Life After Harvard | 5 Years Later

[@anja3634]

Focusing on your own life and letting love come without chasing it is the best dating advice in my opinion

[@yesreneau]

I made a video about this where I (respectfully) disagreed.

[@ciphermeritum8294]

@@yesreneau is most likely referring to a video uploaded to her channel on February 7th 2021 titled 'What Nobody Tells You About "Finding Love"'' here.

[@tueresdios3453]

r you kidding me? we are the love, we have the love within us, we don't need any love

[@tueresdios3453]

we are the love

[@ken-mb5cp]

Go within. Live in peace.

[@Omar-yi2mv]

Have you met people who weren’t ivy graduates but seemed more intelligent compared to your peers at Harvard?

[@annier1873]

I’m sure she has.

[@sohyangworld1544]

That's very common lol

[@mlmj1994]

@@mandywhorwal642 Why was your last sentence necessary?

[@cloudsleeper]

Are you one of them Omar?

[@cliffdrums]

@@mandywhorwal642 You actually had something interesting to read then your entire statement just became irrelevant when you went stupid. Why bring in BLM & Antifa? like how did you start off alright then hit rock bottom so fast?

[@omowako]

NGL I can't believe it's been 5 years already. I've been watching your channel since 8th grade and I recently graduated from high school. It's been such a long journey

[@weluvvenus5880]

lmaoo same😭

[@anishiyyavoo8513]

SAMEEEE

[@simran550]

Sameeee

[@gregcamilo4856]

This is the first time I have ever commented on a youtube video and it is jus to say, same here.

[@tueresdios3453]

same

[@thomasmorrison3279]

People really lose perspective. It is just education, which is a commodity now. I went to a state school. When I graduated I got the same job, title and salary as two other guys in my company who went to Dartmouth and Stanford. Go to community college and a good state school to save money. The most important thing is work ethic. The second most important thing is the degree you get, e.g., computer science, engineering, accounting, nursing or some other marketable degree. The third and least important this is where you went to school. The most financially successful people I know either dropped out of college or went to state schools. One guy I know probably makes about 900k/year and graduated without honors from a state school. Don't waste your time and money on ivy league.

[@2815139070]

typical of a community-state school norm. Of course many IVYs + mix with you, while a higher % make so much more and become famous and so rich. Very few Norms like you will ever get there!

[@kavita344]

how ivy leagues work is getting the students who study there branded as special, as high IQ or smart people. They have a tie up with corporates who then pick these students up for high salaries and impart them training on the job and it sets them up for life.

[@eleskabradston7355]

great perspective

[@arlenec3983]

I 100% agree with you. I went to a state university , paid my $300 a quarter fees and graduated in 4 years with a computer information systems degree . Lived on campus so I can still experience college life and graduated university with literally no Debt! What I loved about my state university was that it really emphasized learn by doing . Had projects with the Air Force and a senior project with Disney. When I graduated college I already had a job offer in hand . And now I’m a Director for a large media tech company . Nothing wrong going to a state university, a lot of companies recruit at a state university also and the main thing they(we) look for is not just your classes. But what else did you do. Did you have college internships , work experience , what’s your senior project what did you learn from it . Do you have good communication and potential leadership skills .
Kudos though to those who went to the Ivies or top schools. But for those that didn’t , it’s fine too. Work hard/ study hard would get you far. Don’t compare yourself and always try and do your Best. But at the same time enjoy your years at college they go by fast!

[@gilian2587]

​@@arlenec3983 Are you doing okay, these days? Things have been rough for media tech companies recently.

[@kimanipanthier1098]

Me being a Harvard student watching this can corroborate that Harvard looked exactly like that during last semester 😂

[@no-de3lg]

I like your channel im subscribe to you to support u

[@retrow9718]

Ala buda ata wewe uko huko 😂😂

[@VonDutchNL]

Yeah you are definitely NOT a Harvard student🤣

[@carsondial5570]

don't compare yourself to others. do your own thing. I know it's hard.

