AIR 07.

    • @bhadwamodi8294
      @bhadwamodi8294 Рік тому

      Sir, what is the name of your company?

    • @dakshajoshi3572
      @dakshajoshi3572 Рік тому

      You are right very good

    • @govindmishra7938
      @govindmishra7938 Рік тому +1

      Bhaiya nit ki college life kaisi hoti , I am also preparing for it this year , aur kya wha pr startup culture hota hai ?

  • @saurabh2oc81
    @saurabh2oc81 Рік тому +2

    Well Done Sir .
    This Should Send Some Sense in Our Society.
    Keep It Up Sir

  • @PardeepSanatani-555
    @PardeepSanatani-555 Рік тому +6

    शम्स भाई मैं आपके सारे Episode देखता हूँ आप हर Topic पर रोज Episode बनाते हो। पर अफसोस 6 दिनों में आपने अब तक भी नूँह मेवात पर एक शब्द भी नहीं बोला। क्योंकि आप भी उन उपद्रवियों के समाज से आते हैं।

    • @balkrishansharma1254
      @balkrishansharma1254 Рік тому +1

      Updrviyo ksamaj se nhi sirf dharm se ate hai Shams tahir bde hi suljhe hue or educated hai hr Muslim updrvi nhi hota Arif Mohammad jo governor hai usne Hindu dharm ke sb Vedas Ramayan Geeta padh rakhi hai Sanskrit ke shalok kanthast hai apni Kuran ki ayte bhi kanthast hai

    • @PardeepSanatani-555
      @PardeepSanatani-555 Рік тому

      @@balkrishansharma1254 भाई मनै पता है शम्स भाई एक सुलझे हुए और समझदार इंसान हैं। हिन्दुओं या मुसलमान चाहे जिसकी भी गलती हो। शम्स भाई ने कम से कम ये मुद्दा उठाना तो चाहिए था। मणिपुर में दंगे हो रहे हैं। शम्स भाई ने वो Episode भी बनाकर हमको सारी सच्चाई बताई है।

  • @Multi_talent_94
    @Multi_talent_94 Рік тому +1

    Thanku andhe logo ki aankhe kholne k liye sir...

  • @AnandKumar-yz9ie
    @AnandKumar-yz9ie Рік тому +6

    Jay hind sir

  • @manikraodaspute9619
    @manikraodaspute9619 Рік тому +2

    Aapko salute hai shams bhai , aapne bahot aache subject ke upper focus kiya.
    Aur aane wane waqt me parents bahot hi soch samjkar decision le sakate hai .
    Thanks for your good subjects ❤🎉

  • @vineetrathore1532
    @vineetrathore1532 Рік тому +6

    धन्यवाद भाई साहब जी। हम अपनी मौत का सामान साथ ले चले।

  • @VikasKumar-cb2tk
    @VikasKumar-cb2tk Рік тому +1

    यह हर स्टूडेंट की कहानी है सर् जी ,जो कोटा जाता है।

  • @chowcheingkhen4118
    @chowcheingkhen4118 Рік тому +3

    Success performance may b better but I don't think 🤔 compare to different areas where students take coaching N cleared entrance exam they would have best performance
    Also imagine what percentage does this students take in overall no. Of students that appears for entrance exam ❤❤❤

  • @nondescript4311
    @nondescript4311 Рік тому +1

    मैं भी कोटा गई थी, भाई बड़ा बेकार एक्सपीरियंस था। हफ्ते के हर दिन रो कर निकाल दिया करती थी। मेरी performance जबकि बुरी हो गई! That kind of competition is not for everyone, some students do better in individual tuition and need care and attention in small classrooms, मैं डॉक्टर बन गई हूं, पूरा medical college में उतना परेशान नहीं हुई जितना कोटा में हुई थी, MBBS करना कोटा से गुजरने से आसान था।

  • @anujsinghchauhan1013
    @anujsinghchauhan1013 Рік тому +5

    I went there in 2013... First 2 months everything was going good .. then i got ill due to food poisoning and hot weather conditions... Then they rescheduled my batch... I got d3 batch.. which was. Not good at all.. i got depressed and teacher were moving too fast .... Due to which my performance became bad .. my mind was out of control.. ..i used to go to game zone and watch movies
    .. i never watch movies till now ..what I watched during kota journey... It started because of one misconceptions that lower batch teacher is bad... ..it students thinking..they are iitian tooo ... .. i cried ..i went to deep depression .. when start reading ..i was feeling headache . Then .. one day ..i cried and decided to committ sucide... ..in the same night.. i heard .. one of my friend committed sucide.. .. he was good in study compare to me.. they was preparing for iit since class 11 ... I was target batch students..... Then in the same night... I learned one thing.. be a strong man so that depression should not dominant on u.. ..i knowledge i will not be iitian. ...but i will learn many things from Kota chapter... .. kota journey was turning point for me .i became more mature and responsible person... Countless of experience ..... I learned diffrent face of students.. learned diffrent type of emotions in them .. .. .. ...my opinion for all parents :.. iit is something not everything in life

    • @alltechin1638
      @alltechin1638 Рік тому

      Please see the example to our brother who explain inside story please don't pressurize your child may Allah bless them all who are doing hard work to clear iit & others may Allah success them all

  • @user-gd7ss2vm2j
    @user-gd7ss2vm2j Рік тому

    Thank you so much sir main aap ka naya friend hu.... Aap ka ye crime tak so mein har roj sunta hu... Humko Bahut energy milti hai sir aap ki inhi kahaniyon se......