Exactly, he seems like a petulant child who can't handle conflict or stress. He's a middle aged father!! Time to grow up!! He should have tried to work it out with Jen Garner!!
Ben Affleck, Brad Pitt and Johnny Depp all realized too late, that the grass isn't greener on the other side. It's greener where you water it, where you nurture it.
@vivabehi1314 Aging men don't like to decay alone. The average guy wants someone to look after him. Wealthy men want all their ressources and capital to serve a purpose (legacy), which is unlikely if they end up dying alone.
Nah she ruined this because she over shared & sold their personal life! Like the book he gave her she thought she had to prove to Gadren that he loves her MORE
@@deend7824this was after their marriage, read the comment well, she said she was a diva n Ben knew her lifestyle. But yet he still went out with her n married her.
No exuse! It's like saying "he knew she was controlling, self sentered, want things her way, dominant, attention sick etc". I actually don't think there is a man who can handle her 🤔
Go figure! He was tired of his boring life with Jen Garner. He actually said in an interview that thats the reason he turned to alcohol. Shame on him, especially when he's the one who cheated on her with their childrens nanny. I suspect he always has to blame whichever woman he's with, after he's grown bored of them. Smh. Ben Affleck is one hot mess! He needs to grow up and learn that life is NOT a fairytale!
@@vernamurray1161 I disagree, respectfully 😊 She is a huge part of the problem! Don’t get me wrong, he’s a hot mess, but she is a glory hound, fame chaser, and just flat rude too most everyone!
💯 percent, Ariel!! He's a grown man. He knew what he was getting into!! Nobody put a gun to his head. If they really want to stay married, both of them need to compromise!!
He is a drunk and acts like a child no one mentions that all you get is jlo this and Jolo that. I don't want to live with a drunk constantly watching him, he and his wife former is now playing house and everyone acts as if this is normal. Who accepts their husband spending time with his former wife in his house I won't , but no one finds that odd and seems to act as if jlo needs to accept that why?
@@melinaesposito3434It’s not about her having the free will to marry. The original commentator was saying based on what the public has observed about JLo, she doesn’t seem like marriage material. It doesn’t mean that another guy won’t marry her.
Some only feel "complete" living like this. Anything else is boring. I know someone like this. Sadly, 8 years in. It is exhausting to deal with folks that do not know what direction they are headed. If they dont know how is anyone else supposed to follow that lead?! We can't! Ugh 😢
he has anger issues, alcohol addiction issues adultery issues and is miserable and feverish regardless cause no matter where you are Ben there you are God is love +
@@gointothedogs4634 you can love someone but be wrong for them. She hung out with Diddy also rumor is the girls hold held his guns...idk ai lies so dont know media lies too. She could've going thru menopause and hes not understanding the moods but life style differences are real so is hygeine lissue differences
I hate that he talks bad about the women in his life after a break up. He did it to Gardner, now he is doing it to JLo. Real men dont kiss and tell. Gross. I am team JLo.
J Lo loves attention but you have to give her credit for working so hard to get to where she is, And Ben i feel is too difficult , i dont trust his intentions and i dont know what he wants from a wife. He complained about his first wife that he wasnt happy and his drinking was a problem. I think he just needs to live by himself. And maybe he can make his self happy. I dont get him at all.
Exactly jlo never changed her life is the same. He knew that!! He's been w her b4. It's not Jlo fault. It's his fault. He never understands and just a man who waste women time!!
Well, not as far as saying she's my favorite but I really thinks he likes himself, & himself only. He must get himself together before getting in a relationship... why going as far as marrying J-lo again, just give it a try again no formal commitments 😮😢
Some of these comments are so All Knowing! I don’t even believe some of the comments. Someone referred to Ben as a “philander “ wow that’s a lot! A man who readily or frequently enters into casual sexual relationships with women; a womanizer. Do you KNOW him personally?!? No. How do you judge someone good or bad just from the media?!? I don’t know about anyone else but I personally don’t want to live my life under such scrutiny 😢 And I really like Jen Gardner but she’s been married before too. I can’t imagine anyone knowing what all happened in all of her previous relationships.
Ben is incapable of maintaining marriage with his drinking and bachelor lifestyle. And JLo can’t be babysitting and playing mother to him forever. So this partnership is doomed.
Mannn....Your right, but Ben dated so many people during rehab and after. He's been on a ball since his first divorce from Garner. It was never going to end well from things I saw, like that time when she was promoting her brand alcohol and drinking like it's not a thing in front of a recovering addict. It's a thing even when they say it's not a problem, and it's ok if you drink, but knowing on the inside it's a vice that's your downfall. Nope, I don't see it working. However, I wish no marriage to fail. He needs to be with someone who also practices sobriety, and he likes living a normal life. That's why he married the other Jen in the first place. He doesn't like her lifestyle. He doesn't want to go to loud BET concerts. Lol Both of them need to take time out to be single.
@@micherylgaines9930No, not really. People forget that she was married when she met Ben while filming a movie can't remember what it was but that's when they got together and she quickly divorced the guy she was married to and got with Ben, so no JG dumped her 1st husband for Ben, he was more famous at the time I believe she may have thought she was leveling up but obviously he has addiction issues that he will always have to deal with and he's fallen off the wagon several times. It will eventually wear down a marriage and as much as JG kept holding on, it seemed Ben had long ago checked out and done with that marriage.
@@positivehighvibesx This! Garner is just as gross. She cheated on her husband Scott Foley with Michael Vartan. Then on Vartan w Ben. They're all messy
She has a beautiful body and is rich, the man is not worth it, he cheated on Garner with the nanny, the children's nanny. Now he's divorcing Lopez, the man is not a man of commitment, the sad thing is he's older and it's not good for any man to be alone, Jen is latina and warm, could have taken good care of him, he wants another young nanny and freedom, so be it. Jen will keep trying, bless her...
just goes to show that marriage is more than just insatiable attraction for each other. two selfish people who are unwilling to compromise and meet in the middle will never be happy in marriage.
Yep and marriage is all about compromises. It’s also about not changing the person that’s growing together. It’s not about fancy dresses cars huge houses it’s about hospital stays. It’s about being there and fighting to stay together through it off. It’s about kids it’s about if you have kids, it’s all about sacrifice, which Jennifer Lopez could not do either of them could not do it.
@@stacyhunt4783She doesn't want a divorce and she's been putting up with his disgusting smoking habit. Something Jen G was not putting up with. JLo even moved ther kids way across from Miami ti LA, far away from their regular schools. Ben hasn't had to be inconvenienced or lift a finger. He's acting like the spoiled brat that he is.