[@aruzhanelaman2490]

Thanks🥺🥺❤️

[@arlenec3983]

I went to a state university , paid my $300 a quarter fees and graduated in 4 years with a computer information systems degree . Lived on campus so I can still experience college life and graduated university with literally no Debt! What I loved about my state university was that it really emphasized learn by doing . Had projects with the Air Force and a senior project with Disney. When I graduated college I already had a job offer in hand . And now I’m a Director for a large media tech company . Nothing wrong going to a state university, a lot of companies recruit at a state university also and the main thing they(we) look for is not just your classes. But what else did you do. Did you have college internships , work experience , what’s your senior project what did you learn from it . Do you have good communication and potential leadership skills .
Kudos though to those who went to the Ivies or top schools. But for those that didn’t , it’s fine too. Work hard/ study hard would get you far. Don’t compare yourself and always try and do your Best. But at the same time enjoy your years at college they go by fast!

[@janreichenbach265]

Arlene, this is wonderful to hear. You paid 300 US$ a quarter fees ? Are there state Us in the United States available with 1,200 US$ a year in tuition and fees ? That seems like a bargain given how tuition has developed in the last 20 - 30 years (UP !) .

[@thenewgeneration2378]

O wow! what school?

[@sattikiganguly4315]

It's something people who live in richer countries have. You're able to get opportunities just because.

[@noorykorky5056]

That is absolutely true. Many Ivy League students should be told, "check your privilege!", although I should as well even though I am not (yet-- necessarily) an Ivy League student.

[@tylama]

I am honestly tired of Harvard and Ivy League content. This whole year has been a bloodbath of content telling you how to get into one. Yesreneou is one of the OG you tubers to create contents in this niche, but this is so rampant now. here for your monologue delivery, so articulate and sophisticated!

[@DBCOOPER888]

There's been a good deal of content lately about the dark side of attending the Ivy League, which is kind of refreshing.

[@wolfferoni]

Is it an American thing to be asked where you went to school? I understand maybe asking that in a job interview (although it really shouldn't matter if you fit the requirements), but why do people ask outside of that? Is what college you go to really that important?
Also, I think the whole getting married later thing is just a trend that's happening with people of our generation which will continue with each subsequent generation. I'm not sure how small graduating classes are at Ivy Leagues, but I have no clue who most of the people I graduated with are. As far as I know, only two people from my high school are married and both have kids because they'd always wanted the family life. A lot of people I know don't really want to get married, let alone have kids.

[@frankiepaulson3293]

People ask where you went to school very often! it’s up there with “where are you from” and “what do you do for work.” I didn’t realize it was an American thing lol

[@soniadossa7265]

@@frankiepaulson3293 it’s a symbol of class and prestige in America and something a lot of people flex

[@twinkletoes6290]

@@soniadossa7265 just like this video, which is so disgusting. I can’t wait until a few more years passes and she looks back and this video bc she’s going to be utterly embarrassed.

[@truetoyou9764]

I own my own business make 350k a year never been asked that . If some did ask that I would think less of the for valuing something so meaning less. Ivy League is ruing America with woke teachings

[@chasing-mental-clarity]

Yeah people do ask but I’d say people who go to college ask. Those who don’t go to college don’t really ask

[@kq8349]

Lol my parents didn’t go to colleges but tons of Ivy graduates work for them. I went to MIT for undergraduate and couldn’t find a job in my senior year so I went to Princeton for a PhD.

[@aryanprakash4716]

no shit.

[@ivy3420]

what are you studying?

[@ivy3420]

i think it depends on other factors too. i feel like nowadays we have so many elite school graduates compared to in the past. and that it might be easier in the past to start some business etc. that you accumulate some wealth along side ur career growth

[@NOCLUEinvalid]

I feel like if you want to a elite university, you probably want to find a job that is a good fit for you vs just any job

[@gilian2587]

If you can manage to be self employed; you can carve a niche with blood sweat and tears. You don't need a degree to do that. Just remember that books are cheap and taking the time to read them is priceless. Warren Buffet's advisor Benjamin Graham wrote books. Feynman wrote books. Lloyd M Smith, who invented the Gene Sequencer wrote books. A jumpstart on your education that can put you miles ahead of your peers in months is just a few books away.

