heya guys, I have been filming a lot of transitioning videos lately and here in one talking about being feminine whilst also being a trans guy. Hope you guys enjoy it!!!
Love this so much this means so much. im not trans but I am non-binary but since my hair goes lower than my shoulders, and I can't bind and I dress feminine and androgynous rather than masculine I get invalidated alot so this makes me and so many others, because personally I haven't seen any one talking about this, feel seen. Thank you and you are amazing. 💜😘🤗
Aww yay! I am so glad to hear this. I always felt like this is a huge important thing that is never said because of the silly stereotypes around it and so I am glad to finally reach out and let everyone know what’s really up. Lol
I honestly really needed this, I’m non-binary, born female but a lot of the time if I don’t dress androgynous people seem to think “oh, there just a girl trying to be quirky” whether I was dressing more feminine or overly masculine it’s always the same. And I’ve always known that clothing had nothing to do with who you are but it’s really nice having someone else say it :]
I just came out to my mum yesterday as trans ftm and she was so so supportive of me, I’m so happy and I was wondering whether I can buy girly clothes still and stuff like that, but I do dress more like a guy as well, I would like to take T and have a top surgery one day hopefully after lockdown I’m going to talk to the doctor and get my T
This means a lot to me, cuz I'm ftm but prefer to present feminine, and that's made me feel invalid because "guys don't wear skirts, guys don't wear makeup" and I know that's not true, but this video has made me feel more valid and confident :) Thanks, this video is awesome, and you're awesome 🤍
I have three trans friends so this video is EPIC!! One of my FTM friends is more masculine but that's just what he likes to where. The other is slightly feminine and that's fine!! He's still a valid male u-u. The other is non-binary but very feminine :0! People tell them that they aren't a valid NB because of their "girl" clothes, long hair, and makeup but that's all bull crap. At the end of the day gender comes down to what you identify as! So yeye- I appreciate this video uwu
To be honest this made me feel a lot better. I’m ftm and I’m very feminine. I always was worried because of what other people had said. I’ve tried to make this a point but it didn’t come out right. This video helped me so much. ^^ I love your content that you for making things like this!! It truly helps!
I really needed this. I've been out since 2017, I told my church and my Nana, and as I'm still transitioning, and don't have the money for surgery, I've felt really in a box, as some people don't even call me by my preferred name, and still use feamle pronouns, so it's hard to present myself as the transmale I feel I am on the inside. I'm with you on the female issues as my birth name is something I don't like, but the people I want me to call me by the right name are few and far between. I've always felt odd wearing dresses and skirts as I was a severe tomboy and had lots of issues put on me due to expectations of gender. I LOVE skirts and cute tops just like you do. I like living, but things are hard right now, especially being low income, and everything, but we all try our best, trans or cis. I love how you are so positive, you rock, and are such an inspiration Malachi!!!
i really liked that you said vessel. I know everybody says, "your body, your choice," and of course they are right, but it was nice hearing it another way. I don't know if that makes sence but I just thought it was nice. I'm not trans im genderfluid but I could really relate.
im a feminine transmasc too!! im transitioning more masculine but i love wearing whatever i want and i love pretty pretty and handsome. pink is my favourite colour. i can't currently dress feminine because I'm trying to get T easier since I don't think most therapists seem to understand transmascs can look anyway they want. im nonbinary aswell so my gender expression and identity don't align with yours. im not trying to be a binary man. but i am just vibing drag also is why i feel extremely comfortable being fem. im a guy and i like lacey, pink, cutesy, fem things.
It's crazy how much I can relate. I did the same thing where I tried to love myself as female but I was very very unhappy and uncomfortable. Once I transitioned though I was so much more confident. Thank you for sharing! 💙
I just realized that today is my 4 year anniversary for watching this youtube channel, like aaaaa! XD XD and this helps a lot. I used to think I was trans as it had all the gender "rules" But now I'm a happy cis female that doesn't care about pronouns and doesn't care about dressing like a female or dressing like a male. I dress how I want to dress and I'm happy about that :D
this makes me feel so relieved. im super into lolita & harajuku fashion, which is very femme. i get questioned a lot because of it. i feel a lot less stressed after watching this thank you so much for making this !
