"I picked someone who was gonna break my heart..." You never really understand why she stayed and why she was in so much pain until you experience it yourself.
Violet Elizabeth 😒....thats why you girls complain, you guys do this to the nice guys🖕🖕. Always wanting the bad boy smh I don't feel bad at all, you girls put yourselves into this situation.
Violet Elizabeth I know. Im just saying though, that YOU girls go for the bad boys, and deep down know is not going to work out, but still you girls for them right? of course and complain and complain thats where the thought comes in "all guys are the same" If you girls don't want to complain make better choices.
@@enriba7842 the guy I was talking about isn't a bad boy hes a good guy. But sometimes shit doesnt work out and I should have known it wouldnt but I cant tell the future. So therefore, I picked someone who was gonna break my heart. Idk if that makes sense.
michelle santana Me, cause I want to know If it’s true that he sang the chorus in this song. In her song she said “ you sang of key in my chorus, cause it wasn’t yours” ? What does she mean by that?
"Everybody goes through, I guess, something like this but... I didn't really understand it and, I have no other option but to laugh at it this point because everybody asks why do you still stay, and I'm like... I guess I don't love myself first. That's it. It's not really... that's it. When I was on stage and I was thinking of... I felt like I know him though and I know that I know his heart and I know what he wouldn't do to hurt me. But I didn't realize that I was feeling so confident and feeling so great about myself and then it just be completely shattered... by one thing. By something so stupid. He doesn't know who I am anymore... And it doesn't matter because I guess I picked someone I knew was gonna break my heart."
To me it means that you get to know someone..who they are, what they're like, how their mind and heart works...their weaknesses and everything they're passionate about, the little kid they hide inside..just everything....and then there comes a moment were that person acts so cold like he doesn't know you like he doesn't know your heart and soul that he doesn't know where you're coming from when you're talking to them. You start to wish that he sees YOU again....but it doesnt seem to happen...and you know you are slowly losing him.
Revisiting this song because the new song did nothing to me. It’s boring. Selena can do so much better. Also I can’t believe she’s still singing about Justin 😭 this song has actual emotions
Well she is singing something very painful that happened in her life so of course she'll cry. like what were you expecting for her be happy about her heart being broken ;-;
No woman should feel like this, like, NEVER. For all those men that play around with a girl’s heart, remember that karma is a bitch and you’ll pay for what you’ve done someday. Sending love to all the people in the comments and to Selena too.
*2014: “Everyone asks, “Why do you still stay?” and I’m like, “I guess I don’t love myself first.”* *2019: “I needed to lose you to love me.”* I’m so happy she’s found her peace😕
Can’t believe I judged Selena’s relationship when I was in middle school until in 2017 i fell inlove with the wrong person and despite knowing that still came back ..countless times and used me for two years. It’s such a strange thing to see the red flags from the outside but when it’s you it’s impossible to see
"...Everybody goes through,I guess something like this,but I,I didn't really understand it and,I have no other option but to laugh at it at this point cause everyones asks "why do you still stay?" and I'm like " I guess, I dont love myself first" thats it,its not really.. thats it When I was on, when I was on stage And I was thinking of.. I felt like I know I know him though And I know that, and I know his heart And I know what he wouldn't do to hurt me But I didn't realize that I-I-I Feeling so confident, feeling so great about myself And then it just be completely shattered By one thing, by something so stupid He doesnt know who I am anymore And it doesnt matter because.. I guess I picked someone that was gonna break my heart..."
Currently dying inside....💔why after years I still love him even thoe he breaks me and pretends it's my fault ... that his cheating is my fault for not being good enough ..
Selena has honestly been through a lot , and who wouldn’t admire her strength ? She’s probably the most strongest female singer I’ve ever heard , idc what anyone says , she’s just so strong and amazing 💗
Their "love" was toxic af tho. I never understood why so many people like them together when it was so obvious that they were poison for each other mind. I'm happy that he finally found a supportive wife who make him better and healthier. And selena really needed to focus on her health and let all this jelena bs in 2013.
Been listening to this ever since it came out and never felt her pain because I never went through what she did. Today I sit here listening to this and crying like a maniac because I finally understand each and every word down to every single emotion she felt in that moment. A person who loves you would never let you sit alone to cry the way I cried. Get yourself together and fight that sadness.
It’s not just the song it’s the WHOLE thing that she says every single word describes what I have been feeling lately. It’s my fault for thinking he was the one
True. The problem is that abusers pretend like they care when in fact they are either using you to avoid loneliness and/or using you as a placeholder until they find what they want. As soon as you start to pull away, they reel you in. People like this are masters at reading people. They know just when to turn the temperature back up to keep you holding on.
Uggg I feel soo bad for her and I know that there’s still a part of her that wants him still.. I know the feeling ! I wish I could just hug her like omg
I dont think she would ever take him back but yes she loves him and he loves her. There love will always remain I believe, but he knows he hurt her to much and there is no rewind button from what he did getting married and now he has to try to fix the mistake he made by actually trying to be happy with hailey now. I do think he loves hailey, there is no doubt, but not the way he loved selena. I think Selena will come out strong because she has given herself time to heal
This made me cry. Why'd you mess with my heart like that? She was going through so much when she released this song. I can't help but cry because I can literally feel her feelings through the song😢💔. Glad she's happy now and in a good place😊♥
She does this, makes us feel these strong feelings with her, she is an incredible person, can not understand how Justin did not do everything to stay with her.