Why is everyone blaming her for being herself? At least she has worked hard and has stayed true to herself; however, Ben has been a damn mess his whole life!!! He is all over the place, screwed up his 1st marriage and cheated with a nanny. He’s a raging alcoholic and a chain smoker! I have noticed a pattern with him and that he’s a complete jerk. The first time they broke up he compared it to the feeling of vomit …he said, at first it feels terrible but then you feel better once you throw up and now he’s kind of using the same analogy when it comes to his relationship with JLo and it’s bunch of BS. He knew exactly what he was getting into. I feel like he just played with her emotions and completely destroyed her. She has never looked this fragile and so skinny. I don’t even recognize her anymore..I just see sadness. She used to be full of life and now it’s like looking at an empty soul..a sad sad soul….and that’s what narcissists do, they suck the life out of you!!!! I truly feel bad for her and I’m praying that she heals from this 🙏💕
She's skinny because she's doing Ozempic or some other form of weight loss drug. She can't handle getting old. Also she's the real narcissist. Keep it real.
Jlo destroyed? I dont know her but she doesn't seem to be a sadybetty crying over a man. She probably just wanted a little hot mess drama, lol. Omg thank God that man is talented and hot . He seems to be the hot blonde bimbo in a man version.
Hay por favor, este hombre simplemente no ssbe lo que es valorar a una mujer, a su primera esposa la traiciona con la niñera, luego sale con la de Armas y decía lo mismo x que ella estaba en el tope de su carrera y él no podia soportar que ella llamara la atencion más que él, JLo nunca fue ni sará una mujer fácil, pero este hombre definitivamente es un ser infeliz, manipulador y egocéntrico que luego se quiere hacer la victima en lugar de madurar de una buena vez
Thank you for not blaming the woman, who seems to be obliged (according to the society) to give up her life, career and herself to adapt to a spoiled man, who will let her down anyway in the end...
I feel that JLo "needs" the media attention for self-validation and a man as an escape from looking within herself. Ben "avoids" the media because it calls attention to his many demons and "needs" a woman as escape from looking within himself. They have their flaws, like every human. I hope they both get the help they need to find genuine peace, love and happiness within themselves. Perhaps that will lead them to making better choices going forward. Sending them both love.❤🙏
Ben has been an embarrassment. He doesn't take responsibility. He doesn't accept his wrong. This man has an addiction to gambling. And addiction to medicated drugs. He does drugs. This man is an embarrassment, and the truth is gonna come out and I feel sorry for Jennifer Lopez. Because everybody's putting her as the horrible one. When she's worked very hard for everything she's got and all he wanted was to use. The he used it for his premiere in Paris and Italy. I mean, this guy is an idiot. J lo needs to move on
Agree, she must move on and stay single while figuring out herself. Someday she will meet someone who values her ,and you know, if she never does, that is also okay.
Yup I think you got it right! Everyone feeling sorry for Ben and blaming JLo but this is a grown man who knew what her lifestyle is like and yet he persued her. Also Ben has addictive personality that factor's in the choices he makes which have been reckless. He really needs time to work on himself and JLo needs to do the same as she jumps from one relationship to another and her children have to be affected by all the men she has coming in/out of their lives. It creates instability and will cause issues for her kids as they get older and that's how generational cycles patterns get passed down. Ben comes from alcoholic father (possibly other family members have addiction issue's too I believe), it's clearly still affecting him and he really needs to focus on that and heal. They were both drawn towards each other due to love but it's obvious both have their own issues to work on so that's also why we tend to get drawn to certain people as we have certain issues within ourselves to deal with. It's like they are mirroring their core issues back at one another for it to click that they are obviously dealing with issues that are needing ti be dealt with. If they can work on themselves, it maybe possible to salvage marriage but they both have a lot of work on themselves and it's not easy but comes with it's rewards at the end.
Yes he did! And he even said that's what he admired about her..her hard work..her continued efforts in face of racial adversities..not to give up! He knew exactly what he was getting when he asked her back into his life!!!!
He looked so miserable from day 1. He should have stopped it from moving forward. He should be a single dude and she will just bounce from man to man. Maybe she will realize it is ok to be alone for 2 minutes.
If this is true, let's let them both heal. Remember both have feelings & family. Which one of us hasn't had challenges, hurts & pain whether caused or naturally. Godspeed to all.
The reason he titled the book he gave her "the Greatest Love Story Never Told" is because it was supposed to never be told. It was a book of their 20+ year *secret* feelings and relationship. Containing his and her personally intimate communications and private secrets about themselves and each other, and their personal private business, left lying around the studio like a magazine for casual reading by anyone. Those secrets were between two people, *two* . Some of what is revealed affects not only Ben and how he feels but also the feelings of their others: their former spouses, their children, etc.. He wasn't trying to stop JLo from being an artist, he was just trying to be romantic and loving in saving it all and making the gift for her but being respectfully discreet about it. Being the muse and inspiring her creativity is one thing, and I bet is all good by Ben, wonderful even, but I agree with Ben that she crossed a line. That's a deal breaker, imho. This is a special level of self-absorbed, imho. She gave zero about how Ben or anyone else would feel, is how it seems to me.
Yea I agree.. im a JLo fan but she should have never put that personal stuff out that was meant to be for just her n Ben.. she could have used the letters to inspire Her music without putting it all out there .. I dont know what possessed her to do that .. Maybe she felt like she needed to prove to everyone that he really loves her cuz he embarassed her back in the day
Truest comment on here. She’s so self absorbed with ZERO self awarenesss and little care to his feelings about anything. Yes he knew she’s media hungry and craved the spotlight and attention but he probably hoped she might compromise a bit on things if she truly loved him. In which turn I believe he would’ve been willing to compromise and be a little more open with the attention she seeks from media and fans. But thennnn…she went and totally destroyed trust by not only not keeping that book private but making it into some big extravagant tell all of their lives. And he tried to get her not to do it. Of course she could care less about his feelings on the matter. So…now she’s got herself another dee-vorce in the works.
But he could have told her, no. In the documentary it feels like they were already starting to write for the album. But that’s one thing, the whole making a movie or documentary was another. And if he wasn’t comfortable with that, he should have spoken up.
@@lfuentes4098 when he realized, then he did. She could have ( should have imho) pulled the plug on it but she brushed it off, ignored it, She did the same with Jane Fonda's advice against continuing
Beautifully said! He’s rather blatant about the fact that he never wanted people just thumbing thru their deep feelings and thoughts of TWENTY YEARS!!! I can’t believe she even has the clip of Ben finding out about that and the “Pen Affleck” yet then has a clip of her boppinglika little HS’er with her gf’s at a sleepover and saying “Yeah I just keep it in the studio and people can go thru it.” Like .. DID YOU NOT hear what YOUR HUSBAND just said??? Yeah, but you just didn’t care …
Ben seems to show signs of a Gemini....split personality and changes on a dime. He had a more passive life with Jennifer and he was miserable there too!
