Khawaten Apni Khushi Ka Khayal Khud Rakhay || Life Changing Bayan || Muhammad Ali

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  • Опубліковано 9 бер 2023
  • Bismillahir Rahmanir Rahim
    Topic :Khawaten Apni Khushi Ka Khayal Khud Rakhay
    Speaker :Muhammad Ali
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 194

  • @hamzashahbaz4499
    @hamzashahbaz4499 Рік тому +1

    JazzakaAllah

  • @madihafaizan81
    @madihafaizan81 Рік тому +51

    In my opinion husband usually feel so insecure to have a wife who is independent, free thinker and giver.... so an insecure husband can never bear a Happy wife... sad but true

  • @tarannumara9997
    @tarannumara9997 Рік тому +9

    Allah ne mujhe bacha liya. Allah ka shukar hai mujhe aese ghar me jane se bacha liya. Hurt hui hu bohot and going through with a very difficult time but I started realising Allah mera dil abhi tod ke abhi rula ke zindagi bhar ke rone se bacha raha hai.

  • @shaukamalik3057
    @shaukamalik3057 Рік тому +1

    Supperb . Maza a geya . Muhammad ali zindabad

  • @foodtrending09
    @foodtrending09 Рік тому +1

    Aoa.... Waaaao jzaak Allah 🤲🤲🤲🤲 sister jiyo hazaron saal...

  • @sajidamehmood1152
    @sajidamehmood1152 Рік тому +1

    Zabardast

  • @HairMAKEOVER-jv9cm
    @HairMAKEOVER-jv9cm Рік тому +1

    Mohammed ali bhai ki sabse badi neki jo gair mehram k samne bhi bahot tarike se hote h

  • @amrarizvi4138
    @amrarizvi4138 Рік тому +5

    Jazak ALLAH

  • @aishasaira5467
    @aishasaira5467 Рік тому +26

    Actually, everyone is responsible for their own happiness, Do not give the key to your happiness to someone's pocket. Happiness comes from inside of you. it is called the art of living well.

    • @madimughal9027
      @madimughal9027 Рік тому

      Bit what to do when other by planning and play bad politics at home.. And they create problems in your life

  • @shahidashahbaz5533
    @shahidashahbaz5533 Рік тому +2

    Zabardust❤

  • @nadeembutt4269
    @nadeembutt4269 Рік тому +2

    Yas sister ❤️ true

  • @adifansri9023
    @adifansri9023 Рік тому +1

    Mashaalla as
    Hibat

  • @shabanashaikh7867
    @shabanashaikh7867 Рік тому +5

    Masha Allah 🌷 🌷 🌷

  • @aafreenjahan3074
    @aafreenjahan3074 Рік тому +17

    skin care and self care us very important for all of us..ghar ke kaamo ke saath bacho ke husband ke kaamo. ke saath hi saath khud ka khyl rakhna is also very important. ...

    • @UmeAhmed786
      @UmeAhmed786 6 днів тому

      And little change make big difference❤

  • @nazraquran7526
    @nazraquran7526 Рік тому +1

    Bhut Acha 👍

  • @NaheedKanwal.
    @NaheedKanwal. Рік тому +27

    This bayan,,,,, changed my life. I was too much upset due to some reason, this video had given me answers of my questions.
    JAZAKALLAH

  • @masratkhan7913
    @masratkhan7913 Рік тому +7

    Ya allah mujha hidayat kar de aameen 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 plz dua for me

