How to Deal with an Exploitative Spouse? Sadhguru

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  • Responding to a question about exploitative relationships, Sadhguru explains that meditativeness is an important quality to bring into our lives and our families, rather than trying to fix the other person. Meditativeness fundamentally means to become in such a way that we are not the source of the problem -- wherever we are, we are a solution.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 108

  • @dharnasahu2506
    @dharnasahu2506 4 роки тому +1432

    You can feel the pain the woman's pain in her words, i hope she's doing alright today 🙏🙏🙏

  • @amberturquoise9140
    @amberturquoise9140 4 роки тому +352

    Thank you sir I had been suffering from a mentally abusing relation. And I never had idea what to do. I struggled a lot but now now today my mind is settled I know what to do.. just be brave and have courage. Face it alone and be strong & independent 🙏thank you. Meant way lot you Sir, can know what I meant.

  • @mymagicalworld
    @mymagicalworld Рік тому +23

    Better not to make fun of the lady...she is really in stress. If you do not teach correct lesson to such husband thn that fellow may drag u to death.

  • @thenf9371
    @thenf9371 11 місяців тому +14

    How can sadguru laugh at her situation I can understand her pain.

  • @sanvistark8837
    @sanvistark8837 Рік тому +16

    The mansplaining is so annoying! "You want to fix him right?" (*because his pre-made answer was that you should fix yourself... so he changed her question and the answer is "Your original question (fix yourself!) "

    • @rajshiva1093
      @rajshiva1093 Рік тому +6

      Agree..no one seems to point this out

  • @beekayebolaji87
    @beekayebolaji87 4 роки тому +57

    ...8:50everything there is a consequence but let it be a conscious consequence...

  • @ginaland411
    @ginaland411 4 роки тому +333

    Hope she found the courage...

  • @realandrare1338
    @realandrare1338 5 років тому +106

    U r not a source of problem u r a solution wherever u go. - basic purpose of meditation 👍
    If u r d problem or the one who complains about the problem.nobody wants to see ur face so true!

  • @towardsabetterlife1609
    @towardsabetterlife1609 Рік тому +17

    And what is the solution for womanizer, rapist, child abuser? To help him find another woman daily? There are some situations where you can't just live your life by ignoring everything.. she is in pain and u find humor in that. Very disappointed ☹️

  • @vandyke7575
    @vandyke7575 5 років тому +145

    So helpful. You are a very wise sage! I have always wanted to meet you!! I wish you many blessings!! And continued peace and health!! I have learned so much from listening to your talks. It seems the more I learn, the less I know. Such is the paradox of life I guess. Thank you Sadguru for choosing this path in your life and for sharing your beautiful gift!!!

  • @manjunathb.s.9068
    @manjunathb.s.9068 9 років тому +105

    thank you very much for videos uploaded ,people may become aware of what is right what is wrong certainly society will be benefited by watching these videos

  • @rajrajan5869
    @rajrajan5869 6 років тому +240

    well said guru ji not only for ladies it's common to both men n women.....

  • @Lr8_youtube
    @Lr8_youtube Рік тому +4

    Be full of:
    - solutions & resources, ppl will run to you
    - take care of yourself internally,, inner purification

  • @dbsk06
    @dbsk06 4 роки тому +150

    Wow is the woman crying? Poor thing

  • @priyanka1506
    @priyanka1506 4 роки тому +65

    Hard words but true reality😇😇

  • @PradeepKumar-vp9ti
    @PradeepKumar-vp9ti 6 років тому +39

    Well explained!

  • @Alok_Kumar_Software_Engineer
    @Alok_Kumar_Software_Engineer 9 років тому +33

    Very effective speech. So over all very good.

  • @Sammybizness
    @Sammybizness 9 років тому +14

    Very good!

  • @beyoundblues1711
    @beyoundblues1711 7 років тому +21

    no words 😊 so simple n so effective.

  • @ramachandrareddy7890
    @ramachandrareddy7890 7 років тому +25

    thank you sadguru

  • @shamimsurani8996
    @shamimsurani8996 6 років тому +28

    I love Sadh guru and his teachings

  • @nandkumarnair9654
    @nandkumarnair9654 8 років тому +35

    shambho shiv Shambho!

  • @theredpilgrim
    @theredpilgrim 5 років тому +7

    Thanks a lot Sadhguru

  • @georgegilles9008
    @georgegilles9008 8 років тому +22

    Beautiful.

  • @sandhyarajpg8807
    @sandhyarajpg8807 8 років тому +29

    phenomenal advise great master

  • @nazeerpasha2075
    @nazeerpasha2075 Рік тому +5

    In Hinduism, there is no concept of separation or divorce among the married couples and there is no route to escape from an abusive relationship. In India, even if they go to court, it will take 3-4 years for the case to come to the bench. That is why domestic abuse is so common in India and a main reason for the high rate of suicide among women.
    The effect of DV is not only physical, psychological or emotional but also impacts upon physical, social, interpersonal and financial domains. The survivors are compelled to live poor quality of life and they have to financially become dependent on their 'mayeke'/ (parental home). They also have less societal interaction due to the social shame of the poor relationship. Due to which they develop many psychological symptoms such as anxiety, fear of going out, lack of self-esteem, confidence, isolation, lack of confidence and self-blame.

