First it was DJ Zinhle being judged for being close to Aka's family after break up. Now yall are judging Thobeka.... don't y'all learn to just keep it going
@LollyMadikiza-xw4ok if the grandparents are the ones keeping her close cos of the bond they shared and still share- cant really do anything. This is exactly like DJ Zinhle, AKAs family is very loving and people learnt that after his passing. Zinhle wasn't after AKA, it's just a bond they have. Plus they are family cos of the child same as Thobeka
Shame, She needs to move on😢. She needs to start from scratch again, I think she has lost herself.. She saw herself as a wife already and is holding on to the fact that the parents love her. Grief-stricken and Revenging wastes more time.. Askies Thobeka.
There’s a reason why he didn’t marry her , as sad as it is , Casper’s parents are her son’s grandparents and that’s exactly how the relationship should be ,her calling him my father is just out of line ,
Casper proposed and Thobeka turned him down. It's not like Casper totally rejected uThobeka. If Thobeka were that desperate she would have married him.
@@dot510 well she is clearly regretting it now and its desperation to call your ex's father your father when they never even lobolad you, especially when you know that the baby's father is a married man. She rejected the marriage proposal meaning she didn't want to be part of that family's life. Makamove on now
I don’t think that was her being messy. She’ll always have a relationship with them because she has a child with their son, and if he’s been more of a father figure to her then who are we to police that? Just let Bex breathe guys, haowa.
@@BetsySeichokelo Remember she turned Casper's marriage proposal down. If she was that desperate she would have accepted. Ifact, Thobeka chose to be unmarried if she wanted Pulane would have remained a side chick. She is not beimg messy at all just her being her.
Thobeka needs to let go for her peace sake. This is embarrassing. I meant she could have said have said "happy birthday to my sons grandfather" instead of father it speaks volume. cassper made it very clear where his priorities lies and it's with pulane. He said loudly that he married her "willingly". Why is thobeka still holding on to cassper bathong what is she trying to achieve by doing this to herself hle. 💔
Its a tricky one for family and friends. How do they divorce each other from a relationship they've shared for many years, where they've grown to love each other as family. Clearly she has a good relationship with the family and she's the mother of their grandson. The only person to manage this mess should be the person who created it.
As a baby mama, this is wild!! 😂😂 The family is allowing it, you cant blame it all on her!! One thing about inlaws wheb they don't really like the wife, they will show it 😂😂😂😂 The wife will get tired of it soon! This is why I always say women with no kids should not marry men with kids 😂
But cassper chose pulane and he said loudly and proudly how much he loves her and married her willingly. Thobeka shouldn't do this to herself. Imagine when pulane gives that family an heir like her obviously the dynamic and atmosphere of the relationship will change and she'll be left idling alone. That's why I said she needs to move on.
@@kelebogilemotlogelwa1582 Why is Pulane bothered by Thobeka's relationship with her child's grandpa? Why is everyone bothered? Pulane should be Pulane & focus on Casper relationship with her inlaws and stop the stupid competition. This who chose who what level madness is that? Everyone knows who she is. Thobeka decided to post that for her own reasons whether she was right or wrong she should have just minded her own business as well. Thobeka & Pulane are family now whether they like it or not fir the sake of the baby.
Thobeka is delaying her own healing process. They way she was humiliated in public. Casper doesn't deserve her. He deserves Pulane. They are the same kind. Thobeka stop hurting yourself girl. You deserve better. Leave these two devils alone. God will deal with them. Your husband is out there, don't mess that up. Etswa mo familing eo. It's not your family.
Now you all see why Assper turned to the Lord like Inno. Ohhh you know I thought it was the wife.. Didn't the wife post the dad at her party.. I don't understand why I care about all them nobody's.. Let me go try and make some money
If there's one thing about Casper, he's good with PR... He knows how everyone in the country is sensitive about religion and he leaned on that to fix his image.. I feel like he knew this would come out eventually and he started an image of mopholosiwa coz he knew he could just always lean on that and the whole internet would easily be swayed towards him... This guy is wise with PR....
Worse part. It's not like Casper totally rejected uThobeka. He porposed to her and she rejected the proposal if she were that desperate she would have married him.
I love it when the one the public has wholeheartedly chose becomes the messy one. Never say never but I doubt Casper will ever go back to her even if his family loved her. How many marriages are successful today regardless of whether the in laws approved or not??? These baby mama will learn the hard way, his family will just love you from a distance but a real indoda will never leave the wife he still loves to make the family happy.