  • @raheelanaveed5495
    @raheelanaveed5495 Рік тому +1

    Jazaakallaj very nice explained and good suggestions of books

  • @fatimamasoodi7606
    @fatimamasoodi7606 Рік тому +2

    Great! No words... from India 🇮🇳

  • @hussancheema2404
    @hussancheema2404 Рік тому +1

    Wha g wha mashallah

  • @anlearnersgroup
    @anlearnersgroup Рік тому +2

    smart women . Allah Pak aap ko bht khush rahke. Ameen

  • @NoorFatima-gt1vt
    @NoorFatima-gt1vt Рік тому +1

    Jazakallah ❤

  • @ambergulkhan6056
    @ambergulkhan6056 Рік тому +3

    Outstanding
    Correct way to resolve all home and matrimonial issues

  • @tahirimran6973
    @tahirimran6973 Рік тому +2

    Gooooood

  • @homemaker181
    @homemaker181 Рік тому +2

    You are true, we should be responsible for our own happiness
    I have seen many women who are so disrespected by their husband because they let them insult their self, we should speak for ourselves in a respectful manner, like u said like this I don't like ur voice tone your word... He will listen it, might be he says I don't care, but they do care
    Talk talk and talk about your feeling instead of complaining
    Apko bij bona hai mohabbat ka us ko pani Dena hai, Allah use harabhara kardega

  • @Voiceoflife275
    @Voiceoflife275 Рік тому +6

    Masha Allah nice information

  • @m.subhanafridi82
    @m.subhanafridi82 Рік тому +3

    Bhot hi khob words

  • @ayatshahzaib
    @ayatshahzaib Рік тому +1

    SubhanAllah SubhanAllah MasaAllah 😢😢😢😢😚😚🌷⚘🌷⚘🌷⚘🌷🌷🌷⚘🌼⚘🌷⚘🌷⚘🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷⚘

  • @Muskankhan-xq3lk
    @Muskankhan-xq3lk Рік тому +2

    Allhamdolillha shubhanallha AAP ne bahan bahut hi achi bat batai agar sabhi betiyo bahuo ye dimak is bat par gor kare too har ghar me sakon mil jae jazzak allha kher 👍👍🥰🥰

  • @w2sjuniors916
    @w2sjuniors916 Рік тому +1

    Great

  • @MuhammadNaeem-kz2xs
    @MuhammadNaeem-kz2xs Рік тому +1

    SubhanaAllah bhot achi batain hain

  • @mahwishaslam1700
    @mahwishaslam1700 Рік тому +9

    we are not free for doing our decisions ourselfs

  • @mubeenaaziz8706
    @mubeenaaziz8706 Рік тому +2

    Subhan allah masha allah you are great person

  • @salmanahmad1853
    @salmanahmad1853 Рік тому +4

    Ma Sha Allah ❣️

  • @sajiyakhan4237
    @sajiyakhan4237 Рік тому +4

    Mashallah I need this type of video mashallah 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @heenafarheen6778
    @heenafarheen6778 Рік тому +1

    Jazakallahu khair

  • @creativeeshaalalig8255
    @creativeeshaalalig8255 Рік тому +1

    Jaberdast❤

  • @arifaahsan3257
    @arifaahsan3257 Рік тому +1

    Excellent job by good speaker

  • @thediversedlife
    @thediversedlife Рік тому +1

  • @samiraazeem1938
    @samiraazeem1938 Рік тому +14

    MashaAllah.. you have highlighted very strong points

  • @nasbaz5313
    @nasbaz5313 Рік тому +7

    Thought provoking words… JazakAllahukhair….beneficial talk👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
    Stay blessed and happy Aameen 💐

  • @aimran4961
    @aimran4961 Рік тому +7

    It’s all about mindset

  • @lyallpurcooker
    @lyallpurcooker Рік тому +1

    Ji bilkul hum har kam maen mard pr depend krty hain

  • @sajidashahzad8932
    @sajidashahzad8932 Рік тому +1

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @chamanfokeerbux5385
    @chamanfokeerbux5385 Рік тому +1

    Bs mera kehna ye hai husband loving caring hav to respectabal each other understandng that's all so life is going well and life as feel jannah ❤

  • @afzalsheikh1285
    @afzalsheikh1285 Рік тому +6

    Apne apko qabil banao har koi apki qadar karega

  • @ramzantalha8938
    @ramzantalha8938 Рік тому +1

    Ali Bhai hasband to BOHt bari naimat he Allah ka shukar he my Hasband is a great and nice partner life .bt others people hmri life ko q dissyrub krty han hm on sy koi avoid b nai kr sakty .