You're an absolute gem, also love the outfit... I've been struggling with this. I know I'm trans but I feel so invalidated because I like some typical 'feminine' things. Thank you so much for this
Thank you so much for posting this! Coming out can be hard, especially if you have trouble and feel insecure with this sort of thing. I sort of wish I knew sooner, maybe I would have realized, and come out sooner.
I love seeing this, im kinda a closeted transguy a few people know and i present as male on my instagram and reddit but otherwise most people in my life arent aware lol, I feel if I ever get the courage to transition by going on T and getting top surgery I still am going to enjoy wearing my feminine clothes and putting makeup on, I love feminine things but I still feel like a man. my feminine style inspos are usually just other feminine men anyway like in glam rock and visual kei bands rather than women
This whole femmephobia situation has prevented me from coming out. Until now. You are amazing. Thank you. This is helping me come out and be more authentic. Is it okay if I ask if you've done HRT? I'm thinking about microdosing so I stay on the feminine side but I have some voice changes etc. Also, you don't have to answer that obviously 😊. I just don't have many people to talk to/resources early in my journey. I appreciate you. Videos like this are changing the world.
this was an awesome video!! im not trans/nb but ty for talking about it. i love hearing your candid talks about these things, it brings things to light that i havent thought of
Honestly this message is something I need to hear repeated to myself. That I can be transition and still be a feminine guy. But then I have moments where family say "oh are you sure you're a guy?" Just because of what I wear that now im too dysphoric and self conscious to wear a the cute dress I bought. This video reminds me a lot of how I experienced things and stuff I need to remind myself. Thank you for this video tho, it means a lot to watch this tbh
We really can do- and be- anything we want. The important thing is to know yourself and be okay with who you are and the choices you make. If other people don't like it, they can go their own way. Or you can.
Historically speaking pink was seen as a masculine color becuase it was released to red which as connected to blood. On the same note blue was seen as a feminine color becuasenof its connection to water and fertility. Where what ever color you want-fashion is all about trends and politics. You do you. Also, pants have not existed very long in terms of our evolution so for most of history we all wore dresses. As long as you wear something in public-youre winning!
This helped me a lot, I do like masculine clothing I like baggy pants I like graphic t-shirts I like baggy clothes but I also like skirts and occasionally on the rarest occasions I like crop tops or dresses but I feel like a man and whenever I wear that stuff people are like you're not a guy? Oh so it was a phase? No it was just me expressing myself the way I want to be expressed and it makes me hate the clothes I wear this video it I brought light to the fact that I don't need to care what they think anymore I am proud to be a feminine boy.
I feel like to many people judge to much and don't look at themselves and see that no one is the same and just because your trans, lesbian, gay, bi or whatever. Your actually still special either way. But it may not be shown on the outside but deep down it affects people for than you think. Words are hurtful but calling someone a girl or boy just because of the way they dress or look. I'm a female and I don't like the colour pink or purple, yet people still judge and say blue and black are for boys. You shouldn't have to wear a dress if your a girl, you shouldn't have to wear jeans and T-shirts if your a boy. Just believe in who you are and ignore the haters you face. Because you are you and thats what matters.
I am trans but I do that I wear a bunch of cloths and this really helped because my one friend said who is gender-fluid said that I was gender-fluid because I like girl clothes even though I want to be transgender they say that I am gender-fluid because of the way that I dress I really love the message of this video
welcome back to youtube sas anyways i think yea its ok for people to love whatever they like unless they become trans that's big issue cause u have to accept the way god created you but if u not religious that's another deal :P
im not trans male, but as a non-binary this causes me a lot of problems because i dress and act "femenine" and not "andogynous" and people always tell me that im what i look, im not, im non-binary and they need to respect that, is the same for everyone, you are who you are and how you dress doenst define that
I do not remember subscribing to half of the people I've subscribed to and I subscribe to a lot of people and you are one of the person's I forgot I subbed to- 👁️👄👁️💧
I’m so fucking confused with my life, I’m not trans but I’m feminine. I’m ok with being a guy but I wanna wear skirts and make up and stuff like that, I wanna be me but it’s definitely hard.