"after this fever I'll survive" It kills me! If you read this comment and your are passing through a hard period, I want you to know that you are strong, beautiful and you deserve to be happy! Just keep going, you are not alone! You will make it! ❤️
"You still love them, even if they no longer love you. There is bravery in letting go of a love you thought you knew. There is no shame in wanting someone who doesn't want you back. But darling, you deserve someone who wants to love you just as much." - Courtner Peppernell, Pillow Thoughts II
Love will make you, break you and then transform you completely.... into someone you never imagined to be....a someone who's the exact opposite of what you used to be. You're staring at the reflection in the mirror and how much it has changed physically, mentally and spiritually. With arms and legs having red streams flowing down you look at yourself....in desperation....but you don't know yourself anymore. You can't look in the mirror and not feel regret these days. You think the pain never ends. You think you're so broken you can't be fixed. You look at yourself and your shattered dreams...and how with each gust of wind the pieces travel away further making it even difficult for you to pick yourself up and fix yourself but the biggest misconception is that love doesn't destroy us but Its absence does.
The emotion she poured into this song shows that this was something that was super real for her. Nobody on this Earth deserves Selena. I have so much respect for the woman she has become. She is such a queen!
I’m still recovering from being in abusive relationships, and this song is so relatable. You can tell she meant every single word of what she sang. You make up this idea of someone in your head because they put forth an image or only a piece of themselves. Once you see who they really are, it’s hard to leave because the love you have for them convinces you that they’re going to change and go back to the way they were.
Just when i thought the song is already sad enough, i started to read those comments. God bless every one of you, I hope you all will overcome your heartbreaks and smile again. Not many people are going to read this, but even if we all don't know each other, we're all human who experience kind of the same things so, just tell me if you need someone to talk i'm sure a lot of people here are willing to speak about each others problems 💖
Ive never been in a serious relationship and this is why. I don’t wanna get my heart shattered into pieces by someone who Is supposed to love me. My family does that enough. 😔
I love her explanation. I've been through that so I understand. It sucks mire when your famous and people call you names based on your partner. This song is so raw I love it. Good job Selena!
I just got out of an abusive relationship...and I’m SO happy !!!! 😁😁😃😃 I didn’t realize how unhappy he made me until I had no other choice but to leave
Cassie Jaide Been there 9yrs I stuck it out unbelievable the heartbreak unhappiness trauma illness etc etc. One person can cause through Abuse Domestic Violence bloody incomprehensible at times. Good luck
Feeling very sad about recent moments of Selena's life. LOVE is like this, 99% brings pain at any point of life . Her this song is heart touching & makes me cry.
She still has money she’s still young she’s still pretty it’s not that bad. There’s literally 3 billion people in the world right now who don’t have food. Kids with cancer that don’t have medical treatment and dying slowly on the ground surrounded by garbage and animal feces. The biggest destruction of the planet since the dinosaurs were wiped out is literally happening in front of our eyes. But no I feel sooo sad about Selena throwing a temper tantrum and going to the nut house over the Biebs marrying his twin sister. Just end it now I can’t take anymore 😭😭😭😭😭😭
Sometime we forgot that each and every persons feelings and way of love is different which shouldn't be compared with other crisis in the world. Depression comes from the way to approach their own situation of love in their life . It can't be measured by wealth. AND every single person is different , we can't put our thought/ thinking or even decision on them !
When she says "I guess I don't love myself first" 0:21 I just feel so happy listening to her new song "lose you to love me" because now I know that she has loved herself and she is full of joy
“He doesn’t know who I am anymore” that part hurt cause it’s so true. “It doesn’t matter anymore because I picked someone who was gonna break my heart” Damn... selena. Girl, that just broke me, why do we do this to ourselves. 😪
Jelena is one of the most beautiful love story yet the most heartbreaking one, i guess fame, people and pressure ruins their relationship but i know that they both still and frvr holds a place in each other's heart
@@xrome6619 *Just because someone has a problem worse than yours doesn't mean your problem magically disappears or become irrelevant.* So stop with the "someone else has it worse than u, so you don't deserve the best, only they do" bullshit. No it's not. *This is just a stereotype towards problems in life..* Ex: You got into an accident, you didn't die, but you lost your leg. Now someone else died in that accident. It is true that someone else had it worse, but *does your pain of losing a leg disappear or become less relevant?* Nope. What hurts still hurts. The pain is real regardless of someone else having it tougher.
i just love how selena is move on and living her best life right now. she’s so amazing to leave all the memories of him in the past. like she just accepted the pain and embrace it until she’s done with it.
This is what I’ve been through for 7 years! This is really sad when you know that your wasting your time with someone that will never truly appreciate you 💔
your first love is Your weakness allows you never forget this and no one change the first love feelings or 2 love or 3 love you always remember your first love in life time 🙂
I truly understand her pain, it's the worst pain ever, i was 15 and in an abusive relationship, little did i know how much i didn't love or car for myself. All the women out there, stand up for yourself and don't let any man make you feel less than THE QUEEN YOU ARE!!!
