How Walking Away Changes a Man's Behavior - The Pillow Talk Hour
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My Dad used to tell me, “they’re all nice Mija! He’ll paint a beautiful portrait and tell you all the wonderful things you want to hear, but his actions will tell you otherwise.
At least dad told you.
Your dad is spot on 😢 if only it weren’t the truth
the sooner you realise he'll come back no matter what ladies, the sooner you'll be okay with walking out of his life
ALWAYS?
Exactly!
@@tabythadiamond827 yes, even if you cheat he will still come back - he might hate you but he will still return.
@@mysofts1de if he is in relation already...?
@@afrintayeba2981 when that relationship ends expect a dm, it may not be with the right intentions but he will dm you
If you're considering taking a guy back like this, expose them by asking for something. Ask if they love you. Ask if they want a serious commitment leading to marriage. Ask them what exactly they feel about you. This requires them to give you some power, and usually, they won't do it. Or better yet, give yourself 3 full months of no contact and then think about if you want them back with a clear head. Dont make a choice in the fog of love with men like this.
I agree I think they need 3 full months apart, minimum
"It's only because you love them. You are their source of power." WHEW!
100 percent! Never go back to someone who hurt you. No one ever does things just once. That’s why ex’s never work out. They are a waste of time.
Being worried about changing a man’s behavior is the problem. Only be concerned of changing your own to not tolerate anything less than including from yourself. After that point he won’t even be on your radar of concern.
You have evolved so much. Your dating advice feels like life advice. It’s more focused on developing the inner world rather than focusing on changing the outer world. Love your work - keep evolving! ❤
What a gracious comment ❤ I agree 😊
We brag about people coming back but I always see this if he’s coming back to you he’s coming back to the others too 🤷🏾♀️. Literally don’t be flattered it’s not even about you it’s his ego I had an ex tell me he likes to come back to women “because I know I can”
I'm in no contact. He better appreciate my absence 😂
💯 He’s right! They all come back. Over and over! I’ve been “too busy” to hang out for years! 😂 I, personally, don’t block them, because I find too much pleasure in the whole process.
Even if u don’t block them they will come back?
Somebody told me he lost my number but have been watching my stories after 2 weeks of our date
@@asmaamin5356 I don’t reach out but I don’t block. Every so often I will say “heyyy!” At some point, they all come back and get so desperate I have to put them on do not disturb mode.
@@becky15707 Exactly! That one will definitely hit you up again. Just give it time…
I thought I was the only one who does this 😂 I like to play with them, from a distance of course. Knowing I have no intention of ever taking them back 🤣
Firstly, you look really good! Like I don't know, you're glowing.
Secondly, I just had a guy come back. My life is going amazing, new doors are opening and this hyena could smell it. I just ignored his ass and blocked and this video made me sure that it was the right thing to do
😂
Exactly. As soon as he realised I am doing so well. All the sudden “I love you” pooping out of his mouth. I am dating much higher calibre men now. I dumped his ass.
Men dont change behavior because you walked away. He changed because HE wanted to change. So many men remain the same because they dont care how they make other people feel.
True. From my experiences “ men alway come back”
There’s something soothing about listening to Alex’s videos and snippets from Robert greene.. just reminds me that everything is going to okay and I realized from watching this channel that a lot of our problems can be eliminated by controlling who we allow into our lives. Once we have that skill our peace cannot be interrupted by many 😇
How can you be so right,100% on the button. There are five red flags ...but also give green amazing flags. Some lows but also a dopamine high too. Dating an avoidant is confusing. Mark Blackbird....thankyou for great hot dates ..but At some point you have to have emotional attachment.
“Nothing good ever came from looking at the past. Wondering what could have been” 💎💯 ladies I did this …it’s smoking mirrors. He’s right about it only producing negative consequences.
What abt insecure guys who don't respect u but want u for their ego boost not because they realize what they have lost but want the attention that they used to get...... How can any guy be so disgusting... Such a selfish jerk he can be...
Alex, you always say people rarely change. I agree, but some DO actually change. You should make a video about a sign a person is genuinely changing.
People can only play a role for a certain time....then they will forget their lines ......
12:27 "People are a victim of their own behaviour of their oen biology. The power comes from their presence their ability to control you through their presence" very well said.
The part that really got me is that people don’t really change. I have ptsd and a lot of trama. I really hope I can experience the healing and behavior change I need for my own health
Broke up with a toxic man during the past weekend.....this video came at the right time.....i do deserve to be loved right....thank u....im from South Africa by the way❤
Satan messenger of death 💀 😆
I started watching you back in 2017 after many vicious unconscious cycles. You've helped me with my self-development and emotional matured myself. As a sexually abused child, it's been healing learning the psyche and knowledge you teach. You are very intellectual and thank-you for all you have helped me with. I am an empowered and high-value women and carry a part of your essence within me. Touching souls. 🤲
Alex, this video literally gave me chills. Great work. So powerful and mature message!