  • @tazmeenfatima8866
    @tazmeenfatima8866 Рік тому +3

    She is really a gem

  • @haniartstudio355
    @haniartstudio355 Рік тому +2

    Hats off

  • @AfreenishCh-ce1kr
    @AfreenishCh-ce1kr Рік тому +11

    When u mention name of any book in your discussion plz mention that book name in description as well

  • @sajidashahzad8932
    @sajidashahzad8932 Рік тому +1

    👏👏👏

  • @nighatyasmin5851
    @nighatyasmin5851 Рік тому +6

    100 batoon Ki Aik baat hy kh Aik doosrey Ki respect krtey rahein...kuchh bhi ho jaey hr soorat respect KernI chaheiey

    • @UmeAhmed786
      @UmeAhmed786 6 днів тому

      Respect is core for any relationship

  • @raheelaasmat2985
    @raheelaasmat2985 Рік тому +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @aqsatariq51
    @aqsatariq51 Рік тому +1

    Very nice 👍 👌

  • @heenafarheen6778
    @heenafarheen6778 Рік тому +2

    I need this type of videos

  • @nighatyasmin5851
    @nighatyasmin5851 Рік тому +16

    Husband Ager mushkil mein sath na de tu us k Husband honey ka faieda

  • @aishafatima362
    @aishafatima362 Рік тому +3

    Mard bhe upni khushi ka khud khayal rakhen,phir wife me sukoon and demand na rakhen.

  • @Run332
    @Run332 Рік тому +23

    This talk actually triggered me and made me angry. When you have to giveup everything for a person your friends ,family , career and even country, You can not make your own decision you can not even go to takecare of your sick parents if it does not suit him. Everything you do has to suite him otherwise you are" disrupting your home" what space are you left with to make yourself happy ? skin care and your favorite food ???( and you will have to cook something else too since he doesnt like that). You can not give everything and expect nothing but food and roof over your head in return.

    • @amnarafique5997
      @amnarafique5997 Рік тому +1

      😢 true

    • @Familydr
      @Familydr Рік тому +3

      My dear i feel your pain .That means you are in a toxic relation.The idea she is giving is for a normal relation.

    • @Run332
      @Run332 Рік тому +4

      Beleive me 80 percent of relationships are toxic. I am better of than majority . He is resposible, atleast my mother inlaw does not get to decide how we should and shouldnt live as limited as the freedom is i can chose what to cook and how I Should parent my childern, there arw women out there who do not even have that luxury ( meri ma nai khush tum sy chalo ab mae bhi seedhy munh nahi karon ga bat.) what she says applies to a very few women who can do whatever they want but are sulking ky miyan ny valentine day pae phool kiyon nai diye ya birthday kiyon bhool gaya.

    • @faizafarhan3401
      @faizafarhan3401 Рік тому

      I totally agree with u... A highly impractical n nonsensical advice...

    • @mahnazshahzad
      @mahnazshahzad Рік тому

      Yes this is not any solution just talk

  • @arso2968
    @arso2968 Рік тому

    Burdening naih shining star

  • @cathazzlewithkittens
    @cathazzlewithkittens Рік тому +1

    ❤🎉

  • @reshmashaikh6501
    @reshmashaikh6501 Рік тому +1

    The surrendered
    Wife - book is recommended in this clip

  • @arifana3590
    @arifana3590 Рік тому +6

    Aurat apni Khushi ki khayal rakh nahi sakti kyu usaka khayal rakhne wala sirf Allaha hai .allaha ke siva hame kuch nahi chahiye.apana pura waqt allaha ki ibadat meh guzardu aur iss duniya meh farayiz hai useh nibha lu.

  • @murmur3970
    @murmur3970 Рік тому +2

    Marriage is a two way relationship

  • @nsgoldjewel
    @nsgoldjewel Рік тому

    Sahi

  • @rabiamunawar7270
    @rabiamunawar7270 Рік тому +3

    But some men dont like women to b happy , they feel their authority is waning.
    Also when women try to b happy by themselves and give space then some men they make even less effort to do things for her.

