Coming out to my Religious Parents | my mom couldn’t take it well…

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  • Опубліковано 14 жов 2024
  • Hello everybody,
    Happy Pride Month
    This is my story of growing up religious & gay. My first time telling this story that no one knows about.
    Thank you so much for watching! And don't forget to smile!
    Love you all :)
    JS.
    sizzlepancakes
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  • @ItsJonsizzle
    @ItsJonsizzle  4 місяці тому +24

    " I hope you win the war you tell no one about." ❤

    • @Hecracksmeup
      @Hecracksmeup 4 місяці тому

      Awwwe you seem so nice. I appreciate you sharing!!!!

  • @kjuddnelson5426
    @kjuddnelson5426 4 місяці тому +13

    Thank you for sharing your story. It will definitely help others. The thing I didn't realize when I first came out is that we don't just come out once. We come out over and over again; every time we start a new job, or move to a new place, or make a new friend. It does get easier. I look forward to your videos, I find them very calming. Happy pride!

    • @ItsJonsizzle
      @ItsJonsizzle  4 місяці тому +1

      Thank you 🙏🏼 i appreciate your comment 💪🏼🥺♥️

    • @Weedahoful
      @Weedahoful 4 місяці тому +1

      yep

    • @Favorites7835
      @Favorites7835 4 місяці тому +1

      Nice Guy. Cool vibes 😎 🎉. God Bless you 🙏🏿 😇💙

  • @garymoore9190
    @garymoore9190 3 місяці тому +2

    Great video Jon! Thanks for sharing your story.. you are very strong and proud and sooo handsome!!! Stay authentic All the best to you!!

  • @davidc8694
    @davidc8694 4 місяці тому +3

    You exhibited so much strength and character. I wish I'd done the same at your age. I caught more grief from my religious family when I told them I'm vegetarian, & then 10 years later, that I'm Buddhist. By the timed they figured out I'm gay, it wasn't a big deal after a few weeks, alho' they've never really approved.

    • @ItsJonsizzle
      @ItsJonsizzle  4 місяці тому +1

      Thank you n thanks sm for sharing 🙏🏼 💪🏼🥺♥️

  • @Weedahoful
    @Weedahoful 4 місяці тому +1

    This is your best video yet. You're a strong person. **HUG**

    • @ItsJonsizzle
      @ItsJonsizzle  4 місяці тому +1

      Thank you🙏🏼 ♥️🥺💪🏼

  • @Quail-o1n
    @Quail-o1n 3 місяці тому +1

    Jon I am a new subscriber and I love your story and your channel, you are amazing

    • @ItsJonsizzle
      @ItsJonsizzle  3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you sm for ur support💪🏼🙌🏼♥️

  • @saul_carr1305
    @saul_carr1305 3 місяці тому +1

    Courageous guy. I salute you, Happy pride from Vancouver Canada 🇨🇦

    • @ItsJonsizzle
      @ItsJonsizzle  3 місяці тому +2

      Thank you sm🙌🏼💪🏼♥️

  • @sthembiso2nkosi697
    @sthembiso2nkosi697 4 місяці тому +2

    Thank you for leaving your truth, and choosing yourself moreover for sharing your story I'm inspired by it and that was so brave of you, and for your father to support and accept you for who you are is amazing and the fact that your whole family came through; I'm humbled by it.

    • @ItsJonsizzle
      @ItsJonsizzle  4 місяці тому +2

      Thank you 🙏🏼 and i appreciate your kind words💪🏼🥺♥️

  • @ChristopherMendez-j6w
    @ChristopherMendez-j6w 4 місяці тому +2

    God bless you brother i enjoy your story it give me more motivated to be me I'm proud of who I am love you happy pride ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @ItsJonsizzle
      @ItsJonsizzle  4 місяці тому +3

      Thank you 🙏🏼 n let’s stay strong together 💪🏼🥺♥️

    • @ChristopherMendez-j6w
      @ChristopherMendez-j6w 4 місяці тому +2

      @@ItsJonsizzle God bless you Jon

  • @kennethbailey9853
    @kennethbailey9853 3 місяці тому +1

    You will be Desired and I PRAY YOU ARE FOREVER LOVED !!!❤

    • @ItsJonsizzle
      @ItsJonsizzle  3 місяці тому +1

      ♥️thank you 🙏🏼🙌🏼

  • @markstephen1291
    @markstephen1291 4 місяці тому +3

    Your parents reaction was very similar to mine. My mum was not as understanding and my dad was the person who probably supported me the most ❤

    • @ItsJonsizzle
      @ItsJonsizzle  4 місяці тому +2

      I’m glad we got thru. Thank you for sharing 🙏🏼 ♥️🥺💪🏼

  • @rahvp
    @rahvp 3 місяці тому +1

    I admire your honesty and your bravery and the love you have for your family. I was encouraged by your story and I’m sure others will be too. I wish you nothing but happiness and success always.