I can safely say that I feel her tone of voice, her words and completely relate to her! Not just the lyrics, but her personal voice and can safely say that I am currently hurting from an ex still & him cant shake it off 😢 hearing this song this time around does hit different, Selena has helped me heal in all my years with her music. But this one is tough to heal cause her voice words are honestly my feelings currently 😢
I think It’s better that they split. They were so toxic, so on and off and now they both seem so much happier. The words In this song explain how badly her mind was manipulated to excuse all of his actions at the cost of her feelings. She’s purely miserable In this song and so deeply codependent that It’s unhealthy. Sometimes what we want Isn’t what’s best for us. I understand all too well what she went though. Nobody deserves to go through this.
im going through this pain rn, it's the most terrible thing I've ever felt. it’s so hard being so vulnerable with somebody , somebody you love , and would do anything for. but aren’t sure if they’d do anything for you .
I cannot imagine how hard it was for her to not only write the song but to sing it. She probably broke down in the middle of recording and creating this and she is so strong for pulling through and sharing this with us. Not only that but she is really brave as well, she shared a vulnerable and emotional piece of her life. I’m glad she has found her peace with it. That is why this song will forever be my favorite
Ask me why I admire and respect Selena. She’s honest enough to tell it how it is. This woman is constantly being knocked down by society, life and even herself yet she is strong enough to get up, dust herself off and continue walking with tears in her eyes.
used to say "wow , shes so dumb , why cant she leave him already? its not that hard" now im like "wow." we love u selena im so happy ur doing amazing baby
I never understood this song before because i thought i was so mentally strong i could cover up my emotions with thought. But it is what it is and I am humbled by the capacities to which I'm able to feel so deeply as a human being.
This song still takes me back to when my heart was completely shattered. Listening to it again makes me feel that pain again but this time it’s beautiful and the pain doesn’t linger and take over my whole world. I can remember how painful it was but I can put it away and feel happy again. It’s ok to remember the pain, cause I wouldn’t be me without it
It's so strong of Selena open her heart this way , this is true pain by someone you completly gave everything and they just broke you , this could happend to ANYONE and thousand of respect for Selena strengh and open herself about this
I'm so happy that they finally moved out of this toxic relationship. Justin is now married to his beautiful wife who support him and help him through his Lyme disease, anxiety, depression and more. He is so lucky to have Hailey by his side and he look happy, healthy and at peace with her. One of my favorite celebrity couple tbh. Idk for selena (bc I don't follow her that much) but she is definitely better on her own too.
You got me sippin' on something I can't compare to nothing I've ever known, I'm hoping That after this fever I'll survive I know I'm acting a bit crazy Strung out, a little bit hazy Hand over heart, I'm praying That I'm gonna make it out alive The bed's getting cold and you're not here The future that we hold is so unclear But I'm not alive until you call And I'll bet the odds against it all Save your advice 'cause I won't hear You might be right but I don't care There's a million reasons why I should give you up But the heart wants what it wants The heart wants what it wants You got me scattered in pieces Shining like stars and screaming Lighting me up like Venus But then you disappear and make me wait And every second's like torture Hell over trip, no more so Finding a way to let go Baby, baby, no I can't escape The bed's getting cold and you're not here The future that we hold is so unclear But I'm not alive until you call And I'll bet the odds against it all Save your advice 'cause I won't hear You might be right but I don't care There's a million reasons why I should give you up But the heart wants what it wants The heart wants what it wants The heart wants what it wants The heart wants what it wants This is a modern fairy tale No happy endings No wind in our sails But I can't imagine a life without Breathless moments Breaking me down, down, down, down The bed's getting cold and you're not here The future that we hold is so unclear But I'm not alive until you call And I'll bet the odds against it all Save your advice 'cause I won't hear You might be right but I don't care There's a million reasons why I should give you up But the heart wants what it wants The heart wants what it wants The heart wants what it wants The heart wants what it wants The heart wants what it wants, baby It wants what it wants, baby It wants what it wants It wants what it wants The heart wants what it wants, baby It wants what it wants
It's not hell over trip its like the molly "dancing with miley" lyric the actual lyrics are "and every seconds like torture heroin drip no more so". SHES TALKING ABOUT BLOWING LINES AND SNORTING DOPE. ITS HER IMAGE THAT IS SO PROTECTED BUT COME ON NOW THEIRS AN OPIOID EPIDEMIC AND JUST BECAUSE SHES SELENA GOMEZ OR BIEBER DOESN'T MAKE THEM ANY LESS SUCCEPTABLE TO IT. 👌💯❗
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4:49 i love this part 😭😍
"I picked someone who was going to break my heart.." *damn I felt that...*
Me too. 💔
😪😪
💔
We all do when we’re young don’t we🤷♀️
I relate to that I picked somebody that hurt me so badly. He even made me depressed.. 😢💔
“I guess I don’t love myself first” So relatable 💔
Exactly :(
I'm 14, and as most teens I'm insecure. But I think I hate myself a bit too much. If after I stop being a teenager it'll keep up, I don't know man...
Man, its a life long journey to 100% love yourself.
