How to cope with failing dreams & letting go

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  • @refmusicrecords
    @refmusicrecords 3 місяці тому +18

    Hey, the live band here🤭
    Thank you so much for the review!❤️🔥
    We hope to see you again✨

  • @TheTeniolaAladese
    @TheTeniolaAladese 3 місяці тому +62

    1 hr 48 minutes??? A whole 1 hr 48 minutes??? I’m sat!!!

  • @Youkeyy
    @Youkeyy 3 місяці тому +14

    YEEEEES to full episodes on youtube! I’m a visual person so this is much needed. Im sat!

  • @ihuomapromise191
    @ihuomapromise191 3 місяці тому +86

    Only me- listen to the audio. Only me- Watch the video... I'm obsessed I know and do I want to stop? No.

    • @DamolaKayode
      @DamolaKayode 3 місяці тому +3

      Immediately, after my class this will be me too😂😂😂

    • @klenamdziekpor5894
      @klenamdziekpor5894 3 місяці тому +3

      My sister! Na we all

    • @_y.e.t.u.n.d.e_
      @_y.e.t.u.n.d.e_ 3 місяці тому +3

      I do the same after listening to the audio I will always come back here to watch the video

    • @Afye
      @Afye 3 місяці тому +1

      Me and you both!!

    • @narinabner
      @narinabner 3 місяці тому +1

      😂😂😂😂 we plenty

  • @lifestylecruisewithdee370
    @lifestylecruisewithdee370 3 місяці тому +17

    I'm so happy dinma has supportive humans like you I'm her corner😊
    I wish for friends like this❤️

  • @ayoakinyemi9538
    @ayoakinyemi9538 3 місяці тому +22

    The full episode on yt?? I’m so happy 🤸🏾‍♀️🤸🏾‍♀️

  • @miriamamankwah9033
    @miriamamankwah9033 3 місяці тому +13

    I cracked up so bad when Jola was reading FK's husband's "letter". Jola is effortlessly hilarious 😂😂😂😂
    This episode went from a high note to a reflective one. The best duo fr❤

  • @iraroiruoigbide
    @iraroiruoigbide 3 місяці тому +10

    THE BOUNCE IS SO BEAUTIFUL

  • @DamolaKayode
    @DamolaKayode 3 місяці тому +14

    Only on this episode, we were promised Mazino, Pastor Kola and uncle Tunde (👀even though Jola has been saying it since)
    Anyways will be looking forward to it😂
    Really enjoyed this episode and it made me ponder on things I might be doing because of the time I’ve spent on it, even though it isn’t working out, will be making some changes.
    How someone can be laughing one minute and then start reflecting when listening needs to be studied! Best in podcast for a reason🙌🏽

  • @odubomejane1916
    @odubomejane1916 3 місяці тому +11

    Because of man Dimma danced, women will embarras you indeed, that cracked me up😂😂😂

  • @itsTomilola
    @itsTomilola 3 місяці тому +10

    Well done on putting the whole video on UA-cam ladies! We know it's not easy...we very much appreciate you 💕

  • @sijibomi3708
    @sijibomi3708 3 місяці тому +14

    Yoruba culture has gele styles to symbolize when a woman is married or single. Even the style of her Ipele can also signify her marital status. For the gele, when the end/tail is leaning to the right it indicates a Woman is married and when its end/tail is leaning to the left it indicates a Woman is Single. Although the round gele is now popular and post-colonial society makes it difficult to keep up intricate traditions, where the tail of the gele faces was a tell tale of status.

  • @MhoThreads
    @MhoThreads 3 місяці тому +36

    Is it until we carry placard to protest against for this split screen thing🌚👽??? We no want! Who else is with me please?

    • @LolaBolariri
      @LolaBolariri 3 місяці тому +5

      But how will we see both of them’s facial expressions at the same time if they don’t split the screen? 😭 they’re sitting opposite each other not beside.

    • @mygallerydump6561
      @mygallerydump6561 3 місяці тому +1

      Watch till the end, the split screen is just for the initial 30 minutes

    • @mygallerydump6561
      @mygallerydump6561 3 місяці тому

      Watch till the end, the split screen is just for the initial 30 minutes

  • @tissygogo-charles3924
    @tissygogo-charles3924 3 місяці тому +5

    A full episode??? Your company will never burn my ogas 🤲🏿🥰

  • @georgeoshoms3120
    @georgeoshoms3120 3 місяці тому +8

    Pls o, what did you do this weekend on iswis podcast is actually very therapeutic for me. I listen with full veem.