    • @ItsJonsizzle
      @ItsJonsizzle  3 місяці тому

      Thank you sm and your kind words🥺♥️💪🏼

  • @Roy-vt6fj
    @Roy-vt6fj 4 місяці тому +4

    Jon,
    I'm so very proud of you for standing in your truth, and taking a stand for the man that you are! Your story blessed my soul and I'm sure it will help many. With each of your videos, I feel I'm getting to know you better and building a close bond with you. I look forward to your videos! You are very Strong, Wise, Mature and knowledgeable in your thought processes! I'm also very impressed with your English and the manner in which you express yourself! Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts and life with us! I support and appreciate you brother!!!!!

    • @ItsJonsizzle
      @ItsJonsizzle  4 місяці тому +2

      Thank you sm brother and appreciate your support 💪🏼🥺♥️

  • @douglassmith8016
    @douglassmith8016 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for sharing your coming out story! Kudos to you for standing up to your family. I can out at 25, way back in the 1980s. It took my mother (who has since passed) a long time to accept me. It wasn't easy. Have patience with parents, they will come around. HAPPY PRIDE 🌈

    • @ItsJonsizzle
      @ItsJonsizzle  4 місяці тому +1

      Thank you sm for sharing love. stay strong🙌

  • @florenciomendoza1212
    @florenciomendoza1212 4 місяці тому +1

    Wow 🤩. I’m touched about your coming out. I’m Proud of you 🙏 you perfectly did the right thing. It’s good too that your Dad talked to your Mom. We’re the same, my Dad as well who accepted me first. Our relatives bullied me too. I left too & studied hard & successful . I migrated in U.S. & Canada. I’m very happy “ alone “ ( had 3 long terms lived-ins great partners ) Good luck & I’m a subscriber & enjoying your journey as an independent adult now. Take care 👍😜❤️🇨🇦

    • @ItsJonsizzle
      @ItsJonsizzle  4 місяці тому

      Thank you for sharing love 🙏🏼 ♥️🥺💪🏼

  • @calvind2054
    @calvind2054 4 місяці тому +2

    That was a truly great story Jon. Sharing the dynamics with your family during your coming out is incredible and heartwarming. I’m sure your story will connect with someone very important. You had a strong conviction of strength and bravery that is very profound and unique. Happy Pride Jon. Looking forward to your next video. ❤

    • @ItsJonsizzle
      @ItsJonsizzle  4 місяці тому

      Thank you sm 🙏🏼 ♥️🥺💪🏼

  • @allanknudsen1059
    @allanknudsen1059 3 місяці тому +1

    Hi Jon, I’m so happy that I found your channel. You seem to be such a sweet and genuine man - love your story telling. Thank you for sharing your story. I’m so happy that your family is now supportive. Can’t wait to see your next video.

    • @ItsJonsizzle
      @ItsJonsizzle  3 місяці тому

      Thank you sm for your support ♥️ i appreciate your kind words 💪🏼🙌🏼

  • @marianoloza7186
    @marianoloza7186 4 місяці тому +1

    Congratulations for your journey! Thanks for sharing it, Jon!😘

  • @dobycrawford5054
    @dobycrawford5054 3 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for your strength and vulnerability. I hope you realized the healing you provided for yourself and the oppressive thoughts of generational shackles passed down through your family. Also, that’s for revealing your culture and ethnicity as well. I’ve often wondered. Because I love how you roots show through your dialect and speak. It’s beautiful! P.E.A.C.E.

    • @ItsJonsizzle
      @ItsJonsizzle  3 місяці тому +2

      Thank you sm for your kind words. 🥺🙌🏼♥️ 💪🏼

  • @zenpuppy6025
    @zenpuppy6025 4 місяці тому +1

    I just discovered your channel. Like you I was raised in the Catholic faith. I now describe myself as a recovering catholic 😂. I don’t attend church anymore. I enjoyed hearing your story. I think it’s great that you took control of your life. It sounds like your family has slowly come to accept you for who you are. I don’t know if you enjoy reading but I would like to suggest a book written by Ocean Vuong. Its title is “ On Earth We’re All Briefly Gorgeous “. It’s a coming out story that also addresses the issues of Vietnamese families that immigrated to America. You are such a thoughtful young man and you are handsome too 🙂. Wish you the best in the future.