[@scottjackson163]

Stanford graduate here. I have mixed feelings about my elite school label. The exclusivity becomes cloying and the self-congratulatory unction is repulsive. Just as you cannot drive a Porsche 911 Turbo S to Walmart, so you cannot mix unselfconsciously with others who “know”.

[@see9968]

people are dying…

[@gilian2587]

I went to high school with a guy who went to Stanford. Right before leaving... he said he wanted to develop engineering skills to the extent where someone can point to a design and say build it -- and he can build it. He works in medical robotics manufacturing, these days.

[@julhippo]

i love that you are not afraid to be yourself and keep it real haha you have a unique sense of humor and you aren't afraid to show it. i have a feeling you will find a guy if you haven't already that appreciates that! Glad to see you're still uploading videos

[@cassiehunt2686]

Could it possibly be that Ivy League is so exclusionary that your friends are largely Ivy League because you are implicitly biased?

[@jameelahedwards8550]

Didn't go to Harvard, but I experienced the same things with having an above average peer group. I finally feel like I'm where I should be in life and wish you the best on your journey

[@RobertMJohnson]

if you didn't go to harvard or yale or princeton, you didn't experience the same things.

[@attemptingmusic0918]

As a Duke graduate (with a masters from Brown), I don’t find anything that you said exclusive to Ivy schools, but rather private schools in general.

[@RobertMJohnson]

two schools the alumni of whom most people cannot tolerate.

[@ashleymutasa8610]

Lol this just makes me feel bad for not going to an Ivy :) a little elitist

[@sweetiepie9411]

I mean... honestly what she said is the truth. Ivy grads are in a big club and we aren’t in it lol. But that’s okay everyone has a different path in life. I’m happy for them, many worked hard to get into those schools.

[@supermagario]

Don't worry. She's lying too.

[@jackyoung8354]

@@supermagario wdym?

[@xfga4531]

@@sweetiepie9411 That’s literally a lie tho. Most of the people getting into Ivy’s are from feeder schools. They aren’t working hard. Their parents are just rich. 🤷‍♂️

[@creepybabby]

@@xfga4531 While that's unfortunately true in a lot of cases, there are people who I'm sure worked super hard. It's not fair to them to say that their parents bought their way in.

[@ashshawon6840]

Do you stay in touch with your high school friends & what they're doing?

[@kimanipanthier1098]

I watched your videos when I was applying to college and now I’m a rising sophomore at Harvard so I definitely appreciate all your videos and insights!

[@dimplekunzaw4475]

How is it studying at Harvard?? I want to know. Even though I'm not rich enough but I still wanna go to Harvard 😞

[@narizza]

I've been watching you for so long and I actually just graduated from Columbia so the thumbnail of this video caught my eye so quick LOL. Interesting to hear your reflections five years out because for some reason I feel like I'm already feeling the same one month in. As everyone seems to have their next step figured out, I'm still trying to navigate finding those right opportunities and balancing that with yknow...rest!

[@sweetiepie9411]

Thank you for your honesty. Very refreshing.

[@brianjondoeneesmith]

The celebrity stars are all ivy leaguers and they golf on Sundays with their grandparents

[@1290DR]

I find it funny how she talks about some of their friends accumulating enough money to completly separate themselves from the lower majority of the population (why would a super rich lerson not go to subway) and most of their frienda actually working finance and then concluding that ivys are focused on changing the world! I mean c'mon how does this fit together?! Probably not focus on changing it to the better unless for themselves 🤣

[@Whoiskevinjones]

"Me being a Harvard student..." shows you never learned grammar or how to write at Harvard. Waste of money.

[@VonDutchNL]

@@Whoiskevinjones where do you see that "me being a Harvard student" sentence?

[@RobertMJohnson]

if your friends are all ivy league, you are an elitist and don't know it.

[@rock3tcatU233]

That "tick tock" feeling gets worse with me as I'm approaching 30, only 5 months left... :')

[@lucy-ferprofiler5379]

Well, your career will never wake up one day and tell you it does not love you anymore. To me, it seems delusional or overly idealistic to place too much importance on romantic relationships. Hope it will work out for you though.