  • @MagicAlphabetTV
    @MagicAlphabetTV Рік тому +9

    Ghar me saas sasur nanad dewar Jeth bhanja bhanji sabki khidmat khana se paani kapra se sab kuchh kare Bahu phir bhi Ghar walo ki taraf se yahi jawab sunne ke liye milta h ye karti hi kya h

  • @aqsag9944
    @aqsag9944 Рік тому +3

    Nice information. Plz share the miss name.I want to listen her

  • @fatimaakram1767
    @fatimaakram1767 Рік тому +27

    The lady said "Allah k Rasool ﷺ ko maz Allah samajh hi nahi aa rahi thi...!!!
    Are these correct words to say about Rasool Allah ﷺ… He (ﷺ) is a sagacious person. He(ﷺ) know how to deal with the affairs..
    See your words.

    • @djdjdjd3174
      @djdjdjd3174 Рік тому +2

      U r right ...byadabi Sy bachna chaye....

    • @firdousfirdous6778
      @firdousfirdous6778 Рік тому

      May be emotions me bol gae hn.but u r 100 percent right

    • @kushiali6578
      @kushiali6578 Рік тому +5

      What is disrespect in this??? Prophet صلی اللہ علیہ وآلہ وسلم always waited for revelation to come so things get cleared for him he didn't have علم الغيب and u can find out this at many places in his life when he delayed his decisions and did the رجوع الى الله through Salah and Dua and did istikhara to take better decision.

    • @tinglingbois3904
      @tinglingbois3904 Рік тому

      Style ka Thora khayal krain bola estarha ha jasay Kisi bhi amm shakhs k leay boltay hain k inko samajh hi NAHI arahi thi

    • @shaherbanosayyed4228
      @shaherbanosayyed4228 Рік тому

      U are absolutely right

  • @msayyam92
    @msayyam92 2 місяці тому

    ,jan ertty k shaar bhroone mook ha us ka islm m kha mokmm ha

  • @Mahi_b600
    @Mahi_b600 Рік тому

    A. o. a

  • @Bintehameedofficial
    @Bintehameedofficial Рік тому

    Seerat 100 sahabiaat darulbalagh publishers

  • @nadrashahzadi7967
    @nadrashahzadi7967 Рік тому +9

    مردوں k دل boht چھوٹے ہوتے ہیں وہ کبھی بھی اپنی بیوی کی خوشی کوئی معنی نہیں رکھتی

  • @shaherbanosayyed4228
    @shaherbanosayyed4228 Рік тому +1

    Sab bol rahe h nice words nice video
    Didn't anyone realise disrespecting of our prophet s.a.w.?
    Her words...maazAllaj...unko kuch smjh nhi aa raha tha..
    Are these correct words?
    Ye kaisa Islam phelana chah rahe hai?

  • @aishariffat9657
    @aishariffat9657 Рік тому +6

    پاکستان میں شوہر ،عورت کی شناخت کی دھجیاں بکھیر دیتے ہیں

  • @taybafarooqui1770
    @taybafarooqui1770 Рік тому +6

    How can a married woman take her decisions itself? Whereas she has to follow her husband's sayings.

  • @princesheikh94
    @princesheikh94 Рік тому +1

    Jis book la btya hy wo net sy mil sakti hy ? Us ka koi link mil sakta hy

  • @annabiakhankhan5802
    @annabiakhankhan5802 Рік тому +1

    Yi full video kaha sy milayga???
    Please🙏

  • @autocorrect.
    @autocorrect. Рік тому +1

    I second I'd named Madiha Faizan answer so much and ask Muhammad Ali Bhai to seek answer how to be happy for those wives who are trapped in a marriage with a husband who doesn't want you to be in independent mode

  • @rapunzel609
    @rapunzel609 Рік тому +1

    Full lecture link plz?