    • @ItsJonsizzle
      @ItsJonsizzle  4 місяці тому +1

      same here. i dont attend church often like i used to anymore. thank you sm for sharing and i will def check out the book. Stay trong :)🙌♥

  • @jamessayers4046
    @jamessayers4046 4 місяці тому +1

    Greetings from down under (Australia). Thank you for sharing your powerful story. It's so nice that your Mum understands that you're you and accepts you for who you are. When I came out to my Mum, she said don't tell anyone, not even my grandmother. Many years later, same sex marriage was legalised here in Australia. Not long after that happened, I met my now husband, to which my Mum loves my husband, and even did a reading at our wedding. She apologised for she what said to me when I came out, and she's happy that I met and married the man of my dreams! Thanks again for sharing and I enjoy your channel!

    • @ItsJonsizzle
      @ItsJonsizzle  4 місяці тому

      Sounds like a quite long journey for you and finally with an happy ending . I’m glad you stayed strong. Thank you sm for sharing🙏🏼 ♥️🥺💪🏼

  • @ShaneLawrence-ri6ph
    @ShaneLawrence-ri6ph 4 місяці тому +2

    Happy pride month 🥳🙏🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

  • @MikeD-zq2xy
    @MikeD-zq2xy 4 місяці тому +3

    I'm sure your parents are proud to have raised such a handsome and strong man.

    • @ItsJonsizzle
      @ItsJonsizzle  4 місяці тому +3

      Thank you 🙏🏼 💪🏼🥺♥️

  • @Jetter638
    @Jetter638 День тому

    Thanks for sharing your story. It must have been very hard for you at the time. But as you said things worked out for the best. So happy for you even though I don't really know you. You seem like a very nice and genuine person. As you were telling your story I just wanted to reach through the screen and give you a big hug. LOL. Always enjoy your content and I'm looking forward to seeing more content from you in the future. Cheers.

    • @ItsJonsizzle
      @ItsJonsizzle  16 годин тому

      Thank you very much 🥺♥️😘😘

  • @joeyroey
    @joeyroey 4 місяці тому +2

    Thanks for sharing your story. I have a very similar experience to you. From the Philippines, moved to Australia, came out to my parents and mum didn’t react well but dad was supportive. But I moved out and now me and mum are closer.

    • @ItsJonsizzle
      @ItsJonsizzle  4 місяці тому

      thank you for sharing as well love. Stay strong 🙌

    • @lavonnealexander6936
      @lavonnealexander6936 3 місяці тому

      My dad was more supportive before my mom. It was weird because I always thought my dad was homophobic

  • @rmronalda57
    @rmronalda57 4 місяці тому +2

    U'LL GONNA BE ALRIGHT GOD'S GOT U. BE STRONG AND KEEP IT REAL 💯 % BOO I SHARD UR VIDEO WITH OTHERS. THANK U VERY MUCH.😊

    • @ItsJonsizzle
      @ItsJonsizzle  4 місяці тому +2

      Thank you sm 🙏🏼 ♥️🥺💪🏼

  • @kirstanuci
    @kirstanuci 4 місяці тому +1

    Be u❤!🎉!
    Never never have regrets.
    Keep being strong and authentic.❤

    • @ItsJonsizzle
      @ItsJonsizzle  4 місяці тому

      thank you. I appreciate your comment♥

  • @antonio576
    @antonio576 3 місяці тому

    Thank you for sharing, my story is hell. Well, sometimes we just don't get treated right, mostly by family. Very sad but true. I wish you all the best.

    • @ItsJonsizzle
      @ItsJonsizzle  3 місяці тому

      Thank you sm and same to you. I appreciate your comment ♥️🙏🏼💪🏼

  • @Andy_TKC
    @Andy_TKC 4 місяці тому +4

    I am yet to come out despite of my age, 40s. Feeling shamed of myself. Having to grow up in a big asian family with many siblings, nieces and nephews, surprisingly, it gives me some pressures despite my parents are no longer around.

    • @ItsJonsizzle
      @ItsJonsizzle  4 місяці тому

      it can be easy when we say we want to, but it's hard when it comes to " doing it". Be proud and love yourself. everyone has a different clock and time. you still can do it when the time come :). Stay Strong🙌♥

  • @ajaycbaby8837
    @ajaycbaby8837 3 місяці тому +1

    It is really hard when your family does not accept you. I was abused and bullied for my sexuality. When I was younger I attempted suicide. My family still continued the abuse and bullying. I had to just accept myself and move on.

    • @ItsJonsizzle
      @ItsJonsizzle  3 місяці тому +1

      .:/ i hear you. I hope everything’s better for you now. Hope you peace and well. Stay strong as always. Thank you for sharing. 🙌🏼💪🏼♥️

  • @carrie3390
    @carrie3390 3 місяці тому

    No matter how hard it was, it is good u were honest.
    And yes u were made perfect-Just the way you are!☺

    • @ItsJonsizzle
      @ItsJonsizzle  3 місяці тому +1

      I appreciate your kind words♥️🙌🏼💪🏼

  • @749fghvbn
    @749fghvbn 4 місяці тому +1

    Congratulations, all my support ! Sexual orientation is not a choice but we can choose to accept it and respect each other.