  • @fareeda1970
    @fareeda1970 7 років тому +28

    Wise wise man
    💚

  • @mentemadhavapeddiraju2293
    @mentemadhavapeddiraju2293 9 років тому +23

    thank you sadhguru... for showing or making solution for my life...

  • @sagebay2803
    @sagebay2803 8 років тому +39

    Very helpful! Thank you, Sadhguru.

  • @skidboi5718
    @skidboi5718 5 років тому +13

    This is very insightful

  • @Rebel101
    @Rebel101 9 років тому +28

    wow... finally, fundamentals!

  • @nayanmdesai
    @nayanmdesai 5 років тому +8

    SO TRUE.

  • @paxtonwong9067
    @paxtonwong9067 4 роки тому +37

    Does Sadhguru suggest the lady to end her marriage?

  • @towardsabetterlife1609
    @towardsabetterlife1609 Рік тому +7

    So what's the solution for drunk alcoholic unemployed husband.. to provide him alcohol and get beaten up by him every night??

  • @sandraloysoonleng4944
    @sandraloysoonleng4944 7 років тому +66

    You are awesome , Sadhguru 👏

  • @deepak696
    @deepak696 8 років тому +16

    Thank you so much!

  • @empressnicholle6180
    @empressnicholle6180 5 років тому +36

    Wise words👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 it's very important to know who you are

  • @TheAkf7
    @TheAkf7 9 років тому +23

    Thank you Sadhguru!!

  • @nitinmahendru92
    @nitinmahendru92 7 років тому +16

    Excellent Post.

  • @lisagnzlz
    @lisagnzlz 11 місяців тому

    I always look forward to listening to your Videos . Thank You for sharing your knowledge ❤

  • @sh5415
    @sh5415 7 років тому +30

    Wow he is da best

  • @xandrarod2004
    @xandrarod2004 Рік тому +9

    How dare you say that!!! In a society where they have arrange marriages, children children children! Marital rape! And women don't have a saying in these cultures! Poor woman I felt the pain in her voice

  • @nalinikasat7291
    @nalinikasat7291 9 років тому +12

    Thank you Sadguru.

  • @kavitabadoreea6106
    @kavitabadoreea6106 6 років тому +66

    Knowing you is such a very big thing for me .
    I got to know about you by a friend from India ,
    I'm grateful to my friend who introduced You.

  • @CharuttaDasture
    @CharuttaDasture 4 роки тому +6

    Best video ever

  • @sudhirpandey915
    @sudhirpandey915 9 років тому +9

    Great sadguru .straight sadguru.

  • @navyaarjun3897
    @navyaarjun3897 6 років тому +15

    So so true

  • @abhishekksingh8806
    @abhishekksingh8806 5 років тому +34

    I love u Sadhguru😊

  • @sanjeevshastri5960
    @sanjeevshastri5960 4 роки тому +7

    Fantastic information

  • @beenapp1009
    @beenapp1009 6 років тому +11

    awesome

  • @makundasjourney1319
    @makundasjourney1319 4 роки тому +7

    I Love You Scholar 🙏🏽💓🌟💓🙏🏽

  • @babaksalehi3176
    @babaksalehi3176 5 років тому +5

    I love this video

  • @amarrs3608
    @amarrs3608 5 років тому +5

    Awesome

  • @powerofone1645
    @powerofone1645 9 років тому +23

    Consciousness Is.

  • @nagarajaca2005
    @nagarajaca2005 8 років тому +12

    nice

  • @shwetasharma472
    @shwetasharma472 6 років тому +8

    True

  • @tanmayvarshney2328
    @tanmayvarshney2328 Рік тому

    Great video

  • @Eddie2P
    @Eddie2P 7 років тому +27

    8:22 umm

  • @sanvistark8837
    @sanvistark8837 Рік тому +6

    4:03 - "how will the next generation get fixed when her little boy sees his mom doing all the chores and will expect his future wife to do the same?"; The little boy now will grow up to be an exploitative man because "monkey see, monkey do".
    What a load of bull crap... I should have gone into preaching as well... would have atleast done a better job than him and given her the right answer which is to get divorced. The man will continue to be exploitative as long as he does not have face the consequences of his actions.

  • @The21Poonam
    @The21Poonam 4 роки тому +20

    Sadhguru ji is there any way to get rid of unwanted person from our life or is there any mantra to be chanted

  • @tiramisu9358
    @tiramisu9358 Рік тому +2

    6:09 getting along doesn't have anything to do with forced 'action'. It's just a matter of fusion of sperm and egg and once the baby is conceived what other choice does the mother have that is not judged by the society? Only to beget the child. So that's how couples who have children, children, children and those who don't get along.

  • @mouchumiborsaikia7365
    @mouchumiborsaikia7365 Рік тому

    Thank you so much Sadguru

  • @vinitaranghera5393
    @vinitaranghera5393 9 років тому +13

    Thankyou sadhguru

  • @Durgesh_S
    @Durgesh_S 4 роки тому +15

    Be solution not problem

  • @saibhawani7555
    @saibhawani7555 7 років тому +26

    U r my inspiration Guruji..