[@kalyanvadlamani7607]

People can be dissatisfied with their career too.

[@coffeemug3009]

You should ask all of your ivy league friends how much student loans they still have to pay.

[@frostboll436]

Imposter syndrome
Make money hand over fist
Nerds of a feather
To be in a bubble
Ivory tower
Lose ones perspective

[@wkejnwelfvnwklnv]

I used to watch you like 5 years ago! How fast time flies, huh? ❤

[@fcsolis]

I went to a public college, went to a nearby public university for graduate school, and am teaching at a nearby community college. I was full of youthful ideals like you so I joined the Peace Corps. Byebye.

[@bbsara0146]

the opposite of impposter syndrome happened to me. I went to an ivy league school and was not impressed. I was like "this place is a dump, the food is bad, teachers are not as smart as I expected, students are not smart."

[@gilian2587]

I could see that happen.

[@SlayByJay]

No idea why UA-cam is recommending me this, but here I am 🤷‍♀️

[@Diego0wnz]

I love how wrong this video could be viewed, but I understand haha

[@docedcrib9079]

You need to write a book.

[@alitzahroy3974]

No comments :(

[@RocketF1sh]

they just told you the wrong place cause obvious reasons

[@arturt7192]

The last thing I would care when meeting a girl is the name of the school she went. I think we men in general don't care if we are dealing with a Harvard or Community College girl while females look for partners that are above in social and financial status which makes total sense in my opinion. They should be more selective since raising kids alone or with an idiot is really really hard.

[@kennet2282]

But I bet a few of them have times to sit peacefully and talk about life like you

[@american236]

Comparison is the thief of joy.

[@MrsMollyify]

I would tone down the conceitedness Taylor, I don't understand where this is coming from lately. I used to love your videos but the way you talk about yourself doesn't seem confident and sassy anymore in the fun way it used to- it's just very conceited and I believe that would change if you would make an effort to diversify your friend group a bit more and get some distance in order to understand what you sound like when you talk about the ivy league and yourself the way you do in this video for instance. I was so dissapointed I'm sorry or else I wouldn't be spending so much time typing this up for you. Please just try to reflect on how you are coming across in this video.

[@kutie216]

Sadly, I’m not sure she’s capable of that level of introspection.

[@MrsMollyify]

I feel like you might want to change your friend group being so strictly homogenous if you are interested in self improvement Taylor ;) Only ivy league? I used to feel defined by my med school studies as much as you seem to define yourself by having gone to an ivy league school but in the end it doesn't really matter- it's time to enter the real world :)

[@coffeemug3009]

Agree. Her content might impressed some high school kids who aspire to go to harvard, but for most of us here, it just sad watching her trapped in the 'ivy league' bubble mindset and thinking that's the highlight of her entire existence.

[@tessy28]

Some people's lives unfortunately peak in University. That's their entire highlight. It doesn't get any better after that.

[@McJamEs209]

Congratulations on graduating from Harvard!

[@Bob-di8cz]

I suggest that you spend less time comparing yourself to others and just continue to work hard and be happy with your own life and success.

[@varunv2584]

I want to go to Columbia because the esteemed Physicist Brian Greene is a professor there.

[@gilian2587]

You have aspirations for String Theory?

[@savannahscott90]

For anyone who’s feeling down:
Romans 8:18 “The pain you’ve been feeling can’t compare to the joy that is coming!” John 3:16 “For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son that whosoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life.” Whatever is going on right now, have faith, your situation will get better. :) Jesus bless anyone reading this and have a great day!!🥰✨💖

[@everythinggaming9651]

Amen

[@almond_b25]

Amen 🤗💖

[@yonatan8504]

I have never been so disconnected with fellow human like I did to you.I hear ,even more ,understand what are you saying but my heart refuse to link up with you at emotional level. Could it be that is the opportunity cost to going to ivy?

[@chonchobar378]

Lol

[@kutie216]

Yes but it has nothing to do with her being an ivy league grad and everything to do with her arrogance

[@MuERtOvLoGS]

I just love that laugh 😃
🤔And even though I'm not a Harvard graduate, I do happen to find myself shocked by the great achievements my classmates have been achieving!! 🙃And here I am a Substitute trying to get a masters in counseling lol.