Thanks for the video! Look at my name. Someone thought I was a dude cuz of it. I identify as a cisgender girl, but I call myself Jeffrey Dahmer only cuz I believe I am his reincarnation. Once I asked a friend if I could also get my makeup done. She was like "You're a guy." I'm not. Sasurealian, you're right. You're still male even though even though you wear pink ruffles. I'm still female even though I renamed myself Jeffrey Dahmer. What you wear and what name you go by doesn't always determine your gender identity.
Some people don't understand that clothes dont have a gender. Skirts and pants dont have genitals.
Amen!!!
Preach!
Love this so much this means so much. im not trans but I am non-binary but since my hair goes lower than my shoulders, and I can't bind and I dress feminine and androgynous rather than masculine I get invalidated alot so this makes me and so many others, because personally I haven't seen any one talking about this, feel seen. Thank you and you are amazing. 💜😘🤗
Aww yay! I am so glad to hear this. I always felt like this is a huge important thing that is never said because of the silly stereotypes around it and so I am glad to finally reach out and let everyone know what’s really up. Lol
I honestly really needed this, I’m non-binary, born female but a lot of the time if I don’t dress androgynous people seem to think “oh, there just a girl trying to be quirky” whether I was dressing more feminine or overly masculine it’s always the same. And I’ve always known that clothing had nothing to do with who you are but it’s really nice having someone else say it :]
I just came out to my mum yesterday as trans ftm and she was so so supportive of me, I’m so happy and I was wondering whether I can buy girly clothes still and stuff like that, but I do dress more like a guy as well, I would like to take T and have a top surgery one day hopefully after lockdown I’m going to talk to the doctor and get my T
This video was so necessary
Awww I am SO glad to hear this.
This means a lot to me, cuz I'm ftm but prefer to present feminine, and that's made me feel invalid because "guys don't wear skirts, guys don't wear makeup" and I know that's not true, but this video has made me feel more valid and confident :) Thanks, this video is awesome, and you're awesome 🤍
I have three trans friends so this video is EPIC!! One of my FTM friends is more masculine but that's just what he likes to where. The other is slightly feminine and that's fine!! He's still a valid male u-u. The other is non-binary but very feminine :0! People tell them that they aren't a valid NB because of their "girl" clothes, long hair, and makeup but that's all bull crap. At the end of the day gender comes down to what you identify as! So yeye- I appreciate this video uwu
To be honest this made me feel a lot better. I’m ftm and I’m very feminine. I always was worried because of what other people had said. I’ve tried to make this a point but it didn’t come out right. This video helped me so much. ^^ I love your content that you for making things like this!! It truly helps!
I really needed this. I've been out since 2017, I told my church and my Nana, and as I'm still transitioning, and don't have the money for surgery, I've felt really in a box, as some people don't even call me by my preferred name, and still use feamle pronouns, so it's hard to present myself as the transmale I feel I am on the inside. I'm with you on the female issues as my birth name is something I don't like, but the people I want me to call me by the right name are few and far between.
I've always felt odd wearing dresses and skirts as I was a severe tomboy and had lots of issues put on me due to expectations of gender. I LOVE skirts and cute tops just like you do. I like living, but things are hard right now, especially being low income, and everything, but we all try our best, trans or cis.
I love how you are so positive, you rock, and are such an inspiration Malachi!!!
Be proud of yourself don't let others tell you what to do!!! You can be trans and like girly things. You can be proud of yourself!!!
