How to cope with failing dreams & letting go

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  • @refmusics
    @refmusics 5 місяців тому +19

    Hey, the live band here🤭
    Thank you so much for the review!❤️🔥
    We hope to see you again✨

  • @ihuomapromise191
    @ihuomapromise191 5 місяців тому +87

    Only me- listen to the audio. Only me- Watch the video... I'm obsessed I know and do I want to stop? No.

    • @DamolaKayode
      @DamolaKayode 5 місяців тому +3

      Immediately, after my class this will be me too😂😂😂

    • @klenamdziekpor5894
      @klenamdziekpor5894 5 місяців тому +3

      My sister! Na we all

    • @_y.e.t.u.n.d.e_
      @_y.e.t.u.n.d.e_ 5 місяців тому +3

      I do the same after listening to the audio I will always come back here to watch the video

    • @Afye
      @Afye 5 місяців тому +1

      Me and you both!!

    • @narinabner
      @narinabner 5 місяців тому +1

      😂😂😂😂 we plenty

  • @TheTeniolaAladese
    @TheTeniolaAladese 5 місяців тому +62

    1 hr 48 minutes??? A whole 1 hr 48 minutes??? I’m sat!!!

  • @Youkeyy
    @Youkeyy 5 місяців тому +14

    YEEEEES to full episodes on youtube! I’m a visual person so this is much needed. Im sat!

  • @ayoakinyemi9538
    @ayoakinyemi9538 5 місяців тому +22

    The full episode on yt?? I’m so happy 🤸🏾‍♀️🤸🏾‍♀️

  • @miriamamankwah9033
    @miriamamankwah9033 5 місяців тому +13

    I cracked up so bad when Jola was reading FK's husband's "letter". Jola is effortlessly hilarious 😂😂😂😂
    This episode went from a high note to a reflective one. The best duo fr❤

  • @lifestylecruisewithdee370
    @lifestylecruisewithdee370 5 місяців тому +17

    I'm so happy dinma has supportive humans like you I'm her corner😊
    I wish for friends like this❤️

  • @odubomejane1916
    @odubomejane1916 5 місяців тому +11

    Because of man Dimma danced, women will embarras you indeed, that cracked me up😂😂😂

  • @DamolaKayode
    @DamolaKayode 5 місяців тому +14

    Only on this episode, we were promised Mazino, Pastor Kola and uncle Tunde (👀even though Jola has been saying it since)
    Anyways will be looking forward to it😂
    Really enjoyed this episode and it made me ponder on things I might be doing because of the time I’ve spent on it, even though it isn’t working out, will be making some changes.
    How someone can be laughing one minute and then start reflecting when listening needs to be studied! Best in podcast for a reason🙌🏽

  • @itsTomilola
    @itsTomilola 5 місяців тому +10

    Well done on putting the whole video on UA-cam ladies! We know it's not easy...we very much appreciate you 💕

  • @iraroiruoigbide
    @iraroiruoigbide 5 місяців тому +10

    THE BOUNCE IS SO BEAUTIFUL

  • @sijibomi3708
    @sijibomi3708 5 місяців тому +14

    Yoruba culture has gele styles to symbolize when a woman is married or single. Even the style of her Ipele can also signify her marital status. For the gele, when the end/tail is leaning to the right it indicates a Woman is married and when its end/tail is leaning to the left it indicates a Woman is Single. Although the round gele is now popular and post-colonial society makes it difficult to keep up intricate traditions, where the tail of the gele faces was a tell tale of status.

  • @MhoThreads
    @MhoThreads 5 місяців тому +36

    Is it until we carry placard to protest against for this split screen thing🌚👽??? We no want! Who else is with me please?

    • @LolaBolariri
      @LolaBolariri 5 місяців тому +5

      But how will we see both of them’s facial expressions at the same time if they don’t split the screen? 😭 they’re sitting opposite each other not beside.

    • @mygallerydump6561
      @mygallerydump6561 5 місяців тому +1

      Watch till the end, the split screen is just for the initial 30 minutes

    • @mygallerydump6561
      @mygallerydump6561 5 місяців тому

      Watch till the end, the split screen is just for the initial 30 minutes

  • @iheukumerechimsom85
    @iheukumerechimsom85 5 місяців тому +5

    For the final conversation, from a Christian POV, I'd we should learn to walk in alignment with God's plan for us. Ascertian every choice before moving. Christains often do this thing where pack our load, get to the airport and ask God for journey mercies... meanwhile we are supposed to ask God if we are to go on the journey before hitting road. Plus our God is a God of process and also a God of "suddenly". Some of us will take time before we getting to our destination. Bottomline is we will move, but ofcourse some people will move faster.