    • @ItsJonsizzle
      @ItsJonsizzle  4 місяці тому +1

      Thank you🙏🏼 ♥️🥺💪🏼

  • @Bazroshan
    @Bazroshan 3 місяці тому

    I admire your strength of mind not to go along with the exhortation to 'pray it away' .

  • @donaldewert2332
    @donaldewert2332 3 місяці тому

    Happy Pride from Beautiful Milwaukee 🤗🏳️‍🌈

  • @ShaneLawrence-ri6ph
    @ShaneLawrence-ri6ph 4 місяці тому +2

    I'm gay and you are not alone

  • @frederickhongfat5961
    @frederickhongfat5961 4 місяці тому +1

    You are just so sweet...looks and personality and you resemble my partner so much...much love to you handsome sweet guy 🙂🙂

    • @ItsJonsizzle
      @ItsJonsizzle  4 місяці тому +1

      Thank you 🙏🏼 ♥️🥺💪🏼

  • @Joe.Ortega
    @Joe.Ortega 3 місяці тому

    Good morning and happy pride month 🎉❤ 🏳️‍🌈
    Not everyone's coming out day was rainbow and sunshine. My mom did not accept me for me. The hardest thing was being with her when she passed away. And we never talked about me being gay or have closure. 😢
    I hope she can see that I tried to be the best son to her. But I will never know.

    • @ItsJonsizzle
      @ItsJonsizzle  3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you sm for sharing 🥺♥️ stay strong 💪🏼

    • @Joe.Ortega
      @Joe.Ortega 3 місяці тому

      @@ItsJonsizzle 😊

  • @sithabelamandlawenkosiwodu6298
    @sithabelamandlawenkosiwodu6298 4 місяці тому +2

    Tradition and culture can be so toxic even for straight people. Why are we so fixated on marriage? Do people ever stop to think that marriage is not for everyone, straight or otherwise? I've seen so many straight guys married and I know for a fact they have no business being married. It's just a societal obligation. The worst is when I see guys I know are gay married to women. Society stinks. Truly sad.

  • @mikebrown7363
    @mikebrown7363 3 місяці тому

    You are a very intelligent man because you understand that God created us just as we are. You are an incredibly beautiful young man

    • @ItsJonsizzle
      @ItsJonsizzle  3 місяці тому

      Thank you sm for your kind words♥️♥️

    • @mikebrown7363
      @mikebrown7363 3 місяці тому

      @@ItsJonsizzle The pleasure is all mine. I’ve subscribed to your channel.

  • @InsatiableBankable37
    @InsatiableBankable37 4 місяці тому +1

    💝💖💝💖💝💖💝💖💝💖💝💖💝💖💝💖💝💖💝💖💝

  • @terancedecker-harris1041
    @terancedecker-harris1041 3 місяці тому

    I think you did the tight thing by moving out, if you had stayed your mom would have been focused on changing you. I feel that you removing yourself gave her and you dad time to talk more and for them to make her see what she was doing. Glad it all worked and in the end and your a stronger person now

  • @heythere1358
    @heythere1358 4 місяці тому +1

    🥺❤

  • @williamblackstock6785
    @williamblackstock6785 4 місяці тому

    Thanks for sharing I really enjoyed your video and I believe the same I was born this way and God made me. You are a kind caring loving man I see that in you. I hope you find exactly what you want in a man , you are also good-looking and I love you smile and eyes. Stay sweet and honest 😊❤

    • @ItsJonsizzle
      @ItsJonsizzle  3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for our kind words 🙏🏼 ♥️💪🏼

  • @LinhTran0516
    @LinhTran0516 4 місяці тому +1

    💚💚💚💚

  • @d.j.7069
    @d.j.7069 3 місяці тому

    American High Schools are scary places! No one is "open minded" in high school, it seems! You are very attractive, and I hope and pray that you focus on finding a life partner!

    • @ItsJonsizzle
      @ItsJonsizzle  3 місяці тому

      Thank you sm and I appreciate your comment ♥️🙏🏼💪🏼

  • @derrickrodwell8015
    @derrickrodwell8015 4 місяці тому +1

    ❤🌈

  • @deeringkendrick8388
    @deeringkendrick8388 4 місяці тому

    Shout out to the DMV

  • @sthembiso2nkosi697
    @sthembiso2nkosi697 4 місяці тому

    What's the name of the artist?

  • @richardjordan9684
    @richardjordan9684 3 місяці тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @thangchahaokip3686
    @thangchahaokip3686 4 місяці тому +1

    U luk hot handsome👌

  • @jeffreyerickson6766
    @jeffreyerickson6766 3 місяці тому

    Love you