Lopaz got dumped 20 years ago and it killed her pride and ego!!! That's why this time he married her was a huge ego trip telling the world " Look world I'm very desirable after all. I got my prize after 20 years; ain't I ms wonderful ??? That's why in all the pics ya see them slobbering on each other!! It was to show YOU" hahaha. I got my man after all be cause I'm soooo sexy and desirable!;" She felt if she tried her best to control Ben and insist he love their fake life he could learn to be happy with her way!!! He finally woke up; he's fed up playing the role.
Is that why he was sending her emails & love letters the past 20 years they were apart & with other partners?? No this is on HIM..not HER! HE USED HER 2ND TIME AROUND. HE'S A LOSER!!! F... you like she said!
Add to that, she raced into this marriage straight from A-rod and the cheating rumors surrounding him in their relationship. He was not going to marry her AND he was apparently cheating so she ran straight to Ben and immediately married him. She wasn’t over ARod yet.
He's so toxic. Been married to an alcoholic before, and it was sooo hard. People with that kind of issues usually are so selfish. Irritable, and volatile. Jen, gurl, run ASAP. You don't need a king to be the queen you already are❤
How long have you personally known him to be equipped to boldly sneer at a bunch of strangers with opinions? Oh wait, right, you DON'T know him any better than anyone else so please allow others to offer their opinions without some stranger bashing them because she doesn't agree. Thank you, The YT Managers.
I believe Ben is concerned about his children. He is a good father, but Jennifer is exploiting their marriage. So much falsehoods on Jennifer's side. Give the man a break.
Another man that waste women's time!!! He knew Jlo before all of this!! He married her for money not love in my opinion. Ain't nothing changed about Jlo!! She's the same person minus the children. I feel sorry for her!! I know she's been married more than once. At moment in time. It's all the men fault not hers! I thought it might be her a little 🤔 but maybe. But she still remained the same. Ben Ain't happy with anyone. He should b alone!! N leave us sane women alone!! Don't drive us insane and crazy like he have done! He's a sad man if he divorce her or causes her to divorce him.
You two women should be women advocates . It is so sickening to hear you disrespect JLO. How could you criticize a woman who works so hard to get where she is now while this man has been nothing but a train wreck. Stop blaming & putting down women, period!
@@detrafranks9325she's worth 3 times what he has! And him blaming her for some type of mental abuse (insanity) might be a plot to prove this against her. He needs to support 3 kids through college..lots of money going to Garner. Yea..at his age he better be working his ass off the next 10 years to pay for all this. I wouldn't put it past him to try to sue her for something. I don't know if Cali is a no fault state when it comes to dissolving a marriage?
Ben affleck is definitely as famous as Jlow and it’s bc he has actual talent. He most certainly did not need Jennifer Lopez to make him more famous. And more so than that he doesn’t care about being famous. She does.
He was having a midlife crisis for years and was in limerence with JLo. So yeah I believe that quote 💯. He woke up and is now smelling the coffee, hence why he's moved closer to his ex Jen Garner. She was true love. The grass is not greener 💯
It wasn’t insanity. Ben was being shallow and selfish. It’s a clear pattern of poor decision making. Gardner better not take him back. She probably had to deal with a lot of emotional instability from Ben.
Jennifer is an egotistical narcissistic diva. common knowledge. but he is selfish and always seems unhappy. neither one of them should get married again.
Ben, is Ben's biggest problem. He wasn't happy in a "normal" marriage, and isn't happy in this one. Until he becomes happy with himself, he'll never be truly happy with anyone else.
Could not hv said it Better !!! I was thinking the exact thing !! Until he makes himself completely happy & is HAPPY WITH HIMSELF !! He can never be happy !!!
Age wise he is a grown man. It seems he wants to be married and live like a single man. He first broke up with JLO for his drinking and gambling. He then cheated on Garner with the nanny and drinking. When she's fine without him he pursues JLO and marries her. Now he sees Jennifer Garner fine without him and he's back to her. He stays away enough from the media because he knows the public mostly blames the woman so he doesn't have to account for his actions. He not only needs rehab but to remain single and stop messing with these ladies who work hard for their careers and in love.
Neverfall for a guy that had recently divorced.He is now definitely looking for another divorced since j.Garner still around for Ben...JLo you need a man better than him find someone who will love you more than you love him and you will be happy🙏
@@carmenpowell9728amen!!! The woman definitely has self-esteem issues, which is made obvious by the fact that she needs constant attention from the paparazzi/public & has to stay relevant!!! I’m pretty sure her biggest fear in life besides aging is no longer getting all the attention that her stardom has brought her for sooo many years!!! She needs therapy & has for a while now - to truly learn to love herself!!! And prepare herself for when the spotlight on her begins to lessen, being she in her mid 50’s now!!!!
She was given the chance , she didnt work to hard for it. Her family has/had money when she grew up despite her saying different. She went to private school and parents paid for her to get auditions and favors for her......, she is not and has never been just "jen from the block".
What??? Jlow is crass,high maintenance. She needs to be under the microscope. Ben is private. A talented actor,writer,director with Oscar's .He made a flighty decision.She doesn't understand privacy.
I'm Sure She's Very Hard to Live With..She Has To Be #1 Without Paparazzi !! Whatever Ben Wants Is His Right Also ! Don't put him Down..You Dont Know Everything... Dealing With all That Is Insane, I'm Sure..Do You Ben ! Your Fabulous ! 😊⚘️
Jen needs to take a 2 yr. "Vacation/stay out of the media." Then maybe she could make a career comeback. She has over saturated the media. We are very tired of her.! 🥴 Jlo is getting old... sorry!
Didn't Jennifer Garner (ex wife) help Ben through sobriety?!? Why would he leave her, and i don't understand why she's involved in trying to help them heal. JG seems to be the one he should have stayed with and never had looked back when it didn't qork the first time. If they comw back doesn't always mean, it's meant to be.
TBH I don't even know how he ended up marrying Jennifer Gardner because She is an arrogant, obnoxious Entitled unworldly racist with Artificial-fake-"Nice-girl personality/persona where Ben regardless of his shortcomings is a genuinely a nice person with many personal problems yet Humanitarian fights against hatred and ignorance in this world and well educated unlike both uneducated Jennifers but Gardner is the worst! Typical Karen. And I'm so glad his children took after him so at least he is good dad like his brother too.
Ben cheated on Jennifer G with their kids' nanny and was also drunk all the time. It wouldn't surprise me if Garner kicked Ben out after putting her through all that. I certainly wouldn't want him back.
She shouldn’t have done essentially a press tour after they got married answering all kinds of questions about him and she should’ve stopped posting videos and photos of them after she posted abt their wedding to commemorate it. The first time they dated, they went through excessive press that they claim gave them PTSD. But Jennifer went and still talked openly about them rather than keeping stuff private when they got back together like what? You don’t see Eva Mendes and Ryan doing that. You gotta protect what you have from the vultures that are the media and bitter femcels and incels in the public that wanna see you fail. I mean they would’ve gotten rumors and press whether she answered questions abt them and posted abt him or not but to this extent? We might not be seeing it to this level had she not brought him to every single event and kept things more private. She values the attention seemingly more than peace. And Ben definitely doesn’t like the attention so she should’ve compromised. Who knows if this is true or not bc the reality is he is also filming the sequel to The Accountant and he could be living elsewhere to “get into character,” who knows.