  • @anewjourneywithbertie5290
    @anewjourneywithbertie5290 3 місяці тому +5

    am Cameroonian and we have a similar wedding tradition to what dimma did too we look for a husband with palm wine and then roll of stacks too

  • @iheukumerechimsom85
    @iheukumerechimsom85 3 місяці тому +4

    For the final conversation, from a Christian POV, I'd we should learn to walk in alignment with God's plan for us. Ascertian every choice before moving. Christains often do this thing where pack our load, get to the airport and ask God for journey mercies... meanwhile we are supposed to ask God if we are to go on the journey before hitting road. Plus our God is a God of process and also a God of "suddenly". Some of us will take time before we getting to our destination. Bottomline is we will move, but ofcourse some people will move faster.

  • @FroMaestro
    @FroMaestro 3 місяці тому +3

    Damn 30mins on this wedding? This friend must be the apple of your eyes or how do they say it?? Congrats to the couple!

  • @Vera-z8d5y
    @Vera-z8d5y 3 місяці тому +6

    You people are so fine. Pls keep the videos coming. ❤

  • @buikeonah1735
    @buikeonah1735 2 місяці тому

    Jola with the voice! I am listening over headphone while working so I actually enjoyed it.

  • @praisesogunbanwo
    @praisesogunbanwo 2 місяці тому

    Now I cannot only enjoy the audio but watch the full video!! Super excited

  • @1XclusiveFBA
    @1XclusiveFBA 3 місяці тому +4

    I'm happy to mark register, present !!! 😊

  • @KassieUsman
    @KassieUsman 2 місяці тому

    Commenting on every full episode that you upload on UA-cam so you will keep at it!

  • @LolaRay_
    @LolaRay_ 3 місяці тому +2

    Me running to UA-cam because I HAVE TO WATCH THE GESTURES & EXPRESSION 🤣

  • @bukolasimby6935
    @bukolasimby6935 3 місяці тому

    You guys are so real and you put these things succinctly. Express these stuffs so well❤

  • @iheukumerechimsom85
    @iheukumerechimsom85 3 місяці тому +2

    The bounce is glowing!!

  • @chidinmaakubue2553
    @chidinmaakubue2553 3 місяці тому

    It’s always refreshing to listen to you guys

  • @timilehintoye5304
    @timilehintoye5304 3 місяці тому

    As soon as the episode started, I was already picturing an episode with Mazino. I’ll be here for it!

  • @adafelix5127
    @adafelix5127 3 місяці тому +1

    Jola's point about how young Nigerians keep having hope that may never materialise hit me hard. I'm struggling to give up on Nigeria getting better or at least getting a good president that can really make good changes to governance and the overall mindset/behaviour of our leaders. It'll really be painful to admit this. Would it mean I start thinking of another nationality for my kids at least? Can I afford that? What kind of changes in lifestyle and investment are necessary to make this happen? So, it's easier to just keep hoping that Nigeria will be better... Na so we dey hope, 8 years of Bubu don happen and now 4 or 8 years of Bat go still happen. And time is passing by!

  • @Stilljustkay
    @Stilljustkay 3 місяці тому +1

    I can see and understand Jola flying across because it’s something I can do. 😂

  • @itsTomilola
    @itsTomilola 3 місяці тому +4

    Oh and also love the jumpsuit FK 😍

  • @watanjameganmphande
    @watanjameganmphande 2 місяці тому

    This is a wholesome episode.

  • @LadyRedolent
    @LadyRedolent 3 місяці тому +2

    You can’t see the dress part, I’ve been crying and laughing 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @MaryAdeniyi-cb7ty
    @MaryAdeniyi-cb7ty 3 місяці тому

    thank you so much for this episode, thank you

  • @Rachel4106
    @Rachel4106 3 місяці тому

    What an engaging episode! Well done, ladies 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
    Thank you for being so honest, especially in the last segment.
    "Old identity can sabotage new plans for change". "...you can't get too attached to one version of your identity".- Atomic Habits by James Clear. Please get this book (audiobook if you don't want to read): you'll encounter many "Aha moment" gems there. Love you both ❤

  • @oluchukwuu
    @oluchukwuu 3 місяці тому +6

    Please bring Mazino 😩😩😩

  • @awodeee
    @awodeee 3 місяці тому +1

    FULL episode ❣❣❣

  • @ayodeleowolabi3662
    @ayodeleowolabi3662 3 місяці тому +3

    The first time I can really relate to what is being discussed. letting go of your dream life after doing a 10 year in-depth analysis of your life. As a millennial I can relate. If we really think about it, we are not really doing bad I guess

  • @exotiknuella
    @exotiknuella 3 місяці тому +5

    😂😂😂 The scream reenactment.
    Awww. Congratulations, Dimma.
    We rarely get to know the why behind the rules.
    Enugu reigns at fish and beer. 😂
    I love Abacha and Okpa.
    Yes o. Oya, share your own deep thoughts. 😂
    "Let me be your G so I can own the spot,"😂😂😂
    The cost of letting go is tough! Pivoting is hard.
    No moral lesson. Just Eyah. 🥺🥺🥺

  • @pawagisele
    @pawagisele 2 місяці тому

    Love me some good podcast time 🥰😘

  • @ewuradwoaotuwadabanka9713
    @ewuradwoaotuwadabanka9713 3 місяці тому

    Me dividing the UA-cam video into sections I will watch everyday! Am I the only one who does this?