  • @Imrankhan-tl3rn
    @Imrankhan-tl3rn Рік тому +5

    book name please sir

  • @amberkhalid3515
    @amberkhalid3515 Рік тому

    Jin ka husband Narcissist ho wo kiya karain .

  • @ruballaila5521
    @ruballaila5521 Рік тому +1

    Aesi khwab ka kia mtlb hoga plzzzz btay ali bhai

  • @noshabaw
    @noshabaw Рік тому +11

    I disagree, men like dépendant women that’s why social norms are against those women who take their own decisions. Ideally, theoretically you are right, but in our society such kind of women are not considered ACHHI Aurat.

  • @ayeshasadiq4486
    @ayeshasadiq4486 Рік тому +1

    When u mention book name..plz mention its writer also

  • @ANWAR_KAMAL
    @ANWAR_KAMAL Рік тому

    Kya ye online mangva sakty hn

  • @sahameed
    @sahameed Рік тому +2

    Can anyone write the suggested book names and links to buy to get everyone benefit from it.
    Jazakallahu khair

  • @LoveAllahMuhammad-786
    @LoveAllahMuhammad-786 Рік тому

    Allah rabbul alameen har ladki ke naseeb acha kare ameen rabbul alameen mujhe toh yeh sab dekhar shaadi se hi darr lagne laga hai news mein bhi aise aise incidents dekhne ko milte hai astagfirullahu azeem
    Dua kare mere liye hum tamam girls ke liye unko life partner in laws ache mile
    Ameen rabbul alameen
    BarakAllahu feek
    Jazakallahu khairan

    • @aafreenjahan3074
      @aafreenjahan3074 Рік тому +2

      Allah paak dunya ke tamam logo ko or aapko bhi nek hamsafar de ameen sumameen yarabbul Aalameen.

    • @aafreenjahan3074
      @aafreenjahan3074 Рік тому

      aap Daro nhi frustration to hota he thoda sa darr lgta he Shaadi ko lekr but yaad rakhiye. . An nikaah min sunnati. ..nikaah sunnat he is baat ko dhyan me rakhiye na har mard ek se hote he or na hi har aurat ek si hoti he. .Quran me likha he ki nek Mardo ke liye nek aurte he or nek aurto ke liye nek mard so bs khud ko durst krne me lg jaye in shaa Allah aapko behtreen se nawaza jaega in shaa Allah plz apni khaas Duao me yaad rkhna behan mjhe bhi Allah paak hm sbki or aapki bhi tamam beemari or pareshaniyo ko dur krde or hm sbko huzoor paak ki sunnato pr amal krne wala bnade or mere saare masle hal krde AMEEN SUMAMEEN yarabbul Aalameen

    • @LoveAllahMuhammad-786
      @LoveAllahMuhammad-786 Рік тому

      @Aafreen Jahan inshaAllah Ameen Allah Rabbul Alameen 💖💖💖💖💖
      Thank you sister motivate karne ke liye
      BarakAllahu feek my sister
      Allah bless you my sister
      Jazakallahu khairan my dear sister.
      Assalamualaikum wa rahmat ullahi wa barkatahu

    • @aafreenjahan3074
      @aafreenjahan3074 Рік тому

      @@LoveAllahMuhammad-786 plz say jazakillahu khairan kaseeran to girls and jazakallahu khairan kaseera to boys instead of saying thanks plz and share this information to others too it will sadqa e jaria for you

  • @ramzantalha8938
    @ramzantalha8938 Рік тому

    Ali Bhai aik banda sb kuch raha hota he bt osi ko sb sy ziada criticism hi q kia Jata he .

  • @HaalahAamir
    @HaalahAamir Рік тому +7

    in lectures main mostly husband k lye tips hoti hain..but husband ka itna issue nhi hota...lerkiyan guzara kar jati hain...zra sa b munasib aadmi ho.....problematic susral hai yahan....
    sahabiyat kee examples sahi hain...but rembr k arab main SUSRAL CULTURE nhi hai....kisi k sath koi zaeef maan baap hee sath rehty hon gay...
    aur hmare yahan hindu susral hai....bahoo ko apna maal smjhny wala...saas nandain to moonh hath dhony k qabil nhi chorti bahoo ko.....