No she's isn't! Ben is the epitome of selfish narcissism always blaming the other for his insecurities & unhappiness. Ben never learned how to be happy. He had a terrible childhood. He needs a whole lot of treatment & self love.
@@jeanrita4618 they are both messed up. JLo is notorious for getting people fired at a whimand having a stuck up attitude. If you don't think so go work for her. m and having a stuck
It takes two; one who is narcissistic and blaming, and one who didn’t have the boundaries to put workable agreements in place to manage the almost inevitable with someone who couldn’t handle themselves. Who is doing the blaming right now?
Most people, no matter who they are, usually realize by his age that they have to grow up. Sometimes, that takes being alone, doing some deep thinking, possibly having therapy. It's called maturing.
Jlo has worked hard to be Jlo !! You can’t just strip that away from her ! And Ben, is just temporary insanity! Way to go , for being young ladies, very very wise !
He was normal with Jennifer Gardner and he wasn’t happy there either. He doesn’t know what he wants ….
Exactly, he seems like a petulant child who can't handle conflict or stress. He's a middle aged father!! Time to grow up!! He should have tried to work it out with Jen Garner!!
He needs to figure himself out and probably isn’t good in relationships.
They divorced way before JLO, how have we forgotten his substance abuse?
@@micherylgaines9930he's a child, she's a 🐝
He has not been normal for years ,,,,
Ben Affleck, Brad Pitt and Johnny Depp all realized too late, that the grass isn't greener on the other side. It's greener where you water it, where you nurture it.
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Amen to this!
Fantastic comment ❤
Loving this comment!
❤ Love this
He looks miserable. I just think he’s one of those guys who is happier alone.
He will get his wish
Man at his age is always a bad investment, the ones that are alone lack skills to be in a relationship
And drunk
So why get married?
@vivabehi1314
Aging men don't like to decay alone.
The average guy wants someone to look after him.
Wealthy men want all their ressources and capital to serve a purpose (legacy), which is unlikely if they end up dying alone.
He is such a terrible husband to both Jennifer's. He knew she was a diva when he married her.
Nah she ruined this because she over shared & sold their personal life! Like the book he gave her she thought she had to prove to Gadren that he loves her MORE
@@deend7824this was after their marriage, read the comment well, she said she was a diva n Ben knew her lifestyle. But yet he still went out with her n married her.
No exuse! It's like saying "he knew she was controlling, self sentered, want things her way, dominant, attention sick etc". I actually don't think there is a man who can handle her 🤔
@@deend7824He still knew who he was dealing with.
Diva ? Like DIVA ? Haha not even fuc*k close
Go figure! He was tired of his boring life with Jen Garner. He actually said in an interview that thats the reason he turned to alcohol. Shame on him, especially when he's the one who cheated on her with their childrens nanny. I suspect he always has to blame whichever woman he's with, after he's grown bored of them. Smh. Ben Affleck is one hot mess! He needs to grow up and learn that life is NOT a fairytale!
Addicts always blame everyone else.
AT THIS POINT J.LO. NEEDS TWO HUSBANDS, TWO BENS. AND MAYBE THAT WOULD MAKE HER HAPPY. !!!❤❤❤❤
He must date a drunk like himself
@@albertomartinez2345 Jlo isn't the problem
@@vernamurray1161
I disagree, respectfully 😊 She is a huge part of the problem! Don’t get me wrong, he’s a hot mess, but she is a glory hound, fame chaser, and just flat rude too most everyone!
Everybody hates her but forgets he is a grown man and he knew her lifestyle, so he shouldn't 've married her.
💯 percent, Ariel!! He's a grown man. He knew what he was getting into!! Nobody put a gun to his head. If they really want to stay married, both of them need to compromise!!
Absolutely
He followed the wrong head 😂
Exactly
That's why he said it was "Temporary Insanity"
How awful that everyone always blame the woman. He's such a basketcase he's always in pain no matter what. Why hate on her?
True
Thank you ❤♥️🌹😍🥰
EXACTLY!! HE'S A ALCOHOLIC! JENNIFER GARNER DIVORCED HIM BECAUSE SHE COULDN'T TAKE IT NO MORE!! (GET HELP BEN)
They will blame her she is not white , he is a total loser that falls off the wagon and hear them oh poor Ben 😂😂😂
He is a drunk and acts like a child no one mentions that all you get is jlo this and Jolo that. I don't want to live with a drunk constantly watching him, he and his wife former is now playing house and everyone acts as if this is normal. Who accepts their husband spending time with his former wife in his house I won't , but no one finds that odd and seems to act as if jlo needs to accept that why?
BUT unless he’s slow, he knew what he was getting into. It’s just history repeating itself 🤷🏼♀️
Neither one of them should marry again. Some people just shouldn’t and can’t be married
Are you crazy? This is JLo's entire career, her ever evolving love life. She will absolutely get married again.
😂😂😂😂😂. You lost hope and I understand your pain.
Who cares???
@@melinaesposito3434It’s not about her having the free will to marry. The original commentator was saying based on what the public has observed about JLo, she doesn’t seem like marriage material. It doesn’t mean that another guy won’t marry her.
I agree
Ben can marry his alcohol, cigarettes, gambling and player ways
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Yeah, the women are great. He is immature and has to be true to himself.
Those vices sometimes are less harmful than a half bad.
Some only feel "complete" living like this. Anything else is boring. I know someone like this. Sadly, 8 years in. It is exhausting to deal with folks that do not know what direction they are headed. If they dont know how is anyone else supposed to follow that lead?! We can't! Ugh 😢
He had tons of paparazzi and media attention while dating Ana de Armas.. Maybe Ben is the problem himself, not his ladies 😅
Well of course he is the problem.
I think that was just to promote their movie?
@@klickingkayasmr7585 Exactly. HIS movie, otherwise all people around him should bend over for his mood for media/no media attention🙄
Omg she’s so beautiful too!!
Of course he is the problem. Garner is a simple person, and he couldn't get along with her
he has anger issues, alcohol addiction issues adultery issues and is miserable and feverish regardless cause no matter where you are Ben there you are God is love +
You nailed it!!
Adultery and alcoholism is definitely a demonic issue
Profound words and apropos!
That's why Jay-lo broke up with him originally. She should've listened to her gut feelings.
@@gointothedogs4634 you can love someone but be wrong for them. She hung out with Diddy also rumor is the girls hold held his guns...idk ai lies so dont know media lies too. She could've going thru menopause and hes not understanding the moods but life style differences are real so is hygeine lissue differences
I hate that he talks bad about the women in his life after a break up. He did it to Gardner, now he is doing it to JLo. Real men dont kiss and tell. Gross. I am team JLo.