To me trans is about the body itself, not what goes on it.
i really liked that you said vessel. I know everybody says, "your body, your choice," and of course they are right, but it was nice hearing it another way. I don't know if that makes sence but I just thought it was nice. I'm not trans im genderfluid but I could really relate.
im a feminine transmasc too!! im transitioning more masculine but i love wearing whatever i want and i love pretty pretty and handsome. pink is my favourite colour.
i can't currently dress feminine because I'm trying to get T easier since I don't think most therapists seem to understand transmascs can look anyway they want.
im nonbinary aswell so my gender expression and identity don't align with yours. im not trying to be a binary man. but i am just vibing
drag also is why i feel extremely comfortable being fem. im a guy and i like lacey, pink, cutesy, fem things.
its so refreshing to hear other trans guys have the same experience as me :)
It's crazy how much I can relate. I did the same thing where I tried to love myself as female but I was very very unhappy and uncomfortable. Once I transitioned though I was so much more confident. Thank you for sharing! 💙
Thank you for making this video, I'll be sure to come back and watch it when I feel bad about my identity. It's so nice to see other people like me!
I just realized that today is my 4 year anniversary for watching this youtube channel, like aaaaa! XD XD and this helps a lot. I used to think I was trans as it had all the gender "rules" But now I'm a happy cis female that doesn't care about pronouns and doesn't care about dressing like a female or dressing like a male. I dress how I want to dress and I'm happy about that :D
this makes me feel so relieved. im super into lolita & harajuku fashion, which is very femme. i get questioned a lot because of it. i feel a lot less stressed after watching this thank you so much for making this !
You're an absolute gem, also love the outfit... I've been struggling with this. I know I'm trans but I feel so invalidated because I like some typical 'feminine' things. Thank you so much for this
Thank you so much for posting this! Coming out can be hard, especially if you have trouble and feel insecure with this sort of thing. I sort of wish I knew sooner, maybe I would have realized, and come out sooner.
As a trans guy who doesn't mind female clothes it was really nice to see this
I love seeing this, im kinda a closeted transguy a few people know and i present as male on my instagram and reddit but otherwise most people in my life arent aware lol, I feel if I ever get the courage to transition by going on T and getting top surgery I still am going to enjoy wearing my feminine clothes and putting makeup on, I love feminine things but I still feel like a man. my feminine style inspos are usually just other feminine men anyway like in glam rock and visual kei bands rather than women
This whole femmephobia situation has prevented me from coming out. Until now. You are amazing. Thank you. This is helping me come out and be more authentic. Is it okay if I ask if you've done HRT? I'm thinking about microdosing so I stay on the feminine side but I have some voice changes etc. Also, you don't have to answer that obviously 😊. I just don't have many people to talk to/resources early in my journey. I appreciate you. Videos like this are changing the world.
I 100% support you people shouldn’t disrespect trans women or men thank you for sharing your beautiful message 💜
this was an awesome video!! im not trans/nb but ty for talking about it. i love hearing your candid talks about these things, it brings things to light that i havent thought of
Honestly this message is something I need to hear repeated to myself. That I can be transition and still be a feminine guy.
But then I have moments where family say "oh are you sure you're a guy?" Just because of what I wear that now im too dysphoric and self conscious to wear a the cute dress I bought.
This video reminds me a lot of how I experienced things and stuff I need to remind myself. Thank you for this video tho, it means a lot to watch this tbh
As a bigender person, thank you so much for this video. More people need to understand that clothes have nothing to do with gender identity.
Great video - thanks for sharing your journey ❤️😁
As someone who is trans ftm and someone who dresses fem I look up to you so much
We really can do- and be- anything we want. The important thing is to know yourself and be okay with who you are and the choices you make. If other people don't like it, they can go their own way. Or you can.
Historically speaking pink was seen as a masculine color becuase it was released to red which as connected to blood. On the same note blue was seen as a feminine color becuasenof its connection to water and fertility. Where what ever color you want-fashion is all about trends and politics. You do you. Also, pants have not existed very long in terms of our evolution so for most of history we all wore dresses. As long as you wear something in public-youre winning!
this means a lot to every trans folk, thanks for speaking up!!
where did you get that shirt it’s amazing!!!!