[@lasalsa111]

that part when she said "People just give you all this like credit that you havent earned yet and I will gladly take it" ha ha ha ha ha ha *evil laugh* really such a mood 🤣🤣🤣

[@Andrecivicc]

And I thought that ivy league schools were actually a university somewhere in the US LOL. Anyway, thanks for the video lady, you might not be the richest kid among your friends, but you are probably the funniest one.

[@sarakadam5304]

Why is this so backhanded lmaoo/j 💀

[@stephenmakwinski5693]

I started watching your videos before college and I just recently graduated from Columbia. Now you’re there making a video lol full circle.

[@truetoyou9764]

Why do Ivy League grads define themselves based on their education for the rest of their life. You went to a Ivy League to star in some shitty d class tv show. What is stupid money? 500k 5mill? I know a college dropout that threw their money into game stop last year turned 100k to 10 mil no Ivy League necessary

[@mindyvu3049]

elitism??

[@AP-pm9qy]

I know right! Although if your greatest accomplishment in life is getting into a specific college, then its kinda sad to have peaked at 18-22.

[@bmc868]

People think they are shit when someone says he did Harvard....No People think you are privilege you got top contacts network and connexions.....

[@thienphan979]

You have a beautiful voice. Love what you're doing.

[@JewishJeff839]

What "voice classes" are available at Harvard??

[@dannydanny9875]

I like your outfit, especially the Hat

[@bluesclues3820]

Hmm I'm gettig very SLIGHT Miley Cyrus vibes just without the accent (especially the laugh) I mean it's like super slight, almost non existent but still existent.

[@jonathanwatanabe8246]

College was awesome. I went to the school I wanted to go to. It was a magical time, and 20 years hence all I can say is. College does only teach you how to think and work and become flexible in picking up a variety of differnet topics. Outside of STEM, Medicine, and Law.... once you get a College Degree the world is your oyster. Yeah work your ass off, so you can get scholarships for someone else to pay for it, but in the end work is just work.

[@A_Gib49]

What would like to do besides finding a career? And building up a family?
Are there things that you would like to do before that?

[@dannydanny9875]

Taylor did a thing

[@AnthonySC213]

I went backwards in you're videos I see why everything offends you now .

[@lmvdam]

Please elaborate?

[@kritinmathur75]

I am going to an IVY as a graduate student in Fall 23, and I think this ACTIVATED my imposter sydrome.

[@dustinlin1119]

Read "The Purpose- Driven Life" by Rick Warren. Very interesting book

[@NirmalaKumari-rb8mw]

You should be frictional story books writter

[@jimmyanaya3293]

I love her laugh it sounds like Seth Rogen

[@Itsdivinedivine]

Thank you for your content

[@saranibhattacharya2849]

Lot of 'intelligent' kids don't have the money to go to an IVY league or these universities are not in the same country as yourself. Come to India and find intelligent people !!

[@american236]

There’s a long and hard way to financial success and a quicker easier way to financial success which is MARRIAGE. Marry a rich guy.

[@losasakarosa9050]

Girl you almost have 200k subs that’s amazing!!

[@Dan-lq6dg]

Go Big Red!

[@MyWordsAreTheTruth]

CAN'T WATCH THE VIDEO. SIMPLY HORRIBLE!

[@thelondonlolTV]

GETTT ONNNN TWITCH!!!!!!

[@johnbatchler8551]

Life after junior college drop out

[@alexcisneros2980]

She took speech and pitch classes.

[@alexcisneros2980]

Or is faking her voice like the theranos chick.

[@MrsMollyify]

This video is why I unsubscribed unfortunately.

[@noflyingcarsjustcovid-1981]

I had a girlfriend like her at Cal once; just once.

[@jaimev6062]

Inspiring content!

[@robkim55]

Some how your video brings me good memories of my school years. Why?

[@yujia2667]

this branding thing is unfair and stupid and i cant believe this entire video became an advertisement ..

[@jamesjacob242]

Anyone living on less than they make, needs to learn how to invest for a better future.