So yeah, dont let that stop you from loving other people 🙂
She has a tattoo that says "Love Yourself First" now!💗
I love it when artists make themselves emotionally vulnerable, it's so beautiful.
Jazzy J it sells
go listen to her others songs “perfect” & “nobody” they’re so beautiful and deep at the same time
Jazzy J that’s why they are called artist right ?
@@blinkeuu3107 perfect is so deep 😭
this is true art 💗 art is meant to make you feel
This hits differently when you have actually experienced the pain :(
Or going through the pain at the moment
That's the saddest part))
@@dylan._.nicolas ☹
That’s what I was thinking right now
Dylan Emerson Ik what u mean 💔
This is my first time hearing the extended audio and I started crying because I know exactly how she felt because it's how i feel right now.
I feel the same right now 😭😔... You're not the only Person who must to go through it.... 😢 You're not alone.... 😓
I'm sorry ❤️ that sucks but you'll get through it, just like Selena x look at her now is what you'll say in no time too ❤️
I feel the same
@@joana-cf1bs thank you and that song Look At Her Now is my favorite
Me too girl, i‘m struggling so hard 😢
"I picked someone who was gonna break my heart..."
You never really understand why she stayed and why she was in so much pain until you experience it yourself.
Violet Elizabeth 😒....thats why you girls complain, you guys do this to the nice guys🖕🖕. Always wanting the bad boy smh I don't feel bad at all, you girls put yourselves into this situation.
@@enriba7842 I wasnt asking for sympathy?
Violet Elizabeth I know.
Im just saying though,
that YOU girls go for the
bad boys, and deep down know
is not going to work out, but still you girls for them right? of course and complain and complain thats where the thought comes in "all guys are the same"
If you girls don't want to complain
make better choices.
@@enriba7842 the guy I was talking about isn't a bad boy hes a good guy. But sometimes shit doesnt work out and I should have known it wouldnt but I cant tell the future. So therefore, I picked someone who was gonna break my heart. Idk if that makes sense.
Violet Elizabeth You should be my girl, fr fr, you sound like a genuine girl, i like that.
A year ago I didn’t understand her pain.. and now that I’ve gone through the same pain I understand.
Diana Hernandez me too
Same..
Same
@@penny846 same
Same sis 💔
Its been YEARS and this song STILL plays on my heart strings
Yeah...
hell yeah ❤️❤️❤️
love her
True🥺❤️
Truth...
Who listening to this after hearing “lose you to love me” just to see how much she’s healed?😭
michelle santana Me, cause I want to know
If it’s true that he sang the chorus in this song. In her song she said “ you sang of key in my chorus, cause it wasn’t yours” ? What does she mean by that?
The chorus is the HEART of a song. He played around with it because it wasn't his.
Yania Madariaga Ohh that makes sense! Thankyou for explaining!
michelle santana me
@@user-zm8ji2or8w Baningalsbffgoids 💖💌🐼💌💖💖💖🎁💚💾💾🐣😌
"Everybody goes through, I guess, something like this but... I didn't really understand it and, I have no other option but to laugh at it this point because everybody asks why do you still stay, and I'm like... I guess I don't love myself first. That's it. It's not really... that's it. When I was on stage and I was thinking of... I felt like I know him though and I know that I know his heart and I know what he wouldn't do to hurt me. But I didn't realize that I was feeling so confident and feeling so great about myself and then it just be completely shattered... by one thing. By something so stupid. He doesn't know who I am anymore... And it doesn't matter because I guess I picked someone I knew was gonna break my heart."
That was*
2014: I guess I don't love myself first...
2019: I needed to lose you to love me.
Bruno Rocha fr😒💛
Growth baby ❣️
The glow-up she needed
2021: I’m so rare
This is the definition of true pain.
Hi friend good morning
I like you
Yeah, baby!
💔💔💔
@@adrianarogeligo hello adree lovee 😊
They missed the "He made me feel crazy, he made me feel like it's my fault. I was in pain."
shit hits differently once you reflect on what broke your heart 🤷🏻♀️
@@nobitch6421 true
bitchy slayer aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
They didn't 'miss' anything. Selena said that her speech is about 5 minutes so we didn't hear all
When she said:" He doesn't know who I am anymore..." that shit hurts...
Kelly _ckm I KNOW! 😭
omfg. I know right 😣😣😣
What did she mean by that?
Kelly _ckm 😩💔
To me it means that you get to know someone..who they are, what they're like, how their mind and heart works...their weaknesses and everything they're passionate about, the little kid they hide inside..just everything....and then there comes a moment were that person acts so cold like he doesn't know you like he doesn't know your heart and soul that he doesn't know where you're coming from when you're talking to them.
You start to wish that he sees YOU again....but it doesnt seem to happen...and you know you are slowly losing him.
Who’s revisiting this gem right after listening to “lose you to love me?”
Me♥️♥️
Ferenc Fehervari ofc ❤️🥺
Revisiting this song because the new song did nothing to me. It’s boring. Selena can do so much better. Also I can’t believe she’s still singing about Justin 😭 this song has actual emotions
Omg- same
Noah oh my gosh finally someone that agrees with me. Her new song didn't give me any emotion this song however made me cry a lot.