Your recent content is golden, helps me tremendously to rebuild my life in a mindful and healthy way. God bless you 🫶
Hence why “players” mess with multiple woman different power sources even if you walk away he always has back up another star in someone else’s eye..
U really are father Alex this video has saved my life, my narc ex would have been my end.
Love how compassionate you are to your followers now.
I've always been compassionate lol it's just that sometimes showing tough love was misunderstood 😔
I do believe people can change for the better. But look out for those exes that say they have changed and want you back. That one I would be more cautious about. Look at how they treated you… why do they want to come back? Why did you guys end it the first time? What’s their motives? I’m so weary about people who want to come back into my life doesn’t matter if it’s an ex, someone I once dated or friends and family I cut ties with. People don’t want you in their life because they miss you they… I’ve figured out it’s because they want something from you. Do not trust anyone until they have shown u 1000% that you can trust them.
Okay and? Yeah we want things from others, otherwise we wouldn't even be dealing with them in the 1st place.
Your calm voice gave me the chills. This is my exact situation
LOL the face after you said "RECENTLY" I'm weak. I love this video. Thank you for sharing your thoughts Alex!
😂 His videos are entertaining and got some knowledge to it.
Yeah exactly it’s like from 😇 to 👹 real quick 😂
I realise you’re busy and have so much work going on. I imagined all of us being on a zoom video call with you and all of us in bed like a sleepover with Alex, like an interactive thing once a month. Just an idea. As usual love your work and you gettin better and better day by day. ♥️🙏Thank you.
You have such a great energy.
And i relate so much to your teaching! Could listen to your videos all day long.
Thank you💛
I have been watching you for a while and this is the first time I have felt compelled to leave a comment. This video and your presentation of the information deserves the chef's kiss! 💋 Bravo! 👏 Thank you
I've been waiting for you. Laura
@@MindfulAttraction2.0I know. 😊
OMG ALEX, are you crazy ??? This knowledge is so powerful !!! YOU HAVE SHOULD CHARGE THIS. ALEX , you have so much knowledge… you could use this to destroy people mentally, BUT INSTEAD YOU ARE HELPING US. MAY GOD BLESS U WITH EVERYTHING YOU WISH FOR. ❤️🍀 sending you love from europe.
I did charge lol
The past has nothing new to say... 🙏
Alex your recent videos have been amazing ! These videos have really assisted me in understanding and navigating modern day dating. Knowing when to move on is key, thank you, this has given me a lot of clarity.
Keep up the great work !
Great to hear!
Wow Alex the most powerful video I’ve watched of yours and I’ve been here for years! Thank you I needed to hear every word. Much love ❤️
You are so welcome
@MindfulAttraction2.0 Yeah this video was really good. We need more on this topic!!
I love moonlight sonata in the background
This was absolutely lovely. From the music, to every word you spoke.
Thank you.
thank you for this video, you healed my heart
Alex you are exceptionally brilliant.this video is solid gold!!!!!
Great work Alex! You are a great great leader! I love the growth.. Amazing mindset 🙏🏽🤎
Gracias! mil gracias por este mensaje... me encanta escucharte, vibro totalmente contigo! ♥♥♥
Omg. So true. Effin manipulators! Ughhhh!!! I fall for them every time.
😂😂 you have the best videos on this platform
Thank you for teaching us ladies ❤
lately am loving ur video ❤ and I love you so much. you changed me alot
Alex man, this video was perfect. I'm getting over a guy who came back after a couple years and for the past year we were seeing each other but recently ended things... So going through that breakup phase. But dang, I just gotta say thank you! 🙏🏾❤
That last message spoke to my soul, thank you so much for this channel and your wisdom, I'm gonna save this and come back to it whenever I feel low.🤞🏾
And I gotta say I really love this whole video, from the snippets of RG, the background music, the direct speech too. You're content has improved massively, and that's not to diss you're videos from years back - but I notice a huge difference and I love it!
Keep on shining brother, you're saving lives one video at a time❤
I’m becoming stronger, thank you ❤
He is me when she said they went on a date recently 😭🤣 🤣 I get so annoyed like wow sis ! all that progress for what?! all this fairytale bs just for you to come cry to me again tomorrow and tell me he ghosted you again 🙄 🥱
Great video as always! Absolutely love your work ❤ You really helped me grow. Thank you and much love ❤️
So glad!😊
The classical music soundtrack is just amazing!!