  • @tissygogo-charles3924
    @tissygogo-charles3924 5 місяців тому +5

    A full episode??? Your company will never burn my ogas 🤲🏿🥰

  • @georgeoshoms3120
    @georgeoshoms3120 5 місяців тому +8

    Pls o, what did you do this weekend on iswis podcast is actually very therapeutic for me. I listen with full veem.

  • @anewjourneywithbertie5290
    @anewjourneywithbertie5290 5 місяців тому +5

    am Cameroonian and we have a similar wedding tradition to what dimma did too we look for a husband with palm wine and then roll of stacks too

  • @Vera-z8d5y
    @Vera-z8d5y 5 місяців тому +6

    You people are so fine. Pls keep the videos coming. ❤

  • @buikeonah1735
    @buikeonah1735 4 місяці тому

    Jola with the voice! I am listening over headphone while working so I actually enjoyed it.

  • @KassieUsman
    @KassieUsman 4 місяці тому

    Commenting on every full episode that you upload on UA-cam so you will keep at it!

  • @1XclusiveFBA
    @1XclusiveFBA 5 місяців тому +4

    I'm happy to mark register, present !!! 😊

  • @praisesogunbanwo
    @praisesogunbanwo 4 місяці тому

    Now I cannot only enjoy the audio but watch the full video!! Super excited

  • @iheukumerechimsom85
    @iheukumerechimsom85 5 місяців тому +2

    The bounce is glowing!!

  • @LolaRay_
    @LolaRay_ 5 місяців тому +2

    Me running to UA-cam because I HAVE TO WATCH THE GESTURES & EXPRESSION 🤣

  • @FroMaestro
    @FroMaestro 5 місяців тому +3

    Damn 30mins on this wedding? This friend must be the apple of your eyes or how do they say it?? Congrats to the couple!

  • @bukolasimby6935
    @bukolasimby6935 4 місяці тому

    You guys are so real and you put these things succinctly. Express these stuffs so well❤

  • @adafelix5127
    @adafelix5127 5 місяців тому +1

    Jola's point about how young Nigerians keep having hope that may never materialise hit me hard. I'm struggling to give up on Nigeria getting better or at least getting a good president that can really make good changes to governance and the overall mindset/behaviour of our leaders. It'll really be painful to admit this. Would it mean I start thinking of another nationality for my kids at least? Can I afford that? What kind of changes in lifestyle and investment are necessary to make this happen? So, it's easier to just keep hoping that Nigeria will be better... Na so we dey hope, 8 years of Bubu don happen and now 4 or 8 years of Bat go still happen. And time is passing by!

  • @timilehintoye5304
    @timilehintoye5304 5 місяців тому

    As soon as the episode started, I was already picturing an episode with Mazino. I’ll be here for it!

  • @LadyRedolent
    @LadyRedolent 5 місяців тому +2

    You can’t see the dress part, I’ve been crying and laughing 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Stilljustkay
    @Stilljustkay 5 місяців тому +1

    I can see and understand Jola flying across because it’s something I can do. 😂

  • @Rachel4106
    @Rachel4106 5 місяців тому

    What an engaging episode! Well done, ladies 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
    Thank you for being so honest, especially in the last segment.
    "Old identity can sabotage new plans for change". "...you can't get too attached to one version of your identity".- Atomic Habits by James Clear. Please get this book (audiobook if you don't want to read): you'll encounter many "Aha moment" gems there. Love you both ❤

  • @chidinmaakubue2553
    @chidinmaakubue2553 5 місяців тому

    It’s always refreshing to listen to you guys

  • @watanjameganmphande
    @watanjameganmphande 4 місяці тому

    This is a wholesome episode.

  • @itsTomilola
    @itsTomilola 5 місяців тому +4

    Oh and also love the jumpsuit FK 😍

  • @MetrogypsieS
    @MetrogypsieS 5 місяців тому

    Phew finally!
    Thanks for this. What is the downside for you when you put the full Episode on UA-cam?

  • @ayodeleowolabi3662
    @ayodeleowolabi3662 5 місяців тому +3

    The first time I can really relate to what is being discussed. letting go of your dream life after doing a 10 year in-depth analysis of your life. As a millennial I can relate. If we really think about it, we are not really doing bad I guess

  • @pawagisele
    @pawagisele 4 місяці тому

    Love me some good podcast time 🥰😘

  • @MaryAdeniyi-cb7ty
    @MaryAdeniyi-cb7ty 5 місяців тому

    thank you so much for this episode, thank you

  • @ewuradwoaotuwadabanka9713
    @ewuradwoaotuwadabanka9713 5 місяців тому

    Me dividing the UA-cam video into sections I will watch everyday! Am I the only one who does this?