The worst sound ever is the crack in the voice of a person who is about to cry
Well she is singing something very painful that happened in her life so of course she'll cry. like what were you expecting for her be happy about her heart being broken ;-;
im copying this line
Well known quote !!
Tyler Black man what this is so true💯💔🥺🥺
I know, makes me wanna cry too 💔😭💔😭
2021 and it still feels...
it really does
I am, it’s a great song but I honestly forgot what it was written about
Kyra Tolbert what was it written about?
Melebra Onal idk i forgot
how u tm ft of uh rglhf😗😇💑👥👰💔
No woman should feel like this, like, NEVER. For all those men that play around with a girl’s heart, remember that karma is a bitch and you’ll pay for what you’ve done someday. Sending love to all the people in the comments and to Selena too.
No Woman or Man, I feel so bad for the men and women that have to put up with what Selena went through
@@nataliawashington872 yeah that’s true, everyone can experience something like that, is just that is a very common behavior in man
It feels like you can't breathe
What about women playing with men hearts?
Nobody should give false feelings to someone.
Say it louder....
*2014: “Everyone asks, “Why do you still stay?” and I’m like, “I guess I don’t love myself first.”*
*2019: “I needed to lose you to love me.”*
I’m so happy she’s found her peace😕
I Hope that i'll find mine soon
Vítor Sozza you will you are strong 💜
currently sobbing :')
@Olives Tea And you’re obsessed with her. Seek help, it’s not healthy❤️
Does that mean that it took 5 years? Pain.
Can’t believe I judged Selena’s relationship when I was in middle school until in 2017 i fell inlove with the wrong person and despite knowing that still came back ..countless times and used me for two years. It’s such a strange thing to see the red flags from the outside but when it’s you it’s impossible to see
"...Everybody goes through,I guess something like this,but I,I didn't really understand it and,I have no other option but to laugh at it at this point cause everyones asks "why do you still stay?" and I'm like " I guess, I dont love myself first" thats it,its not really.. thats it
When I was on, when I was on stage
And I was thinking of..
I felt like I know
I know him though
And I know that, and I know his heart
And I know what he wouldn't do to hurt me
But I didn't realize that I-I-I
Feeling so confident, feeling so great about myself
And then it just be completely shattered
By one thing, by something so stupid
He doesnt know who I am anymore
And it doesnt matter because.. I guess I picked someone that was gonna break my heart..."
Currently dying inside....💔why after years I still love him even thoe he breaks me and pretends it's my fault ... that his cheating is my fault for not being good enough ..
@@Marina-qb2mu you are good you are a beautiful heart and you deserve more than that I wish you to find someone that will make you happy
@@Nnv630 thank you....I will keep keep hope .. you do too
thank you. but ..shit 💔
aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa thank you so much!
Selena has honestly been through a lot , and who wouldn’t admire her strength ? She’s probably the most strongest female singer I’ve ever heard , idc what anyone says , she’s just so strong and amazing 💗
It's why she is going through health and mental issue. The stress is killing her, sadly
He may be married, but these songs will never be deleted. And their love too.
love will remember.. ❤️
@@embeddedstar Agree hun. 😕
Their "love" was toxic af tho. I never understood why so many people like them together when it was so obvious that they were poison for each other mind.
I'm happy that he finally found a supportive wife who make him better and healthier. And selena really needed to focus on her health and let all this jelena bs in 2013.
@@katarinastanacev8143 move on
@@saminouminou I watch videos of him and his wife. She puts up with him just like Selena used to. I feel sorry for her.
Been listening to this ever since it came out and never felt her pain because I never went through what she did. Today I sit here listening to this and crying like a maniac because I finally understand each and every word down to every single emotion she felt in that moment. A person who loves you would never let you sit alone to cry the way I cried. Get yourself together and fight that sadness.
Nobody should have to go through what she did with her first love. Pure torment. I will always hold a place in my heart for you.
It’s not just the song it’s the WHOLE thing that she says every single word describes what I have been feeling lately. It’s my fault for thinking he was the one
Fanny Alba I know how you feel...
Sometimes I feel like our breakup was my fault.
Fanny Alba it’s not your fault💓
@@njsjxndnsnkakdnjdjw1389 You don't know that. It's usually on both people.
Firebenderkitty3 not really.
My poor baby...this hurts so damn much :( She came back like a queen.
Yesssss 😍 ☝️ 🦋 😍
Who is she shhh it's getting cold
Never get 2 attached to anyone unless they also feel the same towards you, Bcuz one sided Expectations can mentally destroy you💔💯💯💯
Your right
True. The problem is that abusers pretend like they care when in fact they are either using you to avoid loneliness and/or using you as a placeholder until they find what they want. As soon as you start to pull away, they reel you in. People like this are masters at reading people. They know just when to turn the temperature back up to keep you holding on.