  • @bukkypase
    @bukkypase 3 місяці тому +2

    Love Jolas skirt...she looks really good

  • @nnennayaonwukwe1408
    @nnennayaonwukwe1408 3 місяці тому

    Jola and the "you can't see the dress" story. 😂

  • @MetrogypsieS
    @MetrogypsieS 3 місяці тому

    Phew finally!
    Thanks for this. What is the downside for you when you put the full Episode on UA-cam?

  • @tosinjones5183
    @tosinjones5183 3 місяці тому

    I might be wrong but I think the aso oke type was historically used as an indicator of whether the maiden is single or not. I think also the iro and buba style I.e. oleku, as well

  • @Adetenifayo
    @Adetenifayo 3 місяці тому

    I came here to see Jola read “let me be your gee so I can own the spot” 🤣🤣🤣😆😆😆😂😂😂😂

  • @Rareisbeautiful
    @Rareisbeautiful 3 місяці тому

    I enjoyed this episode and loved the full episode!!

  • @adebowalealuko187
    @adebowalealuko187 3 місяці тому +1

    Please whats the name of that restaurant in Enugu so that when I travel there, I can also patronize them🙏

  • @gadisland
    @gadisland 3 місяці тому

    "North, south, east and west, everybodies werray is best" 😂😂😂

  • @BolaSol
    @BolaSol 3 місяці тому

    The way the podcast starts 😂❤

  • @valeriajay
    @valeriajay 3 місяці тому

    Let me run to Spotify 💃💃💃💃

  • @temitopeayanbajo883
    @temitopeayanbajo883 3 місяці тому

    August 2025 we meuve with FK!!!
    that's my bestttt😂😂😂

  • @irekesh
    @irekesh 3 місяці тому

    we’ve escaped🥳🥳🥳🥳

  • @onyinyebiosah
    @onyinyebiosah 3 місяці тому +7

    Mazino next!!! 🎊💃🏾

  • @nnennayaonwukwe1408
    @nnennayaonwukwe1408 3 місяці тому

    @39:05 Jola please 😂

  • @oladipoabisolabyzola6687
    @oladipoabisolabyzola6687 3 місяці тому +1

    FK please now!!!!!! which one is mummy toronto🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @moyosadeademiluyi4900
    @moyosadeademiluyi4900 3 місяці тому

    FK can't relate to the tears on the dress video 😂

  • @a.aimuan
    @a.aimuan 2 місяці тому

    Listened to the audio, now I’m here to watch your facial reactions 😅

  • @chidera2551
    @chidera2551 3 місяці тому

    Please bring mazino

  • @Patriciaibe
    @Patriciaibe 3 місяці тому +2

    I'm early today

  • @georgeoshoms3120
    @georgeoshoms3120 3 місяці тому +2

    I am so vexed by the first dilemma, like I honestly feel like cursing him out. Imagine if the reverse was the case, the sisters would definitely share. I just find it to be a nasty and wicked behavior for you to have an avenue to help out your sisters financially and you lie about having debts.
    What'd the difference between your dad and yourself.
    Very triggering and downright annoying. I am sorry, but I am indeed pissed. Koshi man. Long hiss

  • @madameslice1452
    @madameslice1452 3 місяці тому +3

    First to comment🎉😂

  • @preciousco
    @preciousco 3 місяці тому

    Lmao that long one is Jola’s mom o

  • @talkwithdunni5057
    @talkwithdunni5057 3 місяці тому

    Screamssssssssss🎉

  • @naomiononuga961
    @naomiononuga961 3 місяці тому

    🎉🎉🎉❤❤

  • @praiseemaje2554
    @praiseemaje2554 3 місяці тому +2

    💃💃💃💃

  • @LadyDami
    @LadyDami 2 місяці тому

    Abacha is toptier

  • @Godfather2511
    @Godfather2511 2 місяці тому

    You ladies should not go back to uploading partial videos. Full video or nothing please. If not Olopa ma ko everybody.

  • @hb8413
    @hb8413 3 місяці тому +3

    First dilemma - yes you are the bad guy! Why aren't you sharing the money with your sisters????

  • @onyinyebiosah
    @onyinyebiosah 3 місяці тому +8

    When you guys said "Enugu", I just knew it would be for Dimma's wedding. Chai! 🥹🎉

  • @nikechi
    @nikechi 3 місяці тому

    This is me liking, sharing and subscribing (even though I was already subscribed) so that we can continue getting the full episodes on UA-cam🧎🏾