Storytime: Lady at work told me I look like a man with my natural hair 😂
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- Опубліковано 7 лют 2025
- I didn’t want to speak on this and I really hardly ever do speak on things like this. But I found her comment to be highly inappropriate. Maybe I’m overthinking. What do you guys think???
#naturalhair #4chair #opinionpoll
Some people when they see a beautiful woman ,like yourself, their first instinct is to humble you. Weird!!!!
Awww thank you ❤ if that was her intention, it was a cute attempt but it didn’t work. It just made me side eye her lol
they’re intimidated, you look gorgg sis🇳🇬
Thank you love 💕 😊
I feel your pain girl, i have a super short pixie cut and people tell me i look like a little boy all the time. It aint easy bein breezy ig😭
I love how you started talking about beautiful, full and luxurious your hair is. That's how I feel about my Afro. Thank you for that! You're always gorgeous btw ❤❤❤❤
Yes it’s so important to affirm ourselves as black women and not wait for the world to do so. Thank you ❤❤
She can kick rocks! You are and look very beautiful!🥰
Thank you 😊
plenty women have short hairstyles and vice versa. don't pay any mind to their ignorant mocking, they know they could of kept it to themself 🙅🏽♀️
Same thing happened to me when I first started my locs. They were tiny as HELLL so I always made it a point to do my makeup and wear tight clothes to appear more feminine to not be mistaken for a man. Anyway, I worked a retail job, I ring out a customer and after ALL THAT TIME she looks me dead in my eyes and says “SIR” as if I wasn’t wearing a tight shirt w a DDD cup on and my makeup done!! Thankfully now I don’t care if someone makes a comment like that because I know they’re trying to be malicious, but I won’t let emm 😂 It gets to a point where you gotta laugh at em cuz they actually sound ridiculous like WHATT 😭😭😂
That sucks that you had to go through that. I’m glad you got to a place where you can laugh about it because these people are truly a joke
~ Cause if we being fr it’s giving glory😅. It’s give highly blessed and favored. Hello!
Thank you sis ❤️
You are stunning 🩷
Aw, thank you so much! 🥰
"Man" WHERE?!? You are beautiful btw 💗
@@theoneyoullneverforget97 thank you 🥰🥰
You know what I think it is - they don't like that our natural hair literally looks like a regal crown on our heads. The uniqueness, the artistry, the volume, - its jarring for them. Wearing natural also comes with a quiet confidence and that just shines outwards.
@@Treatyse I resonate with what you’re saying. That definitely could be it!
Hey
Also a doctor
Also black
It happens to me and my 4c fro is shorter than yours.
It doesn't matter.
You're still beautiful. I mean, you're actually beautiful ❤
@@YesToLifeAlways Hi doc 👋🏼 I didn’t realize how common this was. Thank you 😊
She is absolutely lying. You are gorgeous, and so is your hair. Just trying to make you feel insecure about your beauty.
@@ReiYuze thank you 💕
You are beautiful!
@@daynabee5521 thank you 💕
You are beutiful ❤❤❤❤
Thank you ❤
Now, I don't want you taking this the wrong way, seriously, but, I see where she's coming from. Let me explain: given how you explained, and how you said she explained, she couldn't see your face, almost at all, from looking from the outside into your car. Assuming she was, initially, at a distance, all she, most likely, could see was something like a silhouette because of the windows, know what I mean? So, just being able to see the shape of your hair, it could be that she see, mostly, black men wearing their hair like that. She probably just saw a curly afro and thought "man" you know?
So, when she got a better look and noticed it was you, I believe her when she said that you're beautiful. Because, I mean, you are. Just my perspective. Of course, I could be wrong, so I don't want you to think I'm just sidding with her. Just giving a different point of view
I hear you but even if she did think that, was it an appropriate thing to tell me to my face? I think it’s disrespectful given that we’re not friends, we’re coworkers and I’m the provider of the place.
@amaranjoku8448 you're definitely right about that. She had no reason to say that to you. She needs to learn to keep certain things to herself