It's tricky yazi, are we wrong to judge , what if it's an innocent post? they should have boundaries, funny enough other races do it and there's no beef, Casper choose Pulane ..what if they wanted us to talk
Guys you need to understand Thobeka was ko bo Cassper ekotiza(wearing that setswana blanket worn by married women) when they were dating. She saw herself as the makoti. Thats probably one of the reasons she stayed so long even with Cass's shenanigans. She saw herself marrying him not just as a baby mama. But i still feel like she's doing too much even if they love her
“They Are Celebrities” Who’s They? PULANE IS NOT A CELEBRITY, It’s Her Celebrity Childhood Friend That Gave Her Some Spot Light, Nyovest Made Her Famous, Just Famous , The Public Figure Bexx and Celebrity Cassper Fall Under That Category. Pulane Just Got “known” By Association!
I don't see anything wrong here maybe Thobeka has managed to build a strong solid relationship since she is the mother of their grandson. I don't think it's as deep as everyone thinks.
@@lindokuhle6124 Who says she hasn't healed? I feel like we shouldn't judge what we don't know. We don't know what happened behind closed door's and maybe the reason why she shows so much appreciation is probably because the parents were supportive towards her when he was not.
We simply can not dictate what she can or cannot post. It is her life and believe me there's nothing wrong with what she did. A matured person will understand this.
I feel like society is so damaged that they think everyone has malicious intent when it comes to in-laws. We need to have a more positive outcomes on life.
Nothing wrong with Thobeka loving his sons family out loud,the problem is you guys want it to be Pulane so bad but it’s just not happening 😅! Pulane married Casper not his whole family,you might find they do get along well but they just don’t have a relationship,mind you Thobeka was there longer!Everyone is an adult and they decide who they relate with! It’s all choices!
Shem guys, Bexx doesn’t owe you anything hey. If she has a good relationship with her child’s grandparents then so be it. Also you male centered pick me’s should remember that Bexx left Cass. This is a reach.
Thobeka is the families wife. Pulane is Caspers wife.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂 I hope she finds love for herself. Casper doesn’t CARE. Even if she calls his parents “papa.” Casper doesn’t love her.
“For Pulane To See”? Oh Please Bexx’s Life Does Not Revolve Around That Classless “chosen on and off childhood friend/wife” That Can’t Even Carry Herself With Grace, Laughing Like A Hyena On Her Lives Throwing Shade At Thobeka But Y’all Were Quiet Ngoku Ebegezela U Thobeka, LEAVE BEXX ALONE ASSEBLIEF!
Guys let bex be she had a relationship with this family before angithi so manje she shouldn't post or flaunt their relationship because they dont get along with pulane, ay let the girl be
I think thobeka should post anything she wants to post. Posting her would-have-been in-laws won't change anything between cassper and wife. People need to relax.
Why is everyone forgeting that Thobeka turned down Casper's marriage proposal? If she were that desperate, Pulane would have remained a side chick. If Thobeka wanted to be married that much, Casper's father would be her "real" father inlaw. Anyway Pulane should just focus on being Casper's wife and develop her own relationship with her inlaws naye and let Thobeka have handle relationships with her child's family the way she wants. Kufanele amince ngoku uThobeka cause some guy got married hayibo!
First it was DJ Zinhle being judged for being close to Aka's family after break up. Now yall are judging Thobeka.... don't y'all learn to just keep it going
@sphindile...thobeka should find a husband & be close 2 his parents!
@LollyMadikiza-xw4ok if the grandparents are the ones keeping her close cos of the bond they shared and still share- cant really do anything. This is exactly like DJ Zinhle, AKAs family is very loving and people learnt that after his passing. Zinhle wasn't after AKA, it's just a bond they have. Plus they are family cos of the child same as Thobeka
Shame, She needs to move on😢.
She needs to start from scratch again, I think she has lost herself..
She saw herself as a wife already and is holding on to the fact that the parents love her.
Grief-stricken and Revenging wastes more time..
Askies Thobeka.
She will stop when she heals .. her life story❤
My thoughts too.
She is MESSY and She Knows this. Casspers sister has been feeding her all the family gist shuuu
That's another possibility that's why she's behaving this way
There’s a reason why he didn’t marry her , as sad as it is , Casper’s parents are her son’s grandparents and that’s exactly how the relationship should be ,her calling him my father is just out of line ,
Casper proposed and Thobeka turned him down. It's not like Casper totally rejected uThobeka. If Thobeka were that desperate she would have married him.