It's self preservation propelled by fight or flight mentality.
Team jL
Is he taking bad about jlo? What did he say
Yeah. In that respect, he’s no better than Charlie Sheen.
Eu sou JLo
Every one forgets that Ben was once an abuser
I didn’t know that!😮
and alcoholic
Gambling addiction @@jveschi5875
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Probably still is
The hypocrisy begins when a person who doesn't want media attention decides to become a Hollywood actor.
J Lo loves attention but you have to give her credit for working so hard to get to where she is, And Ben i feel is too difficult , i dont trust his intentions and i dont know what he wants from a wife. He complained about his first wife that he wasnt happy and his drinking was a problem. I think he just needs to live by himself. And maybe he can make his self happy. I dont get him at all.
Bang on
Agree
I mean she did work hard on her knees to get her acting and music careers. Lol if you like that kind work to get ahead
Some men are just never satisfied and is always self sabotaging
Exactly jlo never changed her life is the same. He knew that!! He's been w her b4. It's not Jlo fault. It's his fault. He never understands and just a man who waste women time!!
She’s not my favorite person but Ben, WHAT A DOUCHE!
Well, not as far as saying she's my favorite but I really thinks he likes himself, & himself only. He must get himself together before getting in a relationship... why going as far as marrying J-lo again,
just give it a try again no formal commitments 😮😢
Some of these comments are so All Knowing! I don’t even believe some of the comments. Someone referred to Ben as a “philander “ wow that’s a lot!
A man who readily or frequently enters into casual sexual relationships with women; a womanizer.
Do you KNOW him personally?!? No. How do you judge someone good or bad just from the media?!? I don’t know about anyone else but I personally don’t want to live my life under such scrutiny 😢
And I really like Jen Gardner but she’s been married before too. I can’t imagine anyone knowing what all happened in all of her previous relationships.
Ben is incapable of maintaining marriage with his drinking and bachelor lifestyle. And JLo can’t be babysitting and playing mother to him forever. So this partnership is doomed.
Never fall for a guy that has recently divorced. He will be looking for a.rebpund and that will soon fade.
Gardner erkek arkadaşı ile evlenerek gölge karakter olmaktan çıkarsa iyi olur .Ben mutlu olacağı onun ruhunu iyileştirecek biri ile olmalı.
Or a man that cheated on his wife with the nanny!! Jen Garner is practically a saint!!
Mannn....Your right, but Ben dated so many people during rehab and after. He's been on a ball since his first divorce from Garner. It was never going to end well from things I saw, like that time when she was promoting her brand alcohol and drinking like it's not a thing in front of a recovering addict. It's a thing even when they say it's not a problem, and it's ok if you drink, but knowing on the inside it's a vice that's your downfall. Nope, I don't see it working. However, I wish no marriage to fail. He needs to be with someone who also practices sobriety, and he likes living a normal life. That's why he married the other Jen in the first place. He doesn't like her lifestyle. He doesn't want to go to loud BET concerts. Lol
Both of them need to take time out to be single.
@@micherylgaines9930No, not really. People forget that she was married when she met Ben while filming a movie can't remember what it was but that's when they got together and she quickly divorced the guy she was married to and got with Ben, so no JG dumped her 1st husband for Ben, he was more famous at the time I believe she may have thought she was leveling up but obviously he has addiction issues that he will always have to deal with and he's fallen off the wagon several times. It will eventually wear down a marriage and as much as JG kept holding on, it seemed Ben had long ago checked out and done with that marriage.
@@positivehighvibesx This! Garner is just as gross. She cheated on her husband Scott Foley with Michael Vartan. Then on Vartan w Ben. They're all messy
It may be a double standard, but women have to be wiser when they have custody of their kids.
She has a beautiful body and is rich, the man is not worth it, he cheated on Garner with the nanny, the children's nanny. Now he's divorcing Lopez, the man is not a man of commitment, the sad thing is he's older and it's not good for any man to be alone, Jen is latina and warm, could have taken good care of him, he wants another young nanny and freedom, so be it. Jen will keep trying, bless her...
Jen is older than Ben.
@@jayannakelley9051 I meant he is no longer young, he is a mature man.
just goes to show that marriage is more than just insatiable attraction for each other. two selfish people who are unwilling to compromise and meet in the middle will never be happy in marriage.
This is the best comment I've read
Yep and marriage is all about compromises. It’s also about not changing the person that’s growing together. It’s not about fancy dresses cars huge houses it’s about hospital stays. It’s about being there and fighting to stay together through it off. It’s about kids it’s about if you have kids, it’s all about sacrifice, which Jennifer Lopez could not do either of them could not do it.
She doesn't want a divorce
@@stacyhunt4783She doesn't want a divorce and she's been putting up with his disgusting smoking habit. Something Jen G was not putting up with. JLo even moved ther kids way across from Miami ti LA, far away from their regular schools. Ben hasn't had to be inconvenienced or lift a finger. He's acting like the spoiled brat that he is.
The only one compromising here is JLO, because she’s always been weak for this fool. He doesn’t deserve her, or any woman, until he works on himself.
These 2 are idiots for getting married again. He should have stayed with jennifer Garner and not cheated on her.
I'm happy Jen got away from him.
Why is everyone blaming her for being herself? At least she has worked hard and has stayed true to herself; however, Ben has been a damn mess his whole life!!! He is all over the place, screwed up his 1st marriage and cheated with a nanny. He’s a raging alcoholic and a chain smoker! I have noticed a pattern with him and that he’s a complete jerk. The first time they broke up he compared it to the feeling of vomit …he said, at first it feels terrible but then you feel better once you throw up and now he’s kind of using the same analogy when it comes to his relationship with JLo and it’s bunch of BS. He knew exactly what he was getting into. I feel like he just played with her emotions and completely destroyed her. She has never looked this fragile and so skinny. I don’t even recognize her anymore..I just see sadness. She used to be full of life and now it’s like looking at an empty soul..a sad sad soul….and that’s what narcissists do, they suck the life out of you!!!! I truly feel bad for her and I’m praying that she heals from this 🙏💕
She's skinny because she's doing Ozempic or some other form of weight loss drug. She can't handle getting old. Also she's the real narcissist. Keep it real.
She's skinny for the new movie Axel I think is the name.
Isn't he a big gambler too?
Jlo destroyed? I dont know her but she doesn't seem to be a sadybetty crying over a man. She probably just wanted a little hot mess drama, lol. Omg thank God that man is talented and hot . He seems to be the hot blonde bimbo in a man version.
Well she should have proceeded with caution! They are both narcissists. Now she knows how it feels considering she ended her last three marriages
Hay por favor, este hombre simplemente no ssbe lo que es valorar a una mujer, a su primera esposa la traiciona con la niñera, luego sale con la de Armas y decía lo mismo x que ella estaba en el tope de su carrera y él no podia soportar que ella llamara la atencion más que él, JLo nunca fue ni sará una mujer fácil, pero este hombre definitivamente es un ser infeliz, manipulador y egocéntrico que luego se quiere hacer la victima en lugar de madurar de una buena vez
Totalmente de acuerdo.