  • @nnennayaonwukwe1408
    @nnennayaonwukwe1408 5 місяців тому

    Jola and the "you can't see the dress" story. 😂

  • @Adetenifayo
    @Adetenifayo 5 місяців тому

    I came here to see Jola read “let me be your gee so I can own the spot” 🤣🤣🤣😆😆😆😂😂😂😂

  • @awodeee
    @awodeee 5 місяців тому +1

    FULL episode ❣❣❣

  • @oluchukwuu
    @oluchukwuu 5 місяців тому +6

    Please bring Mazino 😩😩😩

  • @gadisland
    @gadisland 5 місяців тому

    "North, south, east and west, everybodies werray is best" 😂😂😂

  • @Rareisbeautiful
    @Rareisbeautiful 5 місяців тому

    I enjoyed this episode and loved the full episode!!

  • @bukkypase
    @bukkypase 5 місяців тому +2

    Love Jolas skirt...she looks really good

  • @exotiknuella
    @exotiknuella 5 місяців тому +5

    😂😂😂 The scream reenactment.
    Awww. Congratulations, Dimma.
    We rarely get to know the why behind the rules.
    Enugu reigns at fish and beer. 😂
    I love Abacha and Okpa.
    Yes o. Oya, share your own deep thoughts. 😂
    "Let me be your G so I can own the spot,"😂😂😂
    The cost of letting go is tough! Pivoting is hard.
    No moral lesson. Just Eyah. 🥺🥺🥺

  • @nnennayaonwukwe1408
    @nnennayaonwukwe1408 5 місяців тому

    @39:05 Jola please 😂

  • @BolaSol
    @BolaSol 5 місяців тому

    The way the podcast starts 😂❤

  • @tosinjones5183
    @tosinjones5183 5 місяців тому

    I might be wrong but I think the aso oke type was historically used as an indicator of whether the maiden is single or not. I think also the iro and buba style I.e. oleku, as well

  • @irekesh
    @irekesh 5 місяців тому

    we’ve escaped🥳🥳🥳🥳

  • @valeriajay
    @valeriajay 5 місяців тому

    Let me run to Spotify 💃💃💃💃

  • @onyinyebiosah
    @onyinyebiosah 5 місяців тому +7

    Mazino next!!! 🎊💃🏾

  • @temitopeayanbajo883
    @temitopeayanbajo883 5 місяців тому

    August 2025 we meuve with FK!!!
    that's my bestttt😂😂😂

  • @moyosadeademiluyi4900
    @moyosadeademiluyi4900 5 місяців тому

    FK can't relate to the tears on the dress video 😂

  • @adebowalealuko187
    @adebowalealuko187 5 місяців тому +1

    Please whats the name of that restaurant in Enugu so that when I travel there, I can also patronize them🙏

  • @madameslice1452
    @madameslice1452 5 місяців тому +3

    First to comment🎉😂

  • @Patriciaibe
    @Patriciaibe 5 місяців тому +2

    I'm early today

  • @oladipoabisolabyzola6687
    @oladipoabisolabyzola6687 5 місяців тому +1

    FK please now!!!!!! which one is mummy toronto🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @a.aimuan
    @a.aimuan 4 місяці тому

    Listened to the audio, now I’m here to watch your facial reactions 😅

  • @talkwithdunni5057
    @talkwithdunni5057 5 місяців тому

    Screamssssssssss🎉

  • @chidera2551
    @chidera2551 5 місяців тому

    Please bring mazino

  • @georgeoshoms3120
    @georgeoshoms3120 5 місяців тому +2

    I am so vexed by the first dilemma, like I honestly feel like cursing him out. Imagine if the reverse was the case, the sisters would definitely share. I just find it to be a nasty and wicked behavior for you to have an avenue to help out your sisters financially and you lie about having debts.
    What'd the difference between your dad and yourself.
    Very triggering and downright annoying. I am sorry, but I am indeed pissed. Koshi man. Long hiss

  • @preciousco
    @preciousco 5 місяців тому

    Lmao that long one is Jola’s mom o

  • @naomiononuga961
    @naomiononuga961 5 місяців тому

    🎉🎉🎉❤❤

  • @praiseemaje2554
    @praiseemaje2554 5 місяців тому +2

    💃💃💃💃

  • @LadyDami
    @LadyDami 4 місяці тому

    Abacha is toptier

  • @Godfather2511
    @Godfather2511 4 місяці тому

    You ladies should not go back to uploading partial videos. Full video or nothing please. If not Olopa ma ko everybody.

  • @hb8413
    @hb8413 5 місяців тому +3

    First dilemma - yes you are the bad guy! Why aren't you sharing the money with your sisters????

  • @onyinyebiosah
    @onyinyebiosah 5 місяців тому +8

    When you guys said "Enugu", I just knew it would be for Dimma's wedding. Chai! 🥹🎉

  • @nikechi
    @nikechi 5 місяців тому

    This is me liking, sharing and subscribing (even though I was already subscribed) so that we can continue getting the full episodes on UA-cam🧎🏾