I've always caught feelings fast and then was disappointed when my expectations were not met
Uggg I feel soo bad for her and I know that there’s still a part of her that wants him still.. I know the feeling ! I wish I could just hug her like omg
I dont think she would ever take him back but yes she loves him and he loves her. There love will always remain I believe, but he knows he hurt her to much and there is no rewind button from what he did getting married and now he has to try to fix the mistake he made by actually trying to be happy with hailey now. I do think he loves hailey, there is no doubt, but not the way he loved selena. I think Selena will come out strong because she has given herself time to heal
This made me cry. Why'd you mess with my heart like that? She was going through so much when she released this song. I can't help but cry because I can literally feel her feelings through the song😢💔. Glad she's happy now and in a good place😊♥
Anjali Pankaj Morning
Never really happy just learning to accept I been there still going through it.b
Anjali Pankaj Suck it up bitch you're better than them
She does this, makes us feel these strong feelings with her, she is an incredible person, can not understand how Justin did not do everything to stay with her.
💩😽😽💑👫
Now that I’m older, I understand her pain she went through. I’ve been there and it hurts so much. Selena is so strong ❤️
"He doesn't know who I am anymore" that hit me hard when she started crying when she said that:(
"after this fever I'll survive"
It kills me! If you read this comment and your are passing through a hard period, I want you to know that you are strong, beautiful and you deserve to be happy! Just keep going, you are not alone! You will make it! ❤️
From “I guess I don’t love myself first” to “Why don’t you recognize that I’m so rare” 🦋✨
"You still love them, even if they no longer love you. There is bravery in letting go of a love you thought you knew. There is no shame in wanting someone who doesn't want you back. But darling, you deserve someone who wants to love you just as much." - Courtner Peppernell, Pillow Thoughts II
priscilla ortiz I LOVE COURTNEY SO MUCH 💓😭
I felt this deep in my soul
Wowm never crossed on my mind all of those beautiful words. Thanks dear for wake me up
This song always made me cry.
Emily Saunders me too 💔
Same
me to 😢😢😢😢
Me too 😭💔
same! :(
Love will make you, break you and then transform you completely.... into someone you never imagined to be....a someone who's the exact opposite of what you used to be. You're staring at the reflection in the mirror and how much it has changed physically, mentally and spiritually. With arms and legs having red streams flowing down you look at yourself....in desperation....but you don't know yourself anymore. You can't look in the mirror and not feel regret these days. You think the pain never ends. You think you're so broken you can't be fixed. You look at yourself and your shattered dreams...and how with each gust of wind the pieces travel away further making it even difficult for you to pick yourself up and fix yourself but the biggest misconception is that love doesn't destroy us but Its absence does.
100% perfectly said! 💔
The last sentence is so fucking true
Well said... Totally agree with you here
Omg it's so true😍
💯😭
The emotion she poured into this song shows that this was something that was super real for her. Nobody on this Earth deserves Selena. I have so much respect for the woman she has become. She is such a queen!
There’s so many girls who can relate to her story
boys too... i could relate to this song for my whole life.
@@actuallymilo Mee too bro😭😭
Boys too. This song describes the relationship with my ex boyfriend dead on
@@actuallymilo same here brother
100% for sure I do
I’m still recovering from being in abusive relationships, and this song is so relatable. You can tell she meant every single word of what she sang. You make up this idea of someone in your head because they put forth an image or only a piece of themselves. Once you see who they really are, it’s hard to leave because the love you have for them convinces you that they’re going to change and go back to the way they were.
exactly, you're so right !
you know you’ve been through it when you have the whole beginning of the extended cut memorized
Just when i thought the song is already sad enough, i started to read those comments. God bless every one of you, I hope you all will overcome your heartbreaks and smile again. Not many people are going to read this, but even if we all don't know each other, we're all human who experience kind of the same things so, just tell me if you need someone to talk i'm sure a lot of people here are willing to speak about each others problems 💖
Ive never been in a serious relationship and this is why. I don’t wanna get my heart shattered into pieces by someone who Is supposed to love me. My family does that enough. 😔
October 2019 and still love this song 💔😓
“I guess it doesn’t matter... I picked someone who was gonna break my heart.”
Got Opinions 💔💔
selena deserves the world i swear
no name !! I know 😭 I cried when I heard she had an anxiety attack
I love her explanation. I've been through that so I understand. It sucks mire when your famous and people call you names based on your partner. This song is so raw I love it. Good job Selena!
“He doesn’t know who I am anymore😭” bruh that shit hit me😭😭💔.
I just got out of an abusive relationship...and I’m SO happy !!!! 😁😁😃😃 I didn’t realize how unhappy he made me until I had no other choice but to leave
Cassie Jaide Been there 9yrs I stuck it out unbelievable the heartbreak unhappiness trauma illness etc etc. One person can cause through Abuse Domestic Violence bloody incomprehensible at times. Good luck
Good for you girl!
Cassie Jaide Im happy you left !! ❤️
Youll be proud of yourself later on
Cassie Jaide You were brave. I’m proud of you. ❤️
Feeling very sad about recent moments of Selena's life. LOVE is like this, 99% brings pain at any point of life . Her this song is heart touching & makes me cry.