This helped me a lot, I do like masculine clothing I like baggy pants I like graphic t-shirts I like baggy clothes but I also like skirts and occasionally on the rarest occasions I like crop tops or dresses but I feel like a man and whenever I wear that stuff people are like you're not a guy? Oh so it was a phase? No it was just me expressing myself the way I want to be expressed and it makes me hate the clothes I wear this video it I brought light to the fact that I don't need to care what they think anymore I am proud to be a feminine boy.
Thank you
Thank you 💖💖💖
Identity is not the same as presentation.
I just love this so amazing and yes it is your body your choice❤️❤️
Большое спасибо, что поделились своим опытом. Это очень помогло мне, это действительно важная тема. Счастья вам и добра, вы молодец 🤍
Cries in gender fluid /(g gender questioning)
I was literally just watching black butler- 👁️👄👁️
I feel like to many people judge to much and don't look at themselves and see that no one is the same and just because your trans, lesbian, gay, bi or whatever. Your actually still special either way. But it may not be shown on the outside but deep down it affects people for than you think. Words are hurtful but calling someone a girl or boy just because of the way they dress or look. I'm a female and I don't like the colour pink or purple, yet people still judge and say blue and black are for boys. You shouldn't have to wear a dress if your a girl, you shouldn't have to wear jeans and T-shirts if your a boy. Just believe in who you are and ignore the haters you face. Because you are you and thats what matters.
I am trans but I do that I wear a bunch of cloths and this really helped because my one friend said who is gender-fluid said that I was gender-fluid because I like girl clothes even though I want to be transgender they say that I am gender-fluid because of the way that I dress I really love the message of this video
welcome back to youtube sas anyways i think yea its ok for people to love whatever they like unless they become trans that's big issue cause u have to accept the way god created you but if u not religious that's another deal :P
Very pretty.
you such a strong person i'm so proud of you😍❤ btw, i hope it's ok to ask you that, do you like boys? or girls? (or both😅)
Even though I'm not a trans, I can still be both a tomboy and like some girly stuff sometimes. Your awesome dude!😏😏😏😏😏♡♡♡♡♡☆☆☆☆☆
im not trans male, but as a non-binary this causes me a lot of problems because i dress and act "femenine" and not "andogynous" and people always tell me that im what i look, im not, im non-binary and they need to respect that, is the same for everyone, you are who you are and how you dress doenst define that
I think it is cool that you are trans and I hope you have a lot of support for you being trans 🏳️⚧️ 😁
This was awesome.
I do not remember subscribing to half of the people I've subscribed to and I subscribe to a lot of people and you are one of the person's I forgot I subbed to-
👁️👄👁️💧
5:31 and now you're a very handsome boy💖
I want to dress like a Insta baddie but like at the same time my gender dismorphia is like “no”
What brand is that fantastic sweater you’re wearing?
How old are you not to be rude I just wanna know also love your videos
I love pink and I was so happy that my testosterone came in a pink packet :)
to put it in short not everyones gender identity and biological sex line up
Any advice for a female born gender fluid person who is closeted but prefer s he him pronoun s
I like you're her
Hi
You are pretty ? ☺ I am not as pretty you I love your videos ❤️
I’m so fucking confused with my life, I’m not trans but I’m feminine. I’m ok with being a guy but I wanna wear skirts and make up and stuff like that, I wanna be me but it’s definitely hard.
I think youre more non binairy if i see this , the best of both genders
Thanks for the video! Look at my name. Someone thought I was a dude cuz of it. I identify as a cisgender girl, but I call myself Jeffrey Dahmer only cuz I believe I am his reincarnation. Once I asked a friend if I could also get my makeup done. She was like "You're a guy." I'm not. Sasurealian, you're right. You're still male even though even though you wear pink ruffles. I'm still female even though I renamed myself Jeffrey Dahmer. What you wear and what name you go by doesn't always determine your gender identity.
People say pink is a many color
People:
Me : real men wear pink:3
Enough none.trans guys like dressing feminine or girlish
So why not?