@@dot510 well she is clearly regretting it now and its desperation to call your ex's father your father when they never even lobolad you, especially when you know that the baby's father is a married man. She rejected the marriage proposal meaning she didn't want to be part of that family's life. Makamove on now
I don’t think that was her being messy. She’ll always have a relationship with them because she has a child with their son, and if he’s been more of a father figure to her then who are we to police that? Just let Bex breathe guys, haowa.
Unfortunately she is not married to his parents...so hard luck for thobeka😂
@@BetsySeichokelo Remember she turned Casper's marriage proposal down. If she was that desperate she would have accepted. Ifact, Thobeka chose to be unmarried if she wanted Pulane would have remained a side chick. She is not beimg messy at all just her being her.
@betsy...❤❤❤
@@dot510...ha ha ha🤡
Thobeka needs to let go for her peace sake. This is embarrassing. I meant she could have said have said "happy birthday to my sons grandfather" instead of father it speaks volume. cassper made it very clear where his priorities lies and it's with pulane. He said loudly that he married her "willingly". Why is thobeka still holding on to cassper bathong what is she trying to achieve by doing this to herself hle. 💔
She really needs to let go. It's embarrassing at this point.
😢I feel like when Casper his wife have their own baby she’s gonna lose her mind hle😩
@@elizabethchakane1779definitely at this point i think this is a cry for help she needs counseling serious🤞
Its a tricky one for family and friends. How do they divorce each other from a relationship they've shared for many years, where they've grown to love each other as family. Clearly she has a good relationship with the family and she's the mother of their grandson. The only person to manage this mess should be the person who created it.
As a baby mama, this is wild!! 😂😂 The family is allowing it, you cant blame it all on her!! One thing about inlaws wheb they don't really like the wife, they will show it 😂😂😂😂 The wife will get tired of it soon! This is why I always say women with no kids should not marry men with kids 😂
If the man loves her why bother?
But cassper chose pulane and he said loudly and proudly how much he loves her and married her willingly. Thobeka shouldn't do this to herself. Imagine when pulane gives that family an heir like her obviously the dynamic and atmosphere of the relationship will change and she'll be left idling alone. That's why I said she needs to move on.
@@kelebogilemotlogelwa1582 Why is Pulane bothered by Thobeka's relationship with her child's grandpa? Why is everyone bothered? Pulane should be Pulane & focus on Casper relationship with her inlaws and stop the stupid competition. This who chose who what level madness is that? Everyone knows who she is. Thobeka decided to post that for her own reasons whether she was right or wrong she should have just minded her own business as well. Thobeka & Pulane are family now whether they like it or not fir the sake of the baby.
Thobeka is delaying her own healing process. They way she was humiliated in public. Casper doesn't deserve her. He deserves Pulane. They are the same kind. Thobeka stop hurting yourself girl. You deserve better. Leave these two devils alone. God will deal with them. Your husband is out there, don't mess that up. Etswa mo familing eo. It's not your family.
Very True
Now you all see why Assper turned to the Lord like Inno. Ohhh you know I thought it was the wife.. Didn't the wife post the dad at her party.. I don't understand why I care about all them nobody's.. Let me go try and make some money
If there's one thing about Casper, he's good with PR... He knows how everyone in the country is sensitive about religion and he leaned on that to fix his image.. I feel like he knew this would come out eventually and he started an image of mopholosiwa coz he knew he could just always lean on that and the whole internet would easily be swayed towards him... This guy is wise with PR....
Thobeka was wrong you upsolutely right it's was supposed to be done privately😢
Mkhaya, why are woman, almost all of them too petty, is this constant confirmation that, indeed its a mans world???
Weeeeeeeeh😂😂
It’s so embarrassing Gosh🤦♀️
It's giving bitter baby mama
But she gave them a grandchild, what must she do now? K herself? Ai maan.
Worse part. It's not like Casper totally rejected uThobeka. He porposed to her and she rejected the proposal if she were that desperate she would have married him.
I love it when the one the public has wholeheartedly chose becomes the messy one. Never say never but I doubt Casper will ever go back to her even if his family loved her.
How many marriages are successful today regardless of whether the in laws approved or not??? These baby mama will learn the hard way, his family will just love you from a distance but a real indoda will never leave the wife he still loves to make the family happy.