She still has money she’s still young she’s still pretty it’s not that bad. There’s literally 3 billion people in the world right now who don’t have food. Kids with cancer that don’t have medical treatment and dying slowly on the ground surrounded by garbage and animal feces. The biggest destruction of the planet since the dinosaurs were wiped out is literally happening in front of our eyes. But no I feel sooo sad about Selena throwing a temper tantrum and going to the nut house over the Biebs marrying his twin sister. Just end it now I can’t take anymore 😭😭😭😭😭😭
Sometime we forgot that each and every persons feelings and way of love is different which shouldn't be compared with other crisis in the world. Depression comes from the way to approach their own situation of love in their life . It can't be measured by wealth. AND every single person is different , we can't put our thought/ thinking or even decision on them !
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When she says" but then u make me feel crazy, you make me feel like it's my fault... I was in pain".. I felt that
When she says "I guess I don't love myself first" 0:21 I just feel so happy listening to her new song "lose you to love me" because now I know that she has loved herself and she is full of joy
“He doesn’t know who I am anymore”
that part hurt cause it’s so true.
“It doesn’t matter anymore because I picked someone who was gonna break my heart”
Damn... selena. Girl, that just broke me, why do we do this to ourselves. 😪
Jelena is one of the most beautiful love story yet the most heartbreaking one, i guess fame, people and pressure ruins their relationship but i know that they both still and frvr holds a place in each other's heart
SELENA DESERVE THE WHOLE WORLD
Shrashti Rajput there’s people out here getting it worse than her and you think she deserves the world....
@@xrome6619 *Just because someone has a problem worse than yours doesn't mean your problem magically disappears or become irrelevant.* So stop with the "someone else has it worse than u, so you don't deserve the best, only they do" bullshit.
No it's not. *This is just a stereotype towards problems in life..*
Ex: You got into an accident, you didn't die, but you lost your leg. Now someone else died in that accident. It is true that someone else had it worse, but *does your pain of losing a leg disappear or become less relevant?* Nope. What hurts still hurts. The pain is real regardless of someone else having it tougher.
T҉h҉e҉ ҉D҉a҉w҉n҉ ҉R҉i҉g҉h҉t҉ ҉B҉e҉f҉o҉r҉e҉ ҉ T҉h҉e҉ ҉S҉u҉n҉-҉R҉i҉s҉e҉ ҉I҉s҉ ҉T҉h҉e҉ ҉D҉a҉r҉k҉e҉s҉t҉ then everyone deserves the world not just her
This made me cry!!! I’m going thru this heartbreak and this song just makes me cry😭😭😭 it’s so beautiful and I can feel Selena’s pain!!!! My queen!!!!
Me too 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Same here😔
i just love how selena is move on and living her best life right now. she’s so amazing to leave all the memories of him in the past. like she just accepted the pain and embrace it until she’s done with it.
October 2019 and still love this song❤️
Her last words of her interview ,broke me . Same girl same 💔
l literat cry with the laste words...l feel so bad
Hello Mayrine haw are you
This song always be my favourite
This makes me cry for the person I never had
Omg thank you so much for also putting the end part from her live version. That's my favorite part...... "I thought you were the one......"
Her words haunt my soul, she is so beautiful and brave to express such heart break. I am truly grateful and thankful to her 🖤
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Selena Gomez very beautiful song and amazing and your voice and vocals are absolutely and incredibly fantastic always truly enjoy your music love ya
John Tripler Jessica Ramos
This song never gets old
i was just thinkin that
And it never will
Man, this song hits the same no matter how many times you hear it💯
This is what I’ve been through for 7 years! This is really sad when you know that your wasting your time with someone that will never truly appreciate you 💔
your first love is Your weakness allows you never forget this and no one change the first love feelings or 2 love or 3 love you always remember your first love in life time 🙂
I never forgot my first love... I will always love him😔
I think we’ve all been there... 💕
I fell bad for her
victoria justice be like
and sometimes u just stick around waitin' for stuff dats never gonna happen u know..
I truly understand her pain, it's the worst pain ever, i was 15 and in an abusive relationship, little did i know how much i didn't love or car for myself.
All the women out there, stand up for yourself and don't let any man make you feel less than THE QUEEN YOU ARE!!!
I can safely say that I feel her tone of voice, her words and completely relate to her! Not just the lyrics, but her personal voice and can safely say that I am currently hurting from an ex still & him cant shake it off 😢 hearing this song this time around does hit different, Selena has helped me heal in all my years with her music. But this one is tough to heal cause her voice words are honestly my feelings currently 😢
She will always love him deep in her heart. And he too.
I think It’s better that they split. They were so toxic, so on and off and now they both seem so much happier. The words In this song explain how badly her mind was manipulated to excuse all of his actions at the cost of her feelings. She’s purely miserable In this song and so deeply codependent that It’s unhealthy. Sometimes what we want Isn’t what’s best for us.
I understand all too well what she went though. Nobody deserves to go through this.
HI there hello to do something
im going through this pain rn, it's the most terrible thing I've ever felt. it’s so hard being so vulnerable with somebody , somebody you love , and would do anything for. but aren’t sure if they’d do anything for you .
N KIRANKUMAR i’m getting better :) thank you
This is perhaps the most powerful and moving songs she’s ever written this song has been so helpful during my most painful moments and heartbreaks
I cannot imagine how hard it was for her to not only write the song but to sing it. She probably broke down in the middle of recording and creating this and she is so strong for pulling through and sharing this with us. Not only that but she is really brave as well, she shared a vulnerable and emotional piece of her life. I’m glad she has found her peace with it. That is why this song will forever be my favorite
Ask me why I admire and respect Selena. She’s honest enough to tell it how it is. This woman is constantly being knocked down by society, life and even herself yet she is strong enough to get up, dust herself off and continue walking with tears in her eyes.