Ele precisa restar solo... És um pobre hombre rico 😱
Haci es la cosa.
Si
Thank you for not blaming the woman, who seems to be obliged (according to the society) to give up her life, career and herself to adapt to a spoiled man, who will let her down anyway in the end...
Don't put your marriage on the media it's that simple she should have known better
Is not about her marriage being on social media. Is just something beyond we the viewers.
Happy for the wonderful Jennifer Garner! Free from this shiteshow!
Is that why she keeps visiting him at his rental home without her kids??🤔😳🤣😂
I feel that JLo "needs" the media attention for self-validation and a man as an escape from looking within herself. Ben "avoids" the media because it calls attention to his many demons and "needs" a woman as escape from looking within himself. They have their flaws, like every human. I hope they both get the help they need to find genuine peace, love and happiness within themselves. Perhaps that will lead them to making better choices going forward. Sending them both love.❤🙏
Amen
Ben has been an embarrassment. He doesn't take responsibility. He doesn't accept his wrong. This man has an addiction to gambling. And addiction to medicated drugs. He does drugs. This man is an embarrassment, and the truth is gonna come out and I feel sorry for Jennifer Lopez. Because everybody's putting her as the horrible one. When she's worked very hard for everything she's got and all he wanted was to use. The he used it for his premiere in Paris and Italy. I mean, this guy is an idiot. J lo needs to move on
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Agree, she must move on and stay single while figuring out herself. Someday she will meet someone who values her ,and you know, if she never does, that is also okay.
I agree too, she needs to just let it go n be alone for a while
Yup I think you got it right! Everyone feeling sorry for Ben and blaming JLo but this is a grown man who knew what her lifestyle is like and yet he persued her. Also Ben has addictive personality that factor's in the choices he makes which have been reckless. He really needs time to work on himself and JLo needs to do the same as she jumps from one relationship to another and her children have to be affected by all the men she has coming in/out of their lives. It creates instability and will cause issues for her kids as they get older and that's how generational cycles patterns get passed down. Ben comes from alcoholic father (possibly other family members have addiction issue's too I believe), it's clearly still affecting him and he really needs to focus on that and heal. They were both drawn towards each other due to love but it's obvious both have their own issues to work on so that's also why we tend to get drawn to certain people as we have certain issues within ourselves to deal with. It's like they are mirroring their core issues back at one another for it to click that they are obviously dealing with issues that are needing ti be dealt with. If they can work on themselves, it maybe possible to salvage marriage but they both have a lot of work on themselves and it's not easy but comes with it's rewards at the end.
I think it’s clear to everyone that JLO is smart and driven and Ben is a has been who’s just unhappy, no matter who he’s with.
He woke up from a "Fever Dream". That would be a great name for a movie.
He’s full of 💩
WTF is a Fever Dream sounds stupid. 🙄 lol
He is gross for saying that.
Brutal😂
But he knew who he married!🤷♀️
Yes he did! And he even said that's what he admired about her..her hard work..her continued efforts in face of racial adversities..not to give up! He knew exactly what he was getting when he asked her back into his life!!!!
The man is confused
He sounds so stupid and immature
He looked so miserable from day 1. He should have stopped it from moving forward. He should be a single dude and she will just bounce from man to man. Maybe she will realize it is ok to be alone for 2 minutes.
Ela busca o amor e deve continuar tentando
Not going to happen. She will be living with a man or married again within 2 to 3 years. SHE IS A SERIAL MARRYER!
She is a hard working woman.
If this is true, let's let them both heal. Remember both have feelings & family. Which one of us hasn't had challenges, hurts & pain whether caused or naturally. Godspeed to all.
That’s so disrespectful to publicly humiliate her like that
He also made disparaging comments about his previous marriage
The reason he titled the book he gave her "the Greatest Love Story Never Told" is because it was supposed to never be told. It was a book of their 20+ year *secret* feelings and relationship. Containing his and her personally intimate communications and private secrets about themselves and each other, and their personal private business, left lying around the studio like a magazine for casual reading by anyone. Those secrets were between two people, *two* . Some of what is revealed affects not only Ben and how he feels but also the feelings of their others: their former spouses, their children, etc..
He wasn't trying to stop JLo from being an artist, he was just trying to be romantic and loving in saving it all and making the gift for her but being respectfully discreet about it. Being the muse and inspiring her creativity is one thing, and I bet is all good by Ben, wonderful even, but I agree with Ben that she crossed a line. That's a deal breaker, imho. This is a special level of self-absorbed, imho. She gave zero about how Ben or anyone else would feel, is how it seems to me.
Yea I agree.. im a JLo fan but she should have never put that personal stuff out that was meant to be for just her n Ben.. she could have used the letters to inspire Her music without putting it all out there .. I dont know what possessed her to do that .. Maybe she felt like she needed to prove to everyone that he really loves her cuz he embarassed her back in the day
Truest comment on here. She’s so self absorbed with ZERO self awarenesss and little care to his feelings about anything. Yes he knew she’s media hungry and craved the spotlight and attention but he probably hoped she might compromise a bit on things if she truly loved him. In which turn I believe he would’ve been willing to compromise and be a little more open with the attention she seeks from media and fans. But thennnn…she went and totally destroyed trust by not only not keeping that book private but making it into some big extravagant tell all of their lives. And he tried to get her not to do it. Of course she could care less about his feelings on the matter. So…now she’s got herself another dee-vorce in the works.
But he could have told her, no. In the documentary it feels like they were already starting to write for the album. But that’s one thing, the whole making a movie or documentary was another. And if he wasn’t comfortable with that, he should have spoken up.
@@lfuentes4098 when he realized, then he did. She could have ( should have imho) pulled the plug on it but she brushed it off, ignored it, She did the same with Jane Fonda's advice against continuing
Beautifully said! He’s rather blatant about the fact that he never wanted people just thumbing thru their deep feelings and thoughts of TWENTY YEARS!!! I can’t believe she even has the clip of Ben finding out about that and the “Pen Affleck” yet then has a clip of her boppinglika little HS’er with her gf’s at a sleepover and saying “Yeah I just keep it in the studio and people can go thru it.” Like .. DID YOU NOT hear what YOUR HUSBAND just said??? Yeah, but you just didn’t care …
Ben seems to show signs of a Gemini....split personality and changes on a dime. He had a more passive life with Jennifer and he was miserable there too!
Ben was just like a teenage boy with hormones all over the place. He knew what he was getting into.she is a star what did u expect??
No. She is an AGING star. She is a Norma Desmond.