[@hilsongolden2655]

I don't think anybody should be left out when going for digital assets

[@baswdcesaqwsedrftr2858]

In few years or so, people will definitely be kicking themselves in regrets for missing the opportunity to buy and invest in cryptocurrency.

[@lukesamuel1611]

Rich people make their money work for them. They know that investing is the key to growing their finances.

[@cvyt2717]

Stocks are good, but crypto is next level man

[@blinks6528]

I invest in both stock and crypto but I believe crypto is doing more better

[@proyectocultural4679]

You're a Harvard kid but not as successful as you should be ... no offense ....

[@yesreneau]

By whose standards?

[@JewishJeff839]

@@yesreneau Anyone who can PAY for their child to GO to Harvard...

[@cooldude2106]

Define success . She seems happy and joyful, she is more successful.

[@coffeemug3009]

@@yesreneau by Harvard's standard. They have a yearly employment data of Harvard grads.

[@jragon9215]

@@yesreneau come on you went to Harvard aren’t you smart enough to come up with a better comeback?

[@youngathlete3947]

You´re so cool, I´m german but also love your content.

[@jeffreychavey4161]

Ever try podcasting? You’re kinda quirky and interesting. People would like that

[@JackKemet]

Good luck with your Harvard
Never went to college, I run my own business and I'm building a mansion in the Caribbean...

[@zzzmzzz4466]

you might be the first one i subscribe for patreon.

[@marioantoniocrespoMexican92]

The best part of being born to very famous & really talented singing family you are guaranteed natural talent in singing from genes. If are related to frank Sinatra, Elvis Presley, Michael Jackson, Freddie Mercury you are blessed with great singing genes from them 🎤 some people were both to be singers

[@hayambangkok]

What major did you do at Harvard?

[@Zenden928]

Where’s the online course ? I didn’t see it in the first link. Please advise

[@RashaudMonroe]

You do got a big yt channel tho, so you kinda cool

[@gitabhattacharya2459]

Fellow 2016’er here. Also, I love your laugh 🤓

[@ken-mb5cp]

Who cares what other people do? What makes us so insecure?

[@samtavarezproductions8886]

A former high school classmate of mine recently graduated Columbia with a Master’s in journalism.

[@nancyawhite5848]

Do you associate with persons who did not attend an Ivy League school or who did not attend college?

[@roadrunner734]

What's your name again? Tganks for this video

[@nikhilagrawal6834]

you are high.....

[@Foxxxo]

Do you Ivy League people have any other universities you consider your equal? Outside of the US?

[@anja3634]

Oxford and Cambridge mainly

[@Mary-fp3fc]

As well as Australia's top institutions such as The University of Melbourne...etc

[@h4ppyc8mp3r2]

Trinity college in Dublin

[@Mary-fp3fc]

@Omar Some of them r like Ivy Leagues so their education and research is pretty good. Actually I attend one of them so I can confirm myself :) Some r ranked top 30-50 in the world.

[@Mary-fp3fc]

@Omar My uni have a lot of international students here so it's pretty well known

[@g.rajesh6251]

Madam can 3 years bachelor degree are eligible for study mba in hardvard can poor/ middle class background afford to study there work experience is compulsory please give information

[@benjilani646]

i think 1+1=2 in hardvert or bluevert.
just i know lot of inventer scientist work under supervision of ex student of hard vert lol in work place.and when was descovery they will say scientist from harvet with his name and his team who real one they do the job.
is that simple algorithm algebra avisina angelo newton they are not hard hard vert

[@HoratioTalbot771_a]

Im not smart enough for you . I did not go to Harvard but my Great Grandmothers great Uncle was president of Harvard for 1847 to 1849 . His name was Edward Everett . Call me

[@birigu]

Hello, I tried to buy your course but the site doesn't seem to support my card. It says "Your card does not support this type of purchase".
Is there any other way to make a purchase like paypal and stuff. Please help

[@yesreneau]

Lol, try a different card! Or email me at [e-mail] and then we can figure it out

[@sasikalasampoornam371]

Hai !!!!there lockdown over??