The more the family hates the makoti, the stronger the marriage becomes.
It's tricky yazi, are we wrong to judge , what if it's an innocent post? they should have boundaries, funny enough other races do it and there's no beef, Casper choose Pulane ..what if they wanted us to talk
Guys you need to understand Thobeka was ko bo Cassper ekotiza(wearing that setswana blanket worn by married women) when they were dating. She saw herself as the makoti. Thats probably one of the reasons she stayed so long even with Cass's shenanigans. She saw herself marrying him not just as a baby mama. But i still feel like she's doing too much even if they love her
This lady is trying to prove a point.. l dont know who is advising her.😅
Maybe the sister 😂
Shem o tshwere ngwanyana wa motswana..a Lebale that thobeka lady😂😂😂
Ka nnete thobeka a lebale🤞
“They Are Celebrities” Who’s They? PULANE IS NOT A CELEBRITY, It’s Her Celebrity Childhood Friend That Gave Her Some Spot Light, Nyovest Made Her Famous, Just Famous , The Public Figure Bexx and Celebrity Cassper Fall Under That Category. Pulane Just Got “known” By Association!
Hi plz cut me out on Thobeka's dramatic series...why she can't move on n leave impilo yomdeni walomfana kanti
Lol, you feel sorry for Pulane? Wow!!
I don't see anything wrong here maybe Thobeka has managed to build a strong solid relationship since she is the mother of their grandson. I don't think it's as deep as everyone thinks.
Haibo thanks there is a life that shall connect them forever people need to heal....
@@lindokuhle6124 Who says she hasn't healed? I feel like we shouldn't judge what we don't know. We don't know what happened behind closed door's and maybe the reason why she shows so much appreciation is probably because the parents were supportive towards her when he was not.
We simply can not dictate what she can or cannot post. It is her life and believe me there's nothing wrong with what she did. A matured person will understand this.
I feel like society is so damaged that they think everyone has malicious intent when it comes to in-laws. We need to have a more positive outcomes on life.
@@tammy5272If your man loves you why bother about just words that other people post?
Haybo is aloud to post anytime got nothing to do with pulane guys yhoo
Girl is really damaged shem. Feel sad for her😢. No need for all this. She will heal tho. She will get over the fact thar he married someone else.
Aiiibo! Wenja, my Father..... Heebanna 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭
😂😂😂😂😂
Haaaibo 😮😮😮yal are cruel
Nothing wrong with Thobeka loving his sons family out loud,the problem is you guys want it to be Pulane so bad but it’s just not happening 😅! Pulane married Casper not his whole family,you might find they do get along well but they just don’t have a relationship,mind you Thobeka was there longer!Everyone is an adult and they decide who they relate with! It’s all choices!
Shem guys, Bexx doesn’t owe you anything hey. If she has a good relationship with her child’s grandparents then so be it. Also you male centered pick me’s should remember that Bexx left Cass. This is a reach.
Thobeka is the families wife. Pulane is Caspers wife.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂
I hope she finds love for herself. Casper doesn’t CARE. Even if she calls his parents “papa.” Casper doesn’t love her.
Pulane deserves this
@Rama...it wil be U Sumday
“For Pulane To See”? Oh Please Bexx’s Life Does Not Revolve Around That Classless “chosen on and off childhood friend/wife” That Can’t Even Carry Herself With Grace, Laughing Like A Hyena On Her Lives Throwing Shade At Thobeka But Y’all Were Quiet Ngoku Ebegezela U Thobeka, LEAVE BEXX ALONE ASSEBLIEF!
Guys let bex be she had a relationship with this family before angithi so manje she shouldn't post or flaunt their relationship because they dont get along with pulane, ay let the girl be
Yall are bias.. Casper posted bex mom.. Why not... Zinhle has a relationship with aka's mom 🤔
I think thobeka should post anything she wants to post. Posting her would-have-been in-laws won't change anything between cassper and wife. People need to relax.
Why is everyone forgeting that Thobeka turned down Casper's marriage proposal? If she were that desperate, Pulane would have remained a side chick. If Thobeka wanted to be married that much, Casper's father would be her "real" father inlaw. Anyway Pulane should just focus on being Casper's wife and develop her own relationship with her inlaws naye and let Thobeka have handle relationships with her child's family the way she wants. Kufanele amince ngoku uThobeka cause some guy got married hayibo!