  • @mahnazshahzad
    @mahnazshahzad Рік тому

    Waiting for response what solution is for these things give me.

  • @chkamran9951
    @chkamran9951 Рік тому +36

    When a person doesn't earn any one coin .,from the day first to constantly 15 years, And unfortunately he is yours husband how can u be happy 🤔 if u r doing job u can't give time to urs progeny and urs house will be also disturbed.. in this critical situation how can a lady happy?????

    • @deepwords92
      @deepwords92 Рік тому +12

      Bilkul, or agrar individual hi rehna hai to shadi ka maqsad kahan gea? Bivi ka right hai k shohar us say muhabbat kray or uska ezhaar b kray amli b or lafzi b. Individual hi rehna hai to shadi ki kea zarorat? Aksar mard shadi kar k bachay paida kar k saari zimmadari bivi pe daal k khud faarigh ho k baith jaatay hein kea Islam mein ye justified hai?

    • @rabiaadnan5948
      @rabiaadnan5948 Рік тому

      So true

    • @crashcourseeducationalvide2654
      @crashcourseeducationalvide2654 Рік тому

      😥

    • @firdousfirdous6778
      @firdousfirdous6778 Рік тому +2

      We as women are too much sensitive.she is saying khud ku value du

    • @shahanabaluch9545
      @shahanabaluch9545 Рік тому

      ​@@deepwords92 farig nhi. 24 hour hawas. Dog kheti ma choot jatay hn. Na k khet ki hifazat ki jati

  • @hafizumar1286
    @hafizumar1286 Рік тому

    ایسے بات نہیں کرتے کے معاذ اللہ اللّه کے رسول ﷺ کو سمجھ نہیں آرہی تھی ۔سمجھ پھر کس کو آنی ہے

  • @ANWAR_KAMAL
    @ANWAR_KAMAL Рік тому

    100 persent sahi but kuch aetaraz bhi ha kh sakti hon

  • @qamarkamal2825
    @qamarkamal2825 Рік тому +1

    Aurat ki individuals Life Hoti hi nahi.Aurat gharelu life main Puppet ki tarah rehti hai.baten krna different hai aur Practical life totally different hai

  • @Mahi_b600
    @Mahi_b600 Рік тому

    Mujhy bhi is filed mein ana hae

  • @realmec2636
    @realmec2636 Рік тому +1

    AP thk bolri h I agree but mery husband bht pabandi krty h khuch bhi nh krny dety parhny bhi nh dety na koi work krny anytime ghr m bs or 1st wife k sath rehty hai bacho k sath m jitni unki khidmat krlu khayal krlu khana bnau but koi faida nh hota only ghusa krty hr bt p galiyn chillaty m khamoah rehti hu chorny ki dhamki dety hai

  • @ANWAR_KAMAL
    @ANWAR_KAMAL Рік тому

    Aik dfa phir name btaye book ka

  • @MagicAlphabetTV
    @MagicAlphabetTV Рік тому +2

    Kitne logo ki adat hoti h Bahu h chahe jitni bhi khidmat karle Ghar sab log kahte h kuchh karti hi nahi USS Surat me Bahu ka Dil kya karega AAP hi bataiye

  • @ruballaila5521
    @ruballaila5521 Рік тому

    Ali bhai ap se kch pochna hy agr ham khwab dekhy fout hoy ksi apne ko r wo hme keh k hmra flan bnda preshn hy oska khyl nhi rkhty ap log wrna mn le jao gi ose chaihye wo dadi ama ho ya koi b aese khwab mai aa k keh es ka kia mtlb hoga

  • @humayoun6792
    @humayoun6792 Рік тому

    Bs G hazoor G hazoor kehtay rahen husband ko bs tb hi theak rehta sb.