  • @madhavibhamidipati1313
    @madhavibhamidipati1313 5 років тому +5

    Brilliant reply. 🙏🙏Sadguru

  • @lissuga516
    @lissuga516 Рік тому +2

    Wow! Truth is a bitch! And it hurts!! I sometimes don’t agree with this guy but I give my respect because he couldn’t say it any more clearly!! 👏 👏 👏 he just hit me with a huge bolder!!!

  • @rahulsankalpa7731
    @rahulsankalpa7731 8 років тому +13

    Great :)

  • @sridharanvit
    @sridharanvit 9 років тому +6

    #SadhguruJV

  • @kybviews7275
    @kybviews7275 5 років тому +6

    Interesting...

  • @damianfreeney9710
    @damianfreeney9710 7 років тому +7

    💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾

  • @joannguzman3703
    @joannguzman3703 5 років тому +8

    🙏

  • @bharattomar4612
    @bharattomar4612 4 роки тому +2

    Thankyou sir

  • @kalyanchakravarthy188
    @kalyanchakravarthy188 2 місяці тому

    Sadhguru🙇
    Healthy soil plays a vital role in climate regulation by storing and releasing water and nutrients. Let's Save Soil for a stable and resilient climate. #soilforclimateaction

  • @aseembansal6929
    @aseembansal6929 9 років тому +14

    Much similar to sartre's philosophy

  • @fpmcrw
    @fpmcrw 9 років тому +20

    4;15 onwards

  • @aloufin
    @aloufin 6 років тому +23

    Haha, they choose to do the close up @8:22

  • @gracyrg
    @gracyrg Рік тому

    It's a good idea for those who don't save, who are shopholic and waste money like anything so every ideas differ

  • @Vivek-mq1gf
    @Vivek-mq1gf 2 роки тому +3

    🙏🏽🙏🏽💐

  • @lifepath5308
    @lifepath5308 Рік тому +1

    I don't have house of mine.. I have abusive parents
    Then I went to my relatives.. there also I got abused n they told me to go home..
    Then I came to bf's house n here also I got abusive in laws n bcz of that Bf also abuses me.
    Everyone is taking advantage of my situation that I'm helpless person 😢

    • @lifepath5308
      @lifepath5308 Рік тому

      I want to build my own house and live alone ♾️ but I don't know how to deal with my anxiety and depression and how im gonna save for house.. buy plot n all as a single unsupported girl 😭😭

  • @mysticqueen.
    @mysticqueen. 7 років тому +14

    ❤❤❤

  • @miss.samanthalee6793
    @miss.samanthalee6793 8 років тому +33

    Aum Namah Shiva

  • @anjmoon6601
    @anjmoon6601 4 роки тому +2

    🙏🌸🙂

  • @sanjeevshastri5960
    @sanjeevshastri5960 4 роки тому +1

    Ok

  • @raadhaenaidu3635
    @raadhaenaidu3635 9 років тому +4

    With Sathguru words pale!!!!!!

  • @godisafrequencystaytuned259
    @godisafrequencystaytuned259 7 років тому +7

    💜💙💚

  • @Neutral_Mind
    @Neutral_Mind 9 місяців тому

    The most Perfect personality among the male gender are those, who were extremely straight like myself and prefer to remain bachelor, rather than marry and live in between the toes of the fair gender and then scream whole life complaining.😂😂😂

  • @Neutral_Mind
    @Neutral_Mind 9 місяців тому +1

    I have seen fair gender babies being such highly manipulative and self centered at a tiny age. I keep wondering about those husbands, who tolerate these manipulative hypocrats after they have grown up.😢😢😢

  • @rocknlearn1946
    @rocknlearn1946 Рік тому

    Real pain of housewife 😢

  • @asankasampath-ow3sg
    @asankasampath-ow3sg Рік тому +1

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️☀️☀️☀️☀️💐💐💐💐🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @mineazco8866
    @mineazco8866 Рік тому

    He said “hell” many times!!!!!!! I’m conflicted

  • @sunnygusain
    @sunnygusain 7 років тому +4

    🤗

  • @rickonmaui7054
    @rickonmaui7054 6 років тому +5

    :)

  • @vtrntic6627
    @vtrntic6627 Рік тому

    Sadhguru Bhenki 👌

  • @yogeshkumar3364
    @yogeshkumar3364 2 роки тому +8

    How do i fix my exploirative wife

  • @bitcoin7231
    @bitcoin7231 Рік тому +1

    Actually women also torture

  • @shilpi2810
    @shilpi2810 5 років тому +5

    🙆🙆🙆

  • @unknownvd
    @unknownvd 2 місяці тому +1

    Laughinh at this situation is not funny

  • @Neutral_Mind
    @Neutral_Mind 9 місяців тому +1

    The fair gender is always unfair. Mentally they are always extremely intelligent to manipulate things from their personal gain perspective. That is why I did not marry because I am straight personality.😊😊😊

  • @joeantsaphia3446
    @joeantsaphia3446 Рік тому

    Real pain of a woman