He knew how J Lo was with the press and all before he married her people try to change people, and you cannot
Nobody could love Jennifer Lopez as much as she loves herself
Lopaz got dumped 20 years ago and it killed her pride and ego!!! That's why this time he married her was a huge ego trip telling the world " Look world I'm very desirable after all. I got my prize after 20 years; ain't I ms wonderful ??? That's why in all the pics ya see them slobbering on each other!! It was to show YOU" hahaha. I got my man after all be cause I'm soooo sexy and desirable!;" She felt if she tried her best to control Ben and insist he love their fake life he could learn to be happy with her way!!! He finally woke up; he's fed up playing the role.
Good take on things
Is that why he was sending her emails & love letters the past 20 years they were apart & with other partners?? No this is on HIM..not HER! HE USED HER 2ND TIME AROUND. HE'S A LOSER!!! F... you like she said!
She dumped him....not the other way round
Add to that, she raced into this marriage straight from A-rod and the cheating rumors surrounding him in their relationship. He was not going to marry her AND he was apparently cheating so she ran straight to Ben and immediately married him. She wasn’t over ARod yet.
If he actually leaves her…I genuinely hope people realize what a POS he really is.
No one loves jlo like jlo
Exaaaaactly!!!!!
Good for her!!
Yes you are right….that is self love ❤️
Best comment
Some people don’t like confident and empowered women
He's so toxic. Been married to an alcoholic before, and it was sooo hard. People with that kind of issues usually are so selfish. Irritable, and volatile. Jen, gurl, run ASAP. You don't need a king to be the queen you already are❤
What horrible people you all are, Ben is a hopeless person, selfish cruel and again he's let her down
How long have you personally known him to be equipped to boldly sneer at a bunch of strangers with opinions? Oh wait, right, you DON'T know him any better than anyone else so please allow others to offer their opinions without some stranger bashing them because she doesn't agree. Thank you, The YT Managers.
@@9teen9t4 so it's alright for you to trash JENNIFER but I don't have a right to give an opinion????? How long have you known them????
I believe Ben is concerned about his children. He is a good father, but Jennifer is exploiting their marriage. So much falsehoods on Jennifer's side. Give the man a break.
The Diddy unfolding was not good either.
Another man that waste women's time!!! He knew Jlo before all of this!! He married her for money not love in my opinion. Ain't nothing changed about Jlo!! She's the same person minus the children. I feel sorry for her!! I know she's been married more than once. At moment in time. It's all the men fault not hers! I thought it might be her a little 🤔 but maybe. But she still remained the same. Ben Ain't happy with anyone. He should b alone!! N leave us sane women alone!! Don't drive us insane and crazy like he have done! He's a sad man if he divorce her or causes her to divorce him.
You two women should be women advocates . It is so sickening to hear you disrespect JLO. How could you criticize a woman who works so hard to get where she is now while this man has been nothing but a train wreck. Stop blaming & putting down women, period!
She's a snobby Diva with mediocre talent, just because she's a woman doesn't mean she deserves our respect.
I hope he doesn't try to take her money either
He doesn’t need her money. He’s got plenty of his own. Jus sayin…
@@detrafranks9325she's worth 3 times what he has! And him blaming her for some type of mental abuse (insanity) might be a plot to prove this against her. He needs to support 3 kids through college..lots of money going to Garner. Yea..at his age he better be working his ass off the next 10 years to pay for all this. I wouldn't put it past him to try to sue her for something. I don't know if Cali is a no fault state when it comes to dissolving a marriage?
He is rich beyond anyone’s wildest dreams. He DOES NOT need her money. GET REAL..
Jlo sis ain’t nothing out here Pooh 🤝🏾✌🏽
Um I'm sorry, is Affleck not wildly more famous than Jennifer Lopez has....ever been? This show sucks
No, he’s not. Lol. Lopez is way more global.
This show does not suck.
What ??? Jlo has hit movies and hit songs...
I actually didn't know who Ben was until he started dating Jlo. Both of them suck though.
Ben affleck is definitely as famous as Jlow and it’s bc he has actual talent. He most certainly did not need Jennifer Lopez to make him more famous. And more so than that he doesn’t care about being famous. She does.
Men are infatuated with her.And after a few months they realise real life with J Lo isn't so easy.
Ben is a miserable drunk, who does not need to be cause he has so many great qualities
That was kinda mean to do this twice...
Fool me once blame on you fool me twice shame on me. Ben has no excuse
Ben is the common denominator in both failed relationships. He is the problem😊
Have you forgotten about the multitude of relationships on JLo’s part? 😂 this is her 4the marriage 😂
He was having a midlife crisis for years and was in limerence with JLo. So yeah I believe that quote 💯. He woke up and is now smelling the coffee, hence why he's moved closer to his ex Jen Garner. She was true love. The grass is not greener 💯
O gerçek aşk mı bilmem ,ben için gardner ikinci anne figürü sanırım. Bu adamın oidipus kompleksini atlatması,ne istediğini bulması gerek .
She’s moved on & won’t be taking him back & is worried if he & Jlo divorce he’ll go back to drinking & she’ll have to pick up the pieces again!
Nah...that man's true love is himself.
He cheated on Jennifer Garner with the nanny. So he didn't want her either. He has a problem.
Maybe A Time Out On Both Sides Would Be Good.People Divorce Too Easily These Days.
It wasn’t insanity. Ben was being shallow and selfish. It’s a clear pattern of poor decision making. Gardner better not take him back. She probably had to deal with a lot of emotional instability from Ben.
Jlo is probably a nightmare to be around. Ben just wants to be normal but unfortunately unless he becomes a recluse that won’t happen.
He's an alcoholic. You can be certain that he's a 'nightmare to be around' too.
Exactly@@lostwoods5687
@@lostwoods5687 yeah he’s moodier than a woman on a bad period, but all the time not just once a month!
You don't live with them to say that it must be a nightmare living with her.
He never look happy is something wrong with him
I never thought she should have married him. He does not ah e good character. But I am STILL rooting for them. ❤
They were engaged long ago but never married. He didn’t remarry anyone
Jennifer is an egotistical narcissistic diva. common knowledge. but he is selfish and always seems unhappy. neither one of them should get married again.
Ben, is Ben's biggest problem. He wasn't happy in a "normal" marriage, and isn't happy in this one.
Until he becomes happy with himself, he'll never be truly happy with anyone else.
Could not hv said it Better !!! I was thinking the exact thing !! Until he makes himself completely happy & is HAPPY WITH HIMSELF !! He can never be happy !!!
Age wise he is a grown man. It seems he wants to be married and live like a single man. He first broke up with JLO for his drinking and gambling. He then cheated on Garner with the nanny and drinking. When she's fine without him he pursues JLO and marries her. Now he sees Jennifer Garner fine without him and he's back to her. He stays away enough from the media because he knows the public mostly blames the woman so he doesn't have to account for his actions. He not only needs rehab but to remain single and stop messing with these ladies who work hard for their careers and in love.