Feeling so confident in myself then be completely shattered by one thing...by something so stupid..
What was the one stupid thing
Ahora lloré con esta versión, es demasiado triste. Agradezco a Sel por ser mi voz, simplemente sin ella no lograría sacar todo eso💙😔
My mom listened to this when i didn’t understand the lyrics, Now that i’m 3 years older I understand the lyrics and I can feel her pain.
used to say "wow , shes so dumb , why cant she leave him already? its not that hard" now im like "wow." we love u selena im so happy ur doing amazing baby
Damn... i’m a guy and just hearing her voice breaks me. I feel you Selena baby 😭💔
Wow, that’s a powerful intro
I never understood this song before because i thought i was so mentally strong i could cover up my emotions with thought. But it is what it is and I am humbled by the capacities to which I'm able to feel so deeply as a human being.
This song still takes me back to when my heart was completely shattered. Listening to it again makes me feel that pain again but this time it’s beautiful and the pain doesn’t linger and take over my whole world. I can remember how painful it was but I can put it away and feel happy again. It’s ok to remember the pain, cause I wouldn’t be me without it
“I thought you were the one...” Jesus Christ I’m going through this rn....
I LOVE HER VOICE SO MUCH
This song gets me on so many levels .
You are very good i can friend you
"I guess...I didn't love myself first..." Felt that, so true .
It's so strong of Selena open her heart this way , this is true pain by someone you completly gave everything and they just broke you , this could happend to ANYONE and thousand of respect for Selena strengh and open herself about this
“I thought u r the one” at this point i just cant hold my tears brooo
I didn't hear the full intro/this version until now. My heart knows this pain too well
Aww omg how have I never heard this version before it’s a even more beautiful intro then the original
When she said "I know his heart, I know what he wouldn't do to hurt me " I felt that also and I thought I was right about him.. but I was WRONG 💔😩😭
I'm so happy that they finally moved out of this toxic relationship. Justin is now married to his beautiful wife who support him and help him through his Lyme disease, anxiety, depression and more. He is so lucky to have Hailey by his side and he look happy, healthy and at peace with her. One of my favorite celebrity couple tbh.
Idk for selena (bc I don't follow her that much) but she is definitely better on her own too.
It's only when you go through this you get to understand her and how much hurt and pain she had to suffer for a man that didn't deserve her.
Love her so much she isn’t scared to show her emotions
You got me sippin' on something
I can't compare to nothing
I've ever known, I'm hoping
That after this fever I'll survive
I know I'm acting a bit crazy
Strung out, a little bit hazy
Hand over heart, I'm praying
That I'm gonna make it out alive
The bed's getting cold and you're not here
The future that we hold is so unclear
But I'm not alive until you call
And I'll bet the odds against it all
Save your advice 'cause I won't hear
You might be right but I don't care
There's a million reasons why I should give you up
But the heart wants what it wants
The heart wants what it wants
You got me scattered in pieces
Shining like stars and screaming
Lighting me up like Venus
But then you disappear and make me wait
And every second's like torture
Hell over trip, no more so
Finding a way to let go
Baby, baby, no I can't escape
The bed's getting cold and you're not here
The future that we hold is so unclear
But I'm not alive until you call
And I'll bet the odds against it all
Save your advice 'cause I won't hear
You might be right but I don't care
There's a million reasons why I should give you up
But the heart wants what it wants
The heart wants what it wants
The heart wants what it wants
The heart wants what it wants
This is a modern fairy tale
No happy endings
No wind in our sails
But I can't imagine a life without
Breathless moments
Breaking me down, down, down, down
The bed's getting cold and you're not here
The future that we hold is so unclear
But I'm not alive until you call
And I'll bet the odds against it all
Save your advice 'cause I won't hear
You might be right but I don't care
There's a million reasons why I should give you up
But the heart wants what it wants
The heart wants what it wants
The heart wants what it wants
The heart wants what it wants
The heart wants what it wants, baby
It wants what it wants, baby
It wants what it wants
It wants what it wants
The heart wants what it wants, baby
It wants what it wants
It's not hell over trip its like the molly "dancing with miley" lyric the actual lyrics are "and every seconds like torture heroin drip no more so". SHES TALKING ABOUT BLOWING LINES AND SNORTING DOPE. ITS HER IMAGE THAT IS SO PROTECTED BUT COME ON NOW THEIRS AN OPIOID EPIDEMIC AND JUST BECAUSE SHES SELENA GOMEZ OR BIEBER DOESN'T MAKE THEM ANY LESS SUCCEPTABLE TO IT. 👌💯❗
@@EA12309 yes. He's like a drug.....no good but addictive. She's not taking drugs .....
@@christinebrett4825 she went to rehab 3 times I🤔🤔🤔 call bullshit on her doing drugs. But relax its called the past for a reason,!!!💯💯💯❗❗❗❗❗❗