I am living for the videos you post for past 1-2 months
Your so sweet. u gave me hope of being strong with myself nd my broken heart.
@19:25 I don't want to be a crackhead again, thats why I ordered Emotional Mastery. I know all the right things to do but... 😩 I need to meditate myself away from the pleasures of the flesh. 😌
Don't go back to Alex, 😅, he will only try to get revenge for leaving or go down the same path again and again.
Which Alex are you referring to?
@MindfulAttraction2.0 the fake one, this person added to the letter. 😆 sorry.
This is an amazing video, I very much needed this as reinforcement ❤ 😊
This to me is the most profound video I have ever seen of yours.
What a great big brother talk. Thanks mucho amor for all your work! Let that old shit go...literally girl..
My ex recently tried to get me jealous by posting like he was on a date- after my birthday 😂. I laughed. Now he trying to make it appear like he was NOT pleased with the “interaction” I cracked up. I say nothing! Just vacationing online and dating in secret…
Alex you te doing a great job helping people thank you very much
This video helped me sooo much... thank you! You should be a psychologist 😊
I love your videos!! especially when you tell us to breathe and meditate
You’re coming through with the pillow talks
Baby i have you on repeat. Becoming a master through repetition ❤🎉 and yes your look at the end... the best is yet to come ❤🎉
Some people do not have access to healthy foods so this is actually an issue of inequality. Jar side note while listening.
Blocked on everything.
😊 your videos gives me healing everytime i watch them. Thank you.❤
Ahh and when men try to intimidate or make you jealous - take up space and make sure you put your head high. Bring out your light.
The end bit spoketh to me❤
Wow this video is beautiful.. the sincerity really shines through
Very powerful video Alex. Thank you for sharing.
I love your rawness and openness…it really helps ❤
Thanks mindful. Your video made way more sense than ever. It resonates with me. Thanks Alex.
Yes it’s when they get comfortable! This ladies experience is comparable to the cycle of abuse. These men should all be named lucifer 😂 Well done for more amazing honest content. Thank you 🙏
@ALEX you said don't pay any mind to his words! What about a man who tells you the same story twice but in different versions??? Should I not pay attention to that? Meawhile his actons were all about doing and getting things for me, but his words were lies, twists and turns, he even maligned his ex wife all kinds of names. WHY not pay attention to some words?
This toxic peoples are like 2 peoples in 1
And person 1 is perfect match for us and its like magnet but person 2dissapoint us and hurt us we are confused because its totally opposite person
why they are 2 peoples in 1
Why they not balanced is it that lack of balance attract us or just the person 1 but definetly it doesnt feel good when person 2hurt us
But it cant work like this for long time, someone has to decide if he want to be good for us and become 1good person or we need to force them to do this or leave them otherwise they will leave us sooner or later
Thank you Alex, this is so self healing 🙏
Thank you Father Alex!
Brilliant video
Love you bro❤
Ooooh and the music… so deep and dark
Question… is there any action that would prove a person has changed. For example, they seek a therapist, or they become consistent, stop drinking, or start going to church…
This is pure gold!
I just have this one guy I really need to kick out of my system and I'm good
I love this one the most and I’d love if you take these kind of vids further and relate it more to spirituality
Today's video we will
@@MindfulAttraction2.0 thank ya! (What’s the title incase I get confused cheers!)
Ok, why did my ex suddenly decide to show up literally steps away from my building for a coffee? After 9 months? He had hit the gym, I could tell. Did he come to show me how fit and sexy he was?? Why sit there in front of my door? Why not ask your friend "Hey bro, I'm not comfortable here, can we sit at that other place?"
You are my best friend now ❤
Thank you so much Alex!
Alexis, you also improving more and more 🎉😊
Damn this was deep
“Can you imagine dating a man named Lucifer? It’s kinda hot” 😂😂😂
Canada court systems are very terrible especially against first nations women like myself. Victim services has told me I never had to appear in court they said the first court date was December 20. Now I’m finding out today it was November 23. All charges were dropped against them as well as a no contact order was dropped!! Right now I’m sitting here stuck on stupid shocked and appalled outraged. If you ever have time the landfill, Camp Morgan 10,000 murdered missing indigenous women like myself that’s why the court systems do not care for because I myself am first nations from the Ojibwe tribe. Charges drop easily numbers climb higher that’s already 10,000.
Brilliant video and message👏 and that calmed background music😁 you are maturing Alex😜
I thank for you everyday 😛🙌
Dang!!! This was really good.
Gracias..that’s all 🫶🏼
This is really good Alex
Perfect! I’m learning
I really needed to hear this btw.
“what a good actor”😂😂😂😂