Neverfall for a guy that had recently divorced.He is now definitely looking for another divorced since j.Garner still around for Ben...JLo you need a man better than him find someone who will love you more than you love him and you will be happy🙏
Before loving someone else, how about taking the time to really love yourself first? She should try it. It wouldn’t hurt.
@@carmenpowell9728amen!!! The woman definitely has self-esteem issues, which is made obvious by the fact that she needs constant attention from the paparazzi/public & has to stay relevant!!! I’m pretty sure her biggest fear in life besides aging is no longer getting all the attention that her stardom has brought her for sooo many years!!! She needs therapy & has for a while now - to truly learn to love herself!!! And prepare herself for when the spotlight on her begins to lessen, being she in her mid 50’s now!!!!
They separated in 2015 & divorced 2018. I don't call that recent!! He was with Ana de Armas before Jlo.
Jlo ditched her ARod engagement to marry Ben lol. She didn’t even have time to breathe between the two. If anything she’s the one with the problem.
@@DeeLite220 She definitely is the one with the problem!!!
No man has ever been able to put up with that Mega narcissist JLo. for very long.
Mark Anthony lasted the longest but even he gave up.
Ben didn’t get therapy about his problem with the media?
It's unbearable to watch Lopez.
Who said he wanted to strip it away from her n btw shes old....old... its time to grow up n stop being an attention W
He should have stayed with Jen Garner if he wanted little media attention
She was given the chance , she didnt work to hard for it. Her family has/had money when she grew up despite her saying different. She went to private school and parents paid for her to get auditions and favors for her......, she is not and has never been just "jen from the block".
JLow has POWER & CONTROL issues.
What??? Jlow is crass,high maintenance. She needs to be under the microscope. Ben is private. A talented actor,writer,director with Oscar's .He made a flighty decision.She doesn't understand privacy.
He just wants to have someone but doesn’t want to put in the work to keep a relationship.
I don't know her says Mariah Carey
Who cares what miss PIGGY, has to say.
@@aureliaperaza1659 😆😆😆
Jennifer Lopez needs to quit. That is all she wants is to stay relevant.
Let's not forget....Garner divorced her husband for Ben....committed adultery...
And thought her life was moving on to greener
Pastures!!
😂😂😂😂😂
Jennifer just seems so insufferable.
I'm Sure She's Very Hard to Live With..She Has To Be #1 Without Paparazzi !! Whatever Ben Wants Is His Right Also ! Don't put him Down..You Dont Know Everything... Dealing With all That Is Insane, I'm Sure..Do You Ben ! Your Fabulous ! 😊⚘️
Jen needs to take a 2 yr. "Vacation/stay out of the media." Then maybe she could make a career comeback. She has over saturated the media. We are very tired of her.! 🥴
Jlo is getting old... sorry!
If there was someone who absolutely 100% knew exactly who he was marrying, it's Ben Affleck.
Didn't Jennifer Garner (ex wife) help Ben through sobriety?!?
Why would he leave her, and i don't understand why she's involved in trying to help them heal.
JG seems to be the one he should have stayed with and never had looked back when it didn't qork the first time.
If they comw back doesn't always mean, it's meant to be.
TBH I don't even know how he ended up marrying Jennifer Gardner because She is an arrogant, obnoxious Entitled unworldly racist with Artificial-fake-"Nice-girl personality/persona where Ben regardless of his shortcomings is a genuinely a nice person with many personal problems yet Humanitarian fights against hatred and ignorance in this world and well educated unlike both uneducated Jennifers but Gardner is the worst! Typical Karen.
And I'm so glad his children took after him so at least he is good dad like his brother too.
Ben cheated on Jennifer G with their kids' nanny and was also drunk all the time. It wouldn't surprise me if Garner kicked Ben out after putting her through all that. I certainly wouldn't want him back.
Jennifer garner fit s better
He s not glam orientated
Jennifer Garner got away; good for her! Ben Affleck wants to live like a bachelor; so he ain’t gonna be happy with anyone.
I don't like J Lo, but Ben... Come on, man. You knew what you were getting into, you had already been there!!! What did he expect?
Maybe he got tired of her wearing fur from animals that were clubbed to death
She doesn't give a 💩. What a narcissist. She also doesn't care about her kids.
She shouldn’t have done essentially a press tour after they got married answering all kinds of questions about him and she should’ve stopped posting videos and photos of them after she posted abt their wedding to commemorate it. The first time they dated, they went through excessive press that they claim gave them PTSD. But Jennifer went and still talked openly about them rather than keeping stuff private when they got back together like what? You don’t see Eva Mendes and Ryan doing that. You gotta protect what you have from the vultures that are the media and bitter femcels and incels in the public that wanna see you fail. I mean they would’ve gotten rumors and press whether she answered questions abt them and posted abt him or not but to this extent? We might not be seeing it to this level had she not brought him to every single event and kept things more private. She values the attention seemingly more than peace. And Ben definitely doesn’t like the attention so she should’ve compromised. Who knows if this is true or not bc the reality is he is also filming the sequel to The Accountant and he could be living elsewhere to “get into character,” who knows.
You can tell Ben is very unhappy, just by looking at his eyes. Very, very, unhappy.😒
The common denominator between the two Jens and both failed marriages is Ben. Nuff said.
YOU PEOPLE NEED TO SHUT UP AND MIND YOUR OWN DAM BUSINESS
JLo is a selfish, narcissist, diva. Ben is more down to earth. No wonder he can't stand it.
Ben is an alcoholic narcissist 🙄 theyre well suited.
No she's isn't! Ben is the epitome of selfish narcissism always blaming the other for his insecurities & unhappiness. Ben never learned how to be happy. He had a terrible childhood. He needs a whole lot of treatment & self love.
@@jeanrita4618 they are both messed up. JLo is notorious for getting people fired at a whimand having a stuck up attitude. If you don't think so go work for her.
m and having a stuck
@@user-gs7hj6pf8r did it happen to you?
It takes two; one who is narcissistic and blaming, and one who didn’t have the boundaries to put workable agreements in place to manage the almost inevitable with someone who couldn’t handle themselves. Who is doing the blaming right now?
These two young ladies have made the most sense on commenting about Ben and jlo …
Most people, no matter who they are, usually realize by his age that they have to grow up. Sometimes, that takes being alone, doing some deep thinking, possibly having therapy. It's called maturing.
His picture is on Jeffrey Epstein Island 🏝️
At least he could afford to go
Ben went to Epstein’s island? OMG!
All you have to do is compare his pictures with Garner vs Lopez.
He made a mistake marrying jlo I just can't stand her
Jlo has worked hard to be Jlo !! You can’t just strip that away from her ! And Ben, is just temporary insanity! Way to go , for being young ladies, very very wise !
He’d be happy with a pack of cigarettes, he’s full of issues 🤷🏽♀️
And she is what?
@@natmac8378... A narcissistic witch